02:46:48Brian Atlasas woman whether that's working on your personality becoming more agreeable um uh staying physically fit that sort of
02:46:59Brian Atlasthing the issue is though is women are pretty Cutthroat when it comes to how uh they dated in their 20s I don't think men owe you anything men don't owe you a
02:47:10Brian Atlasrelationship you're not owed a relationship if you can get it great but in the same way that you as women we're men aren't owed relationships we're not owed
02:47:23Qsex you're not you're not owed a relationship because you're in your 30s and also that experience thing you was talking about it goes back to that and what I've observed is that a lot of women they become even more selective
02:47:36Qwhen they get older as if they still have the mate value that they had when they were younger so when women go through things when they get to the point where I'm not going to put up with this anymore and you already have a pool
02:47:49Qthat isn't as large as what you had when you were younger because you were more fertile you were physically more attractive you had more to offer in the mind of a man from his perception when
02:47:59Qyou get older and you still operating under the guys of oh I know what I deserve I know my worth I'm not going to settle for this well at this point you do kind of have to settle you have to be more open and receptive to the options
02:48:11Qthat you have available to you because you don't have the same leverage that you had when you was younger and I don't think a lot of women realize that they still operate as if they're 23 years old when they're 37 38 40 as if they still
02:48:25Brian Atlashave the same leverage in dating and they don't agreed well have um goad have you been dating at all right now I mean how many guys do you have any
02:48:36Lindsayguys in the friend zone I put in the friend zone yeah that's I don't personally want guys as friends it does happen because I do a
02:48:46Lindsaylot of what are considered masculine activities i surf I Spear Fish I yeah I feel bad about this but I'm very clear with them this is not going
02:48:57Brian Atlasto go I I don't see how many men have you like been in that situation in the past year since moving down to Southern California well you said you've been
02:49:08Lindsaysingle for one year is that yeah I've lived down here about two years now I moved down from half H so um since moving here putting guys in the front Zone I'd say about there's four there's
02:49:21Lindsayfour here that you rejected they didn't pursue if if one of them could step up and lead in the way you are it might have been different it was
02:49:31Lindsaymore I don't it's not simp it's just more there have you been on dating apps yes okay that's how
02:49:40Brian Atlaswe no don't next which one was it hinge wait what do this it's so [ __ ] annoying you got to [ __ ] do a i as a marketing I sent
02:49:53Lindsayyou a message for you to come be on the show yeah exactly no no no I'm not saying we matched but yes they try to they [ __ ] I was using dating apps to get women to come be on the show right I
02:50:05Lindsaydid not know that was a smart marketing tool I'll give it to you it was a marketing tool and you you were very honest I mean it is a dating show so it
02:50:15Brian Atlasa marketing she really just dropped that no just the way women say [ __ ] like they make it sound really bad instead of just being like Oh yeah like that's how I how I got on the show is because you sent me a message saying hey do you want to come
02:50:27Dilaon the show you yeah that sounded a bit bad honestly but women do that [ __ ] all the time I have some I have some friends who are DJs some you were on the show what like two years ago about yeah that was right when I moved down I got banned
02:50:39Adrianaon the I have I have some guy friends that are DJs and they use dating apps to get girls to come out and use it like as like a promoter but they don't want to date any of like one of them FY has a girlfriend that he's in a happy
02:50:50Adrianarelationship with and she knows about it and he just uses it to get yeah the kind but so I just to wrap up I guess with the thing um so okay you
02:51:00Lindsaywere on dating apps mhm how many matches in total did you get on the dating apps about 10 how many how many dates did you go on first dat oh I've gotten
02:51:11Lindsayon so many First Dates like in the past two years yeah how many 10 yeah I'm going to put the number at 10 10 and
02:51:20Lindsaythese I mean that's a decent I mean it's not like you could have said 50 um is it bad for me a turn off is if a man fully
02:51:29Qcrosses his legs like a woman would is that just a a stupid ick it's I mean I don't call ick stupid because it's an ick I mean it's it's your physiological
02:51:39Brian Atlasresponse but not HT that's what I'm curious about you don't do that in the midwest look it is okay in terms when you're turned off by something a man
02:51:50Brian Atlasdoes like in terms of your your body language yes I think as a guy it's going to be viewed negatively by women if you
02:52:00Brian Atlascross your legs I think like oh I can't date this dude because he did this it's I mean look you have you're
02:52:10Brian AtlasKCK out you're KCK out you're complaining about men not not wanting to like date you or whatever but you like rejected a dude because he crossed his leg I mean do you have
02:52:22Lindsayanybody to blame but yourself I'm just afraid there okay here's another dating story this was really recent yeah he he we got to a point it was the
02:52:34Brian Atlassecond date he admitted he like stuff up the butt wait like he wanted to receive mhm and he was of like he was you might have to accept that [ __ ] to be honest you might have to accept
02:52:47Lindsaythat [ __ ] what dating app was this I it's 36 you got to accept some things right and he had a he needs to go on grinder was going to say is he on the right like this is the is man here
02:52:59Lindsaythere's and I'm not like that's what I'm trying to avoid you got moved to Texas or some [ __ ] I don't know are like by curious I don't know if he was by curious but I don't know it's the LI wait you're on Hing right liberal men BR
02:53:11Brian Atlasput your settings to conservative you got to pay for I don't oh do oh she's not willing to pay the $20 a month okay yeah I mean look you're in Santa Barbara it's super [ __ ] liberal you're in
02:53:23LindsayCalifornia super liberal if you want to stop dealing with dudes who want butt stuff you got to you got to switch things up a little bit you got to do farmers only I will call it Farmers
