95 Body Count At 22?! Hater LAWSUIT?! Single Mom Wants 6ft $250,000/Year Man?! | Dating Talk #230

Date: 2025-02-24
Duration: 8h 28m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_01Q(guest)
SPEAKER_05Hunter(guest)
SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_09Aaliyah(guest)
SPEAKER_10Daisy(guest)
SPEAKER_11Dila(guest)
SPEAKER_12Lindsay(guest)
SPEAKER_13Adriana(guest)
SPEAKER_14Freda (Nicole)(guest)

Key Moments

00:53:07
OtherBrian matchmakes Daisy with billionaires (Elon, Bezos, Zuckerberg) as joke after Ashley St. Clair story. Daisy looks into camera and says she "wouldn't mind" having a baby with Elon Musk. Funny exchange about finder's fee of $1 billion.

Daisy Offers to Have Elon Musk's Baby on Camera

01:10:40
ControversyBrian plays clip of him joining Ashley St. Clair's Twitter space where she was attacking Whatever podcast, and trolling her by asking her body count repeatedly. She calls them "degenerate scum." Context: she later had Elon Musk's baby and sued him.

Ashley St. Clair Twitter Space Body Count Trolling

01:44:00
OtherBrian runs the delusional dating calculator for Daisy (wants $1M+/year, 30-45 age, not obese, any race, 5'10"+): 0.034% probability. Then runs for Hunter (wants $250k+/year, 6ft+, 35-45 age, not obese, not married, any color): 0.047% probability. Hunter says 47 is her lucky number she sees everywhere.

Delusional Dating Calculator Results

02:51:00
OtherLindsay shares that in her 20s she was The Other Woman for a man who had a girlfriend 13 years younger than Lindsay. She didn't know she was the other woman. He was sleeping around while maintaining the younger girlfriend. Used as example of why women should understand dating market dynamics.

Lindsay Admits Being The Other Woman Without Knowing

03:44:10
OtherDaisy reveals she has spent approximately $200,000 total on cosmetic work (breast implants/gummy bear type, eyebrow implants, lip filler and other work). Paid for by billionaire ex-boyfriend who supported her athletic career. Brian jokes about her chakras being blocked by fake titties.

Daisy Claims $200k in Cosmetic Surgery Total

04:25:00
QuoteAaliyah declares "the woman IS the table" (not bringing something to the table — she IS the table). Brian and Q challenge this. Raises hands of several women who agree. Extended debate about what women actually bring to relationships beyond biology.

Aaliyah: "The Woman Is the Table"

04:50:20
OtherBrian reads Aaliyah's OnlyFans bio written by her agency: "The perfect online girlfriend you've been dreaming of, here to be your everything... ready to make you throb." Aaliyah claims the agency wrote it, not her. Extended debate about accountability and whether she provides the "girlfriend experience" to vulnerable men.

OnlyFans Agency Bio Revealed - "Perfect Online Girlfriend"

04:55:40
ControversyDaisy argues there's no difference between a wife having sex with husband vs a sex worker — both exchanging sex for resources. Panel erupts. "I'd rather prefer a man who pays me for one time than one who doesn't want to pay me for my entire life." Brian says it's one of the most damning statements he's heard. Daisy walks it back slightly but stands her ground.

Daisy Calls Wives "Sex Workers for Life"

05:28:00
OtherQ shares that he had a client who spent $20,000 in one month on an OnlyFans creator who was feeding him lies about wanting to meet and be with him. Used as evidence against Aaliyah's claim her OnlyFans is harmless. Dila expresses sympathy for the client and calls it fraud.

Q Reveals Client Spent $20k on OnlyFans Woman Who Faked Love

06:24:20
OtherDonor Clay challenges the panel with "What started WWI?" — nobody knows (answers include: industrial revolution, nuclear bomb, China, fighting over land). Brian is the only one who knows: assassination of Archduke Franz Ferdinand by Gavrilo Princip. Then asks decade — guesses range from 1550s to 1800s (correct is 1910s). "You're in the wrong century!" Cold War also asked; Freda/Nicole thinks it was cold temperature, others think about atomic bombs from WWII.

World War I Knowledge Quiz - Panel Knows Nothing

06:45:40
OtherNicole/Freda shares she was almost used as bait in a robbery scheme in Houston junior year of high school — a guy friend wanted her to DM a scammer who brought $10k to school to flex, lure him somewhere secluded, then his crew with guns would rob the target. Her cut would have been $5,000. She declined. Knows a girl who did it to another guy.

Nicole/Freda Almost Participated in Houston Robbery Honeypot Scheme

06:55:50
OtherAdriana shares that a man she was dating was into voodoo and black magic (from Liberia), still talking to his ex the whole time. Adriana saged her apartment after learning this. Noticed that good things happened when she stopped talking to him and bad things (car broke down, grandma died, friend-zoned) when she went back to talking to him. Met the ex at a bar who showed her proof of his voodoo involvement.

Adriana Almost Participates in Voodoo Man's Life Spiral

07:17:40
OtherHunter shares she's been on dates with two men over 65. Met one at Nobu on her birthday — he flies helicopters with Harrison Ford's stunt double, sent her $500 on her birthday. Met another through mutual friend. Describes them as "sweet and gentle." Brian questions if this is sugar dating; Hunter says she never had sex with either.

Hunter Dates Men Over 65 Including Helicopter Pilot

07:48:14
OtherBrian offers a $2 bill to whoever answers the body count question (all had declined). Adriana accepts and reveals her body count. Then explains her first sexual experience made her think men only love her for sex, leading to her pattern. Lindsay responds supportively. Q explains evolutionary male response to high body count.

Adriana Reveals High Body Count for $2 Bill

08:15:00
OtherFresh (of Fresh & Fit podcast) sends a $30 TTS roast during the show directed at Daisy: "Daisy I knocked you up briefly but you f***ed me up permanently. I could have given you the world. Even let you continue OF and film with other ninjas as long as you were with me." Daisy reacts with "no you didn't."

Fresh Sends Roast During Live Show

Topics Discussed

00:00:09
Show intro & announcements

Brian introduces the show, explains donation/TTS system, StreamLabs, merch, Discord. Story about kicking out a belligerent woman who called him the n-word.

00:05:05
Guest introductions

All 7 guests introduce themselves (name, age, location, occupation, education). Aaliyah: 25, LA, UGC/metaphysics bachelor, OnlyFans. Daisy: 30, China/NY, content creator/fashion degree. Adriana: 22, Boston/LA, dancer/psych-bio major. Nicole/Freda: 18, Houston, UCSB biology. Lindsay: 36, Wisconsin, sales rep/journalism. Dila: 29, Italy/Valencia, English teacher/PA. Hunter Marie: 25, OC/LA, oral surgery assistant/trade school.

00:21:10
Relationship status round

Brian asks each guest about current relationship status, longest relationship, recent dating activity. Q is taken (3-year relationship). Adriana recently friend-zoned/ghosted. Nicole/Freda in 4-month relationship. Lindsay single 1+ year. Dila engaged. Aaliyah single 6 months (has 7-year-old). Hunter single 3 years. Daisy single ~1 year post-Walter.

00:50:51
Ashley St. Clair / Elon Musk baby mama drama

Brian presents the story of Ashley St. Clair (conservative political pundit, Whatever hater for 2+ years) announcing she had Elon Musk's baby 5 months ago and filing a lawsuit for sole custody/paternity/child support. Evidence from Signal messages (photographed with secondary phone) shows she planned to get pregnant by Elon. Panel reacts: predatory, premeditated, hypocritical given her conservative family-values messaging. She had tweeted "no sin as cruel as alienating a child from a parent" while now seeking sole custody. Her anti-Trump attorney also notable. Brian played clips from her prior attacks on Whatever.

