ØF VlRGlN?! 18 With A BBL?! Methany?! Feminists vs. Andrew! Gigachad! E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk #223

Date: 2025-01-27
Duration: 7h 30m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Sky(guest)
SPEAKER_04Scarlet Hampton(guest)
SPEAKER_05Bella Angelina(guest)
SPEAKER_06Sophia Summers(guest)
SPEAKER_07Eva(guest)
SPEAKER_09Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_10Brandon Clark(guest)
SPEAKER_11Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_12Nina(guest)
SPEAKER_13Peaches(guest)
SPEAKER_14Abigail Letz(guest)

Key Moments

00:00:12
QuoteBrian opens the show: 'Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape. I'm your host Brian Atlas.'
00:00:12
QuoteBrian opens the show: 'Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape. I'm your host Brian Atlas.'
00:12:00
Key MomentSophia confirms she is a virgin OnlyFans creator: Brian asks 'So you're what, a virgin?' and she says 'Yeah, no, yeah, I'm a virgin.'
00:12:00
Key MomentSophia confirms she is a virgin OnlyFans creator: Brian asks 'So you're what, a virgin?' and she says 'Yeah, no, yeah, I'm a virgin.'
00:36:08
OtherSophia reveals she had a BBL, breast augmentation (850cc), and chin lipo all done at once in the Dominican Republic right when she turned 18, paid for with savings from working since age 14.
00:36:08
OtherSophia reveals she had a BBL, breast augmentation (850cc), and chin lipo all done at once in the Dominican Republic right when she turned 18, paid for with savings from working since age 14.
00:44:18
QuoteSophia reads her OnlyFans bio to Brian: 'I love being a plastic doll. Help me grow and achieve my perfect bimbo body. I want to go much much bigger. All tips go towards surgery.'
00:44:18
QuoteSophia reads her OnlyFans bio to Brian: 'I love being a plastic doll. Help me grow and achieve my perfect bimbo body. I want to go much much bigger. All tips go towards surgery.'
00:45:05
OtherSophia explains her BBL plan: she wants 3-4 BBLs total. She intentionally eats a lot to gain weight, then gets lipo again. Wants to eventually look like Gracie Bon.
00:45:05
OtherSophia explains her BBL plan: she wants 3-4 BBLs total. She intentionally eats a lot to gain weight, then gets lipo again. Wants to eventually look like Gracie Bon.
01:16:55
QuoteBrian declares himself a 'Natural Body Supremacist' and says he'd prefer a flat A-cup over perfect fake breasts. Claims an 80% poll result from his Twitter showing men prefer flat over fake.
01:16:55
QuoteBrian declares himself a 'Natural Body Supremacist' and says he'd prefer a flat A-cup over perfect fake breasts. Claims an 80% poll result from his Twitter showing men prefer flat over fake.
01:51:55
QuoteBrian tells Sophia/OF girls: 'If all women collectively were like we're not sleeping with men until we're married, y'all would be courted like women and y'all would all be wives.'
01:51:55
QuoteBrian tells Sophia/OF girls: 'If all women collectively were like we're not sleeping with men until we're married, y'all would be courted like women and y'all would all be wives.'
01:58:07
ControversyScarlet Hampton breaks down crying during the prostitution/sex work debate. Describes how women end up doing things on camera without full consent, trying to please bosses. Says she doesn't promote her OF anymore because she's seen how porn hurts people. She left the set temporarily.
01:58:07
ControversyScarlet Hampton breaks down crying during the prostitution/sex work debate. Describes how women end up doing things on camera without full consent, trying to please bosses. Says she doesn't promote her OF anymore because she's seen how porn hurts people. She left the set temporarily.
02:09:36
ControversyAndrew responds to Scarlet's claims of innocence: 'These women will do this all the time — they'll be like oh my God I was perfectly innocent, I had an angelic halo... and then the evil men came and corrupted me. That's obvious BS.' He calls her story implausible.
02:09:36
ControversyAndrew responds to Scarlet's claims of innocence: 'These women will do this all the time — they'll be like oh my God I was perfectly innocent, I had an angelic halo... and then the evil men came and corrupted me. That's obvious BS.' He calls her story implausible.
02:11:00
OtherSophia reveals she has epilepsy (3 months seizure-free), POTS, and Raynaud's. Her parents support her OF because she can't drive or do many normal jobs due to these conditions.
02:11:00
OtherSophia reveals she has epilepsy (3 months seizure-free), POTS, and Raynaud's. Her parents support her OF because she can't drive or do many normal jobs due to these conditions.
03:18:00
ControversyAndrew vs panel: extended chivalry debate. Andrew: you can't demand equality AND expect chivalrous treatment. If women demand equal status, men get no incentive to open doors, go down with the ship, pay for dates, or fight wars. Peaches argues chivalry should not be transactional.
03:18:00
ControversyAndrew vs panel: extended chivalry debate. Andrew: you can't demand equality AND expect chivalrous treatment. If women demand equal status, men get no incentive to open doors, go down with the ship, pay for dates, or fight wars. Peaches argues chivalry should not be transactional.
04:42:57
OtherSophia reveals she made her boyfriend wait 7 months for sex and lost her virginity at age 16 to him (her only partner). Her current body count remains 1 despite doing OnlyFans.
04:42:57
OtherSophia reveals she made her boyfriend wait 7 months for sex and lost her virginity at age 16 to him (her only partner). Her current body count remains 1 despite doing OnlyFans.
05:05:54
Key MomentPeaches confirms she is a swinger: 'We sleep with other people together, together, never apart. I've slept with women by myself — just me and women.' Brian: 'So you are a swinger.' Peaches: 'Yes.'
05:05:54
Key MomentPeaches confirms she is a swinger: 'We sleep with other people together, together, never apart. I've slept with women by myself — just me and women.' Brian: 'So you are a swinger.' Peaches: 'Yes.'
05:25:52
QuoteBrian: 'If women had their body count written on their forehead, all the problems of the world would be fixed — there would be families and children again, women would be conducting themselves properly, men would be conducting themselves properly.'
05:25:52
QuoteBrian: 'If women had their body count written on their forehead, all the problems of the world would be fixed — there would be families and children again, women would be conducting themselves properly, men would be conducting themselves properly.'
05:50:30
Key MomentBella recounts the Bronx Tale car door test: open the car door for a girl, then walk around. If she reaches over and unlocks your door, she's the one. She says this test told her about her son's father.
05:50:30
Key MomentBella recounts the Bronx Tale car door test: open the car door for a girl, then walk around. If she reaches over and unlocks your door, she's the one. She says this test told her about her son's father.
06:00:48
OtherAbigail's Ohio story: 'Terry from Walmart' — a man who wore heels to Walmart every day hoping to get fired for a discrimination lawsuit, but never got fired, so had to keep wearing them. Now everyone just calls him 'Terry'.
06:00:48
OtherAbigail's Ohio story: 'Terry from Walmart' — a man who wore heels to Walmart every day hoping to get fired for a discrimination lawsuit, but never got fired, so had to keep wearing them. Now everyone just calls him 'Terry'.
06:19:00
ControversyAndrew vs Peaches: 90-minute debate on moral relativism, objective vs relative ethics, whether harm-based ethics can condemn culturally accepted atrocities (Papua New Guinea example), gang bang society vs nuclear family society. Andrew argues secular ethics can always justify bad behavior; Christian ethics have unchanging standard.
06:19:00
ControversyAndrew vs Peaches: 90-minute debate on moral relativism, objective vs relative ethics, whether harm-based ethics can condemn culturally accepted atrocities (Papua New Guinea example), gang bang society vs nuclear family society. Andrew argues secular ethics can always justify bad behavior; Christian ethics have unchanging standard.
06:34:44
ControversyAndrew makes personal attack on Peaches and her partner: 'Because your husband is a cuck and because you're in an open relationship, I'll always have a higher social status than him no matter what, the second they learn he engages in cuckery my social status will be higher.'
06:34:44
ControversyAndrew makes personal attack on Peaches and her partner: 'Because your husband is a cuck and because you're in an open relationship, I'll always have a higher social status than him no matter what, the second they learn he engages in cuckery my social status will be higher.'
06:47:04
ControversyAndrew's most aggressive moment: 'You're so f***ing stupid... your entire ethical system revolves around how many dudes can plug you and your justification for that... that's why we call you c*mers, degenerates, and disgusting heathens.' — directed at Peaches. Peaches stays calm; Bella protests.
06:47:04
ControversyAndrew's most aggressive moment: 'You're so f***ing stupid... your entire ethical system revolves around how many dudes can plug you and your justification for that... that's why we call you c*mers, degenerates, and disgusting heathens.' — directed at Peaches. Peaches stays calm; Bella protests.
06:48:40
OtherAndrew Wilson departs the show: 'It's 3am here. Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. I don't take any of this personally. Was nice to meet all of you.' Brian thanks him and sends a Crucible raid.
06:48:40
OtherAndrew Wilson departs the show: 'It's 3am here. Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. I don't take any of this personally. Was nice to meet all of you.' Brian thanks him and sends a Crucible raid.
07:26:05
QuoteEnd-of-show call to action: Brian asks each OF/sex work panelist if they will quit right now. All decline. Nina advocates for the younger girls saying it's not too late to change trajectory.
07:26:05
QuoteEnd-of-show call to action: Brian asks each OF/sex work panelist if they will quit right now. All decline. Nina advocates for the younger girls saying it's not too late to change trajectory.

