WORST PANEL EVER?! FERAL! Near KICKED OUT! ØF Girl "VlRGlN" Waiting For Marriage?! | Dating Talk 282
Date: 2026-02-16
Duration: 10h 05m
Identified Speakers
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Andrea(guest)
SPEAKER_04Valerie(guest)
SPEAKER_05Esther(guest)
SPEAKER_06Millie Slaughter(guest)
SPEAKER_09Stella(guest)
SPEAKER_11Lonnie(guest)
SPEAKER_12Jocelyn(guest)
SPEAKER_14Shara(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:10
IntroAll guests introduce themselves
01:33:13
ControversyBrian challenges Stella's claim of being Christian while doing OnlyFans
03:35:20
Key MomentLonnie reveals she was sex trafficked at age 20
04:24:08
Key MomentAndrea: ran over baby daddy 3 times with Kia Soul while 9 months pregnant
07:20:29
Key MomentLexi: at 17, boyfriend cheated on her with her biological mother
07:30:00
Key MomentMillie made ex unknowingly perform oral after she slept with someone else
08:24:00
ControversyShara critiques red pill ideology as damaging fear-mongering
10:04:30
OtherShow wraps. Brian announces upcoming debates.
Topics Discussed
00:00:10
Guest Introductions
Stella (OF/virgin/Christian), Jocelyn (actress/machete survivor), Esther (stripper/author), Lonnie (sex trafficked/Army), more.
01:33:13
Stella's Virginity vs Christianity vs OF
Extended debate: can she be Christian while doing OnlyFans? Brian cites Bible verses.
02:43:48
Valentine Day Stories
Who had sex, who is celibate, dating dynamics.
03:35:20
Lonnie Was Sex Trafficked
Sex trafficked at age 20, had a pimp.
04:24:08
Andrea Ran Over Baby Daddy
Ran him over 3 times with Kia Soul while 9 months pregnant. Posted him on Backpage with gay ads.
07:30:00
Bri Satanist DJ Throuple
Story from vid 9 context - Bri was on this episode too.
08:24:00
Red Pill Ideology Critique
Shara argues red pill creates fear-mongering about fertility and aging.
09:14:30
Trivia Failures
Valerie: 7 states in USA. Jenny thinks capital of France is Italy.
Transcript
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Brian AtlasWelcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape. I'm your host, Brian Atlas. Uh we're going to just jump right into the show. Sorry for the delay there, guys. Sorry we're a little late. Uh so go ahead and uh
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Stellaintroduce yourself. >> Hi, I'm Stella. Um, I recently quit Bikini Coffee and so I'm a full-time full-time OF girl. Um, I'm still in college for nursing, which is really
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Stellafun. Um, and I'm 19. >> 19. And uh, where are you from? >> Portland, Oregon. >> Grew up there. Like >> pretty much born in Texas. I'd love to go back and get a little warm weather,
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Stellabut I'm in Portland right now. >> Okay. All right. And uh, you said you're a a bikini, what is it? barista or >> for the last year I was working as a bikini barista. I have about two shifts
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Stellaleft before I um am done forever. >> And so what's that? You serve coffee in a bikini or how's that work? >> Yeah, it's such a Portland thing. So I just serve coffee in lingerie or a bikini. Yeah. >> And there's no nudity. >> No, just
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Jocelyn>> like >> it's like a normality, >> I guess. >> Yeah, like normal coffee. People come by, chitchat a little more than usual. >> What about you? >> Hi, I'm Jocelyn. I'm 27. I was born and
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Jocelynraised in Houston, Texas, but now I live in Los Angeles. >> Okay. >> Um, I'm an actress. I just left my hostess job in Calabasas yesterday, but >> you quit or
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Jocelyn>> I >> Bad terms, good terms. >> Um, I walked away from it gracefully u without burning bridges, but I did
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Jocelynleave because of management. >> Um, but I do have a psychology degree. Okay. From from where? >> UFH, University of Houston. >> A bachelor's, masters. >> Bachelor's.
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Esther>> Okay. Psychology degree. Um I want to come back to that a little bit later, but what about you? >> Hello, I'm Esther. I'm from Indiana, but I reside in Los Angeles. >> Where where from Indiana? >> Gary? It's a small town. It's called
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EstherBatesville. >> Gary, Indiana. >> No. >> No. Okay. Batesville. Uh you're how old? >> 28. >> 28. Yep. >> Okay. Uh what do you do for work? Um, I'm a stripper. I'm a musician and a
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Brian AtlasYouTuber. >> Okay. And uh you uh education >> high school and some college. >> Some college. What were you studying? >> No, I just went to college and high school. >> Took some credits. What about you?
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Lonnie>> Hi, my name is Lonnie, but y'all can call me Sinclair. Um, I'm 22. I am a high school graduate and I've been a
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Lonniedancer for like on and off like four years I would say. I also did some like online content within that time. Um >> yeah and then just like on my own type [ __ ] and then um >> type [ __ ]
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Lonnie>> Yeah. Sorry. I don't know if I didn't want I didn't want to like I wanted to like soft launch the [ __ ] but yeah I say [ __ ] a lot. Um other than that I was a server for a long time but yeah now I'm just dancing. And um >> when you say dancing you mean uh strip club?
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Lonnie>> Yeah. Okay. >> Like pull pull [ __ ] Um but I'm going uh I'm actually a future soldier for the army. So I'm going to be leaving soon. >> Oh, you you already would would it be enlisted? You already enlisted? >> No, I'm not. I have to I'm like swearing
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Valeriein this month, though. >> Okay. That's the term swear swearing in. Okay. >> Yeah. >> Uh for the army. >> Indeed. >> All right. Cool. >> Period. >> What about you? >> That was a long sigh before you said,
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Valerie"What about you?" >> Um I'm Valerie. I'm a music artist and I also have a clothing brand. I do e-commerce with Tik Tok shop. >> So you guys will probably see me on Tik Tok scrolling through.
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Andrea>> Age? >> I'm 24 and >> any college university? >> No college but I graduated. I graduated for sure. >> What about you?
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Andrea>> Hi, I'm Andrea and I am from the IE. Um I am 27 and occupation is I do
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Andreaum branding and content operations for a cannibis brand and then I also have a little regular job with the county. >> Okay. Uh so 27 and uh any college or
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Andreauniversity or anything? >> Yeah. Um I went to community college for a little bit but I did not finish. >> Okay. What about you?
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Millie Slaughter>> Hi, I'm Millie Slaughter. Uh, I'm a server. I'm a comedian. And I am also a co-host on a podcast called House Over
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Millie SlaughterBass. Uh, we do DNR. So, yeah, that's that's that's my life right now. >> DNR. Do not resuscitate. >> Yeah. No, >> that's what I was thinking. >> Dating and relationships.
