Gorlock The Destroyer RETURNS! Should Men Take A BULLET For A Girlfriend?! | Dating Talk #156
Date: 2024-04-29
Duration: 6h 55m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Michelle(guest)
SPEAKER_03Aurora/Avery/Bri/Payton(guest)
SPEAKER_05Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)(guest)
SPEAKER_06Liam Christopher(guest)
SPEAKER_11Q (The Quill)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_14Lizzy(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:10
QuoteBrian Atlas opens show with standard intro
“welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape”
00:03:11
OtherAurora introduces herself — 18yo OnlyFans creator from LA ('Aurora in 4k')
“hi I'm Aurora also known as Aurora in 4k um I'm 18 I do only fans I turned 19 in like six days and I live in LA”
00:03:22
OtherAlly / Gorlock / Al Weezy introduces herself — returns one year after viral episode
“welcome back my name is Ally better known for alzy or gorlock we're embracing it at this point I'm 24 years old”
00:05:03
OtherOne-year anniversary of Ally's original viral Whatever appearance celebrated on-air
“today's actually the one year anniversary... it came up in my Snapchat memories and I was like oh my God it's been exactly a year”
00:06:18
OtherLizzy introduces herself — 35yo receptionist from Santa Clara, engaged
“hello uh I'm Lizzy I'm 35 uh from originally from Berkeley but currently in Santa Clara and I a receptionist”
00:06:29
OtherMichelle introduces herself — 34yo from Charlotte NC with Conservative Women of NC page
“welcome back I'm Michelle I'm 34 I live in Charlotte North Carolina and I have a page called conservative women of North Carolina”
00:06:48
OtherQ / The Quill introduces herself — just hit 100K YouTube subscribers
“qill 31 behavioral scientist certified relationship coach YouTuber just hit 100K Subs”
00:07:00
OtherLiam Christopher introduces himself and promotes iWant Gummies (50% off code 'whatever')
“me uh Liam Christopher 35 from Sydney New South Wales Australia I'm a digital growth hacker practitioner... code whatever you get 50% off the entire collection”
01:07:12
ControversyBrian states he would NOT take a bullet for a girlfriend/wife (title topic begins)
“I would not be willing in that scenario to take a bullet for her... I'll take it if people want to call me a beta male”
01:11:49
ControversyMichelle argues the man as leader must sacrifice to protect — taking a bullet is part of that role
“you're the leader in this soon to be marriage you need to prove to me that you can provide and protect for this family”
01:27:06
OtherAlly says she would take a bullet for a partner years into the relationship
“I believe in very much 50/50... I'm a very loyal person so absolutely I would”
01:41:30
ControversyBowing debate begins — Brian asks if women would bow to their husbands daily
“he just thinks it's cute and endearing... the submissive thing to do would be to Bow”
01:46:08
ControversyMichelle refuses to bow daily — argues it is ego-stroking without real meaning
“I do not give a [expletive]... I just I there's other things that I could do to make you happy”
02:06:12
OtherPayton (SPEAKER_03) says she would bow if man deserved it and it was what he wanted
“I would bow but like if he met my standards... if he wants me to Bow and tickles him then so be it”
02:08:12
ControversyBrian challenges: man expected to take bullet but woman won't do a 5-second bow — asymmetry
“he's willing to make the ultimate sacrifice and you're not even willing to make a minor sacrifice”
02:10:12
OtherBrian jokes about 10-year future homestead commune with crew: Joe, Gustavo, Madison, Nick
“here's where I see myself in 10 years Joe is my second in command Gustavo he's my consigliere... we have a militia”
02:50:24
OtherAlly self-rates 10 in looks — 'I'm still a fat 10, that has not changed'
“um I give myself an eight I'm still a fat [expletive] 10 I do not give a [expletive] that has not changed”
02:54:36
OtherLizzy self-rates 2 — says she looks more and more like Mrs. Claus
“I think I have a beautiful face... I look more and more like Mrs Claus by the day... I'd say my physical looks a two”
