WORST PANEL EVER?! FERAL! Near KICKED OUT! ØF Girl "VlRGlN" Waiting For Marriage?! | Dating Talk 282

Date: 2026-02-16
Duration: 10h 05m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Andrea(guest)
SPEAKER_04Valerie(guest)
SPEAKER_05Esther(guest)
SPEAKER_06Millie Slaughter(guest)
SPEAKER_09Stella(guest)
SPEAKER_11Lonnie(guest)
SPEAKER_12Jocelyn(guest)
SPEAKER_14Shara(guest)

Key Moments

00:00:10
IntroAll guests introduce themselves
01:33:13
ControversyBrian challenges Stella's claim of being Christian while doing OnlyFans
03:35:20
Key MomentLonnie reveals she was sex trafficked at age 20
04:24:08
Key MomentAndrea: ran over baby daddy 3 times with Kia Soul while 9 months pregnant
07:20:29
Key MomentLexi: at 17, boyfriend cheated on her with her biological mother
07:30:00
Key MomentMillie made ex unknowingly perform oral after she slept with someone else
08:24:00
ControversyShara critiques red pill ideology as damaging fear-mongering
10:04:30
OtherShow wraps. Brian announces upcoming debates.

Topics Discussed

00:00:10
Guest Introductions

Stella (OF/virgin/Christian), Jocelyn (actress/machete survivor), Esther (stripper/author), Lonnie (sex trafficked/Army), more.

01:33:13
Stella's Virginity vs Christianity vs OF

Extended debate: can she be Christian while doing OnlyFans? Brian cites Bible verses.

02:43:48
Valentine Day Stories

Who had sex, who is celibate, dating dynamics.

03:35:20
Lonnie Was Sex Trafficked

Sex trafficked at age 20, had a pimp.

04:24:08
Andrea Ran Over Baby Daddy

Ran him over 3 times with Kia Soul while 9 months pregnant. Posted him on Backpage with gay ads.

07:30:00
Bri Satanist DJ Throuple

Story from vid 9 context - Bri was on this episode too.

08:24:00
Red Pill Ideology Critique

Shara argues red pill creates fear-mongering about fertility and aging.

09:14:30
Trivia Failures

Valerie: 7 states in USA. Jenny thinks capital of France is Italy.

