Single Mom Wants 6ft Man Who Makes $500k?! She INSULTS Brian?! Andrew Wilson! | Dating Talk #166

Date: 2024-06-03
Duration: 6h 53m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00Andrew Wilson (virtual)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Natalia Chesty(guest)
SPEAKER_04Natalie (partial)(guest)
SPEAKER_05Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_09Q (The Q Pill)(guest)
SPEAKER_10Erica(guest)
SPEAKER_11Ellie/Vera (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Angel(guest)
SPEAKER_13Light Brigh (partial)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)(guest)

Key Moments

00:04:54
QuoteNatalia Chesty criticizes Brian for not greeting guests

Natalia says: 'I wouldn't date him because I didn't like his character — he didn't say hi to all of us.' Brian responds he was busy setting up the show.

00:12:00
OtherBoss Lady's rap song played and reacted to

Brian plays Boss Lady's rap song 'Touch Your Toes With It' from Instagram (~30 seconds); Boss Lady explains the lyrics ('touch your toes = bend over/twerk'). Panel reacts. Discussion of her music career as rapper from Watts.

00:34:30
QuoteVera's ex transitioned during their relationship

Vera discloses her 3-year relationship: ex began wearing skirts, identifying as femboy, going after men. He was unemployed; she paid all bills. She ended the relationship; he now lives in Wisconsin with a fiancee who 'hexes Furbies.'

01:04:00
ControversyAndrew Wilson calls Natalia's complaint 'spoiled brat behavior'

Andrew Wilson (virtual) tells Natalia: 'What I call that is spoiled brat behavior... you want everything to stop so people can acknowledge how wonderful you are.' Natalia responds. Extended 10-minute debate.

01:17:45
QuoteNatalia's mother passed from COVID; boyfriend ghosted two weeks later

Natalia shares: boyfriend of 2 years ghosted her while her mother was dying of COVID, then two weeks later posted on Facebook with a new engaged girlfriend. Panel debates whether this is 'trauma' per clinical definition.

03:54:20
ControversyAndrew debates Erica on cuck relationships and self-respect

Andrew tells Erica directly: 'No self-respecting man who loves their woman would allow their chick to be plowed by other dudes.' Erica explains the context of her 10-year relationship and her motivations.

03:55:03
OtherErica discloses rape by son's biological father

Erica (37) discloses: 'My son's father raped me and tried to kill me.' States he has never been in her son's life and she ran away. Andrew responds with empathy and then redirects the conversation.

04:53:56
QuoteVera states $500k income requirement

Vera (25, NYC, 3 kids, escort): 'Annually, $500k.' Brian responds: 'You realize that's 1%?' Debate ensues with Brian, Q, and later Andrew Wilson.

04:55:05
Key MomentBrian questions Vera's unrealistic standards

Brian: 'Do you think a guy who makes $500,000 minimum is interested in dating a sex worker/escort with three children?' Vera: 'No... definitely not... but shouldn't you adjust your standards?' — 'I don't want to be with somebody [who doesn't meet them].'

04:56:38
QuoteAndrew cites IRS data on $500k earners

Andrew Wilson: 'According to the Internal Revenue Service, less than 1% of all tax filers reported an adjusted gross income exceeding $500,000.' Vera: 'Well that’s on them.'

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Guest introductions and announcements

Vigil for 'Blessed/Weed Jesus' (community member who passed away). All guests introduce themselves: name, age, location, occupation. Followed by pronoun/identity questions, content type, and escorting background questions.

00:22:20
Relationship status and background

Round-robin: single/situationship/relationship status, longest relationships, recent breakups. Deep dive into Vera's ex transitioning, Angel's ex not contributing, Natalia's thruple, Erica's 10-year relationship.

01:03:00
Brian not greeting guests / Natalia insults Brian

Natalia Chesty says she wouldn't date Brian because he didn't greet guests on arrival. Brian and Natalia debate whether this was rude. Panel takes sides. Continued with Andrew Wilson at ~178-185min where Andrew calls it 'spoiled brat behavior.'

01:16:00
Trauma discussion

Natalia shares breakup/ghosting story tied to mother's COVID death. Q and others debate clinical definition of trauma vs. emotional damage. Erica shares childhood trauma from witnessing loud aggressive men. Distinction between heartbreak and trauma.

01:16:00
Racial preferences in dating

Chat question about racial dating preferences. Responses: Angel: no preference; Erica: Latinos; others: no preference or white boys. Separate chat question about why Black women and Asian men are statistically least desired in dating marketplace.

01:36:00
Train wrecks / bad date stories

Guests share past relationship train wrecks and bad dates. Includes Erica's ex-boyfriend ending 10-year relationship via text; Vera's 3-year thruple with an engaged lesbian couple.

02:52:00
Andrew Wilson joins / insults response

Andrew Wilson joins virtually (~172min). Brian summarizes panelists. Andrew debates Natalia on greeting/entitlement topic, calling her behavior 'spoiled brat.' Natalia defends position. Q and Erica moderate.

03:24:00
Self-ratings round

Stiffler TTS prompts everyone to rate their looks 1-10. Back-and-forth on objectivity of beauty ratings vs. subjective self-perception. Andrew and Brian gave lower ratings (4 and 5 respectively). Two guests claimed 10. Discussion of aging and whether women are better looking at 30+ vs now.

03:58:00
Tweet reactions

Brian pulls up tweets for panel reaction: 'men these days want to be pampered for doing the bare minimum,' 'if you're going to DM me wanting to be my man, pay my bills,' and others. Leads into greater male variability theory (IQ distribution curves), hypergamy, and biology discussions.

04:10:00
Body count round

Captain Army $200 TTS asks body counts. Angel ~60, Vera 16, unknown 44, Erica 13 men+17 women+100+ total (including non-consensual). Natalia: no comment. Erica discloses rape by son's father. Discussion of whether body count disqualifies marriage potential.

04:36:00
Democracy and voting rights debate

Andrew Wilson and SPEAKER_05 (Tara, Canadian) debate democracy, voting age, whether women should vote, and government effectiveness. Tara defends universal suffrage; Andrew challenges justification for democracy over monarchy.

04:53:20
Single mom 500k debate

Vera states she requires partner earning $500k/year and 6ft+ height. Brian, Q, and Andrew debate feasibility (IRS data: <1% earn $500k). Vera reduces to $300k. Race preference: Latino. Discussion of what a $500k man would actually expect from a partner. Vera insists such men exist who won't care about her past.

05:44:00
Hypergamy, makeup, and beauty standards debate

Extended debate between Andrew Wilson and SPEAKER_05 (Tara/Light Brigh) on hypergamy origins, makeup as deceptive (Brian: 'makeup is functional equivalent of a McDonald's worker claiming to be a lawyer'), evolutionary basis of attraction. Andrew and Erica debate historical beauty standards and hygiene.

