Single Mom Wants 6ft Man Who Makes $500k?! She INSULTS Brian?! Andrew Wilson! | Dating Talk #166

Date: 2024-06-03
Duration: 6h 53m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00Andrew Wilson (virtual)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Natalia Chesty(guest)
SPEAKER_04Natalie (partial)(guest)
SPEAKER_05Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_09Q (The Q Pill)(guest)
SPEAKER_10Erica(guest)
SPEAKER_11Ellie/Vera (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Angel(guest)
SPEAKER_13Light Brigh (partial)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)(guest)

Key Moments

00:04:54
QuoteNatalia Chesty criticizes Brian for not greeting guests

Natalia says: 'I wouldn't date him because I didn't like his character — he didn't say hi to all of us.' Brian responds he was busy setting up the show.

00:12:00
OtherBoss Lady's rap song played and reacted to

Brian plays Boss Lady's rap song 'Touch Your Toes With It' from Instagram (~30 seconds); Boss Lady explains the lyrics ('touch your toes = bend over/twerk'). Panel reacts. Discussion of her music career as rapper from Watts.

00:34:30
QuoteVera's ex transitioned during their relationship

Vera discloses her 3-year relationship: ex began wearing skirts, identifying as femboy, going after men. He was unemployed; she paid all bills. She ended the relationship; he now lives in Wisconsin with a fiancee who 'hexes Furbies.'

01:04:00
ControversyAndrew Wilson calls Natalia's complaint 'spoiled brat behavior'

Andrew Wilson (virtual) tells Natalia: 'What I call that is spoiled brat behavior... you want everything to stop so people can acknowledge how wonderful you are.' Natalia responds. Extended 10-minute debate.

01:17:45
QuoteNatalia's mother passed from COVID; boyfriend ghosted two weeks later

Natalia shares: boyfriend of 2 years ghosted her while her mother was dying of COVID, then two weeks later posted on Facebook with a new engaged girlfriend. Panel debates whether this is 'trauma' per clinical definition.

03:54:20
ControversyAndrew debates Erica on cuck relationships and self-respect

Andrew tells Erica directly: 'No self-respecting man who loves their woman would allow their chick to be plowed by other dudes.' Erica explains the context of her 10-year relationship and her motivations.

03:55:03
OtherErica discloses rape by son's biological father

Erica (37) discloses: 'My son's father raped me and tried to kill me.' States he has never been in her son's life and she ran away. Andrew responds with empathy and then redirects the conversation.

04:53:56
QuoteVera states $500k income requirement

Vera (25, NYC, 3 kids, escort): 'Annually, $500k.' Brian responds: 'You realize that's 1%?' Debate ensues with Brian, Q, and later Andrew Wilson.

04:55:05
Key MomentBrian questions Vera's unrealistic standards

Brian: 'Do you think a guy who makes $500,000 minimum is interested in dating a sex worker/escort with three children?' Vera: 'No... definitely not... but shouldn't you adjust your standards?' — 'I don't want to be with somebody [who doesn't meet them].'

04:56:38
QuoteAndrew cites IRS data on $500k earners

Andrew Wilson: 'According to the Internal Revenue Service, less than 1% of all tax filers reported an adjusted gross income exceeding $500,000.' Vera: 'Well that’s on them.'

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Guest introductions and announcements

Vigil for 'Blessed/Weed Jesus' (community member who passed away). All guests introduce themselves: name, age, location, occupation. Followed by pronoun/identity questions, content type, and escorting background questions.

00:22:20
Relationship status and background

Round-robin: single/situationship/relationship status, longest relationships, recent breakups. Deep dive into Vera's ex transitioning, Angel's ex not contributing, Natalia's thruple, Erica's 10-year relationship.

01:03:00
Brian not greeting guests / Natalia insults Brian

Natalia Chesty says she wouldn't date Brian because he didn't greet guests on arrival. Brian and Natalia debate whether this was rude. Panel takes sides. Continued with Andrew Wilson at ~178-185min where Andrew calls it 'spoiled brat behavior.'

01:16:00
Trauma discussion

Natalia shares breakup/ghosting story tied to mother's COVID death. Q and others debate clinical definition of trauma vs. emotional damage. Erica shares childhood trauma from witnessing loud aggressive men. Distinction between heartbreak and trauma.

01:16:00
Racial preferences in dating

Chat question about racial dating preferences. Responses: Angel: no preference; Erica: Latinos; others: no preference or white boys. Separate chat question about why Black women and Asian men are statistically least desired in dating marketplace.

01:36:00
Train wrecks / bad date stories

Guests share past relationship train wrecks and bad dates. Includes Erica's ex-boyfriend ending 10-year relationship via text; Vera's 3-year thruple with an engaged lesbian couple.

02:52:00
Andrew Wilson joins / insults response

Andrew Wilson joins virtually (~172min). Brian summarizes panelists. Andrew debates Natalia on greeting/entitlement topic, calling her behavior 'spoiled brat.' Natalia defends position. Q and Erica moderate.

03:24:00
Self-ratings round

Stiffler TTS prompts everyone to rate their looks 1-10. Back-and-forth on objectivity of beauty ratings vs. subjective self-perception. Andrew and Brian gave lower ratings (4 and 5 respectively). Two guests claimed 10. Discussion of aging and whether women are better looking at 30+ vs now.