Transcript

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06:54:44
Brian Atlasboy against women in the Olympics, like gold high school boys take all the gold medals, all the silver medals, all the bronze medals >> against Olympians, >> female Olympians.
06:54:57
Brian Atlas>> Has this been done before? >> Hold on. Do you know >> is there proof of that? >> Yes, there is proof. >> Yeah, because you can look at the record. You can look at the records. Remember that [ __ ] clip. >> Pull it up. It's boy. I think I have it on the
06:55:10
Brian Atlas>> I didn't see the data. I don't believe this [ __ ] >> How about this? A woman has never run less than a 4-minute mile, but plenty of men have run uh more less than a 4-minute mile. >> Well, that's running, which isn't necessarily like the same strength. I
06:55:23
Lonniefeel like >> I mean, we're >> If you're asking are men stronger than women? Yes, men are stronger than women. But if you're asking me, do you think I'm stronger than most men that I encounter >> in general, bro? What kind What the [ __ ]
06:55:34
Lonnie>> Like, yes. Like in my live truth, in my life, everybody that I've ever like when I go outside, I feel like I'm the most fit person. Like everybody's [ __ ] fat and >> overweight. Take the jacket off. Show us the biceps. >> I'm kind of sweaty. But
06:55:46
Esther>> if she like I'm strong. >> Yeah, looks good. >> You don't even want to You don't even want to know. >> Have any of you a question? I bet you been in a fight. >> Has anybody here done jiu-jitsu? >> I did karate. >> I'm actually a martial artist.
06:55:59
Brian Atlas>> I used to wrestle. >> Okay. So, have you ever had a guy like a guy not just like has a a guy ever grabbed you? >> I've never sparred with a guy. >> Yeah.
06:56:12
Brian Atlas>> No, but when I say grabbed you, has a guy ever just grabbed your wrist? >> Like, I don't think you understand like when we're talking about strength, >> like the the strength that men can exert,
06:56:26
Jocelyn[ __ ] I don't >> No, but you're men should be stronger. They should. No, but they are gener like >> but they're not very fit nowadays. A lot of them. >> Oh, yeah. Sure. Yes. Have to arm wrestle. >> A lot of people are >> There's some fat guys out here. They're hella strong just cuz they're fat.
06:56:39
ValerieThey're still strong. >> Yeah. You That is true. That is true. >> Big boys. Big boys. Big boys be the most strongest. >> They get all their strength from their fat. Oh my god. >> I do think I'm stronger than a lot of people, but >> not in general. Maybe not.
06:56:51
Brian Atlas>> No. So you could women look women can be strong. Maybe you're stronger than 90% of women, but you're weaker than 97% of men. >> Maybe >> I've knocked a lot of men on their
06:57:02
Millie Slaughterasses, but I still wouldn't say that there any that men would be stronger than me. No, I wouldn't. Like the majority of men, I wouldn't say that. But I've knocked a lot of men on their ass.
06:57:14
Brian Atlas>> Do this experiment. Find a guy who has cauliflower ear. >> Oh, no. and ask him ask him to just squeeze your wrist as hard as he can.
06:57:25
Brian Atlas>> I don't think sometimes you comprehend like raw strength that Anyways, I don't know. That's crazy. >> You You said you wrestled. So, you wrestled a few guys, I'm assuming. >> I've had college. >> So, you wrestled guys before.
06:57:37
SPEAKER_00>> Justin donated 100. >> How many 5 years olds can these young ladies take on? My answer, infinity. Their answer 100. Delusion is as delusion does.
06:57:49
Jocelyn>> 5-year-olds. What? >> Why are we fighting children? Why we >> Why are we give you credit for that? >> I can grab my arm and babies have super crazy strength. That's true. Yes, babies. >> Able to find the website.
06:58:02
Valerie>> Babies do be having that. >> Babies be having the craziest strength. If anybody is the strongest is these babies. These babies come out the coochie like >> Oh, Mary. >> Boys versewomen.com.
06:58:14
Millie SlaughterWe'll look at it for 30 seconds. Then I got to move it on. I've wrestled men. I've taken down men. I've I've cradled men. I've thrown them on the ground. I've done all that. But there's still men that would just lollyw me. >> Mary, you got it.
06:58:27
Brian Atlas>> All right. So, so this is I'm going to read it here. If >> there's no video uh male high So, this is comparing male high school athletes versus female Olympians.
06:58:37
Brian Atlas>> So, the you see on the left there all those medals under boys versus under women. So if high school male boy athletes were to compete in the
06:58:48
Brian AtlasOlympics, that's all the medals that they would steal steal, I guess you could say, that they would take from women. Now, this isn't this is >> this just running. >> Where is this?
06:58:58
Brian Atlas>> So this is a resource boys.com. >> You I mean, you do realize that you can like look at the records of boys in high school and contrast them with the
06:59:10
Brian Atlasrecords of female Olympians. Mary, just pull it back up though really quick. Um, we'll just go through down a few. Scroll down. >> They have less body weight though. >> So, this is for they they do swimming, track and field. Scroll down. Okay. So,
06:59:22
Brian Atlaswait. Stay there. Stay there. Yeah. Now, it's going to re So, the blue is boys. Uh, red is women. Scroll up just a teeny bit. What event is this? 100
06:59:33
Brian Atlasmeters. 200 meters. So, basically what it's happening is high school boys. That would be the placement as compared to female elite Olympia Olympic athletes. Scroll down.
06:59:45
Esther>> Not that far off. >> No, they they take the top 10 places. >> Look, they have body weight. They're not a full grown >> adult. Yeah, he's a young buck.
06:59:56
Brian Atlas>> That That's not how that works, though. Because >> because the women had more skill because they've had more experience. the the boys would lose against the elite adult
07:00:07
Brian Atlasmale athletes. So, it's not like, well, because they're young, they can run fast. No, that's Usain Bolt would scorch all these dudes. But what's happening
07:00:17
Brian Atlashere is basically if you allowed high school boys to compete like this would of course this is the top high school boys uh to compete against women. Uh
07:00:28
Brian Atlasthey would start taking uh all the top places. Scroll down, Mary. 400 meter, 800 meter, 5,000 meter, 400 meter hurdles. And then it's going to resort it. Blue is boys.
07:00:40
Brian AtlasUh so again, in some distance events, the women do start uh edging out a little bit. >> Uh scroll down, Mary. >> Relay. It's going to resort it.
07:00:52
Stella>> There's a reason women and men don't compete together. >> Long jump. >> Because it just won't be fair because men have testosterone. So >> scroll down. That's okay. >> Uh, scroll down the screen and whatever.
07:01:05
LonnieWe get the idea. >> Yeah, just look. Men are men are stronger than women. That's crazy. Yo, >> I think that's >> I'll take whatever you think. Whatever you think. >> I just made >> But what does that have to do with
07:01:16
Brian Atlasanything though? Like, but that's like things that cause that. >> How about this? Are is the strongest person in the world a man? >> Yes, >> probably. Probably. >> Uh, are the strongest people in the
07:01:29
Brian Atlasworld men? Yes. >> Yes. Probably physically >> of all the different weight lifts you can do, there's this, there's squat, there's leg press, there's bench press, there's uh I don't know what the Olympic
07:01:39
Brian Atlaslifts are. Um, are the men do the men lift more at record levels than the women? At record level, >> the men are stronger. >> Sure. >> Okay. So,
07:01:50
Lonnie>> everybody knows that men have like a like a bigger muscle, more testosterone. >> They they literally carry less fat than women. Like they do have stronger bodies. But when you ask the question of like, "Oh, do you think you're stronger
07:02:01
Lonniethan men?" That in my head, I think the men that I know that I see every day, I'm not thinking of Olympic [ __ ] athletes and [ __ ] >> How was Yeah, that's how the question is phrased.
07:02:11
Brian Atlas>> Um, well, no, it's women are just as physically strong as men. >> So, that's that's sort of a general question here. I mean, uh, okay. So, I acknowledge there there
07:02:23
Brian Atlasare definitely women who are stronger than some men. That's That's true. But most men are stronger than most women. Okay. All right. I'll move on to something else then. Uh somebody also
07:02:36
Lonniecircled women are the primary victims of war. That's no Lonnie. Why is that? >> Um I think I circled that just because I thought it was kind of a question that could be open-ended. Like I don't agree or disagree with it, but when you think
07:02:48
Lonnieback to like World War II, like in the ' 40s, like >> what happened to women when all the men died in war? They had to go to work. And then after that, now we have [ __ ] women's sovereignty or whatever. And so now we all have to [ __ ] work. So in a
07:03:01
Lonnieway, I would say that they suffered a lot because of that, but at the same time, like the men died. So they suffered, too. >> So worse, >> I don't know. That's that's why I circled it cuz I just thought it would be fun to talk about.
07:03:11