02:53:34QHeight's not a problem for me I've dated a short King they're great it's the liberal versus conservative thing that scared well why do you why do you look on dating app I think dating apps are
02:53:46Q[ __ ] because honestly I think it's think itun all the the lowest quality mates into one place that's probably why it's been a bunch of first so so with all the traveling and stuff that you do why not try to meet somebody organic no no no I
02:53:58Lindsaydon't I haven't traveled in forever I'm ready to no this was early 20s I will own this I was in a great relationship we could probably could have made it work if he would have stepped up and
02:54:07LindsayLeed a bit better um I had the travel bug I it was me I I went and sailed on a tall ship oh boy and I yeah I explore the
02:54:19Brian Atlasworld you know what's interesting though on the like exploring and experience and travel thing because not sexually no but you you brought that up as kind of like one of the objections like oh a young woman like she hasn't done much
02:54:31Brian Atlastraveling yet look you're not going to like what I'm about to say don't shoot the messenger as a guy if you are a girl and you're telling us I've been here I've
02:54:42Brian Atlasbeen here I've been here I've been here you want to know how we take that I you're not going to like it but you got to understand understand the male perspective if a girl says I've been to Dubai I've been to Vienna I've been to
02:54:53Brian AtlasBL Zurich I've been [ __ ] everywhere wherever oh you've been to you've been to [ __ ] Thailand you've been you you done all the Asian countries you've done all the European countries you've been
02:55:04Brian Atlasto La America You' been to the Middle East oh she [ __ ] a guy there she [ __ ] oh Paris under the Eiffel Tower [ __ ] a dude [ __ ] the French guy oh Spain Spain
02:55:15Brian Atlasyou know little Spanish conqueror uh port Portugal oh definitely got some Portuguese like that's what we if you tell us oh I've done this I've had this
02:55:27Daisyexperience that's that's how we filter that oh you [ __ ] dudes in all these places maybe shees a flight attend duai she has traveling job I did work maybe
02:55:40Brian Atlasmaybe oh even worse if she's a flight attendant hold on she a flight attendant she's definitely [ __ ] what if she's like going to different countries even so what hold on like what's wrong
02:55:52Brian Atlaswith that we'll get into that but if she's a fight here's the thing I think only men that's UNC confident what if she's a pilot I was on look I was on Tinder hold on I I was well I mean we
02:56:03Brian Atlassaw what happened recently with the in Toronto with the plane upside down that was an all female crew but anyways yeah it was all female crew [ __ ] what is it Delta United or some
02:56:15Dila[ __ ] with their [ __ ] Bullit We're Men huh Pilots were male oh yeah there is in plane crashes with men sometimes but okay hold on if she's a flight
02:56:26Brian Atlasattendant I've matched with girls who are flight attendants before luckily I didn't [ __ ] any of them but cuz who knows what I would have caught I match with them though and you
02:56:37Brian Atlashave to think right so I've talked to them though and I'm like oh how long are you in town for uh two days one day the night oh okay and then it's like oh you want to link up
02:56:49Brian Atlasyeah yeah I can grab a drink tonight and then she's off to another city and she goes to 200 cities in a year and she's on the dating app and
02:57:00Brian Atlasthat same conversation I had with her here in Santa Barbara she's doing that in Seattle she's doing that at Chicago O'Hare she's doing that at Miami she's doing it at JFK she's doing it at nework
02:57:11Brian Atlasshe's doing it at every [ __ ] City hold on every [ __ ] City every she's on the dating apps trust me these flight attendants [ __ ] bro trust me bro they be
02:57:22Brian Atlas[ __ ] she's on the dating app the same conversation she has with me oh uh oh you want to go get a drink blah blah blah she's doing that in every [ __ ] City she's getting a lot of dick do you have a bad experience with the no I
02:57:35Brian Atlasdidn't I didn't even I didn't even meet up I didn't even meet up but I'm telling you these flight attendants or women who travel a lot for work you're in a different city every week you're [ __ ] a guy in every different city there's a
02:57:47Brian Atlaslot of other job that aren't flight attend traveling right but that's what I'm saying for I was saying if she just travels a lot she's [ __ ] that's the the male perspective she Trav a lot with her
02:57:59Brian Atlasfamily to I think it depends on the places though sure I agree if she's like with her family she probably she's still fck her dad was in the military maybe her dad was in the mil May her dad was on the military and she was like going
02:58:11Brian Atlasbut you said maybe she's a flight attendant and that's why she's traveling so much I'm like yeah massive red flag she's a flight attendant she she can't keep a dude because she's never [ __ ] home she's [ __ ] every
02:58:23Diladude in a different city maybe the flight attendant was a bad example he she she agrees he has a point because that's still insecurities like you still
02:58:34Dilaout though you guys get to see all these amazing countries yeah I traveled a lot but still uh it's true I wasn't it in Ops I used it because I was Al lonsome
02:58:46Dilamany times and I wanted to visit the city but still I was alone cuz not all my friends could actually uh afford maybe to go to that place and I've been
02:58:55Dilalucky cuz my family is well off so I was able to go to London even if it's 1 hour and half from Milan okay I could go sometimes like with with your previous
02:59:06Daisyowner like owner boss I mean like boss I'm still I'm still are you are you are you safe CU she was like a personal assistant for celebrities so she was
02:59:17Brian Atlasbeing a to travel all over places I see there are situations like that like women can do their things no but even then okay oh you're traveling you're
02:59:27Brian Atlaslike an opair oh you're an opair and this really rich family is taking you to all these places oh hey uh we're going to have a night in with the kids you go out and enjoy the night life boom you
02:59:39Dilajust got [ __ ] in Milan or some [ __ ] but the thing is he's right cuz the Society of nowadays it's so common for sugar babies and these things that it's even for male it's not like only women