03:58:00
Tweet reactions

Brian pulls up tweets for panel reaction: 'men these days want to be pampered for doing the bare minimum,' 'if you're going to DM me wanting to be my man, pay my bills,' and others. Leads into greater male variability theory (IQ distribution curves), hypergamy, and biology discussions.

04:10:00
Body count round

Captain Army $200 TTS asks body counts. Angel ~60, Vera 16, unknown 44, Erica 13 men+17 women+100+ total (including non-consensual). Natalia: no comment. Erica discloses rape by son's father. Discussion of whether body count disqualifies marriage potential.

04:36:00
Democracy and voting rights debate

Andrew Wilson and SPEAKER_05 (Tara, Canadian) debate democracy, voting age, whether women should vote, and government effectiveness. Tara defends universal suffrage; Andrew challenges justification for democracy over monarchy.

04:53:20
Single mom 500k debate

Vera states she requires partner earning $500k/year and 6ft+ height. Brian, Q, and Andrew debate feasibility (IRS data: <1% earn $500k). Vera reduces to $300k. Race preference: Latino. Discussion of what a $500k man would actually expect from a partner. Vera insists such men exist who won't care about her past.

05:44:00
Hypergamy, makeup, and beauty standards debate

Extended debate between Andrew Wilson and SPEAKER_05 (Tara/Light Brigh) on hypergamy origins, makeup as deceptive (Brian: 'makeup is functional equivalent of a McDonald's worker claiming to be a lawyer'), evolutionary basis of attraction. Andrew and Erica debate historical beauty standards and hygiene.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasthemselves it's come to my attention that someone dear to the Sant Barbara Community has uh has unfortunately passed away recently uh I don't know if
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Brian Atlasyou guys are familiar back in the OG whatever days we had a pretty viral moment with one we Jesus now you maybe saw this that's me
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Brian Atlasthis is like 10 years old at this point fortunately his name's bless the Asian we Jesus back there Nick go ahead and play it just to and you might be able to zoom in one
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Brian Atlaspotentially yeah there you go okay can you click that thing to hide the Nick I you probably click there okay
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Brian Atlasthen you know boom scroll down just to lower it yeah that's fine and uh we can't play the audio because we'll get a probably get a copyright strike here on YouTube but
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Brian Atlasthis clip went viral almost a decade ago I think it's actually been exactly a decade in any case uh super viral moment this guy is a staple of the Santa
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Brian AtlasBarbara Community he's you'll always spot him he gives people free I'm not a fan of uh marijuana but he just give him free [ __ ] uh apparently he's extremely wealthy his name was blessed at least
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Brian Atlasthat's his what he went by unfortunately recently he passed away so we got a candle here wanted to do a little vigil for blessed uh so rest in peace rest
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Brian Atlasright rest in peace blessed yeah there you go rest rest in peace um anyways so with that said without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce
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Angelthemselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead okay um my name is Angel I'm 23 um I'm from Virginia and I'm a I guess sex worker SL content creator so
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Brian Atlaswhen you you say sex work or what do you mean like fley Twitter you do you do like o or uh fley it's kind of like o okay yeah and do you do solo content BG
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Brian Atlascontent what are we talking about uh rated R like boy girl girl boy girl BB G mhm bbbbb G no no that's too much okay and have you done escorting too I did a
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Angelcouple times when I was 18 but I didn't I didn't like it so you didn't like it and and so let's see what else uh no I think that's it all right what about you
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)uh my name is Ellie I'm 25 I'm from Santa Barbara and I am a nanny right now all right welcome I am Vera um I'm 25 years old I
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)am from New York City and I'm a content creator too um I make a boy girl content on Twitter mhm basic just on Twitter uh
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Brian AtlasTwitter loyal fans um um stuff like that yeah okay and you're also in a forensic scientist yes I am a majoring in
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Brian Atlasforensics right now I'm trying to get my masters okay and um hold on one sec uh you also do escorting is that correct
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TTS/Chat readeryes sir okay how long have you been doing that um big laia AI disrespect donated $69 like this
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Brian Atlasokay comes back like this that's what's up all right big ladyy Audi I don't like the name but uh thank you for that uh and you so you do
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Brian Atlasescorting yes how long how long have you been doing that uh six years okay and then you're so what what does it mean to escort
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)I mean uh I'm guess I just charge for time I guess you know I mean that's all I can really say about that and people are able to like book you through a website
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)or uh yeah something like that or they just do it directly through DM how many clients would you say you see per week I know how much per month but per week every couple weeks if you Wantage one at
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Natalia Chestya time like I maybe one or two I'm very like picky do you sleep with them too sometimes wa what does escorting mean
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Natalia ChestyI'm so sorry it's kind like SE work basically full service I'm sorry full service like sex work oh yeah like prostitution interesting never heard of
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Brian Atlasa nice way to say or strumpet Nick you got the strumpet where's the strumpet show us the strumpet Nick
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Brian Atlasescorting repop poiz the term strumpet there is she's in a video game ooh um she made a cameo wait go ahead I thought escorting meant waitressing no wait what
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Natalia ChestyI've never heard of that word before actually wait you you're not familiar with the I've never heard of that word in my life like ginly like actually it's okay wait so but but you said you thought it wasting cuz it sounds like
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)something like a restaurant I don't know yeah yeah it's supposed to be well there's another version of it likeing people in my cars that's like Hotel like Hospitality low key now I was it's
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Brian Atlashospitality for sure yeah Oho now do some of you for those of you who have actually wait I'm going to come back to you really quick uh some of you included
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)pronouns in your Instagram bio what are your pronouns um she her she her she her they them they them do you ever go by she or you just prefer I do sometimes but I mean I know some people don't
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)really understand the whole you know pronounce thing so it's like I can't tell them what to do so you're not are you non-binary or yes okay do you have like a more specific because I know
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)there's different categorizations no it's good you can just she her they them it's whatever they them okay yeah all right and there was
