$500,000 MINIMUM To Date 47 Year Old Single Mom?! INSANE Girlfriend Revenge Story? | Dating Talk 284
Date: 2026-03-02
Duration: 8h 12m
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_01Priyanka(guest)
SPEAKER_02Samantha(guest)
SPEAKER_04Lisa(guest)
SPEAKER_05Gigi(guest)
SPEAKER_06Sarah(guest)
SPEAKER_08Mandy(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Nicole Blade(guest)
SPEAKER_12Aaron(guest)
SPEAKER_13Camila(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:45
IntroAll 10 guests introduce themselves
00:32:31
QuoteSamantha's infamous revenge story: had boyfriend perform oral with his friend's semen still inside her
“He then ate me out with his friend's semen in me the same day.”
00:39:43
Key MomentPriyanka used software engineering skills to track down her cheating boyfriend's wife in India
“I applied all my software engineering mind, found his wife, called his wife there.”
01:00:28
Key MomentBrian tells Nicole her Venn diagram for compatible men has 'very little overlap or perhaps none'
01:16:34
AgreementSamantha agrees to shave her head on the podcast for charity donation
02:55:24
Key MomentMandy's husband told her to lose weight after seeing fit firefighter at restaurant
“If I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with you, you're gonna have to give me something to look at.”
03:00:04
Key MomentBrian discovers Mandy met husband playing Splatoon on Discord
04:16:00
Key MomentMandy challenges Priyanka: 'Do you think a man that makes 500K is going to want a 47yo single mom?'
04:26:00
ControversyMandy calls Priyanka's AI chatbot 'plain sabotage to women' - says women should depend on husbands
06:47:01
OtherLisa's hilarious trivia failure - can't identify France as Statue of Liberty gifter despite extensive hints
“Oh, it's America... the United States gifted the Statue of Liberty itself.”
07:02:00
OtherLisa cannot identify the sun as closest star despite hints including 'three letters' and 'You Are My Sunshine'
“North Star... A rising star... Moonrise... Sunrise!”
07:51:08
OtherHead shave postponed - Brian consults ChatGPT about legal liability of cutting hair after alcohol
Topics Discussed
00:00:45
Guest Introductions
Diverse panel: ages 19-47. Gigi (19, student), Camila (27, OF/car model), Samantha (21, TikTok), Nicole (33, church/massage), Sarah (42, married sales), Priyanka (47, software eng/model), Aaron (42, comedian), Lisa (26, esthetician), Mandy (39, tractor sales).
00:05:52
Abortion Debate
Sparked by baby monkey story. Brian compares empathy for animals vs abortion stance. Camila defends pro-choice.
00:28:00
Relationship Status Round
Gigi: 2.5yr LDR. Camila: situationship. Samantha: single 1.5yr. Nicole: single 7yr (1 boyfriend ever). Sarah: married 20yr. Priyanka: divorced twice. Aaron: single 4yr.
00:32:31
Samantha's Revenge Story
At 17, after boyfriend cheated, she had sex with his friend then had cheating boyfriend perform oral with the friend's semen still inside her.
00:38:43
Priyanka's Revenge on Cheating BF
Used software engineering skills to track down married girlfriend's wife in India and told his entire family.
01:00:28
Nicole's Waiting Until Marriage
33yo, 6ft, tattoos, shaved head, waiting until marriage. Brian says the Venn diagram of compatible men has 'very little overlap.'
02:01:03
Self-Rating Looks
Priyanka rates herself 9/10. Camila rates Priyanka 10. Brian rates himself 4.5. Discussion of beauty metrics.
02:55:24
Mandy's Weight Loss Ultimatum
Husband told her at 240 lbs to lose weight or he'd leave. She lost 100 lbs. Met on Discord playing Splatoon.
03:52:12
Stay-at-Home Mom vs Working Mom
Mandy argues working is worst thing for children. Gigi says her stay-at-home mom was miserable.
04:12:58
Minimum Income Requirements
Gigi: $150K. Camila: $65-70K. Samantha: $250K. Nicole: $65-75K. Priyanka: $500K. Aaron: $80K. Lisa: $100K. Mandy: $60K.
04:26:00
Priyanka's AI Chatbot Debate
Mandy strongly opposes AI chatbot for women's financial independence as 'sabotage to women.'
05:07:03
The Bow Video
Brian shows ex bowing when he gets home. Almost all women say they would bow for their husband.
05:33:10
Body Count Reveal
Gigi: 1. Camila: 9. Samantha: 11. Nicole: 9. Sarah: 5. Priyanka: 14. Aaron: 4. Mandy: below 5.
06:38:01
Rapid Fire Trivia
Lisa's hilarious failures: Statue of Liberty from France (she said America), closest star is the Sun (couldn't get it despite extensive hints), said she'd be 16 if born 10 years ago.
08:09:15
Show Wrap-Up
Head shave postponed due to intoxication concerns. Indie donates $4000+. Brian signs off.
Transcript
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02:55:11
Mandyto lose weight. >> Yes. [laughter] >> Yeah. >> Yes. Oh, >> and how >> how did the women feel about that? [laughter] Wait, wait. So he said, >> wait, he was like dating you though.
02:55:24
Mandy>> We were seeing each other. >> So he was and he was like, yo, listen, >> you kind of fat. Did he say that [ __ ] >> His exact words, I love you, babe. But his exact words were because I remember
02:55:37
Mandywe were in a restaurant and a firefighter got up and she was a woman. She was thin. Her body was like amazing. and he looked at her and he looked at me and he said, "If if I'm gonna spend the
02:55:49
Mandyrest of my life with you, um, you're gonna have to give me something to look at." >> And that motivated you to do it. >> Oo. >> And I did. >> Yeah. And you look amazing. >> I lost 100 pounds. >> God, >> sometimes
02:56:02
Mandyyou just sickness. >> Damn. Your husband, >> that's my husband, >> is [laughter] kind of a savage. >> He's >> like that worked. Like I I'm kind of an [ __ ] [laughter]
02:56:14
Brian AtlasI don't even think I could get away with that. That's [ __ ] >> Well, like I said, like my like >> like why not but why not just start out with a skinny woman? Like if you're going to pick like go on the date like
02:56:26
Mandywere you catfishing? >> No, of course not. But I was >> then why did he if if it's important to him I mean good for you though that you lost some weight. But >> well well here's the thing. It's because I had all like I had all the aspects
02:56:38
Mandythat he wanted. Like I wasn't I wasn't very educated. I was very I gave him all of like everything that he wanted but the weight problems. >> You said yourself Ryan though that men
02:56:49
Aaronwill sleep with a woman and not necessarily go into the relationship. So maybe they were there and he said if we want to go all the way and if you want me to really take you serious this is the thing that's my deal breakaker. So I mean >> and that was a deal breaker for him.