01:01:00
Daisy delusional calculator

Brian runs the delusional dating calculator for Daisy: wants a man aged 30-45, not obese, minimum 5'10", any race, makes $1M+/year. Result: 0.034% probability — 5 out of 5 cats (delusional).

03:06:32
Self-ratings round (looks 1-10)

Brian asks each guest to rate their looks 1-10, can't pick 7. Ratings: Aaliyah=10 (joking), Daisy=10 most of the time, Adriana (skipped/6 face), Nicole/Freda=6, Lindsay=8 (for her age), Dila=10 (under pressure), Hunter=7.5, Q=5.8. Brian rates himself 5. Then asks what 1000 men would rate them: Aaliyah=8, Daisy=8, Adriana=6, Dila=5-6, Hunter=8-9. Donor Michael Jones rated them: chair 1=7, 7, 5, 4, 3, 4, 6, 5, Q and Brian both TBD.

03:14:00
AI age filter & gender swap segment

AI age filter applied to each guest showing them in 30-35 years. Gender-swap AI filters also used. Notable: Adriana's male version looks like her dad. Hunter's aged version compared to Lindsay Lohan. Nicole/Freda's male version looks Ethiopian/too feminine. Daisy aged up looks Latina. Brian's young photo shown (~21 years old, thinner). Lindsay's male version looks like Edward Norton.

03:15:30
Better looking in 10 years discussion

Brian asks each guest if they'll be better looking in 10 years. Results: Aaliyah uncertain, Daisy no at 40, Adriana yes at 32 (peak), Nicole/Freda no at 28, Lindsay yes now vs 26, Dila yes at 28, Hunter yes at 35 (peak at 35-45).

03:18:20
Men falling in love first / male commitment dynamics

Q argues research shows men fall in love first and value relationships more (due to scarcity). Women have more options so are less invested early. Most men don't have leverage to leave relationships. Debate about whether women are seeking men out of their league. Lindsay shares being The Other Woman without knowing it.

03:45:00
Aaliyah: oracle/psychic/divine feminine

Discussion of Aaliyah's oracle/psychic identity, divine feminine philosophy, Instagram posts about dark femininity, body as altar. Brian criticizes Aaliyah's OnlyFans as incompatible with her traditional/feminine values messaging. Instagram posts shown including provocative captions. Debate about whether her agency-written OnlyFans bio ("Perfect online girlfriend") is her responsibility.

04:15:00
Dating as a single mom / Aaliyah's dating stories

Aaliyah shares dating stories: helicopter tour first date, Beverly Hills dinner with private driver who handed out $100 bills, gun altercation with drug dealer where police helicopter followed them, doctor offered free Botox then tried to make her sugar baby.

04:43:20
OnlyFans, sex work, and traditional values debate

Extended debate triggered by Aaliyah and Daisy doing OnlyFans while demanding traditional men (providers, courtship, protectors). Brian argues this is contradictory — you can't demand gentlemanly treatment while producing pornographic content. Q argues submission comes from genuine attraction, not financial provision. Q shares story of client who spent $20k on an OnlyFans woman who faked love. Lindsay talks about having no boundaries in her 20s vs now having discernment. Adriana defends waitressing vs OnlyFans. Panel divided on whether body count and sex work are relevant to relationships.

06:03:20
Body count discussion

Extended discussion on body count — whether it matters, whether women should disclose, Adriana shares her high body count story (first sexual experience made her think men only want sex; $2 bill revelation). Discussion about whether past actions follow you. Q explains visceral male response to high body count is evolutionary, not rational. Lindsay discusses holding sexual standards raises the bar for men to commit.

06:06:40
Men wanting younger women discussion

Aaliyah argues men want younger women because they're easier to manipulate and avoid accountability. Brian and Q counter with biological/evolutionary explanation: fertility and youth = sexual attractiveness. Brian reverses argument: older women are MORE susceptible to manipulation because their biological clock is ticking and they desperately want kids. College girls can't be manipulated with "I want to have your babies" — they don't care. The 30+ woman can.

06:23:20
Historical/general knowledge quiz

Donor "Clay" challenges the panel with: What started WWI? (assassination of Archduke Franz Ferdinand by Gavrilo Princip — Brian is the only one who knew). What decade was WWI? (most answered wildly wrong — 1700s, 1600s). What was the Cold War? (panel mostly clueless; Freda/Nicole guessed it was cold temperature). Brian explains correctly.

07:02:50
Income requirements for future husband

Brian asks each guest their minimum yearly income for a future husband. Results: Aaliyah=$250,000; Daisy=$1 million (NYC standard); Adriana=equal to or same as her; Nicole/Freda=more than anesthesiologist salary ($300k+); Lindsay=currently makes $80k, would like $330k, wants to be retired by a man; Dila=doesn't care about money (makes more than fiancé); Hunter=$250,000-$300,000 minimum (medical field). Brian runs delusional calculator for Hunter: 0.047% probability (35-45yo, 6ft+, $250k+, not obese, not married, any race).

07:06:40
Daisy / Fresh & Fit pregnancy discussion

Brief revisit of Daisy's situation with Fresh (Fresh & Fit podcast). Brian asks if she was really pregnant; Daisy confirms she was and took a pill. Fresh texted her Happy Valentine's Day (says it was a mistake/wrong person). Dila corroborates Daisy was genuinely in love and heartbroken. Daisy says she's moved on, grateful God closed that door, started OnlyFans afterward.

07:18:20
Height requirements discussion

Brian asks each guest their height and minimum height for a partner. Aaliyah=5'1", wants 6ft minimum. Daisy=5'6", wants 5'10"+. Adriana=prefers 5'7"-5'9". Nicole/Freda=Ethiopian preference, wants curly-haired Black man; no strong height requirement stated. Lindsay=5'9", would accept 5'9" (dated shorter). Dila=5'8" (170cm), wants 6ft. Hunter=4'11", says 6ft but has dated shorter men.

07:22:50
Bear vs man in the forest

Would you rather encounter a random man or a bear in the forest? Daisy and Dila chose bear (would befriend it). Adriana bear. Nicole/Freda refused to answer directly, wanted conditions. Hunter chose man (fantasizes about organic forest romance). Lindsay chose man. Aaliyah chose man. Brian says bear-choosers are sexist and hate men.

07:28:20
Sugar daddies / selling pics round

Quick round: Have you had a sugar daddy or sold pics? Aaliyah=yes (OnlyFans). Daisy=yes (billionaire boyfriend paid for lifestyle). Adriana=yes (guy at club paid $1k for her to stay, Zelled money for weeks then disappeared). Nicole/Freda=yes went on dates with older man who gave money but no sex. Lindsay=no but experienced being courted and paid for dates. Dila=sort of (guy in relationship Zelled money without asking). Hunter=yes has ~2-3 sugar daddy figures who help but no romantic/sexual contact.

07:58:20
Gender pay gap and equal rights debate

Brian challenges: Aaliyah and Daisy say women don't have equal rights (pay gap) but also want traditional men to be providers. Brian explains the gender pay gap shrinks to 1 cent on the dollar when controlling for field, hours, geography. Argues Society is actually more comfortable for women than men (men: majority in prison, drug addiction, suicide, homeless, workplace deaths). Women have dual option: boss babe career OR stay-at-home wife. Men have only one path: provide or be undesirable. Aaliyah suggests menstrual cycles mean 9-to-5 is designed for men's biology (cycles every 24 hours vs women's 28 days).

08:00:00
Roast session ($30 TTS)

Final roast session where viewers send $29.99-$30 roasts of the panel. Notable roasts include Fresh texting Daisy, rating Brian's looks (5-6 from most guests, 10 from Hunter), Fresh sends a roast directly. Brian asks panel to rate his looks then reflects on being older/heavier than his younger self in photos.

