02:49:06Andrew Wilsonso he's G he was in the gang he was he was running the whole circus a drug I don't understand though because the United States and Mexico have extradition treaties between each other well I don't I don't know the further
02:49:17Bella Angelinadetails and I I don't know the further details and I don't care I just honestly was like look I could leave with this guy and be living off of him and not pay anything
02:49:30Brian Atlasfor life but I was just not attracted to him and then here I am yeah so he he was maybe facing life in prison for the crimes he had committed he fleed to
02:49:41Brian AtlasMexico uh and he wanted you to come with him and then you also wrote now here I am in the states working and paying my own bills rethinking that offer because you it's
02:49:52Bella Angelinaso funny he did get remarried and everything in Mexico and the girl the new wife like found me on Facebook mind you I do not use Facebook at all I only use it to keep up with my aunts or like family over there but uh this girl
02:50:05Bella Angelinalooked me up she was so concerned about me that she found me on Facebook and then two years after like I lost contact with him he was like if she adds you don't approve don't approve her request
02:50:16Bella Angelinaand I'm like what the [ __ ] are you talking about and then um after that he kind of used that message of warning me not to add his new wife to kind of try to get me to meet him in Mexico to hang
02:50:28Brian Atlasout but he'll try to hang out with me I just don't don't entertain it anymore you said that one thing you've always misunderstood is if men feel intimidated by Alpha women yes some men are not
02:50:40Brian Atlasattracted to either women making as much or more money than them so these are a little related do you consider yourself an alpha woman yes going around the
02:50:47Sophia Summerstable do you consider yourself an alpha woman yeah no I yet no okay I don't even know I make money are you an alpha
02:50:59Bella Angelinafemale I don't like that word alpha female Abigail are you alha Abigail I mean abil that was I guess that's my way
02:51:09Bella Angelinaof wording it but I just I like to call the shots independent you like to Peg dudes no no I just I you know I don't I'm not as submissive of as other women
02:51:21Bella AngelinaI guess and then I make my own money so if a guy comes over here and tries to you know lure me with with money yes it's it's cool and all but if they don't treat me good like I I can take myself
02:51:33Andrew Wilsonout I can you know yeah well let's stick with part of treating you good letting you call the shots huh is part of treating you good letting you call the shots I like a guy that lets me through
02:51:44Brian Atlaswhatever I want so um like [ __ ] other dudes no oh no she's letting you do whatever that whatever makes Bella happy is going to is going to happen so what what would be like give us three examples of like a scenario where a guy
02:51:57Bella Angelinawould let you do whatever you want that makes you happy if I want to buy stuff and he says no Then I don't like it I don't like buy stuff with your own money how about this well if if I want to do something you go to the club do you go
02:52:08Bella Angelinato the club bar sometimes bars yes but so okay he's like I don't want you to go to the club then I will most likely go to the club I I don't know I just I like to do whatever I want so when I feel like I'm
02:52:20Bella Angelinacaged in has a guy ever said I don't like the way you're dressing Yes my ex he's Persian he was very like don't show tits like and did you anyways yeah sometimes I did and I'd be like I'm not doing anything just because I'm dressed
02:52:33Peachesa certain way doesn't mean I'm doing anything hm okay uh alpha alpha woman are you an alpha woman I don't think so okay I'm an alpha human regardless of my gender I think I'd be Alpha human I
02:52:44Peachesthink regardless of my gender I would be Alpha so okay are you then are you just you're Alpha then okay I don't think it's separated by like masculine or feminine traits it's just a set of
02:52:55Peachestraits it's not I it's more so it's just having willpower and discernment over your life right no I think it has more to do with the dynamic
02:53:06Brandon Clarkbetween you and the male oh so if the man is telling you to do something like in this case if he's saying don't go out in that that dresses to provocative like be more modest would that be a huge
02:53:18Peachestrigger for you I wouldn't be triggered but I have always dressed kind of promiscuous so it' be weird to care now okay what about you are you Alpha no
02:53:30Scarlet Hamptonbut uh there's like a different ones so there's dominant and submissive and that's different than like Alpha and then there's like Omega and things like that and then I was researching it the summer because I was one of those women
02:53:43Brian Atlastypes but it wasn't the alpha one it was the one that was um Alpha Omega well there's like you're a sigma female there she's a [ __ ] Sigma boys yeah I was in
02:53:53Brian Atlasthe sigma she's a sigma female whatever sense to me though it made sense to me when I watched it cuz I found out who everyone I knew was see if I can find the I I didn't really associated with
02:54:05Scarlet HamptonAlpha because they care too much about being all big and stuff sing my is like and be real and and I feel things are good for other word that's cool okay question about the dynamic though so if my partner asked me not to do something
02:54:18Brandon ClarkI would not do it out of respect for them but they would do the same for me so how does that work in terms of who's the alpha yeah I think that it's going to come down to ultimately how many of
02:54:28Brandon Clarkthose discussions are you having you know is he constantly getting on you for specific things and telling you not to do specific things and how how willingly are you giving into them is also a
02:54:41Scarlet Hamptonfactor as well okay good way to look at is just sorry there's an impass if there's an impass who's the decider yeah I think of fur can I see so I didn't have like boyfriends but when I'm with a
02:54:54Scarlet Hamptonguy like and he's older guy like my first guy was like 60s and uh I would like take spend the whole summer with him I I I would just try to like wait wait wait wait I was just trying to be
02:55:04Scarlet Hamptongood so like I would do do like what he what he wanted so 60 years old yeah and my mom was okay how old were you uh this like a year or two ago so like he but
02:55:17Scarlet Hamptonyou know he he's is like more like a mentor like I respect him so I your 60-year-old boyfriend I respect him so I learned from him he wasn't a boyfriend no he never he never said it was like that was he one of the limp liberals
02:55:30Scarlet Hamptonthat you did no no because he was more like a Scientology guy oh okay wait what wow so it was really like a cult thing and then that was I had to get rid I had
02:55:40Brian Atlasstop I had to stop that one you were were you got into the sci I got away from it I got away from it I'm gone I'm not involved scary that's cool uh are
02:55:50Evayou an alpha female into the mic no no AB I'm sorry again are you an alpha
02:56:00Sophia Summersfemale I am between I am in between she's in between yes all right what about you I'm kind of with her on that like it's always been different with everyone I've been with like there's
02:56:13Brandon Clarkbeen situations I have been and then situations where I'm not do you think it has to do with the man maybe yeah that might be the case because if someone's a limp liberal