Brian Atlas>> Let me ask you let me ask it like this. So, um, let's say, you know, my my future girlfriend, she is she's nine months pregnant and she's giving birth and I'm sitting by her
07:03:24
Brian Atlasbedside and she squeezes my hand really hard. >> Who is the primary I won't say victim, but who's the primary sufferer of pain in that situation? >> The woman giving birth,
07:03:37
Brian Atlas>> me with my hand being squeezed really hard, or the woman giving birth? Who's experiencing more pain? >> The woman in birth, >> right? >> Okay. So, it's like >> anyways, whatever.
07:03:48
Brian Atlas>> I feel like everybody gets Yeah, everybody you're talking about >> war bad war. >> Hold on. Uh Esther 21, people of color can't be racist >> towards white people. No, Elani, you
07:04:01
Brian Atlasagree. >> It's Is it Valerie or I can't read Valor? Is that right? >> Uh people of color can't be racist towards white people. You also agree, Millie. Uh, people of color can't be racist towards white people. Why is that
07:04:14
Estherfor I guess starting with you, Esther? >> Well, because it's not possible to be racist towards um a group of people that isn't a minority. >> Yep. It's a definition. >> Uh, okay. What do you think?
07:04:26
Lonnie>> Um, I think that you could be colorist to anybody. Um, but racism is like systemic in America and you can't be racist to a white person if you're a person of color because you can't like
07:04:39
Valerieyou're not changing the society they live in that oppresses them in certain ways. >> Okay. Well, I think you also want >> Oh, no. The the the white people created racism in the first place.
07:04:50
Brian Atlas>> Well, white people created racism or is it something that can inherently manifest itself in any race? Nah, they probably created racism
07:05:02
Brian Atlasprobably. Yeah, white people. >> So, if all white people disappeared, would black people not be able to uh would Asian people not be able to be racist towards black people? >> For sure. Yeah. I think any race can be
07:05:14
Brian Atlasracist towards another race. But >> let's say white people never existed because your position is white people created racism. Uh assuming in this hypothetical there were never any white people ever, do you think like Asian
07:05:26
Valeriepeople could be racist towards black people? For sure. But I think if so Asian people I feel like um actually speaking for Asian >> Actually Asian people probably do be racist too. >> Asian people definitely do be racist to black people. They like you can't date
07:05:39
Valeriemy daughter. You're black. >> Can black people be racist towards Asian pe people? >> H can black people be racist towards Asian >> Asian people >> for sure. Yeah. They're Yeah. >> Not as bad. >> What? >> I think you guys are
07:05:50
Valerie>> black people are are black people make [ __ ] jokes about Asian people all the time. >> That's not like racism. That's like colorism. >> Yeah. >> What about all those >> y'all can't be racist to Asian people?
07:06:04
Brian Atlas>> Y telling me y'all can't be racist to Asian people. >> What What about all Wait, really quick. What about all those engineers in San Francisco that were uh primarily targeting Asian people like in early
07:06:17
Valerie2020, 2020, 2021. >> I just think you can't be racist towards white people. They deserve it. Honestly, I I don't really know how to answer this question. I just think I feel so racist. I be racist against white people
07:06:30
Jocelynsometimes. I'm not even going >> I think you can be racist to everybody, including white people. I mean, there's all these different types of white people, right? There's Europeans. There's Bosnians. You know, there's certain Europeans that were genocide.
07:06:42
JocelynThere were people that, you know, were wrongfully, >> you know, killed and they were white, too. We don't talk about them. Also, you could be racist to Asian people. What the [ __ ] you talking about? I feel like to white people it hurts less.
07:06:53
Millie Slaughter>> It hurts less than it would for anybody else. Struggled. I mean, it depends who you It depends. >> It's definition
07:07:01
Millie Slaughterof racism or racist is that the majority to the minority. So, white people in the United States of America cannot be
07:07:13
Millie Slaughterracist. >> I mean, white people are racist are the racist racist white. I don't think racism is like if you go to Africa.
07:07:23
Millie Slaughter>> If you go to Africa and there's a white person and the majority is black people, you are racist towards that white person. If you go to Asia and there's a black person and you are racist towards
07:07:34
Millie Slaughterthat black person, you are racist. That's how that's definition. By definition, what majority is is who can
07:07:44
Andreabe racist in that area. Yes. Look it up. But isn't racist that you just are targeting them and then being mean to them because I think that's prejudice. That's prejudice. >> But we use the word racism because it's like
07:07:56
Lonnie>> racist >> adjacent. But I'm pretty sure racism when you like like she said it's like majority versus minority. But we use that word in place of colorism because people are racist to each other all the time based on the color of their skin.
07:08:09
LonnieBut that would be colorism because you're not like making you're not like making things like harder for them to get like in society. >> So we're all racist. >> No, you can be prejudice. I think we're all racist. >> Yeah, you can be prejudice. Definitely
07:08:22
Jocelynprejudice any we can say racist. I think we're all racist. Black people can be racist. Asian people, Asian people racist, Hispanic people. We all racist. >> Yeah. Like depends on where you're at. No, it depends on where you're at.
07:08:32
Jocelyn>> For instance, when you were doing that little the accent of the Asian lady, >> some people will see that as racist. That was racist. But it's because it is >> because it's not. >> That was racist. It would be different. What if I did a black depends on where
07:08:46
Millie Slaughteryou're at? >> What if I did a black scent all? >> No. No. No. Exactly. In this table right now. In this table right now. Yes. That is racist because the majority versus the minority in this table right now.
07:08:58
JocelynYes. >> Is this majority minority true? cuz I racist just being that's the whole thing where it's like okay y'all say that y'all say like oh Asian is like the model minority >> you're a racist
07:09:09
Millie Slaughter>> that people be putting me in that model minority where they're like Asian people >> well a lot of a lot of Asian people I'm just saying a lot of Asian people that
07:09:18
Jocelynyou see identify as white >> I've never heard that first of all no there's Latin people that be identify
07:09:28
Millie Slaughter>> who is identifying as white asian A lot of Asian people that I that I have encountered identify as white. Identify as we can pick our own diamond bar. How many of you can pick being white?
07:09:41
Valerie>> No, you guys haven't been to Diamond. >> I feel like some Asians identify themselves as Mexicans because they they be in the hood. They be in the hood like with the Mexicans and they be raised with the Mexicans. >> Isn't it true? >> Who said that? >> Can't Mexicans say the
07:09:54
Valerie>> Every Mexican I know. >> Depending on where you That's like very California. >> Depending on where you were raised. very California very >> if you were raised in the hood of Englewood >> did did you explain why your position on this one like why uh
07:10:07
Brian Atlas>> yeah I did >> okay um here a couple questions then we'll linger on it for a teeny bit but we'll move on pretty quick uh can if I go to Kenya can black people be racist towards me >> yes
07:10:20
Esther>> yes >> okay you're consistent at least um would you agree if I go to Kenya >> where you're a minority yeah if the majority is not white people then that could be racist. >> I don't agree. I think I can give you
07:10:32
Brian Atlasright now. >> Like I don't think for that by definition that is what it is by definition. >> But but I I mean I would agree a black person even the US could be racist
07:10:44
Brian Atlastowards a white person. But I'm at least testing out. Okay. If you're >> in a different country, would you be then racist? So um but do you all those was it you you and you who was like can't be racist towards white people?
07:10:57
ValerieYeah, you >> I feel like it hurts less. It hurts less for white people cuz they barely went through stuff. But, you know, like when they when when they racist to Mexican people, they call them wetbacks, you know, because they crossing the border, blah blah blah blah. >> The words if we can, but
07:11:10
Brian Atlas>> Oh, yeah. Sorry. Sorry. Sorry. >> Cuz we're on the platforms. But, um, I mean, so you were talking about systemic. >> Uhhuh. Like even so even if even if it is true that white people have not been systemically oppressed in the United
07:11:23
Brian AtlasStates although some people might point to the Italians or the Irish for example who did face some systemic oppression. You might even say well it's not as bad as you know the oppression that black people uh experienced and I probably
07:11:35
Brian Atlaswouldn't even disagree with you but I kind of reject this idea that it's just about systemic. I think sure there is systemic racism like institutions or whatever governments or laws can be
07:11:46