02:57:03
Mandy>> He could have said it more gently. >> Was it the first date though? >> That's just tone policing right? if he goes I mean whether he's saying it that way and getting to the point or going
02:57:13
Mandyhey babe like maybe we should go take a walk together it's not it's still the same thing that the principle >> yeah exactly >> and I think the fact that you accepted it means that you knew it too that you
02:57:26
Mandyweren't giving yourself as much as you could and that you wanted to do better for you too >> my life changed after that it was my life changed exponentially like my it
02:57:36
Mandywas crazy and I had more value in my like I felt my self-worth was more after that because I had tried so hard to lose the weight be a better person go to
02:57:47
Mandychurch all of that and it was all because of him and for him and he is the most wonderful person you'll ever meet like I love this man
02:57:58
Priyanka>> like unconditionally >> and to carry a baby you know if you're fit then it's easier to carry the babies so sometimes having kids. But I mean like
02:58:10
Mandy>> but like we I mean we're close. >> Tough love. >> It is tough love. Well, let's be fair. >> Health. >> Yeah. You like I'm saying it with no
02:58:19
Mandycontext. Like I was a hardcore feminist. Like hardcore just all of that. And he like he changed my world around me. >> He converted you. >> Oh yeah. >> Like as much as we have this modern
02:58:31
Aaronthing where women are saying I love the fact that I'm fat. all the women who celebritywise that say that they love that they're fat got on GOP ones and are now some of the skinniest broads you see. So, I mean, if we're really being
02:58:44
Aaronhonest, and I'm speaking to someone where I understand, I'm not kidding myself. I know what I look like, but I also know that when I did lose weight, and I I lost 80 lbs and unfortunately put it back on. When I lost that weight,
02:58:56
AaronI felt better about myself in every way. I loved going to the gym. I loved like everything I was doing. I loved the attention I was getting from it. I felt much better about myself and it gave me advantages like you talked about the
02:59:08
Aaronpretty privilege. It gave me job advantages. It gave me a lot of advantages. So to to absolutely say like I said him pushing you there. I mean you're stunning. You killed it.
02:59:19
Mandy>> There's there's that. And because not I mean it wasn't just the weight thing. It was like changing my entire life around and losing the weight. He respects me on a whole other level. like in a in a way
02:59:32
Mandythat I never thought I could see in a man. Like he I have everything because he affords me everything. I would not be here if it wasn't for him. Like I He's
02:59:42
Mandynot visiting California, right? I am. And that was afforded to me because of him. So >> I mean it may have it may not be the nicest way to say something, but it got
02:59:54
Mandyme to where I am and it got me the man that I wanted. >> All right, boys. This is what you have to [ __ ] do. [laughter] How did you meet on a dating app or what? What was the
03:00:04
Mandy>> Oh, boy. We actually You're going to laugh. Um, we met each other on Discord playing video games base. >> All right, boys. >> This is what you're going to do. You're going to meet some chick. You're going to be What was the game? >> Oh, Splatoon.
03:00:19
Brian Atlas>> Splatoon. >> Oh, wow. [laughter] >> All right, boys. You're playing you're in the [ __ ] mega bonk discord and [laughter] you're going to you're going to find a 240lb woman and the first date
03:00:31
Brian Atlaswhat you're going to do just so romantic. She [laughter] she's going to swoon after this. You're going to call her fat and be like, "Listen, you want a piece of this? You got to lose some [ __ ] weight. [laughter]
03:00:42
Brian AtlasIt'll work 99% of the time. Trust me, boys. She can agree. She can vouch. It'll 100%." Look, it it worked in your situation. >> Yeah. No, for sure. >> Super savage thing to say.
03:00:53
Brian Atlas>> How did you know him? >> One sec before before that. But um I [sighs] >> that is not going to fly for like 90. [laughter] >> I I realize that. But like
03:01:05
Brian Atlas>> not going to fly like but you're you're one of a hundred, I guess. >> But like my you have to understand that men are not like when they're really really nice and they and they say stuff
03:01:18
Mandyto you that sounds so perfect. That's not a man. Yeah, >> a man a man is direct and they need to get whatever it is out and you have to allow them that. If you want something with them, you have to allow them to to
03:01:28
Mandybe able to say what they and not be all emotional about it because they know and I think Brian can agree. They know that sometimes when they say something, it doesn't come out the way that they want it to,
03:01:39
Brian Atlas>> but they mean well. It's it's kind of that you kind of just got to accept that and maybe just ask like >> Wait. Oh, so sorry. Continue. Continue. >> No, I go ahead. I'm done. Oh, I Yeah, I had a question. Did y'all, you know,
03:01:52
Brian Atlashave uh It was the first date he said that. >> No, no, no. We had been dating for I think it was like >> Oh, I thought >> like a month. No, no, no, no. >> Still still early on though. >> Yeah. >> Um, had you guys been intimate though
03:02:04
Mandyprior to this the statement? >> No, actually. Um, he I >> Oh, he was holding back. >> Yeah, he was. He was holding back. He was >> So, you were trying. >> Mhm.
03:02:16
Brian Atlas>> Oh, [ __ ] [laughter] >> Yeah. Oh [ __ ] Okay. Damn. >> Well, of course he was. >> And he was like, "You get drop below two, then you get some dick." >> Mhm. >> Was that actually >> Well, he he was basically like, "I can't
03:02:29
Brian Atlasdo this." >> Oh, [ __ ] [laughter] Okay. >> Oh, he Wait, were you guys naked and he >> No, no, no, no. We were at breakfast. >> That's brutal. Imagine you undress Imagine you undress a woman
03:02:42
Brian Atlas>> and then you're like, >> "Now put your clothes back on. >> I changed my [laughter] mind. I changed my mind. I feel like [ __ ] I mean, look. Hey, look, guy, man. You're a trooper. I I mean, I don't know
03:02:54
Brian Atlaswhat else to say. You're a trooper for that. That's um I'm going to try that though. The next girl I date, I'm like, I'm going to just pinch her [laughter]
03:03:05
Aaron>> and be like, "Look, [clears throat] you want it to work long term? [snorts] >> I need you to message me if it works. I need >> I think that's an even better test than the bow. If a woman's willing to go
03:03:16
Brian Atlasthrough that, that's your ride or die. >> Uh, I guess I guess [laughter] I also feel it's a very risky, you know, it's like it's very risky. I feel like a lot
03:03:27
Brian Atlasof not not a lot of women are going to be okay with that. I I don't like to I don't like to like insult a girl I'm dating, you know? >> Plus, who am I to speak? I'm a little insulting.
03:03:39
Brian Atlas>> Well, I think a lot of women, like you said, they're kind of my mom. >> No, but hold on. women are like a lot of women are insecure about like their looks, their body, etc. Like come on, >> sounds like a skill issue.
03:03:51
Brian Atlas>> Why would that be a skill issue? >> That's not the right chick then. >> So, hold on. Let's be let's be real. >> What percentage of women don't have some degree of like uh insecurity about something to do with their body?
03:04:05
Aaron>> Well, sure. Men do, too. >> Even men. Yes. >> But you have to be adult enough to go, "All right, yeah, fair enough." Like, again, it worked out great for her. like like she's so much healthier now.
03:04:16
Brian Atlas>> He added years to her life. >> Yeah. No, it it worked out. It worked out. But uh I'm just being realistic here. Also, I mean, my look, my simple perspective is uh look, if if if you
03:04:29
Brian Atlaswant to date a skinny girl, find yourself a skinny girl. Like, I feel like, look, of course, yeah, if you're overweight, you should lose weight. I don't disagree, but I do think
03:04:40
Brian AtlasAnd it worked, by the way. Congratulations. >> That's a tough I don't know if the women agree or disagree with not to be anecotal. >> That's a tough That's going to be a tough cell for it. Like it shows a level
03:04:53
Aaronof devotion from the woman, right? >> Yeah. That's a exactly that's not to be anecdotal, but there are definitely men out there that want to shape their women. It's part of the reason I know that we talk about how men like younger
03:05:04
Aaronwomen because of like the fertility and everything, but men also like younger women because they're not like this is how I am. I'm, you know, at 36 I know what I want and I know what I am and blah blah blah. Like at like at a
03:05:16
Aaronyounger age, you're willing to go, I'm going to let a man lead me. I'm going to go along with what he says. So, there are men who want to find a woman that they can improve and mold into the woman that they want, and they want to put that work in. I'm not saying every man,
03:05:29
Aaronbut those men definitely exist out there. They want to take those reins and say, "I'm going to make you the woman that I see. You're almost there. Let's get you all the way there so we can really >> What if you're a feeder though?" Like you just want to fatten her up.