02:56:24Scarlet HamptonI mean I don't really see yeah I feel like the female has to take the on the RO it's like no I meant like when it's a liberal you got to go a lot harder to get it hard it's like okay um no all
02:56:37Brian Atlasright uh some men are not attracted to either women making as much or more money than them I guess yeah I don't think men are intimidated
02:56:49Brian Atlasby Alpha women we just don't want to deal with you we just don't want to deal with the headache yeah yeah oh you're not going to listen to what I say okay I'm not
02:57:00Peachesintimidated I'm just like you're just it's too much an not you I like what if you don't have that many disagreements but it's just a mutual beneficial that's just like you're in a mutually
02:57:11Brandon Clarkbeneficial relationship and you both communicate about wants needs and goals and work on them together yeah but somebody has to lead somebody has to be yeah for example in her in her
02:57:22Brandon Clarkrelationship the guy was not he was very insecure yeah he wasn't the alpha male because pretty much what he was saying is he's saying don't dress like that and then she would do it anyways and they would stay in the relationship later on
02:57:35Bella Angelinalike he would be the type to message my friends that's kind of what I mean by liberal and and and the younger like mind you this guy's like 44 he wanted to live a whole like Bachelor 21 22 years old that's where I
02:57:48Bella Angelinawas like wait so you're telling me I can't show a little bit of skin but you're over there messaging 21 22 year olds mind you you're 44 while you're in a relationship well in between and after and you know after he would still
02:58:00Bella Angelinamessage me he he'd still be in my DMs he' still text guys that I started dating and then he'd be like um he he'd be like oh I hope you're doing great I'm like bro leave me alone if you see me
02:58:12Bella Angelinadating a guy do not message him please please don't message him and he was still messaging Ming mind you he's messaging my friends that are like 22
02:58:21Brian Atlas21 and that's weird okay uh we're going to get back into some of the other show notes we have Adriana here uh Adriana in your Instagram it says the
02:58:34Brian Atlasgirl with the chocolate chip Cookie Addiction are you addicted to chocolate chips and also why did you not bring some to the studio uh I actually did um
02:58:43Brian Atlasoh really yeah just for me though sorry guys um yeah I baked every night you make chocolate chip cookies every night yeah I bake four every night before I go to bed I can't sleep without them you eat them like as you're sleeping like
02:58:55Sophia Summersyou're just right before bed like I can't sleep until I eat my chocolate chip cookies you eat four chocolate chip cookies before bed yes with milk what milk if you did three what if you did three three is not enough it sleep I
02:59:08Sophia Summersneed four did you put pot in them or something what do you do they're just regular choc I've just always been that way like since I was like 13 I've just been like that's a lot of calories so well I dance a lot so I burn you drinking all the milk and you drinking
02:59:20Sophia Summersall the mil take a full glass of milk yeah what you five can you do five I can I used to so fun fact I actually used to do a full batch but then I realized how unhealthy it was for me and my grandma had a heart attack so I was like okay
02:59:31Sophia Summerslet me chill like let me start eating healthier you are addicted to a CH I I cut down to six and then I cut down to four so she's a great candidate for My
02:59:41Sophia SummersStrange Addiction control I mean that's kind of like that's kind of but you can ask all my friends I make the best homemade are
02:59:53Brian Atlasthey good wow you did you should brought you did not I didn't think it would be brought up of course it is I mean you should wow I mean I'm kind of offended H brought us all I actually dressed as the
03:00:05Sophia SummersPillsbury Dough Boy last Halloween for Christmas and I I carried chocolate chip cookies with me all Hall hold on now we got to get into this so do you have like
03:00:16Brian Atlasis this like a kink I don't think it's a kink it's just like like has a guy ever been like I want to have sex with you while you're eating chocolate chip cookies and be truthful
03:00:29Brian Atlashave you had sex while eating chocolate chip cookies no but I'll eat them after post sex chocolate chip cook yeah okay what if a guy wanted to dress up as
03:00:40Sophia Summersa chocolate chip cookie eat him up and he wants me to eat kinky that's okay that's really I never thought of it as a kinky thing it was just it's my own thing like I it's my own thing it's like
03:00:53Sophia Summersthe thing to myself like if I share it with someone else it's just like it's not the same it's just like it's just a thing for me that keeps me grounded and happy and satisfied all right uh you said you dated a guy who got your Social
03:01:05Sophia SummersSecurity number yeah so um I met him at the club that was probably the first red flag um and he was just he was so nice he was a
03:01:17Sophia SummersProv provider and he did everything for me and he was sweet talk to me all the time and he went to Miami for like 2 weeks for work so we just like talk on the phone a lot while he was working um
03:01:30Sophia SummersI found out he was actually a hacker and a scammer so he could hack into anyone's Instagram social media account bank accounts Scar and then one day we're just like on the phone Kiki giggling La
03:01:42Sophia Summershe's like yeah I can find anyone's social security number and I was like yeah right ha like so funny he was like no like is and I was like wow yeah so you didn't do anything
03:01:53Sophia Summerswith your social security number what can people do take they can do so much he hasn't done anything yet I haven't done anything to piss him off thankfully um Good Times all right so I'm just like
03:02:05Brian Atlasyou know always nice to him if he ever reaches back out I'm like hey you wrote you wrote here that hookup culture is too normalized uh yeah okay yeah no no objections there no objection
03:02:18Brian Atlasyou did say that need to stop thinking that the prize or or women should earn their loyalty So when you say that do you mean to say that women are the prize
03:02:29Sophia Summersor just what I mean I wouldn't say that anyone's the prize I feel like in a relationship you two should be treated as equal but I feel like men some men think that they are like need to be put
03:02:42Scarlet Hamptonon a throne and women need to do everything and anything for them and then not reciprocate anything back and that's just not D those those sound [ __ ] a relationship should have
03:02:53Scarlet Hamptonrespect you know should be equal yeah you should have respect for people well in certain cases if it's like not like a thing like this you know I kind of think
03:03:04Brian Atlasthat men are the prize though I do too of course why well so not all men are the prize of course but like I think
03:03:16Brian Atlastypically one I think relationship ship tend to work better when the woman likes the man more than the man likes the woman because like girls right if the
03:03:26Brian Atlasdude's sing if the dude's sing and doing too much like you lose attraction all of you guys like a lot of you guys are chasing after like let me ask you guys a question and maybe it's not the case for
03:03:36Brian Atlassome of you but the guy that you really want does he want you have you had that experience yeah yeah yeah but not want
03:03:47Skyyou in like if you got him if you got him like type way would he be the prize the guy that you really really want he would be the prize right well I mean