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Brian Atlas>> Oh, dating and >> Wouldn't that be D? Dating and >> DNR. Well, and is >> a
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Millie Slaughter>> and a d apostrophe like a I guess. Okay. Age >> I am 29. >> Any college university? >> A lot of colleges. A lot of nothing
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Sharahappened. So, >> okay. What were you studying? >> Everything. Nothing. >> Yeah. I I want to do everything. So, >> uh what about you?
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Shara>> I'm Shara from Fbrook. Um I'm a singer and a songwriter. I also own a holistic spa and I'm 38 years old and I'm sorry for being late.
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Brian Atlas>> Oh. Uh well, I I appreciate the apology. She was uh >> you know, just a little late an hour late. Uh you know what though? I'll I'll explore that a little bit. >> A little bit later though. You get you
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Brian Atlasget a little bit of my wrath. You get a little bit of my wrath, but we'll talk about it. I appreciate the apology though. Okay. Uh thank you. Welcome everybody. Uh, really quick guys, we have a uh, quick sponsorship announcement. The world knows the legend
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Brian Atlasaround the table once more, uh, what's everybody's relationship status? Uh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. What's everyone's relationship status? Starting with you. >> I'm single. >> All right. How long you've been single
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Brian Atlasfor? >> Since high school. Uh, >> so you did have a boyfriend in high school then? Yeah. >> Okay. So, and you're 19. >> Yeah. >> So, what one year, two years you've been
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Stellasingle? >> Uh, I graduated at 17. So, two years. Okay. >> Or actually three. Sorry. >> Longest relationship. >> Um, it was just over a year. >> And that's the one that ended two to
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Stellathree years ago. >> Yeah. When I was like 16, so it wasn't serious. >> Okay. Gotcha. What about you? >> I'm happily single. >> Happily single. >> Yeah. >> Happily single. >> Say that. Uh, okay. How long you been single for?
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Jocelyn>> Two years. >> All right. Longest relationship? >> Three years. >> Three years. Is that the one that ended two years ago? >> Mhm. >> Okay. Who broke up with who? >> I broke up with him. >> Okay. Any particular reason? >> I think we just wanted different things
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Jocelynin life and he wasn't going to break up with me so I broke up with him. So, yeah. >> Okay. No cheating or anything like that? >> No. >> Okay. Just Yeah. Uh, single for two.
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Brian AtlasHappily single though. Uh, so yesterday was Valentine's Day, which is a topic we're gonna focus on a little bit once we get through everyone's relationship status. Did you have a Valentine yesterday? >> No, myself. >> No Valentine date. And then what about
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Brian Atlasyou? Did you have a Valentine? >> No, I worked. So I did get a lot of flowers. >> Okay. Um, so but when you say happily single, uh, what does that mean? Cuz you didn't just say single, you said happily
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Jocelynsingle. >> Not actively dating. And I just like being in my own company, taking myself out. >> Okay. When's the last time you were on a date? >> I want to say last March. >> So about a year ago.
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Brian Atlas>> About a year ago. >> Now, sometimes though, when we use the term date, people will only categorize a other a romantic hangout with a man, but not considered a date. So when I use the
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Brian Atlasword date, I mean it perhaps less formally, a bit more casually. I mean it more in the sense of you have hung out and spent time with a guy oneon-one who you
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Jocelynhave an interest in and there's a mutual interest. Does that shift the time period of when you last had a date? >> No, that was my last conscious date like where I agree. >> Have you had an unconscious
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Jocelyn>> where? Yeah. Like where it's like oh >> you're just sleepwalking into >> Well, where it's like I'm thinking like we're just hanging out or >> does anybody sleepwalk by the way? >> I sleep eat. I have before I sleptw walk I actually sleptwalked before and I was
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Brian Atlaslike >> sleep sexers >> I've done that >> but I folded clothes in my sleep before. >> Wow that's >> that's awesome. >> Yeah it's like get get through that >> when I was married I did >> but uh you have not consciously dated uh
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Brian Atlasfor a year. >> Mhm. >> Did you So did you like fall into a date accidentally? Cuz sometimes girls will like meet up with a guy thinking like not knowing it's a date and then the guy's like surprised it's a date. No,
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Jocelynthis one he asked me out. He gave me three options. An adventure, chill, or an activity. So, I chose an adventure and he took me to San Diego for our first date. And so, we spent the whole day together. >> Oh, yeah.
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Jocelyn>> Or what? >> San Diego, like the aquarium, Lafayette Hotel. >> Okay. >> Yeah. So, >> and you took the How did you get there? >> The train. Book a train. >> That was the last date you ever went on? >> Yes. It was just a lot. So,
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Jocelyn>> that's a pretty high effort. >> That's what I was saying. That's why I took a year later. >> But so what what happened? >> I mean, it was fun. It was, you know, platonic, but I knew he was really into me. And by the time it was the end of
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Jocelynthe date where we had to go back on the train, I had to like awkwardly break it to him like, "We're not doing this again." But he he went all in. He like got a hotel. Got a good day. He like
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JocelynYeah. A whole day. >> Got a Did you you guys spent the night? >> No. He probably thought that was going to happen, but I was like, take his back. >> But you said he got a hotel. >> He did. >> So, was the plan for you guys to spend
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Jocelynthe night there? >> He was saying that, oh, like I always spend time in San Diego, so I have this like room always available to me. And I'm like, okay. But we ended up just
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Brian Atlasleaving my bag there and then like continued our day. We didn't spend any time in the hotel. >> And then So, he took you to the aquarium. Did he buy you dinner? >> Yes. Multiples. Yeah, >> multiple. >> Yeah, we had two dinners.
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Jocelyn>> Two dinners. >> Yeah, >> it was just one date. >> Exactly. >> It was basically a day trip together for our first date. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And so why didn't it cuz you said when
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Brian Atlasyou got back on the train, >> you that was the last time you were going to see him. Like so why? >> I wasn't attracted to him. When you know >> now, but how you said you like you knew
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Brian Atlasthis guy. How did you meet him today? >> At a bar two days before. >> Oh, a bar two days before. Okay. >> Oh, man. >> So, wait, you did meet him in person? >> Yes. >> How when you met him at the bar the two days prior, how long had you guys conversed?