Transcript

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01:54:16
Natalia Chestyguys in religion are having these relationships like friendships with other women behind their wi's back I said guys in I said guys in religion still have good intentions I didn't say
01:54:27
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)guys in religion are angels respectfully you are you can have that point of view like guys are there there are I'm so for real like you can you can really believe that guys can do right and you can
01:54:39
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)believe that there are some guys that don't do right cuz that's facts that's just like women a lot of people feel like women that be outside is rat whatever they wow but eternally there's women that like to be outside but really
01:54:52
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)don't really conversate with too many men so everybody can have their own physical and mindset thought of what they believe in everybody has experience what they believe in so that's what they stand on that's why you kind of scaring me because I'm like what the hell do you
01:55:04
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)been through you feel me because I don't know about that but um everybody has experienced different things so y' just got to always understand that every time somebody speak on something that they believe in is cuz they have experienced
01:55:15
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)it that's all it is and that's all it would ever be that's why people pass that's why she she passed the um test with her her boy best friend fing col and that's why some of y'all didn't because were different like I like what
01:55:28
TTS/Chat readeryou said about how like every woman is going to have a different experience different LOL paladins donated $200 pink is pathological liar I don't think you can believe a single word that
01:55:40
TTS/Chat readercomes out of her mouth props to wee girl for betraying The Sisterhood vote to kick for bad faith texting wee girl what I love it what it say what it say I love
01:55:52
Brian Atlasit all right every TTS that comes through you need it repeated I find that interesting but uh it says votes a kick for bad faith texting I mean you kind of
01:56:03
Natalia Chestyuh poisoned the well by preemptively saying no but I didn't why Li why would she sit there and lie how about you ask ask her not me I'm going to ask you a trick question everybody you're straight
01:56:14
Natalie (partial)up lying like you literally you literally need me and said don't tell and I told you I'm going to tell f can we go back to it then I want to see
01:56:26
Natalia Chestythen Nick could you give me a paper towel I got a spill over here wait she told you did you say that no I didn't you didn't say that you heard her
01:56:37
Natalie (partial)said she right there we're we're live it's getting recorded she go she went like this so you can see it it's on
01:56:47
Ericacamera hold on can I say something you also cannot like ke and said don't text anybody that knows you're on I I have I have no guy friend that doesn't know that I'm on that I'm not on I posted
01:57:00
Natalie (partial)fair enough but you still said I'm going to test give no I didn't no I didn't though but I didn't though yeah she said going to test you in all that's crazy
01:57:11
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)why don't we just see her phone that will give you the of course don't really care really [ __ ] care she said I have a sister
01:57:22
Brian Atlasyour sister she not your sister she did not have a sister she not your sister you just met her you should know wait now you're kind of gaslighting her because she's saying that you said something but now you're denying that
01:57:34
Ericayou said it so what's the truth the truth is I have no idea where you're talking about I I just saw her go like this I was too busy going like this I heard her say I did hear her say I'm
01:57:46
Brian Atlasgoing to tell oh so we got two people against I don't know why she she in the corner would have any motivation never met so I believe you I don't
01:57:57
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)believe a word out of your mouth I'm sorry you believe that's crazy oh no oh oh girl all I know is if I ever get locked up they better come get you cuz
01:58:07
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you ain't going tell a damn thing know then you ain't going to say nothing cuz you kind of it actually kind of calls into question your this whole like traumatic situation you I mean I
01:58:20
Brian Atlasliterally posted a video in like 2020 cool you posted your side of the story I think your whole claim I mean you're kind of discrediting yourself here wait what's the discredit though you're
01:58:31
TTS/Chat readerdiscrediting Yourself by kind of like playing this weird game here Nikelodeon donated $200 one you actually managed to find someone as dumb as that Cindy chick
01:58:42
TTS/Chat readeragain amazing two chick in the middle can't really talk [ __ ] when she didn't have enough balls to text her home wait what who in a minute who me no me is
01:58:53
Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)that you yeah I think so oh cuz cuz I for my but to be fair all of my guy friends know that I'm on the podcast so literally same like all my friends in
01:59:02
Ericageneral why did you yeah no all of my friends you you you um you destroyed the experiment by saying I'm going to test
01:59:12
Ericayou in all caps to somebody that has the link to the podcast everybody has the link to the podcast though it's like experiments going on with big Pharma
01:59:23
Ericawhere they hide the negative results to get their drug passed and then they give you all of these different uh side effects to this drug no but everybody has the link to the podcast but honestly I would just said just if you own up to
01:59:35
Brian AtlasI would been like okay wait I hold on I have a question I have a question for you what's the question how would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning me yeah how would you feel
01:59:47
Natalia Chestyum okay why I don't I don't know I grew up not having breakfast sometimes I don't know I had I had breakfast today I don't
01:59:58
Brian Atlasknow you had breakfast today yeah okay all right that's interesting all right um okay let's why that was so weird uh well it basically like it it's
02:00:11
Brian Atlasa question to see if you can engage with a hypothetical but she did in the beginning she okay she did no just testing things out okay that's fair all right okay moving on we need to do a couple reactions Nick what were
02:00:24
Brian Atlassome of the things that we had to react to We had a bumble profile let's let's do the Bumble profile guys we're going to react to her Bumble profile would you like for me to
02:00:35
Ericaread the bio so you can understand it I'll have you read it okay all right she's a she SL her that's you I'm me yeah I'm in B in that picture that was this year that doesn't look like you so
02:00:47
Ericait says by Sun I'm an aquarius by Moon I'm a uh Aries by Rising I'm a sagitt arous the Stars never lie I'm a moon child I have tattoos I live in I live in
02:00:57
EricaEl Paso Texas and Long Beach California and Clinton Tennessee I'm a wild Gypsy I have witchy Vibes I'm a covid Survivor I'm a volcano climber I push all limits I love I love as I want to be loved and
02:01:09
Brian Atlaspineapple does belong on Pizza I don't know man that sounds like a lot of work I hate uh wait hold on wait wait so you're you have witchy Vibes you're a
02:01:19
Ericawild Gypsy what is a wild gypsy so I am never home for longer than a week I'm a I I told you I travel trade shows and fairs trade shows yeah like um have you ever gone to the state or the county
02:01:32
Ericafair and you go into those buildings where you buy things that's me I'm selling you something that you probably don't need in what kind of shows I just told you fairs trade shows like
02:01:44
Ericacarnivals things like that well fairs um so like bike shows boat shows gun shows car shows when when you say WI Vibes what does that mean um I'm a Healer
02:01:54
Ericaactually she does Voodoo I don't do Voodoo but I do heal people through um so as a cosmetologist SL Barber people sit in my chair and I make them stare at
02:02:05
Ericathemselves while I ask all the right questions for them to heal what the [ __ ] so because your Barber cosmetologist is initially your therapist cuz you tell
02:02:15
Ericathem everything so you say wait you tell them look I make them what I make them answer their questions that they need answers to like my whole theory behind um going to college for psychology is trauma
02:02:28
Ericahealing starts in the mirror not behind pills so it starts how you see yourself in the mirror not behind what I'm pills oh wow I love that okay uh bring it back Nick we'll get through it uh we got we
02:02:41
Brian Atlasgot to get Andrew Wilson on he's gonna love he's goingon to tear this apart uh especially the pineapple on Pizza thing next you're looking for a life partner ambition optimism loyalty see
02:02:53
Brian Atlasnext I'm really proud of your kids they are flourishing in life okay they're my biggest achievement your causes in communities