02:55:12
QuoteAlly argues self-10 rating is about carrying yourself with confidence, not claiming model looks
“I carry myself with such Grace confidence... to me that makes me a 10... everybody should have a similar mindset”
04:04:07
ControversyBrian calls OnlyFans + Christian identification a 'LARP' — wearing cross while shooting content
“it feels like you're LARPing as a Christian... you can't reconcile doing porn with the faith”
04:15:00
OtherAlly discusses her struggle with faith as a trans woman — Biblical contradiction of gender
“in the Bible it basically says like a man and woman's garments is prohibited basically and I'm a transwoman... that's where I struggle with my faith”
06:11:00
OtherQ cites 60,000-person study: average female lifetime body count is 4-7
“the average body count especially for women is somewhere for a lifetime between 4 and 7 based on a huge study like 60,000 people”
06:38:00
OtherBrian announces end of show; Q returning on Tuesday episode
“Q will be back again joining us any girls who want to be on the show DM whatever on Instagram”
Topics Discussed
00:00:10
Intro and guest introductions
Brian opens with announcements and show instructions. Guests introduce themselves: Aurora (18yo OnlyFans, LA), Ally/Gorlock (24yo trans woman), Avery Jenner (19yo OnlyFans, LA), Bri (31yo welder, Phoenix), Lizzy (35yo receptionist, Santa Clara, engaged), Michelle (34yo conservative page, Charlotte NC), Payton (26yo YouTuber, Charlotte NC), Q/Quill (31yo behavioral scientist, 100K YouTube), Liam Christopher (35yo entrepreneur, Sydney). Liam promotes iWant Gummies with code 'whatever' for 50% off. One-year Gorlock anniversary noted.
00:03:22
Gorlock return — one year anniversary and life update
Ally ('Gorlock the Destroyer' / Al Weezy) returns one year after viral original episode. Life changed significantly: received pink Range Rover from Steve, grew following, embraces name. Reacts to viral 3am Jack in the Box crying TikTok clip. Discusses staying single, meeting people organically, bad DM experience (UA guy asking for fake relationship for clout). Brian proposes with ring on-air (joke). BBL rumors denied. Only dates men.
00:09:30
Relationship status and history round
Each guest shares current relationship status and longest relationship. Lizzy is engaged. Michelle in 3-year relationship; previous 5-year relationship ended over kids disagreement. Ally is single; flings in past year. Payton in 3-year relationship. Aurora single; e-boyfriend broke up with her after last podcast appearance. Aurora's real-life body count (claimed 0) debated.
01:07:12
Should men take a bullet for a girlfriend?
Title topic. Brian states he would NOT take a bullet for a girlfriend or wife after only a year. Michelle argues the man as protector/leader must sacrifice for the woman. Q and Liam discuss the asymmetry of what each gender expects. Brian references 'bloodline' reasoning: surviving allows propagation. Ally says she would take a bullet for a partner years into the relationship. Extended debate on conditions, commitment depth, and chivalry obligations.
01:31:48
Brian's ideal type — looks and personality list
Brian reads from his prepared list of ideal partner qualities. Looks: any race, slight preference for white/Asian women, no plastic surgery (BBL, implants, lip filler, lipo), natural body. Personality: introverted, modest, low body count, no bars/clubs, submissive, loyal. World of Warcraft analogy: Asian women = 'best in slot' like human race for warrior/rogue.
01:41:30
Bowing / submission debate
Brian asks whether women would bow to their husbands daily as a gesture of submission. Aurora (SPEAKER_03) says no — it's ego-stroking without meaning. Michelle (SPEAKER_02) argues submission has deeper Biblical meaning; bowing is superficial. Payton says she would bow if the man deserved it and that's what he wanted. Brian argues: if a man is expected to take a bullet (sacrifice his life), a 5-second bow is a trivially small ask in comparison. Extended debate on Biblical submission frameworks.