Brian Atlasracist. However, what I think when I'm thinking about racism, it would be acknowledging the different types of racism and I would say like individual racism for example. So here's I guess the final test. If a black man walks up
07:11:59
Lonnieto me and punches me in the face because I'm white, was that racist? >> Yes. >> Yes, >> for sure. I think I have to know the dictionary definition of like racist and colorist to be able to answer this. >> Yeah, look it up. >> Prejudice.
07:12:11
SPEAKER_00>> Yeah, >> look look up the the definition. >> In my head when I think racism, I think like ingrained in society. >> Justin donated $100. >> T5 is toxic.
07:12:23
SPEAKER_00>> Peak feminism. >> Racist is based on majority. What a joke. Racist is as racist does. Civilization building is as civilization building does.
07:12:35
Brian Atlas>> You're welcome. Silly girls, feminists, all. >> I mean, I did say like we all low-key races though, >> so I guess uh >> so I mean there's systemic racism and
07:12:48
Brian Atlasthen there's racism that can be experienced on a individual level. Um, so I mean, and I I mean, I would almost think that if there can be racism, if
07:13:00
Brian Atlasyou're saying that white people are the dominant social group or whatever in the United States, then like >> if we're talking about the term racism,
07:13:09
Brian Atlashow would we apply racism to inter uh interracism between the non-dominant racial groups in the United States? >> So like black, black and Asian, Latino
07:13:21
Lonnieand black. think you would be racist to each other because you can't like actually like take each other's rights away and [ __ ] like you know what I mean? But I think you could be colorist or like you said individually racist if that's a correct >> you couldn't be systemically racist. I think you could
07:13:33
Lonnie>> well cuz when I when I hear racist I think like extreme like that like systemic like you were oppressed by individually like if someone was racist towards you like to yourself like to
07:13:45
Brian Atlasyour face. >> Well, how about this? If BET uh refused to hire a white janitor, would that be racist? >> Uh it's like the black entertainment television.
07:13:57
Brian Atlas>> So let's say like a major like blackowned business and all the board members were black and the CEO is black and they're really rich, >> but they won't hire a white person to be
07:14:09
Brian Atlasa janitor who comes from a low socioeconomic background. Would that be racism? I guess prejudice or like color >> because they're like they have the power. >> That's colorism, right? >> No, racism. >> No, that's not racism. Colorist.
07:14:21
JocelynColorism is whenever you're literally just judging off of like the tone, the skin tone, like the color how dark you are, how white, it don't matter about where you from. Like I'm a brown Asian. I'm Vietnamese. I'm brown. There are white
07:14:34
Jocelyn>> Asians like Koreans and Chinese, you know, >> exactly. So I'm a brown Asian. So that's colors like that. people favor like lighter skin Asian girls versus like a
07:14:45
Millie Slaughterjungle. That's prejudice though. That's not But no, but I'm saying at at that point if you're saying if I'm saying something about you or I'm making your accent or whatever, that's prejudice.
07:14:56
Millie SlaughterThat's not racist. Racist is a specific. It's systematic. It's literally a systematic thing. Look up the look up the definition. Google racism. Look it
07:15:08
Brian Atlasup. There is systemic systematic institutional racism, but there's also individual >> like microlevel racism. >> Yes. >> So, both can exist.
07:15:20
Valerie>> Prejudice, discrim. >> Prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism by an individual, community, or institution against a person or people on the basis of their membership in a
07:15:31
Valerieparticular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized. Boom. >> Wait, what do you mean boom? That doesn't that >> Yes, it does. It's a It's the minority.
07:15:44
Millie SlaughterIt's the majority over the minority. >> Typically, it doesn't say that's that's No, it's the majority over the minority. But okay. >> No, but it says typically. >> No, it is. So, what is the verdict? >> Pull it back up. Somebody pull it back
07:15:56
Valerieup. >> Typically, prejudice >> typically one that is minority. The belief that that different races The belief that different races possess
07:16:06
Valeriedistinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them them as inferior or superior to one another.
07:16:22
Valerie>> That's what >> I mean, you would agree that a black person in America could think white people are inferior to them. That would be racism. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Racist, man. I think we just all need to fix that within ourselves. Like, [ __ ] >> I'm not racist, guys.
07:16:35
Valerie>> You're definitely racist. >> I'm not. >> You're on 4chan all night, bro. >> I feel like you've talked [ __ ] about a white person some at some point in your life. >> Or like someone on the road. Maybe you got like road rage one day.
07:16:48
Brian Atlas>> I don't know. I'm not racist. >> Uh, let's see. Uh, adult age gap relationships are wrong. Why is that, Joselyn? >> I'm sorry. Say that again. Uh, wait, hold on.
07:17:01
Brian AtlasWait really quick. Hold on. I'll come to that later. Uh, Esther, women are oppressed in the USA. How so? >> I just think we're oppressed. >> Really? >> How so?
07:17:15
Esther>> I mean, the fact that sex workers feel the need to do sex work and the fact that that sex work is fulfilled by a mass audience of men is
07:17:24
Estherexample enough. How do uh how do you define oppression? >> I mean, I don't know. I'm sleepy right
07:17:33
Esthernow, but I just think for sure that as a man, especially a white man, you will probably have more opportunities
07:17:46
Esther>> me >> than a woman. >> Such as what? >> A lot of things. >> Do you think I have it easier because I'm a white man? No, I don't think necessarily easier, but
07:17:57
Brian Atlas>> have more opportunities. >> More options. More opportunities. Yeah, >> I actually completely disagree. I think women actually have more opportunity as as a white woman. Are you white or are you you kind of could be Latina almost? I'm white.
07:18:09
Brian Atlas>> You're a white girl. >> Yeah. I think actually white women, American white women are probably the most privileged class of people >> to have ever existed in all of human.
07:18:21
Esther>> You said women in general. White. Well, white women. White women. >> Yeah. I mean, definitely. But the white man is still above white women for sure. For a fact. >> It's total [ __ ] >> Is harder. >> Uh, so I mean, >> whites
07:18:34
Esther[ __ ] around. >> I mean, unless you want to do sex work, then that's the bonus. Yeah, you can use your body. >> Pretty privilege. We get away with a lot. >> I like this girl. >> Not the ugly. >> It was a rough start, but uh you're
07:18:48
Brian Atlasgrown on me. >> She won't. >> Don't just don't slash my tires. Okay. Don't stab me. Don't stab me. But you're kind of you're I know you're Latina, but you're my Caucasian. >> Huh? >> You're my
07:18:59
Jocelyn>> We just gave you the white car girl. Oh my gosh. >> But But you know how like like for example, where's the Hey, >> she's black, right? >> Yes. >> Like you know how black you know how the
07:19:12
Brian Atlasblack person can call a white person like my Don't say it, but my nword. >> Oh, she said >> don't say it. Don't say it. Uh well I guess she can say I guess but
07:19:23
Brian Atlas>> on the platform I hate point that >> like as a white person like like you're Asian but you're my Caucasian. You're >> Oh no Irasian. I like that you're
07:19:34
Brian Atlas>> Persian. I'm Persian. >> Well Iranian and Asian Irasian. >> Irasian. >> You're you raisin. >> That's new. You're a raisin. A raisin. >> Caucasian. You're my Caucasian. You're my Caucasian.
07:19:48
Esther>> So anyways like >> whatever. Anyways, >> our word statistics, look at domestic violence statistics, look at um let's see what else we'll see. >> Even domestic violence statistics and
07:20:00
EstherI'm not saying it doesn't happen to men either. So, please do not say that I'm saying that, but I'm saying it's way more common. >> We have two men in here who have never laid their hands on a woman. And we have some women
07:20:11
Brian Atlas>> in here who have laid their hands on we got some young ladies in here and we got some non strong women in here. She stabbed a Oh, no. That was a woman. That was female on female crime, right? You stabbed a woman. You
07:20:23
Brian Atlas>> But I'm talking about global statistics. >> She ran some video. You fought a dude. I'm sure some of y'all have >> I'm a domestic violence survivor. >> Never. >> So, yeah. Wait, I saw this. You uh >> you got like carjacked or something or
07:20:35
JocelynWait, >> I've Well, I was two I went through two violent situations. The first one was 3 years ago. Someone attacked me with a machete. >> Oh my god. >> Yeah. >> Wait, was it >> That's [ __ ] That's scary. >> Was it random? It was a random a hit and
07:20:49
Jocelynrun. They had a weapon. >> What race were they? >> They were black. >> Why you look at me? >> That's why you look at me. >> Oh my god. >> She said Jesus.
07:21:00