02:03:02
Brian Atlasenvironmentalism immigrant rights human rights what immigrant rights yes I've written quite a few letters for people to get
02:03:12
Brian Atlascitizenship a so are you in favor of open borders no oh okay next take that all back men that your person hell is men that use filters
02:03:23
Ericayes well why lie about how you look if I don't I don't even wear makeup I wear brows and lashes and that's it like mascara and eyebrows that's all I wear so if I'm not using filters on my pictures why are these men using filters
02:03:36
Angelwhy lie about how you look oh you're you're against filter little sassy I don't think that's lying I think that's just trying to make better wait well what kind of filter cuz we have like face app have you seen a lot of these men's like pretty
02:03:48
Ericafilters I've actually never maybe because it works it doesn't work know I've never it doesn't it doesn't work right I think men that use filters are I don't know it just it bothers me
02:04:01
Brian Atlasif I don't use filters I don't want to make I actually noticed that this is kind of more common among men who are a bit on the older side because I feel like the older age cohort it's like I don't know why they just overdo it with
02:04:14
Brian Atlasthe filters I well I'm not in favor of filters at all to begin with but there are like older men that like want to look younger Botox so they do the filter thing I think that's pretty weird
02:04:25
Brian Atlasalthough I would point out that while there are some men on dating apps who misrepresent about their physical appearance sometimes by posting old
02:04:33
Brian Atlasphotos or by uh using filters it's far more common that women of all ages are using filters and add on top of that
02:04:45
Ericathey're also using makeup which is typically outside the realm of what men do and then when they wash their face off they're a completely different person oh wait are you guys but this crit this criticism can be much better applied to women than it can to men well
02:04:58
Brian AtlasI don't like women I get that but there's far fewer sure that's fine but there's far fewer men that do this thing than do women oh I've been catfished a lot like I went
02:05:10
Ericasure I don't doubt it I'm just saying this is a much more common occurrence in women than it is in men but she's saying that her experience is just for instance it wasn't just men though for 10 years
02:05:20
Ericaof my life my guy was very honest about what he wanted sexually so I said I'll try it I'll try anything at least once we had a girlfriend we were a truffle for about almost 2 years it was the
02:05:33
Ericathree of us wait how is this related to the filter so just listen just listen so I would have is the are you I'm hoping you're arriving I'm going to get to the point I had a lot of dating I had dating
02:05:45
Ericaapps when him and I were together to find women and okay he there was other things that happened but I'm not going to go into it and for instance I got
02:05:55
Ericacatfished once by a couple just trying to find a girl for me and him and the guy was being the girl and they ended up being and the filters made her look
02:06:06
Ericaphenomenally great but it ended up being him using her and they were 65 years old and how old did they look they looked like they were in their 40s how were
02:06:17
Ericayou this was years ago you look good though thank you I don't do drugs and I don't wear makeup uh statistically proven women age faster than men because
02:06:29
Ericathey're causing fine lines and wrinkles by brushes and sponges and putting all this extra stuff on their face so are you like against makeup is that what you're saying a little bit I'm not against it I sell it okay cool okay how
02:06:41
EricaI just don't wear it for myself how you sell something you don't wear I'm really good at selling I don't think you look gonna move things on a little bit here I want what's up Nick oh there's
02:06:53
Brian Atlasmake uh my ultimate green flag my loyalty to the one I'm with okay cool y cool there's her dating app folks there it is uh I'm going to write down notes cuz we're going to talk about there was
02:07:04
Ericathe witchy the witchy thing that's interesting witchy do you do have you cast spells um no I do make um potions
02:07:14
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)for love who but not to love somebody else to love yourself word sorry I'm touching your that's dope do you believe in like Jade and stuff like that all the crystals I just didn't wear them tonight
02:07:25
Ericabecause I didn't want people to know exactly girl I'll wear it girl I don't care about what nobody say but that's that's I like like I have the whole chakra system like I literally have the whole chakra system tattooed on my arm from can I ask what is it about like the
02:07:38
Ericapotions that you make and the crystals that you sell that think that I don't sell them I don't sell anything and I don't do anything from I don't do it for money what do you what is what's it's a business what is it it's not a business
02:07:49
Ericait's out of care and love I do it out of the kindness of my heart oh my God who the hell cares anyways mov on I wait I care can I
02:07:59
Brian Atlasfinish my question I'm good okay so going to you wait your name's uh M how do you say you're act it's m m who is that who's M I don't know somebody put I
02:08:11
Brian Atlashave notes here it says M they probably put M no they didn't okay well in any case you had a crazy dating story you dated someone who had a Fatal Attraction to you oh yeah
02:08:22
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)tell us the story briefly if you can damn I forgot I said that um I was just dating somebody that was just really insecure um we was really locked in like
02:08:32
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)on my end but uh my coming up my uprising of everything that I do like far as music and everything um he was a bit insecure like when we go out he
02:08:43
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)wanted me to just like stare at him like only look at him eyes on him um when I go out with my home girls or my friends it was like like a call every 5 Seconds every 5 minutes did you get there oh you
02:08:55
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)didn't get there yet oh no like it was just antagonizing like it was very uncomfortable um we were friends at first because he did music and I did music too so I thought like you know
02:09:05
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)it'll be a cool little Vibe and um when we started dating I didn't really get to know him for real for real yet but we started dating and then it got to that point of like it starting to get a
02:09:15
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)little too much you know like wanted me to stay in be in a cage type now I wasn't going for that so um yeah like um I talked to my granny and I was like Hey
02:09:26
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)like you know I'm dating this boy but he like kind of trying to keep me inside like you know he's very aggressive and like he hacked my Instagram and unfollowed a lot of my friends like a
02:09:37
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)lot of my girls huh he hacked your IG yes girl let me tell y'all we just sitting on the couch chilling we just sitting on the couch chilling and my phone go off like for
02:09:49
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)Instagram notification and his went off and then went off again and his went off oh no I'm like I'm I'm looking like um it matched way too much and so one of my friends one of my long-term friends and I ain't going to lie I was lowkey scared
02:10:01
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)of this boy like so one of my long-term friends that I went to high school with cuz I was an athlete I was very popular in high school so like I had a lot of friends so when he hit me up I deleted the message and I didn't have to delete the message but I did because I didn't
02:10:13
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)want that to be a whole new conversation to have with this toxic person so he was like oh why you deleting messages and I'm like you in my Instagram he was in my Instagram and um
02:10:25
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)yeah like I had to dead that situation um unfortunately and when I did it didn't end so well he was saying like if I can't have you nobody can like it was
02:10:36
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)so toxic it was so bad y'all like he done made a Instagram like exposing famous girls and put me as a profile picture bro I'm so sorry looking looking
02:10:48
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)back on it did you did you realize see that happened to me a while ago so I'm able to talk about that now but during that moment it was very
02:10:57
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)emotional and like I was in a really dark place like mentally because at first I thought that I was tripping like I'm like you know like maybe I do got trust issues he not going to harm me you