02:59:50Dilado this let's be honest it's a 50/50 human beings do it period and he gives you the doubt it gives insecurities CU you don't know if actually this person is that interested on you is it giving
03:00:01Dilayou really just their attention to you or is as he said this guy or that girl here it's like is it lust or is it love that's when you don't do hookup culture which is also very prevalent here and
03:00:12Lindsayyeah for hookup culture you mean like having um a lot I actually one man just told me that's the way dating goes here in California is they hook up and then they figure if they want to have date
03:00:24Dilaeach other after it's almost kind of like Korean like they say immediately oh you're my girlfriend then they go to bed with you and maybe like two days after these appear but they have to be your
03:00:36Brian Atlasboyfriend look can can you got to understand when I'm talking about this I'm speaking in generalities can a woman be well traveled and not have [ __ ]
03:00:45Brian Atlasdude in every city sure of course there's always exception to but the the rule I see what you're saying I the perception perception is so important
03:00:56Brian Atlasperception often times is well I don't know if it's well it's can be re reality I don't know if that makes sense that's how a guy is going to look at it oh you you have all these
03:01:06Brian Atlasexperience like a guy like if you've just done everything first time going to a fancy restaurant first time driving in like a sports car a luxury car a Ferrari a Lamborghini a McLaren
03:01:19Brian Atlasand oh I've already been I've been in three McLaren before yeah like they okay you [ __ ] somebody you [ __ ] a guy but oh my God oh my God it's so cool oh it's
03:01:29Brian Atlasso fast I've never been in a Lamborghini before that's more appealing that's more appealing to the guy because we as a guy
03:01:40Brian Atlasyou want to offer a girl a new experience but if you've just oh okay yeah I've driven one of these big deal you've got the low tier Lamborghini the
03:01:51Brian Atlasoh you you've got the uh what's it called the the Aventador I I want the mercy Lago or whatever it is the gardo oh you're driving the poverty Lamborghini mister I only deal with guys
03:02:04Dilain the but if you start immediate conversation by showing off what's your experience that's insecurity and you're trying to sell yourself as somebody like oh look at me I feel like it would fail immediately I I don't think women say
03:02:17Dilathis to I just think it's kind of no I'm not talk just about women literally like male and female when they kind of show off they experiences in that way it makes me just see this person as
03:02:27Dilainsecure trying to prove him the per like himself or herself to me sure I mean why to me who am I yeah who are you right why don't you just settle down
03:02:39Dilayour own try to fix whatever trauma you have fix the trauma fix the trauma fix the trauma I mean Securities come from that the best look I don't know as a
03:02:49Brian Atlaswoman uh I don't think you should lie but that's just the perception that we're going to get as a guy anyways I'm going to read a couple chats here uh can
03:03:00Brian Atlaswe get an astrology check on the panel who believes and who doesn't love to the Pod whatever whenever dude thank you for the uh t or not the TTS the streamlabs message man appreciate it the show of
03:03:10Brian Atlashands who's who's into astrology what's show hands asy like [ __ ] wait yeah uh you believe in
03:03:19Freda (Nicole)astrology you you you you you don't you do ENT you do do you astrology are you into astrology it's not my thing not her thing she's not about it okay all right sweet it's fun though sometimes I'm like
03:03:31Brian AtlasI convince myself like I'll read something I'm a Libra and I'll be like oh my God that is me but I think I'm just trying to like I'm myself I'm going to do a test with Aaliyah Aaliyah what do you think I am cuz you're a psychic or
03:03:43Brian Atlaswhatever can you scoot scoot the mic to the leave the mic at the edge of the table more more more more more more scoot it's sco SC yep go ahead what do you think I am I want to say you're an
03:03:53Adrianaearth sign which is I don't know what that is vir girl Taurus or Capricorn fix thank you
03:04:03QTaurus she [ __ ] got me she [ __ ] get me all right F God damn it well I mean I mean the interesting thing about it is she had one out the 12 chance yeah and women love trying to guess my sign
03:04:15Qbefore I say it and they get it wrong all all the time that's how I know it's [ __ ] but also the interesting thing about astrology is it's called the Borum effect so essentially it's so generally
03:04:26Qvague that when you ask people what their traits are they're in agreement they're like you show I show all y'all the same traits and say you are this you are that you are this and all of this
03:04:38Adrianapositive affirmational [ __ ] and y'all all agree that is me that's me that's me that's me can I add it's all the same [ __ ] so the common misconception with astrology cuz I heavily studied it a lot is you actually
03:04:51Adrianahave three signs and not a lot of people like think but the the three main signs you have your sun your moon and your rising and like those get like it's just like I could go deep into it it would be
03:05:03Adrianahere forever but I think a lot of people don't understand it and there's a lot of who the hell is there's just a lot of misconceptions about it is what my general thing is
03:05:16Qit's people don't understand understand it but if you like actually study it it does make sense in a way it does not it does you have to you have to Reliable what is Astrology what what is Astrology
03:05:28Qthe celestial the celestial body affecting human behavior Can somebody explain the metaphysics of that how something light years away influences my behavior but also like a few months ago
03:05:40Freda (Nicole)I don't know if you guys saw this but like everyone's signs like changed like it just somehow changed like they got shifted around like the dates moved like how is that it's only like what like who's born when now it's not like oh now you're a
03:05:52DilaSagittarius now you're doesn't change when you B when you were born in that specific hour and the city you were born that's how you actually calculate sounds
03:06:02Dilalike it's how the planet the planet and the stars are influencing you from when you were guys I got to read three digletts before he