08:08:20
Makeup removal / show outro

Aaliyah removes her makeup on air (using dissolving makeup pad). Final show notes. Brian wraps up, announces next Tuesday show at 5pm Pacific. Twitch raid to Ziko (League of Legends player).

Transcript

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02:46:48
Brian Atlasas woman whether that's working on your personality becoming more agreeable um uh staying physically fit that sort of
02:46:59
Brian Atlasthing the issue is though is women are pretty Cutthroat when it comes to how uh they dated in their 20s I don't think men owe you anything men don't owe you a
02:47:10
Brian Atlasrelationship you're not owed a relationship if you can get it great but in the same way that you as women we're men aren't owed relationships we're not owed
02:47:23
Qsex you're not you're not owed a relationship because you're in your 30s and also that experience thing you was talking about it goes back to that and what I've observed is that a lot of women they become even more selective
02:47:36
Qwhen they get older as if they still have the mate value that they had when they were younger so when women go through things when they get to the point where I'm not going to put up with this anymore and you already have a pool
02:47:49
Qthat isn't as large as what you had when you were younger because you were more fertile you were physically more attractive you had more to offer in the mind of a man from his perception when
02:47:59
Qyou get older and you still operating under the guys of oh I know what I deserve I know my worth I'm not going to settle for this well at this point you do kind of have to settle you have to be more open and receptive to the options
02:48:11
Qthat you have available to you because you don't have the same leverage that you had when you was younger and I don't think a lot of women realize that they still operate as if they're 23 years old when they're 37 38 40 as if they still
02:48:25
Brian Atlashave the same leverage in dating and they don't agreed well have um goad have you been dating at all right now I mean how many guys do you have any
02:48:36
Lindsayguys in the friend zone I put in the friend zone yeah that's I don't personally want guys as friends it does happen because I do a
02:48:46
Lindsaylot of what are considered masculine activities i surf I Spear Fish I yeah I feel bad about this but I'm very clear with them this is not going
02:48:57
Brian Atlasto go I I don't see how many men have you like been in that situation in the past year since moving down to Southern California well you said you've been
02:49:08
Lindsaysingle for one year is that yeah I've lived down here about two years now I moved down from half H so um since moving here putting guys in the front Zone I'd say about there's four there's
02:49:21
Lindsayfour here that you rejected they didn't pursue if if one of them could step up and lead in the way you are it might have been different it was
02:49:31
Lindsaymore I don't it's not simp it's just more there have you been on dating apps yes okay that's how
02:49:40
Brian Atlaswe no don't next which one was it hinge wait what do this it's so [ __ ] annoying you got to [ __ ] do a i as a marketing I sent
02:49:53
Lindsayyou a message for you to come be on the show yeah exactly no no no I'm not saying we matched but yes they try to they [ __ ] I was using dating apps to get women to come be on the show right I
02:50:05
Lindsaydid not know that was a smart marketing tool I'll give it to you it was a marketing tool and you you were very honest I mean it is a dating show so it
02:50:15
Brian Atlasa marketing she really just dropped that no just the way women say [ __ ] like they make it sound really bad instead of just being like Oh yeah like that's how I how I got on the show is because you sent me a message saying hey do you want to come
02:50:27
Dilaon the show you yeah that sounded a bit bad honestly but women do that [ __ ] all the time I have some I have some friends who are DJs some you were on the show what like two years ago about yeah that was right when I moved down I got banned
02:50:39
Adrianaon the I have I have some guy friends that are DJs and they use dating apps to get girls to come out and use it like as like a promoter but they don't want to date any of like one of them FY has a girlfriend that he's in a happy
02:50:50
Adrianarelationship with and she knows about it and he just uses it to get yeah the kind but so I just to wrap up I guess with the thing um so okay you
02:51:00
Lindsaywere on dating apps mhm how many matches in total did you get on the dating apps about 10 how many how many dates did you go on first dat oh I've gotten
02:51:11
Lindsayon so many First Dates like in the past two years yeah how many 10 yeah I'm going to put the number at 10 10 and
02:51:20
Lindsaythese I mean that's a decent I mean it's not like you could have said 50 um is it bad for me a turn off is if a man fully
02:51:29
Qcrosses his legs like a woman would is that just a a stupid ick it's I mean I don't call ick stupid because it's an ick I mean it's it's your physiological
02:51:39
Brian Atlasresponse but not HT that's what I'm curious about you don't do that in the midwest look it is okay in terms when you're turned off by something a man
02:51:50
Brian Atlasdoes like in terms of your your body language yes I think as a guy it's going to be viewed negatively by women if you
02:52:00
Brian Atlascross your legs I think like oh I can't date this dude because he did this it's I mean look you have you're
02:52:10
Brian AtlasKCK out you're KCK out you're complaining about men not not wanting to like date you or whatever but you like rejected a dude because he crossed his leg I mean do you have
02:52:22
Lindsayanybody to blame but yourself I'm just afraid there okay here's another dating story this was really recent yeah he he we got to a point it was the
02:52:34
Brian Atlassecond date he admitted he like stuff up the butt wait like he wanted to receive mhm and he was of like he was you might have to accept that [ __ ] to be honest you might have to accept
02:52:47
Lindsaythat [ __ ] what dating app was this I it's 36 you got to accept some things right and he had a he needs to go on grinder was going to say is he on the right like this is the is man here
02:52:59
Lindsaythere's and I'm not like that's what I'm trying to avoid you got moved to Texas or some [ __ ] I don't know are like by curious I don't know if he was by curious but I don't know it's the LI wait you're on Hing right liberal men BR
02:53:11
Brian Atlasput your settings to conservative you got to pay for I don't oh do oh she's not willing to pay the $20 a month okay yeah I mean look you're in Santa Barbara it's super [ __ ] liberal you're in
02:53:23
LindsayCalifornia super liberal if you want to stop dealing with dudes who want butt stuff you got to you got to switch things up a little bit you got to do farmers only I will call it Farmers
02:53:34
QHeight's not a problem for me I've dated a short King they're great it's the liberal versus conservative thing that scared well why do you why do you look on dating app I think dating apps are
02:53:46
Q[ __ ] because honestly I think it's think itun all the the lowest quality mates into one place that's probably why it's been a bunch of first so so with all the traveling and stuff that you do why not try to meet somebody organic no no no I
02:53:58
Lindsaydon't I haven't traveled in forever I'm ready to no this was early 20s I will own this I was in a great relationship we could probably could have made it work if he would have stepped up and
02:54:07
LindsayLeed a bit better um I had the travel bug I it was me I I went and sailed on a tall ship oh boy and I yeah I explore the
02:54:19
Brian Atlasworld you know what's interesting though on the like exploring and experience and travel thing because not sexually no but you you brought that up as kind of like one of the objections like oh a young woman like she hasn't done much
02:54:31
Brian Atlastraveling yet look you're not going to like what I'm about to say don't shoot the messenger as a guy if you are a girl and you're telling us I've been here I've
02:54:42
Brian Atlasbeen here I've been here I've been here you want to know how we take that I you're not going to like it but you got to understand understand the male perspective if a girl says I've been to Dubai I've been to Vienna I've been to
02:54:53
Brian AtlasBL Zurich I've been [ __ ] everywhere wherever oh you've been to you've been to [ __ ] Thailand you've been you you done all the Asian countries you've done all the European countries you've been
02:55:04
Brian Atlasto La America You' been to the Middle East oh she [ __ ] a guy there she [ __ ] oh Paris under the Eiffel Tower [ __ ] a dude [ __ ] the French guy oh Spain Spain
02:55:15