03:03:57Brian Atlasvice versa as well right whereas whereas I I do think it's the case that when it when with men like it's a better Dynamic
03:04:07Andrew Wilsonif the girls kind of sing on us yeah well to follow that up like all of you who said that you had a guy who you really really wanted right right can you
03:04:18Andrew Wilsonjust give me a show of hands if uh the desirable trait was that you thought he was going to treat you equally that's why you desired him no I don't go ahead raise by a show of
03:04:30Andrew Wilsonhands if I can you repeat the question I know I don't get I'm like confused me too is the reason that you desired this man because you thought he was going to treat you equally was that the trait that made you desire him emotionally and
03:04:43Andrew Wilsonphysically that's a great question because men and women I feel like whatever you what however you think equal whatever equal means to you was the reason you desired this man because
03:04:54Skyhe was going to treat you equally yeah that's the reason why you desired him I mean not necessarily the only reason but there the could be one
03:05:03Skyof yeah I mean there's not only one reason asking asking is the primary trait of why you desired this man because you thought he was going to treat you equally you want a dynamic that makes it
03:05:16Sophia Summersinteresting want I feel like the man should treat you better than you're treating him to like keep like stay in it a the primary trait of this man that you desired was that you thought he was
03:05:29Sophia Summersgoing to treat you better than you treated him like no no that sounds awful but like I mean for me it wasn't even anything like considered like I just genuinely liked him as a
03:05:40Sophia Summersperson so like it's not something like oh like I like him because he's going to treat me good like it's not something I thought about right exactly it's not it's not an equal so it's if they don't treat you good I'm like okay now I don't
03:05:52Scarlet Hamptonlike you like it's not like a determining thing no they can treat you not good though but it makes you want to work harder but it's interesting that the desirable phras make you better make them make you better the thing the thing
03:06:03Andrew Wilsonthat makes you desire it or this person is not it's not in your brain that the reason I desire them is because they're going to treat me equally that's not what is moving you towards the Desiring of the person that's the point so that's
03:06:15Andrew Wilsonwhy Brian thinks that men are prize because if the if you desire them and you want to get them and it's not in your head that going to treat me equally then they
03:06:27Sophia Summerswould be the prize right I think women are more emotional and like we tend to like overthink more so I think to stay in the relationship men women overthink yeah I like to be told what to do cuz I
03:06:38Sophia Summershave to make deis I think women underthink okay almost always well I think men should like the women more than the like the man because then I
03:06:49Sophia Summersdon't know for like I don't know personal preference I mean you can totally fact check me if I'm wrong this is something I heard I don't even know if it's completely accurate but I have
03:07:01Sophia Summersheard that relationships do better when the guy is treating the girl right I could be totally wrong but that's just what I've heard yeah which ones all the all the like all the big celeb
03:07:13Andrew Wilsonrelationships when they when they're all crumbling it's always like I did everything I could for her I would he treated her like gold and she she's just like he wasn't he wasn't fulfilling me they need to respect the person feel
03:07:25Andrew Wilsonvery [ __ ] fulfilled right it's never like oh there was this there was all these horrible things going on I was like I just wasn't fulfilled and he's like well I did everything that I possibly could to fulfill her needs it
03:07:36Andrew Wilsonseems like if one party is more into the other party right in this case the woman is more into the man they seem to be more likely to stick around with the man no I feel like I like let's put to
03:07:49Andrew Wilsonthe test more put toest we we'll we'll run an experiment right here okay we'll see if if this is the case or not would you prefer to have
03:07:59Andrew Wilsona man who could walk away from you anytime that they wanted or would you prefer to have a man that couldn't not he will could walk hang on
03:08:11Andrew Wilsonhang on not that he will walk away from you anytime just that he could would you rather have a man who could walk away from you anytime or would you rather have a man that couldn't and he always
03:08:21Andrew Wilsonchooses me yeah he chooses you yeah if it's he could but he could walk away right would you rather have that or a man who couldn't like you're saying as a man who
03:08:34Sophia Summerscouldn't you're saying as far as like you're the only option yeah but you're it I mean I guess could but yeah could right who here who here would pick
03:08:47Unknown male commentatorcouldn't but like at the same time having hang on hang on hang on raise your hand if you if you would pick couldn't I feel like someone having someone who could not one of you would pick couldn't so you would could walk
03:09:00Sophia Summersaway having someone who couldn't it would give you like the security like it wouldn't give you like the fear and anxiety that someone's going to leave you then why would you pick the one that could I don't know I don't know what it
03:09:09Brandon Clarkwould pick it's inherent your DNA if a guy wants to leave he can leave I don't care have you ever but that's not the question so have you ever lost like
03:09:21Brandon Clarkattraction for someone because they were so into you no like they were so into you that it was almost a turnoff they were like I need in like Middle
03:09:32Sophia SummersSchool like like middle scho like freshman year but he was like really really into me I think that that happens
03:09:41Brandon Clarkwith most girls I think most girls get turned off when a guy is super super head over heels for them and they understand that they pretty much have
03:09:52Brandon Clarkall of the power in the relationship and that he's really not going anywhere that's what I that's where I've actually seen a lot of relationships fall apart is in that situation I think the guy
03:10:03Brandon Clarklike having the choice to leave or having the ability to leave the relationship is what ultimately keeps most relationships healthy keep IDE basically that you would prefer to have
03:10:16Peachesmen that other women desire versus having a man that No Other Woman except you desired I think people like having things that other people want is that a
03:10:26Brandon Clarkgood way to put it I will tell you that it is it is a lot different as a man walking around if you're around attractive females other women will
03:10:36Brandon Clarkautomatically start reaching out to you more and if you are in a relationship you will actually get reached out to a lot more there's something I think it's called like the boyfriend effect or the girlfriend effect where girls always
03:10:49Brandon Clarkwant you more when you're in a relationship and it's actually a lot of their it's because girls see that and they get they get jealous they want and same with guys too yes same with guys it
03:11:02Sophia Summersdoes happen it does happen that happens a lot I've heard guys would wear like single guys would wear uh rings and to the bar and then a lot of women would approach the problem so here's but
03:11:14Andrew Wilsonhere's the problem in Reverse right is like every guy who's with girl that girl is going to be desired by other men and that's unknown doesn't even matter who the girl is right she could be like some