03:05:42
Samantha>> I mean, those exist too. >> That happened to me. >> Going to happen. >> That happened to you? >> Yeah. >> What? >> I was like fat. >> Sorry, that was bad. What? >> I was like really fat. >> You were? >> Yeah.
03:05:56
Samantha>> Because I was >> No, I am. I am still I have chubby. Like I am still chubby for sure. >> I I that's not what I was meaning. >> No, but no, that's just me. Like I look at the mirror, I call myself fat. That's
03:06:07
Samanthajust me. But um yeah, >> you let your ballet teacher down. >> What? >> Your [snorts] ballet [laughter] teacher? >> Yeah. >> Oh, yeah. Yeah, >> that joke. Never mind. >> No, I I I got it. But
03:06:19
Brian Atlas>> yeah, he fattened me up. He wanted me to be >> So he fed you. >> Yeah. >> Oh, he said that he wanted you to be >> and I and I didn't feel good. I didn't feel good. Like I felt like
03:06:32
Aaron>> I was eating so much sugar. It's horrible. >> I think those feeder men, they want that because they want a woman that's broken because they can control a broken woman more. >> Yeah. That's a different motivation. >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
03:06:44
Brian Atlas>> Uh okay. Uh I guess we're going to move on to uh next topic here. We have Gigi. Uh Gigi, so you said your current relationship long distance. Uh you had a past relationship that ended because
03:06:55
Gigisomeone from your past came back into your life. Yes. >> Uh you were in a talking Wait. Uh >> the there I think they were like scattered. They were just like random
03:07:08
Brian Atlaslittle things I threw out. >> Okay. Uh talking stage where the guy was totally playing you but you stayed with him and was a little attached but we got into it into this thing and the next day he went to a girl you were friends with
03:07:20
Brian Atlashouse and begged for her and you have it on ring camera. >> Yes I do. Like so this was a high school or >> Yes. >> caught in 4K. >> So you were kind of dating him, dealing
03:07:32
Gigiwith him and then he was trying to get at your friend, your girlfriend. >> Um well, they had known each other prior,
03:07:42
Gigibut when me and her weren't really friends, we were more acquaintances. >> Um and then Yeah. And then like
03:07:54
Brian AtlasI'm not sure if you're asking me a specific question or what. >> Uh just the story, but I have something else. Um you said that you used to have no self selfrespect for yourself and you let guys step all over you >> essentially
03:08:07
Brian Atlas>> and it took you a long time to stand up and gain that self-respect. >> So like this was with maybe a couple different guys. The >> Yeah, definitely. >> No self-respect. And so how would the guys how would you have no self-respect
03:08:21
Gigiand how would they be stepping all over you? >> Like for example that guy we were talking about I took him back after that >> and even a and he did that multiple
03:08:30
Gigitimes not with the same girl but like he would be texting other girls and like asking like or saying in boys group chats like oh I want her I want her I want her. I saw all of that. I saw all
03:08:42
Brian Atlasof the proof. I would still take him back. So he would do this multiple times. >> Yes. >> Okay. >> Okay. And were there other examples though of not like were you in addition
03:08:53
Gigito that was he >> like mistreating you or being rude or >> um No. I would say like manipulative in a way. I mean because everything that came out of his mouth and you know I
03:09:05
Gigimean he would drive me places, he would >> um pay for things like that part was fine but you know behind the scenes he was
03:09:17
Gigilusting towards other women. >> I see. And um it got to a point where like he kind of told me like oh like I would see proof and he would try to misguide me
03:09:27
Aaronand be like oh like that was just a joke like d this d if he had never acted on it and was just had the thoughts and the lusting. Would that still have not been acceptable to you if he never acted on it? >> What do you mean?
03:09:40
Aaron>> Like if you saw a bunch of texts where he's like I want her. I want her. I want her. or if he's one of those guys that's like liking IG models all day, but he never actually did any cheating behavior. >> Like now? >> Yeah. Like he never had the actions. It
03:09:52
Gigiwas just the thoughts >> like before I gained my self-respect or after >> either or. >> I mean right now absolutely not. I would not take that. Back then 100% it would I would minority report. Yeah. I would be
03:10:05
Brian Atlaslike okay well like sucks. >> Let's see here. We have uh Oh, Samantha got up from the table. Samantha, I was about to ask you some uh some questions here. Oh, is she in the bathroom?
03:10:18
Brian Atlas>> No, I'm right here. Oh, >> okay. Uh I'll wait until you're back. Uh Lisa, you write wrote dating as a disabled woman.
03:10:28
Brian Atlas>> Uh so, do you want to like what what's the story? >> Yeah. So, um, going back to that, I
03:10:39
Lisathink that's like, um, an interesting like factor to talk about cuz I always, um, think of like, um, my chronic
03:10:49
Lisaconditions and how that affects, um, the guys when I date cuz I always take that into consideration and I always um, like that is something that I would let them
03:11:00
Lisaknow like right away like I always ask them if that's a deal breakaker because I think that that's um important to um get into.
03:11:10
Lisa>> Okay. Um are you wanting to share like what specifically the disability is or >> um Yes. So I do get um like fainting
03:11:19
Lisaspells and uh seizures. So that is always something uh with dating and like dating in the future and marriage that is always something that I think about.
03:11:30
LisaUm and that is always something that I take into consideration when it comes to dating and it's something that I'll ask guys about and they'll be like, "Hey, is this a deal breaker? Is this a problem for you?" Because it could be scary
03:11:43
Lisamedically. >> Got it. Um you also write you don't agree with the alpha male trend. So, what do you mean by that? >> Um, the alpha male trend, I don't
03:11:56
Lisanecessarily agree with it, but I also don't agree with like an alpha woman trend necessarily either. But >> what what what is the alpha male trend? What do you mean by what is the alpha
03:12:06
Lisamale trend? It's kind of like to me I feel like it's where men think they're like better than other men and I'm like I don't necessarily
03:12:19
Brian Atlas>> like egotistical like >> Yeah. Like it it's like an ego thing. >> Uh okay. Uh does it pertain to this podcast at
03:12:30
Brian Atlasall? Are you do you think the whatever podcast is part of the alpha male trend? Um,
03:12:41
Lisanot necessarily, but I think the alpha male trend is something that's like relevant uh to like a relevant topic in general to talk about in terms of uh
03:12:52
Lisadating because I feel like like dating like women that date uh run sometimes into a lot of like men that can be a little bit more like they have more of
03:13:03
Lisaan ego. Um, some of some men have like good like plans for their future, like wanting a business, wanting to provide, but then there's also like this really
03:13:13
Lisareally high ego. And it's not just men, it's also women sometimes, too. Like there's an ego thing. >> Okay. Well, I mean, I think the alpha beta male
03:13:24
Brian Atlas>> thing is it it originates from like this study of wolf packs and there was an alpha wolf. The actual I think the study's actually been debunked. I think it can sometimes be
03:13:34
Brian Atlassometimes a helpful descriptor, but any any man who calls himself alpha male is incredibly cringe. Uh it's just super cringe to call yourself alpha uh sigma male though. Sigma male grime,
03:13:48
Lisa[laughter] >> which I mean like I don't know. So I >> my opinion basically is that I think it's pretty cringy like overall the alpha male trend.