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Brian Atlas>> Maybe like 2 hours. >> Oh, two hours at the bar. >> I like it. I think so. >> So, you didn't you were Were you attracted to him at the bar? >> It was night time, I guess. Maybe >> it was dark. >> Maybe he was just nice. I think he was
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Brian Atlasjust nice. I'm like, you know what? Let's get this nice guy a chance. >> Yeah. >> Oh, he was nice. So, he treated you well. It wasn't like he was a jerk or >> No, no, no. He was nice. >> Like, so would you say the date the There wasn't >> He wasn't being weird or anything. It
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Brian Atlasjust >> No, it was just very overly excited. >> He was overly excited. >> He was too nice. This is going to tie in perfectly with our Valentine's conversation, but um but so on the train ride back and just one point of
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Brian Atlasclarification, you had originally intended or at least he had originally intended for you guys to stay there >> probably. >> But then you were like, "Oh, I want to go home." >> I was like, "When's the last train back
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Brian Atlasto LA?" He's like, "9, well, we got to catch that train." >> We So, did he stay in San Diego or did he >> No, he left with me. >> And how long is the train? Like an hour? >> 2 hours. >> 2 hours. Now, question. You said on the train ride, you're like, "Hey, there's not going to be another
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> meet. Did you say that at the end of the train ride or at the beginning of the train ride?" >> In the middle of the train ride. >> So, there was another additional hour of awkwardness. >> Let us sit with it a little bit. >> Why? You should have just I mean,
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Jocelyn>> I like that. >> You could have saved that [ __ ] for later. >> But then I had to But then we went to Union Station and then I would drive and then I drove him to his >> spot like Yeah. >> Yeah. But it's like
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Brian Atlas>> so this is like >> but why say it in the middle of the date? Like why why not just be like >> I'm not saying you had to like continue anything with the guy, but you could have just been like all the the way it
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Brian Atlasplayed out you having told him in the middle of the train ride. You could have everything would have been the same, but you could have told him like after you know >> I was just like let's just do it.
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Brian Atlas>> Like if you went like if if uh let's say that >> adventurous she's adventurous. Like >> she's like she knows what she wants when she wants it. >> Exactly. >> Like how about this? Like let's say you
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Brian Atlasand me were married and then we went to Hawaii or some [ __ ] like for I don't know and then like as soon as we land in Hawaii I'm like hey by the way we're getting a divorce.
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Brian Atlas>> I feel like even if the plan even if the plan like I'm going to divorce you I think it's like well I guess we can [ __ ] a few more times in Hawaii, you know? Like I feel like you got to wait until
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Brian Atlasthe vacation's over. >> No, I'm finding someone else on that vacation. >> If you're married, that's ridiculous. >> No, I feel like you wait. You wait. Timing, you know, timing. Hey, look, I
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Brian Atlasknow timing. It's never a good time to let some reject somebody, I guess, right? But uh or to break up with somebody. The timing is never perfect, but >> cuz I feel like you should have waited a little bit. >> Like in the car, it's like awkward. >> It would have been awkward. >> It's only awkward if you make it
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Lonnieawkward. >> Exactly. Exactly. Awkwardness is a choice. >> Different embarrassment is a choice. >> It's only awkward if you make it up. >> That shit's all optional, bro. >> That's like imagine you're about to get murdered by like a serial killer. It's
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Brian Atlasonly awkward if you make it. >> Was my fit hard though? Was my fit hard though? >> He wasn't sad. No, >> it's a little awkward. You got to play your part. >> He's got me tied up to a table about to harvest my organs. Bit awkward.
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Andrea>> It's not true cuz like sometimes like nice guys like they'll rather be your friend and wait until you're ready. So like he could have like made it cool. I could see that for you. >> Anyways, I don't know. But that's interesting.
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Valerie>> And he probably knew you had to you had to take him home, too. So he was trying to play it cool also. >> Oh, she's my ride. >> She's my ride. I got to play smart. >> If he's a a mature guy, even though the
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Brian Atlastiming perhaps wasn't perfect, you're not going to you're just going to I mean, it's un ideal timing, but you're not going to blow up the entire
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Brian Atlasremaining trip back. But uh yeah. Um, okay. So, that's interesting. Um, uh, so you've been single for a year. Have there been any guys in the picture
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Brian Atlasat all in any capacity? >> Two. What does that mean? >> Two years. >> Oh, wait. You've been Sorry. You've been single for two years. Yeah. Yeah. But,
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Brian Atlasuh, I guess since the date since that date, because you said the last time you went on a date was about a year ago. Yeah. So, in the past year, I guess you could say, have there been any other guys in the picture? Yeah. >> What does that mean?
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Jocelyn>> Like hookups or anything? >> No, I like I like musicians. >> Musicians. >> Yeah. So, you know, when you're in LA, you be bumping into all the rappers, all these rappers. Which rapper?
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Jocelyn>> I'm not saying no name rappers. >> Um, but you know, like the musicians, >> are they white rappers, black rappers, Latino rappers? Most >> POC. Yeah. >> People of color rappers.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Okay. And so you've bumped into and had situation situation with some rappers. >> Yeah. Musicians. Yeah.
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Jocelyn>> Musicians. >> Um and when you meet them, it's what? Like at a bar, club party. >> Yeah. Like jazz clubs, bars. >> Are you on? >> No, I don't know what that is. >> Is it someone we might all know?
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JocelynProbably. >> You meet rappers. Kendrick. >> No. >> I hope not. Ken Jake. >> Kanye. No. >> Little Pump.
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Millie Slaughter>> No. >> I don't know. I'm not really a rap guy. >> No. He was like really >> Wait, you meet rappers at jazz clubs? >> I have LA. >> But rappers rappers be going to jazz clubs trying to find beats or what?
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Brian Atlas>> That's where the best musicians are, bro. They probably chasing buns, bro. >> Bad bunny. Who liked Just curious, just curious about it. Who liked his Super Bowl halftime performance? Show of hands. >> I didn't watch that. >> Raise them high.
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Brian Atlas>> I thought Bad Bunny was a girl until the Super Bowl. Was it good? >> Yeah. Look, I gotta be honest. Look, we're not going We're not >> disrespect. >> I did not like I watched that [ __ ] That was so [ __ ] bad. It was so bad. It
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Brian Atlaswas honestly probably could have been one of the worst. >> I mean, I like I seen the clip where he pulled out all the like Latino flags. I [ __ ] with that. >> What's that? But I'm talking when I say it was bad, I'm talking about the quality of the music. >> Where were you raised? Do you even know what was raised?
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Millie Slaughter>> Yeah. Where were you raised? Like >> California. I'm from California. >> Okay. Cuz like a lot of people don't understand the Super Bowl because of where they were raised. Like you you got to be raised into that culture. >> It has a lot of like symbolism in it.
