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00:05:03Brian Atlasintroduce themselves so please tell us your name age location occupation and education go ahead into the mic my name
00:05:11Aaliyahis Aaliyah I'm 25 I live in LA and I do ugc which is like marketing
00:05:20Aaliyahfor Brands and I have a Bachelors and metaphysics a bachelor's in metaphysics um yeah
00:05:30Brian AtlasBachelor of Science or Bachelor of art Bachelor of Science in metaphysics where did you go to school for that University of metaphysics it's online it's an online
00:05:43Aaliyahyeah metap so what what um what's like and did you do freshman sophomore junior senior year year there um it was just like by classes like getting all your
00:05:54Brian Atlasclasses done how many credits does it take to get a I don't know you when did did you get your Bachelor's in metaphysics uh last year last year yeah how long uh from the date you started to
00:06:05Aaliyahthe date you got your bachelor's how long did it take um it's self-paced so it took me like three years three years okay what is metaphysics for those who don't know yeah so it's like the physics
00:06:17Aaliyahof the unknown or like the Unseen so there's like chapters on dreams chapters on how Dolphins like communicate wait how dolphins dolphin communication we
00:06:29Aaliyahhad this on the show before we've talked about um what else uh Native American studies uh psychic
00:06:41Aaliyahgifts are you a psychic um I feel like we all kind of can be yeah but they you I used I'm I'm a psych CU I'm a
00:06:50Aaliyahpsychic yeah I used to coach women on um yeah like psychic stuff tarot okay but that's what you learned in the University well I did that for
00:07:02Brian Atlassix years and then I also yeah studied that as well were you also a professor at the University it sounds like you have experience okay no I just had my own business how much does it cost to get it cuz I'm kind of interested how
00:07:13Aaliyahmuch does it cost to get a like the whole Bachelor's in metaphysics thing um I think I applied for like the like the discount for it and it was
00:07:25Brian Atlaslike 1,500 oh okay yeah that's cool um yeah wait for like the whole thing into the mic yeah yeah sorry okay um and you also do o is that
00:07:37Brian Atlascorrect yeah okay how long you've been doing o for off and on for like 2 three years two or three years okay and
00:07:47Brian Atlasum tell me I'm just curious I need more info about the metaphysics thing what tell me about it uh like my coaching aspect of it yeah like what would was
00:07:59Brian Atlasdid you um like if there was a qu you took quizzes were there quizzes yeah there would be quizzes after every chapter okay yeah what's the question that stumped
00:08:09Aaliyahyou I think afterwards we would have to listen to meditations and then have to give Insight on what the meditation brought us okay and I would always try
00:08:19Aaliyahand like write these like existential transcendental like yeah um epic experiences that I had so so yeah I think just having to did you ever get an
00:08:31Brian AtlasF in anything no like I feel like you're like a c in meditation really like a C+ to be to be nice average meditator like you're yeah
00:08:42Brian Atlaslike a C+ in meditation but like in like the physics and like reiky I think youve scored pretty high yeah like a a a minus maybe yeah I would say average a minus
00:08:53Brian Atlasdid you do any raiky raiki how do you what is that raiky I've done raiki before like had it done and done it for others as well you know like did you learn about like heart chakras and that
00:09:03Aaliyah[ __ ] yeah but I also had like my Spiritual Awakening at 16 and was like hardcore in that World um yeah so I learned all of that
00:09:15Brian Atlaskind of Prior you have your solar return still coming yeah yeah yeah I do do you do any um what's it called uh wait wait what's it called the
00:09:30Brian Atlasoh psychedelics have I done them well because you you said you had Spiritual Awakening at 16 so is it like induced by psychedelics
00:09:40Aaliyahum kind of like I had done them before but it was more so doing Shadow work and like mere Shadow work wait Shadow work
00:09:51Aaliyahwhat what is that and what was it Neo Shadow work Mirror Mirror Shadow work yeah waa what do Shadow work Shadow work
00:10:01Aaliyahis going into your subconscious and the parts of you
00:10:10Aaliyahthat uh sorry go ahead the parts that you're either like insecure on or that hold you back in life like limiting beliefs what life hold you back in life
00:10:22Brian Atlaslimiting limiting beliefs Li Bel kind of is anybody else here like a psychic or Oracle or both both of you guys shut come on me really both wow we have a we
00:10:33Brian Atlashave a trifecta of spiritual ladies here that's dope um okay
00:10:43Lindsayinteresting um can I identifyed as Native American no if you're Elizabeth Warren you can oh that's true yeah
00:10:55Brian Atlasyeah you have like a 116th of 64th of a percent okay um well we'll get more I guess we can get more into some
00:11:04Daisyof that stuff uh later uh what about you hi I go by Daisy welcome I'm 30 years old I was born and raised in China
00:11:14Daisyliving New York okay um I have a college degree studied fashion design all right any uh what's the college degree in is it in fashion design or fashion design
00:11:27Daisyokay and uh what do you do for work I'm a content creator o yes and I have a jewelry brand