02:08:12
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Chat question: where do you see yourself in 10 years? Brian jokes about his homestead commune with crew (Joe as second in command, Gustavo as consigliere, Madison/Nick roles). Panel mostly declines to answer the long horizon. Brian says he can't predict 3 weeks ahead, let alone 10 years.
02:50:24
Self-ratings round
Brian asks guests to rate looks 1-10 (Stiffler/chat question). Ally rates herself 10 ('fat 10, I don't give a [expletive]'). Lizzy rates herself 2. Others gave 8, 7, 6, 6, 5, 5 (attribution uncertain due to diarization). Extended debate on whether rating yourself a 10 is delusional vs. empowering. Ally argues it is about confidence and carrying yourself, not claiming model looks.
02:51:12
Drizzle drizzle / soft guy era trend
Lizzy explains the 'drizzle drizzle' trend: male version of 'sprinkle sprinkle' (women asking for gifts/money). Drizzle drizzle = men demanding princess treatment (Lambos, expensive dinners) as a satirical response to female entitlement. Brian discusses optimal relationship dynamic: woman chasing man is better than man chasing woman. Q agrees (asymmetric commitment in man's favor leads to better relationship stability).
04:04:07
OnlyFans vs. Christianity debate
Aurora and Avery both identify as Christian while running OnlyFans accounts. Brian argues this is LARPing as Christian; wearing a cross during content is disrespectful. Michelle (SPEAKER_02) explains authentic faith requires living out beliefs. Ally discusses her own struggle with faith as a trans woman and Biblical contradiction. Extended theological debate on sin, forgiveness, obedience, and reconciling identity with faith.
06:11:00
Body count discussion
Q cites study (~60,000 participants): average female lifetime body count 4-7. Payton argues there is nuance — age matters (10 bodies at 19 is different from 10 at 40). Q argues desirable men will have higher counts; women should have realistic expectations. Discussion of whether men requesting low body count are themselves under 10.
Transcript
Page 1 of 8
00:00:10
Brian Atlaswelcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape thanks for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me I appreciate that we're coming
00:00:21
Brian Atlasto you live from Santa Barbara California every Sunday and Tuesday 5:00 p.m. Pacific I'm your host Brian Atlas few quick announcements this podcast is if viewer supported guys people are
00:00:32
Brian Atlastrying to cancel us heavy YouTube demonetization watch us while you still can so please consider donating through streamlabs instead of super chatting as YouTube takes a brutal 30% cut so if you
00:00:43
Brian AtlasSuper Chat 100 YouTube takes 30 if you donate 100 streamlabs only takes three streamlabs.com whatever link is in the description we
00:00:52
Brian Atlasdo prioritize messages that are made via streamlabs messages $10 and up will be displayed stream overlay messages $100 and up will be read/ anwered if you want
00:01:04
Brian Atlasto interact nearly instantly with us and weigh in on the conversation consider sending a TTS text to speech message $200 and up triggers TTS TTS is via
00:01:15
Brian Atlasstreamlabs only you can see the description for all triggers in full details guys we have Channel memberships to become a member hit the join button tier one is just $5 a month we're also
00:01:26
Brian Atlaslive on Twitch right now guys pull up another tab go to twitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one if you have Amazon Prime you can link it to your Twitch it's a quick
00:01:39
Brian Atlasfree easy way to support the show every single month we got merch shop. whatever.com stuff you can wear to not be naked don't be a criminal get some merch follow us on Instagram at whatever
00:01:50
Brian Atlasany girls who want to be on the show DM whatever on Instagram if you can make it to Santa Barbara even if you disagree with myself or the podcast excuse me with the podcast we'd love to have you
00:02:01
Brian Atlaswe welcome debate interested in sponsoring the podcast you can also DM us there also follow me on Instagram BD atlas there it is also check out my nonprofit movement big labia matter or
00:02:13
Brian AtlasBLM for short it's really the pressing issue of our time you know it's a it's a tragedy what going on out there there's
00:02:21
Brian Atlas10,000 of these uh laia plasties a year tragedy um so I am the spearhead the trail Blazer ground
00:02:30
Brian Atlasbreaker Pioneer Vanguard of this movement and I will fight for lebas everywhere okay if you can't catch the full shows we have a Clips Channel link for that is in the