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Brian Atlas>> Raised in what culture? >> In the Latino culture. You got to be raised. I mean, I don't know what Wait, hold on. Hold on. >> A taco spot doesn't count. No, >> there's there's Spanish music that I
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Brian Atlaslike and enjoy and I think it has good rhythm and it has good melody or whatever. Uh, look, Bad Bunny is so lacking and frankly and lacking in talent. I don't know how this guy's actually popular. He is popular. Maybe
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Brian Atlasthat's a indictment of these sort of cultural and social zeitgeists that currently exist. But in any case, completely talentless guy. Um, >> don't talk about that. He made it to the
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ValerieSuper Bowl. So, I love I think you're able to keep your face while you're doing this bit. >> It's not. Uh, >> so I mean ultimately what what I'm talking about here. >> He don't like boritos, bro.
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Lonnie>> What's that? >> Nah, he's with us. >> He likes Katy Perry. That's why >> that's like Mexican that Mexican music. >> Oh, yeah. >> That's what Bad Bunny is, right? Like
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Brian Atlaswith rap, you know? >> So, I'm saying his particular music. Oh, it's like Gaton. >> Can Can you stop interrupting, please? >> So, I'm saying his music I think is not particularly good.
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Brian Atlas>> I don't think his music music is good. >> Do you know what he's saying? >> Uh, no. >> Do you know what it means? >> I don't speak Spanish, but I mean, I actually did look I translated the uh
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Brian Atlasthe the lyrics from the halftime show and I think the first one is uh I have a lot of girlfriends. I'm gonna take them
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Brian Atlasto the VIP VIP which says AA oy that's what all those songs VIP VIP >> and it's like >> that's like rap >> just yeah it's like rap
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Brian Atlas>> do you like there there's some rappers who I think are talented um and who have good melody I think if you look at Eminem >> you you look at Eminem he's extremely
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Brian Atlastalented um so and there's plenty of other rap artists but yeah I mean and it has nothing to do again and you're trying to make it about like the culture
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Brian Atlasor whatever. No, there's rap artists or whatever that I enjoy. His m his music's just terrible to be honest. >> I have a question. >> You like what you like >> Eminem? Everybody got an opinion?
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Brian Atlas>> Do you like country music? >> Uh, not particularly. I mean, >> I could name you more rappers and hip-hop artists than I can name country artists. But I I don't dislike country.
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Brian AtlasThere's some country I like, but I mean my music tastes are more like 80s or sorry, not 80s, 90s. I mean, look, there's some 80s stuff that's really good. 90s and 2000ish.
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Brian AtlasThat's that's more my speed. >> Um, more rock music typically, but I like other genres, too. But yeah, his the actual music's pretty bad.
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Millie Slaughter>> It just makes sense cuz like uh Spanish music is more like country. like they talk about drinking and ladies and heartbreak like country music. So when people say that they don't like Spanish
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Brian Atlasmusic but they like country music, I get confused cuz it's kind of the same thing just in a different font, you know? >> Well, you you do realize regardless of the subject or topic of the song, there's other components of the song
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Brian Atlasbesides the actual topic of the song or the things brought up in the song. Like for example, you would agree that there's some love songs that are really good and
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Brian Atlasthen some love songs that are [ __ ] dog [ __ ] So it's not about well he's talking about these things. That's not my criticism. My criticism is about the quality of the music itself. >> What do you What do you feel makes a
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Valeriesong? >> Well, I would say for example, what do I feel makes a song? >> Yeah. Do you feel like it's the melodies or do you feel like it's the lyrics that are written in the song? cuz I'm trying to figure out like what you're against as far as like Bad Bunny's music. Is it
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Valeriethe melodies that he has? Cuz obviously you don't understand his lyrics. Or maybe you'll look up the lyrics and you'll think they're BS and you're like, "Oh, but his melodies." >> Yeah. It's not even my criticism really.
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Brian AtlasMy criticism uh and again, I can tell you there there's music in other languages that I enjoy. Like I can enjoy there's there's songs in Spanish that I
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Brian Atlasfind really nice. Sure. Uh so it's not about the mis not understanding the lyrics. Uh it's just I mean look the the actual lyrical quality is quite poor. Uh
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Valeriebut I would also >> but I think I think for Hispanic people they read it or they listen to it differently than we do. >> You understand? Because I I don't know Spanish. I don't know Spanish either.
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Valerie>> So I feel like a person that knows and understands Spanish, they listen to the music differently than we do. Uh, okay. Sure. >> Because that's fine. >> I'm gonna listen to this song from Bad Bunny and I will know anything he's
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Brian Atlassaying, but the melody is fine. >> I can ask you this. So, um, and you might say this is a bit of an extreme example. If we go, if we fast forward, uh, 50 years, do you think that they're still going to be listening to Michael Jackson? >> I hope so. >> Yes.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Do you think they'll be listening to the Beatles? >> I godamn hope so. >> Uh, do you think in 50 years people are going to be listening to Bad Bunny? >> Absolutely. [ __ ] He has a huge fan base.
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Brian Atlas>> Nobody's going to know. You could take an 18-year-old and play them Michael Jackson and they're going to be like, "That's [ __ ] amazing." In 50 years from now, you you play them bad. >> Okay. But did you look at the numbers for the Super Bowl as well? For the
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Valeriepeople that were watching Michael Jackson Super Bowl and the people that were watching the Bad Bunny Super Bowl, >> did you check the data on that? >> Yeah. No. So, I've seen that. So, a lot of people like it. Um, do you think just
00:23:47
Brian Atlasbecause a lot of pe people uh like something that that is actually representative of the quality of the music? Like a lot of people like fast food and junk food, does that mean that the food >> you could say you like you like a hot
00:23:59
Valeriedog and all you guys like a hot dog, but I don't like this hot dog from this place cuz I think it's crap. And maybe cuz I have better quality taste of food because I'm from somewhere else separately where you guys are cuz maybe you guys grew up in an area where they
00:24:11
Brian Atlasserve crappy hot dogs and that's the best hot dog that you can find. Are you pro-choice or pro-life? >> Pro-choice or pro-life? >> Prochoice. >> Okay. Um, so h I'm wondering if I would reframe this.