02:11:08
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)know but I knew he was going to harm me in some type of way and um for him to like try to threaten me with that like Instagram stuff or whatever I just knew like I was like yeah next time don't
02:11:19
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)doubt your intuition and how you feel because you was right the whole time and luckily I've grown from that situation and I feel like it's that's why I said it's more important to get to know somebody at least as much as you can
02:11:31
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)because I didn't know he was like that and y'all let me tell y'all the more I got to know him the more I got to know that boy was on Beyond scare straight y'all know that show what girl he was on Beyond scare straight as
02:11:44
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)a kid first of all what was his like his thing that he went for girl I don't know all I know is that I seen somebody like punish them I seen somebody send him a
02:11:56
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)screenshot I seen somebody send him a screenshot of his face on beyon straight as a kid in his DM and I when I looked at that I'm like damn I was dealing with a little
02:12:07
Q (The Q Pill)demon but you didn't think you didn't think uh anything of his obsessive Behavior at the when he was like being overbearing and in the beginning he wasn't really overbearing I started
02:12:17
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)seeing signs once I started coming over and we was like sex sex mhm so um after that yeah cuz I I I was having sex you know so I lost my virginity at 18 so
02:12:30
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)that's respectfully you know I how old are you now girl I said 20 something okay I don't want to repeat that I I ain't old I ain't old but no I just like you know I'm not I'm not too open for
02:12:42
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)real I'm open but I'm not that open but I'm 24 it's 2024 you feel me I'm a 2,000 baby but um yeah so when that occur occurred and then like I was just like okay you know seeing the signs and stuff
02:12:54
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)like that and then one thing I did notice like when I was getting phone calls my heart would be fast oh know so I knew I'm like yeah I'm getting anxiety from this man so I just need to let that
02:13:05
Natalia Chestygo can I ask a question you broke up with him right like most definitely a girl good good good why how long ago oh that was when you were 18 years old yeah I was like 18 and no more contact no more anything right oh I mean like does
02:13:18
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)he follow you on instag he be trying to follow me yeah but I like restricted like his accounts but like they pop up and like I'm at the point where I don't give a [ __ ] if you watch me just you just not going to never be with me you feel me like I'm kind of like to the
02:13:29
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)point where I don't really be honestly personally I don't really go through my following for real um I try to stay more open into real life of what I got going
02:13:40
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)on personally but if I see like that Instagram name pop up oh most definitely I'm going to restrict it like what are you doing here why are you still trying to come this way you know um I don't I don't no type of way towards it no more
02:13:52
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)though cuz I'm like in a bigger stage better stage mentally physically emotionally as you should what White H was it the white guy oh no it wasn't okay no I've met plenty of white have you have you uh blocked him and he made
02:14:05
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)new accounts still trying to get in cont with you yeah that n he's made new accounts and tried to follow you through yeah like and then um I had to change my number because he called my number one
02:14:15
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)time like uh it was like a random number number and like it was FaceTime but sometimes I don't uh save people numers so I answered it and I see his face in
02:14:25
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)the camera I hug up like I hung up so quick scary I said what the Yeah I was like yeah no and I like look all respect at the end of the day I
02:14:36
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)did have my experience but um I'm not going to knock how he was how he grew up um I i' I've heard his mother like you know disrespect him call him out his name and stuff like that and that's why at the end of the day like I I know why
02:14:49
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you act how you act I know why you have attachment issues like you don't want me to go nowhere because you don't get that motherly love you don't get that love and I am very mature from my age and growing up you know talking to boys and
02:15:00
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)[ __ ] like that in my age range like I was very mature to them like trying to get them to stay focused or stay on that path especially black men I dat a lot of black men and unfortunately they fall into the wrong path of doing crazy [ __ ]
02:15:12
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)so I try to like you know influence them to do better so um I don't blame nobody like I don't blame nobody I grew up and I learned and it it it happened and how happen and now when I move forward I just like to meet people a little more
02:15:24
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)instead of just going into something just because they want to if that makes sense now you said that you feel like you were born in the wrong generation of dating yeah so which generation would
02:15:35
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you have preferred to have been born into when it comes to um when it wasn't no social media or nothing we had to sell records on the street okay for sure okay I would have loved that cuz I wouldn't have to you
02:15:48
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)know like you got to hear stuff from word on the mouth word on word on the street and I feel like that uh love back then how they make it seem in the movies you know we weren born in those days so I really don't know how I really was but
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)um I would have loved that 90s love like just the Loyalty um I'm really here for loyalty you know like I love to be soft I know I'm a black girl and I know I talk crazy
02:16:11
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)but all in all when it comes to having a man like I love to be soft to my man um there are boys that I talk crazy to I call them a [ __ ] in the quickest second I don't give a [ __ ] but like when you my
02:16:21
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)man though like I'm really surprise [ __ ] when you really my man though like I'm really a whole different person I promise like I'm so sweet I'm so fragile like I love to be fragile when it come
02:16:32
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)to my man I love to be in the back holding his hand type [ __ ] you know stay in your feminine State yeah I love to be feminine so it's a whole difference between being feminine and have to be independent when it comes to a boy and a
02:16:43
Ericaman you got thoughts on that k no I agree I agree with what she's saying with the feminine part yeah okay most men like my ex for instance he kept me in a masculine State like I paid all my
02:16:55
Ericaown bills I gave him mortgage money I put all gave him money yeah for the mortgage I I paid my way would I'm a [ __ ]
02:17:05
Ericalegend for the last 10 years I paid my way um what he pay for you I mean we would like he Pro he provides the
02:17:16
Ericastability for my children I would say like if it was for if it wasn't for him I wouldn't have had a rent payment for $800 a month in Long Beach California so he in a way like helped you financially basically I mean in a sense yeah but I
02:17:29
Ericastill paid my way he's it's not his children he does he shouldn't have to get stuck paying for these children that aren't his so kind of like a 50/50 balance I mean I would say say it was
02:17:38
Erica100 100 like I was there 100% he was there 100% um the way I paid him back in the stability for my children was I gave
02:17:46
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)him his sexual deviances so you gave him sex and paid the bills godamn he PS his bills too I think in a relationship when you're getting into a
02:17:58
Natalia Chestyrelationship depending how you want the relationship to be the the main priority is to make sure that the women always feels as feminine as they can possibly be I don't even got nothing to do with bills and all that I don't even know what y'all talking about for real
02:18:10
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)because what like pay your bills if it's your bills like but it's all up to you if you got that man sleeping in your house that's girl look in the mirror and think what the hell you doing like make him go get his own [ __ ] but don't sit here and think that a man going to go