03:11:24Andrew Wilsonlike 400 PB wilder beast and some other men are still going to desire her but that is not the case for men right it's not the case for men that other women are going to desire him and so uh women
03:11:36Andrew Wilsonhave that as an advantage and men don't that's why men who are desired by many women think of themselves surprise because they think that women who are desired by many men aren't because well it having sex with a man for a woman is
03:11:48Brian Atlasusually just as easy as presenting yourself or for it right also usually not any more complex than that also if we can even look at this somewhat mathematically do you guys think and I'm
03:11:59Brian Atlasnot I'm talking like in total so like looks personality everything combined do you think that there are more women who are attractive or more like more men who
03:12:09Brian Atlasare attractive women women like there's way more attractive women yeah so if there's a smaller pool of like generally attractive
03:12:20Brian Atlasmen I then just the math like there's men are going to be the prize then like if you're saying no if you're
03:12:29Brian Atlassaying no to 90% of guys and guys only say no to 50% of women then the guy who you are willing
03:12:39Peachesto get with he's the prize when you say attractive do you mean purely physical or like in total okay so I mean I mean I would
03:12:50Brian Atlasargue that just on the physical basis most women find like very few men physically attractive or maybe not very few but it's a small minority like most maybe
03:13:03Brian Atlaslike maybe you think 10% of men are physically attractive I like personality and then you got to actually like the guy after that so like that reduces it
03:13:12Brian Atlasdown even more whereas men like when it comes to looks they actually did this uh analysis of dating apps so men rate women on a bell curve when it comes to
03:13:23Brian Atlasphysical attractiveness women are like super harsh judges of physical attractiveness uh so maybe I don't think it's necessary to pull that up but I mean women are harsher on women too though it's just our nature I guess we
03:13:34Evahave Discerning I think we're just judgmental yeah we're just judgmental very harsh our survivor skills and plus now we are
03:13:44Evaindicated about Princess man we are in the cave princess men yes oh she doesn't text me I don't text her back she doesn't looking for me I don't looking
03:13:55Evafor her yeah she doesn't invite in me anything I don't will invite in her anything so like it's almost like men don't try
03:14:08Andrew Wilsonanymore are usually pretty harsh on other women when it comes to look yes question yeah yeah do all of you agree that women are usually pretty harsh on
03:14:20Andrew Wilsonother women when it comes to looks women are harsher than on everyone when it comes to looks everything looks yeah I would tend to agree do you think that women tend to be pretty honest
03:14:31Peachesthough honest honest yeah not other I think they think they're being honest but I think a lot of people just don't know what they want truly they say one thing but they I don't know if people truly know what they want yes I feel
03:14:43Andrew Wilsonlike can can you just by a show of hands real quick at the table uh who here thinks women are generally pretty honest okay uh and who here thinks that
03:14:54Andrew Wilsonwomen generally judge each other's looks pretty pretty harshly yeah okay so how many of you by a show of hands when you sat down at this table judged other women harshly I judged everyone here harshly
03:15:07Peachesthere's one honest woman sorry I judged everyone here har my I like every we are judging appreciate it looks good uh let's see I
03:15:19Scarlet Hamptonjudge everyone here though not just the women you judge everybody I like everybody here it's like as far as truth though I think it's easier for like me to tell guys the truth than like girls the truth sometimes because it's kind of
03:15:31Scarlet Hamptonlike I feel like I'm judged harsher by girls I judge myself that's why I don't want to have children like good choice no no but like like in general like I can't find you feel like there's like some sort of game
03:15:44Brandon Clarkgoing on with girls sometimes I don't know I think girls you can see it on social media a lot of girls lie to each other in comment sections SC I deal with a lot of girls
03:15:55Scarlet Hamptondoing the casting stuff and I seen it on everything so I know how to like that woman at the car plays you know that's just what that's terrible I did have a question on kind of related
03:16:07Brian Atlasto what Andrew was uh saying I'm trying to find it here really quick um uh what is it though
03:16:19Brian Atlashuh I can't find it well whatever we'll get back into the uh actually we got some messages here we got one from Lucas so if I'm 6'4 235 lbs and fit and
03:16:30Brian Atlasa partner at a New York City big Law Firm I'll let you guys take guesses on the compensation what percent of me exist out there and what percent of you exist out there it's a simple Supply
03:16:42Brian Atlasdemand he has one followup here thank you Lucas for the uh messages I do appreciate it uh what okay and then we have Lucas
03:16:54Brian Atlasno the woman needs to the woman needs to be the adorer because she gets and needs to have the emotional experience by being the one she loves props an attribution to Dr Orion terban for this
03:17:05Brian Atlasone we've had him on the show twice Legend uh great guy yeah so he kind of creates this uh Dynamic of there's the adore and the adorer so the adorer is the one who's like feeling it more than
03:17:19Brian Atlasthe adore and uh basically his position is as a man it's better to be the one who's adored than being the adorer so yeah I don't know if there's any disagreements
03:17:31Sophia Summerson that but we pretty much already I would just say just because this is been I learned in school biologically speaking like even like if you go back way back in the day like like 1500s or
03:17:44Sophia Summerswhatever it's usually like the guy seeking the woman like like even like in the 1500s like yeah or like in like other species like pretty sure they had
03:17:53Sophia Summerslike arranged marriages back no like no she's she I mean you are correct like the birds like birds are always like doing a dance to like prove to like the woman that they're worthy of being the
03:18:04Sophia Summersspouse like a lot of species it's the the male trying to court the female no I mean in the animal kingdom for instance there's one male lion and he humps all the chicks in the pride I mean that's
03:18:16Andrew Wilsonjust the way I'm not saying all but there's some well yeah so I mean that's not very comparable to say like behavior in animals I can give you behavior in tons of animals where uh the women are
03:18:27Andrew Wilsonbasically just disposable to the men like non-stop they're just disposable um but when it comes to humans you're talking about the 1500 you like you make a valid point women or men did used to
03:18:38Andrew Wilsonbe the pursuers of women more than anything until women demanded equality and so what's happened is chivalry has continued for actually no good reason and now men have realized well wait a
03:18:49Andrew Wilsonsecond why the [ __ ] are we doing chivalry if there's equality so if we if you do chivalry there's supposed to be additional Authority right so we're going we're protecting women we're doing this for women uh women women are put in
03:19:02Andrew Wilsona status they they have a certain status in society they have less Authority but they have a higher status but now they want they want equal status so it's like well if you have equal status what the [ __ ] are we doing chivalry for that's