00:11:38Adrianayeah I just started my business all right what about you hi I'm Adriana I'm from Boston I live in LA now
00:11:48AdrianaI'm 22 I'm a professional dancer dance teacher actress Entertainer I do it all you know nice nice um and I have a
00:11:58Freda (Nicole)bachelor and psychology and biology is it a double major or like major minor double major okay very cool what about
00:12:07Brian Atlasyou I am Nicole I'm also from Boston um I'm you're both from Boston we grew up together wait we you guys need for the rest of the show need to lay on the
00:12:18Freda (Nicole)thickest Boston accent just do can you do a Boston accent no my dad's is really bad mine only comes out if I'm like drunk or like really
00:12:29Freda (Nicole)angry that's literally when it comes out how does it sound can you give us a demo you take this one girl you got a good you got a good one I don't know no I I cuz I was I would grew up more on
00:12:41Adrianalike the western side yeah that's true is there a certain part of Boston that is more oh yeah souy that's where they have like that's where they actually have the accent like I feel like like there's like a misconception with the
00:12:53Brian Atlasaccent like not a lot of people have it like I rarely saw people have it like living there hm I wonder if it's just maybe as time goes on it's becoming more diminished I've definitely lost I used
00:13:06Adrianato like have a little bit but I've definitely lost it cuz I moved like what six or seven years when I first moved here I worked at a restaurant and like customers would pick up on it pretty
00:13:18Brian Atlasfrequently but I feel like the longer I've been here nobody can tell but I almost wonder even people who stay in Boston it's just becoming maybe less common because like there's more
00:13:29Brian Atlasuh the influence is more mediad driven when it comes to like what you're exposed to in terms of what you're actually listening if before there was like Mass amounts of media consumption
00:13:42Brian Atlaslike you heard people speak it was people in your geographic area and you would maybe pick up on their accent so I wonder if like in New York less people have the New York yeah I know some people from New York who don't have like
00:13:54Freda (Nicole)the New York accent so uh so age uh 22 okay um school I went to ASU for Earth and environmental Sciences you
00:14:06Freda (Nicole)got your bachelor's yes okay anything else uh no that's it minor economics but and then uh what do you do for work again uh I do social media social media
00:14:15Lindsayo no okay just content stuff okay go ahead what about you my name is Lindsay I am probably the oldest person here I'm
00:14:24Lindsay36 years old I am from Wisconsin oh you have to do I know I'll try to bring it in we are not the UB betas though that's
00:14:32LindsayMinnesota okay uh yeah I majored in journalism but then more uh Communications cuz print journalism was
00:14:43Lindsaypretty much a Dying Breed and I currently am a sales representative for a wholesale produce distributor okay all right very cool
00:14:53Freda (Nicole)very cool what about you um I'm a fra te I'm from Houston Texas um I'm 18 years old and I go to UCSB all right what are you studying at UCSB I'm a biology major
00:15:05Brian Atlasbi you want to become a doctor yeah I want to be an anesthesiologist okay they make good money anesthesiologist all right and so you're pre you're bio you said right okay all
00:15:17Dilaright cool are you in a sorority no no are you going to join one maybe maybe okay what about
00:15:25Dilayou I'm Dila from Italy I'm 9 but I'm based in Valencia Spain and I graduated as an English teacher for kindergarten
00:15:35Dilabut I always worked as PA mainly uh when I used to live in Shanghai China okay so you speak a lot of languages then yeah
00:15:46Dilabut I guess it's something that European just have to do that's not true you speak chines well yeah also that
00:15:55Dilathat's like a plus but French Spanish Italian like since we're close to Switzerland we're all
00:16:11Brian Atlastogether yeah I was uh I speak it a little bit not did you learn it Canada no no I was born in France but then I moved to the United States really so
00:16:23Brian Atlasyou're actually French yes I am I have dual citizenship so yeah um and uh but unfortunately if I'd stayed there a bit longer I think I'd be more proficient in French but I think when
00:16:35Brian Atlasyou move that young you obviously aren't as in meshed in the language so unfortunately I'm not fluent but that's cool that you speak so many different you do have a very good accent even
00:16:46Dilathough like I don't speak it like an American yeah exactly I don't a little bit though maybe a little let's be honest like it's way worse my Italian
00:16:55Dilaaccent over it everybody always make no is my Italian accent behind my French so
00:17:02Brian Atlasyours is good very good mer uh Mercy buku Mercy Buu um I know I'm saying it like an American sort of way uh buku all
00:17:14Dilaright uh and you speak Mandarin or cantones no I can't speak cantones that's more for Hong Kong I moved to Shanghai and I just learned their Chinese I have some slang of shahan cuz
00:17:26Dilait's a bit different from the original wondering they have a lot of r r okay shahin is more like um let's say where shahan is
00:17:37Huntern n okay interesting cool cool well welcome what about you Hunter hello my name is Hunter Marie I go by Hunty
00:17:47Hunterprimarily I am a oral maxillo facial surgery assistant um so I'm there 3 days a week on the side I manage some social media clients um specifically a