Jocelyn>> They were Why you looking at me when you did your Asian accent? Girl, why are we looking at each other? >> Oh my god. >> I I sense a little racism going on in the room. No, that was it was actually very very disappointing in the sense of
07:21:13
Jocelynlike I mean it could have been anybody but it was just that was just what it was. But that was 3 years ago and I closed that case went to court and all that last March. But the domestic
07:21:24
Brian Atlasviolence situation I was in was 2 years ago. >> But wait, the machete car situation was it uh was that in San Francisco or was >> No, it's Houston, Texas. >> I was in Texas. >> I was in Texas. Was it like mentally
07:21:37
Valerielike Was he mentally ill? >> She was mentally ill. >> Oh, was she? It was a black woman. >> It was a big [ __ ] >> A big [ __ ] >> Yep. Damn. >> Big on ass. I'm glad I'm glad you're okay, girl. That's traumatic.
07:21:49
Jocelyn>> That is crazy. I wish I could have been there. I would have You should have >> I mean too would you would you would have catched the machete or what you going to do? >> I would have took out my katana and [ __ ] sliced it.
07:22:02
Jocelyn>> Have a katana. >> Carry. I do concealed carry a katana on. >> But no, luckily there were two there were two men. There were black men that were around and they came and like helped me.
07:22:14
Jocelyn>> So I was disarmed the [ __ ] >> Well, I I I grew up as a martial artist, so I was actually able to get the weapon out of her hand and go away as the man held her down. >> Wow. >> But she was a strong [ __ ] She She had
07:22:27
Jocelyntwo large men hold her down. >> She was she on drugs? >> I think she was she was just she had two kids up in her car. >> Okay. She She was just crazy. >> What provoked her? >> What was it like? What do you feel provoked her?
07:22:38
Jocelyn>> We got road rage up in Texas or in general. And luckily it was no gun. >> Who here is a feminist? >> Raise your hand if you're a feminist. It's okay. >> I mean, >> it's okay to admit it.
07:22:48
Valerie>> I'm not. I want to be put up, >> right? Like half I'll vacuum, cook, clean, get [ __ ] That's what I want. >> I mean, there's a there's a deep meaning
07:22:58
Brian Atlasto I don't Can I ask cuz I never really understood like what makes a feminist to be honest. >> I mean there's different definitions. I think the easiest would probably be you want a movement towards equality with a
07:23:10
Brian Atlasdismantling of the patriarchy. That would be feminism. Well, charitable >> without dismantling the patriarchy. >> With a dismantling. >> Yeah. I don't need to dismantle [ __ ] Um
07:23:22
Brian AtlasI think I'm good. >> I love I love my girls though. Got to say. Uh, moving on to a different topic. Jocelyn, uh, men should pay on first dates, >> huh? >> Uh, just I guess yes or no. Men should
07:23:35
Jocelynpay on first dates. >> You circled yes. >> Wait, what' you say? Women should pay on first. Oh, men should pay. Oh, yeah. Yeah. >> Uh, should men should pro provide and protect? >> Yes. >> Men should be chivalous. >> Yeah.
07:23:48
Brian Atlas>> Husband should be willing to die protecting you. >> Oh, yeah. >> What's the point of that? >> You will keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage. >> I'll add it to my name. Like I want to keep my last name. >> They could have his last name too, but
07:24:01
Brian AtlasI'm gonna keep mine last name. >> You'll keep your last name. >> Proud. >> Damn, bro. We Guys got to pay for dates. Provide, protect, be chivalous. If I feel like if I got to take a bullet for a woman, she's got to take my last name.
07:24:12
Jocelyn>> I said I was going to add it, but I want to keep my last name. >> No add. Remove my last name. Joseline. I don't know. Whatever guy you >> But what if she what if she comes my
07:24:24
Jocelynname is >> when if I make a name for myself I want to keep it. >> I want to keep look if it's Jocelyn Gertude win it's going to become Joselyn Gertude Smith. >> That's Yeah.
07:24:37
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> I'm just saying you can't do Joselyn Gertude Win Smith. You got to get rid of the win >> when you probably going to be Smith. You got to get rid of the wind and start
07:24:49
Brian Atlaswinning with your husband. This is the last name plural. >> I mean, the kids can have his last name. He don't I don't need to have his last name. >> Esther, same for you. Uh, you say men should pay on first dates. Men should provide protect or at least you agree
07:25:01
Brian Atlaswith these. Men should be chivalous. Husband should be willing to die protecting you. Take the bullet. Uh, you're going to keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage. >> Yes. >> So, hyphenate or keep your last name? >> Uh, I'll hyphenate.
07:25:14
Brian Atlas>> Do you want kids? >> Yeah. Will they have hyphenated last name, your last name, or husband's last name? >> Honestly, I don't really care either way for theirs. They have whatever. >> Damn, bro. You got to do all this [ __ ]
07:25:27
Brian Atlasand the girl won't even take your last name. Crazy [ __ ] >> Yeah, you have offspring. They're going to have your name. >> There you go. >> My question is like why though? >> Me, too. Wait. Oh, [ __ ] We got the f
07:25:38
Brian AtlasOh, okay. The engaged girl here. Uh, men should pay on first dates. Men should provide protect. Men should be chivalous. husband should be willing to die protecting you. You're and you're you're about to get married. I guess
07:25:50
Sharayou're gonna keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage. >> I mean, if it's important to my fiance for me to drop it, I'll drop it. I'm flexible.
07:26:00
Shara>> Well, have you guys talked about that? >> Um, we haven't, but I'm assuming that he would want me to take it. So, >> but why did you circle this then? >> Um, I don't know. I guess I'm kind of like 50/50 on it, you Would you fight
07:26:14
Brian Atlashim on it? >> No. I would >> like would you give him push back if he's like, "Look," and he was polite, but he's like, "Hey, look, babe. Um, you know, just wanted to clarify this because I was watching you on the podcast and, uh, I'm reconsidering the
07:26:25
Brian Atlasmarriage, but would you, you know, look, when we get married, uh, are you going to take my last name, right? >> Sure, babe. Oh, that's it. Hey, look. If
07:26:36
Brian Atlasthat's a convo, but if you're like gonna nag him about it, but it's I got to change my credit cards and Oh my god. >> No, I'm not going to do any of that. >> No. >> Okay, that's fair.
07:26:47
Brian Atlas>> Does that mean to yours? Right. Right. >> Uh, okay. Uh, we're not going to do everything on this questionnaire, but maybe one or two more. Then there's a few more notes. Uh, past should not matter. Body count. Past not matter. Do you think men who care about body count,
07:27:00
Brian Atlasdo you think they're insecure little [ __ ] Facts. Um, >> facts. Please don't bring the gay people into this. >> Wait, what's wrong with the gay people? >> Well, yeah. What's wrong with gays? >> It was a double devil montage, I guess.
07:27:13
Brian AtlasUh, go ahead. >> And personally, I I would care about body count. >> Okay. >> Just because. >> But you think men who care about a woman's body count, like that's insecure on the men's man's part.
07:27:24
Brian Atlas>> Um, as long as it's a mutual, then I'm like that's fine. Uh, Jocelyn, what about you? Uh, are men insecure if they care about a Are men little [ __ ] No,
07:27:37
Brian Atlasinsecure. >> Specifically, little [ __ ] >> Are they insecure if they care about the woman's past, her body count? >> I think a little. >> A little. Okay. Uh, Esther. >> Yes. >> Yes. Okay. What about you?
07:27:50
Lonnie>> I feel like they can be, but I also feel like it could just be preference. >> Okay. What about you? >> I feel like it's childish as [ __ ] >> Childish as [ __ ] Okay. What do you think? Um, I think it depends which man
07:28:01
Andreait comes from now. It's like a religious man who comes from like a good home and like I like he's acted accordingly himself. >> The guy has a high body count and he cares about it. >> Oh, he has a high body count and he cares.
07:28:14
Brian Atlas>> Oh, [ __ ] I'm >> like roll my eyes and he got icky dicky little [ __ ] icky dicky. >> I'm fine with it actually. I think it's but I I think it's totally fine for a
07:28:25
SPEAKER_08man to even if he has a high body count to prefer a low body count than a woman. >> I mean prefer and judge and is a little different. I guess >> I don't even have that conversation like with >> Milly milk toast.
07:28:38
Millie Slaughter>> I need to know. >> Uh it's definitely a double standard but yeah I think men should watch out for girls that have high body counts especially cuz we could carry more than a man can. But you said passion not matter in your response on
07:28:52
Millie Slaughterthe questionnaire. >> I said passion >> like you circled passion not matter. You agree with that? >> No, I agree. I agree. Men men that h that's don't want to date girls with high body counts. Like that's cool.
07:29:04
Shara>> Oh. Okay. Uh what about you? >> Um I think that uh if a man has a high body count, um I'm not sure if he's able to request the same in return. You know,
07:29:15
SharaI think that um both probably people that have high body counts um are not going to be interested in being in a relationship or they're going to have trouble in navigating in a relationship. But I think overall if a man has a high