03:19:13Andrew Wilsonstupid right that doesn't make any sense why buy the flowers in the Cy and do the pursuing and this and that if there's no additional status like what's the point so you do so you're shiv shiv I don't
03:19:25SkyI'm not bad I'm not yeah what he said so you do that just so you can have control over someone that's what you're saying if there was if you didn't have
03:19:36Andrew Wilsoncontrol opposite of the correct way to look at it I'll explain it to you so so women if women have a status a certain status in society okay you say well it's
03:19:47Andrew Wilsoncontrol I'm like well not really because ultimately they didn't have to fight the wars they didn't have to do any of that [ __ ] right they didn't have to do any of it so they actually had a higher Social Status than men did they were the first ones who get on the lifeboats the women
03:20:00Andrew Wilsonand the children the men stay on and go down with a ship they were the ones etc etc I mean I can give you example after example after example which puts women at a protected status so they actually have a higher status than men historically I would consider that a
03:20:13Andrew Wilsonhigher status like if you have to die before I have to die I think that that means that uh I have the higher protect or you know social status if if you have
03:20:23Andrew Wilsonto die in my stad your status is higher than mine but if you remove that and say now our status is equal across the board then what the hell am I dying for I don't get it so you're telling me
03:20:36Andrew Wilsonthat you're not in the military because of women can be in the military now uh well no women can't go into to combat the military well they can be in fields of the military whether it's yeah yeah they
03:20:50Andrew Wilsontell I agree they're good at signing paychecks but they're not in the military doing all the bang bang combat blow people up stuff that's but neither are you so why is it fair for you doing
03:21:01Andrew Wilsonthat I yeah men not you particularly so why is it fair for you to ask me we're not talking about me and we're not talking about you we're talking about men and we're talking about women isn't there okay isn't there a hierarchy to
03:21:12Peacheschivalry for everyone though like men protect women women protect out in children you know what I mean so like if something happened and all the men got obliterated in here what do men get what did men get what are we talking
03:21:24Andrew Wilsonbasically because hang hang on let her let her answer let her answer what do men what do men now get I can tell you what they got what they got was Chase virtuous
03:21:34Andrew Wilsonvirgin women that's what they got so so hang on hang on what they got was chased virtuous virgin women okay that's what they got and the status of those women
03:21:45Andrew Wilsonwas to be high and protected and if any man were to come across and do things unts towards women you would challenge them to duels and fight to the death in the street and literally kill
03:21:55Andrew Wilsonother men over the fact that they be smurged a woman's honor right that's a really high tier of social status so what do men well what do men get now what do we get I want them to why do
03:22:07Peachesthey have to get something though is shivalry only necessary if there's a transactional thing or can you just be sure justat respectful to societ answer your question yes it is it is uh in this
03:22:19Andrew Wilsoncase it would be transactional because you're just asking for a higher sense of social status that you don't actually deserve you're not giving anything for it like what are you giving to actually
03:22:29Andrew Wilsonhave the door open for you what are you giving to uh hang on to to for men to go down with the ships and you to get the Lifeboat like what is it that you're giving now you're not giving anything so
03:22:41Andrew Wilsonso you're just demanding a higher form of social status and men are like no that's not equality that's the opposite of equality do you want me to actually answer yeah I well let's say in this
03:22:53Peacheshypothetical boat situation where we're all going down with the ship and we have to decide I because I'm not planning on having children I would probably just stay back and let other people go like I don't I think it just depends on person
03:23:05Peachesto person if that makes sense like I am totally fine with being disposable not having Legacy Legacy so I wouldn't need to go above other people that care to do those things so why should you get chivalry
03:23:17Andrew Wilsonwell because you should be respectful like I would be chalous to an elderly or a child why couldn't I treat just like other women treat you which is not aerous way isn't that equality speaking from a biological
03:23:27Andrew Wilsonperspective are the ones Letang let her answer The Sisterhood doesn't bouncing off of what she's saying I I know but can can you let her answer my question for you CH so back to this why so why do you deserve
03:23:42Peacheschivalry well this is probably going to get a whole can of worms but I do think that there's a physical aspect aspect of a man's physically stronger than me I'm probably physically stronger than most elderly people and children so it's that's that's my general hierarchy but
03:23:55Peacheseveryone OB why does that mean that you deserve chivalry I don't get it well because what okay in a duel for example why would I fight my own duel yeah but why why should why should anybody fight your duel for you because there should
03:24:07Andrew Wilsonbe a general code of chivalry in society if there was why that's what that's just begging the question it should be cuz it should be cuz it should be it's like why though like you have a higher Social Status where
03:24:19Andrew Wilsonyou're not allowed to punch women because they have this social status in society that's shist right if they hit you you can't hit them back well that's gone with equality when you demand egalitarianism and equality if men Hit
03:24:31Andrew WilsonMen and the social expectations that they get hit back that's going to be the same exact thing for women now that's real equality that's what you're demanding is that the social status go to that so why is it if you hit a man
03:24:44Peachesyou don't deserve to get hit back tell me why give me a real reason why well because the man would probably be significantly stronger than me the level of Damage Done is different so you're saying that if weaker men Attack
03:24:56Andrew Wilsonstronger men which is always the case there's always one weaker than the other not justified the stronger man is not justified in punching him back that doesn't sound ridiculous to you no they can punch each other back but someone else should defend that man that can't
03:25:09Andrew Wilsondefend himself because that's shival Rous like he attacked so if you attack a man right you can't say oh oh but I'm weaker you're equal do you know what equality means equality means if even if
03:25:22Peachesyou're weaker and you attack someone stronger who cares you get the same consequence cuz it's equal I guess that's true I'm more about Pro Equity than equality so you're right I misspoke we should
03:25:32Peachesall when you're talking about the punch each other for the rest of our lives what do you is bringing up the same problem no because you're I'm so confused okay that let me let's
03:25:45Peachesbacktrack then I'm dumb and Define equity versus equality for me because I don't see how they're the same thing well don't you guys always use the Box argument the what it's not that it's not that a