02:18:23
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)pay your bills cuz you let him sleep there stop letting [ __ ] sleep I'm sorry stop letting men sleep at your house just because like they got good dick like just just pay your own bills and live your life if he want to come spend a night here and there boom but if y'all
02:18:37
Brian Atlasreally something special then that's when bills and all that come into play good dick is rare though huh good Dick's rare no it is good dick rare good see here's the difference here's the difference hold on hear me out here for just a second all right here's the
02:18:49
Brian Atlasdifference okay most [ __ ] is good [ __ ] all right [ __ ] is kind of like pizza it's kind of hard to [ __ ] up pizza hard to [ __ ] up [ __ ] now there's a there's a few [ __ ] out there you know you know what I'm talking
02:19:02
Brian Atlasabout right you know what I'm talking about some [ __ ] is better than another [ __ ] but most [ __ ] is good [ __ ] most dick isn't good dick and that's why once you find a good dick you want to keep it you want to keep the good dick because it's and it's a little harder women's
02:19:15
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)orgasm response is a little more complicated a lot more complicated you got to bite it going Li it scratch it bop it it it I ain't going to lie I feel like okay y'all could like the the
02:19:28
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)ladies can speak up after me because first of all I ain't never had a man just live with me just because he got good dick but look I feel like women get bored so like that's when the 50/50 and all that come in because it's like damn he been here for a whole month all he
02:19:41
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)can offer me is Dick like now he need to pay something that's why I'm saying like don't sit here and feel like a man supposed to pay your rent when you letting him in for free because of a dick you know like that's not all that's
02:19:54
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)not the all the time though yeah that's what I'm saying like if if it's like some situation where it's like okay you have a mut Mutual understanding or like Y in a relationship then yeah but like don't just let nobody just come get up
02:20:05
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)in there and get up in that thing make you feel good now you bored after a month and he ain't doing nothing but eating up all your groceries yeah I would never understand how yeah like I'm just like you know like if it's a mutual understanding yet
02:20:18
Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)like do that I feel like the same goes for men though wait what wait what do you mean wait what do you mean like I'm saying I think men should also not just like pay for everything just because 100% 100% I I
02:20:29
Natalia Chestydefinitely think I mean I'm a little confused what you're saying about like how men shouldn't pay a woman's bills I feel like yeah I feel like wait can can I finish yeah go ahead yeah I just feel
02:20:41
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)like it depends where the relationship is at you know I just said I said I said don't invite a man over just cuz he got good dick and expect him to pay your rent I said I said unless there's a
02:20:53
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)relationship involved that's what I said I said cuz women get bored after a while of having sex so then we start feeling like damn this man I'm lowkey his caretaker like he ain't doing nothing but y'all got to think about it like
02:21:05
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)y'all just let him in just to just to get some dick and now you trying to expect him to pay some rent no have a mutual agreement and a relationship and conversation about that like okay what are we doing stepping forward that's where communication come in that's where
02:21:18
Natalia Chestya lot of relationships fail cuz there no communication involved I mean don't don't you guys think that maybe a man should do like his duties of paying the bills don't you think that got that you guys can totally like a man is not going
02:21:29
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)to sit here and think okay let me let me just let me just be bor I add to your a man is not going to sit here and think you want him to pay your bills because you just letting him over honey because you was sorry cuz you letting him over
02:21:43
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)that's like you calling your favorite little oh come over you know I'm cooking and then it comes into a it turns into a habit and now you think he just going to pay your rent all of a sudden y' even stop I think that should happen during
02:21:55
Natalia Chestymarriage I do not think that should happen during a relationship where a guy I feel like a guy doesn't have any obligation to pay the woman's rent no rent I meant rent not food food or
02:22:05
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)driving or Uber no if you are in a relationship it is okay to go 50/50 if he is slacking and you got a little bit more it is okay it's okay if you're in relationship y'all working on ain't
02:22:17
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)nobody Rich if you working on it and he working on it go ahead do your thing all I said was just don't expect a man to pay your rent off the rip if y'all just [ __ ] period and no conversation
02:22:28
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)involved cuz you just a [ __ ] buddy at this point I agree with so I feel like as a women y'all got to know we are very powerful period we have the vaginas that they go looking for so you need to be respectful of yourself to have that
02:22:41
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)conversation with a man and say hey like what are we going to do steping forward like you've been over here for a minute you know like are we going to move forward as like together and we going to you help me you going to you know we going to contribute together that's a conversation y'all got to have and
02:22:54
Brian Atlasthat's how it's going to be successful that's what I was saying so moving things on a little bit we have some notes here from Veronica Veronica says I was dating someone and we got caught by police once at
02:23:05
TTS/Chat readerthe beaten cheeks donated $200 you ladies are tripping it's soft boy now real men are woman that own a
02:23:15
TTS/Chat readerhome has a car has a s figure yearly salary a and pays all my bills goodbye dzz drizzle goodby goodbye I'm sorry that is actually crazy and insane
02:23:26
Natalia ChestyI'm not here to raise literally no I feel like some men in this generation expect now wait guys hold go ahead I feel like some men in
02:23:38
Natalia Chestythis generation ex Not all men there's great wonderful men but some men think that women should whine and dine them we should buy them flowers we should pay their Rend we should drive them to work and I think that I'm sorry most them are
02:23:50
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)kidding have any one of you ladies have any one of y'all bought some a man of flowers no no I have and when I tell y'all they love that [ __ ] y can I say something nice to get
02:24:02
Ericasomething when you don't get something can I say something I don't believe in cut flowers it's a dying representation it's a representation of a Dying love now when my ex and I had our house I
02:24:13
Ericagrew flowers I like you buy you buy cut flowers for the deceased but if you want to prove your love to your man and he wants you to prove your love to him he
02:24:23
Natalia Chestyshould buy you a potted plant and you should keep it growing well I'm I'm I love that analogy not be dead in a week I I I like the analogy but I don't think
02:24:35
Natalia Chestythat should that's literally all I know is flowers are nice I don't know nothing about my God but I like the way I like the way you think though I get hot plants all the time hold on hold on hold on Veronica what's the story about the
02:24:47
Light Brigh (partial)police in the beach oh yeah so this was I was young I was in like high school or like college or something but um yeah so I was dating this guy we went to the beach and like basically we was just in
02:24:58
Light Brigh (partial)the car chilling and then he decided to get me head and then the police just came and we got caught type situation but I have a more interesting story that kind of goes more with what we're
02:25:08
Light Brigh (partial)talking about or what the previous people have talked about so I dibbled and dabbed in like females and everything like that so I had a girlfriend a couple of like years ago
02:25:20
Light Brigh (partial)probably like three or four years ago MH and um we ended up having a threesome with like
02:25:28
Light Brigh (partial)her guy that she was like entertaining or talking to or whatever and then after that it was weird because the guy I don't know y'all probably been through