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Brian Atlasuh some some people seem to I I don't know if this was on Twitter we did a little Twitter background here and you you're or no this is actually just in
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)your Instagram you say you're East Asian yes I am white and Asian my dad is Asian my mom is white and your dad's like he's uh like 50 or 50% 100% Korean no he
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)actually yes he is Korean he's 100% Korean okay were you were you born I look just straight like my mom were you born here or in um I was born in South Korea I moved to Alabama when I was four
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)and then I moved to Atlanta when I was 13 and after that I moved to New York City when I was 18 okay do you speak uh Korean no not at all wait so you moved when you when you were three is that
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Brian Atlaswhat you said four you moved okay was your mom in the military no South Korea is a no she just went to go visit basically wait your so your dad's the Korean one your mom's the white one yeah
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)she's just for him good for him okay uh did you ever get questions on
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Brian Atlasthat a lot actually very very often cuz um yeah you're uh pretty white you got blue eyes what's your natural hair color
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)I'm actually a red head cuz she's a red head I look nothing like him and was crazy other than like nose eye shape and like lips in general like he has no lips
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)do your parents know what you do yes okay both of them my whole family does what do they think of it they don't care they say I'm 25 I'm grown huh Fat
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TTS/Chat readerBastard glavius donated $69 glavius get in my belly I want my baby back baby back baby back baby back baby back ribs
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Light Brigh (partial)going thank you uh okay what about you oh hey y'all I'm light brigh I'm in my early 20s I'm a behavioral therapist SL content creator and yeah I go up when
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Brian Atlasyou say early when you say early 20s can we get a specific age all right y I'm 25 I just turned 25 in we go okay some mid 20s okay you're an Aries yeah okay um
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Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)and so you're where you from um I'm from La La what part Los Angeles what part like South La South La
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)okay my name is taram 23 I'm a freelancer and I'm from Ontario Canada yes welcome what about you what's up my
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)name boss lady I'm from watts and I'm 24 I wasn't even going to say my my age for real I was going to say 20 something 20 something okay but yeah um I'm an
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Brian Atlasartist artist yeah you do uh you're a rapper right we should react can we react to one of your rap videos yeah I can show I think Nick so if you go to
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Brian Atlasher Instagram we'll be able to find is it it's just linked right in your Instagram right yeah the link right in my bio or Nick I I'll try to find it actually let me see if I can find it I got it and so
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Brian Atlasyou're from uh Watts California that's is that South La what Central Central okay uh Nick we're going to and it's cool if we yeah no problem cuz I don't know sometimes there's like copyright
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)stuff or whatever for sure yeah the song that's in my bio is our intro song me and my best friend we just dropped it we'll listen to 30 seconds of it Nick I put it in the private chat uh and then did you say what you uh do for work she
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Light Brigh (partial)a behavioral I'm a behavioral therapist content creator model gotcha and what do you um for Content creation what are you doing um so on Tik Tok I like dance and do like dance challenges no only fans
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TTS/Chat readerthough right no only fans and on Instagram I strictly mod fashion that thing all right got oh Val donated $69.69 screw young and fertile cool
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TTS/Chat readerthink he meant terara oh cuz she's from Canada oh okay are you trying to start a family Fat Bastard glavius donated
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TTS/Chat reader$69 get in my belly I want my baby back baby back baby back baby back baby back ribs I want my baby back baby back baby back baby back baby back
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TTS/Chat readerbig laia AE disrespect donated $69 again my springler goes like
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Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)this yeah you dance like this that's what it sounds that's good did you want respond to the you trying to start family cuz you call you mommy
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Ericawith somebody who calls me young and fertile okay yeah all right good to know good to know uh what about you me yeah um my name is Erica I was originally
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Ericaborn in California but I'm a military brat and grew up all over I am 37 years old and I'm a cosmetologist and an independent contractor okay so what I do
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Ericafor independent Contracting is I travel trade shows and Fa fairs and I sell eyebrows you sell eyebrows I sell
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Ericaeyebrows I love that like you do tint no it's um a 24-hour brow powder that stays on without sweating smearing and smudging and I beg women I don't really beg them I just say hey let me show you
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Ericaa easier and better way cuz what you're doing is not good did you create this no I work for a company all right the video you have the video yeah you want it yeah we we'll play like
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)there yeah what's that wait that's my neighborhood right there okay drink
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Brian Atlason good time fun time oh you're in it too yeah okay it's it's it's your boy DJ it's my best friend right here let's
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)touch your toes when you you feel me like you hearing that be bend over shake your assou your toes with it what what is with it with it like
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Brian Atlaslittle Freestyle right now what do you think oh wait hold on one sec there's another one coming in but then we'll get a little get a little freestyle uh okay thank you crab 90 nice
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Brian Atlasat the uh relationship status part so uh do would they D me okay um oh freestyle let's hear freestyle real quick yeah do we can somebody give her I I I'm
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Brian Atlasexpecting now were you doing sign language during that video I'm crying like are you are you like a death do you are you familiar with no we throwing up our neighborhood what's that we throwing
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Brian Atlasup our neighborhood what's that do sline oh okay so like a piece but you put your thumb up okay okay yeah sorry I listen to Pearl Jam so I don't I don't know about okay oh let's let's get a
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)freestyle really Quicky Frey how about we give you a topic or [ __ ] no no she's got this do a beat do a beat do a beat do a beat or something
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Natalie (partial)back to oh okay what about you oh hi I'm Natalie um I'm 23 from Virginia and I a mental health case manager all right