03:25:56Andrew Wilsonshorter person equality is that the shorter person is as tall as the taller person Equity would be if you if you're both looking over the fence the shorter person can't see you put a box down so that the shorter person can stand on the
03:26:08Andrew Wilsonbox and now both of you can see over the fence okay we'll go with that example do you do you do you agree that that's a good explanation or descriptor for Equity yeah yeah but that's not equality then right why why shouldn't I get the same size
03:26:20Andrew Wilsonbox yeah that's why I said you're right and I believe in equity over equality so what you're doing is demanding that there be a social class based on the fact that you're not as good as other people or you don't think you are yeah that's true I think that we should
03:26:32Andrew Wilsonprotect other people and help each other you know you should always help your how you beated say well screw that that's a violation of the social contract you demanded equality you said that you wanted political equality you said that
03:26:44Andrew Wilsonyou wanted equality in the military you say that you want equality in all social categories but now you demand this thing called equity which is saying well actually even if we are equal we're still at disadv disadvantage from you
03:26:56Andrew Wilsonand so we still need further things given to us which now it's not equal then now it's it's you're a Perpetual victim class so it's like you got to make up your mind but were people really
03:27:07Peachesasking for equality the equal amount of everything or were people asking for the opportunity to pursue rights that they didn't have okay right equal to who uh legal rights equal for everyone
03:27:19Andrew Wilsonof like age race so that would be equal right so when you ask for political right ask the same political rights I have right the opportunity to engage in those political rights if I want to but
03:27:30Andrew Wilsonif I don't want to I also have that choice not to and that's exactly what I can do right yeah so that's equality so you're equal so when you demand Equity you're actually demanding that there be a social class there' be a social class
03:27:42Andrew Wilsonsystem and that you'd be part of a social class which is now a protect social class men say well wait a second that's not equality that's not what you were demanding so why is it that we should give you the equity when we don't
03:27:53Peachesget any additional Authority why that's not fair I guess you don't have to but chivalry being transactional is kind of a dick move so I guess you just should great argument I think it's kind of a
03:28:05Andrew Wilson[ __ ] move to request that people give you social status when you don't deserve it like what do you do to deserve the social status exactly other than you just want it I don't know if most people are
03:28:16Andrew Wilsondemanding a social status though I think they're demanding equality what isry chivalry is the expectation that you have certain social statuses based on the fact that you're a female that's all it is I'm going to look it up I'm going
03:28:27Peachesto look up with the dictionary definition whoa whoa whoa how do you have a phone yeah what I I could be playing Roblox right now well because I'm going to ask him about his Pew research later
03:28:37Skybut they didn't tell me I could do that yet hey yo how did she get a phone I would have been Googling I would have been Googling all kinds of stuff
03:28:46SkyI feel like women offer an emotional like and more comforting like men are strong like men are meant to be the muscle I feel like and women are
03:28:57Skymeant to be the like the caretakers and the protectors I feel like that's what women offer not the protector sorry the no side comos guys otherwise the audience can't actually hear what when
03:29:08Skypeople are talking so goe you repeat yourself sorry um I said I feel like the men are the like the muscle like the protector and the women are the
03:29:18Skycaretaker that's what women have to offer we have we're gentle we're kind where we have more of like an emotional connection can I bounce off of what
03:29:29Sophia Summersyou're saying um women are the one who Prov I mean like from a biological perspective women provide the babies women's are the ones who have to go through the reproduction and like have
03:29:40Sophia Summersto be cared for in that process so I think that's what like why a guy should be able to be like the stronger one and be more of the providing one not 100%
03:29:50Andrew Wilsonthe provider obviously like there should have any decision over your Reproductive Rights or can you have an abortion what was that question and the man is the man allowed to say a word about you having
03:30:00Andrew Wilsonan abortion no why why why would if that so then if that's the case then even if it is the case that you are the person who's responsible for reproduction you
03:30:11Andrew Wilsonare also the decider as to whose genes get to reproduce so again when you're talking about equality right that's not even Equitable by the way when you're talking about equality like what does
03:30:22Andrew Wilsonthis have to do with equality you're the ultimate deci in that category as well as to who women aren't always the ultimate decider in that though yeah that's right they are talking so again there's nothing about that that's
03:30:33Andrew WilsonEquitable and when you're talking about equality you already have that so why do you deserve chivalry why do you deserve a uh status given to you by men simply because you're female if men have no
03:30:44Peachesadditional Authority they get nothing what do they get can I tell you the definition of chivalry that I agree with based on the dictionary definition go ahead okay the sum of Ideal
03:30:55Andrew Wilsonqualifications of a knight including courtesy generosity Valor and dexterity in arms well I don't understand if you agree with that then why are you saying that women deserve uh chivalry are you
03:31:06Andrew Wilsonsaying that women deserve Knights who are great in the the category of being good with arms otherwise if that's the definition you agree with then why are are you even telling me that that women deserve chivalry that makes no sense you
03:31:19Andrew Wilsondon't think that men are supposed to be Knights good good with swords and shields and [ __ ] so why would you bring up chivalry I think that men should display qualities of courtesy generosity
03:31:31Peachesand Valor without it being transactional and they should do it just because is that shivy I mean it didn't specify whether it's transactional or not but you're saying that you would only do it you is that
03:31:41Andrew Wilsonchivalry having qualities of Valor and what was the other courtesy yeah and generosity yeah okay so so then your definition of chivalry and mine are exactly the same you just wanted to change it for the purpose of
03:31:54Andrew Wilsonthe argument but it actually made no sense so if you're just saying we as women deserve to have X well what is that then is it opening doors for you is it lifting heavy stuff that you can't
03:32:05Andrew Wilsonlift is it is it going and dying in wars on your behalf when you don't have to die on the wars is it getting in the boat first is it protecting you and the women and the children first if it is all of those things tell me what I
03:32:19Peachesget I would say yes it's all of the above and I wouldn't speak for me explicitly but I would argue that there's a good amount of women that like to be Homemakers like to work in community community fundraising things
03:32:30Peacheslike that what do I get for you for for for us to treat you that way what do we get well that's what I'm saying you're talking about it explicitly in a transactional way yeah what do we get