Brian Atlasyou know little Spanish conqueror uh port Portugal oh definitely got some Portuguese like that's what we if you tell us oh I've done this I've had this
02:55:27
Daisyexperience that's that's how we filter that oh you [ __ ] dudes in all these places maybe shees a flight attend duai she has traveling job I did work maybe
02:55:40
Brian Atlasmaybe oh even worse if she's a flight attendant hold on she a flight attendant she's definitely [ __ ] what if she's like going to different countries even so what hold on like what's wrong
02:55:52
Brian Atlaswith that we'll get into that but if she's a fight here's the thing I think only men that's UNC confident what if she's a pilot I was on look I was on Tinder hold on I I was well I mean we
02:56:03
Brian Atlassaw what happened recently with the in Toronto with the plane upside down that was an all female crew but anyways yeah it was all female crew [ __ ] what is it Delta United or some
02:56:15
Dila[ __ ] with their [ __ ] Bullit We're Men huh Pilots were male oh yeah there is in plane crashes with men sometimes but okay hold on if she's a flight
02:56:26
Brian Atlasattendant I've matched with girls who are flight attendants before luckily I didn't [ __ ] any of them but cuz who knows what I would have caught I match with them though and you
02:56:37
Brian Atlashave to think right so I've talked to them though and I'm like oh how long are you in town for uh two days one day the night oh okay and then it's like oh you want to link up
02:56:49
Brian Atlasyeah yeah I can grab a drink tonight and then she's off to another city and she goes to 200 cities in a year and she's on the dating app and
02:57:00
Brian Atlasthat same conversation I had with her here in Santa Barbara she's doing that in Seattle she's doing that at Chicago O'Hare she's doing that at Miami she's doing it at JFK she's doing it at nework
02:57:11
Brian Atlasshe's doing it at every [ __ ] City hold on every [ __ ] City every she's on the dating apps trust me these flight attendants [ __ ] bro trust me bro they be
02:57:22
Brian Atlas[ __ ] she's on the dating app the same conversation she has with me oh uh oh you want to go get a drink blah blah blah she's doing that in every [ __ ] City she's getting a lot of dick do you have a bad experience with the no I
02:57:35
Brian Atlasdidn't I didn't even I didn't even meet up I didn't even meet up but I'm telling you these flight attendants or women who travel a lot for work you're in a different city every week you're [ __ ] a guy in every different city there's a
02:57:47
Brian Atlaslot of other job that aren't flight attend traveling right but that's what I'm saying for I was saying if she just travels a lot she's [ __ ] that's the the male perspective she Trav a lot with her
02:57:59
Brian Atlasfamily to I think it depends on the places though sure I agree if she's like with her family she probably she's still fck her dad was in the military maybe her dad was in the mil May her dad was on the military and she was like going
02:58:11
Brian Atlasbut you said maybe she's a flight attendant and that's why she's traveling so much I'm like yeah massive red flag she's a flight attendant she she can't keep a dude because she's never [ __ ] home she's [ __ ] every
02:58:23
Diladude in a different city maybe the flight attendant was a bad example he she she agrees he has a point because that's still insecurities like you still
02:58:34
Dilaout though you guys get to see all these amazing countries yeah I traveled a lot but still uh it's true I wasn't it in Ops I used it because I was Al lonsome
02:58:46
Dilamany times and I wanted to visit the city but still I was alone cuz not all my friends could actually uh afford maybe to go to that place and I've been
02:58:55
Dilalucky cuz my family is well off so I was able to go to London even if it's 1 hour and half from Milan okay I could go sometimes like with with your previous
02:59:06
Daisyowner like owner boss I mean like boss I'm still I'm still are you are you are you safe CU she was like a personal assistant for celebrities so she was
02:59:17
Brian Atlasbeing a to travel all over places I see there are situations like that like women can do their things no but even then okay oh you're traveling you're
02:59:27
Brian Atlaslike an opair oh you're an opair and this really rich family is taking you to all these places oh hey uh we're going to have a night in with the kids you go out and enjoy the night life boom you
02:59:39
Dilajust got [ __ ] in Milan or some [ __ ] but the thing is he's right cuz the Society of nowadays it's so common for sugar babies and these things that it's even for male it's not like only women
02:59:50
Dilado this let's be honest it's a 50/50 human beings do it period and he gives you the doubt it gives insecurities CU you don't know if actually this person is that interested on you is it giving
03:00:01
Dilayou really just their attention to you or is as he said this guy or that girl here it's like is it lust or is it love that's when you don't do hookup culture which is also very prevalent here and
03:00:12
Lindsayyeah for hookup culture you mean like having um a lot I actually one man just told me that's the way dating goes here in California is they hook up and then they figure if they want to have date
03:00:24
Dilaeach other after it's almost kind of like Korean like they say immediately oh you're my girlfriend then they go to bed with you and maybe like two days after these appear but they have to be your
03:00:36
Brian Atlasboyfriend look can can you got to understand when I'm talking about this I'm speaking in generalities can a woman be well traveled and not have [ __ ]
03:00:45
Brian Atlasdude in every city sure of course there's always exception to but the the rule I see what you're saying I the perception perception is so important
03:00:56
Brian Atlasperception often times is well I don't know if it's well it's can be re reality I don't know if that makes sense that's how a guy is going to look at it oh you you have all these
03:01:06
Brian Atlasexperience like a guy like if you've just done everything first time going to a fancy restaurant first time driving in like a sports car a luxury car a Ferrari a Lamborghini a McLaren
03:01:19
Brian Atlasand oh I've already been I've been in three McLaren before yeah like they okay you [ __ ] somebody you [ __ ] a guy but oh my God oh my God it's so cool oh it's
03:01:29
Brian Atlasso fast I've never been in a Lamborghini before that's more appealing that's more appealing to the guy because we as a guy
03:01:40
Brian Atlasyou want to offer a girl a new experience but if you've just oh okay yeah I've driven one of these big deal you've got the low tier Lamborghini the
03:01:51
Brian Atlasoh you you've got the uh what's it called the the Aventador I I want the mercy Lago or whatever it is the gardo oh you're driving the poverty Lamborghini mister I only deal with guys
03:02:04
Dilain the but if you start immediate conversation by showing off what's your experience that's insecurity and you're trying to sell yourself as somebody like oh look at me I feel like it would fail immediately I I don't think women say
03:02:17
Dilathis to I just think it's kind of no I'm not talk just about women literally like male and female when they kind of show off they experiences in that way it makes me just see this person as
03:02:27
Dilainsecure trying to prove him the per like himself or herself to me sure I mean why to me who am I yeah who are you right why don't you just settle down
03:02:39
Dilayour own try to fix whatever trauma you have fix the trauma fix the trauma fix the trauma I mean Securities come from that the best look I don't know as a
03:02:49
Brian Atlaswoman uh I don't think you should lie but that's just the perception that we're going to get as a guy anyways I'm going to read a couple chats here uh can
03:03:00
Brian Atlaswe get an astrology check on the panel who believes and who doesn't love to the Pod whatever whenever dude thank you for the uh t or not the TTS the streamlabs message man appreciate it the show of
03:03:10
Brian Atlashands who's who's into astrology what's show hands asy like [ __ ] wait yeah uh you believe in
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Freda (Nicole)astrology you you you you you don't you do ENT you do do you astrology are you into astrology it's not my thing not her thing she's not about it okay all right sweet it's fun though sometimes I'm like
03:03:31
Brian AtlasI convince myself like I'll read something I'm a Libra and I'll be like oh my God that is me but I think I'm just trying to like I'm myself I'm going to do a test with Aaliyah Aaliyah what do you think I am cuz you're a psychic or
03:03:43
Brian Atlaswhatever can you scoot scoot the mic to the leave the mic at the edge of the table more more more more more more scoot it's sco SC yep go ahead what do you think I am I want to say you're an
03:03:53