02:25:39
Light Brigh (partial)it too if y'all have dibbled and dab with thre Sons the guy ended up wanting me like to step in and like be his girlfriend as well and I wasn't going
02:25:51
Light Brigh (partial)for it it was just like a one time thing that's it and it created some tension with like their relationship and I like I that wasn't my business that wasn't my
02:26:02
Brian Atlasbusiness though like I didn't care I didn't want I didn't laughing at the car like I didn't want the guy but yeah it created some tension and then they ended up like breaking up wait on the threesome topic who here has had a
02:26:13
Brian Atlasthreesome show of hands boom boom boom well you you Tara no I have no three sums n three sums and corner I'm proudly saying no yeah yeah
02:26:26
Brian AtlasI'm not really into Y strong and M can I say something no I'm going to actually finish what I'm going to say so hold on so you know when it
02:26:35
Ericacomes to three three sus I'd rather only disappoint one woman at a timeo stop knocking yourself can can I can I rebuttal that question though how
02:26:47
Ericamany of you did the threesome for yourself or did it for the man that you were with did you have two men for myself for man no I had two women though I like that yeah I want to do that I ain't going to lie I want to do two fun
02:27:00
EricaI'm not going to lie it's fun but and let my favorite men watch I Did It For My Man I've done it for my man too everything that I have done sexually I did for him I was very submissive I did
02:27:12
Ericawhat he he asked me girl you was not a pit huh you was not a pit I'm sorry um I had to be drunk every time we did it if I can't do it sober that means it wasn't really good for me so in order in order
02:27:23
Ellie/Vera (mixed)for me to give him these things I had to be intoxicated a that's not good yeah has anybody here never had sober
02:27:33
Ellie/Vera (mixed)sex never had sober almost yeah kind of smoke every time I've always been stoned out of my mind or really I've always been stoned at least damn how do you but it's fun I'm
02:27:44
Brian Atlasalways it's actually I mean was especially in college a lot of people in college like they had they've either never had sober sex or they've had more
02:27:53
Brian Atlasdrunk sex than they've had sober sex so that's always that's that's relates to how do you know if you really like somebody if you never had sober sex well people are uncomfortable maybe too much
02:28:04
Ericaattenion can I retract on that because have I ever been initiated sex like me initiating it sober no so I had this thing called the Wake andake um if you go to bed naked and he obviously wakes
02:28:17
Ericaup with the heart on he could wake just turn over and have sex with me so I called it the wake and take for 10 years so was I sober waking up yeah but I was like he just took what he wanted when I was sleeping I mean we were together for
02:28:29
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)10 years you're going to make your man happy so how old are you again 37 oh my goodness okay no I'm not saying that like you like I'm just saying that you have experience so I I'm saying that
02:28:41
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you have experience so I understand cuz you know I'm a little we a little bit younger so I'm just like God [ __ ] really simple creatures oh yeah most
02:28:52
Ericadefinitely they all they want if you want to keep a man he likes respect keep his balls drained keep his stomach fed and give him peace that was actually
02:29:04
Q (The Q Pill)question she just that was what that that was my question for the panel I was going to ask what do what do men want she just she just literally named every
02:29:13
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)sing but like why do relationships have to be just so regarded on to what only men want let me tell you something first of all women
02:29:24
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)are women are naturally caretakers and caregivers so we know what a man want we what a man deserves men are the prize that's why no first of all wait we know what men want we know what man deserve
02:29:36
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)or whatever you feel me it's in our nature to take care of a man it's in [Music] our if if these women know what men want why have you not had a relationship longer than S years too many Independent
02:29:49
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)Women of their own mind of doing what they want to do and a lot of women don't care to have a relationship cuz I'm an independent woman but a man for 10 years right you kept a man for 10 years and
02:30:00
Ericayou obeyed I did not obey I satisfied big difference and you satisfied and you just belittled your own wellbe I never Bel I never belittled my well-being because my well was fine let me say I
02:30:12
Ericajust satisfied him sexually because he was so honest with me about what he wanted but did you enoy listen listen listen I mean don't get it twisted I had fun with some to girls yeah I did
02:30:22
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)everybody is obligated to do what they want respectfully but I know maybe I'm wrong you know you grew up different from how I grew up but you know and my
02:30:31
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)roots you know I don't know but if a man is telling you he want this he want that but I feel like you just a little older than me so that's why you deal with older men you feel me I'm still in like I mean I don't know but
02:30:42
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)look listen men tell you what they want you just most women don't listen because you know why I feel like a lot of women respect I feel like a lot let me speak real quick I just feel like a lot of women don't listen because they don't
02:30:54
Ericasettle for less no a lot of women don't can I can I everybody's Every Man's standard is not a woman's standard let me tell you let me tell you a lot of men don't or a lot of women don't listen
02:31:05
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)because they think that they can change a man and you can't change anybody okay men women like a lot of women listen because they think they can change a man I'm going to sit here and have a threeome with you because I
02:31:18
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)believe you going to stay with me forever I'm I'm sit here and clean and and cook and stress myself out because I feel like I will stay with you forever cuz I'm going do what you say I'mma obey I'mma obey but he wanted more three sons he don't care he going out the house and
02:31:30
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)having parties with his friends he don't care baby let me tell you at the end of the dayes anybody smok disgusting a woman's
02:31:42
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)vagina is smoking cigarettes a deal breaker show of hands if it's a deal breaker girl if you stressed out you stressed out y'all better I like I don't got nothing to do cig is a big deal breaker for me here let me read this chat or uh Q can you read this one I
02:31:54
Q (The Q Pill)think I speak for everyone when I say the girl in the middle is super annoying where it's end only he can episode I I like her everybody disagre I mean who who I'm a little I'm a little I'm a little upset
02:32:08
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)disappointed we didn't hear the freestyle I'm a little upset all I know is JJ another 200 honey and say something again that's say something again you feel me we don't really care just s another to Honey thank you now
02:32:20
Brian Atlasgoing over to my note for we have something from Natalie Natalie you disagree you think the main thing you disagree with me on is my
02:32:29
Natalie (partial)views on circumcision that's it I I didn't know what else um honestly I just don't it doesn't apply to me so I don't care that much oh yeah you said however
02:32:39
EricaI don't have a penis thank you for clarifying y so it doesn't now you do you have to clarify so that's true okay I I'm
02:32:51
Ericaagainst circumcision I don't know if there's really much to there I actually can I rebuttal on that I'm on your side I absolutely do not agree with the
02:33:01
Ericacircumcising of boys especially at such a young age because you're taking their ner you're taking the end of their nerves away from them men that have never been circumcised actually have better sex because they have more
02:33:13
Ericafeeling cuz those nerves it's SCI it's scientifically proven you didn't just cut off half their nervous system God true yep it's genital mutilation still
02:33:24
Brian Atlasfeel good if we were to have children there's no way we're circumcising our children Tara okay T is it Tara or Tara Tera Tara Tara I don't like these Terra
02:33:37
Brian AtlasI don't like these names where it's like there's multiple pronunciations sry can you oh my gosh I didn't chose my name where you going I'm just getting water now we have going to you we Vera you
02:33:49
Ellie/Vera (mixed)said that you're a feminist and traditional yeah uh I guess I mean I believe in both I don't know I just want to be provided for but I mean I quit everything that I