00:17:58Hunternonprofit profit that I've worked with for almost 8 years now um it's an Arts organization that um primarily works with students who are incarcerated and I've worked uh a lot of art projects
00:18:10Hunterlike murals and stuff like that with them and I also love to do makeup I've had a passion to do makeup since I was like in elementary school and I love to do tutorials and create beautiful
00:18:20Hunterfeminine content um content uh online so that's where I'm at in my journey and I'm grateful to be here age oh I'm 25 and I grew up on the border of Orange County on La so I kind of got the best
00:18:33Brian Atlasof both worlds growing up and for uh education did you get your Bachelors or anything like that or I went to a trade school after graduating high school that's for the like surgery assistants
00:18:43Qyes yeah okay cool uh Q what about you um I'm the Q pill I'm a behavioral scientist I'm 32 certified relationship
00:18:52Qcoach uh YouTuber independent book author yeah you look familiar I I was going to say that y'all probably see me on here around social media no like I
00:19:04Qfeel like I've met you in person same I've never met neither one of you maybe in a dream maybe in a dream how would they look that familiar yeah very I think y'all seen me in passing
00:19:17Brian Atlasprobably on social media have you seen the the Tupac biopic that was him he was he played
00:19:25Unknown (minor)Tupac in the bio no biopic Tupac is handsome you made a video of me oh wait really you talk oh you talk [ __ ] about my girl D yeah that makes sense
00:19:38Qdamn Q that's [ __ ] up wait no hold up hold up I I didn't know this I didn't talk [ __ ] no I I didn't talk [ __ ] I actually I actually said some pretty I actually say pretty what did you say well basically I was saying that she
00:19:49Qseemed more genuine in what she was saying happened thank you so much based on you know the way she was behaving so oh yeah oh I try yeah I was trying to be I was trying to be objective um because
00:20:02Qa lot of people would saying is there a butt no there's no butt no butt you don't have a butt no butts that's fair thank you I have some butts no butts I have a couple butts no butts all right okay wow because I deal with that on the
00:20:14Qdaily I deal with I deal with relationship drama between couples on The Daily so I know what it looks like when a woman is is you know sincere and the emotions that she's feeling or what
00:20:25Brian Atlasshe's been through it's it's easy to read for me so appreciate it rock and roll uh couple things guys I'm going to just pull up this chat while I have it we have
00:20:36Brian AtlasChristopher Scott it's metaphysical not metaphysics metaphysics is a branch of philosophy wait so did you say metaphysics or metaphysical well it's
00:20:48Brian Atlasmetaphysics I thought she said metaphysics honestly she didn't say metaphysical yeah no but he's saying metaphysics is a branch of philosophy
00:20:59Brian Atlaswait metaphysical metaphysical is like a descriptive word wait meta I'm going to Google this metap the same thing relate it wait metaphysical says relating to
00:21:10Brian Atlasmetaphysics it's the same thing yeah of or characteristic of the metaphysical poets h i mean it is a branch of it's a branch of philosophy though metaphysics the
00:21:22Brian Atlasbranch of philosophy that deals with the first principles of things including abstract Concepts such as being knowing substance cause identity time and space okay uh that's interesting very cool uh thank you though for Christopher for
00:21:34Brian Atlasyour chat all right so we're going to go around the table once more what is everybody's current relationship status if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest
00:21:44Aaliyahrelationship you've ever been in starting with you um I'm single about 6 months MH the longest I've been I want
00:21:55Aaliyahto say like almost 10 years years but the longest 10 years yeah it was like off and on a little bit okay when did you
00:22:05Brian Atlasguys meet uh when we were in Middle School okay yeah uh so you've been single for 6 months mhm were you married no ever married I didn't believe in
00:22:16Brian Atlasmarriage at the time okay you believe in it now though yes uh so you've been in an on- again off again relationship for 10 years is that the one that ended 6 months ago no okay how long was that relationship uh until I was like 21
00:22:29Aaliyahuh how long was the relationship that ended 6 months ago uh like 8 months eight months who broke up with who it was kind of mutual and then the 10 year on and off again relationship you how many times
00:22:41Brian Atlaswas it on and off like three two three two or three uh who would initiate that I would who would ask to come back or make it work
00:22:54Aaliyahor whatever we would be friends and then it would just like kind of happen but they would ask me to come they yeah are they non-binary no it's a guy oh it's a
00:23:04Brian Atlasman okay they okay that's fair that's fair we're going back to those times thank just got to just got to clarify you know uh okay and you have a do you
00:23:14Aaliyahhave any uh children yeah I have one one and is it with the 10-year guy yes okay how old's your kid yeah uh going to be
00:23:23Brian Atlasseven okay so wait you're 25 mhm yeah so you had a kid when you're 18 19 okay got it you have something on this oh it looked like you wanted to ask a question I was trying to scoop every oh okay okay