03:14:00
Brian Atlas>> Okay. All right. Um well the homage there you uh here going while we have everybody at the table Nathan we're going to pull up we've put all of you through AI we have two AI segments the
03:14:12
Brian Atlasfirst segment is this is a new one we're testing out I don't know but what they did was and we're probably I don't know if it's great for this panel but [laughter]
03:14:24
Brian Atlas>> uh oh worried about that >> do we I don't know if we do it >> do it please do it Well, so oftentimes you guys were pretty reasonable except
03:14:35
Brian Atlasfor two of you. [laughter] Uh, a lot of times a lot of the panelists will be like, I'm a 10. I'm a 10. I'm a 10. And so I was thinking like, okay, what if we ran
03:14:47
Brian Atlasuh people through AI and the prompt for the AI would be make them more beautiful. Oh, >> and if they're more beautiful after being ran through AI, >> then how could you possibly be a 10 prior to?
03:14:59
Brian Atlas>> But the only problem is I think we need to adjust. One of the people in my Discord does it. >> I think we can't change the makeup. It has to be like actual change the facial structure, but [ __ ] it. We'll just do it
03:15:12
Brian Atlassuper quick. All right. This is going to be [ __ ] brutal, but uh hey, you know, >> G's going to be fine. >> All right. >> Yeah, right. >> G's going to be fine. >> All right. Go ahead. Uh, pull it up. Uh, you got to zoom it out a little bit. I think
03:15:24
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, >> zoom these out. She No, >> it's just like a like a >> looks basically the [ __ ] >> uh I mean it looks like they put more eyeliner on you. They brightened your lips a little bit. Maybe like even out
03:15:38
Brian Atlasthe teeth >> put a little bit more color in your face. >> The hair is flawless. >> Like a little blush effect. But I mean >> like they just >> Okay, next. >> You look great. Oh, >> who the [ __ ] is that? [laughter]
03:15:51
SamanthaNext. >> K-pop. >> Uh. >> Oh, no. That's a horrible angle, but that's whatever. >> I feel like it's ugly. I feel like it's ugly. >> Okay. Interesting. Next. >> Yeah, right. >> What the hell is it?
03:16:03
Brian Atlas>> Funny how all the exact same. >> Yeah, you look the same. >> It's not even my face. >> Uh, wait. Okay, this we got a bad picture of you in actual like >> Yeah.
03:16:15
Brian Atlas>> Next. >> No. Try to get uniformity, Nathan. And like the bad ones are bad. I really don't want to look like her. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. This is the This is where you want to be. Um, okay. Next.
03:16:27
Aaron>> No, not me. >> How did you get them smiling? >> But these don't actually look like us. >> Yeah. >> This just looks like K-pop stars. >> Next. Oh boy. This is going to be brutal. It's going to be me. Huh? >> Damn. >> There's not There's nothing.
03:16:40
Brian Atlas>> Oh, there's O'Brien. Oh, >> okay. Uh, now, come on. >> We've gender swapped all of you, made you all men. Uh, [laughter] >> oh, I'm a fine guy. >> Can you >> Can you run through it first and like make sure they're all the same size?
03:16:53
Brian Atlas>> I did one of those once and I looked like the dad from Stranger Things. >> Honestly, my dad >> Hey guys, [laughter] if you're enjoying the stream, like the video, please, while Nathan's just getting that all set. Like the video, please. Just show some support for the
03:17:06
Brian Atlasstream. >> We are Where are we sitting at? >> Terrible. We have uh we have guys get this to 2,000 likes. We're at 1,500. [snorts]
03:17:17
Brian AtlasThere's 500. Excuse me. 5,500 people watching. Get this to 2,000 likes, please. All right, Nathan, do you have it ready?
03:17:28
Gigi>> All right. >> Would I look like my brother? [laughter]
03:17:34
Brian AtlasSo, the question is, uh, would you date the male version of you? >> Mm- I don't. >> He's kind of Chad. >> I don't date Asian men. Me either. >> I don't either. >> You don't date ever? Like, you've never
03:17:46
Gigidated an Asian guy? >> The guy that I was in that situationship with was Asian. But before that, I have a personal preference. I don't find Asian men attractive. Usually,
03:17:58
Gigi>> um, the way that they look is just too feminine for me. I feel like Asian men look very feminine. >> Interesting. >> Especially like the K-pop people I find very gross. >> Mhm.
03:18:09
Brian Atlas>> Um Yeah. Like >> Do you find some Asian men attractive? >> If they're mixed with something potentially. >> If they're mixed. >> Potentially. If they're mixed. >> Potentially. Likeian guys. >> I would blazian.
03:18:23
Gigi>> No. >> No. I white boys is >> okay >> usually my >> but there are Asian men who who are you'd agree who do have very masculine faces. >> Yes. And like I'll say like yeah like
03:18:35
GigiI'll like you can be an attractive Asian man but I personally would never >> I could never see myself getting married. >> Yeah. Like if I was like if I'm I'm
03:18:46
Gigicurrently dating to marry but right >> if say I wasn't in a relationship dating to marry I would never go for a nation guy. Damn. >> Ever. >> RIP Asian. [laughter]
03:18:58
Brian AtlasRIP Asian in the chat. Brutal. Brutal. What do they call? Is that what there's some Never mind. Um >> like >> uh Okay. Uh
03:19:10
Brian AtlasI don't know where I was going with that. Well, here we have other Asian women here. Do you have a Do you >> No longer interested in Asian. >> You don't eat her. You too. >> Me. Me too. >> Yes. Me. >> You too. Yes.
03:19:23
Priyanka>> And what about you? >> I'm Asian. Yeah. I don't never date an Asian guy. >> What about a wian guy? Cuz you're wian. >> Yeah. No. >> Would you date an Indian guy? >> Not anymore. I will just uh date a [laughter]
03:19:35
Brian Atlasrobot. >> Brutal. The Asian men in the chat. Black killed. Black killed. Holy [ __ ] Um. Okay. Hey, you know what's interesting
03:19:43
Brian Atlasthough about that? Uh, is that I think it No offense. This is a bit this is just a pure analysis. Um I don't know if I want Don't be
03:19:56
Brian Atlasoffended. It may be slightly dysfunctional. >> Mia, I don't know. >> Well, for example, historically >> Mhm. you like 300 years ago
03:20:08
Brian Atlaswherever you were living there weren't you you saw your race >> especially like >> if you were in China, Korea, Japan
03:20:17
Brian Atlas>> uh unless you like were in port and there was like American Dutch traders coming or some [ __ ] like you did never you never saw a white person and I was like
03:20:29
Brian Atlas>> I feel like it would be like if you were just not attracted to to your own race.
03:20:40
Gigi>> Like do you just exit yourself out of the gene pool basically? >> What do you mean? I mean a c it's nothing toward it's just a personal preference. It's not racist. Like a lot
03:20:52
Brian Atlasof people like to tell me like I'm being racist to my own race. >> So I don't think it's racist. I think people can have racial preferences when it comes to dating. I'm not I'm not putting that label on. But I think and obviously we don't live in a historical
03:21:05
Brian Atlassetting. We live in the modern setting. Especially in America, multiculturalism. There's there's black people, white people, Arabic people, you know, all kinds of skin colors, etc. >> Um, so there's no shortage of
03:21:16
Brian Atlasopportunity to date outside of your race. In fact, there's more opportunity. Um, but it does occur to me from like a more analytical perspective that it would be historically in a historical context if
03:21:29
Priyankayou didn't find your own race attractive, it would be >> pretty dysfun cuz that would be your only option. >> No, actually I'm the most attracted towards Indian men still, but I don't
03:21:41
Brian Atlastrust them. >> It's it's not the looks, it's the the something else. Okay. >> Culture. >> For me, it's for you. It's looks. >> Yes. >> Okay. Got it. Okay. Uh, and you said you don't date Asian guys too
03:21:54
Samantha>> anymore >> anymore. Bad experience or >> all of them. [laughter] >> And you? No. Are you just not attracted to them or >> I feel like they're I'm all related to them. [laughter]
03:22:06
Samantha>> You know, like Yeah. You know, >> I'm related to every Asian. >> Well, yeah. I've heard that from some Asian women. They say it would feel like dating my brother. >> Yeah. And I have a brother and I do not want to do that. But don't you think that would be like
03:22:20
Aaron[laughter] >> Don't Asian [snorts] men have >> Oh, come on. That's ridiculous. >> That is >> Did we just learn you're a size queen? >> Flip and ship it. >> What? Did we just learn you're a size queen? Maybe.
