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00:02:38Brian Atlasthe guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead hi everyone my
00:02:46Daisy Chenname is Daisy I'm 28 I'm from China and I live in New York City right now and I work with a plastic
00:02:55Daisy Chensurgeon and I'm a model what part of China are you from Shanghai Shanghai okay and how um like you born there grew
00:03:05Daisy Chenup there I was uh born in a city that's like 4 hours drive by Shanghai I grew up in Shanghai and you said oh go ahead so
00:03:15Daisy ChenI recently just moved to USA I'm planning to stay so okay and you said you work for a plastic surgeon plastic
00:03:23Daisy Chensurgeons uh yeah I'm a plastic surgery broker if that makes sense so you cure like I connect my clients with surgeons
00:03:32Brian Atlasokay yeah and have you yourself you've you have done many you've done many how many surgeries would you say you've
00:03:42Daisy Chendone uh I don't really remember but the major one is my breast and my nose eyeliner lip injections stuff like that the eye so the eyeliner is it like
00:03:53Daisy Chentattooed on or no it's not tattoo like cuz we have small eyeliner Asian girl oh eyeliner okay so they just do a procedure so I could have bigger eyes
00:04:03Daisy Chenbut you know it's not it's not like huge difference okay but yeah the it's my nose I see okay all right uh well
00:04:13Noelwelcome what about you I'm Noel I am 24 years old I'm from California and I am a scientific analyst all right welcome thank you I'm Destiny um I am 22 years
00:04:25Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)old I'm also from California and I work in commission sales selling am a cook product all right welcome thank you hi I'm Kelly I'm 22 and I'm a personal
00:04:35Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)stylist and social media influencer and I am going to school to study Communications as well and where you from Los Angeles Los Angeles okay
00:04:46Christinewelcome back thanks what about you hi my name is Christine I'm 20 years old I'm from California and I am a student at UCSB what are you studying uh economics
00:04:57Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)economics okay welcome uh hello my name is at city um I'm currently a student um and I work in commission sales too age uh 19 all right
00:05:15Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)welcome much ah see thank you thank you uh Madison my name is Madison I'm 19 years old I'm from San Diego California
00:05:26Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)I currently work for the whatever podcast and I'm a student at s City College studying communication all right welcome everybody last but not least my
00:05:37Andrew WilsonCaucasian Andrew Wilson go ahead yeah my name is Andrew Wilson I am the host of The One and Only Crucible fastest growing debate channel on the internet
00:05:47Brian Atlasum I am a blood sport debater political analyst and also a political satius and you can find me there all right welcome Andrew so what we're going to do now we're goingon to go around the table
00:05:58Brian Atlasonce more so what is everybody's current relationship status so you single talking stage situationship Friends with
00:06:09Brian AtlasBenefits relationship married polycule sex cult Harum whatever it is if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in I'm
00:06:20Brian Atlassingle uh how long have you been single single for how long since March since March okay what's the longest relation
00:06:29Brian Atlasship you've ever been in 9 month 9 month okay how long ago was that 9mon relationship that was like my first boyfriend since 19 when you were 19 when
00:06:42Brian AtlasI was 19 and you're 28 now so from pretty much from 20 to 28 would you say you've not really had any long-term relationships did I did but it's just
00:06:52Brian Atlaslike not longer than 9 month the longest was 6 month okay gotcha for the 9 month relationship who ended that was it you was it him was it Mutual it was me it
00:07:05Daisy Chenwas you okay why did why did you break up with him cuz I was like kind of young I was in school and he's from America I lived in Shanghai he wanted to get
00:07:15Daisy Chenmarried but I was too young I wanted to explore my life so I told him like I'm not able to do it so that's why okay so it was long
00:07:25Brian Atlasdistance it wasn't he lived in Shanghai oh okay okay yeah got it okay well we'll get into your other uh other one in a little bit but what about you I am
00:07:34Brian Atlassingle I have been single since March you've been single since March also okay so single for about let's say two months longest relationship uh almost four years four years
00:07:47Brian Atlasokay and why did that one why did your four-year relationship end he cheated on me he cheated on you okay and then the two-month relationship or the excuse me
00:07:56Noelthe one that ended two months ago why did that one end so I was engaged um wait you were engaged as recently as two months ago yeah how long were you dating
00:08:06Noelthis guy like two months so he had proposed on Valentine's Day and that was very soon for me cuz we only had been together for like two months and then when I went to Utah to visit my sisters
00:08:19Noelwe were going to go wedding dress shopping and then I discovered that he was stepping out on me and then I found one of his accounts where he was only
00:08:27Noelfollowing like AI like can I say it like AI girls like porn oh yeah so I was like no thank you okay so the most recent guy
00:08:39Brian Atlascheated on you your four-year relationship cheated on you of all the relationships have you that you've had have they all involved in Fidelity every single one of them has cheated on me do
00:08:50Brian Atlasyou have any uh suspicions as to why that might be that seems a bit disproportionate that all your Rel they all they're all cheating on you it's probably my choice
00:09:02Noelin men I could take accountability for that but it's lack of sexual discipline it has nothing to do with me like all of my relationships were very peaceful and happy I never argued in my
00:09:13Noelrelationships okay unless it was bringing up the cheating so I think they were just you know lack of sexual discipline and they were dissatisfied and did did they ever like when you talk