07:29:27
Brian Atlasbody count, he probably cannot be asking for a woman to have a lower one. Hypocritical. >> What about just like in general? If a man cares in general about body count, do you think that that's insecure or do you think it's valid?
07:29:39
Shara>> It depends. It depends if somebody's religious like you were saying or if it's kind of more of an ideology. No, it's just like >> you don't believe in [ __ ] except for big body counts.
07:29:51
Shara>> He doesn't care about any of that. >> I think then I I mean >> it's a preference, you know, but they're going to have to be able to um uh
07:30:02
Sharaprovide a valid reason why. Not with me necessarily. I mean, I don't know. But um I just don't really think that it can be something to be requested. Well, going around the table, um, I'm going to sort of start it a little differently
07:30:15
Brian Atlashere. Going around the table, what's your body count starting with Millie?
07:30:23
Brian Atlas>> I don't know. >> Uh, so like do you did you forget? Is that what you mean? Or >> do you >> I don't want to disclose that. >> A lot of women don't really care to disclose that [ __ ]
07:30:35
Brian Atlas>> A range. Like I know sometimes it's like you might forget the exact number but you want to do like try to do a range or something. >> Probably like 10 to 15.
07:30:47
Millie Slaughter>> How many women? >> Oh, women too. >> Yeah, let's count women. >> Okay. Uh 20 to 25. I'm counting women.
07:30:58
Andrea>> Uh body count? >> Um men five, women like 30 to 40. Okay. What about you? >> I love
07:31:13
Brian Atlas>> What's my fifth amendment right? >> Uh I mean, you know, look, I feel like you got to do me a solid because you were, you know, running a little late. You got to do me a bit of solid. >> Oh, now I do you a solid. Okay. Now all
07:31:25
Valerieof a sudden, all of a sudden, [ __ ] I don't [ __ ] know. I don't really give a [ __ ] Like, I don't care about none of that. >> Take take a guess. >> Take a gander. Like take a estimate
07:31:35
Valerie>> since like [ __ ] I don't know is >> I can't I don't know to be honest. >> Over a hundred. >> [ __ ] no. >> [ __ ] no. It ain't that ran through. >> Huh?
07:31:47
Valerie>> Why'd you go up? >> You went up after I said [ __ ] no. You said >> Oops. Uh >> that's what you said when you slipped in every woman. Huh? >> 50. >> Oops.
07:31:59
Valerie>> When when I slipped in a woman. >> When you slipped in a woman. Oops. Uh, >> I don't know, man. I don't know my [ __ ] body count. I don't give I don't I don't care to count.
07:32:11
Valerie>> 50 to 100. >> It's definitely not 100. It's definitely not 50. It's way less than that. >> It's way less. How many women? >> Can you tell us how many women you done? Uh, >> how many hood rats you done slayed? >> Hood rats?
07:32:24
Valerie>> Hood rats? >> No, you'd be surprised. The women that I have slept with, they're actually very high tier women. >> Okay. They got their businesses and everything. >> I did not mean to.
07:32:34
Valerie>> Yes. I don't if I was to ever be with a woman is not no sleazy [ __ ] >> I'm very Yeah, I love me some bad [ __ ] >> I love bad [ __ ]
07:32:45
Brian Atlas>> Uh, we'll come back to you. Body count. >> Be honest, girl. Be honest. This is your moment to shine. Be honest. >> One that I remember. You know who you are. >> Yikes. One guy.
07:32:57
Lonnie>> One. >> Yikes. Wait, how old are you? >> 22. >> Oh, you're on like 22. >> For all the other ones, you're on [ __ ] heroin. What? >> I mean, I'm just saying like there's one
07:33:10
Brian Atlasgood one. You know who you are. >> It's It's still happening. The rest are compared to you. >> Give us Give us the the the intel. Come on. This is girl time right now. This is girl time. I'm not here with boyfriends.
07:33:23
LonnieOkay, I'll I'll make I'll put it like this. I had two boyfriends. I remember one of you. Okay. How many lady friends have you had? >> I've only slept with one girl before and it was like a actually Act actually that was a hookup I did.
07:33:36
Brian Atlas>> What about you? Body count >> under 15. >> Okay. Any women in there or >> no? >> Jocelyn >> two. Two.
07:33:48
Valerie>> Damn. Joselyn, we got we got to get you some dick, >> girl. But they get we got to get you some good dick soon girl. >> Have my piece girl. Nice. >> Hey, you could get some dick and still have your piece. That's all I'm saying.
07:34:01
SPEAKER_07>> She gave good dick. She She [ __ ] went. She know what's up. >> She said she likes PC's. >> I know she be looking at me in this corner, but she always look over at me and you're like, "So, >> I don't know." >> I bugs with you.
07:34:14
Brian Atlas>> Body count. >> Zero. >> Say it again. >> Zero. >> Body count. >> I can't disclose it. >> Oh, hey yo, you got to do me a solid here. You were an hour late. I think you got to do the body count reveal to
07:34:27
Shara>> legally I can't disclose it >> legally. >> Uh body count. >> What's your body count? >> I don't even know. >> That's a good question. >> What's your body count? >> I'm a virgin. >> You're a little older than all of us. So
07:34:41
ValerieI mean >> I've never felt the warmth of a woman. >> That's [ __ ] a virgin. >> Okay. >> You felt the warmth of an [ __ ] stand. >> You felt the warmth of some [ __ ] though. >> What the [ __ ] I mean, if you ain't
07:34:54
Brian Atlasgetting no coochie, then you must have ass. Like, >> that's why I stick >> Wait, wait, wait. >> That's why I stick to anal sex. >> You're so right. Yeah, that's my body count doesn't go up if I [ __ ]
07:35:05
Valerie>> That's the hole that God can't see. >> So, so what's your body count? Be for real. >> I'm a virgin. >> You're You're 38. You say >> I'm a virgin. 36. >> You [ __ ] like me, huh? >> I know you lying.
07:35:16
Brian Atlas>> Stop the cap. Your future. >> Yeah. Please stop the cap. >> Yeah. Who knows? Maybe uh you know, maybe one day I'll lose my virginity. >> You see, if you're not disclosing, I'm not about to >> disclose. You go, "Fuck yeah. Sign me
07:35:28
Brian Atlasup. Sign me up. Get me out." >> I love >> When did you lose your virginity? >> Half your virginity, though. Basically, it doesn't count as a >> But how old were you? >> That's a half [ __ ] huh? >> Yeah. How old were you when you lost your virginity, though?
07:35:41
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Yeah. Uh well, we'll go around the table on this. I was 17 when I lost my virginity. Uh >> just skip. >> I don't even know if she's 19. I don't even think she's 19. I think you're older. >> Some of the o girls, they lie about
07:35:54
Jocelyntheir age. But okay, what about you? >> That's I think. >> Show me your ID. >> I was like 18, 19, like freshman college. >> Was it a boyfriend? >> It was a boyfriend. It's my first love. >> Jocelyn, >> it it's true.
07:36:06
Brian Atlas>> I feel like you you know, you're downplaying your your game here. >> I do. I attract. I attract, but that don't mean I let them in. >> Yeah. >> Joselyn by the Was it a rapper? Who was the number two?
07:36:17
Jocelyn>> Number two. Was it a rapper? No, he was he was a tech guy and he was Bosian. >> Two white guys. >> No, the first one was black. The second one was Bosian. >> Lost your virgin period. >> Virginity >> to a big D. Yeah.
07:36:29
Valerie>> Period. >> Go big or go home. Period. >> Look, you know. >> Nah. When I lost my virginity, I made sure that [ __ ] was a small dick. I had I had to make sure.
07:36:41
Brian Atlas>> I didn't make sure. >> I had to make sure. >> I'm sorry. Yes. >> Uh, wait, wait. So, I'm just curious cuz like you know I >> one of my first girlfriends actually
07:36:52
Brian Atlasshe's Vietnamese and let me tell you her parents were racist racist as [ __ ] Um, >> towards you? >> No. No. But like her her dad was like like she would tell me her parents would
07:37:03
Brian Atlasdisown her if she dated the black guy. Right. >> My mom is racist. My dad wasn't. >> So, but how did your parents feel about the >> My mom hated that [ __ ] But my dad, he >> he was >> he was >> cool with it. Okay. Just
07:37:17
Brian Atlas>> Good for you, girl. >> I was curious cuz you know, I heard some Asian parents sometimes they can be a little >> Yeah. >> You know, a little >> It's true. >> You know what I'm saying? It's true. That's what I'm saying. >> It's true. >> For shizzle. >> It's true. >> My nizzle. >> Wait, how old was I? >> Yeah. When you lost your vcard?
07:37:32
Brian Atlas>> 18. >> 18. >> 16. >> I was 19. I also was 18. I got pregnant. >> Damn. Late bloomers. Oh, wait. Got pregnant. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Oh yeah, that was my mom. >> You got the first time. >> She had a hell of fun.
07:37:45
Andrea>> You smashed. >> Uh, no, it wasn't the first time I smashed. Um, I promised my mom that I would keep my virginity either until I
07:37:53
Andreagraduated or I turned 18, whichever came last. Um, I turned 18. So, um, I was with my boyfriend, first baby daddy, and we were like smashing for like 6 months. Within 6 months, somewhere I got
07:38:07
Brian Atlaspregnant. >> Okay. I thought it was like the first time you had sex. No, it was just the boy that did my virginity. >> Were you on birth control? >> Um, no. >> Was he just full blasting
07:38:18