Topics Discussed

00:03:24
Guest Introductions

Brian goes around the table having all 10 guests introduce themselves with name, age, location, occupation, education, and relationship status. Includes extended discussion about Sophia's 18yo virgin OnlyFans status and her BBL/plastic surgery, Scarlet's porn career context, Bella's son and past DV relationship, Sky's dead mom and running away from home, Brandon's virginity, and Andrew Wilson's introduction.

00:35:00
Plastic Surgery, BBLs, and the Bimbo Aesthetic

Extended discussion of Sophia's multiple plastic surgeries (BBL, 850cc breast augmentation, chin lipo), her plan to get 3-4 BBLs total by gaining weight then getting lipo, and her 'plastic doll / bimbo' aesthetic goals (inspired by Kim Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, Gracie Bon, AUAB). Debate on whether men truly prefer natural bodies or fake bodies despite saying otherwise. Male preference polls, the 70% natural statistic from a donor, and Sophia's defense of her choices. Discussion of whether plastic surgery is a proxy for mental illness. Whether taxpayer-funded cosmetic surgery should exist.

01:15:00
Tattoos, First Impressions, and Pattern Recognition

Discussion of whether tattoos on women are a red flag or neutral. Andrew argues tattoos correlate with promiscuity and outgoingness as pattern recognition; Sky defends tattoos as art. Debate on whether men unfairly disqualify women for choices (tattoos, plastic surgery) while women disqualify men for things out of their control (height, baldness). Scarlet reveals porn industry discourages tattoos/piercings for female performers.

01:40:00
Height Preferences and Dating Standards

Discussion of height preferences among female panelists. Sophia says she would never date a man under 6'0" (she is 5'8.8" — though earlier she said she is 5'0"). Eva says she dates shorter men too. Sky and Sophia both at 5'0". Brandon at 24 is 5-something (exact height not given). Discussion about how Andrew will likely never satisfy the panel's requirements. Connection to women disqualifying men for uncontrollable traits while men get called superficial for caring about choices.

01:50:00
OnlyFans, Sex Work, and Morality Debate

Sky argues OF is not immoral in a capitalist society (comparing it to waitressing). Andrew argues virtual sexual activity for payment is definitionally prostitution. Scarlet has emotional breakdown crying about the porn industry's effect on people and how she ended up deeper in it than intended. Brandon asks if any of them see themselves as positive influences. Peaches argues she does it for love of the game. General debate on supply vs demand in the porn industry, addiction, and whether performers have any responsibility.

01:58:00
Scarlet's Emotional Breakdown

Scarlet becomes emotional discussing how women end up in porn without fully choosing it, referencing being filmed without full consent, doing things to please bosses, and seeing porn addiction hurt real people. She left the set briefly. Andrew questions whether she was on drugs; she denies it and offers a drug test. Donors also questioned whether she was on drugs.

03:03:00
Men Are the Prize vs Women Are the Prize

Brian argues men are the prize because there are far fewer conventionally attractive men than women, and women are harsher judges of male physical attractiveness. Andrew uses the 'adorer and adoree' framework (Dr. Orion Taraban). Most women admit they desire men who could walk away rather than men who are locked in.

03:18:00
Chivalry, Equality, and the Transactional Debate

Andrew debates Peaches extensively on whether chivalry is transactional. His argument: you can't demand equality AND expect chivalrous treatment — pick one. If women demand equal status, men have no incentive to open doors, go down with the ship, pay for dates, or fight wars for them. Peaches argues chivalry should exist without being transactional. Andrew argues that Christian women who submit get the full chivalry package; modern feminist women get nothing extra. Brian connects this to whether OF girls deserve men to pay for their dates.

04:42:00
Body Count Discussion and Hypocrisy Debate

Brian asks everyone their body count going around the table. Sophia: 0 (virgin). Abigail: 0 (virgin). Sky: 5. Peaches: 40-50. Bella: 12. Eva: refused/tourist. Adriana: refused (got up from table to avoid the question). Nina: ~9 (low single digits). Brandon: 0 (virgin). Brian: 'Virgin' (jokes). Extended debate on whether caring about body count is hypocritical, what hypocrisy actually means (Andrew's definition: pretending values you don't have), whether men and women should be held to same standards, and the sexual marketplace value of low-body-count women.

06:19:00
Feminism vs Andrew Wilson — Ethics and Gang Bang World Debate

Peaches and Andrew in extended debate on moral relativism, objective vs relative ethics, whether harm-based ethics can condemn things like ritual abuse of minors in Papua New Guinea (where it's culturally accepted). Andrew argues Christian ethics have an unchanging objective standard while secular harm-reduction ethics can always justify bad behavior. Andrew ultimately insults Peaches directly, calling her and her partner degenerates/cumers. Peaches remains calm. Bella intervenes. Andrew leaves the show around 6:49 to send a raid.

06:48:00
Andrew Wilson's Departure and Raid

Andrew says he has to leave (it's 3am where he is), thanks the panel, says he doesn't take any of it personally, hopes to talk again. Brian thanks him and sends a Crucible raid.

06:50:00
Roast Session and End-of-Show

Brian opens a roast session at $30/TTS. Donors roast individual panelists. Discussion of men vs bear (multiple panelists chose bear), transgender disclosure debate, whether men who date trans women are straight (Brian: no, not straight), cross-talk about Abigail's alleged Luigi Mangione DMs, Adriana's confession about sending money to a guy who slept with another girl on furniture she bought him. Brian asks if any OF girls would quit right now — all say no. Sky reads Green Eggs and Ham. Show wraps with call to tune in Tuesday.

07:18:00
Abortion Rights and Women's Equal Rights Discussion

Adriana's questionnaire item: she disagrees that women have equal rights to men in USA. She cites abortion restrictions in some states. Brian points out men have zero reproductive rights (can't stop a woman from having or keeping a child, yet owe 18+ years child support). Adriana partially concedes and takes back the statement, saying she was mainly thinking about abortion access.