03:06:12Brian Atlasgets mad at me uh get myin in this [ __ ] yo thank you for the $100 Super Chat I'm we just have to uh get through with the show but I do appreciate your uh Super
03:06:21Brian AtlasChat three digletts thank you very much man um okay let's get into some of the show notes because we're behind actually you know what [ __ ] it by the way
03:06:32Brian AtlasStiffler wasn't I don't know where he was so he told me to call it in so ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10 you can't pick seven starting with you Seven's a lucky
03:06:44Aaliyahnumber I would say I'm a 10 but it depend depends on what you're basing sure like societal acceptance or
03:06:54Brian Atlaswhatever we are using the Ethiopian and arrian Beauty standard an astrology we're using the Ethiopian Beauty standard here not the Western not Asian
03:07:06Brian Atlasnot Korean so what do you rate yourself in erria like are you a 10 in Atria or a 12 she's a 12 okay all right uh Daisy what do you wrate yourself on scale of 1 to
03:07:18Daisy10 can't seven most of the time I feel like I'm a 10 but sometimes I feel like I'm zero yeah like sometimes I just
03:07:25Daisydon't like myself that much yeah daisy daisy daisy okay um go ahead six six okay what about you
03:07:38Freda (Nicole)uh it depends on the day but I'd say like right now probably six are you ever a 10 yeah if I uh if you do what I don't know get like all dressed up and you
03:07:49Freda (Nicole)know go out do my makeup do my hair
03:07:58Brian Atlasif like if Oh I thought you about to say like the guy's drunk or something I know I'm basing it off of what I think blind
03:08:06Brian Atlaslike op it's her opinion oh okay okay my bad not so so 10 or what should I write I six I said six oh okay okay what about
03:08:15Lindsayyou here where plastic surgery is the thing I don't for okay I'm aware I'm aware all right how about the total
03:08:24LindsayUnited States total United States for my age cuz I do take care of myself okay I'm going to give it eight cuz we can't pick I would have picked seven but we
03:08:33Brian Atlascan't pick seven uh okay eight for your age okay what about on this panel what about eight or
03:08:45Lindsaysorry what about your rating in total though because you you specified just California yeah well it's really hard when women alter their faces to like
03:08:56Lindsayfeel like a yeah I will St you do realize there are like supermodels who don't have any plastic surgery yes yeah yeah okay but those are very they
03:09:06Lindsayusually compete in Miss I don't know if Miss USA or Miss what Miss whatever the whole thing is called un Universe can they alter their faces probably oh yeah
03:09:16DaisySur not against those they can they can I was I was in the competition before okay she was a professional bodybuilder no
03:09:27Daisylike beaut pageant she saides all oh Miss Asia yeah she won it you won Miss Asia oh Lebanon what Lebanon wow Le Miss Le
03:09:39DaisyLebanon the [ __ ] are you doing in Lebanon Miss Asia but in lebano she represented Lebanon no I represented China oh sorry in Lebanon yeah they do a
03:09:49Daisylot of those competition is very famous for that Lebanon you can check on competition was in Asia the UN like it was it was like is there miss
03:10:01DaisyChina like all of Asia competing how about like Miss actually in Asia around 50 computers from different countries all right uh
03:10:10Brian Atlasokay let um probably like a five five okay and is is that in total wait can like break it down like
03:10:21Brian Atlasface body if you had to like you like do you have a different rating for your face wait if we're doing that then I have you're you're up you're higher your
03:10:30Adrianabody body n face six face wear face six wait but you can't hold on but you just said overall so I just said six wouldn't
03:10:40Freda (Nicole)it I can't say seven wouldn't okay whatever um do you want to um I would say I look better with my straight hair
03:10:49Brian Atlasum I'd probably be like like a six maybe um you know it's I just noticed about you this is the most weird compliment I don't know if it's com you ever seen those really
03:11:01Brian Atlasold uh what What's it called when they draw a portrait I you got this look look into that camera right there you've got this
03:11:12Brian Atlaslike yeah portrait like Mona Lisa type not like Mona Lisa but you got this like silence smile like portrait artist model
03:11:21Brian Atlaslike 1400s look to you like you would be like Ethiopian royalty if there were painters back in that you know what I mean but I don't know if it's a compliment because there's a lot of inbreeding in the like
03:11:35Brian Atlasthe Royal so you're a princess but there's inbreeding that part let's let's not so I'll let you figure out if it's a compliment or okay um I think it's
03:11:49Freda (Nicole)I yeah I just I feel like the wom over there are like more attractive than at least me right now oh like like what's her name Ruby Rose like is she oh my God
03:12:00Dilashe's like bro she's like perfect she's gorgeous okay uh what do you rank yourself on a scale of uh I mean society and the Beauty has
03:12:13Dilachanged in all the centuries and I'm okay with myself um I had some self-doubt about my image before but since I've met my
03:12:24Dilaboyfriend he made me accept myself so I don't really and I will not really give you an answer in this cuz still kind of
03:12:33Dilatrigger me to have to give myself a tag on how I'm I beautiful or not but I'm okay with myself let's say
03:12:44Daisythis let's not say that let's let's say a number 10 dais let's say a number just say you're 10 so 10 thank
03:12:53Brian Atlasyou no is that is that actually your rating just to yourself you're 10 go ahead hold on no no no go
03:13:04Hunterahead what's your rating probably 7 and a half okay I'll accept it what about you um I would say a nine um with the
03:13:16Hunterpotential to be a 10 what would have to change I guess or um maybe a tan um drop a few pounds my hair might grow a little
03:13:26Brian Atlaslonger um uh Q what about you um 5.8 5.8 yeah you downgraded I give
03:13:36Brian Atlasmyself a I give myself a five um may I ask a question on this sure um men's opinions of the woman who
03:13:47Lindsaysay they're a 10 that shows confidence the women who are saying that they're not a 10 and much less shows insecurity M it's the reverse really it's
03:13:59Brian Atlasabsolutely the reverse interesting so we're if if you're like if you have a big ego you got pride and you're rating yourself a 10 and you're not a