Adrianaearth sign which is I don't know what that is vir girl Taurus or Capricorn fix thank you
03:04:03
QTaurus she [ __ ] got me she [ __ ] get me all right F God damn it well I mean I mean the interesting thing about it is she had one out the 12 chance yeah and women love trying to guess my sign
03:04:15
Qbefore I say it and they get it wrong all all the time that's how I know it's [ __ ] but also the interesting thing about astrology is it's called the Borum effect so essentially it's so generally
03:04:26
Qvague that when you ask people what their traits are they're in agreement they're like you show I show all y'all the same traits and say you are this you are that you are this and all of this
03:04:38
Adrianapositive affirmational [ __ ] and y'all all agree that is me that's me that's me that's me can I add it's all the same [ __ ] so the common misconception with astrology cuz I heavily studied it a lot is you actually
03:04:51
Adrianahave three signs and not a lot of people like think but the the three main signs you have your sun your moon and your rising and like those get like it's just like I could go deep into it it would be
03:05:03
Adrianahere forever but I think a lot of people don't understand it and there's a lot of who the hell is there's just a lot of misconceptions about it is what my general thing is
03:05:16
Qit's people don't understand understand it but if you like actually study it it does make sense in a way it does not it does you have to you have to Reliable what is Astrology what what is Astrology
03:05:28
Qthe celestial the celestial body affecting human behavior Can somebody explain the metaphysics of that how something light years away influences my behavior but also like a few months ago
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Freda (Nicole)I don't know if you guys saw this but like everyone's signs like changed like it just somehow changed like they got shifted around like the dates moved like how is that it's only like what like who's born when now it's not like oh now you're a
03:05:52
DilaSagittarius now you're doesn't change when you B when you were born in that specific hour and the city you were born that's how you actually calculate sounds
03:06:02
Dilalike it's how the planet the planet and the stars are influencing you from when you were guys I got to read three digletts before he
03:06:12
Brian Atlasgets mad at me uh get myin in this [ __ ] yo thank you for the $100 Super Chat I'm we just have to uh get through with the show but I do appreciate your uh Super
03:06:21
Brian AtlasChat three digletts thank you very much man um okay let's get into some of the show notes because we're behind actually you know what [ __ ] it by the way
03:06:32
Brian AtlasStiffler wasn't I don't know where he was so he told me to call it in so ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10 you can't pick seven starting with you Seven's a lucky
03:06:44
Aaliyahnumber I would say I'm a 10 but it depend depends on what you're basing sure like societal acceptance or
03:06:54
Brian Atlaswhatever we are using the Ethiopian and arrian Beauty standard an astrology we're using the Ethiopian Beauty standard here not the Western not Asian
03:07:06
Brian Atlasnot Korean so what do you rate yourself in erria like are you a 10 in Atria or a 12 she's a 12 okay all right uh Daisy what do you wrate yourself on scale of 1 to
03:07:18
Daisy10 can't seven most of the time I feel like I'm a 10 but sometimes I feel like I'm zero yeah like sometimes I just
03:07:25
Daisydon't like myself that much yeah daisy daisy daisy okay um go ahead six six okay what about you
03:07:38
Freda (Nicole)uh it depends on the day but I'd say like right now probably six are you ever a 10 yeah if I uh if you do what I don't know get like all dressed up and you
03:07:49
Freda (Nicole)know go out do my makeup do my hair
03:07:58
Brian Atlasif like if Oh I thought you about to say like the guy's drunk or something I know I'm basing it off of what I think blind
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Brian Atlaslike op it's her opinion oh okay okay my bad not so so 10 or what should I write I six I said six oh okay okay what about
03:08:15
Lindsayyou here where plastic surgery is the thing I don't for okay I'm aware I'm aware all right how about the total
03:08:24
LindsayUnited States total United States for my age cuz I do take care of myself okay I'm going to give it eight cuz we can't pick I would have picked seven but we
03:08:33
Brian Atlascan't pick seven uh okay eight for your age okay what about on this panel what about eight or
03:08:45
Lindsaysorry what about your rating in total though because you you specified just California yeah well it's really hard when women alter their faces to like
03:08:56
Lindsayfeel like a yeah I will St you do realize there are like supermodels who don't have any plastic surgery yes yeah yeah okay but those are very they
03:09:06
Lindsayusually compete in Miss I don't know if Miss USA or Miss what Miss whatever the whole thing is called un Universe can they alter their faces probably oh yeah
03:09:16
DaisySur not against those they can they can I was I was in the competition before okay she was a professional bodybuilder no
03:09:27
Daisylike beaut pageant she saides all oh Miss Asia yeah she won it you won Miss Asia oh Lebanon what Lebanon wow Le Miss Le
03:09:39
DaisyLebanon the [ __ ] are you doing in Lebanon Miss Asia but in lebano she represented Lebanon no I represented China oh sorry in Lebanon yeah they do a
03:09:49
Daisylot of those competition is very famous for that Lebanon you can check on competition was in Asia the UN like it was it was like is there miss
03:10:01
DaisyChina like all of Asia competing how about like Miss actually in Asia around 50 computers from different countries all right uh
03:10:10
Brian Atlasokay let um probably like a five five okay and is is that in total wait can like break it down like
03:10:21
Brian Atlasface body if you had to like you like do you have a different rating for your face wait if we're doing that then I have you're you're up you're higher your
03:10:30
Adrianabody body n face six face wear face six wait but you can't hold on but you just said overall so I just said six wouldn't
03:10:40
Freda (Nicole)it I can't say seven wouldn't okay whatever um do you want to um I would say I look better with my straight hair
03:10:49
Brian Atlasum I'd probably be like like a six maybe um you know it's I just noticed about you this is the most weird compliment I don't know if it's com you ever seen those really
03:11:01
Brian Atlasold uh what What's it called when they draw a portrait I you got this look look into that camera right there you've got this
03:11:12
Brian Atlaslike yeah portrait like Mona Lisa type not like Mona Lisa but you got this like silence smile like portrait artist model
03:11:21
Brian Atlaslike 1400s look to you like you would be like Ethiopian royalty if there were painters back in that you know what I mean but I don't know if it's a compliment because there's a lot of inbreeding in the like
03:11:35
Brian Atlasthe Royal so you're a princess but there's inbreeding that part let's let's not so I'll let you figure out if it's a compliment or okay um I think it's
03:11:49
Freda (Nicole)I yeah I just I feel like the wom over there are like more attractive than at least me right now oh like like what's her name Ruby Rose like is she oh my God
03:12:00
Dilashe's like bro she's like perfect she's gorgeous okay uh what do you rank yourself on a scale of uh I mean society and the Beauty has
03:12:13
Dilachanged in all the centuries and I'm okay with myself um I had some self-doubt about my image before but since I've met my
03:12:24
Dilaboyfriend he made me accept myself so I don't really and I will not really give you an answer in this cuz still kind of
03:12:33
Dilatrigger me to have to give myself a tag on how I'm I beautiful or not but I'm okay with myself let's say
03:12:44
Daisythis let's not say that let's let's say a number 10 dais let's say a number just say you're 10 so 10 thank
03:12:53
Brian Atlasyou no is that is that actually your rating just to yourself you're 10 go ahead hold on no no no go
03:13:04
Hunterahead what's your rating probably 7 and a half okay I'll accept it what about you um I would say a nine um with the
03:13:16
Hunterpotential to be a 10 what would have to change I guess or um maybe a tan um drop a few pounds my hair might grow a little
03:13:26
Brian Atlaslonger um uh Q what about you um 5.8 5.8 yeah you downgraded I give
03:13:36
Brian Atlasmyself a I give myself a five um may I ask a question on this sure um men's opinions of the woman who
03:13:47
Lindsaysay they're a 10 that shows confidence the women who are saying that they're not a 10 and much less shows insecurity M it's the reverse really it's
03:13:59