Brian Atlas>> full blast? He wants the whole picture. Was he full blasting in that shot? >> I was like, look, you got if the girl is not on birth control, you can't just you got to pull out.
07:38:29
Andrea>> I used to take a lot of um plan B. >> I mean, they were younger, too. Think about >> And then I And then I got um I used to have braces. I got like jaw surgery. So
07:38:38
Andreathen I didn't take some for like that time, >> you know. >> What about you? Age, virginity, lost. >> Yeah.
07:38:50
Millie Slaughter>> Yes. >> Yeah, that's a word. Uh I'm looking for a number. >> I was 18 and he called his mom after. >> Oh yeah.
07:39:02
Valerie>> He must have been scared. He nutted it. He was like, I didn't do what you >> 17. Okay. I mean, I've heard some crazy [ __ ] on this podcast. People losing their [ __ ]
07:39:14
Valerie>> We high value women up there. I feel like that was generations ago. They was out there [ __ ] when they was like 13, 14. Like our parents probably was out there [ __ ] around that age. >> You know what? It is true that uh my
07:39:25
Brian Atlasunderstanding is is that like younger people like Gen Gen Z, I guess at this point maybe going in what is the >> alpha? >> What is Gen A? Is it >> We're learning from our parents' mistakes. They're als
07:39:41
Brian Atlasthe the the generation having the least amount of sex. >> Not to say that they're not having sex. They're having the least amount of sex than like millennials are having less sex as compared to like Gen X and
07:39:52
Brian Atlasboomers and at least when if you compare for the age like you know Gen Gen X people when they were 20. >> Mhm. I love the boomers when they were [ __ ] >> they had a different economy was [ __ ]
07:40:04
Valeriethey could they had a different [ __ ] economy. You know why? You know why they was [ __ ] because the music back then >> no the music back then they they had
07:40:13
Valerieusher they had Trey Song the baby making music was out back then romantic. So they was real romantical back then. >> I love sex. >> Yeah. Kelly,
07:40:26
Brian Atlas>> thank you for sharing. >> Sex is great. He doesn't. I actually we've had some women who are like I don't really like sex. >> I don't. >> You don't like sex? Really? >> No. It doesn't say that.
07:40:36
Lonnie>> Is it cuz you can't climax? >> It's because I just it's so >> like transactional and like I' I haven't been like there's only been one guy that I guess I was in love with that I had
07:40:49
Lonniesex with. And even then it was like mid and I was young. And so like I think I'm just waiting to like meet the person. >> You waited for alien to come on our planet. you probably going to [ __ ] >> Maybe I'm just not like a sex motivated person. I guess I just don't really care
07:41:01
Valeriefor it. >> You just haven't found like a person to >> Well, I don't even like jerk off either. So, >> I don't That's so interesting. >> I don't think I've met a person that's like that. That's really And And you're
07:41:13
Andreain the industry. >> A big labia. Is that why? >> No. I think it's because >> No, I used to be like that until I met my man. >> Yeah. Period. >> Now I love it.
07:41:22
Lonnie>> I'm just like whatever. I don't know. I love got to meet man. >> Well, [ __ ] I don't know. I'm a Scorpio, so >> sex is amazing. >> Y'all some freaks are the freaky [ __ ]
07:41:34
Millie SlaughterThey're freaky as [ __ ] >> Wait, men or women? I've always wanted to like have sex with a transgender. Is it woman or man? >> I would not either. >> Yeah. Yeah. Chiopi would be so good cuz
07:41:46
Millie Slaughterit's like I'm getting I'm getting everything at one time, you know? Like I'm getting like >> and then I get to get at the same time. >> Let me know how it goes. Dude, if somebody would let me but that's a new
07:41:58
Valerie>> if anybody >> if you're if you are a transgender and you're watching this, slide into her. >> This is so har. >> No new coochie. She still want the old stuff. >> Yeah.
07:42:09
Brian Atlas>> All right, moving on. Uh so going to Joselyn. We're gonna do your notes. We're gonna try to go as quickly as possible through everybody's notes here. uh on the train thing. I mean, we already covered that, but basically I
07:42:20
Brian Atlasjust really quick, I think that you can do all that effort and >> it doesn't mean anything. Um >> I mean, >> I think you just got to look I think as
07:42:32
Brian Atlasa guy, you just got to invite the girl over to your place. That's the first move. [ __ ] a date. [ __ ] a dinner. [ __ ] a drink. [ __ ] doing I'm gonna take her to the aquarium in San Diego and
07:42:44
Brian Atlas>> pay for a hotel. You just got to be like, "Come over. You're going to do my laundry. You're going to hit a bow. You're going to hit a bow and you're going to clean my house." That's the first date. >> That's You want to [ __ ] make you want
07:42:57
Brian Atlasto [ __ ] make first of all. No, wait. Real quick. And then right after that date, you go for 500. >> You're not the only guy who has said this actually. The >> Uhoh. Look what's coming. You [ __ ]
07:43:08
Brian Atlas>> The [ __ ] flags. >> Red carding. You and you. You guys continue to do the [ __ ] sidebars. >> No, I was saying it in the mic. >> I was adding to what you said. >> She was talking, then she was talking, and then y'all were
07:43:21
Brian Atlas>> Okay, this is this is your [ __ ] punishment, both of you. >> Damn, I got red carded. >> Okay, so do you see Do you see that window in front of you? That window in front of you? I want you both to stand up and face the wall and think about what you've done.
07:43:35
Brian Atlas>> You're going to put me in timeout. >> You're both in [ __ ] timeout. Stand up. Stand up and face the wall. Check my boot. >> Don't do it. >> N.
07:43:46
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Von Dutch. >> Don't actually. Normally I put them in the corner, but I feel like this also works. Okay. So, >> I want to see what that >> Hey, wait. Don't Don't touch the Don't touch the sun.
07:43:59
SPEAKER_03>> Don't touch the merch. >> Put your hands behind your back >> and shake it like now. Count to 100. >> Oh my god. This is dream come true. >> Simon Simon says touch your toes. Now
07:44:09
Brian Atlasthink about what you guys have done. If if you cry, that also is appreciated. >> You bad bad girl. >> You bad girl. >> Somebody grab the whip. >> Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. He's
07:44:21
Brian Atlasmanifesting his orgy right now, guys. >> The cameras. >> Look at these faced submissive. No, I'm just kidding. Uh, so, okay, let's get back to the >> I just farted. >> That would be disgusting. Women should not ever
07:44:34
Lonnie>> I just like walked it towards your >> I farted like four times during this part first. Go fart over with hair. >> It's wafting. >> Have you guys
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Brian Atlas>> Are you wearing uh Are you wearing uh what are they called? Panty hoes. >> Yeah, they keep me warm. >> I don't I don't know remember the last time I saw a woman wearing >> I wear them every day. A classy woman. >> I see a few artists wearing them.
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Jocelyn>> High value. >> Joseline. Where were we? >> The train. I Yes, I agree. He was doing way too much. >> The bow. The laundry. I want a maid. Oh, you want to make Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah.
07:45:10
Brian Atlas>> The first date you want a girl to come over and clean your apartment. >> Do my laundry. At least like first time first time over at my place. She should do my uh >> Well, you're [ __ ] Go hire somebody.
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Jocelyn>> Go hire somebody. Hire somebody. >> My actual my actual roommate. He said the same thing. Actually, you're asking for a first date. That's a girlfriend. >> Yeah. She's about to be my girlfriend if she does that [ __ ] >> Like just off the first date.
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Andrea>> Are you worried she'd find too much out about you? Like >> what you what >> you're letting her in your house? >> Girls don't want to clean your messy ass [ __ ] Clean your [ __ ] up for yourself. >> No. Well, >> I would do it if you pay my rent. >> My son is
07:45:47
Brian Atlas>> period. >> Well, that's trans my bills and I'll do it. >> I think my ex-husband is the first day I went over his house. So, >> I mean, I would look at it this way, though. So, it's like, no, I'm not going to do that [ __ ] immediately. But, um, like whoever whatever girl is with me
07:46:00
Brian Atlaslong term, every she's not going to have to work. Everything's going to be taken care of. >> Love for her. >> Love that for her. Love it. Uh but ultimately, yeah, I think uh you know, I think the woman should be doing the simp [ __ ] I think I like when women simp.
07:46:13
JocelynWomen should be sing. Women should be doing some man provide only if the man is that type of man that provides that safety, that protection, that you know,
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Andrea>> that whole environment for her to be able to do that. >> Wait, my man says the same thing. He always tells me like the like how it's supposed to be. The woman is supposed to like the man more. Why? Like I never understood that.