03:14:08Brian Atlas10 we look at that that's huous that's ego that's Pride that's lack of uh modesty so so whereas a woman who's just
03:14:20Qoh yeah like I'm a six I'm a seven that's confidence I think mhm cuz we don't want to deal with no delusional woman yeah said no man ever
03:14:30Qoh my God she's so brave she said she's a 10 that's confidence I love that about her none of us have ever said that [ __ ] this is interesting no I do think genuinely speaking this idea that
03:14:42Brian Atlaswell it's confident to say that you're 10 I actually think it's confident to be like I can I can do an accurate self assessment of how I look this is where I think I
03:14:54Brian Atlasstand like why I don't know if you're like if you're genuinely an average woman and you think you are among the most beautiful women in the world that's
03:15:04Brian Atlasa lack of modesty it's pride and I just think it's way more confidence to just be I'm six [ __ ]
03:15:14Brian Atlasyou attitude yeah but I don't know man um so okay we got we got you know what though we got a a 10 a 10 an eight a
03:15:24Brian Atlasnine we got a I'm very good I get the most beautiful women on my show look at this panel of I wanted
03:15:33Brian Atlasseven man I don't know I don't know how I keep doing it Q every show I just get the most I get the most beautiful wom you need to start a whatever Beauty pad I'm going to I'm starting whatever I
03:15:46Brian Atlascan't help you she's going to she's going to help I was I was in the organization she'll be one of the judges you she was she was uh okay here we're going to do uh going around the table actually are we
03:15:59Brian Atlasstarting to get the stuff in Discord Damian okay we we'll get that pulled up in a sec I'm going read a couple chats first though so we have uh
03:16:07TTS/Donationsoh here let me play this one uh oh Michael Jones donated
03:16:14TTS/Donations$200 starting with chair one 7 7 5 4 3 4
03:16:21TTS/Donations6 5 q and Brian are both T okay who Mike Jones who Mike Jones what would the panelist think the average of 1,000 men
03:16:33Brian Atlaswould rap them what would the panelist think okay sure we'll do that really quick going around the table good question Mike so this is now changed to what do you think a thousand men rate
03:16:42Brian Atlasyou what's the average I've only ever been told 10 Sor good attitude I like that St the C I'm serious really you didn't have you
03:16:56Brian Atlasdidn't have some boyfriend who's like shut up you didn't have a boyfriend have subscribers oh they're definitely simp you have like haters simp on your social Med they was telling you you
03:17:08Brian Atlas10 I mean you just had somebody tell you you were seven well yeah so um so what do you think the average would be if a thousand men rated
03:17:19Daisyyou eight okay Daisy depend if it like I get to hear and
03:17:29Daisycompliment all the time not just the way how I look also how I move and the way I address so it really depends preference
03:17:41Daisycuz I do have some of the work down so for some of the people they don't prefer Plastics surgery they will say or maybe you're yeah but it's it's like a
03:17:51Brian Atlasthousand men so you just let's say 50% of them like plastic surgery 50% okay then that that will be eight eight okay seven wait you get the men
03:18:03Lindsayrate you higher cuz you said six okay that's fine six okay is the same if I'm going to be honest yeah I know I'm average I'm a
03:18:11Dilafive okay yeah um I've been rated higher so probably like seven okay I would be scared to be judged by a thousand men
03:18:23Brian Atlasprobably I mean you have about five you have about 7,000 judging you right
03:18:33Dilanow I was happier when I didn't know it but I would say five or six
03:18:41Huntermaybe I don't know I can really talk for them sure next I would say um anywhere from8 and
03:18:51Hunternine um just because my hair is naturally Ginger and blonde so feel like in that category there's not a lot of people to judge from I think there's
03:19:02Hunterabout 2% of the world has naturally red hair um so I'm putting myself at a higher rank for that because of the the red hair that makes you rare though yeah
03:19:13Hunterunique yeah I mean like my arms blonde what about your eyebrows my eyebrows I do color them in but they're they're like a so wait okay eight or nine
03:19:23Brian Atlasbecause you're Ginger she saying is I mean is it the case that men appraise redheads as like generally more
03:19:33Hunterattractive than dark-haired women or blonde women I don't think that that's the case yeah there's a lot of Ginger phobia out there huh really what do you mean Ginger phobia
03:19:47Brian Atlasif you like G it's so racist it is it's very these and and like it's not there if you say you call somebody a ginger in a
03:19:57Brian Atlasderogatory way it's not like socially unacceptable to do it is kind of uh I mean they have souls I was about to say they don't have souls but um that's true um all right we have a chat here from
03:20:11Aaliyahchair one simp here chair uh can you read this Aaliyah into the mic read this for us I'm a can son Taurus Moon Leo Rising are we compatible I need a good
03:20:21Aaliyahreason to get my pool hot tub and Sonic going again cancer Sun yes cuz I'm a
03:20:30AaliyahPisces uh son Taurus moon what the [ __ ] Taurus Moon might be a little too like stubborn for me and
03:20:40Aaliyahthen what was the rising Leo Rising Leo Leo Rising my rising's also fire so I I think that would be compatible
03:20:50Brian Atlasslay oh my God you guys are such a match oh my
03:20:57Brian Atlasgoodness chair one simp I'm GNA set you guys up okay that's crazy okay um here
03:21:07Brian Atlasoh uh we have to do okay going around the table do you think you'll be wait hold on [ __ ] that [ __ ] I have I have things to say do you guys object to this question no
03:21:21Brian Atlasdoes anybody object to it do you guys think it's you know it's a little ask first what do you mean what's the question question no the rating what do you rate your looks on a scale of on do you think it's kind of H we're okay it's
03:21:33Brian Atlasjust you know you know what I mean yeah we're okay look I'mma look oh by the way whoever's doing the do gender swap too we have to do gender swap for
03:21:44Brian Atlasthis we have it yeah sweet here it look the reason we ask it is because I think it is important to know your standing in the dating marketpl so that that way you can go in with
03:21:58Brian Atlasreasonable expectations and end up with a guy who's I mean maybe you don't think like maybe you want to shoot for the stars and