03:22:33
Brian Atlas[laughter] >> [ __ ] My chances are out the window now. Uh but uh >> that's maybe if you don't know how to use it, then.
03:22:42
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Uh wow, that is a lot of info there. [laughter] Damn. Okay. I don't know where I I I I
03:22:51
Brian Atlasfeel like I could go I go somewhere with the that thing. That's interesting. Um Okay. Uh let's continue on with the AI
03:23:01
Brian Atlasthing then if I have any further thoughts on the race thing. >> Uh next. >> Oh, no. >> You You want to date him? He's kind of
03:23:12
Brian AtlasThat's that middle one. >> Middle one. Middle one. No, no, no. [laughter] Okay, next. >> Oh, no. >> No, no. >> Now I look like my brother. >> Yeah. [laughter] You would you date him? >> No.
03:23:27
Brian Atlas>> What's wrong? >> He's not Cersei Lannister. [laughter] >> No. I look like my brother. >> Let's assume he's genetically different. Would you date him? >> No. >> What's wrong with him? >> I don't like Asians. >> Oh, okay. What's your type? White, black, black?
03:23:41
Samantha>> Anything but Asian. >> Anything [laughter] but Asian. >> Anything but Asian. >> Latino, black. Last boyfriend? >> Um, Russian, Polish. >> A >> last guy you hooked up with?
03:23:51
Brian Atlas>> Spanish and Russian. >> What's going on in New York? Okay. [laughter] >> In Brooklyn. Uh, okay. >> Uh, next.
03:24:03
SPEAKER_11>> What the hell is [laughter] good? What are you doing? >> Can we go back? >> Middle. >> Yeah, they're decent. >> The middle one's cute. Would you date Would you date the AI gender swap of
03:24:17
Gigiyou? >> Maybe the center one. >> Okay, that's >> Yeah. >> No. No. No. No. It's not bad. >> No, that's better. >> Terrible. >> I like the buzz cut one. >> The one the one on the
03:24:30
Brian Atlas>> buzz cut. >> No, still not. [laughter] >> All right. Maybe we got to pass them to the Asian girls. >> Uh the single ones anyways. All right.
03:24:39
PriyankaUh next. Oh, he has a lipstick like me. [laughter] >> I will I will consider if he's a robot.
03:24:51
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Uh Become Bacon Bomb. Thank you for the gifted 10 uh over there on Twitch. Thank you, man. Next. >> No, [snorts] >> no, >> no. >> Really?
03:25:04
Aaron>> Again, the lipstick. >> Yeah, the lipstick is >> also the first picture I don't think looks like me, but okay. >> Yeah. You sure about that? >> I'm pretty sure about that. He looks like he plays Magic. [laughter]
03:25:19
Brian Atlas>> Nothing wrong with a good card game. Come on. >> Uh, next. >> Uh, no. >> No. Wait, hold on. The girl who doesn't care about looks. [laughter] What? What's wrong with him? He >> He's adorable. >> He kind of mocks. Not going to lie.
03:25:33
Lisa>> He lowkey does. >> He kind of mocks. >> Maybe. Okay, maybe the middle. I have to get a closer look. >> I like the last one. The the >> Well, what's wrong with the one on the right? >> The right. >> You got a sty. >> Yeah. >> What's a sty >> under his eye? >> On the on the right. >> Yeah, the [laughter]
03:25:47
Brian AtlasAI. >> It's AI. You got to >> You got to see through the impurities. >> You got to suspend disbelief a little bit. Um, [snorts] so yes. No. Into the mic, please. >> Probably into the mic, please. >> Probably the middle.
03:25:59
Brian Atlas>> Can you eat the chocolate and then pocket the rapper, please? >> Answer. Answer. Answer. Okay. Uh, >> oh no. >> Next.
03:26:11
Aaron>> That is still a woman. >> That That [laughter] is a gay man. That man would not date a woman. >> That is not [laughter] >> That's just you.
03:26:21
Aaron>> You with short hair. >> That's me as a lesbian. >> There you have it. [laughter] They're twins. >> That is a trans individual. Oh my goodness.
03:26:31
Priyanka>> All right. Next. Oh, we've seen >> Yeah, she can get it. >> Yeah, [laughter] I'll do 100%. >> What? >> Oh, >> yeah. She can get
03:26:43
Brian Atlas>> my girl Brian has always been pretty, you know, like >> look. Look, your sister Emily. [laughter] >> All right, you can uh Nathan always plays the ukulele >> since girls are more beautiful.
03:26:55
Priyanka>> Uh, let's see here. Getting into Does anybody have any disagreements about anything? you need to improve the AI version, the model that you're using [laughter]
03:27:07
Brian Atlasa major improvement. >> Yeah. >> Uh any disagreements from anybody on any other topics otherwise I have further
03:27:17
Brian Atlasshow notes to get into. Uh I was going to get into something from you if I recall. It was one sec. Let me see if I can find it. Okay. We did is it Camila?
03:27:31
Brian AtlasCamila. >> Camila. Camila, Camila. Okay, we did yours. Gigi, we did yours. Samantha, you told us about the Can you repeat it? Like, give me the bullet point version super quick again for the new people who
03:27:43
Samanthajoined. >> Okay. Um, ex-boyfriend um friends with current boyfriend.
03:27:51
SamanthaEx-boyfriend came in me, ejaculated in me. I went to current boyfriend and he ate the ejaculation from me. Yes. At
03:28:03
Brian Atlasyour request. >> Excuse me. >> I didn't even say anything. I just >> I want to go home. [laughter] >> Holy [ __ ] Okay. Crazy even hearing it
03:28:15
Brian Atlasfor the [laughter] third time. >> Uh, okay. You think things should be equal in a relationship? >> Yeah. >> You wrote that. Uh you said never 50/50 but 100% from both parties. So when you say things should be equal in a
03:28:27
Samantharelationship, what do you mean? >> I just mean like you know just reciprocation I guess. So
03:28:36
Samanthait should just be 100% from each side like at all times and I was really tired when I wrote that. >> I remember when I wrote that >> so yeah. >> Okay.
03:28:47
Brian Atlas>> So I wasn't really thinking >> video. Okay. Uh, should things be equal? What about what do you guys think about if there's
03:28:57
Brian Atlasa disagreement? Who do you think if you even think this should lead that situation? >> Whoever is having the disagreement like whoever like
03:29:09
Brian Atlas>> well let's say you're at a roadblock. Let's say there's a roadblock. I'm right. You I think I'm right. You think you're right. Who should be the tiebreaker?
03:29:20
SamanthaOr you just break up? >> No, that's when I I bring a third party in. >> A third party? >> Yeah. Like just like just like a a friend that knows a little bit into the relationship. >> Whose friend? Your friend? My friend?