03:32:41Andrew Wilsoncan you tell me one thing we get for for giving you all of that [ __ ] what do we get well I'm also saying that women should be chalous to people underneath them how how could you be chalous to men like what are you going to do pick up my groceries for me like you're not going
03:32:54Andrew Wilsonto do that [ __ ] no because you're not weaker than me that's the that's the whole context but I would do that for you're just asking for a separate social status and I want to know what I get for it I want to know what men get what do
03:33:06Andrew Wilsonmen get for you getting this social status why do you have to get something if I do all of those why should I do anything if I don't get something let me know when I can finish let me know when I can finish I me answering your question you just asked me a question you said why do things have to be
03:33:19Andrew Wilsontransactional you start answering your question then you want me to you want to F go ahead tell me give me the nod when you're done go ahead okay um so I'm from my understanding your original question is what do you
03:33:32Peachesget and my statement is you shouldn't have to get anything I would be chalous towards someone that needed my help as well what is shiverers generosity things like that so all those things that you
03:33:42Peachessaid about opening doors lifting things Etc I would do for an elderly person a child what is Valor I don't know I'd have to look into that more Valor is like fighting off dragons Valor is
03:33:54Andrew Wilsonstanding up against The Horde I would do that for an elderly person or a child without anything Val is going to the okay Coral when there's 12 different men and only you right nobody's giving women
03:34:05Andrew Wilsonthese expectations that's Insanity no woman anywhere has these expectations and so as soon as you guys have those expectations fine then we'll talk about whether or not you deserve your door open you deserve to uh you know for men
03:34:18Andrew Wilsonto go down with a ship and this type of thing but if you demand equality and we get nothing for the equality then we're going to treat you equally which means you don't get to punch men you get punch in the face back it means that you get to go down with a ship you get to go
03:34:30Peachesfight in the front lines just like men you have to the same social expectations have to apply to you or we're not equals so if all men disappear tomorrow women should only be chivalrous to elderly and children if they are getting
03:34:44Andrew Wilsonsomething from them is that what you're saying what I'm I'm saying that that would be the case if you're demanding equality if you're saying no men and women are ontologically different we have a different sense of being and so
03:34:56Andrew Wilsonwe should have a different unequal social status then sure then you can say if that's the case we deserve to be protected we don't have the same status but the second you demand that you have
03:35:06Andrew Wilsonthe same exact status as men then it becomes transactional because if I otherwise why should I have the expectation of men that I don't have of you if you say you're my equal that makes no [ __ ]
03:35:18Peachessense I guess I don't understand what the correlation with chivalry inequality has to do like so maybe this where I'm confused so by women having the equal opportunity to engage in equal rights
03:35:31Andrew Wilsonunder the law that is somehow going against chivalry is that what you're also saying uh no but I'll reiterate my argument again because it's really simple if you and I are equal Andrew you
03:35:41Andrew Wilsonand I are completely equal under the law under political status under all all categories there is no reason for me not to treat you exactly like an equal exactly like one I get no additional status by treating you as a protected
03:35:54Andrew Wilsonclass or by something which needs to be protected because you're demanding equality with me not me with you so if that's the case what do I get for this uh idea of no not only am I equal with
03:36:07Peachesyou now but I get protected status on top of that like what the [ __ ] is that that's [ __ ] that's not equality okay so you're all equal under the law but let's say someone has more Traditional Values are you then going to be shiverers
03:36:18Andrew Wilsontowards them because you might potentially get something from them no a person who would follow a chivalrous value like under Christian ethics a woman she would not say that she is equal to me she would she would instead
03:36:30Andrew Wilsonbe in a submissive role to me that submissive role would Grant her additional statuses that I would not have in exchange for that I'd have elevated Authority this is how it was done all throughout human history so either you elevate men's Authority or
03:36:43Andrew Wilsonyou say you're not equals but the second you say you're equals you can't demand additional social statuses you can't do that or you're not equal you're demanding non-equality at that point can
03:36:53Peachesyou be submissive but Pro having the opportunity to do the things you want or be Pro letting other people no you can do listen if you demand equality you can
03:37:03Andrew Wilsondo whatever you want but just don't request additional social statuses like men men need to be shiverers pay for dates open doors go down with a ship go fight your Wars don't demand additional statuses if you you say you're equal
03:37:16Andrew Wilsonthat makes no sense either you're equal or you're not equal here you can't have it both ways maybe this might maybe make it a little easier if you're a woman we've got a
03:37:27Brian Atlascouple women here who do only fans you guys don't deserve for men to pay for you on first dates you have you have uh
03:37:36Brian Atlasforsaken your traditional gender roles Chastity uh modesty men should not have to pay for on first dates with you you might don't want
03:37:47Andrew Wilsonit but that would kind of be a tradeoff you're invol what you're asking is yeah the basic is like equality or privilege you pick but you can't have both you
03:37:58Andrew Wilsoncan't be equal and be privileged you can't have these special privileges granted to you and then still say you're equals that's insane that makes no sense it's literally a contradiction okay but what if you don't
03:38:11Peachesexpect to be paid for on the first date but I expect guys to open doors for me just like I would open for someone else I mean you can expect it you don't deserve it or yeah that's what I'm saying exactly that but I guess but I don't deserve something cuz of my
03:38:22Skyoccupation you could I could be going out with somebody for the first like couple times and they'd be opening my door and I'm like oh yeah by the way I do this and their whole their whole opinion and their View and everything
03:38:32Skychanges about me and the way like just because of my job so look it means I'm I am less than something because of the job I have is what you're telling me well here's what I'm telling you so I
03:38:44Brian Atlasdon't doubt that you women who are involved in sex work you're still going to get men who are chivalrous who will pay for you on dates who will open the car door who will um what's the other
03:38:55Brian Atlasthing I don't know open the open regular doors for you uh buy flowers do all this [ __ ] right because maybe they don't know
03:39:03Brian Atlasbetter but you're still holding men to their traditional gender roles but you're like prostitutes or [ __ ] or on
03:39:13Brian Atlasonly fans or dressing uh revealing like you're not conducting yourself in a way that's traditional like don't you doesn't that compute like oh okay I'm not a traditional woman like
