Single Mom Wants 6ft Man Who Makes $500k?! She INSULTS Brian?! Andrew Wilson! | Dating Talk #166

Date: 2024-06-03

Duration: 6h 53m

Guests

Brian Atlas

AAngel (DT166)>

EEllie (DT166)>

LLight Brigh (DT166)>

BBoss Lady (DT166)>

EErica (DT166)>

NNatalie (DT166)>

NNatalia Chesty (DT166)>

AAndrew Wilson >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00Andrew Wilson (virtual)(guest)

SPEAKER_03Natalia Chesty(guest)

SPEAKER_04Natalie (partial)(guest)

SPEAKER_05Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)(guest)

SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_09Q (The Q Pill)(guest)

SPEAKER_10Erica(guest)

SPEAKER_11Ellie/Vera (mixed)(guest)

SPEAKER_12Angel(guest)

SPEAKER_13Light Brigh (partial)(guest)

SPEAKER_14Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteNatalia Chesty criticizes Brian for not greeting guests

“Natalia says: 'I wouldn't date him because I didn't like his character — he didn't say hi to all of us.' Brian responds he was busy setting up the show.”

OtherBoss Lady's rap song played and reacted to

“Brian plays Boss Lady's rap song 'Touch Your Toes With It' from Instagram (~30 seconds); Boss Lady explains the lyrics ('touch your toes = bend over/twerk'). Panel reacts. Discussion of her music career as rapper from Watts.”

QuoteVera's ex transitioned during their relationship

“Vera discloses her 3-year relationship: ex began wearing skirts, identifying as femboy, going after men. He was unemployed; she paid all bills. She ended the relationship; he now lives in Wisconsin with a fiancee who 'hexes Furbies.'”

ControversyAndrew Wilson calls Natalia's complaint 'spoiled brat behavior'

“Andrew Wilson (virtual) tells Natalia: 'What I call that is spoiled brat behavior... you want everything to stop so people can acknowledge how wonderful you are.' Natalia responds. Extended 10-minute debate.”

QuoteNatalia's mother passed from COVID; boyfriend ghosted two weeks later

“Natalia shares: boyfriend of 2 years ghosted her while her mother was dying of COVID, then two weeks later posted on Facebook with a new engaged girlfriend. Panel debates whether this is 'trauma' per clinical definition.”

ControversyAndrew debates Erica on cuck relationships and self-respect

“Andrew tells Erica directly: 'No self-respecting man who loves their woman would allow their chick to be plowed by other dudes.' Erica explains the context of her 10-year relationship and her motivations.”

OtherErica discloses rape by son's biological father

“Erica (37) discloses: 'My son's father raped me and tried to kill me.' States he has never been in her son's life and she ran away. Andrew responds with empathy and then redirects the conversation.”

QuoteVera states $500k income requirement

“Vera (25, NYC, 3 kids, escort): 'Annually, $500k.' Brian responds: 'You realize that's 1%?' Debate ensues with Brian, Q, and later Andrew Wilson.”

Key MomentBrian questions Vera's unrealistic standards

“Brian: 'Do you think a guy who makes $500,000 minimum is interested in dating a sex worker/escort with three children?' Vera: 'No... definitely not... but shouldn't you adjust your standards?' — 'I don't want to be with somebody [who doesn't meet them].'”

QuoteAndrew cites IRS data on $500k earners

“Andrew Wilson: 'According to the Internal Revenue Service, less than 1% of all tax filers reported an adjusted gross income exceeding $500,000.' Vera: 'Well that’s on them.'”

Topics Discussed

Guest introductions and announcements

Vigil for 'Blessed/Weed Jesus' (community member who passed away). All guests introduce themselves: name, age, location, occupation. Followed by pronoun/identity questions, content type, and escorting background questions.

Relationship status and background

Round-robin: single/situationship/relationship status, longest relationships, recent breakups. Deep dive into Vera's ex transitioning, Angel's ex not contributing, Natalia's thruple, Erica's 10-year relationship.

Brian not greeting guests / Natalia insults Brian

Natalia Chesty says she wouldn't date Brian because he didn't greet guests on arrival. Brian and Natalia debate whether this was rude. Panel takes sides. Continued with Andrew Wilson at ~178-185min where Andrew calls it 'spoiled brat behavior.'

Trauma discussion

Natalia shares breakup/ghosting story tied to mother's COVID death. Q and others debate clinical definition of trauma vs. emotional damage. Erica shares childhood trauma from witnessing loud aggressive men. Distinction between heartbreak and trauma.

Racial preferences in dating

Chat question about racial dating preferences. Responses: Angel: no preference; Erica: Latinos; others: no preference or white boys. Separate chat question about why Black women and Asian men are statistically least desired in dating marketplace.

Train wrecks / bad date stories

Guests share past relationship train wrecks and bad dates. Includes Erica's ex-boyfriend ending 10-year relationship via text; Vera's 3-year thruple with an engaged lesbian couple.

Andrew Wilson joins / insults response

Andrew Wilson joins virtually (~172min). Brian summarizes panelists. Andrew debates Natalia on greeting/entitlement topic, calling her behavior 'spoiled brat.' Natalia defends position. Q and Erica moderate.

Self-ratings round

Stiffler TTS prompts everyone to rate their looks 1-10. Back-and-forth on objectivity of beauty ratings vs. subjective self-perception. Andrew and Brian gave lower ratings (4 and 5 respectively). Two guests claimed 10. Discussion of aging and whether women are better looking at 30+ vs now.

Tweet reactions

Brian pulls up tweets for panel reaction: 'men these days want to be pampered for doing the bare minimum,' 'if you're going to DM me wanting to be my man, pay my bills,' and others. Leads into greater male variability theory (IQ distribution curves), hypergamy, and biology discussions.

Body count round

Captain Army $200 TTS asks body counts. Angel ~60, Vera 16, unknown 44, Erica 13 men+17 women+100+ total (including non-consensual). Natalia: no comment. Erica discloses rape by son's father. Discussion of whether body count disqualifies marriage potential.

Democracy and voting rights debate

Andrew Wilson and SPEAKER_05 (Tara, Canadian) debate democracy, voting age, whether women should vote, and government effectiveness. Tara defends universal suffrage; Andrew challenges justification for democracy over monarchy.

Single mom 500k debate

Vera states she requires partner earning $500k/year and 6ft+ height. Brian, Q, and Andrew debate feasibility (IRS data: <1% earn $500k). Vera reduces to $300k. Race preference: Latino. Discussion of what a $500k man would actually expect from a partner. Vera insists such men exist who won't care about her past.

Hypergamy, makeup, and beauty standards debate

Extended debate between Andrew Wilson and SPEAKER_05 (Tara/Light Brigh) on hypergamy origins, makeup as deceptive (Brian: 'makeup is functional equivalent of a McDonald's worker claiming to be a lawyer'), evolutionary basis of attraction. Andrew and Erica debate historical beauty standards and hygiene.