Transcript

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00:54:59
Sophia Summerson them with exactly with the the other ones I think most realize like what's natural and what's not nowadays I mean peaches was like is that your natural body and no like I'm honest I'm not going to lie to you and say oh yeah I
00:55:12
Brandon Clarkwent to the gym you can achieve this look like you can I think that a lot of guys that say that are actually lying and I think a lot of them have
00:55:21
Brandon Clarkunderlying porn addictions that have made them lean towards that side of things I think it's also very easy for a
00:55:30
Brandon Clarkguy to say i' prefer a natural woman with curves but that's also just very irregular to you know for a lot of
00:55:39
Bella Angelinapeople to have so normal for people to cheat on their wives and the wife can be natural and everything but at the end of the day they cheat on the low like it's so normal nowadays or you can just feel
00:55:52
Sophia Summersashamed cuz I mean there is like a negative connotation or a negative perspective to plastic surgery that you feel like oh I shouldn't like that yeah Ogle um do you think you could I don't
00:56:03
Brian Atlasknow if you can send us the study if you can send send us the study so we can actually look at it because she see she says that she thinks it's perhaps dubious so like if we we could actually
00:56:14
Brian Atlaslook at the study uh please that could be helpful Kai Baka thank you for the gifted 20 Subs really appreciate it thank you so much over there on Twitch yeah a lot of girls like that do like
00:56:25
Sophia Summersour work not yeah um they literally like will pretend like they don't get anything done and then like they do make it seem like they are natural so that
00:56:37
Sophia Summersmen feel like oh yeah I I at least you're being like yeah like you're tweeting it like you're like yeah I get all this done you know so I have a question for sorry Sophia I forgot your
00:56:48
Brandon Clarkname EV Eva thank you would you would you like it if a man was on performance enhancing drugs like steroids because those are those are pretty common in South America as well
00:57:01
Evathis is the situation because in Spain um people like it a lot take care of their s and everything so we woman recognize right away when men's just use
00:57:11
Evathis to get an attention you know but in my case for example I can recognize men when they are well for beautiful things interesting I prioritize Health you know
00:57:23
Sophia Summersso if you're healthy if you're not taking a really high dose where you're going to kill yourself or hurting your heart um then I'm fine with that I mean once I start getting bigger I'm going to
00:57:34
Sophia Summersgo to the gym I'm going to do cardio so my health is healthy you know um so yeah if if I find a guy that's on steroids and he feels good and he likes the way he looks then yeah why not very
00:57:45
TTS/Donation readerinteresting we have another one just a follow up here from Ogle thank you man appreciate it oel donated $200 last comment on this from me you guys are mixing up what a man will have
00:57:57
TTS/Donation readersex with versus what he will end up with you can be one or the other I guess pick a choice okay but is it like sleeping with a woman your foot in the door to dating them isn't that what a lot of
00:58:08
Brian Atlasguys say wait hold on so you'll date me but do you think men all the women that men sleep with they're going into that sexual encounter with the intention of being in a long-term relationship with
00:58:19
Brian Atlasher no or don't you think it's actually more likely than not that when a man is pursuing a sexual interaction with a woman it's it's probably not for long term it's probably not but it's a foot
00:58:29
Brian Atlasin the door to that direction yeah sure I would disagree with that I mean he's just pointing out that uh they'll have sex with these women but long
00:58:42
Peachesterm but even if that's the case it's still a distraction to the ultimate goal if you're trying to be in a relationship and they'll tell you up front if you know if they don't want a relationship with you you know like you kind of choose it like I don't choose to have
00:58:55
TTS/Donation readerrelationship with guys cuz they know what I do well what about this we have Metro mat coming in here you has to be donated $200 women who get work are insecure
00:59:06
TTS/Donation readerthemselves and that's enough of a red flag in and of itself stay natural Ladies as men appreciate it okay what's wrong with being insec something in
00:59:15
Sophia Summersfixing it though I mean if you're fat you go to the gym cuz you want to look a certain way I wanted to look a certain way uh it doesn't mean I'm insecure my
00:59:26
Skylast body I do think I got hotter um but so what to each their own I feel like everyone's insecure I feel like he's saying it in a bad like way like a
00:59:38
Skynegative way but I think that everyone is insecure about something and they can work towards something and like make it better so you might want to punch me after I say this but couldn't you have
00:59:49
Brian Atlaswent to the gym to get your butt not really again to each their own maybe maybe not that's a good point Abigail maybe not like her butt but like can you
00:59:59
Sophia Summersget a nice butt in the gym yes yeah for sure um but no I was going for an extreme look that's the look I like I I can't go to the gym your boobs look great like I can't see your butt like you're sitting I'll stand up later how
01:00:12
Brian Atlasabout this do you guys think that a guy who didn't want to date a girl because she had plastic surgery do you think that that's that's totally fair I mean we all have our our our own boundaries
01:00:22
Sophia Summersyou know right like I probably wouldn't data Ginger that's fa okay like wow I mean we
01:00:33
Sophia Summersall have preferences so I mean are you a g why I'm just curious why I'm I mean it's just not my type like we have types I think that's like what's your type I
01:00:42
Sophia Summershave like two different types yeah so it really depends no no no no no okay so it's like a light skin or what is
01:00:53
Sophia Summersthat you mean a lightskinned black guy yeah okay go ahead or like a white like blue eyes oh yes like yeah like brunette
01:01:05
Ninalike light dirty Brown yeah like blondish hair like two complete different types you know what I'm saying listen to the I honestly think if more people this would be the case I have a
01:01:17
Ninaquestion for you so you said you wanted to go for the extreme look was that something you always wanted or is that something you decided on because you you know you knew you were going into to
01:01:26
Sophia Summersonly fans um I mean at first I wanted like a Kim K look for sure Nicki Minaj um I think throughout the years I got more comfortable and like now that I
01:01:37
Sophia Summershave it like I thought these boobs were going to be too big for me I got 850 CC which is the biggest you could get in one round and I was like okay if it's the biggest that's what I want but they might be they might look too big now
01:01:48
Sophia Summersthat I have them and they've settled um I want more you know so I think throughout the years I have I mean I I didn't know I didn't know Gracie Bond 3
01:01:58
Sophia Summersyears ago I didn't know AUB two years ago so I think the most The more I've been exposed I'm like that looks really good I want to look like that what draws you to the extreme look
01:02:09
Sophia Summersthough which is you know what I'm wondering yeah um I me personally I like it but also good money I me you feel like it's going to make you more money yeah that's that's my goal so if you think if you were influenced by other
01:02:20
Sophia Summerswomen on the internet you would have never had plastic surgery I don't think so I think Society also has uh like beauty standards so it's not just social
01:02:31
Ninamedia it's it's everywhere it's always been a thing you know yeah no I just want to understand because like I don't have any work done but if I were to get work done like I would know want it to look as natural as possible like my thing is like if they could tell that
01:02:45
Ninait's fake I don't want it like my eyelashes for example they're lash extensions a lot of people say you can't really tell and that's the look I was going for you're just enhancing your own yeah so I just wanted to know like the
01:02:55
Evaopposite perspect and plus they are fake you pay for that so they are the it's real it's my own fat guys it's just transferred your lashes look really good thank
01:03:07
Brandon Clarkyou hi K hi you're so cute we the manil at the table so go ahead and okay fantastic well I I have
01:03:19
Brandon Clarkanother question for you so you said that you're all pretty much in this for the money m will you ever get to a point where you're satisfied with how much money you
01:03:31
Brandon Clarkhave when I can like fully retire okay so what would that look like what's the goal 28 29 okay so your goal would be to
01:03:40
Sophia Summersretire at 28 years old kids in the future maybe I have my younger sisters and I'm I'm basically raising them I I
01:03:49
Sophia Summerswant to adopt them so um I don't know so family husband eventually yeah for sure I mean I want to meet someone organically you
01:04:00
Sophia Summersknow I don't want to meet someone on social media I do think social media has ruined the dating scene um so I want to get to know someone and obviously they need to be okay with what I do the job I
01:04:12
Sophia Summersdo the the way I look obviously so if they're okay with those boundaries and they have the same morals as me of course so by the age of 28 do you plan