02:34:00
Ellie/Vera (mixed)do if a man would literally tell me you can stay at home cook clean take care of the kids I would do that but also at the same time I still want my forensic job
02:34:11
Ellie/Vera (mixed)like I still want to be able to go to work and then come back home cook clean take care of the kids but as long as my bills are being paid by said man as long long as we have been in a relationship for longer than a year and a half 2
02:34:24
Ellie/Vera (mixed)years something like that like longterm like serious nothing that you know if I'm dating a man for say 6 months no I mean that's you know that's whatever like you know I mean you can pay for dates and stuff but I want to pay for
02:34:36
Brian Atlasdates too sometimes if we're just in something for the moment I would like to pay for dates or travels or whatever all right you said you're ex-boyfriend was obsessed with your exbest friend and while they were doing stuff behind your
02:34:49
Ellie/Vera (mixed)back he had a whole different life with another girl and was a fboy did you you told us about the F booy yes that was him um he one of my ex- best friends
02:34:59
Ellie/Vera (mixed)basically she um well we actually became best friends after he left my house and I didn't know that he was doing all these things with her like behind my
02:35:09
Ellie/Vera (mixed)back and stuff this was one of the girls not including the men and the other girls but yeah um it was just interesting I guess this was like years
02:35:21
Brian Atlasand years ago I haven't even talked to him since but yeah okay moving on to Raina Raina right Raina you said that you've been doing
02:35:33
Brian Atlassex work escorting since you were 18 correct yeah and you're 23 now yeah you also describe yourself as a young hot I CH some mil
02:35:44
Brian Atlasmil uh I think that's on your Twitter your Instagram I forgot which one you're also a certif ifed squirter now do you have to go to a class for that how do
02:35:53
Angelyou I taught myself I taught myself no you certified certifi myself and my reviews from men and women you've been certified yeah wait what's certified how
02:36:05
Angeldo you get certified from like myself and like my bodies a diploma no I wish I'm going to get one I'm going get one you absolutely should and you said your ex was excuse
02:36:17
Angelme obsessed with you while you guys were dating and he decided to buy your o behind your back yeah so he didn't just have free access no I mean yeah we had sex every day but he still thought it
02:36:29
Angelwas you know he had to go buy my only fans he would come by the club while I was working and just throw money on other girls it was just weird the club you were dancer yeah I was used you used to strip still do um I don't anymore um
02:36:40
Natalia ChestyI used to when I was like from 18 to 21 okay yeah all right can I add something go ahead um I'm sorry what's your name I'm so sorry girl ver ver um so you were saying that you wanted to be you want to
02:36:52
Ellie/Vera (mixed)be a traditional wife or having I want to be both basically kind of sort of I mean you can't be a trid wife right if you're TR traditional oh I'm so sorry yes yes you I mean can you work a
02:37:03
Ellie/Vera (mixed)regular job like a day job like a 9 to5 and still be a traditional stay atome like can you do both so I just I feel like it's both kind of I guess I can I
02:37:13
Ericajust how is being how is being a traditional wife and being a feminist like how does that I I don't
02:37:24
Ericasee how that would ever work because feminism because feminism is absolutely toxic feminist um she said she was a traditional but also a feminist I just believe in women's rights like you know
02:37:35
Ericathat's really so you believe in the right you believe in no she there's different types of so you believe feminism I'm just going to say this feminism is toxic because people think
02:37:46
Ericathat equality like feminism is all equality but this is where it comes down to equality is only equal chance but never equal result yeah equal outcome yeah there's never an equal outcome
02:37:59
Ericabecause like if him and I go against for the same job at let's say axing a tree he axes it faster than me so I'm not going to get paid the same as him okay so so feminism into being a traditional
02:38:12
Natalia Chestywoman of the household does not correlate with with that with with that example literally scientifically men are just more go from feminist talk about her that she said that she she wants to be a
02:38:27
EricaTradin so that's why I was just asking how do they correlate with each other cuz you can't be a feminist and still be a traditional wife women should have the right to vote and own property said that's feminism Brian didn't you say
02:38:40
Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)something about not talking about political oh yeah not political I'm trying to squash I'm just trying to understand what would you call it think women should have the right to vote women
02:38:51
Ericashould work they should own their own proper you're you can still be a working mom and you can still be at home to be a traditional wife if you work you're already a feminist that's not
02:39:01
Ericanecessarily true because I raised my child by myself and I do not get child support never have gotten child support so with that being said I'm still a traditional woman and I'm not a feminist
02:39:13
Ericaif you believe that women should be able to vote you're a feminist that's not true I believe that humans all equally should have rights feminism you realize that men had more rights up until women
02:39:25
Ericaare men of all colors it doesn't matter what color skin you have in America had every single right up until the 18th up until the 19th Amendment the 19th amendment was the right for women okay
02:39:37
Ericaso just because you want to go out and you want to get a career and you want to get a job when it comes time to having children and being that traditional wife it's time to quit that job that was
02:39:47
Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)first feminism got women the right to vote you are a feminist if you believe that women should be able to vote participate in society and own land it's that simple I can hold
02:39:59
Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)it we can agree to disagree we I was just trying to better understand you might not be a radical feminist but you are wait actually I didn't get to my point Brian please make
02:40:10
Natalia Chestyit thank you we got to get off this AG crazy okay what's your what's your question guess my my where I was going to is so let's say if you met a man that was traditional and then he wanted to
02:40:23
Natalia Chestypay you got everything you wanted would you stop the job that you're doing 10% okay so like I would do it like this but do you don't you think maybe that would probably get in the way of your future husband right now like knowing like your
02:40:36
Ellie/Vera (mixed)past or like what just what's your take on that I mean of course a man who wants to settle down with somebody like me would need to understand I would quit this for you but I would delete all my social medias for the meantime and I
02:40:48
Ellie/Vera (mixed)would just start all over but you Del what I would love that I would make like a boyfriend page and everything like I would be obsessed for me to marry someone yes I would need to be obsess
02:40:57
Q (The Q Pill)and in love I want to hear Q thoughts and he his thoughts what your thoughts I actually commend her for being bo be realistic hold on hold on I actually I actually commend her for being willing
02:41:09
Q (The Q Pill)to delete her social media he would even have to ask I I actually commend that because because you know guys come with demands we have certain standards preferences we have we have boundaries
02:41:22
Q (The Q Pill)so if a woman is trying to prove her love to me her loyalty and her Commitment if that's what she wants to do to do it then I agree with that like what she wants to yeah if that's what she wants to do as a man we don't we don't demand no healthy man should demand that a woman do something but if
02:41:35
Q (The Q Pill)the woman is feeling him enough she'll do it on her own she'd be willing to do it on her own and the fact that she's willing to do that I can applaud that I commend her for that isn't concentrating another source of income that you have do what now isn't isn't content creating
02:41:47
Natalia Chestyanother source of income that you have yes yeah but it's not the healthy kind of income for 100% I thought your main income was when you would go in person and do that no
02:41:59
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)that's just a side thing I have a question for Q yeah sorry um so like if your girlfriend is like a influencer like on the healthy side you know like Athletics whatever of that nature um you
02:42:12
Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)don't mind that right if it's like respectful and all that like do like cuz I know she brought up the whole are you like the girl behind the scenes type you wouldn't date a content creator I don't know if I can you're a content creator yourself I know that's exactly why I