00:09:23Noelto them about it did they ever tell you why they cheated I I didn't or you when I find out I don't care why I'm just like you know what we're done leave it at that sure okay what about you um I am
00:09:35Destinyin a relationship and I have been in that relationship for two years a little over two years now two years and my longest relationship was 3 years prior to this one all right how did you meet your uh current boyfriend um I just met
00:09:48Destinyhim at the gym I wasn't actually looking for a relationship I had I was living in Toronto and I was just visiting my family um back oh are you are you from Canada I'm from um California but I
00:09:59Destinymoved out there for University oh interesting yeah you you moved to Canada were you was it a scholarship or um well there was a there was my ex he was he's Canadian oh he's from okay so you wanted
00:10:11Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)to be closer to yeah it was during Co and um sure you know the board is closed down so I I moved out there to be with him all right Kelly what about you um I
00:10:22Brian Atlasam not single I am in a two and like four month relationship and this is my longest one too all right and before the show you said that you uh you have the past can you tell us about
00:10:37Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)that n come on that it was a funny anecdote it was a yeah you want me to say have you never met my boyfriend no never mind okay you want you should just meet him you should just meet him yeah
00:10:49Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)seriously should should I tell the story though no it's funny come on well it I won't if you don't want to that's fine but yeah it it just makes sense if you just met my boyfriend it would no I'm
00:11:01Brian Atlasnot I don't have any issues with the scenario it's just a funny scenario oh it's okay yeah you should share it no all right that's fine that's fine uh
00:11:09Christinewhat about you um I am single my last relationship ended in February so yeah February uh how long were you in that relationship for um one and a half years
00:11:23Brian Atlaswas it long distance yeah yeah kind of well you go to UCSB right yeah and went to UCLA UCLA okay so not too far are you originally from did you say you're originally from
00:11:34ChristineLa no I'm originally from San Francisco oh up north okay um and so why did it
00:11:42Christineend who broke up with who um he broke up with me but it was going to end like it I just like we were both weren't really
00:11:53Christinefeeling the relationship anymore H it was just you both weren't feeling the relationship or like I guess I wasn't but it's a little complicated why is it
00:12:07Christinecomplicated because I wasn't feeling the relationship anymore then um were there other people in the
00:12:19Christinepicture well sound like no wait I didn't
00:12:27Christineum I wasn't feeling it anymore and then um I like didn't break break it off um
00:12:36Brian Atlaswhen I should have and then um so there's a little crossover maybe with a another individual kind of yeah
00:12:48Brian Atlasokay was did you have a sense that he might have been seeing somebody else too or no okay um but yeah definitely my fault I was in the
00:12:58Christinewrong so you you said you ended it no then he found out and then he ended it okay yeah how often would you guys see each other cuz you said he goes to UCLA
00:13:09Christineyou were we would see each other like on the weekends yeah on the weekends every weekend or kind of like every other weekend or um every other weekend more often than not would you go there or would he come to see you um well I had a
00:13:22Brian Atlassingle so I I have a single so he'd come here okay yeah like a you're on the par apartment or you just had a single bedroom oh like my own apartment okay I see and he had
00:13:34Brian Atlashe was in a triple or something like he had roommates and yeah okay so he would come to see you MH um and are you still are you involved
00:13:46Brian Atlaslike the this other guy are you involved with him currently no okay um so in that in the three-month period that you've been single any other dating prospects
00:13:56Brian Atlasanything more casual shortterm no I not just not interested everyone who just not it well so the other guy that was kind of in the picture was this
00:14:06Christinelike a shortterm thing or what what happened there like it was a fra party and yeah I just like we were just I don't know I didn't
00:14:17Christinereally it like spring break happened and then we didn't talk and so then just yeah like me and this other guy just like stopped talking after spring break just cuz like were seeing we saw each
00:14:30Christineother like yeah okay we so we were seeing each other spring quarter and because we had the same class right and then we didn't have the same class
00:14:40Brian Atlasanymore and so yeah frat frat guy yeah are you Miss sority no no sority okay all right um okay well maybe we can talk
00:14:51Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)about that a bit more later uh what about you um I've been single for about 3 years my longest relationship with was a year and the reason we broke up was
00:15:02Brian Atlasbecause of his cheating he was cheating yeah okay all right good times a lot of cheating I guess uh
00:15:12Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)Gustavo married to whatever podcast okay I'm luckily in a relationship uh my
00:15:22Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)current one is my longest it's been a year and eight months all right sweet um Andrew Wilson what about you I'm uh happily married have been for
00:15:33TTS/Donationswell over a decade all right cool and then Brian loves roast be flabia donated $200 ladies would any of you date Brian
00:15:44TTS/Donationssorry Brian I know you like fresh off the boat Asian women but Daisy only likes BBC Your Average White clock ain't
00:15:52TTS/Donationsgoing to cut it Daisy L for gir uh by the way I'm a fan of this sub of the okay and it's not true but I I don't