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Natalia Chestywelcome what about you hi hi my name is Natalia chesty I'm 23 years old I'm from New York and I'm a content creator and also a salsa dancer salsa dancer okay
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TTS/Chat readerall right Ballroom dancer hey oh oh 6,969 blah blah blah 69 donated $69 here's a
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)lie I love how the voice just kind of tried though we tried tried tried uh do you want to do it to that beat or do you need something better uh
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)better we need something better you need something better better you want to go to instrumental I mean somebody can drop a different beat do I aella girl come on
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)girl do I look like a singer she a ra I'm a little you know I'm a little I could sing a little bit but I don't be doing too much y heard me earlier you me
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Natalia Chestylike it can oh my goodness you got it do it drop it how about rap your song and then you like like continue it with freestyle
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Q (The Q Pill)that's what you want me to do yeah go ahead girl y'all so ready I'm not going to do that [ __ ] Q what about you um the Q pill 31
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Brian Atlasbehavioral scientist certified relationship coach YouTuber influencer author all right good to have you back man so we're going to go around the table once more what is everybody's
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Brian Atlascurrent relationship status so are you single situationship relationship talking stage Friends with Benefits relationship married polyle sex Cults whatever it may be Harum if you're
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Angelsingle how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead um I'm single and um actually it's very fresh not going to lie maybe like a couple
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Brian Atlasdays and um what was the last question sorry uh longest relationship uh I say about over two years a little over two years two years okay and the most recent
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Brian Atlasrelationship you said 3 days something ended uh how long was that relationship it was my the two years it was the twoyear one have you well have you guys been on and off again no we was Inseparable from the first
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Angelmoment that we okay so this is it's over over yeah okay who ended it I did why um I was taking care of the bills I was taking care of the kids and I was just over it oh do you do you have kids with
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TTS/Chat readerthe guy or okay so he's the he's the biof father of my youngest yes of your youngest uh okay GMD gy donated
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)it's a movie okay all right get my like a menace yeah they talking about N I know that's right they don't want to go peep the video it's cool they drinking
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Brian Atlason that you know that drink so you have how many kids just two just two yeah so and so uh the most the oldest one is a different dad different dad and your
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Angelyoungest is with the guy you were dating as of 3 days ago yes you were dating him for 2 years but you guys split up yeah okay and uh why did you break up again because I was taking care of like the
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TTS/Chat readerbills the house the kids everything so yeah got it 6,969 blah blah blah 69 donated
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TTS/Chat reader$69 hey hey that's not fair give that horse back its hair Brian with all these hair hats on the panel there's a bald ass horse out there somewhere freezing it's us S I know sum it's summertime
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Brian Atlasright now so it's probably temperature wise the horse is probably doing fine thank you though appreciate it uhoh Nikelodeon donated $69 she can't come up with two bars on
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TTS/Chat readerthe spot don't tell me you actually paid a ghost writer for that [ __ ] only thing you should be rapping is your career unfortunately baby I do what I want and I do what I please okay just
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)like that two bars and I keep on sending that dough so you could keep talking more [ __ ] though thank you that kind
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)of take that like back toid back the come cheers to that me all right eat me and so but you do you do
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Brian Atlascontent right yeah so like your partner were you shooting content with him yes and but you weren't were you shooting stuff with other men too or just I know yeah consider cheating so LOL paladins
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Brian Atlasdonated $69 o with that many baby daddi she's halfway to Rachel Wilson speaking of speaking of the Wilson uh we're Andrew I think might do
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Brian Atlasuh we might call in the reinforcements he might uh do L Callin later on during the show so stay tuned for that okay so uh were you guys living together yes
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Angelstill living together yeah has there been a rebound no no rebound yet three days [ __ ] I mean in order to get over theb you have to get under the next I'm not I'm not like the
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Q (The Q Pill)long time I'm I'm I'm just saying they just broke up and they living in the same house so that's kind of I'm not like that though like I'm I'm ready just heal and move on she's wholesome there you go yeah
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Q (The Q Pill)wholesome do you think he already moved on from you uh no definitely not really you never going to get over me too never mind I take my wholesome remark back oh
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Natalie (partial)[ __ ] okay uh what about you um I am in the talking stage okay right now talking stage talking stage um longest
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Brian Atlasrelationship was probably three and a half years three and a half years I would say yes all right was the last bit of that so you're currently in the talking stage how long
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Brian Atlashave you been talking to this individual fairly fresh it's about a month in Fairly fresh in your pre-show notes you said you promise that you have a train wreck of a dating life to talk about
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Brian Atlassure do you said uh well your relationship status you you said you're single but dating around so that's I'm assuming since then it's now
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TTS/Chat readerin the talking stage yes ratchet hood rats donated $69 you let him hit it raw you didn't have second thought now you're a single
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TTS/Chat readermom now you're a single mom you said I'm have his kids don't care if he's here or not now you're a single mom I my I take care of my kids
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Brian AtlasMatters by the way the TTS is going to roast everybody on the panel don't take it personally uh thank you man appreciate it uh so you're in a talking stage is it with a uh what's your
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TTS/Chat readerorientation uh labia lives matter donated $69 hey Brian love the podcast question for everyone on the panel who would date
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TTS/Chat readera man/ women who works a blue collar 50 plus hours a week nowadays people think 200 k a year is average and that is false okay so who on the panel would