Transcript

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Natalie (partial)kidding I'm kidding you're not kidding ironic that you're a big you e that's why you up it's it's just kind of ironic that you're like a big labia lover but

Ericayou don't really love it cuz you don't eat it I agree with her that's ironic it is ironic are you are you into men that was my initial thought I was like H is there why do I feel like if a girl went

Ericadown on you and put her finger in your why is it gay in your butthole I feel like you would go lip are you scar those you scared secretly lip have you li like he goes soft I feel like if a woman

Ericaplays with his butthole he'll go soft I don't know why I feel that way I just feel that way wait you're saying if a woman put put her finger inside of him he would go soft I think so damn yall crazy so you're saying he's he's no that

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)means he's not g uh Q why don't your ask C your relationship status going down on these H I'm um I'm

Q (The Q Pill)single right now I'm focused on my mission I don't have time I don't have time to be distracted by women what's your mission um I love that what I'm doing what are you doing you got to keep

Q (The Q Pill)it qualified I'm coaching I'm youtubing I got a new book coming out on how many subscribers do you have on YouTube yeah 103,000 nice you're da your book a

Natalia Chestyrelationship you don't want to date not right now relationship coach yeah I wouldn't want to date either Rel why don't you want to have a relationship right now cuz well for one modern women are he modern women are a headache yeah

Q (The Q Pill)modern women are a headache it's really difficult and for me and for me um I'm very analytical like psychoanalytical so I see all the red flags I see all the signs from jump and I basically know how

Q (The Q Pill)to identify what's going to be problematic and what's going to end up being the demise of a relationship I mean every relationship has a problem yeah but I'm super yeah I'm super picky I don't care though like I'm super picky so I rather just focus on myself right

TTS/Chat readerhow old are you 31 I got plenty of time why no no man you're chilling bro now you just experience that's all boyfriend we're going go back this he

TTS/Chat readercan donated $69 ladies would you date Brian on one hand he is tall 651 blue eyes Rich

TTS/Chat readersometimes funny successful but he has a dead bod probably autistic has a weird liking for big laties and a small T fake that's fake

TTS/Chat readernews the mere fact I'll answer it hold on L paladins donated $200 meant to phrase that as a question Al a widow we'll come back she still

Angelthink of her ex well we'll come back to that would you date me it depends on the vibe I'm not going to lie if we like go out how Vibe right now I mean you're yeah and I your videos so yeah you chill it's good vibe yeah I don't discriminate

Natalie (partial)I don't discriminate so you like white guys I do oh there you go all right what about you absolutely not respectfully I like that answer wait say

Brian Atlaswhy say why you don't you don't need to say why I don't know I forgot the question oh no sorry it's okay you you

Brian Atlasprefer uh you prefer I like Latinos Latinos she do yeah I like Latinos I all right what about you no I don't think so the [ __ ] is up with this fly holy [ __ ] I

Brian Atlasknow right trying get smack that [ __ ] okay um I don't know I guess it depends on the vibe depends on the vi yeah the vibe is [ __ ] Immaculate

Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)son I'm saying how tall are you one one me I'm four I'm 5T 411 you're going to say

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)411 right up that man alley okay what about you boy you like white guys right I mean they cool but I don't know I feel like I'm a little too

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)much like I don't know I don't know I'm really sweet but like why you laughing I'm really cool like I feel like I'm too much but I'm

Natalia Chestysweet I I don't know you know stereotypes you know but like uh what do you mean you're too much she's a lot to handle she he can't handle her bro I think every girl is is complicated to handle that's it I don't know Brian but

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you look good though you know like we could be like besties and then you tell me about all the girls you got yeah then you tell me about all the girls you got and I just laugh everybody because they think that they got you and they really

Ericagot you and you just telling me about all the girls you got see that's a good vibe yeah yeah all right cool um the fact that you said you don't go down on

Natalie (partial)women I would never date you perfect works out I should have asked this question before that girl don't care for that what about you I'm in a relationship so if you're single if I

Natalia Chestywas single then yeah sure oh there you go all right what about you absolutely not cuz of the [ __ ] eating thing ew no

Natalia ChestyI just don't like the h a no no I just don't like the environment that was put onto the room what

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)that I don't know like I wish you shook my head when we met or shook all their hands or something he was real conserve he was trying to get things done me up

Ericatell he'll shake your hand absolutely not he don't even know how to shake a hand I'm too white for

Natalia Chestythis no I'm sorry no but when people enter someone's house sh when people enter someone's workpace or when someone enters someone's building I don't care what it is you acknowledge them so it's

Ericalike basic respect like the basic little respect when you meet someone and that wasn't received this a working man he even had he even had a introduction he said there's Brian he's busy working give him a moment he'll say hi to

Natalia Chestyeverybody can turn around and say hi nice meeting everyone give me one moment I'm working right now and turn around want baby you want a gentleman it's called respect it's called respect

Brian Atlasthat's all it is bow when she walks in room you didn't you you step into my [ __ ] podcast Studio you don't hit a [ __ ] bow son that was [ __ ] some

Natalie (partial)disrespect play the bow video play the bow video while we [ __ ] on this topic pull that [ __ ] up Nick pull up she told I told my boyfriend that I was thinking about doing that when I play that sh

Brian Atlasbowing bowing to Bri boom that's exactly what she bro I get you you know why I didn't say what's up to you you know why I didn't say hey why you didn't bust you didn't do the

Brian Atlasbow oh no you didn't Court her you guys to get in a single file line you need to get into a single file line as soon as you get in here each of you hit a bow like when you greet me nobody going to

Ericabow for you I'm sorry no I mean maybe we was in Tokyo or something that's you I mean you did take we did have to take our shoes off so yeah that was our that was respectful that was respect right there we I appreciate the shoes off we

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)took our shoes off keep them floors clean M no I don't appreciate that going on your feet resp in some househ Asian cultures it's very respectful to actually address your point though that

Brian AtlasI was uh I didn't do the polite thing to greet all of you first off I'm trying to get the show going you know there's a lot going on behind the scenes that I have to do cool Nick actually greeted

Brian Atlasyou Nick is my agent and as my agent as my proxy he greeted you on yourf actually as you guys came around the table I do believe I greeted all of you when you came around the table ethnicities have you all dated and which

TTS/Chat readerhas been consistently get to that in a sec get to in a sec is there an ethnicity you would not date again and why curious about a sec so I think as you guys all came to the table I did a

Brian Atlasvery token greeting but I don't know if you've just had a very pampered life and never have never worked a hard day in your life BS zated

Brian Atlas$69 Brian does not have enough hand sanitizer to shake all your hands true true OCD uh yeah so I'm just busy before the show getting everything set up

Brian Atlasmaking sure that uh we get everything going cool and uh yeah I don't uh really have the time to uh do the sort of token greeting no yeah that that's totally like what you want to do is totally up