00:24:23
Millie Slaughter>> I mean, McDonald's is still open. So, if you're talking about businesses and everything, like McDonald's is [ __ ] but it's still open. People still go,
00:24:34
Brian Atlasbut that that doesn't mean that they're actually giving you typically quality food. Um, and the Well, there's a whole other conversation to be had. It's what? >> They say it's fresh. >> They're lying. >> I mean, they might be lying, but people
00:24:48
Brian Atlasstill >> Well, how about this? Let me ask you. If like 97% of people were cool with pedophilia, would that make it okay? >> Okay, this is that's a completely
00:24:59
Brian Atlassubject. >> Answer the question. So, if uh 97% of people were like, you know what, this crime is okay, but this is a harmful thing compared to something that is not harmful. You got to compare something
00:25:11
Valeriethat's harmful compared to something that may also be harmful. >> It's completely funny performing in the Super Bowl and having more people watch him than Michael Jackson, which I'm not. I love Michael Jackson, by the way. >> So then is he better than Michael Jackson? >> No, he's not better any better than
00:25:24
ValerieMichael Jackson. They're in their own lane. That's what that's what separates the two. Bad like it's about separate It's about separating the two though. I think where
00:25:34
Valerieyou what you lack is you don't know how to separate the two. That's the thing. Separate what? >> Separate the two as far as like genre wise. You're asking me if Bad Bunny is better than Michael Jackson. I can't say
00:25:47
Valeriethat he is. >> I can't say that he is because they're not they're not even the same genre. If I was to say um I don't know who else is another artist similar to Bad. That's why they win separate Grammys for different categories.
00:26:00
Brian Atlas>> Well, the Grammys are a [ __ ] scam. But tell me >> tell me um >> why do you think the Grammys are a scam? That shit's controlled by money. >> He attempted to sing. Whatever that was, he was attempting
00:26:12
Lonnie>> and he then he's not a singer. >> No, but he was just a rapper. He was singing or attempting to sing. >> He didn't as good as he could. >> Moral of the story, Bad Buddy mid and a
00:26:23
Lonnielot of us don't even listen to him. So there that settles that. But a lot of people >> Sorry. So a lot of people like him though. Okay. So he's valid. He's Hey, he made it to the halftime show. That's a that's a win. >> No. Hey, >> a win is a win. All my Hispanics stand up in the chat.
00:26:36
Brian Atlas>> Just to be clear, >> Bad Bunny's amazing. >> Okay, just to be clear, I'm not I'm not deny >> I'm Hispanic. I'm allowed to say I never listen to Bad Bunny. So, I don't know how that works. >> Can you guys if I'm talking like detect
00:26:48
Brian Atlasthat I'm talking and just let me get through what I'm saying. >> Of course, he is widely popular in the sense that a lot of people listen to him. It's really good for his career that he scored the Super Bowl. That's a
00:27:01
Brian Atlashuge achievement. In fact, my understanding is he did like uh he was in a previous Super Bowl, too. He wasn't like the the headliner, but he like did an appearance. I think it was a couple years ago. Uh that's huge. That's huge.
00:27:13
Brian AtlasHe's super rich. A lot of people like him. Uh but got to be honest, his music's kind of his music's dog [ __ ] Okay, there it is. That's all I have to say.
00:27:25
Valerie>> Well, if I was Bad Bunny, I wouldn't really give a crap what you say because I would have way more money than you. So, >> okay. >> He probably looking at this and laughing. >> He's probably not looking at it at all. >> At all. >> At all.
00:27:39
Andrea>> At all. >> But if you are VIP, he's in the VIP right now. He's not looking at the VIP. VIP. >> No, it is what it is. >> Wait, what did Chris Brown say? How
00:27:49
Brian Atlascould you hate from outside the club? >> Anyways, um, okay. I'll know how we got to the Bad Bunny thing. We were talking about your dating >> life and then >> perfect.
00:28:01
Brian Atlas>> Oh, musicians. >> Yeah. Um Oh, yeah. You're dating musicians. Uh yeah, >> imagine it's Bad Bunny. We're just talking. >> Imagine it.
00:28:13
Brian Atlas>> That was crazy. >> He's one of my girlfriends or whatever. Um I don't know how we got to Bad Bunny, but anyways, moving off of Bad Bunny. Um so, okay, you uh question though. your
00:28:25
Jocelynyour musician guys that you hook up with or whatever. >> Um, what do you mean? >> No, I don't give the cookie up crumbs. I just talk to them and have a good time. No, it's true. True. They could never. >> They could never. >> They could never. Okay. All right. Uh,
00:28:38
Brian Atlaswell, we'll continue with the relationship status then. What about you? >> I'm single. >> Single. How long you been single for? >> Like two years at least. >> Single for two years. Yep. >> Okay. Longest relationship?
00:28:50
Brian Atlas>> Three years. >> Three years. Okay. All right. What about you? >> I'm single. >> How long you've been single for? >> Um, wait. Four years. >> Four years. Longest relationship?
00:29:02
Lonnie>> It I think three and a half years or four years. >> All right. Three and a half. >> So that was like a high school relationship then. >> Oo. Yeah. >> Okay. >> I had I've only had two boyfriends and they were both like in high school and
00:29:15
Brian Atlasthen like a little bit after. >> No boyfriends in the past four years. >> No. >> Okay. Don't you normally have like piercings here? >> Yeah, I used to have a ton of piercings. I took them all out. >> Do you have a septum? You took them all out. >> You can't have that [ __ ] in the military. >> Oh, okay. I see.
00:29:27
Valerie>> For real? For real? >> All right. Uh, relationship status? >> Single. Um, it's been 5 years. My last relationship lasted about 2 and 1/2 years. >> Okay. So, you're you're 24, so like at 19.
00:29:41
Valerie>> Yeah. >> Was your last Okay. So, that was kind of a high school relationship, too. >> So, what have you met in high school? Maybe. >> Actually, no. No. No. I am No, I am 24. My last relationship had to be about like four years ago actually.
00:29:55
Andrea>> Okay. >> Yeah, about four years. >> Was that you? >> Um I am in a situationship. >> Okay. Uh how for how long?
00:30:05
Brian Atlas>> Who knows? You know, it's complicated. >> Okay. Uh how long? How about this? When did you meet him? Um,
00:30:21
Brian Atlas>> stop the cap. >> Didn't mean to press the first one, but okay. >> One eternity later. >> You sure you didn't smoke weed before the show? You
00:30:32
Andrea>> No, >> you're just perma baked. >> Crazy work. >> Probably. >> How you smoke a lot of the weed? >> Do you dab? Do you do dabs? >> I do dab. That explains that I did
00:30:44
Brian Atlasshrooms yesterday. >> Oh, you did shrooms yesterday. All right. Okay. How long has it been complicated then? >> Um, for a while. Like I got a man. He just get on my nerves.
00:30:55
Brian Atlas>> So you you have a man currently. >> Yeah, it's a situationship. Sometimes I sometimes I don't. >> It's currently February 15th, 2026. When did you meet him?
00:31:09
Brian Atlas>> Let's give it like um cuz I'm going to tell on myself. >> One eternity later. >> What? What do you mean tell on yourself?