Brian Atlasabsolutely the reverse interesting so we're if if you're like if you have a big ego you got pride and you're rating yourself a 10 and you're not a
03:14:08
Brian Atlas10 we look at that that's huous that's ego that's Pride that's lack of uh modesty so so whereas a woman who's just
03:14:20
Qoh yeah like I'm a six I'm a seven that's confidence I think mhm cuz we don't want to deal with no delusional woman yeah said no man ever
03:14:30
Qoh my God she's so brave she said she's a 10 that's confidence I love that about her none of us have ever said that [ __ ] this is interesting no I do think genuinely speaking this idea that
03:14:42
Brian Atlaswell it's confident to say that you're 10 I actually think it's confident to be like I can I can do an accurate self assessment of how I look this is where I think I
03:14:54
Brian Atlasstand like why I don't know if you're like if you're genuinely an average woman and you think you are among the most beautiful women in the world that's
03:15:04
Brian Atlasa lack of modesty it's pride and I just think it's way more confidence to just be I'm six [ __ ]
03:15:14
Brian Atlasyou attitude yeah but I don't know man um so okay we got we got you know what though we got a a 10 a 10 an eight a
03:15:24
Brian Atlasnine we got a I'm very good I get the most beautiful women on my show look at this panel of I wanted
03:15:33
Brian Atlasseven man I don't know I don't know how I keep doing it Q every show I just get the most I get the most beautiful wom you need to start a whatever Beauty pad I'm going to I'm starting whatever I
03:15:46
Brian Atlascan't help you she's going to she's going to help I was I was in the organization she'll be one of the judges you she was she was uh okay here we're going to do uh going around the table actually are we
03:15:59
Brian Atlasstarting to get the stuff in Discord Damian okay we we'll get that pulled up in a sec I'm going read a couple chats first though so we have uh
03:16:07
TTS/Donationsoh here let me play this one uh oh Michael Jones donated
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TTS/Donations$200 starting with chair one 7 7 5 4 3 4
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TTS/Donations6 5 q and Brian are both T okay who Mike Jones who Mike Jones what would the panelist think the average of 1,000 men
03:16:33
Brian Atlaswould rap them what would the panelist think okay sure we'll do that really quick going around the table good question Mike so this is now changed to what do you think a thousand men rate
03:16:42
Brian Atlasyou what's the average I've only ever been told 10 Sor good attitude I like that St the C I'm serious really you didn't have you
03:16:56
Brian Atlasdidn't have some boyfriend who's like shut up you didn't have a boyfriend have subscribers oh they're definitely simp you have like haters simp on your social Med they was telling you you
03:17:08
Brian Atlas10 I mean you just had somebody tell you you were seven well yeah so um so what do you think the average would be if a thousand men rated
03:17:19
Daisyyou eight okay Daisy depend if it like I get to hear and
03:17:29
Daisycompliment all the time not just the way how I look also how I move and the way I address so it really depends preference
03:17:41
Daisycuz I do have some of the work down so for some of the people they don't prefer Plastics surgery they will say or maybe you're yeah but it's it's like a
03:17:51
Brian Atlasthousand men so you just let's say 50% of them like plastic surgery 50% okay then that that will be eight eight okay seven wait you get the men
03:18:03
Lindsayrate you higher cuz you said six okay that's fine six okay is the same if I'm going to be honest yeah I know I'm average I'm a
03:18:11
Dilafive okay yeah um I've been rated higher so probably like seven okay I would be scared to be judged by a thousand men
03:18:23
Brian Atlasprobably I mean you have about five you have about 7,000 judging you right
03:18:33
Dilanow I was happier when I didn't know it but I would say five or six
03:18:41
Huntermaybe I don't know I can really talk for them sure next I would say um anywhere from8 and
03:18:51
Hunternine um just because my hair is naturally Ginger and blonde so feel like in that category there's not a lot of people to judge from I think there's
03:19:02
Hunterabout 2% of the world has naturally red hair um so I'm putting myself at a higher rank for that because of the the red hair that makes you rare though yeah
03:19:13
Hunterunique yeah I mean like my arms blonde what about your eyebrows my eyebrows I do color them in but they're they're like a so wait okay eight or nine
03:19:23
Brian Atlasbecause you're Ginger she saying is I mean is it the case that men appraise redheads as like generally more
03:19:33
Hunterattractive than dark-haired women or blonde women I don't think that that's the case yeah there's a lot of Ginger phobia out there huh really what do you mean Ginger phobia
03:19:47
Brian Atlasif you like G it's so racist it is it's very these and and like it's not there if you say you call somebody a ginger in a
03:19:57
Brian Atlasderogatory way it's not like socially unacceptable to do it is kind of uh I mean they have souls I was about to say they don't have souls but um that's true um all right we have a chat here from
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Aaliyahchair one simp here chair uh can you read this Aaliyah into the mic read this for us I'm a can son Taurus Moon Leo Rising are we compatible I need a good
03:20:21
Aaliyahreason to get my pool hot tub and Sonic going again cancer Sun yes cuz I'm a
03:20:30
AaliyahPisces uh son Taurus moon what the [ __ ] Taurus Moon might be a little too like stubborn for me and
03:20:40
Aaliyahthen what was the rising Leo Rising Leo Leo Rising my rising's also fire so I I think that would be compatible
03:20:50
Brian Atlasslay oh my God you guys are such a match oh my
03:20:57
Brian Atlasgoodness chair one simp I'm GNA set you guys up okay that's crazy okay um here
03:21:07
Brian Atlasoh uh we have to do okay going around the table do you think you'll be wait hold on [ __ ] that [ __ ] I have I have things to say do you guys object to this question no
03:21:21
Brian Atlasdoes anybody object to it do you guys think it's you know it's a little ask first what do you mean what's the question question no the rating what do you rate your looks on a scale of on do you think it's kind of H we're okay it's
03:21:33
Brian Atlasjust you know you know what I mean yeah we're okay look I'mma look oh by the way whoever's doing the do gender swap too we have to do gender swap for
03:21:44
Brian Atlasthis we have it yeah sweet here it look the reason we ask it is because I think it is important to know your standing in the dating marketpl so that that way you can go in with
03:21:58
Brian Atlasreasonable expectations and end up with a guy who's I mean maybe you don't think like maybe you want to shoot for the stars and
03:22:07
Brian Atlasget a top tier dude you can try good luck uh you're going to run into those problems we talked about earlier where they're not going to give you that same amount of attention same amount of time
03:22:19
Brian Atlasthey're probably going to [ __ ] around on you unless you catch a rare one uh but I do genuinely think that if we were to
03:22:30
Brian Atlasline up every woman on earth and put her next next to her male equivalent when it comes to looks 90% of y'all would be mortified
03:22:40
Brian Atlasyou'd be like really that that's that's the dude you know what I mean so it's like and why it's important is
03:22:50
Brian Atlasbecause I think a lot of women they y'all conflate sexual interest with dating interest long-term commitment interest so you'll get a
03:23:00
Brian Atlasbunch of likes and DMS and maybe you'll deal with a an athlete NFL player NBA player you'll deal with like a like mid-tier SoundCloud rapper some [ __ ]
03:23:10
Brian Atlasyou'll maybe you'll even deal with like a major musician or actor or whatever it is or a guy who's rich or a guy who's got status or a guy who's really
03:23:20
Brian Atlasgood-look whatever it is you're getting sexual attention from him but that's not the W for you like as women it's easy for you to get sexual attention from almost most or all men the W is when you
03:23:33
Brian Atlasget commitment from that guy when you get a ring when you get his last name when you get his children so you can't be confusing cuz like men men will sleep with a girl and
03:23:45
Brian Atlasdisqualify or just B based on her looks like she's attractive enough to sleep with but not attractive enough to be in a relationship with and maybe that's confusing for some of yall CU I think
03:23:57
Brian Atlaswith women it's the reverse like for you to have a short-term thing with a guy he's got to be really attractive typically like you make the concession
03:24:07