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Brian Atlasdate a man or I suppose woman who works a blue collar 50 plus hour week job just show of hands what's what's blue collar
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Ericaum so blue collar is construction workers cops EMTs First Responders military men men that actually work with their hands that's why wouldn't I of
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Brian Atlascourse I would okay there you go all right job orientation um bisexual by okay now you said that you accidentally got into a long-term thruple
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Brian Atlasrelationship after a blacked out hookup with two engaged women absolutely girly so it was a so they were a lesbian couple I'm assuming yes and they were
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Brian Atlasengaged to get married pretty much and then it became a three-way threple yep how long did you date them that was the three and 1/2 years that was the three
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Ericaand oh [ __ ] okay can I ask a question are they still engaged or married now everything you ruined whole the home record
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)damn they wanted you though that's their fault B thank you how does that work you no she didn't ruin it they wanted to explore their options and they got blazed ruin how does that work doesn't
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Natalia Chestysomeone get jealous when if you're insecure yes but if you're pretty I don't consider that insecurity I consider that literally normal somebody got Bor you're sharing your partner
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)somebody got bored and said no we need her they invited her she was getting all the shine and it corrupted everything yeah that's not her fault the basic sum
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Brian Atlasof it they invited her that's crazy are you currently at the talking stage is it a man or a woman it is a woman is a woman have you said
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TTS/Chat readeryou're bye so have you you've dated some men psycho donated $69 I'll start off the Brian roast and say you are a strange kind of freak for
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)being into wizard sleeves I only date women with audies what is Wizard sleeves like a big labia oh aies
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Brian AtlasI'm why you disturbed I don't no no none of that but he look women have penis size preferences I got labor
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)preference right that's so you like Audi belly buttons no what click lips it's the lips oh he like what
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Brian Atlashe like period there you go thank you for the cosign there right you're you date women do you have a preference no on any zies no you don't have a preference I don't
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Ericayoui okay all right most girls that take steroids they have ster that's why I'm trying to find me a bodybuilder bro I'm trying to date like a St you what I mean like stair Wars for real yeah that makes
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Brian Atlasthe clip big I think it makes it it makes it hang out like a penis why do you I'll I'll the big girl too [ __ ] sign me up okay anyways moving on uh so you've dated some men in to okay but
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)currently you're in a talking stage with a woman yes all right what about you I'm single technically Tech I'm in the talking stage kind of is situationship
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)thing going on um I was married to a trick actually for 3 years [Music] a man who pays girls basically a what a
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)what a pimp is that outside not a pimp not a pimp no like I mean it don't have to be a doesn't have to be that though it can be like just a man who pays like
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Ericaa pimp doesn't pay so it's a sugar diet doesn't he pay his the women bring him them the money and then he pays them out what are you talking about not a trick which is a
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)trick no no a trick and a pimp is two different things two different things a trick trick is who look a trick is who pay you a pimp is who take your money so
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)you dated a man like a sugar daddy kind of like a sugar daddy kind of sug daddy Su Daddy but basically we're not together anymore clearly um it was a
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)three-year thing he was a cheater basically but um yeah I had his kids too and yeah oh so you have kids yes how
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Brian Atlasmany three three from the same guy right yes okay all right three three kids um and longest relationship three years
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)three years okay 3 years kids how old are the kids uh 5 four and one and a half okay got it uh why did the
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)relationship and the three-year ones the one with the were you guys married five4 1 and A2 um yes we were made we did get
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TTS/Chat readeran analment killer of seral donated $69 pick 6' 1 in 180k a year fit 8 in PE
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TTS/Chat readerbut has a horrible World Outlook and negative attitude in general La 5' 2 in 30k a year chubby 4 PP but has a positive outlook and loses confidence
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Ericaand Swagger okay uh raise your hands for guy number one I don't know what the you want the 6 foot man the 6' one man that has a huge PP and makes 100K a
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Ericayear or do you want the short man that makes but he has the tall one is very negative in life but the short man that makes 30 grand a year is very positive in life and he's very uplifting instead
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)of Dow I'm going for yeah same have to pick one I'm confused why Money Matters some it said I will learn to love
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TTS/Chat readersomebody Paladin donated $100 how does a trick cheat does that mean he started paying another woman I
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)was Wonder no he actually turned into a Finn boy and yes what turned gay and he well he liked both and he turned into a
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)fin booy and he started wearing skirts and stuff like that like you know Dad what and I got very uncomfortable but
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)it's like only because he didn't tell me this beforehand like you know we had met in high school and stuff like that but yeah um he cheated because he was going after just I mean other people like so
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)he was going after men he was going after both but yes mainly men yes huh H who broke up with who I ended it I made him leave basically one weekend I said
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)you're out of my house wait question were you escorting prior to meeting him no I was just doing online content before then were you escorting while you were with
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)him uh I did once or twice but I stopped but it was like I mean when you allow somebody to do something it's like oh he let you yeah he let me do it so he was fine with you like sleeping with other
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)men of course she was pring cuz he was thinking about the money he didn't have a job he didn't have no job paying all my bills are you like are you okay girl I'm so sry I would want to [ __ ] cry the [ __ ] it was terrible like I know it