03:29:33
Samantha>> Uh no. Um my bro >> personally, I'm when I'm in a relationship, I'm friends with their friends and >> they're we're all friends. Like it's a whole friend group as soon as we like start.
03:29:45
Brian Atlas>> So I would just bring I would ask >> at the beginning. Yeah. Y'all that Spice Girl song, if you want to be my lover, [laughter] you got to get all friends. Yeah. >> Making love forever.
03:29:57
Brian Atlas>> Friendship never ends. >> Yeah. Uh I think you got to delay the meeting the friends for very long. Me personally, >> I don't agree on telling your business to your friends.
03:30:08
Brian Atlas>> I don't either. And I think >> W gama >> Camila C dog. And I also don't believe
03:30:18
Gigithat 100% from both parties at all time is possible coming forever. That's not realistic either. >> Well, it would have to like there would have to be communication in that. Like
03:30:30
Samanthaif you're not fully at 100%, let's say you're 30, like I can do more for you in that relationship even if you're down. Cuz obviously no one's going to be at
03:30:40
Samanthatheir 100% every single day. I just think like you have to be able to find the balance between both of them and find a communication and a common ground. >> What about chores? Should it be should chores be equal?
03:30:52
Samantha>> [ __ ] yeah. A woman should do it. >> Women should be doing it. >> Oh, you know, wasn't expecting that. >> And if a man wants to, you know, help out, sure, I guess. >> Okay. Kind of
03:31:04
Samantha>> as an Asian, you know, >> as an Asian. Well, you're only 50%. >> Yeah. But I'm I grew up with my Asian side. fully a like my brother and sister are fully Asian. They're my half siblings. So I that's what I grew up with.
03:31:16
Samantha>> You're Philip half Filipino. >> Yeah. >> Okay. I see.
03:31:26
Brian Atlas>> Can I share something about observations from
03:31:33
Brian AtlasOh, well, we got Viet Vietnamese woman here, too. Okay. All right. [laughter] All right. I've noticed >> Okay.
03:31:41
Brian Atlasmy own anecdotal experience when it comes to the Asian women, the Vietnamese and the Filipinos are the most toxic.
03:31:52
Brian AtlasI don't think >> just saying just saying you know >> me personally it's >> kind of toss up you know with the Chinese >> the Mongolians of course very pleasant
03:32:04
Aaron>> isn't that a common conception within the Asian community that there's actually the most racism in any community is Asians against other Asians and that Japanese and Chinese are
03:32:15
Aarondetermined to be like superior than like Thai Filipino or Vietnamese like isn't that I've and I'm speaking from things I've heard from other people. If I'm wrong, call me out. But I've heard that that's actually a thing within Asian
03:32:28
Camilacommunities. >> Well, colorism is really big within Asian communities, just like how her metric is. >> Um although I think toxicism is just individual. I don't think it's like a
03:32:40
Brian Atlasevery region. >> By the way, I'm not saying all Vietnamese women and Filipinos are toxic. >> No, they Latinos are more like >> Wait, did I say Latino? [laughter] Oh [ __ ] [ __ ]
03:32:53
Gigi>> Freudian slip. >> Wait. Filipinos and Vietnamese. >> I think >> I'm not saying all of them are toxic. >> My mom is the least. >> I've just noticed >> and my mom is the most toxic person. My
03:33:07
Gigimom. >> Your mom. Your mom's toxic. >> Yeah. And my aunt is Vietnamese and she's not as toxic as my mother is. >> The Philippines has the happiest people. >> I think it's just more like woman within
03:33:18
CamilaPhilippines, Vietnam. And then honestly kind of Thailand, no shades. I think it's just more Southeast Asian women are more vocal. Um, and I think that's where
03:33:28
Camilathe toxicity comes from is that you're just I feel like within women within Southeast Asia are more vocal because they have to do so much within even like
03:33:39
Camilain Asia itself and even when they come to America, they do so much that like they have to feel like their voice is being heard. Well, I also think like historically you
03:33:50
Brian Atlashave to consider the fact that uh you know you had like Japanese, Korean, Chinese immigration under different circumstances than for example like Vietnamese a lot of Vietnamese
03:34:02
Brian Atlasimmigrants were fleeing under like war torn country circumstances. >> So I think I don't know that I'm just kind of
03:34:12
Brian Atlas>> blabbering a little bit. But uh look, I'm by the way uh no shade, no shade, just saying. But anecdotally, I've by the way, I've
03:34:22
Brian Atlasknown some very pleasant Filipino women, known some pleasant uh Vietnamese women. I did have a toxic Vietnamese accent, though. I got to I got to say that, you know.
03:34:35
Brian AtlasOkay, good talk. [laughter] Good talk. Good talk. Hey, at least I'm willing to date an Asian. Y'ALL WON'T EVEN DATE ASIAN. [laughter] Don't be all mad. Oh my god, he's so Oh
03:34:47
Brian Atlasmy god. I'm just saying. >> I found one that I would, but I never did anything. >> Yeah, cuz you guys never date Asian women. >> Who's the real bad person here? I'll have sex with an Asian woman. >> Okay, [snorts] I'll I'll do that, but I won't date them. >> I'll date But you guys will
03:35:00
Brian Atlas>> I won't date them. >> Oh, you you'll smash, but you won't >> Yeah, >> that's interesting. >> The other way around for me. I'll I'll date a an Asian woman. I'll you know
03:35:13
Brian Atlasit's you you guys are so to talk you guys are really toxic here towards Asian people. Here I am benevolent. I guess I'll have sex with Asian women. I guess if they insist. Okay. Anyway, sorry. By the way, just to be clear, just to be
03:35:26
Brian Atlasclear because I feel like I'm about to be labeled here. I I date mostly date white women and Latinos and Asian women. I feel like white women are more toxic
03:35:37
Brian Atlasthan they're like the most. >> Just to be clear, you can find toxicity everywhere. >> I'm not singling out Asian women. I've known plenty of toxic white women, Latino women,
03:35:49
Mandy>> right? But I feel like >> I got to be honest though, have not dated a black girl. >> I feel like men seek out Asians because they're less toxic than white women. >> Well, I don't think so.
03:36:02
Aaron>> I think you nailed it earlier. I think it's more about the femininity. Like you said, Asian men >> are more feminine. And it's not just looks wise, it's culturally as well. It's more acceptable to be feminine in
03:36:14
Aaronquite a few cultures currently. And women seek masculinity. Like we want like rough hands and we want that kind of thing. So, and men want feminine and tiny and like I could throw her around.
03:36:27
Brian AtlasAnd you're going to find that more in that. >> Yeah. Yeah, >> I don't know if I agree that >> you might make the argument in terms of physical appearance, but in terms of personality, I don't know if I would
03:36:38
Brian Atlasagree. By the way, there's like >> a like Asians are very varied culturally like you know, China, Korea, Japan,
03:36:48
Brian AtlasVietnam, Thailand, Camb, you know, there's plenty of other countries, Philippines, Singapore, etc., etc., etc. Uh there's like these cultures
03:36:58
Brian Atlasdefinitely differ quite substantially. Um I you know I'm curious when it comes to Chinese men for example. >> I don't know if it's actually the case
03:37:09
Brian Atlas>> that you could say that Chinese men are less masculine than American men for example. >> Would you describe Chinese men as assertive? >> I think they >> Well, are you talking about the Chinese American or are you talking about Chinese men?