Natalia Chestyto you the question was if I wanted to date you and because wasn't like a high my answer is no but I totally get that you're busy it's totally Val valuable I just oh sure if that's your justification that's fine but I'm

Brian Atlasactually having an argument with you about your assertion that it is uh I suppose rude to not do an individual greeting to uh everybody H I see your

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)point she probably thought you was like spooky you know like you didn't say nothing you was just like walking around but you know other people get it but some people don't so you know if you

Brian Atlasdon't want to people when you when like you're totally up to you I hope are you married I think what what's your relationship St well okay so I was so before the show I'm pretty locked in to like making sure I get things going and

Brian Atlasto like take time away from that to in every instance luckily everyone came up at the same time but often times people will kind of trickle in because some people will arrive early some people will arive arrive late so we'll be

Brian Atlasbringing people up kind of peac meal so I don't have the time to interrupt what I'm doing in each instance to just you know introduce myself to everybody we have a timeline we try to get the show

Brian Atlasout at 5:00 p.m. sometimes it doesn't always work out but um yeah uh I don't know if you've ever had a job that actually required any degree of focus or attention oh my goodness I got my degree in child education I've taught from

Natalia Chestypreschool all the way to high school I absolutely know what it's like to work I totally respect your work ethic I just don't like that it wasn't greeted so it's totally okay why let me ask you a question why didn't you come up to me

Natalia Chestyand greet me why is it my duty to greet you or bow um well you were it's your place it was your like wait do we I don't know if

Natalia Chestyyou live here but like this is your place this is your workspace so I did want to but I didn't because like you were just really busy or like you know you look you look a little scary a little bit so if I'm being honest you

Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)looked a little bit scary so I didn't want to interrupt your bubble thank you okay okay I think I think her her boyfriend I mean

Brian Atlassorry situationship is not cheating on her she seems to be a good judge of character non there uh Q did you give relationship no you gave relationship status right all right let me get a

Brian Atlascouple of these other chats out here we did have Dylan Loi he said ladies why do you think black here I'll just pull it back up

TTS/Chat readeragain Dylan LLY donated $69 sorry I'm late good to see Q back ladies why do you think black women and Asian men are statistically least

TTS/Chat readerdesirable in the dating Marketplace PS the bear in the woods let me know he is full okay wait can you repeat that question someone it literally just

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)[ __ ] read I'm Sor I'm so sorry sorry I'm late good to see Q back we is not going to read all that the reason why black women and Asian men don't be together is because Asian

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)people have a whole light standard of skin tone we already know that oh if you don't know that now you know but um on top of that I mean if you want to date a black women and Asian man will get that like I don't I don't you have any thoughts on this and then we're going to

Q (The Q Pill)move it like I've seen I've seen no he was he was he was asking why is like for Asian men like amongst men Asian men are the least desired out of groups of men and then for black women black women are the least desired out of the group out

Q (The Q Pill)of the ethnicity is that true is that speciically true yeah yeah he I I I thought he was talking about Asian men they and black wom at first too but but he talking about separately why are Asian men the least desired out of all the groups of men and why are black

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)women the least desired out of all the groups of women sta a lot of flying Asian men now I don't know about that he's saying statistically he correct statistically I don't know about that um statistically about black women I don't

TTS/Chat readerknow about that either cuz it's a lot of black flying women out here now you know I would but is that statistic in the US or9 200 up for TTS from women are absolutely disgusting and horrible

TTS/Chat readerhumans especially the one in the middle except the one the left corner next to Q we need Andrew Wilson and Jesus say sap Q step it up bro y'all y'all be

Q (The Q Pill)expecting me y'all be expecting me to to play more uh virtue signal with these women I can't virtue signal I analyze human behavior and I help people with relationships it's not my job to shame be human and answer that question that

Q (The Q Pill)last question that they just asked please I'm just going to throw this out there you help me in my that's why they at least desire right there energy she just came at me

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you better have messing with me brother I'm messing with you because um I just wanted you to you know take my you know take for me that's why I asked you to say that don't even play with me like that I got you I'm I'm messing with you cuz baby I done had all ethnicity I know

Q (The Q Pill)how to I know how to switch it up yeah but they talking about statistically I love every man I love all men not talking about n they're not talking about you they not talking about you talking

Q (The Q Pill)stop stop stop let them answer go ahead please answer okay so Asian men are the least desired because Asian men they don't appear to be the stereotypical M yeah masculine they you know facial hair

Q (The Q Pill)they lack facial hair they lack the typical masculine features that women are typically attracted to and then black women we all know that um based on the research that it's due to their attitudes oh yeah yeah wait wait wait

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)can I ask what do you think about that that black I don't give a goddamn Fu hold on we got I got to move it on okay I don't care because you know whoever

TTS/Chat readercan handle can handle you know so L paladins sent in this L paladins donated $200 meant to phrase that as a question

Brian Atlasis she Alpha widowed does she still think of her ex she keep okay uh is she Alpha Widow does she still think of her ex I think this is to

Q (The Q Pill)her Q any thoughts on this to me I'm so sorry to me yeah is she Alpha Widow you had a you had another guy before that girl I don't no they talking about oh

Q (The Q Pill)I'm in a relationship oh yeah are you Alpha Widow did you date somebody before the current guy that you're with my situationship mhm yeah I stated that I I had a ex before okay so he's saying that

Natalia Chestyyou can't date anybody new oh no no no no no no I definitely not stuck on my ex I think it's because I'm just not there because I date to Mary so the fact that like I had a traumatic experience with

Natalia Chestymy ex so I'm very scared to date a little little bit so I just need time and patience and he's giving me time and patience and I love that he's giving me time so I want to be there so I can wait you date to Mary yeah I do you've been

Brian Atlasin a one-year situationship with no title correct that you're not in love with the guy you're clearly not dating to Mary I I do though you're dating him but I mean in terms of like I'm seeing

Natalia Chestyhim not dating him what's the difference I I think I think in my I think I think in my head there's a difference but probably there's not but you're not dating to Mary wasting am are but you literally said you're not going to marry

Brian Atlasthis guy did you earlier in the conversation did you not say I don't see myself marrying this guy uh I said I believe I said did you say it ah I believe I said I I believe I said I

Natalia Chestydon't want to marry him right now that doesn't mean I won't marry him in the future obviously there was still there was something I I'm pretty sure the so I'm pretty sure the question I asked was do you see yourself marrying him okay to

TTS/Chat readerwhich you answered in the netive 20 donated $69 my earlier Super Chat Works in mental health to speak on the escort's Po's sex work usually has a root of abuse from

TTS/Chat readersome sort of Guardian I've seen this a lot working BH myself okay K mfu thank you man appreciate it um so you don't see yourself marrying

Brian Atlashim right now you guys have been dating for a year you're not in love you kind of almost scoffed at uh this question you don't have a title with him even though you've been dating for a year you've broken up once already but got