00:23:37Brian AtlasI thought you were going to ask a question no you're fine you're fine uh okay so you've been single for six six months is there a guy in the picture currently no nothing was there a rebound
00:23:47Aaliyahno there's nothing in the picture no just like dates here and there but when's the last time you were on the
00:23:55Brian Atlasdate yesterday no you have a roster no I try not to do that try not to do the roster okay all right uh what about you
00:24:05Brian AtlasDaisy relationship sadness single single how long you been single for about a year one year yeah wait hold on one year
00:24:15Daisylet me do the hold on let me just I'm
00:24:19Daisyjust I mean my last relationship was on March 2024 who who was that with who
00:24:30Brian Atlasguess um C just kidding um okay so you were involved with uh Walter from the FF podcast uh you were was that the guy you were dating a year ago is that correct yeah
00:24:42Daisyokay longest relationship uh like nine month N9 month yeah was that with Walter or somebody else uh somebody else that was my first
00:24:53Brian Atlaslove who Walter no or the nine-month guy nemon guy I see okay um you've been single for one year yeah
00:25:04Brian Atlasyou don't have there's no guys you've been seeing I've seen a couple people currently yeah currently no well you you've oh you've been seeing a couple
00:25:14Brian Atlaspeople the past year yeah okay we can probably do splits by the way um so do you have a roster currently what's a roster like multiple guys
00:25:25Brian Atlascurrently currently I have no time or in the past Year yes you've had multiple guys yes how many less than five less than five okay so there's no guy you're talking to
00:25:38Brian Atlasright now um I don't know like chatting or anybody you feel caral carnal knowledge not really not really
00:25:48Daisyno carnal knowledge okay p and the v no one's interesting no one's interesting yeah do you have a type I think so what's your type
00:26:00Daisyapparently I think uh physically I prefer tall dog hands oh sorry Q yeah like if you ask me physically but that's
00:26:09Brian Atlasnot like that's not just is Q your type he could be cuz keep your hands off him he's got a girlfriend how dare
00:26:18Brian Atlasyou how don't even talk like that so would you date Q though if he was single starting [ __ ] if he's nice to me yes
00:26:27Qwould you Q would would you huh I can't say I can't speak on hypotheticals probably not though why because because
00:26:38Qwhat cuz I got a girlfriend oh okay that makes sense I'm saying if you don't have a girlfriend why I have to get to know you okay I'm stringent when it comes to dating it's really hard to become my girlfriend take a lot for me to I'm
00:26:50Daisysaying like go out on a date now like actually I mean yeah I mean yeah okay
00:27:05Dilahead I mean he's a dating coach it must be hard to do I have to tell do you have to tell you you have to tell me no you
00:27:15Qdon't you're not are you not you don't know about the little the stuff I mean I know about the little stuff I I know about little stuff I don't make m i don't make those kind of M you know yeah but so what that doesn't
00:27:27Daisymean like people can't take me out on date I'm not going to just like do things to everybody cuz only when people hurt
00:27:37Qme can we can we all be informed confused we speaking hypothetically we we we speaking hypothetically hypothetically yeah we speaking hypothetically yeah
00:27:50Brian Atlaswhat for the sake of the conversation okay anyways um that's cool so you've been single for a year what about you
00:28:02Adrianahey what's up um like two almost 3 years now I've been single uh-huh um uh-huh yeah
00:28:11Adrianathere's not a guy in the picture no uh-huh I no that one I told you about he actually um is it over yeah he just friend owned me like last week the same
00:28:22Adrianaday yeah the same day that my car broke down and my grandma died oh so yeah that's it's been a rough week that's tough yeah that's tough yeah did did
00:28:34Adrianayour grandma passing have anything to do with why he friend zone like did you snap out or anything like that she she was sick anyway um she died peacefully at home like like she wanted it was
00:28:46Adriananothing like wait how did he friend on you he was just like I think you have a lot going on and I have a lot going on and we're just not ready for a
00:28:57Adrianarelationship ship and I was like but you just asked me to hang out with you on Valentine's Day like 3 days ago so did you not want to deal with you being sad yeah I don't know cuz like I wasn't
00:29:10Adrianareally like expressing it like I was like kind of dealing with that on my own like cuz I actually found out all right hold on let me read this
00:29:20Brian Atlaschat three digletts fresh and fit fresh and fit and fresh fresh and fresh fit and fit thank you a three digletts okay all right thank you for the Super Chat man guys W's in the chat for three
00:29:32Brian Atlasdigletts he's got like a rap or something going on there I don't know that's that's thank you man appreciate it sorry go ahead with your story um I found out when I was with him I got the
00:29:42Adrianacall when I was in the car with him about my grandma so like I didn't really like react I was just like Okay and like I kind of held it together
00:29:52Adrianauntil he left so like I wasn't like showing like I was I was a mess but like I wasn't really like showing that you know was he your age or older he's like a year older