00:16:05Brian Atlasknow if he's talking about the the subreddit or if he's talking about I know he's not talking I'm a fan anyway oh of of both of length no I'm
00:16:16Brian Atlasor Reddit no but like the actual question both who doesn't I mean who doesn't right so okay I guess I guess we'll do it okay uh would any of you would any of you date me
00:16:34NoelI guess everybody would why not oh okay um you can be you can be super honest I already know your type so like I wouldn't what's my type you like you're
00:16:43Noelpretty Asian women hold on I like white women I'll date any race okay date any race I mean what races have you dated yeah white Latina
00:16:55Brian AtlasAsian but which one did I think I a short very short ter thing with a black woman once I live in Santa Barbara okay you can't fault me there's like no black people here okay it's not my fault but
00:17:06Brian Atlasuh yeah I don't discriminate I agree with your values Pacific Islander throw me a Pacific Islander I'll oh okay there
00:17:14Brian Atlasyou go all right what about you I wouldn't rip Kelly n is it cuz I'm white you're such a racist
00:17:24Brian AtlaspH no it's not cuz you're white sure sure okay well what about you no rip is it cuz I'm white no what what's the
00:17:34Brian Atlasreason old too old yeah I'm a boomer how old are you huh how old are you 34 yeah yeah yeah people tell me I never
00:17:45Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)mind okay yeah what about you no you're like my dad's age what the [ __ ] your dad's young
00:17:52Brian Atlasyeah Gustavo see mucho He Man there we go than he's married all right um thank you for that for that one um okay so
00:18:04Brian Atlastrying to think where we let me actually really and we'll come back to the chat I think uh we're all caught up on everything right Nick okay so we're going to just uh get into some pre-show notes here actually no I have a I have a
00:18:16Brian Atlasquick question for the whole panel um who hear is religious I don't know what's the definition of relation like are you
00:18:25DestinyChristian uh I'm Buddhism Buddhist yeah Buddhist okay I am a Christian all right
00:18:34Destinyum I go to church and I go to a Catholic church but um I'm not like 100% like I don't know I guess religious like I just I go to church and I try to be a good
00:18:46Destinyperson and have a good relationship with God but I don't believe every single thing that every role catholism has okay um I am a
00:18:55ChristineChristian I am not religious what so like atheist a agnostic um Satan Satanist Satanist I
00:19:07Christinedon't really have a stance or anything sure I don't know um I was born Catholic but I'm not
00:19:14Brian Atlasreligious I'm Christian all right cool so let me see here uh let's uh just get
00:19:23Brian Atlasinto let's get right into it um trying to think here do you guys hear that like old timey music it's kind of nice you can leave the door open all right so uh
00:19:35Brian Atlasgot some pre-show notes from Daisy uh actually first thing Daisy you said you've done like you've had you work for a plastic surgeon you've had quite a bit of plastic surgery done um
00:19:47Brian Atlasjust out of curiosity cuz sometimes very often on the show we talk about makeup plastic surgery yeah I'm always curious like how did people look before like do
00:19:59Brian Atlasyou have any photos of you like no plastic surgery at all I do but none are you can we when you send them to us for us to look at yeah I would not like for
00:20:10Daisy Chenthe show for the show yeah right now yeah we could do you have your for for the phone yeah I could I could I don't mind I mean it's not just a plastic surgery makes you look different you
00:20:24Brian Atlashave you got to work on your body as well sure yeah you can work out and the makeup the style sure so like I'm talking like Daisy at 20 versus Daisy now at 28 like when did
00:20:34Daisy Chenyou start getting plastic surgery uh I got my first surgery when I was uh 2018 probably okay like my eye eyes I've
00:20:47Brian Atlasdone my eye three times you've done your eyes three times yeah breast three times three times yeah damn so do you are you saying like you go I just upgrade them
00:20:58Daisy Chenlike bigger yeah bigger and it's very common in China you guys every girls get their work done in China yeah think it's
00:21:07Daisy Chencommon everywhere now in in China in Korea Middle East it's very common cuz when I said that before on the other shows they were like roasting me you
00:21:19Daisy Chenknow who was roast everybody was roasting me because oh she ugly before because she have done plastic surgery her body is all fake that's not true
00:21:29Brian Atlasthey were saying that you looked worse before the plastic surgery I look uh they were saying that I look good right now because I've done
00:21:39Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)all the work okay cuz I typically tend to make the argument that people look better before the plastic surgery I want to know what
00:21:50Brian Atlaspeople look like years after the plastic surgery yeah so if you want Daisy blast to the Instagram send one at a time uh if you want any photos and maybe we'll
00:22:01Brian Atlaslet the chat decide okay better before plastic surgery better after TR to find it let's see it's going to take some time you guys go ahead that's fine I'll I'll ask another question then we'll
00:22:12Brian Atlascome back to the the main topic at hand going to Noel here you said you were raised in a very traditional strict Mormon household yes very strict now you're no longer Mormon though is that
00:22:23Noelcorrect no I'm not Mormon you you said you're Christian Christian yeah and you didn't say cath you're not Catholic okay just Christian what denomination I'm like non- denominational nomination I
00:22:35Brian Atlasfollow Jesus and God I don't follow a denomination I don't congregate you said also you do not consider yourself a feminist you wanted to speak on
00:22:44Brian Atlastraditional relationships marriages and the importance of it you'd also uh so what was your take on traditional relationships and marriages and the importance of them I think nuclear
00:22:56Noelfamily and traditional marriages are like extremely crucial in our society in terms of like raising kids and populating the world um keeping STD