Brian Atlasback together I mean all these things added together don't make me very confident in your whatever you call this your situationship mhm wait can I can I

Natalia Chestyadd you said that he didn't want a relationship with you right now either so no no no um honestly it's kind of like just me right now if I'm being honest yeah I just need a little bit of time my my past relationship was a

Natalia Chestylittle bit traumatic so just giving okay so do you see yourself keeping him in your life or I 100% do I definitely do I definitely think he's a great father

Natalia Chestyfigure 110% I just need more time with his heart right now basically do you think he'd be willing to fly to you I'm sorry do you think he'd be willing to fly to you oh 100% he's flying to me in

Ellie/Vera (mixed)a couple weeks do you think that he would say the same thing about you what like that he you know would need that he's just waiting on you basically no she said already that he wants to marry her oh you did what did you have on this

Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)into the mic I mean it just sounds like she is Alpha widowed Alpha I'm sorry what does alpha Widow mean I've never heard that word till now it means it means your past relationship was was traumatic enough that you can't get past

Natalia Chestyit and now you're I mean honestly I think fall in love with other men I think every woman goes through this Alpha Widow traumatic experience um and it's this is like what happened to me something that I'm going to tell my daughters my future daughters about and

Natalia Chestytell them that that's the story I'm going to tell them to warn them about men so um yeah it is traumatic and I think it's very valid that clear the term Alpha Widow doesn't necessarily imply that there was trauma it could

Q (The Q Pill)just mean that you dated a guy of he's either super attractive High status he was the guy he was he was the best that you know you could do so you won't be able to actually fall in love with

Natalia Chestyanybody else oh no no no um so what happened was and I'll make it very very short in two sentences my mom passed away in 2020 um due to a sickness and a common sickness that I think we all know and 2 weeks later he ghosted me and got

Ericaengaged so it was just traumatic wait is that the the soul thing that was traumatic M what 100% he was cheating on you the whole time I'm Sor do you think he was cheating on you the whole time um clearly if he got engaged two weeks

Natalia Chestylater then yeah 110% 100% so that's why I'm just a little do you actually see yourself marrying the guy that you're speaking to now in the future um I see that he's a good father figure he has a good person he has great family values which are

Natalia Chestyabsolutely adore why don't you think you can fall in love with him uh no no no I never said I don't think I can fall in love with him I just think I'm putting my heart a little bit to a stop because it's it's scary you know going from that

Brian Atlastraumatic relationship to a new one right now can I ask a question yeah no no no no I'm sorry I do have to move things on we can come back to it though I need to get through this then I need

TTS/Chat readerto bump it up K of cereal donated $69 what ethnicities have you all dated and which has been consistently better for you is there an ethnicity you would

Brian Atlasnot date again and why curious about can only do one I'm going to have to sh your question this did this also did come in guys we're doing 200 and up after this so I'm actually just going to have to shift the question too since you asked

Brian Atlastwo questions here uh do you have a racial preference and if so for what race go ahead for dating for dating no preference no preference Latinos oh I would say African-Americans

Natalia Chestyokay um white people I don't got no preference no preference I don't have a preference white boys proudly no preference no

Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)preference oh okay let me get that [ __ ] guys we're going to Nick pull it up uh I didn't know we were talking about preference pull up the thing I don't really care the TTS indicator so they

Brian Atlasknow we're switching whoops guys it's going to be $99 up to read and then 200 up for TTS yeah we'll do twitch here in just a sec let me make sure we got that

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Brian Atlastest if anybody has an available Prime sub there it is thank you Ross appreciate it it's not bugged look at that being a goblin thank you guys appreciate it okay all right cool cool

Brian Atlasuh so I did actually want to come back really quick to we were talking about your situation here uh and it was it was something about the alpha Widow oh right

Brian Atlasokay so you said that your mom passed away from covid and your boyfriend at the time ghosted you and got married engaged two weeks later and that was the guy who that's the trauma you speak of is that correct yes that is correct how

Natalia Chestylong were you dating him for almost two years two years okay that's a two-year guy yeah and so okay were you guys living together no was it long distance no the the one the

Brian AtlasRel the relationship right yeah so your mom passed away yes now have you had any uh subsequent conversations with with this guy what do you mean by subsequent he said he ghosted you and you were

Brian Atlasdating for 2 years yeah uh your mom passed away two weeks later he ghosted you um well have you had any you know ghosted you but have you talked to him um I have not spoken to him but

Natalia Chestysomething that I did think that was leading up to it was that he never like that I was doing social media at all um so he just didn't like the attention I was getting at all actually honestly if I'm being honest it really it made him insecure he always he always went out of his way to like assure me that I'm not

Natalia Chestyinsecure but like I'm not insecure by your social media and he would even get mad at that like he was trying to way defend it to the point that was way too sus so it was like I kind of already know that you he wanted a girl that was not on social media which was valid but I wish he had explained that to me now

Brian Atlaswhat kind of content do you do I do comedy relatable girl stuff okay kind of like uh you're not doing only fans though cor not at all never would so you're like TI yes you're Christian yes

Brian Atlaswhat denomination uh non- denominational Protestant or just non-denominational non- denominational okay non okay and

Brian Atlasso you got absolutely zero feedback post breakup about the reason or pretext for the break unfortunately never how many did you try to reach out uh yeah it was

Natalia Chestyso embarrassing yeah no but I never got anything back like did you go by his house house or anything like that I I did go to drop off his clothes and then he would wear it and post on his Instagram the next day with the clothes that I got that I returned so he didn't text you saying hey this is over he just

Natalia Chestystraight up no honestly straight up he just posted on Facebook that's it what did he post on Facebook a picture with his new girl Dam two weeks later yeah two weeks later so [ __ ] up yeah I it was no exactly that's why it's really

Natalia Chestyit's really hard for me to enter a new relationship right now and I I did get I did get over it but I just learned how to live with it you know what I mean but I did get over that it's just it's just hard now girl like I'm kind of like yeah

Natalia Chestyit's fair do you guys think that this is meets the definition of trauma hell yeah yes I definitely I I think I definitely think trauma doesn't have a specific definition I think it's it's valid like

Natalia Chestyfor example if a three-year-old girl was standing right here and her cup just broke and fell to the floor that's the same trauma she's going to have that's equivalent to me the only difference that she's younger she doesn't know much and I'm an adult yes I disagree with that but obviously that's traumatic I

Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)mean like imagine dating someone for 2 years and then ghost you and then two weeks later they're engaged to somebody else that's insane I mean did you ever

Brian Atlassuspect him having other women no that's traa very shitty I don't know if it's

Q (The Q Pill)traumatic meet certain criteria start to realize people like I mean trauma obstructs trauma obstructs your ability to to proceed forward it's things that like so what what would you

Brian Atlascall it if you don't think it's trauma it forced you to take your time yeah you got to really get wait guys guys guys hold hold up wait wait wait stop stop stop stop stop hold on let me repeat