00:30:03Brian Atlasthan me yeah good times great times good times okay but so uh did you have a rebound have you had a rebound no rebound I'm focusing on I got a lot going on okay uh
00:30:15Adrianaso he was right I mean you said he said you got a lot going on and then you just told us I got a lot going but like before I had a lot going on he was like he started coming into my life and like I think I could
00:30:28Adrianahave balanced that since I already knew him like I have a lot going on to like go out and like seek someone like I'm not like cuz like I mean I still kind of have feelings for him too so I'm just
00:30:39Freda (Nicole)like now dealing with the emotions of that I'm just like it's not right for me to go see someone when I still have feelings for someone else yeah understand that you literally you wanted to give your number to the guys in the
00:30:52Freda (Nicole)car next to us when we were driving a joke okay what does it mean that he friendzoned
00:31:01Adrianayou though is it like you're still talking leaving space for future um I mean he still tries to text me and I've kind of been like more avoidant because
00:31:12Adrianaof my own feelings um but he like I don't know it's very complicated this is very new um he just said like oh like I think we should like I love you as a
00:31:24Qfriend and like we should stay friends wait did y'all copylite what did y'all copy like carnal knowledge what do you mean did y'all p in the v yeah y'all see I don't really
00:31:36Adrianabelieve that women can be friendzoned y'all get [ __ ] zoned well that's what I said I was like well we've already gone as far as we've gone so how can I go back to just be I can't just be friends
00:31:47Adrianawith you that's what I said so I'm just like I kind of need some time to like process what he said I'm still figuring out wait so he wants to kick it with you still she got [ __ ] zoned yeah no but they were that's where they were at
00:31:59Adrianathat's where we were at so this wasn't an established relationship it was yeah but like before that prior to like doing stuff we had talked about like you know like wanting to be serious and like you
00:32:11Adrianaknow we don't just like go around sleeping with anyone blah blah blah so like we kind of had I thought we had like a mutual agreement on like it was going to be exclusive but we were just still like after you guys already had
00:32:23Brian Atlassex though no before Oh okay that's wait no my understanding from last show is there was no agreement that you guys were
00:32:33Adrianaexclusive there was no agreement but like so but what he was like asking me like to see me on Valentine's Day and like doing things like to lead me on and
00:32:45Adrianamake it like it was a little more serious than that like I was hanging out with him and his friends and his friends knew like we were all like together like everyone knew did he have a vision for
00:32:57Adrianayou though I can't speak on what he that's important so this is all from your perception yeah yeah and I think I maybe I might have misinterpreted it maybe
00:33:07Adrianaabpr there was just maybe like a lack of communication um but yeah um I'm doing my own thing now longest
00:33:19Adrianarelationship uh I think it was 2 years okay and you've been single for a week you said no I never like actually years yeah like we were just like wait wait hold on you never actually dated him but
00:33:31Adrianayou said it was like exclusive no we had like mentioned that like we were the only ones we were talking to but like we weren't like he wasn't like my boyfriend I don't know it was comp it was too complicated sure no that's fine okay
00:33:43Freda (Nicole)that's why it's not a thing any what about you um my longest relationship is I think like about a year like around that Mark current status I am currently in a relationship all right how long you
00:33:55Freda (Nicole)been together four months all right the one-year relationship who broke up with who um It's actually kind of hard to tell cuz we were me and him went to a
00:34:08Freda (Nicole)Christmas party and then we literally just looked at each other and was like hey do you want to be friends and we were we broke up and then we had to live together for like four months
00:34:18Lindsayafter that in a studio apartment so okay it wasn't great but sure yeah all right uh what about you long as relationship 5 years in my early 20s here let's start let's start
00:34:31Lindsaywith current relationship status that's fine yes um I have not been claimed yet so you're single yes okay how long have you been single for a little over a year
00:34:41Brian Atlasokay when um and you're in uh or your longest relationship was 5 years correct were you ever married no okay uh and was there anything more you wanted to add or
00:34:51Lindsayis that pretty much it um I was the girl who was very lost in
00:34:57Lindsaymy 20s mhm and have learned to now um I want to submit to a man and go down that
00:35:08Lindsayroad and so I'd love to help these women on how to change that like what you're kind of in thing okay yeah sure what
00:35:19Freda (Nicole)about you um I'm single mhm uh my longest relationship was about a year um all right how long have you been single
00:35:28Brian Atlasfor um about a year no a year one year so is like a high school relationship mhm okay and have you done any dating uh you just you're a freshman at you said