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)might be like a laughing matter now but God [ __ ] damn hell no that would have be his ass he would have thought twice he would have thought twice after wearing a [ __ ] around me girl I'm sorry that
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)[ __ ] just pissed me off for you do you need Revenge you know what's funny he lives in Wisconsin and stuff with this girl who hexes Furbies like what we used to have as kids y'all know what fures are right F she says she curses and
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)hexes them and sends them to people basically who's she his new girlfriend his new fiance who he got together right after he left my house wait he has a
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TTS/Chat readerfiance yes and it's a womano donated $69 you put out the 304 signal in the sky this panel didn't do Brian we strumpet oh wait so we use strumpet over
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)here thank you psycho appreciate it strump he was cheating on you strumpet signal my love life is terrible so he was cheating on you okay no it's okay like how are you doing now though am I a
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)to ask questions yeah go ahead how are you doing now like besides all that like how are you doing good it's just me and my girls now and we're chilling um go
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TTS/Chat readersorry I'm A late good to seek CU back ladies why do you think black woman and Asian men are statistically least desirable in the dating Marketplace PS the bear in the woods let me know he is
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Ericafull can I answer that well that's actually we have another one that's about to come in though just oh I want to say appreciate it Dyan Asian men
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TTS/Chat readerthank you dyl labia lives matter donated $69 the man of the hour Brian I remember on a different podcast stream you said
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TTS/Chat readeryou dislike going down on women but really like large labia what's the story there H I eat that [ __ ] like
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Brian Atlasgroceries no you got to answer that answer answer answer answer something like groceries I care I care very much about pleasing my woman I want her to come before I do preferably multiple
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Brian Atlastimes if possible I just don't do that I don't oral sex I don't do oral
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Ericasex yeah I like my woman to no that's right some people don't like giving some people don't like going down on a woman [ __ ] he y'all suck for
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Brian Atlasthat do you like it on you do you like to get to receive sure yeah of course I'm sorry I just want to be clear so you don't give headp I haven't done hold I I
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Brian Atlashaven't gone down on a girl since the Bush Administration so that's like oh you must have got traumatized that's like 2007 you got traumatized 2007 I think huh you got traum maybe 2008 huh you got
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Ericatraumatized no cuz why why you no trauma no trauma H you know I got a neck problem I got my neck my neck what if you were laying down and she came and just sat on
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Natalia Chestyyour face I'm sorry I would be like what are you doing no no to each their own not everybody likes it I think that's okay his preference he doesn't need to have sexual preferences yeah everybody
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Ericacan I ask question women don't like to the good it's what's up um so you have children you have children now now that you're back in the dating scene how quick are you going to introduce these new guys that you're dating to your children oo that's I don't believe in
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)that so I'm sorry but you're not you're not the stepdad you're not like you're not the father sorry but I am I play the mom and the dad so you can't be dad because you're a mom and you can only be
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Ericaa mom but are you going to find a good man to teach your children how to be treated like a man or by a man cuz it
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Angeltook me almost a year for my ex to meet my children that's a good time frame as far as like cuz my daughter she's about to be seven so she knows like she's very ious of everything so if she sees how is treating me she's not going to like that
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)because children are sponges so they watch they watch the entire time my oldest daughter will repeat anything you say she'll listen to everything like but at one point you will introduce
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)eventually yes right now all I got to say is remember how you was raised how you seen a father figure and that's how you lean off with your children don't worry about showing them about no [ __ ]
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)do you guys have like at the end of the day bro let me just say something at the end of the day if your daughters cuz you got daughters you ain't got no Sons so if your daughters see you doing what you got to do as a Woman by yourself and no man in the house they going to feel like
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)they ain't really got to need have one they don't really got to need one so on your own timing when you feel like it's right to bring a man around your daughters do that don't have multiple [ __ ] around your daughters no don't do that just like and don't ever feel like
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you got to wonder when you going to have that man to be around your kids to show them what a man supposed to be like cuz if they seeing they Mama being independent and being strong and getting through it and when they get older and you able to talk to them about what you
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)went through then that's going that's respect a man don't got nothing to do with being a daughter and we all know that we do be wanting our dad love we do but when we see if you see your mom coming in the house with different
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)[ __ ] we going to do the same thing yes so just respectfully do everything on your own time and [ __ ] happened for a reason but do everything on your own time and don't worry about no [ __ ] I cuz first of all a [ __ ] would a skirt
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)wearing a skirt with a blue me hey a woman would got hit with a p Uzi be wearing skirts girl he Uzi ain't my [ __ ] no you're right but like if it was mine I would just you know let's have a
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)one-onone conversation like how are you doing mentally but Brian I'm sorry the neck thing had me hooked for a minute you said I got neck problem I got I got it bad my neck hurts you know that is I have a question do you ladies have did
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)you guys grow up with a positive father figure at home most definitely I did yeah definitely oh yeah it don't be Daddy Issues it's not so what do it be I don't have that I don't even cuz I ain't going to lie okay look can we just ask a
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)quick can I ask a quick question cuz you guys are both escorts like I don't have no disrespect towards y'all cuz everybody grew up a different way but what made y'all feel like that like what like cuz I know it's not Daddy issue so
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)is it relationship issues that made you feel like you got to sale like no I just meet a lot of people I like going clubbing I like going out partying I like anything to do with being my off
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)time from once my kids go to sleep you know I'm off work whatever like I like to go out like I like to have fun too I'm not just a mom full time like completely like I'm fun but I'm there