Brian Atlasthe other way like to to have like a shortterm like if you want to just have a quick one night stand or a hookup he's got to be really [ __ ] hot yeah yeah
03:24:17
Brian Atlasbut for a it's kind of different but with with men it's like for a short-term thing we actually look down men look down like we'll deal with a girl who we would never be caught in a relationship
03:24:28
Brian Atlaswith on the sole basis of her looks because we just want the easy access to sex but because the majority of men are just straight up offering you sex uh you're going to get offers from
03:24:40
Brian Atlasmen who are no F like I'm not that are above your league and the other thing is as guys we get rejected on the front end so you guys will get rejected on the back end so
03:24:53
Brian Atlaswhat does this look like if I step to a girl who's just out of my league and this is going to typically like if I'm stepping to I who's a who's a like
03:25:03
Brian Atlasbeautiful could I get her let's not no if I if I'm stepping to Megan Fox even like Megan Fox right now it she's a little crazy for Anna
03:25:13
Brian Atlaslike she's got a lot going on I'm I'm getting rejected though like I I don't have a chance with Megan Fox and I know that going in but she's going to reject me immediately up front and it doesn't even have to be a girl with status it
03:25:26
Brian Atlascould be like just a normal girl who's just good-looking attractive I can't get anything outside my league right if I step to a girl instant rejection I don't get a conversation I don't get a date I
03:25:37
Brian Atlasdon't get a meal I certainly don't get sex right but as women if you're dealing with a dude who's outside of your league you
03:25:47
Brian Atlascan [ __ ] him maybe he's going to keep you around for one two three dates 1 two three hookups maybe you even get a situation chip he'll keep you around for 6 months he'll burn 6 months of your
03:26:01
Lindsaytime while you're trying to get him into a relationship I went through that in my 20s you're literally explaining like so why is that he actually had a a very this is my issue with the young he had a 13-year younger girl as his girlfriend
03:26:14
Lindsayand I was The Other Woman without knowing it and I was the girl he was [ __ ] around with ou yeah so this I agree with this no this this happens all
03:26:23
Brian Atlasthe time and look as it was hard I don't fully like I don't blame women in so far I kind of do but hold on I don't blame you because we all want to get what's
03:26:34
Brian Atlasthe best we can get we want the most attractive the best personality all the other sort of benefi beneficial things that we can get in a relationship all the characteristics we like the looks
03:26:47
Brian Atlaslike we all want to get the best we're all greedy we want to get the best that we can we want the optimum partner you're not going to if you're faced with multiple different options and women you
03:26:58
Brian Atlasguys have a [ __ ] ton of options you're going to want the best one it just it makes sense but then the guys you pick if they're all at the top they also have a [ __ ] ton of
03:27:10
Lindsayoptions and they're not like they're going to want to be dealing probably with with multiple women they probably don't pursue either cuz women are throwing themselves yeah or yeah I
03:27:22
Qmean they they might still pursue but they're they're still going to probably be dealing well as somebody who who was like that typically the girl that I approach is who I want cuz I approached
03:27:34
Qher but I'll take I'll if it's convenient if women are throwing themselves at me if it's convenient I'll take them up on it mhm like I declined a lot of women as well but the women who are just good enough or who are
03:27:46
Qattractive enough and it and it's not like a I sleep with him and then kick them to the curb it was never like that it's like oh you know we can chill we can go out or whatever the case may be but it's just not where you're up to my
03:27:58
Qstandard in terms of what I want on my arm and then a lot of times personality plays a a huge role in that too because a lot of these women have personality
03:28:07
Brian Atlasissues and like cluster be um mental illnesses and and oh my gosh I just yeah but that's normally what it is that's normally how it goes but I mean it's a
03:28:19
Brian Atlasdifficult situation and then a lot of a lot of the guys are going to Fain they're going to Fain that they want something more serious to like cuz they're just going to be like oh okay I'll keep her around for 6 months and
03:28:30
Brian Atlasjust so I can keep having sex with her right and I I I don't think that's the right way to move as men but as women you got to kind of look at the Dynamics
03:28:40
Brian Atlasthat are going on and be like it's hard like you're GNA want that guy you're going to want that top top guy who's either really attractive or you know whatever he's got status or
03:28:52
Brian Atlaswhatever it is and you're going to want to try to catch him but he's got a lot of other women chasing him it's like wh why settle when he can get other women and
03:29:03
Brian Atlasyou're not going to get commitment and then the trouble is like as dudes it's typically not the case as a guy when you're like in your 20s or whatever throughout the course of your I don't know your 20s you're like it doesn't
03:29:14
Brian Atlaslook like this for men and could you ever here's the reverse here's the reversal imagine a guy who's TW
03:29:24
Brian Atlas2021 who all the women want to sleep with him and he's a six let's say he's mid let's say he's a five but all the
03:29:33
Brian Atlasgirls want to sleep with him who are his looks equivalent but in addition to that there's women who are 67 8 and N who want to sleep with him too but those women the 678 and N9 women they don't
03:29:47
Brian Atlaswant commitment from him they just want to [ __ ] him a couple times maybe he'll get a situationship with a few for 1 2 3 months and then let's say you're a girl and you're like oh that's a guy we're kind of on the same level I want to get
03:29:59
Brian Atlashim in a relationship why would he ever be in a relationship with you when he can get sexual attention other kinds of attention from women who are more
03:30:09
Brian Atlasattractive than you that's what's going on with women Food For
03:30:17
Brian AtlasThought got real silent there oh you got I know am I wrong I could be wrong I don't know maybe correct me maybe y'all
03:30:27
Dila[ __ ] I mean about uh us looking for somebody that for us at least is like very goodlooking like fit for our Beauty standard that's true for one I stand
03:30:37
Dilathat or at least I talk about my own experience that what I did but when I had to have a relationship I always had to know how's the personality because if I have to be with somebody talk to you
03:30:49
Dilaevery day and I mean I have to have a connection emotionally feelings for you and we have to be fit to each other I mean I cannot be with somebody that thinks about certain topics and puts
03:31:01
Daisycertain priorities that to me they're not really like there shouldn't be even priorities why would women care if the man wants to take us seriously why can't we just I'm the one I'm going to choose who I want
03:31:13
Daisyto be serious with yeah you know what I mean like that's why also a lot of women stop prior prioritize prioritizing or yeah
03:31:24
Brian Atlasrelationship they're more like focusing on their career their well-being so you're saying women just want to [ __ ] a bunch of dudes in their 20s is that that's not what I'm saying
03:31:35
Daisywhat I'm saying is women should not take a relationship or a man as their first priority in their life they should not be concerned about that why not because
03:31:47
Daisyyou're not our job because men can tell a women to [ __ ] off right whenever they want so women are always be the one that's more passive so we should be
03:31:58
Daisythere for ourself and to become the best version of ourself so one day we can tell the men you [ __ ] off if we don't like you [ __ ] off but he said that at the beginning of the show most of the
03:32:11
Qtime women are the ones telling the men to [ __ ] off what if what if I told you that actually what you're saying because what we're talking about we're talking about a very very small percentage of
03:32:20
Qmen who who can do this the majority of men as I told you earlier don't have the leverage in their relationships they can't just break up and go out and get
03:32:30
Qother women and fun fact most men fall in love before the women do most men are the ones asking for commitment really I find that very hard to believe I don't
03:32:42
Qthink so I'm I'm I'm telling you I'm telling you a psychological I'm telling you a psychological fact like you can Google it who falls in love first most of the time it's going to say men my older brother like you're talking
03:32:54