Brian Atlasthis when somebody speaking nobody else speak don't do sidebars please because it's bad for the audio it's rude whoever speaking go ahead whoever was speaking go ahead oh I was I was saying I think

Q (The Q Pill)it's extremely emotional damaging like it's emotionally damaging for sure but I just think you need to heal I wouldn't classify it as trauma because trauma is basically essentially a re wiring of

Q (The Q Pill)your brain like in in a painful sense like what you go through it obstructs your ability whatever trauma you experience it obstructs your ability to proceed forward and it hinder like it impedes on everyday life so like you you

Q (The Q Pill)would suffer thinking about it over and over again you get what I'm saying like it would just bother you consistently constantly saying it's not constantly bothering me consistently can I act to it yeah yeah yeah absolutely okay so for

Ericainstance um my ex that broke up with me via text uh after 10 years of being together living together raising children together that didn't traumatize me it did break my heart now

Ericawhat traumatized me when I was a little girl dealing with really loud aggressive men now if I hear a man yell and scream you respond the same way it literally paralyzes me that's trauma I think some

Natalia Chestyanother trauma or another thing that we're forgetting about this breakup um is that it had it involved my mom passing away so the fact and this guy was my best friend he was my best friend so of course I would I would want my

Natalia Chestybest friend to be with me during this hard time of my mother so instead of just ghosting me he just got engaged so it had to do with more than just the breakup it wasn't just a regular breakup it was it was devastating actually so I

Natalia Chestythink that's where you saying it's like compounded yeah it it it's tied with my with my mother's passing corate the oh 110% if he just ghosted me and and got engaged I think that would definitely be

Natalia Chestya huge heartbreak but it's connected to a very valid valid point cuz it was where you like needed him like of course girl my mom just passed away yeah I get I get that part yeah yeah so I think that's where the trauma is he

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)abandoned you 100% he abandoned me and hard want to use that word cuz then people going to start thinking like oh is it abandonment issues because when you in a relationship yeah we do look for our significant other to be there

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)for us through hard times so it do be a lot of abandonment issues and that's why it be hard to move forward and that might be why it's hard to move forward cuz you really don't want to go through

Natalia Chestythat same cycle 100% And if I'm being honest like i' I've been i' I've been in love before definitely but the thing is even now when I'm in love I still have

Ericahes have hesitation to even be with that person because I'm scared can I say something now this man that broke your heart every man after him is not going to be the same thing I L want to say his

Ericaname cuz I'm just like the feelings are getting but what I'm telling you is just because my guy ended things with me after 10 years does that does not mean like say q and I were to get in a

Ericarelationship for instance it doesn't mean that he is my ex so you can't sit there and block everything out because then you're never going to find 100% And I think that's the problem that I'm currently facing so so you admit that you're doing that currently that's why

Natalia Chestyyou you think that he knows that he knows that so that's why you're not in love we we spoke about that I don't think that's why I'm in love I think I'm just I just need someone to help me crack open my heart a littleit I think that you are protecting yourself yeah I think that's what it is too I think

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you're just protecting yourself and you learn you don't you don't live to just not know nothing like you live to learn maybe certain situations or relationships you were in too deep before they were and so you taking your time as much as you can because you know

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)how hard you love and that is okay to take your time and then once that happens and you're open and your to the point where you want to be with them fully and you're in love be that but it's okay to take your time and get to

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)know somebody cuz like you've been experienced men care too late women care too early so at the end of the day having emotional control is perfectly fine just don't take it out on him just

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)don't feel like you cannot explore Your Horizon no matter your circumstances and situation cuz everybody are grown up differently and experience differently and have different mindsets so as long as you continue to have your journey and

Natalia Chestybe open but still take your time mentally and physically you're good yeah I mean I don't take it out on him we' literally spoke about this we spoke about this a couple days ago cuz it just um you know it keeps coming back to me so I don't think I take it out on him I

Natalia Chestythink it's honestly Fair what we're doing the communication has has always been on the table which is actually why I'm still with him because I feel I have the trust to even talk about my feeling which is a big thing for women and men too as well so that's why I want to continue being with this guy so what

Natalia Chestydoes what does he say in response like how how is he oh he to like he's he's in shock like all of you guys like how can someone just leave you when your parent just passes away so he's very um I don't know how do you say like understanding

Natalia Chestyhe has compassion towards it and he said he wants to be with me during this time and he understands it's going to take time but that is the fight that he's willing to put up so okay okay and I'm willing to so is he reassuring through

Natalia Chestythat yeah he's reassuring and and I'm willing to to help break that fight with him by my side okay all right are you working on yourself at all to like fix girl my life is good yeah my life is

Natalia Chestylike good I have a job conentration I have my proud de relationship Dynamic feel like more safe to fall in love yeah he definitely put a huge safe space in the relationship which is why I

Angelabsolutely feel safe and comfortable in it okay yeah but like why don't you just call yourself friends until you're actually ready to get a relationship and then y'all could come back to it as like you know y'all both healed y'all both you know got over the trauma I mean I

Ericadon't want to go on a date with my friend who's just a friend he's more than a friend to me I mean what is the date though can I because I take my children on dates we go on mommy daughter dates and Mommy Sun dates and

Ericayou can date your best friend and go to the mall and go roller skating like cute you can date relationships come in all shapes forms and sizes you're in a relationship at work you're in a relationship right here with all of us

Ericalike and it's just like loving someone you can love everybody but being in love is different mhm so you can date

Natalia Chestyanybody um I guess I mean I I would yeah I mean I I see what you're saying but I don't think I kind of agree if I'm being honest no I just date men I don't think I can date my sister cuz do pled with

Ericayour kids so I'm a little confused on that yeah like I my my kid my daughter and I will go get our nails done it's a mommy daughter date my son and I will go to the pool together like we'll go to

Ericathe water park together um I go to the mall or go see a movie with my best G my best galow like not because we're not in love and having sex with each other but we're going on a movie date because we both want to see the same movie well

Natalia Chestythis guy is more than my friend so I don't I don't I don't see it's not fair for both of us to just call each other our friends we're more than that so it's the like you want the romance like date romance like you know I want I

Brian Atlaswant we we want the True Romance the heart but it's been a year I just don't understand why you guys aren't like dating Yeah well yeah I said why yeah thank you we have a chat here uh Q

Q (The Q Pill)can you read this yeah every new man is not your past every past man can never be new follow the path that is your lessons brought you through signs of the same exist then exit with haste but

Brian Atlasstart with benefits of doubt 100% thank you kill Cal appreciate it that's some Shakespeare [ __ ] dude thank you man thank you uh we're gonna do uh

Brian Atlaslet's see here hold on let me see one sec guys so is there do you have any suspicion as

Natalia Chestyto why your boyfriend uh ghosted you and dumped you uh I would say because honestly if I'm being honest I think his mother told me why his mother did tell me why um which was actually so crappy I