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Ericafor my kids so no I'm a home body so you're you're fun and you're there for your kids but you go out at night and you party like crazy so when you come home are you waking up to your children hung over or are you just sleeping and
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)letting them be on a TV I usually don't drink I actually try not to I smoke so do you smoke a lot to the point where it affects your children no I feel like
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)first of all we doesn't affect my mama my my my people smoke weed and I don't smoke a liquor weed so weed ain't got nothing to do with it hangovers ain't got nothing to do with it I was really
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)asking the question like what made y'all lead into escorting like can can I just I want you to answer first and then second like cuz look listen to me hear me out I've I've heard
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)different experiences so I just want to know like what kind of let it don't have to get too emotional like what just made your mindset like oh this is okay to do like I get it cuz I see the memes and I seen the different posts like you feel
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)me like I swear Instagram and social media can make it seem like it's so like respectful yeah like oh you know I got my daddy and I got this and I got that but like you know like is that how you feel like you feel like [ __ ] it like if
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Angelyou want my time pay for it I'll bend over for you if you want it just pay me like whatever I want you to pay me that's what you need to do is that how you f okay so that's what she does I just do online and I record with whoever I'm dating at the time or situation
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Angelwhatever yeah I don't do all that but I did it because I didn't have nobody to watch my older daughter so I found a job that I could stay home and provide that's just yeah that's just what I do here we do have to keep it moving uh
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Light Brigh (partial)relationship status I think did you give yours oh um yeah so I'm currently like dating somebody like just that person strictly that person type situation is it a relationship I mean yeah relationship are you boyfriend
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Light Brigh (partial)girlfriend is there a title yeah you could say that okay how long have you guys been seeing each other like probably like two two years so far two years all right longest
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Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)relationship four years four years all right what about you um I'm single I've been single for eight months and my longest relationship was like two years
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)around all right two years what about you I'm single wait why you why do you say it like that you did a Dany
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)dance oh I wish I would kept going I love that sound how long uh have you been single for uh I've been single for a cool minute but I my longest relationship is 2 and A2 years all right
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)period so you've been single for what a year 6 months I've been single for like three days two years I mean I like I've been like you know conversating but I haven't took anything serious that
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)single for two years but maybe you've had a couple shortterm things I'm like kind of on and off with one person but then I'm like browsing I'm just playing let me
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Ericaokay what about you my longest relationship was 10 years um I would say it's very complicated I'm he broke up with me I'm
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Ericatechnically single but the 10- year relationship yes um he still plays a very predominant active role in not just my son's life but my daughter's life
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Ericaso technically he says I'm single and I just I'm using this time to heal I do like conversate with different people I'm not really I'm not a very
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Ericapromiscuous person so I'm very submissive when I'm with a man I only like alpha males and um it's not like
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Brian Atlasthe it's not the toxic Alpha that I like it's the the man that likes to provide stability of emotion that's fair I love that how long have you how long has it
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Brian Atlasbeen complicated SL single and were you married no we were never married and have two kids together no um or you have two kids from two separate fathers yes so or you have more than two kids I only
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Ericawell technically the third one I had I took her in and raised her a but she's not biologically your child okay so you have of the children that are yours none
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Brian Atlasof them are his he's 16 years older than me and he was snipped when we got together oh uh the two children you have are they from the same father no so you have just to be okay so you you have two well three children but two of the
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Brian Atlaschildren that are biologically yours they're both from separate men yes and the guy you were dating for 10 years still plays an active role in their
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Ericalives but he's not the biological father correct he pretty like he adopting my son he adopted okay um he claims my son and then my youngest daughter was my
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Ericason's Manny and he was snipped my oldest the the 10e relationship yes okay he's 16 years older than what does that mean
00:48:01
Ericahe's got a visectomy visectomy oh so he can't have children okay who your my ex of 10 years oh cool and wait how old are the kids my son is 17 he's about to graduate high school this year a year
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Brian Atlasearly and my daughter is 12 I see okay and you said how long has it been you've been single complicated 10 months 10 months okay got it what
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Natalie (partial)about you um I'm in a relationship um with the blue colar work actually there you go and we just celebrated four years um last month can I have you uh tilt your microphone down just a tad tilt it
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Brian Atlasdown like that little more like that that's good okay cool uh four months you said uh four years oh four years excuse and that's your
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Natalia Chestylongest relationship mhm all right what about you um I am in a situationship and I'm I mean technically single but I'm in a situationship and I've been single for
00:48:56
Brian Atlasabout almost 2 years now what do you mean technically single but in a situationship like we're talking basically you're talking okay what's
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Brian Atlasyour longest relationship um almost two years almost two years yeah okay and so the two you said you've been single for two years almost two years almost two
00:49:15
Brian Atlasyears was that the two-year relationship that ended almost two years ago um yes okay now you say you're you're in a situationship how long have you been
00:49:26
Brian Atlasseeing this almost a year okay well hold on now so you said you've been single for two years you're technically single yeah but you've been seeing this guy who you're in a situationship for one year
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Natalia Chestyyeah okay um that makes sense right am I tripping is it long distance no oh yeah it is I'm in New York he's here in La well yeah what has it ever not been long distance what do you mean have you guys