Dilamy older brother is having this problem like girls he good-look mhm but girls are looking for him to just have the one stand and maybe he would like to
03:33:04
Qcontinue to see this girl goh see it where are those kind of men cuz well well you got you got you got to think about it do y'all think most men get women no do do okay okay then okay so
03:33:17
Qmost men don't get women right so the men who get women the men who can afford to get women most men when they get in a relationship they value that relationship they they they try to hold on to that relationship because it's so
03:33:30
Qdifficult for them if they lose that source of validation they lose that source of sex for them to just go find it elsewhere so they stick to it and this is actually the research Bears this out empirically it was just a major
03:33:42
Qstudy that was released that show Men actually value the relationship ship more than women in a lot of regards that's based on because they are lack of choices that yeah that's what I'm saying
03:33:54
Adrianawe don't have we don't have relationship you're saying and I see where it can be vowed but from personal experience I don't see that all maybe I'm just like well you're biased personal experience
03:34:06
LindsayI'm bias it's hard to say like I just find it hard to believe because I haven't no um I haven't experienced like men pursuing me more than I'm trying to pursue them we have to inspire that out
03:34:17
Lindsayof a man we can't just be entitled to it they were saying that before too from what I'm learning and understanding cuz I didn't understand this all in my 20s we have to inspire a man to want to
03:34:29
Adrianaprovide cherish be devotional you can't just expect it oh I'm not saying that all most men want a Woman by his side we want put my all in
03:34:39
Lindsaymy effort into so many people and they're just like no also a problem being you're you're catering to what he wants for truly being who you are authentic but also want authenticity
03:34:52
Adrianaotherwise he can tell you're faking it it's not I'm not faking it though like I'm saying like I am you love and a gen feel and she's putting
03:35:04
Qher or no we're talking about feelings exp most men don't have the leverage to just leave relationships like women typically
03:35:16
Dilayeah men will stick around are you prioriti you want a relationship or do you want that man if the person is still not enough mature to actually engage with feelings they get scary when a woman give a bit too much I think that's
03:35:28
Daisywhat it is I like when a woman gives too much yeah me too like I would like it if she's down bad you know I like it if she's sing you're mature and a you would love to have that she can't be sing and
03:35:39
Adrianasubmissive at the same time no you can wait that's you're asking for too much oh too much wait so it's either sub from my experience when I've like you know I'm always complimenting him and saying like how much I care about him and like
03:35:53
Adrianadoing things for me like hey you want to come over like I'll cook you dinner like I'll do this for you I'll do that for you I think you're dealing with a guy I've never who's got a lot of other women mhm that that's not just one occasion though it's been multi it's
03:36:06
Brian Atlasit's not even necessarily that you're doing anything wrong it's that maybe you're dealing with a a level of guy who's just dealing with a bunch of other women who's dating other women and no matter like how good you act or every
03:36:19
Qguy I've dated has been dealing with other women then that's usually how it go you could also be dating outside of your caliber like Brian was just explaining could be she cuz well like
03:36:31
Adrianaare the men would you describe the men that you date as I have dated so many different kinds of I've dated guys shorter than me taller than me hotter than me not hotter than me I've dated so so which guys T which guys do you tend
03:36:42
Lindsayto want the commitment from and they don't get you the commitment the high none of them give me the commitment that's why I'm single would you say you have selfworth yeah I'm beginning to wonder
03:36:54
Adrianaif there's something wrong with you yeah I am too I'm not going to lie I am too what's wrong I don't know please tell me no no no like psychologically like I think it's cuz you look like the Mona
03:37:06
AaliyahLisa wait you know what I mean I'm cous about your question I have a question so my question is when you're inviting this guy over right bro inviting this guy
03:37:17
Aaliyahover to your place that you take care of to make food that you probably bought we're like already like each other my question was were you guys already
03:37:27
Adrianacommitted no okay cuz it feels like you were sometimes yeah pull that up you're giving too much that's that's it's like sometimes you're giving too much and then it's you're giving too little and
03:37:39
Lindsayit's just like I feel like no matter what I you need to find a a I think always give too much that doesn't feel manipul I can't ever say that manipulative well I don't want to
03:37:51
Dilalike love bomb so manipulative wait do you mean on the woman's part if if she's just giving like love bombing I love it I love when women give well but she did
03:38:02
Dilatook away that love she said that she goes and tries her best to know the person she's love bombing though too can some attention a l Photoshop here look
03:38:15
Brian Atlasinto this camera Photoshop her face onto the Mona Lisa wait bring it back uh zoom out because that we got a closeup that is kind of wait we need your eyes do you see how her eyes are
03:38:28
Brian Atlaskind of like GL like a little bit to the the right which way my right smaller smaller let's see the whole thing show us the whole thing but do I look to my right or you have the same hands as her
03:38:37
Brian Atlasthat's weird you have like the same she needs I didn't know Mona Lisa didn't have eybrows here look into this camera but like kind of look a little
03:38:46
Brian Atlasbit to the left other other way too much too much yes there it is okay cool all right Photoshop that [ __ ] all right here we're um going around the table do you think you're going to be better looking
03:38:57
Brian Atlasin 10 years time starting with you better looking better looking your looks will they be better in 10 years time at you're 25
03:39:07
Brian Atlas35 without Botox damn yeah no plastic surgery then no aging but yes if with plastic I feel like we should just let
03:39:18
Brian Atlasthem answer however maybe no that's fine uh so okay uh and then Daisy you're 30 better looking in 10 years time at 40 um I don't think so okay and then are
03:39:31
Brian Atlasyou better looking now at 30 than you were at 20 yes wait we need we need do you have like old photos of you we need to do a comparison come on huh you've had it before I don't know where it is but maybe it's in I'll look in the DMS
03:39:42
Brian Atlasum you're 22 better looking in 10 years time at 32 yeah 20 years time 42 yeah she's on some Mona Lisa [ __ ] okay 30 years time
03:39:54
Brian Atlas52 no that's when I start going down okay so when's the peak 32 or 42 like 32 yeah uh you're 22 better looking in 10 years time at 32 I don't think so okay
03:40:06
Lindsayyou're 36 better looking in 10 years time at 46 and then you're 36 were you better looking 10 years ago at 26 actually no I I have taken better care care of myself now than when I was in my
03:40:17
Brian Atlas20s like not as much drinking so better looking now I yes I feel yeah okay uh you are 18 better looking in 10 years
03:40:27
Dilatime at 28 yeah okay better looking in 20 years time 38 no okay uh you're 29 better looking in 10 years time at 39 I doubt without surgery I mean wait are we
03:40:37
Dilaaren't we same age why I'm 30 because I hav't it's 26th July it's still not July I'm still 2 October I know so so I'm 29
03:40:48
Daisyyes wow we're from the same age baby but we still haven't had the birthday okay I didn't notice I'm 30 you know so bad few months few months and you're so in 29 were you better looking
03:41:01
Brian Atlas10 years ago at 19 or better looking now um way better right now okay you're 25 better looking
03:41:09
Hunterin 10 years time at 35 yes uh 20 years time 45 yes I'm going fullon Lindsay Lohan on that at that age uh better
03:41:19
Hunterlooking 30 years time 55 55 I think I'll start aging gracefully I think I'll be white by then white
03:41:28
Brian Atlashair so but still better looking at
03:41:41
Hunter55 no maybe I'll look a little older but uh when did you peek 35 or 45 yeah let's peek at 35 that sounds fair enough
03:41:52
Brian Atlasfair enough okay cool uh well we've age Advanced all of you with technology and so Damian if you can get those pulled up
03:42:00
Brian Atlascrazy whoa what the [ __ ] it's not it's not 30 no I do not