Natalia Chestythink you should have told me it was because after my mom passed away God Rest her beautiful soul um my dreams were coming true as a content creator so I actually started going viral for all of my videos which is actually which it

Natalia Chestywas a really weird time for me because my mom just passed away but my dreams literally and literally were starting to come true so I was continue to feeding my audience with the Positive content um

Natalia Chestybut obviously I was devastated inside but his mom would tell me what if he what if he passed away are you going to continue posting that kind of happy content so that that was the reason that his mother told me um I didn't think that was fair cuz I was I was

Natalia Chestycontemplated my mom passed away but my dreams were coming true so I wanted to continue doing my dream that's what my mom wanted me to do like why would I stop you know um no he was cheating on you okay 100% yeah well there are two

Natalia Chestytypes I mean his mom was just being nice I oh 100% I I I think one of the hardest parts was that I absolutely adore his mother absolutely adore all of his sisters so that was definitely the

Natalia Chestyhardest part of the breakup or the ghosting well was this an issue Pro uh prior to the breakup was you doing content creation an issue for him um he always kept saying I'm not insecure I'm

Natalia Chestynot jealous of all your attention but at the same time he complain that I have multiple guys in my DMs which I honestly would never um I I literally didn't at that time even though I did have attention but just men really wouldn't cuz my demographic would be towards like

Natalia Chestyyoung girls um and he would just be insecure about it I can tell I read the room and I read the vibe can I ask how old he is uh he was 3 years older 3 to four

Brian Atlasyeah I wonder if you know and it's obviously a terrible thing and a difficult thing to lose uh a parent yeah but it it occurs to me that perhaps in

Brian Atlasaddition to his uh his qualms with you doing content creation and the male attention he it was giving you or he thought he thought was giving you I

Brian Atlaswonder if he was just in the same way and I'm not saying that this is the right thing to do but if your significant well if your significant other for example got like a uh cancer

Brian Atlaslike terminal cancer and he just didn't want to he didn't have what it took to uh help you cope with the situation I'm not saying it's right but with the

Brian Atlaspassing of your mom it's certainly possible that you were grieving and uh that he perhaps just wanted to just not even be involved with oh yeah that sort of thing I'm not saying it's right no no

Natalia ChestyI know where your question's going 100% literally after he was ghosting me I genuinely thought the reason why he ghosted was because I didn't have a mom anymore cuz he was a Christian and he he is a Christian still so I thought he wanted to have a woman with two parents

Brian Atlasso I thought that was one of my reasons that's not really what I'm getting at it's more so I assume you were I mean to lose a parent is a very uh very difficult time I can imagine

Brian Atlasright I assume you were distraught and upset and justifiably so but perhaps he didn't want to deal with that be there for you and deal with that again not saying it's right but but that could be

Brian Atlashe ghosted me I don't know so were you uh I mean were you pretty uh bent out of shape what does that mean sorry well like were you pretty were you hysterical at all during the what does

Natalia Chestythat mean I'm so sorry what do you mean by hysterical you can be straight up I okay something about me if you go on please be straight up like out of your mind like

Natalia Chestyridiculously upset did you go into a hysteria depression were you depressed I mean my mom were you manic what do you mean exactly so basically I was not manic I honestly think I was crying

Natalia Chestynormally does that make sense you know what I mean I definitely was not having I wasn't hurting myself I wasn't hitting my I wasn't doing I wasn't running away I was in my room crying I think yeah I feel like since a lot of people have

Natalia Chestyhave not like okay Jason you're weird literally absolutely not I would never do that I agree gross wait what did I just miss what he asked if her mom dying was we're not reading it's below the

Natalia Chestythreshold we're not reading it whyever yeah it's okay it's okay anyways um SW yeah no I definitely was not having any manic episodes at all I think it was a fair amount I was just crying in my room

Brian Atlaswell anyways moving on uh for your pre-show notes last thing you had is it okay for a guy to have a girl best friend and you think it's not okay also you do believe it's necessary for a girl oh this is something else you believe

Brian Atlasit's necessary for a girl to know how to cook and a man can take care of necessary bills mhm correct do you know how to cook yes I do and your current guy does he uh take care of the bills we

Brian Atlasdon't live together okay when you fly to see him does he pay or do you pay he pays oh okay all right oh that that's fair if he's paying for the flight he's not

Ericapaying for the flight I Fly for Free oh that's right what yes okay so what does he that's right that's uh all the food like just the stuff D I have a question yeah are you going to pay for everything when he flies to

Natalia Chestysee you I mean um like I said before I can cook um um I'm definitely going to feed him 100% um thankfully I do have a lot of collabs with restaurants so I like to

Natalia Chestyjust take him out to those kind of restaurants um and just show him a good time I'm definitely going to be his little tourist attraction in New York so I'm excited for that okay

Brian Atlasum let's see we have Ellie we already kind of hit hit on your long-term thle relationship now you said that your dating life is a train train wreck how

Natalie (partial)so um I feel like that was a pretty train wreck situation itself anything else um let's see I guess leading up to it I was a chronic

Natalie (partial)ghaster for a bit chronic ghaster chronic so how that how would that look I did not know how to face my emotions so I was great at just if

Natalie (partial)something was undesirable I would say goodbye without saying goodbye and there we catch a block which you blocked them I would block yeah awful damn you know therapy did wonders but why' you block

Q (The Q Pill)him I don't know didn't like the way it was going just like oh you ghost to him I was a ghost oh no girl wait is this like in the early stages cuz this can't be like you talking for like a month no

Natalie (partial)this just give it okay this was probably seven years ago I'd say it was the ghosting era it would be 3 to four months in ghost three to four months in

Natalia Chesty3 to four months in and you ghost in without any communication that's not nice if someone has been ghosted that's not nice but I I understand why you I mean I don't know why did you ghost

Natalie (partial)actually just wasn't feeling yeah you say undesirable so you carry on a relationship or a talking stage for 3 four months and they not desirable well it wasn't it wasn't I mean it was

Natalie (partial)desirable until I didn't really dig the communication I was also receiving so I figured it wasn't too much to jump off the edge and just wasn't giving wasn't

Natalie (partial)getting do you feel like you like girls more yes yeah what these dudes us as ghosting dudes oh yeah no so I ghosted the girl and a guy oh okay both it's

Natalie (partial)Even Stevens but are you pully no I did have the poly relationship yes but right now absolutely not it maybe you're not poly but do you date multiple people

Brian Atlasat the same time uh no okay all right and then if you can think of any other train wrecks let us know going over to can I add

Natalia Chestysomething what's up I want you can totally say no I wanted to add to the other thing that you said about the girl best friend or we can go back to it uh we can touch on it really quick yeah I mean honestly I so I actually what I do

Natalia Chestyon social media I do do also do content for girls but I also expose men cheating um on my social media accounts but one of the things that I also do is ask girls or just touch on the topic like do you guys think it's okay for a guy to