00:23:07Noelrates down and you know being happy I think most people will get ultimate fulfillment of Joy through nuclear family and most of the people that I
00:23:17Noelknow that have children's or children say that that's their main source of Joy like true Joy is through having children sure you know kids need a father and a
00:23:27Noelmother to raise them to get that good balance of feminist values and like masculine values wait hold on when you say the a good balance of feminist you
00:23:38Brian Atlasmean feminine feminine you said that you also wanted to speak on monogamy yes uh the signs behind it and why it's not feminine or empowering to sleep around
00:23:49Noeldid you want to elaborate on that at all yeah so I think monogamy is very important you know it's not necessarily healthy to sleep with a bunch of different people in a short period of
00:24:01Noeltime um and that is one thing that has contributed to STD rates they're super high right now um and it's because people aren't monogamous anymore they're not getting married and they're just you
00:24:13Brian Atlashave girls that are sleeping with a new dude every week um yeah and that's kind of why dating is not working out wild it's wild out there in the streets literally stre in the streets it's wild you said when you were 21 you were
00:24:23Brian Atlasliving in the bay assume the San Francisco Bay you were on your own you met your boyfriend at work you ended up allowing him to move in you would drive to him uh or excuse me you would drive
00:24:35Brian Atlashim to and from work every day and it was an hour drive there and back this was the story from last time did we already go over this yeah this was from last time he didn't pay rent that's fine yeah didn't pay rent I'm just going over
00:24:46Brian Atlasthis uh just while we give Daisy here a bit of time he didn't pay for groceries didn't provide he leeched off you and ended up catching him cheating as well yes this was not the fouryear relationship that was was the third
00:24:59Noelrelationship how many relationships would you say you've had I've been in five now in the span of N9 years does that include our our dear friend no that was a brief brief dating not even a
00:25:10Noeltitle okay so has every single guy cheated on you basically yes yes but I think majority of men and some women are cheating nowadays just cuz
00:25:23Brian Atlaswith social media and how dating has changed all right let's see you wanted to talk about about laws on infidelity and abortion I didn't say abortion but infidelity well this might have been
00:25:33Brian Atlasfrom your previous time you were on um and you also want to we importance of nuclear family raising children monogamy but laws on infidelity and abortion so
00:25:45Brian Atlaswould you be in favor of for example like somehow criminalizing cheating infidelity absolutely within the confines of marriage or even in just any longterm relationship I just like a civil relationship probably like a fine
00:25:58Brian Atlasof some sort like how there is in other countries but in terms of mar other countries have fines for for uh non-married infidelity cheating I guess I'm pretty sure China has a law on that
00:26:09Brian Atlaswhich country China China is this true Daisy confirm or deny what a law does China have a law against cheating in a
00:26:17Daisy Chenrelationship uh sort of like if uh if a guy cheat on their
00:26:25Daisy Chenwife if the wife wants to divorce so there's kind of like Financial mhm how do I say like it's like a fine
00:26:36Brian Atlaslike they pay yeah they the guy pays more well there actually is something and maybe Andrew if you can help just looking this up there is something actually in some US states where it's um
00:26:48Brian AtlasI'm trying to think there's a specific legal term this typically involves married couple a spouse can actually go after uh the the third party that's sort
00:26:58Brian Atlasof making the cheating happen there's a specific legal term for this um alienation
00:27:12Brian Atlasof any thoughts on that Andrew there's a specific legal term it's only in some states though you can actually sue the person
00:27:22Brian Atlasthat the cheating partner I guess any luck I'm not aware of what the law is called Al I think it's alienation of affection somebody in the chat is
00:27:33Brian Atlassaying alienation of affection and it is a civil I don't think it's criminal but I think you can you can bring a civil claim against somebody okay I just sent
00:27:45Brian Atlasyou sent it did you send them individually by the way or like in a group okay perfect thank you Daisy um so but going back to you Noel uh so okay you think should be what about criminal penalty I think it should be Criminal so
00:27:58Brian Atlasgoing around the table do you guys think that there should be a criminal penalty for cheating and it maybe it's a misdemeanor and a like a non-married couple and a felony if you're married going around
00:28:11Daisy Chenthe table starting with you Daisy what do you think well I think so because I think if a man like if they want to cheat I think it's okay to sleep with other women but I'd prefer you be honest
00:28:23Daisy Chenwhat wait you oh you're you're so you're cool with if a dude yeah as long as they up front with it let's be honest like one guy sleeping with one woman for the entire of his life I don't believe that just not me do you think it's the same
00:28:36Brian Atlasfor women like could you see yourself sleeping with just one guy yeah cuz feeling face away especially sex sexually so you're fine with it if the guy has other women yeah okay just be
00:28:47Noelhonest I I think it should be criminalized criminalized straight to jail um the I haven't thought that deep into it but something should be done about it okay so um
00:29:01Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)and it should go both ways if the woman cheats what if it's just like a hand job like should that is that like have a question about this so maybe you can maybe you can like confirm you're like itching yourself like you're [ __ ]
00:29:14Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)like cck what's that Dave Chappelle like he's all like okay sorry go ahead Madison go ahead so I heard in France sing the D is not