03:22:07Brian Atlasget a top tier dude you can try good luck uh you're going to run into those problems we talked about earlier where they're not going to give you that same amount of attention same amount of time
03:22:19Brian Atlasthey're probably going to [ __ ] around on you unless you catch a rare one uh but I do genuinely think that if we were to
03:22:30Brian Atlasline up every woman on earth and put her next next to her male equivalent when it comes to looks 90% of y'all would be mortified
03:22:40Brian Atlasyou'd be like really that that's that's the dude you know what I mean so it's like and why it's important is
03:22:50Brian Atlasbecause I think a lot of women they y'all conflate sexual interest with dating interest long-term commitment interest so you'll get a
03:23:00Brian Atlasbunch of likes and DMS and maybe you'll deal with a an athlete NFL player NBA player you'll deal with like a like mid-tier SoundCloud rapper some [ __ ]
03:23:10Brian Atlasyou'll maybe you'll even deal with like a major musician or actor or whatever it is or a guy who's rich or a guy who's got status or a guy who's really
03:23:20Brian Atlasgood-look whatever it is you're getting sexual attention from him but that's not the W for you like as women it's easy for you to get sexual attention from almost most or all men the W is when you
03:23:33Brian Atlasget commitment from that guy when you get a ring when you get his last name when you get his children so you can't be confusing cuz like men men will sleep with a girl and
03:23:45Brian Atlasdisqualify or just B based on her looks like she's attractive enough to sleep with but not attractive enough to be in a relationship with and maybe that's confusing for some of yall CU I think
03:23:57Brian Atlaswith women it's the reverse like for you to have a short-term thing with a guy he's got to be really attractive typically like you make the concession
03:24:07Brian Atlasthe other way like to to have like a shortterm like if you want to just have a quick one night stand or a hookup he's got to be really [ __ ] hot yeah yeah
03:24:17Brian Atlasbut for a it's kind of different but with with men it's like for a short-term thing we actually look down men look down like we'll deal with a girl who we would never be caught in a relationship
03:24:28Brian Atlaswith on the sole basis of her looks because we just want the easy access to sex but because the majority of men are just straight up offering you sex uh you're going to get offers from
03:24:40Brian Atlasmen who are no F like I'm not that are above your league and the other thing is as guys we get rejected on the front end so you guys will get rejected on the back end so
03:24:53Brian Atlaswhat does this look like if I step to a girl who's just out of my league and this is going to typically like if I'm stepping to I who's a who's a like
03:25:03Brian Atlasbeautiful could I get her let's not no if I if I'm stepping to Megan Fox even like Megan Fox right now it she's a little crazy for Anna
03:25:13Brian Atlaslike she's got a lot going on I'm I'm getting rejected though like I I don't have a chance with Megan Fox and I know that going in but she's going to reject me immediately up front and it doesn't even have to be a girl with status it
03:25:26Brian Atlascould be like just a normal girl who's just good-looking attractive I can't get anything outside my league right if I step to a girl instant rejection I don't get a conversation I don't get a date I
03:25:37Brian Atlasdon't get a meal I certainly don't get sex right but as women if you're dealing with a dude who's outside of your league you
03:25:47Brian Atlascan [ __ ] him maybe he's going to keep you around for one two three dates 1 two three hookups maybe you even get a situation chip he'll keep you around for 6 months he'll burn 6 months of your
03:26:01Lindsaytime while you're trying to get him into a relationship I went through that in my 20s you're literally explaining like so why is that he actually had a a very this is my issue with the young he had a 13-year younger girl as his girlfriend
03:26:14Lindsayand I was The Other Woman without knowing it and I was the girl he was [ __ ] around with ou yeah so this I agree with this no this this happens all
03:26:23Brian Atlasthe time and look as it was hard I don't fully like I don't blame women in so far I kind of do but hold on I don't blame you because we all want to get what's
03:26:34Brian Atlasthe best we can get we want the most attractive the best personality all the other sort of benefi beneficial things that we can get in a relationship all the characteristics we like the looks
03:26:47Brian Atlaslike we all want to get the best we're all greedy we want to get the best that we can we want the optimum partner you're not going to if you're faced with multiple different options and women you
03:26:58Brian Atlasguys have a [ __ ] ton of options you're going to want the best one it just it makes sense but then the guys you pick if they're all at the top they also have a [ __ ] ton of
03:27:10Lindsayoptions and they're not like they're going to want to be dealing probably with with multiple women they probably don't pursue either cuz women are throwing themselves yeah or yeah I
03:27:22Qmean they they might still pursue but they're they're still going to probably be dealing well as somebody who who was like that typically the girl that I approach is who I want cuz I approached
03:27:34Qher but I'll take I'll if it's convenient if women are throwing themselves at me if it's convenient I'll take them up on it mhm like I declined a lot of women as well but the women who are just good enough or who are
03:27:46Qattractive enough and it and it's not like a I sleep with him and then kick them to the curb it was never like that it's like oh you know we can chill we can go out or whatever the case may be but it's just not where you're up to my
03:27:58Qstandard in terms of what I want on my arm and then a lot of times personality plays a a huge role in that too because a lot of these women have personality
03:28:07Brian Atlasissues and like cluster be um mental illnesses and and oh my gosh I just yeah but that's normally what it is that's normally how it goes but I mean it's a
03:28:19Brian Atlasdifficult situation and then a lot of a lot of the guys are going to Fain they're going to Fain that they want something more serious to like cuz they're just going to be like oh okay I'll keep her around for 6 months and