00:31:19
AndreaHow so? >> Um, okay. Let's say like four years. >> Four years ago you met him? >> Yeah. >> So, okay. You've been with him for four
00:31:31
Brian Atlasyears then. Even though it's complicated. I understand that. >> Sure. Yes. >> Well, not sure. What's the Can you just >> Yes. >> Come on, man. It's like pulling teeth here. Four. Have Have you been seeing him for 4 years?
00:31:44
Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> Okay. So, you say it's complicated. It's a situationship. Do you have kids with him? >> No. >> Do you have any kids? >> Yes. >> How many kids? >> Two. >> Uh, one baby daddy, two baby daddies?
00:31:58
Brian Atlas>> Two. >> Two different fathers. Okay. Uh, but the current guy who you've been with for four years, not one of the fathers of the kids. Is that correct?
00:32:14
Andrea>> Uh, no. No. >> You don't know who the biological father of your kids are? >> I didn't say I don't know. I said no.
00:32:27
Brian Atlas>> Well, it took you like 10 seconds to arrive at a No. >> I feel like I just heard a secret. >> Like, watch. Check this.
00:32:36
Andrea>> It's cuz he's like all like asking all these details. I felt like she >> It's a [ __ ] dating podcast. Hello. >> No, it's cuz like I know people are going to watch this and I'm just like it felt like an interrogation that I just watched right now.
00:32:48
Brian Atlas>> Oh, you think cuz Okay. Um >> Well, the questions aren't done. >> Go ahead. >> Uh okay. So, how old are your kids? >> Um I have a seven-year-old and I have an almost 2-year-old.
00:33:00
Brian Atlas>> 2-year-old. So, the guy who it's complicated with, you've been with for four years, but you have a 2-year-old. I met him four years ago. >> You met him four Well, >> it's been That's why it's complicated. >> You met him Well, you met him four years
00:33:12
Brian Atlasago. I understand sometimes people have periods where they're not seeing somebody. They break up. They're seeing somebody else. They get back together, but um so, okay, he is not the father. The guy
00:33:24
Brian Atlaswho it's currently been complicated with for four years, he is not the father of your youngest child. >> Okay. Did Did he think he was?
00:33:37
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Oh, okay. Um, so can you give me the timeline here? Because it's been complicated with this guy for four years. You have a child
00:33:47
Brian Atlasthat's you said about 2 years old. That means about 3 years ago you got pregnant by a different man. >> So you met this guy four years ago. So
00:33:59
Brian Atlaswere you like seeing him for a year and then y'all broke up? What's What's Give me the timeline. >> No, he was um my friend um >> that you met four years ago. >> Yeah.
00:34:10
Brian Atlas>> Okay. How about this? Prior to you getting pregnant from the other guy, had you had sex? >> No. >> With the guy who it's currently complicated with? >> No.
00:34:22
Brian Atlas>> Really? >> Yeah. >> Okay.
00:34:29
Brian AtlasUm so you met him. How did you meet him? The guy you're currently with? >> Mutuals. Mutual people. >> So you guys were just friends for four year, excuse me, not four years for for
00:34:43
Brian Atlasone year. >> We weren't like talking all the time. >> But you were just friends. >> Something like that. >> What do you mean something like I don't What do you mean something like that? >> Like
00:34:57
Brian Atlasyou know, >> look, if you [ __ ] him, you [ __ ] him. Whatever. I I've Huh. >> I didn't. >> Well, you've [ __ ] him since cuz you're with him, right? >> Um since Yeah. >> Right. Cuz you're afterwards.
00:35:10
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Okay. So, okay. You met him four years ago. The guy who you who's the father of your most recent kid, the 2-year-old. How long were you dating him?
00:35:23
Brian Atlas>> Or with him? Were you married or ever been married? >> Yes. >> How many marriages? >> One. Was it with the uh the father of one of your children? The first ch child or the
00:35:34
Brian Atlassecond child? >> Um the first >> Okay. You're married to the How long were you married to him? >> Um less than a year. >> Less than one year. Okay. Does he pay you child support? The first father? >> No.
00:35:48
Brian Atlas>> Alimony? >> No. >> He doesn't pay you any child support? >> No. He >> Do you have c Do you have custody of your kid? >> Yeah, both of them. >> Soul custody? >> Both of them? Yes. through the court or informally >> through the courts.
00:36:01
Brian Atlas>> Okay. No child support >> from neither. >> Interesting. Uh okay. So then how long were you dating the father of your second child? >> Um
00:36:14
Andrea>> into the mic, please. >> Sorry. Um >> Mary, can you keep an eye on that? >> Before I got pregnant, it was like about a year. >> Okay. Okay. So, you're with him for a
00:36:26
Brian Atlasyear, then you got pregnant, then you >> We broke up when I was pregnant. >> Broke up while you were pregnant. Okay, I see. And then when So, okay. You were
00:36:38
Brian Atlasfriends with the currently complicated guy. When did you start seeing, dating, hanging out with, hooking up with current It's complicated guy?
00:36:52
Brian AtlasWhile you were pregnant? >> No. after uh Okay. So, when >> like after my baby like turned one.
00:37:05
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Like right after >> Okay. So, you've been the guy it's currently complicated with. You've been seeing him for a year about >> about.
00:37:16
Brian Atlas>> But it's complicated. Have you said I love you to him? >> Uh yes. >> Okay. Um, do you guys live together? >> No.
00:37:27
Andrea>> Okay. When's the last time you saw him? >> Yesterday. >> Okay. You saw him yesterday. Why is it complicated then? >> Because uh we got a lot of stuff going on.
00:37:39
Andrea>> Like what? >> Like stuff. Like a lot of personal stuff going on. That's why it's complicated.
00:37:49
AndreaUm, are you guys on again, off again? >> Um, we have like a lot of obstacles, so
00:37:59
Andreawe be feeling like it's not good for us to be in a relationship, >> but like we can't stay away from each other, you know? It's like one of those >> Okay, so you guys cracked yesterday. >> Yeah.
00:38:11
Andrea>> So, I can't stay away from each other. >> Yeah, we're not good for each other. >> We're not good for each other, but Okay. Okay. Um, >> complicated. You've known him for four
00:38:24
Brian Atlasyears. >> So, but you've only been intimate seeing each other for about one year. >> Yeah. >> Two years. >> One. >> One year. Okay. What's the longest
00:38:36
Brian Atlasrelationship you've ever had? >> Like four years. >> Sorry. Four years, you said? >> Yeah. >> Four years. Okay. >> All right. Um, do you anybody else have kids over here? >> Me. >> Okay, we'll get to you in just a sec.