03:39:26Brian Atlasis it look you'll still get it a lot of women still have these expectations even though they're more promiscuous they're more involved in sex work they're the least submissive the least feminine they've ever been in all of human history yeah you can still get it
03:39:37Brian Atlasbecause men know that on a like a biological level you guys respond to the traditional treatment you guys respond if a guy wants to maximize his ability to either get you in bed or maybe even
03:39:49Brian Atlasget you in a relationship yeah men do what works so but we're having a we're having like a higher level conversation we're having a conversation about do you
03:39:59Brian Atlasdeserve it oh I know chicks who are strumpets who are un only fans they still get all that treatment do they deserve it no that's the convers I have
03:40:09Sophia Summersa question so what about women who aren doing any sex work only it's just women in general mhm do you think they deserve it what do you mean you'd have to be you're basically saying you're this is
03:40:22Sophia Summerswhat I'm getting you're basically saying they don't deserve it because of their job but then uh we deserve it because we don't do sex work that's what I'm get I'll explain it so the idea is like this
03:40:34Andrew Wilsonlet's say you have a Christian marriage okay the idea here is the woman submits to the man's Authority The Exchange though is the man is definitely giving her additional privilege many additional
03:40:46Andrew Wilsonprivileges like she she usually it's something like uh well I have the responsibility right the buck stops with me so I have to take the responsibility right but with that comes the authority that's a position of privilege
03:40:58Andrew Wilsonimmediately that's a a position of privilege immediately so thing is is like what you're saying though is I want equal Authority I want equal Authority
03:41:09Andrew Wilsonwith you but privilege and it's like no so modern women can't have that either you can't say I want equal Authority and have equal privilege just doesn't work that way you I kind of see what everyone's saying because even though
03:41:21Ninasocietal Norms have changed and now you know some women they don't want to be submissive or whatever men are still like biologically like hardwired like you know as was said before like to you
03:41:32Ninaknow protect woman whether that be just holding a door it's still you know no we've been socially conditioned to do so
03:41:40Andrew Wilsonover hundreds and hundreds of years of carryover from chivalry and from uh many areas in which women were a resource which needed to be protected and they
03:41:52Andrew Wilsonneeded to be protected because that's where the kids came from and for various other reasons as well we're not in that age anymore the social wired the social conditioning is
03:42:02Andrew Wilsonbeginning to fall off and and all that remained the second women remember that the egalitarianism or you know women voting and being in the same social pedigree as men when it came to
03:42:14Andrew Wilsonpolitical power is brand new we've only had a couple of generations since this happened and so the Boomers for instance they were still raised with this kind of shival RIT code from their parents who
03:42:24Andrew Wilsonwent through that the the Gen Z has none of that okay Gen X had a little bit Millennials gen Z have none of that so now we're re-evaluating how intersexual Dynamics work and and men have realized
03:42:37Andrew Wilsonwell wait a second this is really a bad deal for us why do women deserve to have additional social privileges at the same time they demand equality and we have no additional Authority well [ __ ] that we'll just treat them exactly like we do
03:42:48Ninamen and women go that's mean that's heartless that's evil that's horrible and it's like well you got to pick one I mean I guess it depends like if you're you know if they want to pay on a date or whatever go 50/50 that's one thing
03:43:01Ninabut at the end of the day women are still like physically like weaker than men so men should still pick up that box for a woman you know why why tell me why I should they should because they're stronger it's what you should do so just
03:43:14Andrew Wilsonbecause a person's stronger that entitles you to their labor yeah so any person who's stronger than you you're entitled to their labor did I hear that
03:43:25Andrew Wilsonright I'm I'm sorry repeat that any person who's stronger than you you are entitled to their labor you get tell what to their body and their muscles because men are hardwired to protect
03:43:36Andrew Wilsonwomen whether they realize it or not you know biological thing it's a biological it's hard wiring I don't believe you prove it I'm not hard wir pick up your [ __ ] boxes because you're weaker than
03:43:47Andrew Wilsonme show me where the hard wiring is he's not hard the guy is not hardwired to be your slave because he's stronger than you show me where the show me where the Harding slave it's just picking up a box
03:44:00Ninait's it's not like I'm asking you to go outside and pick up every box you see it's just picking up yeah why should I pick up any box for you why should I help you with anything ever there things that are
03:44:12Ninajust spoken and you should do regardless like wait wait how about know I keep asking you why I should how about this CES we don't need a why let's talk about shoulds we don't need a why cuz you want
03:44:24Brian Atlasthings in return let's talk about shoulds should women be virgins no I don't know what do you mean you I know should stop stop stop you don't know but
03:44:36Brian Atlasyou just listed out like multiple different things men should do why is it so easy for women to say men should do XYZ and you have you actually in addition to that you have no problem
03:44:46Brian Atlaswith making should claims about what men should do but the moment men say women should XYZ now that I think about it women should strive to be virtuous yes
03:44:58Andrew Wilsonyes I think women should have a low body count yeah I think women should should women be submissive is equality virtuous what does virtuous mean well virtues are series and
03:45:10Andrew Wilsonsequences of Duties which are applied to people that they're that they're commanded do in order for you to be in the like goodness category right that virtue relationships should be like
03:45:23Sophia Summersreciproc how do you say that word reciproc equal reciproc Rel be like 5050 so like if you open my door for me I will be like wanting to be nicer to you
03:45:33Sophia Summerslike perfect you pick up a box for me I pick up box I pick a box for you exactly like that's I agree with that like if you buy my dinner I cook dinner like ex men have to go fight on the front line
03:45:45Sophia Summersand because of my job fight the front L I'll probably like let's say I make more money than the guy I wouldn't have no problem paying for meals like you know what I'm
03:45:54Bella Angelinasaying can I quote a movie scene from the Bronx tail have every everybody okay there was a part in the movie where the
03:46:03Bella Angelinathe dad tells uh the main character I forgot his name um he said if a if you open always make sure to open the door for a girl when she gets in the car and
03:46:15Bella Angelinathis is going to be the test if you go around the car and she opens the door for you that means she's the one or like she's a good girl so that was his test
03:46:26Bella Angelinathe son goes in he went and did that for the little the little girlfriend that he had and she went and opened the door so he was like Dad she's the one she's the one or she's at least a good girl because he opened the door but then she