01:04:22
Brandon Clarkto keep your body count under a certain number so that like you said you'll be able to have a lower body count when going into a relationship well by the by that time I hope I'm in a loving
01:04:34
Sophia Summersrelationship okay so by that time yeah I I would want someone that's okay with my work and maybe even willing to do it with me you know I don't want to sleep around with a bunch of guys very
01:04:43
TTS/Donation readerinteresting do you plan to oh one sec Jason Castle donated $200 thank you Jason chree there are
01:04:51
TTS/Donation readerapproximately 166 million men in the US 30% of that is about 50 million there is a good chance the men that like fake [ __ ] is from the 50 million most men
01:05:03
Sophia Summersdon't like fake women most men don't like women um since you dispute since you dispute these thinking about like the gays hold
01:05:13
Brian Atlason hold on stop since you have some disputes over the 70% figure that ogul mentioned I guess what percentage of men do you think maybe I don't know if this
01:05:23
Peacheswould be the right phrasing prefer uh the whole fake look over natural or you give us your own percentages it's hard because I don't know so I would have to see like exactly what study he's talking about what's the
01:05:36
Peachesdemographic what's the regions and what's the percentage and things like that that is just something that I've seen or experienced in my in life my personal life and seen on the internet so having a set percentage I don't I can't even begin to speculate do you
01:05:49
Peachesthink it's a majority of men so 51% uh or more I think a majority of men either wander with their eyes or engage online by liking or following Etc in
01:06:00
Peacheswomen that have these extreme body types now I'm not saying that they like are dming them or things like that but I do think that most men are probably subscribing to that or like
01:06:12
Peachesliking that and putting their energy towards that which feeds the algorithm and then you slowly get Society pushing that everywhere even if it's the minority of how most people live their lives okay also I think I think it's
01:06:24
Ninaokay if you don't like a plast a person that has plastic surgery I'll just find someone that likes me do you plan to invest your money into anything with the money you make on only fans
01:06:35
Sophia Summersyeah I mean um maybe like she wants to just reinvest it in herself she is not Trump coins she is her no not real estate yeah yeah I mean I'd have to
01:06:47
Sophia Summerseducate myself on that um but yeah I don't want my the money I've earned and all my hard work to go to waste especially cuz I don't plan on doing only for the rest of my life yeah okay
01:06:58
Brandon Clarkwhat else do you want to do sorry what was your decision to enter into the Tik Tock shop thing and sort of hustle did you ever consider doing only fans and getting into that side of I I actually
01:07:10
Bella Angelinahad an ex that had a fetish with only fans girls and he tried to like pressure me into it but it just never was my um thing so you you don't have like morals
01:07:22
Bella Angelinathat were keeping you from doing it or anything like that I just it was just wasn't my thing I was a cosmetic and hair model ever since I was 16 so I always like to do my own thing when it
01:07:34
Bella Angelinacame to um me starting my modeling career um I've always been very independent and that's why I became a casting director because now I
01:07:44
Bella Angelinaknow I know I know how to place girls in a way that um they don't get taken advantage of and they can make money
01:07:54
Bella Angelinawithout having to do a little bit extra and maybe getting taken advantage of so I'm the middle person I know the risks
01:08:02
Bella Angelinaof both ends and um I just chose to keep it in the production industry because I just I felt like because somebody
01:08:12
Bella Angelinapressured me so much into getting into that environment I was like you know F that I don't want to do it I kind of got a little bit of anger towards it I'm not going to lie I'm going to be straightforward when somebody a
01:08:25
Bella Angelinaboyfriend is trying to get you in there it's because he had a lineup of girls that he was like I want you to be like this girl and I'm like no I don't want to [ __ ] do that I'm be comfortable with absolutely yo mimo thank you for the
01:08:37
Brian Atlasgifted 50 Subs on Twitch man thank you so much man that's very generous of you uh I guess final question on the plastic surgery thing and I'm going to move it
01:08:44
Brian Atlasalong would you guys date a guy who got PEC implants AB implants and bicep implants no I've seen some pretty bad
01:08:56
Skyones I don't I don't know if I would yeah the Synthol injections where their biceps like out to here it's really bad would you would you dat um I would I don't know I don't I don't think so
01:09:09
Brandon Clarkprobably they could probably work out and get the same result I feel like in the end of the day it depends well how big how big they want to get it do you think that like there are some mental
01:09:20
Brandon Clarkissues that go into that what did you say Do you think that there are some mental issues that would go along with a man that injects his muscles with oh yeah I know that people that do roids
01:09:32
Brandon Clarkhave a lot of anger issues and are more like stuff like that so I don't know if he was probably what do you think like if you saw a guy that had like Brian said like PEC implants or like Synthol
01:09:44
Sophia Summersinjections would you think this guy's probably not all there I think yes want a guy that goes to the gym just cuz that's that takes like a lot of work and dedic
01:09:55
Sophia Summersso I think that's it it shows them that they have a like a a work ethic you know and you guys are probably like you
01:10:03
Sophia Summersshould have gone to the gym too um but um if they look good I I guess you you do you ba um would would any of you
01:10:14
Sophia Summersthink it's like mental illness though kind of I would date somebody with a two I think it's a lot easier to to do
01:10:23
Sophia Summersthat than to get injections for men yeah I don't I don't think itary for have you seen like a man get like their eyebrows threaded they think it's like the worst
01:10:34
Sophia Summerspain ever I took my brother to get his eyebrow started he didn't talk to me for a week yeah like they were like like I couldn't imagine like they could not get
01:10:43
Sophia Summersany work done like I would date somebody with a jaw lipo that's when like my dad yes I have a dad but like when he acts like when he has like the slightest cold he acts like it's the end of the world
01:10:56
Sophia Summersso I couldn't imagine him getting like a BBL and like laying there for a week he would be like oh my God like I'm in so much pain like he couldn't like do the recovery process at all so I just think a lot of women would look at a guy who
01:11:08
Brian Atlashad those plastic surgery procedures and be like you wouldn't you probably wouldn't find it aesthetically attractive and then just you'd also think okay this guy's like mentally ill
01:11:20
Bella Angelinathat's kind of how I think when it comes to women who have plastic surgery like he stares at himself too much in the mirror though like all plastic surgery or just the extreme it's uh it's a sliding scale cuz what if you couldn't tell and you found out like way later
01:11:32
Sophia Summersyou had been dating them for a year and they're like oh I got but the jaw Lio is fine I think I'm okay with the jaw Lio like a guy that gets jaw Lio is okay with like hair transplants for guys oh my
01:11:44
Sophia SummersGod that was so obvious I mean I think girls are even starting to fool me I'll be scrolling like on Tik Tok and like I'm seeing like girls getting like boob jobs and lipo and I'm like holy like I didn't even like recognize it like it's
01:11:57
Andrew Wilsongetting like more and more like unrecognizable and the saus lip what was your just I just want to let you know you you said about five sentences there and you said like 16
01:12:10
Brian Atlastimes who I have really bad grammar I am from Ohio guys so she is she is from Ohio she is from Ohio yeah um what what was your question what if
01:12:21
Peachesit if you let's say theoretically your detector failed and you were dating someone and a year down the road they were like oh yeah I have had a nose job or lip filler like but you didn't notice are you going to be like that's it call
01:12:33
Brian Atlasit off well again it it goes to the degree of what they've gotten uh some procedures are more invasive than others uh rhinoplasty not I mean not super
01:12:44
Brian Atlasinvasive lip filler not super invasive I can tell if a girls had lip filler um it's I mean maybe there's some that's minimal but like if you look at them from the side
01:12:55
Brian Atlasthe lip protrudes in such a way that never naturally occurs like if you look at a girl from the side there's like a ridge the sausage lips well even if it's
01:13:05
Brian Atlasminimal there there's like a a ridge that never naturally occurs so lip filler is actually pretty obvious to me but again it's scales like okay breast
01:13:17
Brian Atlasimplants that's a bit that's a bit more lipo that's a bit more BBL that's going pretty far with it and so I do think that these are probably proxy for some sort of Mental Illness but but so you
01:13:30
Peacheswould immediately break up with them if you didn't know and then they told you oh so I got Bamboozled yes you couldn't fig you like didn't tell and then they tell you later does that didn't tell what though you couldn't tell like you didn't I know you say you're really good
01:13:42