03:28:30Brian Atlasjust so I can keep having sex with her right and I I I don't think that's the right way to move as men but as women you got to kind of look at the Dynamics
03:28:40Brian Atlasthat are going on and be like it's hard like you're GNA want that guy you're going to want that top top guy who's either really attractive or you know whatever he's got status or
03:28:52Brian Atlaswhatever it is and you're going to want to try to catch him but he's got a lot of other women chasing him it's like wh why settle when he can get other women and
03:29:03Brian Atlasyou're not going to get commitment and then the trouble is like as dudes it's typically not the case as a guy when you're like in your 20s or whatever throughout the course of your I don't know your 20s you're like it doesn't
03:29:14Brian Atlaslook like this for men and could you ever here's the reverse here's the reversal imagine a guy who's TW
03:29:24Brian Atlas2021 who all the women want to sleep with him and he's a six let's say he's mid let's say he's a five but all the
03:29:33Brian Atlasgirls want to sleep with him who are his looks equivalent but in addition to that there's women who are 67 8 and N who want to sleep with him too but those women the 678 and N9 women they don't
03:29:47Brian Atlaswant commitment from him they just want to [ __ ] him a couple times maybe he'll get a situationship with a few for 1 2 3 months and then let's say you're a girl and you're like oh that's a guy we're kind of on the same level I want to get
03:29:59Brian Atlashim in a relationship why would he ever be in a relationship with you when he can get sexual attention other kinds of attention from women who are more
03:30:09Brian Atlasattractive than you that's what's going on with women Food For
03:30:17Brian AtlasThought got real silent there oh you got I know am I wrong I could be wrong I don't know maybe correct me maybe y'all
03:30:27Dila[ __ ] I mean about uh us looking for somebody that for us at least is like very goodlooking like fit for our Beauty standard that's true for one I stand
03:30:37Dilathat or at least I talk about my own experience that what I did but when I had to have a relationship I always had to know how's the personality because if I have to be with somebody talk to you
03:30:49Dilaevery day and I mean I have to have a connection emotionally feelings for you and we have to be fit to each other I mean I cannot be with somebody that thinks about certain topics and puts
03:31:01Daisycertain priorities that to me they're not really like there shouldn't be even priorities why would women care if the man wants to take us seriously why can't we just I'm the one I'm going to choose who I want
03:31:13Daisyto be serious with yeah you know what I mean like that's why also a lot of women stop prior prioritize prioritizing or yeah
03:31:24Brian Atlasrelationship they're more like focusing on their career their well-being so you're saying women just want to [ __ ] a bunch of dudes in their 20s is that that's not what I'm saying
03:31:35Daisywhat I'm saying is women should not take a relationship or a man as their first priority in their life they should not be concerned about that why not because
03:31:47Daisyyou're not our job because men can tell a women to [ __ ] off right whenever they want so women are always be the one that's more passive so we should be
03:31:58Daisythere for ourself and to become the best version of ourself so one day we can tell the men you [ __ ] off if we don't like you [ __ ] off but he said that at the beginning of the show most of the
03:32:11Qtime women are the ones telling the men to [ __ ] off what if what if I told you that actually what you're saying because what we're talking about we're talking about a very very small percentage of
03:32:20Qmen who who can do this the majority of men as I told you earlier don't have the leverage in their relationships they can't just break up and go out and get
03:32:30Qother women and fun fact most men fall in love before the women do most men are the ones asking for commitment really I find that very hard to believe I don't
03:32:42Qthink so I'm I'm I'm telling you I'm telling you a psychological I'm telling you a psychological fact like you can Google it who falls in love first most of the time it's going to say men my older brother like you're talking
03:32:54Dilamy older brother is having this problem like girls he good-look mhm but girls are looking for him to just have the one stand and maybe he would like to
03:33:04Qcontinue to see this girl goh see it where are those kind of men cuz well well you got you got you got to think about it do y'all think most men get women no do do okay okay then okay so
03:33:17Qmost men don't get women right so the men who get women the men who can afford to get women most men when they get in a relationship they value that relationship they they they try to hold on to that relationship because it's so
03:33:30Qdifficult for them if they lose that source of validation they lose that source of sex for them to just go find it elsewhere so they stick to it and this is actually the research Bears this out empirically it was just a major
03:33:42Qstudy that was released that show Men actually value the relationship ship more than women in a lot of regards that's based on because they are lack of choices that yeah that's what I'm saying
03:33:54Adrianawe don't have we don't have relationship you're saying and I see where it can be vowed but from personal experience I don't see that all maybe I'm just like well you're biased personal experience
03:34:06LindsayI'm bias it's hard to say like I just find it hard to believe because I haven't no um I haven't experienced like men pursuing me more than I'm trying to pursue them we have to inspire that out
03:34:17Lindsayof a man we can't just be entitled to it they were saying that before too from what I'm learning and understanding cuz I didn't understand this all in my 20s we have to inspire a man to want to
03:34:29Adrianaprovide cherish be devotional you can't just expect it oh I'm not saying that all most men want a Woman by his side we want put my all in
03:34:39Lindsaymy effort into so many people and they're just like no also a problem being you're you're catering to what he wants for truly being who you are authentic but also want authenticity
03:34:52Adrianaotherwise he can tell you're faking it it's not I'm not faking it though like I'm saying like I am you love and a gen feel and she's putting
03:35:04Qher or no we're talking about feelings exp most men don't have the leverage to just leave relationships like women typically