Natalia Chestyhave a girl best friend actually yeah wait can we like go around yes or no just say yes here we'll start with you go around go ahead um yeah yes

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)no yeah yeah I don't know I never experienced that and as you should never if I'm being honest but I never experienced it but if it if it came already like I mean I I'm not I think

Background/Andrew feed artifactthat's okay okay maybe I think your partner should be your best friend period I believe that too no hell no no

EricaBrian I mean men don't okay wait can it goes both ways a man doesn't want to be with a woman that has a bunch of guy best

Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)friends damn 100% friends and they're just friends wait can we go wait because a lot of women are like this is my best friend this is my best friend no I'm saying what if they're not just like like let's say

Natalia Chestyyou're your significant other has just girlfriends they're not like best friend literally so many women ask me the same question multiple times but if you guys clearly heard I said girl best friend

Ericaguys can have so many friends girl or guy I don't care but if you put the title best friend I ask a question when you're in a relationship do you believe that you should have friends that are

Natalia Chestysingle I don't think that matters it does matter it does matter because if you go exactly they 100% influence you I've never ever ever had that happen to my life like where it influenced me but

Natalia Chestymaybe because I have a strong mind of my own so maybe maybe they're easily influenced maybe it's up to the person who consumed that opinion I've had multiple single questions I agree I think that I think that everybody is obligated to do what they want to do

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)with they life it shouldn't determine what you want to do with yours you feel me like okay I could be the only one out the friend group that has a boyfriend and all my friends single what does that have to do with me exactly I think feel like when it has when I if I have a

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)boyfriend he has a girl best friend and it already happened before we met I mean I have no nothing to respect that until I get disrespected you feel me like it's a trust situation like I feel like that's where control and everything

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)comes into play and that's why a lot of relationships don't work out yall too controlling like just relax if that person is not for you when they have other situations going on behind your back don't let it don't don't beat the don't beat it just let it happen if it's

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)if if they cheat on you with they boy best friend girl best friend they were supposed to do that so God can you can be with I mean so you could be you know single and do what you got to do like don't sit there and just let it I don't know I feel like a lot of uh

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)relationships don't last when you try to control it too much control I mean it's not controlling if you want to make sure you're significant at the end of the day people should respect your boundaries like if I don't think that a boy best friend or a girl best friend is okay

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)then yeah that's not okay but like if it already comes with it then it's just like okay let's see how that works works out and if it doesn't work out for you you walk away can I have your opinion please yeah oh I want to hear from a

Q (The Q Pill)guy's perspective I was about to say um like I had a situation like that with the last girl I was dating she had a a guy best friend oh God I'm so sorry and but I I had to dead it cuz I don't I don't trust that I I had to Deb it like

Q (The Q Pill)I told her and yeah yeah I had to Deb that I told her um because like when we' been hanging out he would be trying to FaceTime her and stuff like that and she and it would piss me off and she was like nah I don't see him like that and I said but he see you like that and she

Q (The Q Pill)said he don't see me like that he told me he don't like me I said what man do you think wants to FaceTime you sit there look at your face talk on the phone with you just all the time consistently I mean all the time is different yeah I know that's all the

Q (The Q Pill)time 100% but I think like I said I think girls and guys can be friends but not best friend I don't I don't believe that I think that's outlying exceptions I don't yeah I don't

Q (The Q Pill)I don't believe in general that men and women can be friends so you don't think you and I can be friends at us wanting to [ __ ] each other yeah want [ __ ] yeah exactly and I'm saying that because it's it's it's subconscious so every time a

Q (The Q Pill)guy is around you everything he does he's talking to you he's being involved with you there's an element of Attraction there there there's some degree of Attraction there that's compelling him to even want to engage with you interact with you to begin with

Ericathere can I add to what you just said but that's when you walk away you think that men only want to be friends with you because men don't want to just be

Ericafriends men have yes it is no I guarantee you hold on let me finish I guarantee you your male friends have already thought about how naked you look

Light Brigh (partial)in bed guarantee you it but I think you have me personally unless they're gay I have a guy best friend me personally and he's like my brother we don't look at each other like that we've never been intimate with each other

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)ever like this the guy that I I think it's a maturity level and that's okay it's a maturity level some everybody has experience we should do we should do a little experiment here who here has a

Brian Atlasmale friend uhhuh I have a male friend male friend I have who here has a single male friend are they single sing all right here's what we do single we're going to give you guys back your cell

Brian Atlasphones you're going to text your male friend who's single preferably straight and you're going to be say something along the lines of I'm I'm hoping you they know that you're not like on the [ __ ] podcast right now

Brian Atlasyou're going to text them and say I don't know where what what are they Tex if I like you angling you're going to text him you're angling for the hookup if if if I had say say say if I told you I like you what would you say I

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)had cuz I got no single M friends all my homies you know they they' hit no I'm saying all my homies got they hit it I guarantee you they I'm saying all my homies got situations that's what I'm

Brian Atlassaying you got situations no all of my homies got situations I would totally do that I'm confident my guy friend will pass it like it just puts things it makes it complicated it makes it a little complicated if you're in a

Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)relationship no it makes very weird if you guys are actually friends and you guys you just be like siblings he just want to see if he suggestion you don't have to do it you don't who's willing to

Brian Atlasdo it I'm will I'm willing got pick your favorite boom pick your favorite one these two all four of you can do it uh let's give them phones uh here I'll put

Ericathe camera over here uh boom uh get your phones if you're going to do it and we'll get that going in just a sec here oh I thought it was mine just got

Brian Atlasturned on real fast she's trying to get her phone out of that one y do you need yours no who's got the [ __ ] Gengar Pokemon card is their back yeah that's me Bas

Brian Atlasthat's great I think it was Gengar right yeah it was that's my favorite can I put no you no don't don't [ __ ] show the [ __ ] oh my God you guys just don't show the camera your phones please

Natalia Chestythere's like oh my bad um do you want well it's not for that but what's up do you want to tell me word for word what to say or what are we going to say if I was to tell you I like you what would you say back and are we do you want me

Q (The Q Pill)to okay so I guess I'm not showing so how are we showing it to the audience just so I'm aware I I'm trying to think the best I take a scen no you can just tell hey question for you have you ever thought about hooking up with me what I

Brian Atlasalready asking questions too I don't know that's I think it should be something along the lines of uh if I was to tell you I like to what you said that's what they said

Brian Atlasfirst yeah it can't be like too direct but it can't be too indirect either right I'm trying to see if the chat has

Brian Atlasany uh any ideas invite him over to watch Netflix and drink wine or would you come in Netflix and chill with it would you be down to cuddle is that no

Ericawait okay honestly Brian whatever you can you guys can decide and I can do it you guys don't keep your phone facing you sorry Brian so if I was to say would you if I I I'm texting would you be down

Q (The Q Pill)to Netflix and chill with me is that good because everybody knows that about right everybody knows what it means have you ever thought about Hulu and have you ever thought about being more or has the thought of ever be has