Peachesat seeing it but I'm just saying if you didn't catch it you bring that up wait so just just for the sake of like the hypothetical is it that much of a deal breaker matter at all so
01:13:55
Brian Atlasone thing I'd like to try to avoid with these conversations is like going to like
01:14:00
Brian Atlasreally kind of like extreme or like unrealistic scenarios so like you can ask me like what about this situation so
01:14:13
Peachesokay be precise what surgeries does she have that I'm not aware of and I've been dating her for a year say she got a boob job and I know let's just say but theoretically in this
01:14:24
Brian Atlashyp you did not know would it be that much of a deal breaker where how would I not know if I've been dating this girl for a year I felt her boobed it doesn't feel normal and the dotting the dotting on
01:14:35
Peachesthe body you have you felt fake boobs well yeah but the point isn't about the fake boobs I just picked a random surgery I'm just it's just a plastic surgery you can pick anyone you like if you if you didn't notice
01:14:47
Peachesyes okay yes be a deal breaker there you go that's all I was wondering that would not be a deal Breer for me if she bambooz Bamboozled you if
01:14:58
Brandon Clarkshe lied about it yeah for sure but if it was something that was so minor that it was she giggles and like surprise but your I I feel like you're going to you're going to have a really
01:15:09
Brandon Clarkhard time finding a girl that isn't incredibly insecure about something so yeah I don't I don't think that would that wouldn't bother me too much I don't so I guess to answer your
01:15:21
Brandon Clarkquestion Mission like she was hiding it for reason yeah if she was if she was hiding hiding it and she lied about it like I said that would be a she not lying about it
01:15:32
Andrew Wilsonadmitting it because perhaps she like in in Brian's case Brian's saying okay I don't like this so the response from the gal is like okay but what if you really like this girl and then you found out
01:15:44
Andrew Wilsonlater that she had this work done hadn't told you about it let's say Brian had never asked so he has no idea she didn't lie to him exactly right she just hit it in this case it would be she just hit it
01:15:55
Andrew Wilsonbecause he knows uh she knows he doesn't like it right that's the case that's definitely is that like an Omission really that's definitely a second dat question for me I usually go
01:16:07
Andrew Wilsonwith that one and then are you a virgin is usually a first state question that makes sense 21 no no I get I get that but I'm I'm I'm not saying you specifically I'm just saying in the
01:16:18
Andrew Wilsoncase of Brian what I'm what I'm saying is that there there's an Omission so if you go for a year right and and a girl's had boob job and things like this and knows that you don't like plastic surgery that's why she omitted it she
01:16:30
Andrew Wilsonhasn't lied to you but she has done an Omission here which uh which to me would be just as good as lying essentially right so you just say look uh that's dishonest even if the intent wasn't to
01:16:42
Brian Atlaslie direct yeah if you've made it clear that you don't like it for sure yeah and I guess going back to your thing so I mean even going in I it's not a
01:16:52
Brian Atlas100% a deal breaker like if she has boobs it is like a negative Mark though like aesthetically I don't like it and then I'm going to probably make some
01:17:03
Brian Atlasassumptions whether correct or incorrect like maybe proxy for mental illness or she's just like there's a degree of vanity there that I typically don't find attractive it's not 100% a deal breaker
01:17:15
Brian Atlasbut it is like I am uh less inclined to data woman with fake bre so Brian for you it's a it's a red flag for you personally like let's say outside of the word yeah so it's not
01:17:25
Brian Atlas100% deal breaker but um are do you guys is red flag a considered deal breaker or is it just something like I'm proceeding cautiously I mean some people consider
01:17:37
Brian Atlasred flags deal breakers but uh yes it would be a red flag is it but yeah not 100% deal breaker but I mean it's just not my preference it's not my preference
01:17:47
Brian Atlasunderstandable but like if the girls otherwise amazing and meets all my other criteria I don't think he would be 100% Zeal breaker but I doef have a strong
01:17:58
Brian Atlaspreference towards I'm a natural body supremacist Natural Body supremacist prefer natural I'll take I flatter acup
01:18:09
Brian Atlasover perfect fake titties I did a poll on it on Twitter actually 80% of guys who responded to my poll said they'd prefer a girl who has
01:18:19
Brian AtlasAC cups or who is flat over a girl who has perfect like I think it I said seup fake breasts I feel like your demographic might be biased though it
01:18:29
Andrew Wilsoncould sure it could it's your followers it also got into TT wait but I mean shouldn't it be so if the idea here is you're you're kind of sampling the de demographic who are in the dating Market
01:18:41
Andrew Wilsonwho are young men who are giving you their preference like it seems like that's exactly demographic you want to hear from but you're pulling from a religious demographic specifically what this isn't a religious demographic I guess more conservative I mean between Andrew you're really religious and I
01:18:55
Andrew Wilsonwould say you're fairly conservative so I'm assuming most of the people that watch you align in that not whatever no whatever whateverit so it's a specific following you know what I mean well I
01:19:06
Andrew Wilsonwould agree with you on The Crucible my channel that uh probably 56% of people are religious there's no doubt that that's true but whatever is a whole different ball game I don't think most of the people there are religious at
01:19:18
Bella Angelinaall not specifically religious but there's a type here you know the viewers are very familiar they familiar with his preferences with his preferences but I
01:19:28
Andrew Wilsonfeel like that goes uh only that is only limited to your followers so they are agree with his type of girl you'll have Clips right those clips will go out to
01:19:39
Andrew Wilsonmillions of people literally millions um and then you can you can start reading through the comments right and it's like there there's an awful lot of men who
01:19:49
Andrew Wilsonseem to agree with the the Social Circle that's uh speaking on these polls whatever now is she right is that is that astute scientific information well no right of course not and nobody's
01:20:01
Andrew Wilsonsaying it is just that I'm not sure that it's bias I mean that's kind of who we want to hear from right as men who are in that uh demographic who are in the dating demographic that's that's who you would I I don't I don't see what's bias
01:20:13
Peachesabout that are are you actually asking me or you're just generally saying that yeah I'm asking you like what what's actually bias about it I don't know I think if you also pulled your general Community
01:20:26
Peachesabout certain viewpoints they' probably lean more conservative than liberal so therefore they're probably going to align with more natural body types than non-natural body types you mean just any random Community anywhere in whatever podcast
01:20:39
Andrew Wilsonspecifically I mean if you want to the problem the problem with that is that most men lean conservative period most most women lean Progressive most men lean conservative now that's not saying that all women are progressives
01:20:51
Andrew Wilsonit's not saying all men are conservatives just that most men lean more conservative center right most women lean Center left you see that in their voting pattern so wouldn't that be reflective you're saying it's more conservative they'd like natural body type seems like you're making the case
01:21:05
Brian Atlasthat men generally would like a more natural body type right that's what they say yeah I mean it's not even clear to me that liberal men would be more inclined
01:21:14
Andrew Wilsonto fake body types I I mean well I agree hang on I agree with that but her point was to say I think that because they they lean conservative therefore most
01:21:26
Andrew Wilsonconservative men likely would would prefer to have natural body types but if we extend that logic out it's like fair enough but if most men then lean conservative this would be most men with
01:21:37
Andrew Wilsonlike natural body types regardless of what uh liberal men do or don't like right yeah okay we have a chat here from Jason yo Jason thank you man appreciate
01:21:47
TTS/Donation readerit Jason Castle donated $200 ladies listen to buff David Boe he is making sense changing what you look like especially to the extreme is a
01:21:59
TTS/Donation readermental illness gentlemen not one step back not one step back um man that's literally what screaming yeah man um all right we're
01:22:10
Brian Atlasgoing to move on to the uh next David Bowie you don't know David oh my God David Bowie wa know David Bo he is 24 rock goding rock legend uh here we're going to we have
01:22:23
Brian Atlasone chat here real quick quick from Lucas then we'll get into some more notes Lucas you gs do realize that the woman who we end up with becomes a reflection on our status both professionally and with our family of
01:22:34
Brian Atlascourse I married a woman with no tattoos silicone or any piercings we got a couple do we have a couple septum piercings here we got sky with a septum piercing you got a septum
01:22:46
Brian Atlaspiercing anybody else got the rock in the SE tattoos though tattoos I have a lot of tattoos a lot my ears are pierced actually with the tattoo thing really
01:22:56