00:38:50
Brian AtlasReally quick, I just wanted to go around the table. Proud. Uh, orient. What's that? Probably >> proud. No, I said proud mama. >> Cuz she said me. >> She said me. >> Uh, orientation. >> Straight. >> Straight. Pansexual.
00:39:03
Brian Atlas>> Pansexual. >> Yeah, I think I think that's what >> [ __ ] your [ __ ] dishwear. Um, what about you? >> I don't know if I want to answer that to be honest. I'm kind of confused right
00:39:14
Lonnienow. But I would I would say I'm queer, but I don't know if I'm okay with that. >> Wait, what? When you say you're not okay with that, what do you mean? >> Like my whole life I've I've been queer and I've like known it and I was like I
00:39:27
LonnieI called myself bisexual for a long time and I have been with women and stuff, but like I feel like recently I've just had a lot of conviction about it and I haven't even like I don't have attraction to women anymore at all ever since I like started praying about it.
00:39:40
Brian AtlasSo I don't know. >> Praying about it. Oh. Uh, you're Christian. >> I am Christian, >> but you're also a stripper. >> Yep. Life is a paradox. >> We'll go. Okay. Well, uh, what how long have you been Christian?
00:39:52
Lonnie>> I've been Christian um, I mean I was raised Christian, so my whole life, but I was uh, like I was not a believer since I was like the age of 12. And then I like
00:40:05
Lonniediscovered like different religions and kind of did my own research. And then I came back to Christianity actually like 2 years ago or a year ago. >> Okay. Yeah. All right. Yeah, we can we
00:40:15
Brian Atlascan jump into some of that. So queer, pans or no, you're sorry. You're pansexual. Queer. >> I would say debating the the label bisexual. >> I want to be straight so bad is what I
00:40:28
Brian Atlasthink. I want to be straight so bad. >> You find women attractive? >> Yes, indeed. I think I >> Have you Have you dated women? >> Yes. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Okay. All right. Uh, okay. So, uh, all
00:40:39
Valerieright. Uh, orientation, >> I would say by with the right female. >> Okay. >> With the right one. >> Orientation. >> Um, I'm like her. Like, I started being religious, so I stopped I stopped
00:40:51
Brian Atlastalking girls. >> But you you previously had dated or been with women. Okay. What about you? >> I'm bisexual. >> Okay. Bye. And then your relationship
00:41:01
Millie Slaughterstatus? Oh, I am single, but if you think I'm talking to you, I probably am. >> Wait, sorry. Repeat that. >> I love that. >> I'm single, but if you think we're
00:41:11
Brian Atlasdating, we probably are. >> It's like I don't have a I don't I'm single. I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a girl who would be very mad if she
00:41:21
Brian Atlasheard me say that. Uh, okay. So, you're single. Uh, longest relationship? >> Uh, 10 years. >> With a man or a woman? >> A man. >> 10 years. >> Mhm. Uh when did that how long you been
00:41:33
Millie Slaughtersingle for? >> Um so my last relationship I got out of in June cuz it was like hella toxic. Crazy crazy. And uh >> seven so what? I think that's seven
00:41:45
Brian Atlaseight months or so. >> You got out of it. Was that the 10-year one that ended? >> No, that wasn't the 10-year one. That was like um from the November before that to June.
00:41:57
Brian Atlas>> Does that make sense? Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. When did the 10-year one end? Um, the 10-year one ended like >> like probably what a >> like four years ago. >> Four years ago. Okay. >> Oh, wait. >> Yeah.
00:42:09
Brian Atlas>> So, this is a high school like 15, 16 to 25, 26. >> Mhm. >> Okay. Who broke up with who? >> My ex-husband. Uh, divorce. Yeah. >> Just one marriage. >> Just one marriage. >> Like throughout your life?
00:42:23
Millie Slaughter>> Mhm. >> Uh, and you have kids? >> I have two [ __ ] Yes. >> How old? Um, one is six and one is four. I have a girl and a boy. >> Okay. And I'm assuming both from your
00:42:36
Millie Slaughterex-husband >> vagina. Oh, yes. Yes. >> Crazy. >> You're going to ask me if it's like a C-section or like >> through my vag vaginal area. >> I definitely need to know that.
00:42:48
Brian Atlas>> Sorry. Uh, >> what was the question? >> No, that was good. Um, but it's it's from both of them are share the same father. >> Oh, yes. >> Okay.
00:43:00
Millie Slaughter>> But they don't look alike. >> Oh, okay. So, maybe share the same father. >> No, they do. But they just I had two of them in different fonts. Like a one's
00:43:08
Millie Slaughterbrown, one's white. Cuz I like that. >> What race is your ex-husband? >> Like you vanilla. Like I like my >> vanilla as [ __ ] Okay.
00:43:19
Brian Atlas>> White guy. >> Easy. White chocolate.
00:43:25
Brian AtlasOkay. Uh, let's see. Okay. So, 10 years. >> I like me a white man. Mhm. >> I'm trying to think if there's something else I wanted to ask on this. >> Yikes. What the [ __ ]
00:43:38
Shara>> Excuse me. >> That's so [ __ ] disgusting. >> What about you? >> I'm engaged and I have uh two boys. Um, one is four.
00:43:50
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Okay. Uh, two boys. You've been married before? >> No. >> Okay. Uh, are the the kids from the same father? >> Yes. >> Okay. Uh, but now you're dating a
00:44:03
Brian Atlasdifferent man. You're engaged to him. How long have you been with him total? >> Four years. >> Four years. Longest relationship? >> Seven. >> Is that the one with the children? >> No. >> Okay. How long was the relationship with the children?
00:44:16
Brian Atlas>> Five. >> Five years. Does he pay you child support? um define child support >> uh financial money paid for the benefit of the children. I don't
00:44:29
Brian Atlasunderstand. Does he send you money essentially >> when he feels like it? >> Okay. So you don't have a formal court ordered child support. >> We do. We do. He just doesn't obey it. >> Classic. >> What's he do for work? Well, I don't
00:44:42
Sharathink it's classic, but what's he do for work? >> He is a business owner. He alleges that he is not a business owner, though. that he is unemployed. >> How long has this been litigated in the
00:44:53
Brian Atlascourt? >> For many, many, many years. >> I mean, usually they're pretty good. Uh, >> you would think >> unless he's really sophisticated
00:45:04
Brian Atlas>> in hiding his money. Or maybe he's a business owner, but you could be a business owner and make like 10K a year or so. I mean, I don't know. I don't know the details, but um >> what you report. >> What's that? >> It's all what you report. Yeah,
00:45:16
Andrea>> you could report really low and then accept a lot of cash and just not tell. >> Wait, what do you mean? >> Like if you have like a business and it has a lot of cash flow, you can like report like limited amounts.