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Natalia Chestyever lived in the same city um no we met at a movie premiere so like how many times have you seen him total oh I a lot of times I honestly like a lot of times like how often you see each other once a
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Natalia Chestymonth uh yeah like once a month but like a couple of days cuz I Come From New York so I like yeah does he ever go to see you no
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Natalia Chestyno okay no I have an excuse I no no no ladies ladies I promise you have a good excuse I fly for free I travel for free he doesn't he doesn't like I don't want him to pay for it I fly for free because my best friend works for United Airlines so I travel
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Natalia Chestyfor free I why would I want him to spend money than God have like that huh why did you laugh like that because I knew it was going to be embarrassing until I said the
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Brian Atlasexplanation okay Mone while when's the last time you saw him uh yesterday oh okay yeah he's an LA that's why I'm here I'm New York and are you in
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Brian Atlasthis oneyear period that you've been seeing him have you dated other men no has he dated other women nope you sure about that like while us
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Natalia Chestyin the one year y yeah I'm sure I'm I'm yeah excuse me what no hey I'm confident in that but you're technically single
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Brian Atlasyou're technically single so what you're single well why I'm just curious have you have you attempted to have a title conversation with them yeah we have we have that a lot of times we just um what
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Natalia Chestydo you what who initiates that conversation you him um well it would been a year so at first it would be me in the beginning and then we kind ended things and then we he called me up and then wanted to restart things and I said
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Brian Atlasyeah so we started things up again until now at any point did you consider each other boyfriend girlfriend yeah we did until we ended things and then things
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Natalia Chestykind of shifted a little bit wait why did y'all end things um why did we we um the distance for sure and because maybe an age thing I don't know I'm 23
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Natalia Chestyhe's 31 so why started back up because I I still have I have feelings for him okay are you in love with him no oh no no I'm not in love with him he's
00:52:06
Natalia Chestynot in love with me we both talk about this yes do you want to marry this guy um I can confidently say he doesn't want to marry me right now and I don't want to marry him right now but would you
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Natalia Chestymarry somebody that you're not in love with no why would I do that that's why I asked do you want to have kids of course I do how many kids do you want um I'd say
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Natalia Chestyaround two yeah two or three honestly the economy has been so bad so we'll see whatever my make account with my future husband is just don't live in New York so you used to love him no it's so
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Brian Atlasexpensive you've been dating this guy for a year and neither of you love each other I think that's normal no no it's not I think noral I think that's normal
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Q (The Q Pill)it's not normal really it's not are you dating why not it's not normal because the way to brain works you should be feeling compelled to be you know in love with him super attractive to him but the
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Q (The Q Pill)thing is like also like the distance make things a little bit harder so makes the heart grow fonder so y'all don't really have y'all don't have any intimacy do y'all like actually like each other cuz to me it's
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Q (The Q Pill)starting to sound like y'all just taking up each other's time like he's like he's a placeholder he's a placeholder you're a placeholder true sounds like are you dating to get married are you looking to
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Ericamarry someone to date them forever no I date to Mary don't know what the other option was dat to Mary you're you're statistically proven to end up in a divorce because when you marry someone you're supposed to date them forever to
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Ericakeep the flame alive got it when you marry someone to the wood girl you date them forever when you yeah when you're when you're dating to look for somebody just to marry and
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Ericayou stop dating them the flame burns out and then you end up getting divorced oh okay that's definitely not my point point of view you're looking for someone marry them to date them forever yeah is that a problem you literally want to
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Ericafall in love with this person of course I do yeah so why are you not not being why why don't why are you continuously giving all of your time to this man and not seeking other men if you don't she
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Ellie/Vera (mixed)probably hasn't gotten to that point yet yeah it's long distance I feel like a little bit harder it's been 2 years though what you talking about I said one she said one almost one ship in a year yeah the guy I'm talking
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Light Brigh (partial)to right now the situationship almost been a one almost been a year she hasn't gotten to that point yet wait I want to ask the panel a
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Light Brigh/Tara (mixed)question was confused do you guys think he's [ __ ] other chicks yes 100% 100% I it depends I mean like no I okay
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Natalia Chestyno no no I'm sorry I don't believe I I feel like I feel like a lot of girls definitely think that men are capable of cheating in a situationship and even in a relationship even beon got shoed on I think that's you know that's it's crazy
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TTS/Chat readerbut there's really good men out there there's really bad men out there paladins donated $200 no love after one year she's Alpha
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Ericawidowed guaranteed anyway got to go to work to earn back this money I just standing that [ __ ] I can't see says no love after a year she's Alpha widowed guaranteed anyway got to go to work and
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Brian Atlasearn back the money I just noticed there you go hey Dylan by the way Dylan I'm going to pull your chat back up again cuz we didn't answer your question but thank you L paladins appreciate it man
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TTS/Chat readerum oh we have David Trak donated $69 if it was a crime to not go down on the woman and Brian is on trial you all
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TTS/Chat readerare the jury panel how many years should he serve going down on small labia Ladi no parole getting I'm getting the uh I think your charges should be ladies
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Boss Lady/Tara (mixed)ladies ladies can Y imagine being what a man forever and he do not go down on you
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Light Brigh (partial)big I mean they do make toys for that now goddamn to M he got mouth he got a mouth he could use it and
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Brian Atlasvice versa could you imagine being with a woman your whole life and she didn't shut the [ __ ] up I'm kidding I'm kidding just I'm