00:02:41
Brian Atlasdescription you see those three down there that those are the three Clips channels that we have we just hit 1 million on our main Clips Channel appreciate it guys thank you we have a Discord
00:02:52
Brian Atlasdiscord.gg whatever link for that is in the description disclaimer the views expressed by the guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the
00:03:03
Brian Atlaswhatever Channel with that said and without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location
00:03:11
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonand occupation go ahead hi I'm Aurora also known as Aurora in 4k um I'm 18 I do only fans I turned 19 in like six
00:03:22
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)days and I live in LA all right welcome back my name is Ally better known for alzy or
00:03:32
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)gorlock we're embracing it at this point I'm 24 years old and since the last year I was here I grad graduated from bad
00:03:40
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)[ __ ] to Young trans women in the making of being I'm graduating out of the bad [ __ ] era for sure no don't say that no it's just time you're still you're still
00:03:52
Brian Atlasa bad [ __ ] the bad [ __ ] is always going to be there you're elevating but you're gradua you're graduating to what to just like young successful transwoman okay all right and you said you were 24
00:04:04
Brian Atlasis that correct yeah yo thank you for the uh gifted memberships and uh okay very nice well uh and so Al Weezy you're still still going by Al Weezy though right okay can
00:04:17
Liam Christopherwe get we're going I'm I'm dropping an air horn for that let's go Al Weezy is back what was the last name the internet the the other one gorlock oh we at this point we're
00:04:28
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)embracing it like it is what it is is it honestly it sounds badass it literally sounds like a big ass machine gun incredible no it literally just sounds like a big ass machine gun so like we're we're here for you don't mind you don't mind the name no at this point like it's
00:04:40
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)not my preferred name but like if I hear it I'm just like [ __ ] it made me money like that's what it is I'd L into the [ __ ] I [ __ ] love it yeah it's good absolutely [ __ ] yeah sweet I mean it
00:04:51
Brian Atlaslike I mean you've after that episode I mean you got a Range Rover from Steve a pink Range Rover I mean yeah you've like should break the number I you were you were going to blow up whether you were
00:05:03
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)on the whatever podcast or not but like you've like had some massive like my life has changed a lot in the last year honestly and today's actually the one year anniversary wait when do you
00:05:14
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)remember the date of it was or no yesterday was it was the 20 oh wow I don't remember the exact Daye but like came up in my Snapchat memories and I was like oh my God it's been exactly a
00:05:24
Brian Atlasyear it's our anniversary literally it's our anniversary so I was like flowers or that would been great but it's very full circle moment so I'm very grateful and thank you so much for having well hey
00:05:36
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonthank you for coming it's good to have you back um what about you hi I'm Avery also known as Avery Jenner I'm 19 I'm from LA and I do only
00:05:45
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonfans welcome welcome hi my name is Bri um I'm 31 I'm from Phoenix and I'm a welder fabricator weld or fabricator how
00:05:54
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonlong have you been doing that um I think pushing eight years now okay do you have that welding mask yes if I didn't I would have horrible yeah and I'd be
00:06:06
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonsuper red yeah you'd be red it burns your skin too yeah it's like it's like the sun you get a sunburn really and you can get a sunburn on your eyes it's like on your eyeball I knew it was bad to look into it because of how bright it was but I didn't know it had an impact
00:06:18
Lizzyon your skin too you learn something every day all right what about you hello uh I'm Lizzy I'm 35 uh from originally from Berkeley but currently in Santa
00:06:28