00:29:26Brian Atlascheating my French friend told me that France is I'm I was born in France I don't know I don't keep tabs on the dick sucking laws in France
00:29:36Brian Atlasbut uh France has really interesting kind of social views on um kind of dating relationships and stuff it's a little different it's a little more
00:29:47Brian Atlasuh open I guess I don't know like Mistresses are bit more tolerated I guess but anyways um so straight to jail felony yeah yeah even if it's a hand job
00:29:59Noelwhat's that I said even if it's a hand job even a handy yeah anything sexual whether it's a primary sex organ or a secondary sex organ anything about a kiss and you're fine with you're fine with divorce right I like I would never
00:30:13Noellike for example Catholics I know you're not Catholic they're against divorce I mean I'm against divorce to an extent I think the only exception would be like severe abuse or infidelity okay what if
00:30:23Brian Atlaswhat the what if the wife like it's dead bedroom relationship and she no longer wants like has sex with her husband would that be grounds for divorce on the husband's part I would say there should
00:30:35Brian Atlasbe actions taken prior to deciding that like maybe therapy therapy coup's therapy I don't know figure out stuff assum you do all those things and it's still like she just no longer wants to have sex with her husband do you think
00:30:47Noelit'd be fair for the husband to divorce her maybe once the child is grown up and an adult okay what about you um I don't
00:30:58Destinythink that there should be a law I mean I think that if people decide that they would want to do that within their relationship but everybody's different so if it was a law there's people who have poly relationships open relationships so I don't think there
00:31:10Destinycould be a law in place because at the end of the day I mean we vote for this and we live in a democracy so if it were a poly relationship that wouldn't be cheating because that's agreed upon
00:31:20Andrew Wilsonprior okay oh wait okay if you don't if you don't mind if I kind of dive into this position a little bit Yeah you go
00:31:28Andrew Wilsonfor it Andre So when you say um as long as it's agreed upon then it's okay um and so the the inference here is what if
00:31:39Noelyou're married uh to the to a person and they agree inside of the marriage to do this like afterwards like after their marriage um if it's agreed upon by both parties then that you know that's
00:31:52Noeltwo-way consent but you have a lot of marriages that happen where the man all of a sudden wants to become you polyamorous and the wife doesn't agree or vice versa and so well the reason you
00:32:03Andrew Wilsonthink that it should be criminalized is because they're breaking a vow correct yes and also you're pretty much jeopardizing that child's development and in some well let's assume there's no
00:32:15Andrew Wilsonchildren you would still agree that he needs to be punished the same way right yeah you're still putting either partner at risk to contract an STD okay well let's assume that they are able to women
00:32:28Andrew Wilsonwho have a clean bill of health um you would still be for such a law right I think so yeah yeah so even if you even then with all those things you'd still be for the law but wouldn't you be for
00:32:39Andrew Wilsonthe law because it's breaking a vow yes because it's breaking a vow yeah but wouldn't it be breaking a vow anyway even if in the middle of their marriage they decided to open it up wouldn't you
00:32:48Noelstill be breaking a vow that's a tough question I mean if if both people are agreeing on it I don't see how that could be breaking a vow cuz you're both agreeing on it but well you can agree to
00:32:59Andrew Wilsonmake a vow and then later um you can consent to break the vow but you've still broken The Vow haven't you I don't understand how you can get around that like if I vowed for instance to never
00:33:11Andrew Wilsondefend myself in a fight and then uh somebody attacked me and I said well I I'm going to take that vow back I I still broke the vow didn't I yeah but in that case it would be
00:33:22Andrew Wilsonself-defense yeah yeah right but I still broke the vow right yes yeah so then if if people in the marriage decide to open their marriage up why wouldn't you arrest them for that as well for
00:33:31Andrew Wilsonbreaking their vow that's the point well if it were a two-way you know opening up of the marriage then yes but then they still broke their vow that's very so then your
00:33:43Andrew Wilsonjustification for them breaking their vow and that's what the justification is to have them arrested doesn't make much sense because they can break their vow in the middle of the marriage and still be arrested by your logic uh that or not
00:33:56Andrew Wilsonarrested that doesn't make any sense now they can break vows as long as they just kind of consent to break the vow right yeah but there should probably be like something like similar to prenup prior
00:34:06Andrew Wilsonto getting married that goes through all of these things that they agree upon yeah right but if in the middle of the marriage they both decide to break their
00:34:17Andrew Wilsonpre-agreement and open their marriage up from your perspective that's okay but they still made a vow and broke their vow and that's a justification why you think they should be arrested if one cheats on the other so that doesn't make
00:34:29Noela lot of sense to me well I think situ like depending on the situation maybe not arrested but definitely something like a fine or something to you know punish them cuz why would why would you
00:34:42Andrew Wilsoneven get married in the first place if you plan on it of opening up your marriage or if well we'll assume that they didn't plan on it but they just decided in the middle of it to do so just like I'm sure that people don't
00:34:53Andrew Wilsonplan on having a sexist marriage but often times they do right well maybe those laws would be an incentive for people to Choose Wisely and get married like if you truly love that person so