00:35:41Brian AtlasUCSB okay so you're in the dorms have you done any dating or anything no you've been I mean when I say dating by the way I include anything from like n
00:35:52Brian Atlascasually seeing somebody no number one part party school in the United States I know you're not there's no guys in the picture I don't trust the guys here are you on any dating apps no
00:36:05Freda (Nicole)have you ever been on a dating app uh how often do you got on the party um well I study a lot so bior I guess that makes sense that much time
00:36:15Freda (Nicole)but first semester I did go out a lot Thursday Friday Saturday not Thursday Friday Friday Saturday Friday usually
00:36:25Brian AtlasFriday's typically okay and uh no guys no no none caught your eye did you get
00:36:32Brian Atlasplayed no who hurt you I'm just Kidd are you a virgin um that's personal that's a no
00:36:42Brian Atlasokay it I are you it's okay if you are like maybe maybe not I think that's cool yeah yeah you're not going to nobody here is going to shame you for being a virgin just FYI why should we be shamed
00:36:55Freda (Nicole)that's a good thing that's the choice of no that's what I'm saying body's going to shame her if she's a virgin maybe I am maybe I'm not yeah but like I would wear I don't know I don't know how to
00:37:04Brian Atlaslike have I think that's it's one question no but have you had like I'm trying to understand the I'm trying to understand the degree of your dating
00:37:15Brian Atlasexperience that's why we're asking um in relationship I had um two boyfriends so yeah
00:37:23Brian Atlasokay um but so I mean you there's no guys who caught your eye or who you were
00:37:30Freda (Nicole)like dealing with here at UCSB no I mean the guys who are attractive just like there aren't really that many black men
00:37:40Brian Atlaseither and I is that your preference yeah I mean I like all Races but I would rather go for that black eyy okay and
00:37:48Freda (Nicole)are you black I'm like I don't know I'm Ethiopian arrian so yeah arrian oh okay
00:37:58Brian AtlasI have an anecdote about erria erria owns the domain I forgot the exact term you know how like there's do.org
00:38:08Daisydoet they own and so I was trying to get whatev but it's erria what's where is that it's in
00:38:19Brian AtlasAfrica Middle East Africa and it's likea it's North Africa right Northeast Africa right isn't it Northeast Africa it's near Egypt I think right it's like below
00:38:30Brian Atlasit it's below Egypt it's not South it's not near South Africa um East Africa East but but like the north you know where Somalia is hold on let me Google this [ __ ]
00:38:44LindsayAtria it's near jouti I know what you're talking about on the map I just can't remember the coolest name for it's in the middle between central and Northern yeah it's pretty Central but on the
00:38:56Brian AtlasEastern side side anyways whatever I was trying to get I was trying to it's hard to talk to somebody in the telecommunication industry in
00:39:06Brian Atlasarria let me tell you I tried I sent emails um anyways that's cool uh so you prefer like a a black guy your boyfriend
00:39:15Freda (Nicole)was he the first one was arrian SL Ethiopian the first one was like he was like kind of everything he was Asian black and
00:39:28Freda (Nicole)Native American no uh what do you call it Spanish Spanish yeah and the other one was Vietnamese and
00:39:36Brian AtlasFrench so okay all right that's cool uh so there's not many black guys though
00:39:44Brian Atlasit it is uh there's a lot of Whit
00:39:53Brian AtlasAsians and Latinos mhm not many black people so is there a black dorm or like a black floors I thought at UCSB oh okay all right well what about
00:40:06Dilayou I'm taken so relationship yeah I'm actually engaged engaged okay how long you been
00:40:14Dilatogether this December is going to be 5 years five wait this December the 26th of December so you've been together for four years yeah but we've been knowing
00:40:27Dilaeach you mean a month ago two months ago so you've been it will be 5 years in a year no it be five years that we literally officially in a relationship
00:40:36Dilain December of 2025 26 the date like the number of the date 26 of December 2025 so you've been so you'll be in a
00:40:47Dilayear practically you'll be together for five years why a year like cuz it's only February sorry no then it's I'm going to just go ahead I'm going to wish you
00:40:59Brian Atlashonest can be honest not going I have this I have this culia you need to be really really patient with me I'm sorry about f f I'm going to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving and a Merry Christmas and a
00:41:10Brian AtlasHappy New Year in we don't celebrate Thanksgiving huh I'm Italian we don't celebrate Thanksgiving Columbus Day I don't [ __ ] know whatever you guys what do you guys celebrate we have the
00:41:20Brian Atlaswe are Christian okay you fine you sell happy happy Christmas 20 2025 and happy New Year 2025 happy anniversary thank you and I'm
00:41:32Dilagoing to wish you also a Happy Valentine's Day for next February thank you while we're here I appreciate it I accept it thank you so much and my
00:41:40Dilalongest relationship before it was mainly a year and a half okay a year and a half I had three important
00:41:50Dilarelationship in my 20s and they were always last in around one year but um the first real serious where I really understood what means falling in love is