Brian Atlasquickly since it came up uh I think a majority of men I think uh for Mo maybe even most men isn't maybe that's the same thing prefer no
01:23:09
Brian Atlastattoos that's probably true but I don't care didn't know that H I didn't know that yeah like I think when it comes to I think when it comes to tattoos on women like it's going
01:23:19
Brian Atlasfor overall it's going to be neutral like there's maybe some men who have like some sort of fetish or kink like that do like that thing or they like the aesthetic majority of men though it's
01:23:31
Andrew Wilsoneither going to be completely neutral or it's going to be negative I think it depends on location so like if a a woman has a butterfly tattoo or something stupid like that that's covered up that
01:23:43
Andrew Wilsonnobody else is ever seeing like I don't think I don't think men care about that but if they have a sleeve right it's instantly in the you're uh a trashy chick category almost instantly if
01:23:53
Brian Atlasthere's a sleeve or neck tattoo or you know stuff like that you instantly go in that category I I agree with you Andrew it certainly is like the the degree to which they're tatted up like if it's a
01:24:05
Brian Atlaslittle heart on their inner wrist I don't think most men are going to care but again I think even then it's still neutral it's going to be neutral to them like I don't think they're like oh I'm
01:24:16
Brian Atlasmore attracted to herc because she has tattoos whereas I think there's far there's far more women who are going to be more attracted to a guy because he
01:24:26
Brian Atlashas tattoos not all women some for some women it's neutral for some women it's negative but I think you'll see on dating apps for example women are like oh I like a guy who's tatted up um you had something on this um I feel like
01:24:39
Skyeveryone definitely is going to have their own opinion about this but in my personal opinion I see tattoos as art people make those they draw them you put them on your body and I feel like they represent you uh I feel like a sleeve
01:24:51
Skyisn't trashy also tattoos are expensive I don't think it's trashy to have a full piece I think I mean in my personal opinion I think it's awesome but I also am biased I do have a lot of tattoos everyone in my family has tattoos
01:25:04
Scarlet Hamptoneveryone that I hang out with has tattoos so did you have something yeah yeah I was going to say like in the adult film industry a lot of us uh like if our stuff didn't sell to men like
01:25:14
Scarlet Hamptonsome of us not everybody but like some of the adult industry we like let's say you're a girl performer you're trying to sell to men so like like I know girls that have have tattoos they get them
01:25:25
Scarlet Hamptonremoved or they even tell us the agents tell us not to get tattoos or we won't get work and they also just tell us yeah not to get face piercings or we won't get work and then um you know they
01:25:37
Andrew Wilsonbasically kind of tell us what to do you know it's it's really interesting I can tie something together for you real quick that might surprise you so when women un alive themselves when they when
01:25:48
Andrew Wilsonthey do that uh they almost never do it with anything regarding the face so even if they use like um you know like a boom boom stick right I'm sorry I have to use
01:25:59
Andrew WilsonYouTube language for this um they they'll actually do it in the chest right they actually you know chest uh things like this they actually will almost rarely do they do anything with their face and the reason is is because
01:26:13
Andrew Wilsonthey want the presentation uh you know at their funeral to be a certain way they want to be they want people to remember them a certain way they want to be presented a certain way and uh this this actually
01:26:24
Andrew Wilsoncorrelates with body art the exact same way right women generally don't want their faces tatted up they don't want that because um they think that there's an expression there that other people see that they don't like right there's
01:26:37
Andrew Wilsonsomething which is ingratiated there that they don't like so I think it is true that men associate this rightly so because they would associate it with like way more outgoing way more social this and that and if you're way more
01:26:49
Andrew Wilsonoutgoing way more social generally they would associate that with promiscuity and so I think think that that's why that stereotype exists and I think it's a rightful stereotype to be honest with
01:26:59
Peachesyou do you think that preferences have hindered modern dating so like for example I guess like writing someone off over what I would argue are these superficial attributes that don't
01:27:12
Peachesnecessarily contribute to their character always sometimes they do I know whatever but don't always contribute to their character is causing people to not partner up as much and things like that look I don't I don't
01:27:23
Andrew Wilsondisagree with you uh if what you're getting at is like you can be a a completely head to toe tattoo covered woman and have a heart of gold and follow every form of Christian ethics ever and uh you know keep your Chastity
01:27:36
Andrew Wilsonintact and have tons of virtue I'm not disputing that there's some women who could do this what I am disputing is that most women who would do this are not that and so because of that we're as
01:27:47
Andrew Wilsonpattern recognition machines human that's what human beings are we generally associate behavior and patterns right that's what you were trained to to do as a uh as a a a psychiatrist right you're you're
01:28:00
Andrew Wilsonliterally diagnosing People based on behavioral patterns that's that's the only way you can do it so if that's the case what you're doing is you're categorizing behavioral patterns in order to make a diagnosis but everybody does this all day long uh we categorize
01:28:12
Andrew Wilsonbehavioral patterns in people and if we see that most of the time women who have tattoos are skanks right then we generally tend to stay away from skanks right that's that's that that is a stereotype I agree and it may you may
01:28:26
Peachesthink it's unfair but we don't categorize it that way for no reason but do you think it's helpful to like immediately dismiss them and I'll use this in the context of dating apps so for example on a dating app if someone has a tattoo you're like okay no I'm not
01:28:37
Peacheseven going to engage whereas before there was a lot more third spaces or people just like met at work and stuff like that like you might not know the girl you had a crush on had a tattoo on her back but you liked her so you went
01:28:49
Andrew Wilsonout with her and then you find that out later and it doesn't matter as much yeah the thing is is like no I do I do think it's it's actually helpful to dismiss immediately based on that's why the pattern's there so the the whole thing is is you're recognizing patterns of
01:29:02
Andrew Wilsonbehavior you're dismissing people immediately based on those patterns it's a way for you uh to keep yourself protected right that's I mean we all every human being on planet Earth does this so I I do think it is actually very
01:29:14
Skyhelpful to be like oh that chick has a tribal face tattoo next right I think that that's perfectly reasonable you have something I just don't I I just don't agree I don't really have anything
01:29:26
Skyto add on to it I mean I we could say this about men as well we're specifically talking about women here I mean but we have a tatted up Christian man virgin who's right here I don't think that exactly s not I'm not saying
01:29:39
Skythat in a bad way at all congrats I'm just saying that like I think you can't say specifically women if you're like oh they're like this tattoos are like this and why is it not correlated with well
01:29:50
Andrew Wilsonwell I think we can and here's here's how I can make the the argument and I think it actually makes sense so I think um the characteristic of a man being
01:29:59
Andrew Wilsonvery outgoing uh being very carismatic means that he may be promiscuous but it's not really a sure thing it's not really something which would just categorize him as being instantly in the
01:30:11
Andrew Wilsondomain of he's going to sleep around for one thing they always have way less options than women no matter what anyway with women though the categorization I think is much easier when women are more outgoing they tend to be more
01:30:23
Skypromiscuous than the res there's no doubt about that okay so but if it's easier for wom to sleep with someone then wouldn't the men be the skanks because the men are there lined up not
01:30:35
Skythe women it's harder for a man to sleep with a woman he can go up to a chick and ask her 50 times but like as soon as like does do my making sense I'm sorry I kind of lost my train of
01:30:47
Andrew Wilsonthought makes sense sorry I kind of lost it but yeah I got confused I think I understand what you're saying um I'm just not really sure what that would have to do with us categorizing based on
01:30:59
Andrew Wilsontattoos and Face Art and things like even even like here I'll give you an example even for men if men have face tattoos right generally that's a red flag for other men to stay away from
01:31:10
Andrew Wilsonthem they're like ah TR you know there there's probably something wrong with you you know we're going to stay clear you're in a gang or something like that so even for other men that would be a red and generally speaking they'd probably be right they'd probably be
01:31:22
Andrew Wilsonlike okay well wait guy who has tribal face tattoo probably staying away from you as a good idea and they would probably be correct um okay question for Andrew
01:31:32