00:45:29
Brian Atlas>> Oh, okay. Yeah. Yeah. But I mean some businesses are not dealing in cash, so that would be a little bit harder to hide. But um Okay. So I see. Um custody,
00:45:41
Brian Atlasis it split or you have sole custody? >> Um we have joint custody. >> Joint. So the kids, the two kids, right, spent or is it one kid or two kids? >> It's two. >> They spend some time at the father's house.
00:45:52
Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> Okay. And then going back to you, so you um you have the two kids, >> but you're not with the the father anymore? >> No. >> Uh does he pay you child support? >> Nope.
00:46:05
Millie Slaughter>> Is there court ordered child support? >> Um >> or you're just not trying to shake him down? No, I just we had I I always had this agreement with him that I wouldn't do like a whole child support thing
00:46:17
Millie Slaughterbecause as long as he was a good father and a good man to my kids, I wouldn't make him pay child support. But that might change very soon. >> Oh, why is that? >> Um just because I'm literally doing
00:46:29
Millie Slaughtereverything on my own. Like he doesn't help me out with extracurriculars or anything. It was supposed to be since we have joint custody, he was supposed to be able to be like take care of his end, but now I'm paying for his end and my
00:46:41
Brian Atlasend. So, he's not doing that. >> He's not doing as much. >> No, he's not doing what he's supposed to do. No, >> I see. Okay. Um and uh and the in terms of the custody arrangement, it's it's not like through the court. You guys have handled that informally. Is that
00:46:55
Brian Atlascorrect? >> No, you Well, cuz we're married, so we had to handle it in >> Okay. So, it was determined the custody arrangement was determined in court. I see. Okay. All right. Uh, well, that's everybody's relationship status. We need
00:47:07
Brian Atlasto get through a couple things here. Uh, here really quick before we get into the I wanted to I made some notes. Psychology thing, happily single, Valentine's, pansexual, and then the late thing that we need to dive into.
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Millie SlaughterIt's very upsetting to me. So, all that other [ __ ] whatever. I don't know. Anybody here ever been shamed for their >> Yeah. >> their their >> I have their goods. >> You've been shamed. >> Yeah. Some guy told me he was like, "I
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Millie Slaughtercan see it." And I was like, >> "Can you eat it?" You know, like touch it. Like, "At least you're not not having to play peekaboo with my my puss, you know? Just
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Brian Atlas>> you know, just eat it up." >> Yikes. Okay. Thank you for sharing that. >> Yeah. >> Uh Okay. Okay. So, anyways, um, what else is there? Uh, if you can't catch the full shows, we have clips, channels,
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Brian Atlasgoing to get into some of the main topics. Well, hold on. Let me I There's a couple notes I want to get through. Then we'll get into the main topics. We're going to talk about Valentine's Day. There's some crazy [ __ ] going on with the Valentine's
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Brian AtlasDay. That shit's insane. Uh but yeah. Um okay, hold on. Single. All right. So, a couple things here. Pansexual. You're pansexual. >> So, okay. You are attracted to men,
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Brian Atlaswomen, and non-binary and trans. >> I'm attracted based off of personalities. So like >> that wouldn't be pansexual. >> Demisexual, pansexual. >> Pansexual is like you'll [ __ ] men,
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Brian Atlaswomen, non-binary, trans. >> Yeah. It doesn't matter what they have, >> but I like them based off of personality, so maybe I'm both. >> Have you been with a non-binary or trans person? >> No, not yet. >> Okay, I see. >> But I would.
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Brian Atlas>> All right. Um well I don't really have much else to say on that. Uh who here who was the psychology? Was that you? You studied psychology? >> Um when did you graduate?
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Brian Atlas>> 2021. >> So about four years ago. Four or five years ago. >> Uh okay. Um >> and you had a bachelor's degree in psychology from University of Austin, Houston, Texas.
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Brian Atlas>> I was at UT first but I >> But then you went to Okay, got it. M uh can you relay to me your biggest takeaway from college like
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Brian Atlasfrom what your academic thing what you learned not you know just from schooling education >> by schooling? >> Yeah. Cuz you could say well during college I met all these cool people and
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JocelynI learned socialized but actually what you learned in the classroom. >> Yes. >> Biggest take takeaway? Um, well, psychology was always something I was interested in, something I wanted to understand more of myself and others.
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JocelynBut in college, I mostly kind of got into entrepreneurship and that program specifically helped me with pitching, which is something that I carry on today every day. >> Okay. Yeah. Gotcha. >> Mhm.
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Brian Atlas>> But but like in terms of cuz you got your degree in psychology, right? >> Like relay to us >> if you had to impart to us >> Oh, I see. your lessons learned about psychology.
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Jocelyn>> Mhm. >> What could you relay to us here? >> H >> it does take men longer to grow their frontal lobe. Yeah. >> It's true.
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Jocelyn>> It is true. >> But I mean you learned that in psychology or you learned that from like an Instagram post. >> It's from psychology, but I think it became something that was like now everyone just sort of relates to. But
00:57:38
Brian Atlasbut I mean like >> this this almost seems like something you would learn in like freshman intro to psychology, >> but you have a bachelor's degree in
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Brian Atlaspsychology. So what I'm looking for is what like I'm assuming there's some more like higher level advanced conceptual thing that you learned in psychology that you could relay to us
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Jocelyn>> given you have a a degree from a decent university. Yeah, I think it's um just you know being empathetic to other people, listening to them and
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Jocelynidentifying certain mental like illnesses or conditions are a little bit sooner. I don't know. It just helped me kind of navigate myself through the
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Jocelynworld and not take certain things too personal. I'm like, okay, maybe this person's like
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Brian Atlasthis way because of D. Um yeah. So empathy, detecting mental illnesses and >> communication. Yeah.
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Brian Atlas>> But like so okay, I dropped out of City College. >> I am aware of empathy. >> Mhm. >> I can spot to some degree mental illness and people and I didn't study psychology, by the way. So I'm looking
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Lonniefor something specifically that you could relate to us in terms of your education that perhaps >> Are you asking for like a fun fact? Yeah. Like I'm not asking for a fun fact or >> Well, because you said big takeaway, right? >> Yeah. And this
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Brian Atlas>> Well, the big takeaway could it she mentioned empathy and detecting mental illness, which like >> those are big. Those are huge. >> Yeah. I feel like you >> How much did you spend? Like did you have student loans for college? >> No, I paid them off. I had scholarship
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Brian Atlasand then whatever we had the stimulus. >> How much How much total was the You did four years. >> I did four years. >> How much total? >> Well, I Well, this is my education. I got my associates during high school.
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