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Andrea>> The woman is not supposed to like the man more. That's what you said. >> Yeah. >> The woman is supposed to like the man more. >> I don't I feel like that never worked. >> That has been a controversy. >> If the guy likes the girl more, like it it usually never works. >> I hear that, but I also don't understand that.
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Brian Atlas>> The girl has to be the fan. It can't be the reverse. >> You can't if you're a fan to a woman, that's just >> If you're a fan to a woman, >> you should be each other's fans, to be honest. >> Well, that sometimes works, but that's pretty rare. Um, usually there's like
07:47:02
Brian Atlasthe there's the desire or wait >> I have that rarity. >> H what? Not desired. It's uh >> [ __ ] There's a term for it. >> Lust. >> Not desired. No, no, no. It's the
07:47:15
Brian Atlasadmired. Wait. >> Admiration. >> [ __ ] Wait, hold on. >> Uh, Orion Teraban has played that [ __ ]
07:47:24
Brian Atlas>> Orion Teraban. play. >> Uh, desired, admired. >> [ __ ] I can't find it. Whatever. >> Doesn't, >> doesn't matter. Uh,
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Brian Atlas>> I don't know where we're going with that, but Mary, this is a good time for the bow video. >> Yep. >> Not you getting choked up. >> I'm not choked up.
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Brian Atlas>> I don't know what to say. What happened? >> No, I just couldn't find the words for what I was trying to describe. All right. This is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend. I show it to future girlfriends as like you ever seen like a
07:48:01
Brian Atlasinstructional video or a tutorial. This is a tutorial video. I sit my my future potential girlfriend down and or even I'll send it to her before like she comes and meets me. I'll be like, "Look,
07:48:13
Jocelynthis is my expectation. Uh this is what I expect." You know? So, >> [ __ ] your ex video. You're going to show your new girl except like sociopathic. >> Yeah. Like what? What if she sent you a
07:48:25
Brian Atlasvideo of her getting [ __ ] by her ex? And this is how I want you to perform. This is what I do. This is what I expect. >> Haram. Haram. Degenerate. Despicable. Absolutely not. But this is totally acceptable. Go ahead, Mary. Play that
07:48:39
Brian Atlas[ __ ] >> Okay. Double standard. >> Bow. Huge bow. Do you see the [ __ ] >> That is not your ex. >> Submissive hand. >> This is AI, bro. This [ __ ] is AI, bro.
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Brian Atlas>> And so, look, uh, I got home from a long day podcasting. She had my dinner ready. She's scampering. I love when a woman scampers like that. Uh, very attractive. Cracks a beer open for me. My dinner's
07:49:00
Brian Atlasready to eat. I step home, you know. And, uh, I actually, you see those tomatoes? Those raw tomatoes there? I actually dumped her because of that. That was ridicul. How dare you? >> This is not your girl.
07:49:12
Brian Atlas>> One more time. The bow, Mary. Just the bow. Boom. As soon as I get home, I want a woman to hit a bow. >> And that's that's my >> This ain't Japan, bro.
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JocelynI I had a roommate. I had a roommate that was like that. She had a bum ass man and she did all the [ __ ] work for this man. >> W him. >> No, that [ __ ] was Oh my god. Can I be around that? But no, like
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Brian Atlas>> No, I'm saying W that he was doing nothing and getting everything. Good for him. >> I think for what you're looking for, you need to go travel somewhere like so find that. >> I'll have a white chick do. >> You got to be passport passport boys or
07:49:49
Millie Slaughtersomething doing that [ __ ] I'll have >> You don't see no white girl. No Asian girl. No black. >> Why don't you just hire a man? >> You're not going to find out a girlfriend. >> No, that is rent a girlfriend. >> I mean, >> rent a girlfriend. >> Yeah, like rent a J.
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Valerie>> Yeah, rent a girlfriend. >> You just made your percentage go even lower. >> That's right. >> You're paying the bills. >> You just go probably do that for >> Bro, I look >> I don't think she'll bow. >> Look, it's But how about this? Would you
07:50:14
Brian Atlasagree that a girl like the first like for some girls will [ __ ] right away? So my perspective is I'm Mr. Wholesome over here. I want a girl to cook and clean for me. But like y'all girls take issue
07:50:25
Brian Atlaswith what I just showed you. You'll have a man's [ __ ] deep down the back of your throat and I'm the bad guy. Sure will. What >> will y'all y'all will let a man come inside you? Come on on top of you.
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Brian Atlas>> Ain't nobody coming inside of me or on me. Okay. >> Shooting up the club. >> But like how you'll let a guy hit right away. You'll let a guy [ __ ] right away. You'll you'll suck and chuck and blah
07:50:50
Brian Atlasblah blah. Chug chug, I guess. Chug >> chug chug chug chug chug. >> But but somehow I'm the bad guy. I'm the bad guy because I just want a little wholesome laundry. >> But are you just want to bow? Are you
07:51:03
Brian Atlasdoing anything for her? You just want a bow is what you want. You want your [ __ ] to bow for you. >> Yes, I want the bow. It's a sign of respect. She respects me as a man. She she defers to my my authoritarian. >> So you just want you want an Asian
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Jocelynslave. That's what you want. Yeah, he does. You want an Asian slave that he just want Asian woman to him like that? >> You like you want your power trip stuff. >> It could be an Asian woman, but it could be a Latina woman. It could be a a white
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Valeriewoman. It could be >> You're emphasizing on bow. Who else is going to bow? >> Yeah. Who? Latinas don't bow to nobody. >> The bow. >> Black women don't bow to [ __ ] >> The only women that were that ever bowed
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Valeriefor anybody were the Asian like you embraced each other. No, no. Just being from like Hispanic. I mean, I can probably just like my family. >> You're going to bow, girl.
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Andrea>> No, she going to stab. We going to cook and clean. That's okay. We going to cook and clean for a man. >> I will I will say I do know a lot of like people especially like in my family like the men and the women, they do like
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AndreaCaucasians and they do treat them very nicely. >> Why we do that? Because they want some papers. Hey, >> so if you get somebody from Peru, they probably coming back.
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Brian Atlas>> I'm not going to share details, but let's just say uh you know, I I had a uh I I did have a Peruvian gal. I had a Mexican gal and uh bro, they did way more than that.
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Brian Atlas>> I had them doing >> I I can I believe that because I want them. >> Look, if a girl likes you, she'll do Come on. She'll do that. >> She'll do anything. >> She'll she'll Yeah. If a girl likes you, she'll >> she will do anything. >> But he's asking for our first date. I feel like because those girls didn't
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Andreahave the first date. >> I want everything >> until you presented it to him. He wants on the first date. >> I want it all. I want everything. >> He says day one we in love. We love. That's what I said. Day one he want that. But what? He don't even want to pay for the date.
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Brian Atlas>> Oh no. I Hold on. >> Some women are deserving of of that. I I wasn't just to be clear. I'm not saying men shouldn't do that. But uh yeah, like okay, if the if the girl's coming over,
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JocelynI'm taking care of everything, right? >> What does that mean? >> Door dash. Hold on. >> The Uber. >> The Uber. The Door Dash. >> What? >> Look, you guys got to understand I'm in
07:53:18
Brian Atlasa bit of an interesting dating situation. Uh, so for the past I've been doing the podcast for since
07:53:28
Brian Atlas2022. So that's I it's about three and a half years almost four years I've been doing the podcast. Uh, and to be clear, in that time period, I've shot my shot here and there. I've I've been the one
07:53:41
Brian Atlasto, you know, shoot my shot. When you shoot your shot, you have less leverage. It's it is harder to to uh get some of those things. However, when you have a popular podcast, uh when you have some
07:53:53
Brian Atlassome degree of clout when you're out there publicly, uh women will come to you. >> Yeah. >> And so I have the leverage. So if a woman approaches me, then I can dictate
07:54:04
Brian Atlasthe terms. I can I can you're the woman comes into my frame if she wants to be with me. And so I'm assuming if she watches the show, she has some sense of
07:54:14
Brian Atlasmy expectations. She has some sense of she she's probably seen that bow video. And so because of my situ most men are not going to be able to pull this off what I'm suggesting uh unless the girls
07:54:26
Brian Atlascoming unless the girls kind of come into them. Uh, if a girl comes to me, I'm I've got the all the leverage. >> Congratulations.