00:42:01Dilawith my current uh boyfriend my partner I see I understand understand that it would kind of be like if I just met a girl somebody asks me oh
00:42:13Brian Atlashow long youve been dating her I'll be like oh it's going to be a year we've been dating for a year in a year though we've been together for a year in like 11 months from now our anniversary is
00:42:24Brian Atlasnext year yo kai thank you for the gifted 20 Subs let me read a couple of these really quick and then uh here hold on we have uh actually I'll
00:42:37Hunterget into the chats here really quick I see you though three digletts we'll get that pulled up in a sec uh relationship status I am currently single I've been single for about 3 years my longest
00:42:48Hunterrelationship was about 6 years from the age of 17 to 23 so who broke up with who
00:42:57HunterI broke up with him why is that there was an age gap of 9 years and I felt like I when did you meet him I met him when I was 17 wait is
00:43:16Brian AtlasCalifornia I'm pretty sure that's a crime um you met wait you were hold on 9 years so you were 17 and he was like 26 he was was 25 yeah thank you for
00:43:28Brian Atlashighlighting this this is a problem I have here I think that's a crime was there caral did you there was no criminal I
00:43:39Brian Atlasdidn't press charges no she's 19 I was I grew up very no but she said she was 17 oh yeah I was7 she said she was 17 then that is a crime so you were a junior in high
00:43:49Brian Atlasschool yeah I was I graduated early actually but you were a junior yeah no I was a senior oh you were senior in High School how did you meet him um through
00:43:59Brian Atlasmutual friends yeah wait mutual friends as a 17y old I went to a continuation school oh so you were a troublemaker I
00:44:09Hunterwas a troublemaker oh what was it drugs murder um well bandism none of that but I was in juvenile hall a few times oh um the my
00:44:22Huntercharge was not even a felony I lied to the police about my name when I was out at after curfew and I was with friends and we were all driving in the car and
00:44:31Hunterum I lied about my name and age and then um they suspected that I was something was wrong with me they took me to the station and then they took me to juvenile hall they wait what do you mean
00:44:42Hunterthey suspected something was wrong with you were you like intoxicated or I was a little intoxicated yeah I was being a little rude to the police when they told they over that night wait did you go to
00:44:52Hunterthe hospital no I went to the station and then they took me to J hall see Good Times what else did you you said you went to juvie a couple times why why so when I got there the first time um they
00:45:05Huntertold me it was a misim a charge so I didn't have to stay so they immediately let me go um with probation and then with probation um any little thing you get in trouble for let's say you're late
00:45:15Hunterto school you get into a fight at school your mom calls your PO oh she's acting up and going out at night that can all be used as charges against you so it's
00:45:26Hunterreally easy to pick up new reasons to go into juvenile hall so um they took me back there for few different things yeah okay in any case you're dating this
00:45:36Brian Atlasolder guy that's kind of that's a bit of a okay and so you met through friends because you were in a continuation had he not gradu he was 25 and still in high school is that it no
00:45:49Brian Atlashe graduated yeah he was kind of like the connections huh okay yeah uh all right um Q what about you oh wait
00:46:01Brian Atlasreally quick you've been single for three years so properly single for three years yeah no guys in the picture what's you've been dating nobody for three years um I dated one guy after and um
00:46:12Hunterfor about a year and now we're done so now I'm just ready did you meet him in Ju juvie or no that was a long time ago that was um okay
00:46:23Hunteryeah a different life good times and the guy who the guy who who I was with for 6 years actually are you a thug no I'm not a thug like are you a gangster um no I'm not a gang member I've met a lot of gang
00:46:34HunterMERS are you affiliated with the gang no I'm not affiliated with the gang um I actually go into the juvenile hall do you have show me your hands let me see your gang tattoos I knew it okay uh but you go into the prisons and I know you
00:46:47Brian Atlaspreviously said you do like some Outreach programs and this sort of thing um but so single for three years yeah single for three years okay did I did I interrupt you I think I feel like you're
00:46:58Huntertelling me there was some guy in the picture right um no I was just saying the man that I was with for six years he really kind of helped me get off probation go to school and stuff so he was kind of like a best friend in a way
00:47:11Hunterso I know it was a little inappropriate dating me under age but yeah um I was a very mature young lady at that age you
00:47:21Qknow probably still a crime um go ahead Q go ahead Q on his part um I'm taken um my longest relationship
00:47:31Brian Atlasit's 3 years yeah simple sweet we have a couple chats coming through we have one
00:47:38TTS/DonationsSEC uh oh oh boy metr mated $200 I'm feeling rather indignant today Chef what is your real age those frown
00:47:50TTS/Donationslines and hairline running away faster than your exes give it away don't be a nuisance tell us you want to respond my real age I'll be to the message yeah