00:35:06Andrew Wilsonyou would retra so you would retract it then and say that it's actually probably a better policy that you could not open your marriage up even by consent because you would still be breaking your vow
00:35:16Brian Atlasright yeah yeah okay uh you answered the question I believe Kelly should it be you know straight to jail cheating um I just
00:35:27Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)think that's just too unrealistic to criminal penalties criminal criminal penalties for for cheating no that's no
00:35:36Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)I agree agree okay I feel like uh like oh um I think that there shouldn't be a laot of
00:35:46Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)you cheat cuz there's different positions you can be put in and I don't think uh it's like a straight line like I get married I cheat and then pay a
00:35:56Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)fine I feel like there's open relationships there's people who um the partner likes the other partner to have relationships with other partner I well cheating would imply that there was some
00:36:09Brian Atlasunderstanding that it was monogamous but one partner like if you if you're in an open relationship it's not I don't consider cheating mhm but I feel like when a marriage um when you
00:36:20Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)live so long together after a time you do not want to have sex with each other or you still do and I feel like like people change and they're like okay let's open up our relationship and
00:36:31Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)that's when the other person's like oh no I don't or yes I do okay uh Maddie I mean yeah I think cheating is terrible but I just also think it's
00:36:42Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)unrealistic but I feel like by your standards that you would set criminalizing infidelity I guess don't you think people would just be in more
00:36:52Noelopen relationships it would probably cause that but then it would also lower divorce rates it would lower a lot of things are you okay with like open or like what's your stance on that for me I'm not I don't care if other people are
00:37:04Andrew Wilsonin an O open relationship as long as it's a two-party consent but if you don't if you don't care if other people are in open relationships then why would you legislate it why would I allow for open
00:37:17Andrew Wilsonrelationships to be no why would you make legislation penalizing people for breaking their vow in an open relationship if you don't care
00:37:27NoelI mean that's a difficult question you know I haven't thought that far into it it's just like a generalization that I kind of well just to be clear are you against open relationships or it's
00:37:38Brian Atlasspecifically cheating within the confines of monogamous clearly indicated monogamous relationship okay well we'll move on from that um Daisy we have your
00:37:49Brian AtlasInstagram things don't pull it up quite yet um so it's from 2015 2018 2020 no yeah 2015 2018 2020 okay so guys in the
00:38:01Brian Atlaschat you're we're we're checking you know Daisy back in the day back in the was this this is like the Obama
00:38:12Brian AtlasAdministration okay and then 2018 the Trump Administration and then 2020 okay all right let's pull it up you you data okay this is
00:38:22Brian AtlasDaisy no plastic surgery wait hold on no plastic surgery here nothing no boobs no yeah right come on it looks like there's he doesn't believe right you don't have
00:38:34Daisy Chento believe but I'm just telling you that's 2015 it still looks the boobs look because naturally my boobs are perky they look fine fit cuz I my skin
00:38:45Daisy Chenare very tight but here my boobs are small but they're just like are they those they are small I mean it
00:38:54Daisy Chenlooks are you so no fake titties in 2015 no no fake titties 2015 just do a calculation I would be so young so you're wait you're 28 hold on you got to
00:39:06Brian Atlasremember I'm you know years ago math is not my forte you would have been 19 I don't know 18 years old I was in school 18-year-olds begin big titties and bbls and [ __ ] started in maybe not in N9
00:39:19Daisy Chenyears ago because that time it wasn't like very popular you know in China so okay just to confirm no fake titties okay right
00:39:29Brian Atlasnext all right and so you said you did have some stuff done with the face you got your eyelids here I got my eyeliner but have you had the was it the bu fat in the have you had that no I've never
00:39:42Daisy Chenhad that I always had anything for the jaw or anything uh I do like Ballo B and here I got lips yeah lip injection okay
00:39:51Brian Atlasyeah and then next and then this is 2020 yeah you're in Paris I'm sorry for you
00:40:01Daisy Chenbeing in Paris 2020 yeah okay no surgery no surgery no I mean like nose the the biggest is my nose cuz if I change my nose I look completely different you
00:40:13Daisy Chenknow but right now I look different it's because my makeup my style the way I dress and also because I did bodybuilding so you have like a face photo even before cuz like that first
00:40:25Brian Atlasphoto from 2015 you you're looking down down you're wearing sunglasses I let's see it we got to see it anyways have to find it okay that's fine uh anybody else
00:40:35Brian Atlashere ever had any plastic surgery M I'm just kidding what okay no any anyone here ever had plastic surgery no nothing nothing nothing have you considered it
00:40:47Brian Atlashave you guys considered like oh I'd like to maybe get fake boobs anybody I have considered it yeah any of you like thought about it but like I wouldn't do
00:40:58Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)it you've thought about it okay like it' be cool yeah boobs but but like I'm fine I'm fine without him I don't need
00:41:08Brian Atlashim okay I want to ask the the guys in the room Andrew I'm gonna ask Andrew I also want to ask the chat the viewers maybe we can start a poll uh actually
00:41:21Brian Atlashold on I'm going to do it I'm going to do a poll it feels like I'm kind of singling Daisy out here in now because I'm asking this do you prefer women without plastic
00:41:32Daisy Chensurgery with or without with or without plastic surgery me personally I'm not a fan no offense Daisy I don't mind no offense I