03:37:22
Gigi>> Chinese. >> Well I and I don't know. Do you go to China or visit China? >> Um, it's been a while, but yeah. >> So, I mean, I haven't >> Yeah, I don't think I would necessarily
03:37:34
Brian Atlasagree. Like, my dad, for example, I think is a very masculine man. >> But would would you agree with this? I my impression of many Asian cultures and Chinese culture is it's a bit more
03:37:47
Brian Atlastraditional. Yeah. >> Like they tend to be more traditional. more traditional >> which would probably I would suspect perhaps lean more >> I mean but then you hear about you know there's the tiger moms or I don't know the exact term where like the moms are
03:38:00
Brian Atlaskind of a little bossy and dominant and I think you see that sometimes in Japan >> where they'll like the the the Japanese wives kind of are a little bossy with the the husbands so I've heard um of
03:38:13
Brian Atlascourse I'm sure that's not the case for all dynamics but I think that in many Asian countries there's a more traditional dynamic. Whereas here you have like boss babe super liberal >> women
03:38:25
Brian Atlas>> who are handpacking the men and you've got like soy boy >> like I don't know are they Wait hold on I was about to say that people be changing gender here. >> Yeah.
03:38:37
Aaron>> But then I I did remember about Thailand. >> You're also like in California though. Like California men are very different than Midwestern men or men in Texas. Like they're definitely a lot more like
03:38:49
Aaroncoming from the Midwest like Midwestern men are still pretty damn masculine. Like some farm boys >> way different than California dudes. >> I saw that thing uh like a guy was doing an interview with a bunch of uh Chinese
03:39:02
Mandywomen. They were saying that I mean correct me if I'm wrong, but they were saying that like men from China like in China are more cold than most men. >> Okay. >> I mean yeah
03:39:13
Camila>> like they're more standoffish. Asian men in general is Asian culture in general doesn't really accept mental health, opening up emotionally, >> right? >> So, I think that's where the like code
03:39:25
Mandyidea is. And then also, >> yeah, I think I think some a lot of our men need more of that cuz it's it's not good.
03:39:36
Brian Atlas>> Uh, okay. Uh, where were we going? Oh, the 50/50 thing. Okay. Uh
03:39:44
Brian Atlash um you wrote that you you personally think most women your words not mine. Uh most women are immature and are stupid sadly. Whoa, that's super sexist. How dare you?
03:39:58
Brian Atlas>> I know. >> Uh disavow, disavow, rebuke. You write there are only a few women you can sit back and apprecite. >> Yeah, as I said, I was very [laughter]
03:40:10
Brian Atlastired. I can apprecite a man's work ethic more than a woman. Women just do way too much and cannot take accountability for anything. Therefore, if the woman can't take accountability, she shouldn't be in
03:40:23
Brian Atlasa relationship. Most likely, they're going to push their insecurity onto the man, which usually makes the man look like the [ __ ] in the end, and she'll just play victim and blame everything on the man instead of reflecting,
03:40:35
Brian Atlas>> not reflecting on their actions and faults. Uh, wow. This is a very misogynistic take from you. I think you should maybe apologize to all the women here for what you just said. I need to get
03:40:46
Samantha>> Don't I wasn't going to apologize. No, you're good. Because >> sitting back, you know, like if I got to know you, then that obviously would
03:40:56
Samanthachange. I just have a very like I just keep this facade for everyone that like >> a it's just a lot of women especially on the show like you guys thinking. >> Exactly. And I and it doesn't go for
03:41:08
Samanthathat's why I said it doesn't go for every single woman out there because if you know yourself and you know that >> that comment wouldn't bother you. You know what I mean? Yep. >> Right. >> Does not bother me. >> Yeah.
03:41:20
Samantha>> Would you say could you relate it more to people your age versus women overall? >> Um I just I honestly wrote that because when I was in high school they had asked
03:41:31
Samanthame a question. Um do you think a woman should become president or can be president? And I said no. And I got called like and I I went to a pretty liberal school. >> Well, when I trans so yeah.
03:41:45
Samantha>> Yeah. >> So they were like, "Oh, she's sexist. She's this." But I just was like women like sometimes when they're under pressure, they don't think >> more emotional. >> Yeah. They're very emotional with the
03:41:56
Samanthaway they think. And I do too. And that's the thing. I can admit that I can do things based on emotion. >> 100%. And I totally agree with that. like push the head down.
03:42:07
Mandy>> And I think it's great that like a young like a young woman says it because the problem is millennial women big time. They're the ones that are setting the course for pushing it. >> Exactly. So they're unhappy with their
03:42:19
Mandylives. They're single. They've got their cats and their wine and their with their weed or whatever. And >> I'm not a part of that, by the way. >> And they know [laughter] and I wasn't talking about you.
03:42:31
MandyMiddle-aged women [laughter] sit there and go age is just a number. No, there is an objective truth. And I've watched other women sit there and tell younger women, "Well, just go out, live your life, go and ride the [ __ ] carousel as
03:42:44
Mandymuch as you can. You need your experiences." And it completely sabotages younger women from getting >> I did believe that in my 20s. >> Oh, I So did I. It ruined me. >> I'm a millennial like and my and I
03:42:54
Mandyremember like it was go to college, go to, you know, go and get an education. A man a man's not going to want you if you if you work. Like you're never a man is never going to marry you if you don't work. You have to pull your weight. You
03:43:06
Mandyhave to No one ever told like I'm a millennial and nobody's ever told me that men just want a nice girl, a complacent girl.
03:43:15
Mandy>> Yeah. Had somebody had told me in my 20s that all I had to do was be pretty and nice and I could just write out that my life doing my nails and taking care of my children and homeschooling them. my
03:43:29
Mandylife would have been a lot different and I wouldn't have made the mistakes that I had made. So, good on you for being so young and like actually recognizing that >> that women are a problem especially millennial. >> I will I will I will say that millennial
03:43:42
Aaronwomen are a problem. >> That's why I actively started watching this show. Like I see why the aim of the show is to make women aware not just women but make people aware of this. And I really do hope that people who are
03:43:54
Aaronyounger learn that lesson because it can get to the point where, oh [ __ ] it's too late. It really can get to that point where, oh [ __ ] it's too late. >> I know a a millennial, she went on
03:44:05
Mandyvacation and she talked about going to a cave party. I was like, you're 40. >> Is it like a Burning Man thing? 40? >> Yeah. Like you're 40. >> I guess that is technical. >> What are you doing? Like no one wants to
03:44:17
Mandysee you dance around in a bikini. Like absolutely nobody wants that. Like, and it's it's sad. It It's like, honestly, for me to look at that, it's >> Well, how it's so pathetic.
03:44:29
Mandy>> I mean, I mean, somebody who has the word stepmom in their search history wants to see that. >> Uh, it's just a joke. Just a joke. >> Just a joke. >> Uh, but yeah, I think it's great and I
03:44:41
Mandythink more young women should take that on except because that, like you said, there's no responsibility. There's no accountability for women. You can just go, eh? Well, you know, the he was mean to me. He said a naughty thing to me, so
03:44:54
SamanthaI don't have to like I don't have to accept that. That's abuse. Everything is abuse when it comes to women. They never take accountability. I've made choices in my life. >> And the women that say that they've been abused in these relationships are people who have never experienced abuse in
03:45:08
Samanthatheir life. >> Like they they don't even know the half of it. When people are actually staying and being in these abusive relationships, they're the ones who aren't speaking out. They're the ones who stay quiet. So, >> no. And it's like the the thing my h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h
03:45:22
Mandyh h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h husband said to me, right? Like a lot of women would look at that and go, "Wow, he's abusive. He's so abusive to her. He's me. He's brainwashed or I it's not that it's he wanted what was best for me
03:45:34
Brian Atlas>> and I think that's fair." And yeah, I think a lot of millennial women should just kind of take the >> I have a question since the topic of abuse came up. I have a question and it's not it's not a heavy question or
03:45:46
Brian Atlasanything. Uh, I I had a girl, I think it was a couple shows ago, ask me, uh, I do pretty well, but she would ask me, and you know, I
03:45:58
Brian Atlaswould like to, uh, whoever I'm with long term, she doesn't have to work. I'm going to take care of everything. Um, but she asked, well, what would that entail? Like, what if your girlfriend
03:46:08
Brian Atlaswants a luxury bag? Uh well, let me let me tell you let me ask the question first and I'll do you guys think it would be it's financial abuse. Let's say
03:46:19
Brian AtlasI'm got a you know long-term girlfriend, we have kids, whatever. Is it financial abuse if I don't buy my girlfriend a Louis Vuitton purse?