02:42:25
Q (The Q Pill)don't know if I can I don't want to we're talking about sexual content him finish know he's talking about normal content right yeah I'm talking I'm talk I'm talking about normal like YouTuber you know I'm talking I'm talking about normal content now for me
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Q (The Q Pill)it's complicated because I'm going to look at how does this affect the relationship because there's a certain amount of time attention energy that I need to be put towards the relationship and if she's consumed in her content making then she's not going to be able
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Q (The Q Pill)to nurture or cultivate the relationship any further so that would be my concern so I don't believe she would be able to find the balance I would have to see that she actually knows how to find the balance you have how many followers on
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Q (The Q Pill)Instagram YouTube would you his income my income proving for her it was her income if it if it was her income then it would probably be something that she started from the jump
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Q (The Q Pill)but if I got what are you talking about girl if I had the choice if I have the choice I wouldn't even date another influencer to begin with because it'd be more difficult I just avoid it all together so you want a like traditional
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Q (The Q Pill)woman like off the scene that is so boring and that's my whole dating history every every girl every girl every girl I've dated see my dat yeah what I want is what I'm already used to
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Q (The Q Pill)I'm yeah I'm already used to what I what I want is what I so pretty much what you're saying no had more than 1,500 followers they off Instagram they don't post a lot so that's what I'm used to
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)yeah okay I was just no that's all I was wondering cuz like I'm like if somebody was like you know on the same path as you as far like you know just being themselves cuz you know it's rare to find people that's actually doing
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)content like this that's you being yourself you know Brian's you know podcast this is him being hisself you know like people really have to be there theirselves so it's like do you really
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)feel like you can't be with somebody that's truly want to be their s but I understand what you saying like you know you used to a certain thing but it's okay to go outside the box a little bit you know just test the waters B girl you
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)can't talk cu no no okay look okay me when me should we dance no no I just I just want you to
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Q (The Q Pill)just keep an open mind you know like just keep the thought of it but don't be like don't don't belittle don't yourself me for me it's definitely a case by case basis so yes it's a I treat everything Case by case but I'm saying in general
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)typically I don't go for influen you know we all human I mean like we just all do different things is it because of the attention I just want to ask you that that's all it's not necessarily the attention that she would receive it's
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Q (The Q Pill)her having to prioritize it it's her having to constantly she be married to her content essentially instead of being engaged prior being involved have you ever been with a content creator before
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Q (The Q Pill)no well then how would you know I mean I haven't been in one but I've messed with I've messed with I've messed with there's different types of cont I was like I was involved with a girl who had 443k on Tik Tok
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Q (The Q Pill)like and for me yeah we could relate talking about content and stuff we could give each other ideas and all that kind of stuff that's cool but at the end of the day I'm like yo you spend too much time doing it like you always doing it
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Q (The Q Pill)when like when is it our time because I make time even though I create content I make time like I'm that kind of guy with my so she just wouldn't give you any time but maybe it was my concern would be time but maybe it was like maybe just
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)I think respectfully I like your answer and whatever you like is okay because at the end of the day like it is kind of hard to be with somebody that's kind of similar to you like y both y both busy and all that so I totally understand I
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)just wanted to get your intake on would you quit your rap career to date Q hell no oh okay I like I mean I like you you really cute I mean uh you're really cool that's what I meant to say she to
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)Sayed andp app I mean you handsome don't get me here I'm chilling look I'm we can
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)totally Brian why would you do that Brian stop no no respectfully respectfully like even Brian he's handsome like y'all handsome I just wanted to just know like your intake on that I did say you cute but I meant to
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)say you cool cuz cute is for boys I meant to say you cool but um no I'm not asking because of that it's cuz a lot of the females are talking and it's just be I I I ain't going to lie I get so sick of hearing females talk about what they
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)think a man want when they not a man like girl I can fix her I I just I just say so that's why I be like Q tell me what you think cuz I'm tired of hearing the females talk about oh a man wants this a man wants that you're not a man to know what the hell a man wants just
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you're speaking off experience yeah no but she nailed it though cuz I was going to break it down I but I feel like a lot of the times it's like every man is not the same like not every man want you to just do traditional obeying [ __ ] like a
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)lot of men be like damn you got a lot of free time on you like do you have anything going on like I don't know maybe it's just my experience I deal with like people that really be having [ __ ] going on so it's like I don't know I I don't know I see a lot
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)of the times where men speak about what do women bring to the table and stuff like that if y'all make yourself so available and y'all not in tuned in what y'all passionately want to do and y'all just obligated to just do what a man
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)want you to do only what is satisfying for you just doing what a man wants you to do and just getting [ __ ] like I'm just that's all I'm saying like you know I don't know maybe because I just grew up how I grew up and baby like you got
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)to have fun too like right I'm not going to but you older so you be giving me I don't know you giving me 1880 Vibes I don't know like you giving me
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Ericathe 1880 1880 you just said I nailed what men want like I have a thing that I got in
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EricaAustralia when I don't like that kind of talk so I have so this this gentleman that was a big promoter for the Royal
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EricaEaster show which is the big fair in Sydney Australia had these man roles and I have them on my phone and they are to the tea because women
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Ericahave all these rules and like one of the biggest things that women [ __ ] about when they're in a relationship is the toilet seat being left up you need it down he needs it up meet in the middle and compromise hilarious that's how you
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)know I'm young cuz I ain't never been to no toy LIF up situation that was relevant I me kids so I are simple creatures don't [ __ ] don't I just feel like I just feel like it's respectful to
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)know what a man loves and I and I truly admire that you should know what a man like you know like we should always naturally offer that a man but just don't doc Billy donated $200 thank you
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Brian Atlasin all right brother you guys ready for this sorry I don't know what yeah start the virtual
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Brian AtlasAndrew you can hear us yeah uh oh you got some new Lighting in the back there Andrew it's all red and cozy uh are you able to boost the light on you a little
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