00:41:42Gustavodon't mind not a fan either Gustavo you fan are you fan of some giant fake titties no no no Sor Nick you're
00:41:53Brian Atlaslying it is he might he might be lying cuz there's a bit of flirtation there was a flirtation between Gustavo and Daisy no I swear not I swear not no not not like anything it was just like a
00:42:04Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)little eye contact I I picked up he just looked like cute you know cute me have you ever seen a girl that has plastic surgery and you're like you actually didn't look better
00:42:16Kelly/Destiny/Ateri/Maddie (mixed)before have I seen a girl who got plastic surgery who has plastic surgery and then seen her prior and you're like oh you actually look better now I think they always look better
00:42:27Brian Atlasbefore the plastic surgery do you prefer bigger boobs or smaller natural bigger or smaller so okay I actually don't care I don't care
00:42:39Brian Atlasreally it I don't really care I'm I'm I'm part of the small City committee okay I I like small boobs I like big boobs I like them both no you have to pick one if I had to pick one yeah how
00:42:50Brian Atlasbig are the are when we say big how big are we like some [ __ ] melons some [ __ ] can crusher I'm saying
00:42:57Daisy Chenbeautifully big like like a C cup like C cup versus a cup like d e yeah like you
00:43:05Daisy Chencan see clearly like you can see clearly the cleavage the cleavage yeah you can see cleav be honest be
00:43:15Brian Atlashonest please no look big boobs are nice but like I would never like if a girl had absolutely no boobs I would never be like that would disqualify that would never disqualify
00:43:27Brian AtlasI'm just saying like to pick sure in terms of like what is most perhaps uh actually you know what though hold on let me double down on the small boob
00:43:37Brian Atlasteam here uh you ever seen like Greek or Roman statues these women aren't like have giant [ __ ] melons right they have like modes sized boobs they're like
00:43:49Brian Atlaswell proportion and those are like that is sort of like what's beautiful and so I have this theory that pisses everyone off so a girl with small boobs she can be she can be beautiful
00:44:01Brian Atlasand she could be hot mhm but a woman with like giant [ __ ] knockers she can be hot she can be sexy I don't know if she can be
00:44:11Brian Atlasbeautiful in terms of her titties how about mine oh my God I'm getting take on that ran how about mine what about yours I don't like no offense Daisy like do they look disgusting they
00:44:23Brian Atlasdon't to to be you want me to be honest with you yeah so I'm not going to I wouldn't I wouldn't use the term disgusting but okay I actually don't like the look of
00:44:35Daisy Chenfake titties okay and the feel okay not a fan of the feel I don't I don't like the feel of the fake titties surgery could be very natural you you wouldn't tell guys don't want to
00:44:46Brian AtlasS surgery yeah look I have a radar for fake titties no you don't mine look fake because I have like very tight skin I didn't have body fat before right yeah that's true some are more convincing than others I do have a radar for the
00:44:59Brian Atlasfake titties though so what they just have how she could be wearing a turtleneck and I'm like fake tit how do you know you haven't had experience with that oh what do you mean haven't had experience with you told you told everybody you don't like fake tits I
00:45:11Brian Atlasdon't yeah but how did you know I've had one or two encounters with women who've had plastic surgery they tricked me okay I was tricked I got tricked okay they
00:45:22Brian Atlasgot past my fake titty radar and uh the feel though not a f oh she sent them yeah we'll take a look mhm let's take a
00:45:30Background/Productionlook this is date when was this 2013 okay chat hold on cute I know yeah I know nice one I don't think you need you
00:45:41Andrew Wilsonneed I think you were fine what wait I'm sorry what what age did you say 2013 oh 2013 yeah so how old were you in
00:45:49Daisy Chenthat pck 17 uh just say 18 18 yeah I don't know I'm not good at math
00:45:59Daisy Chensorry 2 plus I don't think you needed to change anything to be honest well to be honest I don't care what people think of me I do what makes myself happy yeah
00:46:11Daisy Chenwhat made you want to get your right I wanted to look like this and I look like this nobody's paying for my bill right they can judge I don't
00:46:21Daisy Chenmind what you Faceook job okay we'll do what made I want to um Okay so so this is when yeah that was in Egypt Egypt
00:46:30Brian Atlassorry about that I was okay never mind what what wait why were you in Egypt travel oh vacation wait why why were you I wait go back Nick go back okay so this
00:46:42Daisy Chenis uh you have some lip filler here though right uh I uh I don't remember probably it's the lipstick but here what year is this oh you got the fake titties though yeah okay there's too much's too
00:46:54Brian Atlasmuch analysis going on the the F first for for procedure yeah all right so Boys you've seen some photos what do you
00:47:02Brian Atlasthink before would you prefer would you have prefer Daisy after or before before after okay all right anyways
00:47:14TTS/Donationsum sorry to put you on the spot like that Daisy it's fine I don't like okay yeah we it's just a conversation that comes up all the time loose [ __ ] energy donated
00:47:25TTS/Donations$200 you let him hit raw you didn't have second thoughts now you're a single mom now you're a single mom you said I am a
00:47:34TTS/Donationsof his kids don't care if he's here or not now you're a single mom #o thanks to you uh well we'll get into
00:47:46Brian Atlasthat in just a second here so where are my notes let me see here let me actually before we do that I do have to read one actually Daisy M I'm going to have you read it okay
00:47:59Daisy Chendo you want to read it your name is J uh J CH not Daisy you a liar you're a fraud you're an escor and a criminal I cannot wait for you to be
00:48:09Daisy Chendeported what fil Christian is King okay do you want to address any of those I don't want to address anything you can do whatever you want if you are able to