Peachesshould women give bald men a chance then if their preference is non- bald men they wait hold on I don't know what that would have to do he he can fix that so like that's the same thing with tattoos
01:31:43
Andrew Wilsonlike that's not really that important of a trait I guess wait wait wait hold on so well what does the man being bald tell you about him though that's the distinct so what we're talking I don't care about having children but if
01:31:54
Andrew Wilsonwhat we're talking about is a pattern being bald is always a choice a pattern which you can which shows Behavior so women women who are highly patted up they're probably outgoing right they're
01:32:06
Andrew Wilsonprobably way more open with people and so likely they're more promiscuous there's like a good likelihood that that's true so this is an inference that men make that and I think generally it's true it's not always true but it's true
01:32:18
Andrew Wilsonenough what what does a man being bald tell you about his behavior though nothing it doesn't tell you anything it tells you that he has bad that's all the type of guy that hits on me it tells you
01:32:29
Andrew Wilsonhe's good at fishing CM down calm down I'm almost done let me all you're saying all you're saying is that based on my uh preference for attraction should I date man I'm not attracted to and it's like
01:32:41
Peachesno but I don't know what that has to do with anything we're talking about you're saying that tattoos show either like me mental unability so if I as a woman see
01:32:51
Brian Atlasa bald man that tells me like bad jeans so like that's the hold on hold on hold on hold on just a sec you can fix that you're literally proving our point because your original argument was whoa
01:33:03
Brian AtlasIt's really bad like how superficial men are because we're talking about like how we're going to disqualify women based on choices that they make but women
01:33:13
Brian Atlasconstantly zero men out and will not date men based off of like to things totally out of their control you mentioned superficial oh it's so superficial for guys to not want to date
01:33:24
Brian Atlasa woman because she has tattoos women are like if you think men are superficial women take superficiality to the [ __ ] extreme hold on hold on because you guys won't date a guy who's shorter than you you guys won't date a
01:33:37
Brian Atlasguy who's a certain height you won't date a guy who's balding so by you bringing up this whole like oh well what about the balding thing are what are you trying to argue that women like have a preference towards bald men despite like
01:33:50
Brian Atlasfull head of hair being more attractive no women prefer to date men who have a full head of hair women prefer to date men who are tall women prefer to date men who are above average in the Bulge
01:34:02
Brian Atlaswomen disqualify women will wow will 100% disqualify a great guy if he's not a certain height if he doesn't have a full head of hair if he's below average in
01:34:13
Brian Atlasthe Bulge whatever it is and all those things I listed are completely out of men's control whereas the things we're talking about right now when it comes to tattoos plastic surgery that's choices y'all make I agree and I think more
01:34:26
Peacheswomen should give more men with those traits of CH they don't though they don't but they should that's what I'm saying well who cares about should who cares about should they don't why don't they because most people because they're superficial how about that yes most people are engaging on dating apps and
01:34:38
Brian Atlasjust swiping swiping swiping oh you think height is only a a dating app thing I think it depends on the age like if you're probably 18 to 24
01:34:48
Peachesyes women's preference for tall men persists their entire life what are you talking about but women over the age of 24 25 that aren't typically on dating apps as much you typically see them with
01:35:00
Peachesa more wider range of looks I guess or they're not as you know they're not as dismissive of explicit traits because you're more likely to meet someone in real life and things like that I'll give
01:35:10
Brian Atlasyou this so I think women as they get older do tend to deprioritize a little bit uh physical appearance in men other
01:35:20
Brian Atlasthings start to become a bit more important status money uh personality so yeah sure when women are younger yeah they're going to prioritize like is this guy hot is this guy attractive but if
01:35:32
Peachesyou look at most people in like married or coupled relationships the guy's not six foot and jacked and the woman doesn't look like Kim Kardashian so that's what I'm saying is like that doesn't prevent a large amount of women
01:35:44
Brian Atlasfor having like a really strong preference for tall men yeah I mean they have that preference but I think when they give those other men a chance they're surprised also men on average are taller than women so yeah it's no surprise that
01:35:56
Peachesyeah most relationships are you're going to see like an average height woman average high guy like I don't think most women explicitly care about 6 foot though I think they'd be perfectly fine
01:36:06
Peacheswith like 5'8 5'9 I mean you say that but you really or even 5 men most cheat on me doesn't have any tto hold on hold on put your put your hey put your mic back where it is one
01:36:19
Brian Atlasthing with the microphones guys we've already placed them where they need to be don't move them put it back uh so you mentioned like oh but on the dating apps but studies show the majority of people
01:36:30
Brian Atlasmeet on dating apps they meet online so like certain I don't do even people even people in their late 20s and 30s the majority of people are still meet in
01:36:41
Brian Atlasfact I I almost think that dating apps like it's super easy to meet people in college once you're out of college 2122 then maybe you got work but it's kind of frowned upon to like dating
01:36:53
Brian Atlaspeople at work I actually think there's a greater likelihood that people who are in their late 20s or 30s are going to have to rely on social media and dating apps because your Social Circle shrinks uh you don't have college you're not
01:37:06
Andrew Wilsonlike in college it's so easy to meet people do we do we have a fact Checker cuz I'm curious waar true wait do you think do you think according to recent studies most people today meet the Romantic Partners online through dating apps and websites making online dating
01:37:18
Andrew Wilsonthe most prevalent way couples connect in the current ERA the trend is particularly prominent among headed sexuals would you like the study links this comes in from Pew research the findings from them this also comes in on
01:37:29
Andrew Wilsonthe focus for family they did a study on this uh there's a whole slew of studies about it in fact most of which are kept track of by the dating apps themselves because well they want to charge you money so the best way to do that is to
01:37:41
Andrew Wilsonlink you with people who you get dates from so they keep uh they keep very close tabs on them okay I actually would like to see that does it break it out
01:37:50
Andrew Wilsonbreak it up by age rages it does yeah but I mean whether whether or not let I mean let's say even for a second it didn't break it up by age rages like just just for the sake of it it's still
01:38:03
Andrew Wilsonmost most people romantically meet online now most like there's no that's that I mean that has to be the case right because if you say I'm romantically involved and then you say where' you meet him while I met him
01:38:15
Peachesonline I mean it's pretty it's a pretty easy thing to to keep track of right that that's not exactly hard data to gather I think there's a good demographic of people that have been in relationships for a longer period of
01:38:26
Peachestime than dating apps have been popular been around that can't really participate in that study cuz they're already in a relationship and have been for like 10 plus years why couldn't they participate in the study they would just say no I didn't meet my partner on
01:38:38
Andrew Wilsondating app well yeah but they're pulling the sample from a dating app so if you're not on the dating app no they're not they're not pulling it from the dating app no not I mean they do pull from uh dating apps it is true that you
01:38:49
Andrew Wilsoncan find some of this data specifically from d dating apps but the studies aren't making to reference the dating app specifically wait Andrew I mean one
01:38:58
Brian Atlasquestion though uh because the study you cited it doesn't indicate that 100% of people are meeting on the dating apps if
01:39:06
Brian Atlasyou were pulling from the dating apps wouldn't or wouldn't that number be 100% well that's what I was confused about at first because you're but ping people
01:39:18
Andrew Wilsonfrom the dating apps then everybody who was on a dating app you would would 100% be meeting on the dating app of course yeah uh well I guess not it is possible that you be external the dating app while you were using the dating app
01:39:30
Andrew Wilsonthat's fair yeah but uh but the point being is that no uh most people are meeting in fact even with friendships most friendships are now developed online uh so I mean that's not really that shocking to
01:39:44
Andrew Wilsonme yeah so yeah I just figured i' you know I I I thought it was fair if you ask for a source you know that you get the source I would look at Pew research I think that you would probably agree that they're fairly accurate with their
01:39:56
Brian Atlassourcing not perfect but fairly accurate I will look at that okay okay uh let's see here did you have something on the
01:40:06
Brian Atlastattoo thing or um no no I'm done oh okay yeah I mean can you remind me what your position was though on the T the