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)the thought of being more ever crossed your mind yeah thank you that sound a little more better has the thought of ever being more has has the thought of being more yeah has the thought of being more ever crossed your

Q (The Q Pill)M want to come over that works too want to come over want to come over want to come over so I did both back to back you can text multiple Friends by

Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)the way if you have more than one friend that just some chaos okay so go ahead go ahead going passo

Brian Atlaschat give us some ideas here chat what should they text the male friend that's not too direct not too indirect it has to be clear that they're making some sort of romantic or sexual

Brian AtlasOverture guys go to twitch.tv/ whatever drops follow drops Prime sub if you have one Speaking of guys if you want get your ttss in while we're letting the girls do that I'm going to pull up

Brian Atlaswe have a chat here K mfu question for the panel does a higher level of Education lead to better decision making in relationships and is that why some lead to sex work due to lack of emotional and intellectual

Brian Atlasability also just to heads up guys for the reads in TTS we can only do one question per does a high higher level of Education lead to better decision- making in relationships I don't

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)necessarily think so it depends on what you studying for real cuz uh come on now you studying I study psychology exactly the

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)mind so I feel like you have a better chance of you know obligating or you know seeing what you really want to be with because of the mind yeah that's what I said it's hard it make it more difficult for me it make it more difficult I was actually into psychology

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)so I understand yeah make it more yeah I don't think school got nothing to do with relationships at all I agree I agree I think it's experience wait can you repeat that last statement I'm sorry the last thing you just said what I said

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you don't think school was I don't think school got nothing to do with um oh I don't think school has anything to do with experience what do you guys think of that is that a decent one I don't

Brian Atlasknow I think that's PR have you ever thought about us I I like that yeah if you guys haven't sent yet this is a good one pull that one back up I can we

Ellie/Vera (mixed)answer our questions now hold wait what's up she got an answer I got an answer okay we'll start with you what's your answer hide that there so I

Ellie/Vera (mixed)texted him my my guy friend who lives actually not far from me in New York um I asked I said if if I asked you to come over tonight and Netflix and chill would you and he said hey I have work tomorrow

Ellie/Vera (mixed)I finally got a new job but I will for sure maybe next weekend if you'd like there you go there you go wait wait wait wait wait got you

Brian Atlas[ __ ] there you go look look we trying to tell you we we guys let's what about what about you wait into the mic call wait don't pick up don't Pi up he calling no no because I called cuz I was

Light Brigh (partial)trying to get hurry up so I asked what you asked first if I was to tell you I like you what would you say he said I would say I don't want to mess up our friendship okay okay fair

Brian AtlasI got I got a response what what about you I said I said exceptions thought of being more than hello into the microphone I said has the thought uh ever crossed your mind to be more than friends and he said most

Angeldefinitely yes this why I don't have guy friends it's just it's just too much wait can you repat what you should I'm sorry I said has the thought has the thought of

Ericabeing more than just friends ever crossed your mind and he said yes most definitely um I was thinking of honestly just calling we can't do that oh we can't do that because he's not a good

Natalie (partial)textor but I can do it um he got some what do I text so I literally watched her you haven't sent the text yet I literally watched her say I'm going to test you so she's kind of irrelevant

Brian Atlasyeah yeah you just you just you literally just ruined the that's crazy I'm giving myself the RW pass here that's [ __ ] [ __ ] okay that's

Natalia Chesty[ __ ] [ __ ] dude I'm lost was she the one who was the one who wanted to do this I did not do that I will you are a baby it's okay

Natalia ChestyI don't think you kind of got it I deny all accusations I'm actually very confused right now she said iar you seem confused a little bit you told him I'm

Brian Atlastesting you literally alls in all you're denying that wait she says that she was watching you text and you

Ericasaid BTW I'm text or testing you right now and I but she also texted the person that she sent the link to so I text I texted two of my friends that doesn't

Ericaknow that I'm on here oh all of my know that I'm podcast honly God that's the first said they stitching you got to be honest about the experiment I'm sorry I'm

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)sorry y'all done seen it all cuz wait how yall see all that girl you crazy texting a man it's awesome I deny all accusations I actually have no idea what you guys are talking about sheing the

Q (The Q Pill)but but but for reference they actually did a major study on this as well they they actually did a study on this as well for guy friends and girlfriends and what they found was that most of the guys were romantically interested in the

Q (The Q Pill)women that they that they were friends with and what it is is women can be friends because women aren't as sexually motivated as men are so women automatically project how they feel if

Q (The Q Pill)there's an absence of sexual attraction they assume that the guy has an absence of SE sexual attraction as well when in reality men think completely differently so they took them in closed uh rooms and asked them how they really feel about

Q (The Q Pill)their other signific and other and the men all confessed that they had feelings and the women said that they didn't have feelings they actually conducted a real study on this wait where the hell was

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)the study dude in Psychology um that's crazy I feel like there's research for all of this stuff real quick um just to like conversate with you for a second um if that's okay

Light Brigh (partial)Brian wait are you sending another text or oh no no no no uh we can collect the phones again no I was I was sending the podcast to my friends he said take the phones now

Brian Atlasto if you guys can pass your phones back down this way so it's easier for just just pass them this way to her can you guys pass it down please can you guys

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)pass it down take my off Brian is funny what you're just funny take take the take that [ __ ] back I just

Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)had to take my daughter off emergency bypass cuz it'll go off like crazy what was that did something fall no no my uh water bottle is at my feet

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)good for men and women to be friends wait can you repeat that sorry yeah I think it's good for men and women to be friends no I think it's healthy honesty for men and women to be friends 100 girl y'all get in the room by yourself and

Natalia Chestyone little good song play and the B right no it don't but I mean like can we talk I'm not talking well wait but can we talk about how like men and women

Natalia Chestylike they they're naturally born to be attractive to one another but it's just like we it's it's possible to have a friendship but like it's a matter of will you do it are you actually willing

Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)to do it I think it's it's perfectly you going to do it and be ashamed of it and just text each other like we should never that's why you don't do it but exactly but that's what I'm saying but

Natalia Chestynot guys would not do it but I think it's normal because physically and we're just born to be attracted to men and men are attracted to women can I say something oh that's a good men are

Ericaliterally only your friend to get in your pants I don't believe that in certain situations 100% what you experience I like I said I girl are you traumatized I don't want to I don't know

Natalia ChestyI don't know if you guys want to bring religion into this but I've been in I've been to church like guys 100% like there there are guys with good intentions in general do mean that's thinking though

Ericaexactly can I we're going to bring religion into this can I say something talk about religion she just brought religion to it so can I just just please tell you what happens into the church every single day

Brian Atlasput your foot down please no we can talk about religion religion no no no an no anti we don't want we don't want what do you mean ministers cheating

Natalia Chestyon their wives okay but who says that that when you get into a religion that people are perfect I'm very confused on that like actually you just said guys are you just said guys in religion but

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