03:35:16Dilayeah men will stick around are you prioriti you want a relationship or do you want that man if the person is still not enough mature to actually engage with feelings they get scary when a woman give a bit too much I think that's
03:35:28Daisywhat it is I like when a woman gives too much yeah me too like I would like it if she's down bad you know I like it if she's sing you're mature and a you would love to have that she can't be sing and
03:35:39Adrianasubmissive at the same time no you can wait that's you're asking for too much oh too much wait so it's either sub from my experience when I've like you know I'm always complimenting him and saying like how much I care about him and like
03:35:53Adrianadoing things for me like hey you want to come over like I'll cook you dinner like I'll do this for you I'll do that for you I think you're dealing with a guy I've never who's got a lot of other women mhm that that's not just one occasion though it's been multi it's
03:36:06Brian Atlasit's not even necessarily that you're doing anything wrong it's that maybe you're dealing with a a level of guy who's just dealing with a bunch of other women who's dating other women and no matter like how good you act or every
03:36:19Qguy I've dated has been dealing with other women then that's usually how it go you could also be dating outside of your caliber like Brian was just explaining could be she cuz well like
03:36:31Adrianaare the men would you describe the men that you date as I have dated so many different kinds of I've dated guys shorter than me taller than me hotter than me not hotter than me I've dated so so which guys T which guys do you tend
03:36:42Lindsayto want the commitment from and they don't get you the commitment the high none of them give me the commitment that's why I'm single would you say you have selfworth yeah I'm beginning to wonder
03:36:54Adrianaif there's something wrong with you yeah I am too I'm not going to lie I am too what's wrong I don't know please tell me no no no like psychologically like I think it's cuz you look like the Mona
03:37:06AaliyahLisa wait you know what I mean I'm cous about your question I have a question so my question is when you're inviting this guy over right bro inviting this guy
03:37:17Aaliyahover to your place that you take care of to make food that you probably bought we're like already like each other my question was were you guys already
03:37:27Adrianacommitted no okay cuz it feels like you were sometimes yeah pull that up you're giving too much that's that's it's like sometimes you're giving too much and then it's you're giving too little and
03:37:39Lindsayit's just like I feel like no matter what I you need to find a a I think always give too much that doesn't feel manipul I can't ever say that manipulative well I don't want to
03:37:51Dilalike love bomb so manipulative wait do you mean on the woman's part if if she's just giving like love bombing I love it I love when women give well but she did
03:38:02Dilatook away that love she said that she goes and tries her best to know the person she's love bombing though too can some attention a l Photoshop here look
03:38:15Brian Atlasinto this camera Photoshop her face onto the Mona Lisa wait bring it back uh zoom out because that we got a closeup that is kind of wait we need your eyes do you see how her eyes are
03:38:28Brian Atlaskind of like GL like a little bit to the the right which way my right smaller smaller let's see the whole thing show us the whole thing but do I look to my right or you have the same hands as her
03:38:37Brian Atlasthat's weird you have like the same she needs I didn't know Mona Lisa didn't have eybrows here look into this camera but like kind of look a little
03:38:46Brian Atlasbit to the left other other way too much too much yes there it is okay cool all right Photoshop that [ __ ] all right here we're um going around the table do you think you're going to be better looking
03:38:57Brian Atlasin 10 years time starting with you better looking better looking your looks will they be better in 10 years time at you're 25
03:39:07Brian Atlas35 without Botox damn yeah no plastic surgery then no aging but yes if with plastic I feel like we should just let
03:39:18Brian Atlasthem answer however maybe no that's fine uh so okay uh and then Daisy you're 30 better looking in 10 years time at 40 um I don't think so okay and then are
03:39:31Brian Atlasyou better looking now at 30 than you were at 20 yes wait we need we need do you have like old photos of you we need to do a comparison come on huh you've had it before I don't know where it is but maybe it's in I'll look in the DMS
03:39:42Brian Atlasum you're 22 better looking in 10 years time at 32 yeah 20 years time 42 yeah she's on some Mona Lisa [ __ ] okay 30 years time
03:39:54Brian Atlas52 no that's when I start going down okay so when's the peak 32 or 42 like 32 yeah uh you're 22 better looking in 10 years time at 32 I don't think so okay
03:40:06Lindsayyou're 36 better looking in 10 years time at 46 and then you're 36 were you better looking 10 years ago at 26 actually no I I have taken better care care of myself now than when I was in my
03:40:17Brian Atlas20s like not as much drinking so better looking now I yes I feel yeah okay uh you are 18 better looking in 10 years
03:40:27Dilatime at 28 yeah okay better looking in 20 years time 38 no okay uh you're 29 better looking in 10 years time at 39 I doubt without surgery I mean wait are we
03:40:37Dilaaren't we same age why I'm 30 because I hav't it's 26th July it's still not July I'm still 2 October I know so so I'm 29
03:40:48Daisyyes wow we're from the same age baby but we still haven't had the birthday okay I didn't notice I'm 30 you know so bad few months few months and you're so in 29 were you better looking
03:41:01Brian Atlas10 years ago at 19 or better looking now um way better right now okay you're 25 better looking
03:41:09Hunterin 10 years time at 35 yes uh 20 years time 45 yes I'm going fullon Lindsay Lohan on that at that age uh better
03:41:19Hunterlooking 30 years time 55 55 I think I'll start aging gracefully I think I'll be white by then white
03:41:28Brian Atlashair so but still better looking at
03:41:41Hunter55 no maybe I'll look a little older but uh when did you peek 35 or 45 yeah let's peek at 35 that sounds fair enough
03:41:52Brian Atlasfair enough okay cool uh well we've age Advanced all of you with technology and so Damian if you can get those pulled up
03:42:00Brian Atlascrazy whoa what the [ __ ] it's not it's not 30 no I do not