01:40:16
Skywhole tattoo thing and um I feel like I mean it's art I feel like tattoos don't don't Define who you are at all um I mean you can put them to represent you
01:40:28
Skyas your body I mean some people get tattoos they have no meaning it just depends who you are as a person I feel like I feel like you can have a you can be covered in tattoos and be the world's shittiest person but you could also be covered in tattoos and be the world's
01:40:40
Skynicest caring person I don't think it matters if you like getting tattooed you like having colors on your body then you like it who cares is my personal view on
01:40:49
Brandon Clarkthat yeah I agree I think tattoo is tattoos are art that's how I see them as well but at the same time I think that
01:40:59
Brandon Clarkthe tattoos that a woman has uh I think Brian brought it up placement but then also what the tattoo is I think it says
01:41:08
Brandon Clarka lot about them as a person and I think in general girls that have gotten a lot of tattoos they tend to have a bit more
01:41:18
Brandon Clarkof a complicated past would you say that about men as well or no um yes I would say that about men as well I think that guys that have a lot more tattoos tend
01:41:30
Evato be yeah they tend to have a more complicated history I can't argue with that exactly yes the men Mor cheat on me doesn't have any tattoo wait you're
01:41:42
Evasaying the guys that cheat on you don't have tattoos no tattoos it's my ex and he don't has even one and he Che me three time in my face and plus say to me
01:41:53
Evaoh yes I do I love you and we not meeting the up datings so I don't know I think one of the really the um this is
01:42:01
Evathe one of the real points about now in the Kat we are Is For Real try everyone to work out the traumatizes me the first
01:42:13
Andrew Wilsonone yeah but this is the this is the old argument where you say look in general women like taller men you go I don't like taller men it's like what is it that doesn't it's a non seity it doesn't
01:42:23
Andrew Wilsonmean anything like just because you have a certain preference doesn't mean that that preference beats up with the preferences of most women it just doesn't mean that you know what I mean and for some reason some odd reason
01:42:35
Andrew Wilsonoften when you're talking generalities with women and you say things like women like taller men they'll say I don't like taller men as though that means anything if that doesn't mean anything you know what I mean it's like if I said to you
01:42:47
Andrew Wilsonmost women prefer men who have blue eyes and you're like but I like men with brown eyes that doesn't tell us anything that's like that goes nowhere it's total nonse just means nothing you see what I'm saying like it
01:43:00
Brandon Clarkjust that doesn't doesn't actually mean anything it doesn't actually engage with what we're talking about do you guys have preferences in terms of height of men I know you said
01:43:13
Brandon Clarkthat you wouldn't date a guy if he was shorter than 6 foot right yeah cuz I'm 5 foot 8.8 so so you wouldn't date someone
01:43:21
Sophia Summersthat's 5'9 no absolutely not and also I feel like shorter guys tend to have like a smaller
01:43:30
Sophia Summerslike is that what you're trying to say yeah like H I don't know how to say give you the word us like tall men usually are
01:43:41
Sophia Summerspacking honestly from my experience I have not had the best experience with taller men the shorter men I've been with have been big shorter men are so sweet they're so but for me personally I
01:43:54
Sophia Summersdon't know if I'm just like a rare I've dated shorter men who have had bigger dicks sorry than the taller the taller men that I've been with have been
01:44:04
Sophia Summerssmaller see I've only physically been with one guy but like I've seen you know and like I know like heights like matching like aligning you know that's
01:44:16
Sophia Summerswhat I thought I know like statistically taller guys are packing so like if I were to like date I would be like too short like I would swipe if I was like in a jubilee video I'm I'm 5 foot so if
01:44:28
Sophia Summersa guy isn't taller than me that's kind of weird in general like if anyone is shorter than me you're short you know so I'd be fine with someone that's taller
01:44:37
Skythan me okay yeah um I'm also 5 foot so I don't think I'd go for anyone shorter than me but also if you're hot you're hot I don't have preference you could be taller you could be like 65 but you
01:44:49
Skycould also be like 55 I don't care as long as you're a little bit taller than me if you're hot you're hot that's my kind of take on it gotcha okay you me do
01:45:00
Skyyou have a preference um I mean I'm 5'1 I can't date anyone shorter than me man the five below below that you have to be like medically like there something has
01:45:11
Skyto be something medically wrong if you're like shorter than us 2 in shorter like you have to be like an actual [ __ ] to be shorter like than me so
01:45:21
Bella Angelinait's like I'm not going to lie 59 5'9 is kind of like my lowest yeah cuz yeah I mean I don't
01:45:32
Evano yeah I wish to say this in Spanish but I has to say in English I mean I don't know my profan is
01:45:42
Evareally heed about that I I like it tall guys because I am really short they like 51 so okay I mean I all I dated guys shorter
01:45:54
Brian Atlasthan so wait here I'll just on the tattoo thing and then we'll move it on um so I think the big thing again it depends like how many tattoos but a lot of men are going to look at that men are attracted to Purity and women yes there
01:46:06
SkyI feel like men are attracted to innocence and I could understand that I mean with what I do for work I haven't had any really bad like negative connotations about me having tattoos so
01:46:18
Brian Atlaspersonally I don't it hasn't really affected me well just to be clear um if a woman has tattoos a lot of tattoos even I don't think it's going to
01:46:29
Brian Atlaspreclude her from getting a boyfriend or getting sexual attention or romantic attention from men even a lot of men yeah um but what I am saying is that I
01:46:41
Brian Atlasthere's a subset of men I don't know if it's a majority but there are men who are not going to want to date you or other women who have a lot of tattoos
01:46:51
Brian Atlasbecause of they tattoos you you prence but we're just pointing out the reality that hey look for a lot of men a woman who has a lot of tattoos could be a deal breaker for him could he
01:47:04
Brian Atlascould view it as a negative I wouldn't say it's a lot of men but I would definitely say there is some well I so I think men will there's some degree of Toleration that's occurring okay there's
01:47:15
Brian Atlassome degree of like tolerating that's there's some degree of tolerating that men are doing but I think realistically like majority
01:47:26
Brian Atlasof men when it comes to tattoos it's going to be neutral and then negative I think very few men are going
01:47:35
Brandon Clarkto be like it's a positive you can I no I'm saying that I actually prefer go ahead goad I want to say something so like a lot of like most
01:47:46
Scarlet Hamptonof my friends are guys like all of them are and they like girls best when they're just wearing like sweatpants and t-shirts and like and no makeup and like messy hair and then but like us girls we like to like look nice and proper and
01:47:59
Scarlet Hamptonmaybe so maybe it's just a gender thing like maybe girls think that we have to have these kind of looks and these kind of insecurity and things because that's what we're told by some something that's trying to sell us something maybe they're trying to make money off of
01:48:12
Scarlet Hamptonwhatever sort of look they want to give us and they're they're uh advertising something so maybe this Kim kardashi is advertising a big butt to maybe sponsor
01:48:22
Scarlet Hamptonsome this ejection stuff like what if that's kind of what's going on I don't know it's just like we're told about what to believe so we should just believe what we want to believe what we know is true well isn't that what was
01:48:35
Skyhappening with you cuz you did say you worked in the porn I work in the industry right now I was just at AVN yesterday but you get told what to do you can't have tattoos we don't get told what to do so you can decide what you
01:48:46
Scarlet Hamptonwant to do it's always your choice okay but they recommend because earlier you were talking about that you but I know a lot of girls that have tattoos and they get work but it's it's just there's a
01:48:56
Brian Atlasbias in every industry wait are you saying that uh there's like in your industry there's a preference for no or minimal tattoos yeah like it's easier
01:49:07
Brian Atlasfor women who are uh minimally or not tattooed to get work yeah yeah generally yeah sure we have a chat here from Rebecca Bridgeman thank you for the Super Chat Rebecca Brian thank you for
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Brian Atlasof the notes we're going to go to Sky here Sky you said that you ran away from home to live with your current boyfriend you never told your family where you were going and you never came back okay so um I going to give you a little
01:50:51
Skybackground so this is kind of a little bit explainable so I moved out I graduated a little late like a little a little before I turned 19 about 4 months before I turned 19 um but I got kicked
01:51:02
Skyout of my house uh in North Carolina the day before my 18th birthday so I had moved to Virginia and I went and
01:51:11
Skyfinished school online there um I had so I had met my current boyfriend online and we were talking for about a