03:46:33
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Absolutely not. >> Anybody think it's abuse? Am I financially financial abuse? Financial abuse. Like she really wants the purse though. >> Good for her for like a special buy. >> Special special occasion.
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Aaron>> Yeah. >> Well, he's saying that he supports her and financially supports her. She's at home. So, like as far as like the buy it yourself thing, that's not an option. >> She can't buy it. Well, I mean,
03:46:57
Aaron>> then no, because she's not working. >> I think that if her biggest priority is getting a bag, she should reevaluate her priorities. And you're a good man for showing that to her.
03:47:07
Aaron>> How about this? She wants a Lexus. I get her a Toyota. >> Financial abuse. >> No >> financial abuse. >> No. >> Okay.
03:47:18
Brian Atlas>> We're just not. You still got her a car. >> Sorry. >> How about How about uh I'm trying to think of another example I could give. >> I [snorts] think it's financial abuse.
03:47:31
Brian AtlasLike if you get yourself nice things and won't get her something nice. Well, probably more along that line, I guess. >> So, yeah. Yeah. I buy myself a McLaren or Ferrari,
03:47:42
Aaron>> but she gets a Toyota. >> Well, it's still your money. >> Financial abuse, >> but you're making the money. What about being about this one? >> She wants to take on an expensive hobby. Like, she wants to start doing something
03:47:54
Aaronwhere the supplies and the stuff to do it would be really costly. What about that? >> Oh, that's good. Horses. >> Ooh, >> horses. She wants a horse. Three horses.
03:48:05
Nicole Blade>> Does it? And I say no, >> but I could afford it. But I say no. Is that Huh? >> Sorry. Go ahead. >> No, you go ahead. >> Does it contribute to anything like as far as their living?
03:48:17
Nicole Blade>> Expensive like Yeah. Is it any kind of contribute? If it's not, then no. I wouldn't >> Well, I mean it be a hobby and >> is it going to bring in money? >> No. >> Okay. >> I would make it. They are so expensive.
03:48:30
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> It would lose money. Um but uh Okay. So, not financial abuse. Okay. Okay, cuz I got a bit of flack, you know, cuz I I uh this girl,
03:48:41
Brian Atlasyou know, we were talking about it and she got uh I would say, "Oh, I'd get her a bag at Costco or Amazon." >> I could change. >> Sure.
03:48:52
Brian Atlas>> If you have style, you can rock that Amazon bag just as good as you can rock that Louis bag. >> But I guess from my perspective, it's even if I could afford it, I would uh
03:49:03
Brian Atlasand I'm fully providing. I'm taking care of everything. I would still want authority over purchases. >> Uh I mean
03:49:15
Brian AtlasI not in totality, but okay, you want to spend like if my girlfriend were to come to me and I'm taking care of everything. Uh oh, I want a $3,000 bag. Uh no, [snorts] >> no,
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Gigi>> I agree. Cuz my dad is the only money maker in our family. >> Yeah. >> So, and my mom does not work at all. W >> and has very irrational asks. >> Oh, your Wait, you said your mom was kind of toxic or
03:49:40
Priyanka>> switches, please. >> Yeah. >> Um, okay. What about you? >> So, I have a complete different story. So, I love rings. The only jewelry I
03:49:50
Priyankalove is my rings. So, I asked my second husband that my wedding ring, because this is America, uh, I need it prettier, you know, like this one is $100,000
03:50:02
Priyankaonly. So it's not like super duper expensive. And I asked that's expensive. >> What? >> $100,000? >> No, no, no. $1,000. >> A$,000. >> Okay. Okay. OKAY. [laughter]
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Priyanka>> So $1,000 ring I was asking and I say if you want I can buy from India from my own money because I have money in India. But he said no, I will buy from here.
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Priyankaand he got like I don't know what metal it was like 200 bucks and it was really bad like really really it turns black after a few months.
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Priyanka>> So you know do you think this is a financial abuse? >> He don't let me spend my own money and what I want to wear every day as a sign of a marriage.
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Aaron>> May I just say this? You said that he won't let you spend your own money. I will say this and and apologies. I'm speaking to someone who's not married, but when you get married, the point is that it's not your money or his money. It's money that's you're married. >> It's our money.
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Priyanka>> Our money. >> But he said, "Do not buy clothes for my daughter because it's my daughter, not his from my own salary also like whatever joint account, but he don't let me." So that's financial abuse, you know, because
03:51:19
Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> Okay. Um, going to uh Lisa, finishing up your notes. Lisa, uh, you wrote, "When your ex cheated, then went to jail the
03:51:30
Lisasame day." >> Yeah, that was um an interesting dating story. >> What did he go to jail for? >> Um,
03:51:39
Lisahe went to jail for um, punching someone and then the person went into the hospital. >> Okay. >> So, yeah. Okay. Uh, you also wrote here your final
03:51:53
Brian Atlasthing. You have other interesting opinions you share on the podcast. You believe your words, not mine. You believe women should be stay at home and help their husbands. You're a Christian. >> Uh, you're So, you're traditional. You
03:52:04
Brian Atlasdon't think women should be pastors and speak in the church. You say women belong at home, married with kids, not working full-time, >> and men should provide and protect. You
03:52:14
Brian Atlasbelieve in full tradition. Even churches have embraced the modern uh modern too much to the point that there's female pastors and you don't agree with that. You think society needs to regress
03:52:26
Brian Atlaswomen. Women belong in the kitchen making our husbands a sandwich. >> Really? >> Wow. They're Hey, you know I'm the Oh man,
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Gigi>> y'all spicy tonight. Um [laughter] >> to an extent. Yeah. I mean, absolutely. Like me personally, I do want to work. Not full-time, but like I want to cook,
03:52:47
GigiI want to clean, I want to take care of kids, but I would also like to have a job as well, just because I feel like me personally, I would get bored from just
03:52:57
Aaronnot bored, but as fulfilling as that would be, I think it would also be cool to have a job. >> Isn't that a really good example of wanting it all though? Like the pie is only so big, you can only cut so many
03:53:09
Gigipieces out of it. Yeah, but it's like even like I mean I joke about it with my boyfriend all the time like yeah I don't like I just want to sit at home on my ass and do nothing but it's like he
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Aaronwould also like say me and him do get married he would also want me >> and you want children. >> Yes. >> So if you're full again >> okay imagine there's a pie >> Mhm.
03:53:33
Aaron>> and you cut out a slice and that pie is your time and you cut out a slice for your husband. Of course, I'm making the food analogy. You cut out the slice for your husband. >> You cut out the slice for your children.
03:53:44
AaronIf you're cutting a slice for a job, your husband and your child are getting less of a slice. >> Well, that's why at one point you'll have to get to a place where your job is making money without you fully being