00:48:02LindsayMetro mat it's an interesting name I'll be 37 this may I have lines because I'm sorry but I'm going to call it a lot of these
00:48:12Lindsayladies probably have botox I go out in the sun I wa show up hands who here has Botox that's and she's 18 these two are
00:48:23Brian Atlas22 well I can tell I think she takes a lot of s that yes I will own that I am an ocean girl she's an ocean woman yeah I speak with dolphins she is a woman of the ocean and
00:48:34Brian Atlascommunicates with dolphins Metro mat yeah yeah I bet metromat gets Botox metrom mat I you know what I heard he botox's his balls oo he likes him
00:48:46Brian Atlasreal nice and smooth don't ask me how I [ __ ] know that okay never oh my God thank you metromat for the TTS we have Christopher Scott sorry I misspoke I was just trying
00:48:56Brian Atlasto point out that what she described as metaphysics has nothing to do with philosophy so your degree if we read your degree it would say Bachelor of
00:49:08Brian AtlasScience in meta physics yes into the mic though in you got to speak into the microphone yes okay that is interesting I have no idea what that's about but
00:49:18Brian Atlasthat's cool three digletts he does the uh it's kind of an 07 or wait hold on it's not an 07 is that an Elon Musk my heart goes out okay uh thank you three
00:49:30Brian Atlasdigletts I do appreciate it thank you thank you for the Super Chat you're a legend guys W's in the chat for three digletts why did you put a wig on digl is it Diglett or Doug Trio what is that
00:49:41Qit's Diglett what what is the Pokemon Evol is it Diglett it's Diglett and what comes next uh d That's the Regal but isn't it three that's why he
00:49:53Brian Atlasgot three digletts cuz it's one but he's saying isn't there an evolution Beyond like it's Diglett Doug Trio and is it really
00:50:03Brian Atlasyeah but I'm old school I'm like Pokemon Red and Blue gen one okay why why are you a trans Diglett though why is he TR three
00:50:14Brian Atlasdigletts why are you a trans Diglett three digletts please send in another chat tell us your pronouns okay I don't want to misgender you uh Alo Ace L Daisy w fnf w fresh W Mar lingling
00:50:27Brian Atlasokay I can't hey albo I can't read that hello uh thank you thank you albo for the Super Chat though we have oh my goodness guys we do they enjoy being
00:50:39Brian Atlasracist he let it go I don't I don't really care we have to reframe from YouTube they cannot we have to reframe from
00:50:50Brian Atlaspotentially racist read it it's fine nothing interesting but thank you for the super chats thank you appreciate it guys uh okay let's get into the show we have a lot to get to we got a lot to get
00:51:01Brian Atlasthrough a whole bunch of notes so let's get right into it but before we do no [ __ ] it let's get into it okay pull up the Ashley stclair stuff because
00:51:12Brian Atlasthere's an update we talked about this I think two shows ago Ashley stclair who's been a whatever hater for two years now big whatever hater it's come out as of Valentine's
00:51:25Brian AtlasDay so what a week ago or so when was that yeah it was a week wait a week ago about a week ago uh she got knocked up by the world's
00:51:35Brian Atlasrichest man Elon Musk and she had his L child five months
00:51:44Brian Atlasago so some baby mama drama is happening and that's actually why because of this Ashley stclair Elon Musk baby drama this is why I brought Daisy on because she's
00:51:56Brian Atlasan expert in baby mama drama and honestly Daisy I want to say are you have you heard about the Ashley stclair stuff Daisy no you don't know
00:52:09Brian Atlasabout it you haven't been on Twitter where you been Daisy uh I just started tweeting Daisy you got to look into this cuz all I got to say daisy you got to step your [ __ ]
00:52:24Brian Atlasup you should have had your eyes set on Elon Musk don't get me wrong Walter yeah
00:52:31Brian Atlasbut that was is a catch but hold on hold on hold on one sec Walter was and is a
00:52:39Brian Atlascatch okay you fumbled the bag with Walter but Elon do you like older white men I know you said you like black guys no no no no you don't like white guys I
00:52:52Brian Atlasdo I'm just saying if they're like billionaires Roy doesn't matter yeah would you let Elon
00:53:01Brian AtlasMusk have would you have a child with him well look into this camera deep into the camera lens look deep into the
00:53:11Daisycamera lens and say Elon Elon Musk I want let's say let's say if I have to have a baby with someone I don't mind habit with Elon
00:53:22DaisyMusk you don't you don't mind yeah I would you don't mind yeah why not having a baby with the world's that's very kind of you so you already you you already
00:53:33Daisyknow the answer right okay but so and then it's not that I picked who who he was as my baby father previous okay it's
00:53:43Daisyjust happened it wasn't like something I planed for I'm just saying naturally I'm just saying yeah Elon Musk was available
00:53:51Brian Atlasfor you you could have gone look Walter look Walter host of like a massive podcast right huge
00:54:01Daisypodcast that's good you were ambitious you could have gone a little why do you guys think it's a set up or why you still think it's a setup like no I'm not no no can't set up for it was
00:54:14Brian Atlaslove it was for you and Walter that was love I'm just saying you could have Elon Musk here look El musk introduce me Elon
00:54:23Brian AtlasMusk sure Elon Musk Knocked Up already a single mom who's in her 30s who's like [Music]