00:48:18Brian Atlasget me deported go ahead I don't give a [ __ ] sure um let's see here so okay getting into the notes speaking of Mother's Day it's Mother's
00:48:30Brian AtlasDay today uh we have Daisy here yeah Daisy um so I think we start off oh one quick
00:48:41Brian AtlasAndrew can't wait to talk yeah well so I'll have I have a what I was just going to say happy irony day what is that
00:48:49Brian Atlasirony irony ironic ironic ironic oh um so I've I I'm G to get through some of my questions I have some questions for you some questions for Noel um and then
00:49:02Brian AtlasAndrew has some questions so I'll just try to get through mine as quickly as possible and then uh Andrew has a couple questions and then we'll go from there I think a good starting point though is so there was um so you were involved uh
00:49:13Brian Atlasromantically involved with Walter from the fnf podcast and uh you guys were dating yeah
00:49:23Brian Atlasand W you can you just just give us a quick maybe 30 second summary of kind of everything that that's gone down and then we'll get into the
00:49:33Daisy Chendetails okay so yeah I updated this guy he was uh the owner of the podcast of fresh and fit and I met him on last year
00:49:43Daisy ChenNovember mhm and then we start become official on December end of December it was like new year so he made it official
00:49:52Daisy Chenhe posted Us on YouTube caption was she bought my mama gift now it's serious and she uh he asked me in person like I want you to be mine no other guys MH then I
00:50:04Daisy Chenwent back home for Chinese New Year then we started talking like you know then uh I told him I was going to move to Miami and that's what happened then when we
00:50:15Daisy Chenactually came back to Miami I stayed in his apartment for more than two weeks then I got pregnant I got pregnant then he like when I found out I'm pregnant he already
00:50:27Daisy Chenbroke up with me that was like 2 weeks later I stayed in Miami he broke he broke up with me before I found out I'm pregnant okay why did he break up with
00:50:37Daisy Chenyou I don't know he just switches off which I found out later that he might be playing the game the whole time and uh he didn't want the kid
00:50:48Daisy Chenso I when I called him he told me I don't want the baby you go get a pill mhm that's it that's uh actually I did have one other question
00:50:58Brian Atlasbefore we delve into this um actually you know what maybe we'll we'll come to it at the end I was going to ask you kind of did you do any dating when you were living in China no
00:51:09Brian Atlasno dating okay I cut it off like I was completely solid okay CU I just it's unrelated to the the Walter thing but I was just curious about you know perhaps the
00:51:22Brian Atlasdifferences in terms of dating in China versus here in the US uh are you know those differences but we'll come back to that so yeah uh so let's I think you went over timeline here so you were uh
00:51:34Brian Atlasyou met him in November is that correct Daisy right and then you broke up in February or March March March and March 25th he broke up with me March 25th he
00:51:46Daisy Chenbroke up with you when did you find out you were pregnant um April 1st April 1 yeah I did a test I had a pregnancy test on April 1st Okay so that's like I went
00:51:57Daisy Chenahead and I text him I showed him the pregn pregnancy test okay then he's like I'm going to call you back then he told
00:52:06Brian Atlasme I don't want any kids so you you took a pregnancy test you were texting him you let him know yeah and then not long
00:52:16Daisy Chenthereafter you wanted he wanted to call you or you wanted to call him he said he was on some kind of party and he said I'm going to call you back so he called
00:52:27Brian Atlasme back for 5 minutes didn't didn't went well was this the conversation that you recorded no okay was uh that was later
00:52:35Brian Atlasthat was later okay yeah so I guess what perhaps the first thing we do is actually listen to the uh con the
00:52:47Brian Atlasrecorded conversation that you have with him um one point of clarification you there seems to be some disc discussion of a lawsuit I'm a
00:52:58Brian Atlaslittle confused there is there actually a lawsuit yes it just went very slow are you the defendant or the plaintiff defend you're the defendant
00:53:07Daisy Chenokay so they Walter filed a defamation no no no I I I am going to file it's AFF but there's not currently you nobody's filed my not yet my lawyer is working on
00:53:21Brian Atlasevery evidence right now so you do have a lawyer yes I do okay so there hasn't been a filed case yet but you intend to file is it a defamation action and
00:53:30Daisy Chencoration coer Co a CO oh coercion coer coer yeah Co right um and you're doing this I'm assuming in the State of Florida is that correct uh that I have
00:53:43Daisy Chento like follow up with my lawyer cuz you said you live in New York right yeah I'm St in New York is there any reason you would file it in New York versus Florida cuz he he lives in Florida right
00:53:55Daisy Chenuh I don't know actually my lawyer they're super busy because they're like very big in New York City they haven't told me anything just like few days ago they text me like they're going to
00:54:05Brian Atlascollect all the evidence and then make announcements wait so hold on is this um your are they taking this
00:54:15Brian Atlason uh [ __ ] what's the term for it no like um are you paying them or is this like they're taking it on contingency
00:54:26Daisy Chencontingency is that the term contingency yeah but we talk about it I was supposed to be paying but then uh I told them like cuz low feed is very expensive in here I wasn't be able to collecting all
00:54:38Daisy Chenthis money and my bank account is in China so there they gave me this all right solution well we can talk more about the potential lawsuit later but um
00:54:48Brian Atlaswhy we play the video because you recorded a uh a phone call a phone conversation that you had with him yeah uh we'll play it just so the audience
00:54:58Brian Atlascan hear um what I I guess my question for you is what prompted you to want to record this conver conversation see uh