MichelleClara and I a receptionist welcome back I'm Michelle I'm 34 I live in Charlotte North Carolina and I have a page called conservative women of North Carolina all
00:06:40
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonright welcome my name is Payton I'm 26 I'm from Charlotte North Carolina and I have a YouTube channel called girls onone right wait sorry did you say 36 or
00:06:48
Q (The Quill)26 26 okay sorry s all right welcome welcome qill 31 behavioral scientist certified relationship coach YouTuber just hit 100K Subs
00:07:00
Liam Christopherappreciate everybody who support congrats man congrats thank Youk oh yeah oh yeah me uh Liam Christopher 35 from Sydney New South Wales Australia
00:07:11
Liam ChristopherI'm a digital growth hacker practitioner I own a bunch of Brands um now I'm going to do a Shameless plug because I am here on behalf of one particular brand it's called I want a gummies so it's made up of four products I want to wake up I want to focus I want to relax I want to
00:07:25
Liam Christophersleep so whatever you want to do these gummy bears have got you covered the I want to wake up is like a cup of coffee it's pretty mild but it'll wake you up the I want to focus is like C4 so you can go from Mild to Wild so if you're a gamer if you load up on the focus I
00:07:38
Liam Christopherguarantee you'll be able to game all night it's not crack but it's just as good the relax will help you calm down which I clearly need did you run that by the lawyers no no I'm going to get fired just as oh no no I'm I'm going to get
00:07:50
Liam Christopherfired after this just so you know we have sleep ones that are so good they're so strong they alerted up with such high quality ingredients that they will knock you out so I wasn't even allowed to put them on the table because like you can't knock people out on a podcast um they
00:08:02
Liam Christopherare delicious they are highly effective and this is the most important part my team told me not to do this they said I was an idiot they said please don't do it I bumped up the code if you use the word whatever you get 50% off the entire
00:08:14
Liam Christophercollection that includes the trial kit which is already 20 bucks brings it down to 10 bucks um it helps boost the brand um it helps boost Brian's podcast is an incredible code they got really really angry at me for doing it I said someone
00:08:26
Liam Christopherhad to do it so I'm going to do it feel like I'm the chosen one yeah the the the link we do have the link for that in the description if anybody there a website if you can pull it up but also if anyone would like to try these red ones will wake you up these green ones will really
00:08:39
Liam Christopherwake you up so which would you like to try one oh I can't I can't have one come on man try a red one I got you bro what a legend I want to try one feel free yeah of course why don't we pass it around yes let's pass it around what do
00:08:51
Liam Christopheryou think I'm going to try green I be Prett not that many you'll be very you'll be very awake they're delicious and effective so they'll wake everyone no I mean look at I mean I'm jittery have a relax if you feel jittery we've got those is there caffeine in this one yeah there's some caffeine in the red
00:09:05
Liam Christopherone yeah do you guys like the flavor mhm that green one yeah you take as many as you want my mission is to um gum in as many mouths as possible in America so with the gummy bears cuz they're gummy
00:09:17
Liam Christopherbears over just the goal that they sent me here for so yeah look enjoy it everyone you get a massive code we can't do this code ever again and it's only for the special for the podcast Brian thank you for hosting it of course so
00:09:28
Brian Atlaswe're going to go the once more what is everybody's current relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship Friends with Benefits relationship married polyle sex cult
00:09:40
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonwhatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead um last podcast um last time I was here I had a e booyfriend um we broke up because I
00:09:54
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytondon't know he got mad at me over the last podcast so we're not together anymore so I'm currently single your like Discord boyfriend or whatever
00:10:04
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonyeah we're not together anymore who he dumped you yeah what why' he dump you I don't know I think it was because I like he found out that I had like over like a 100
00:10:15
Liam Christopherebodies so I think that might be why what's an a body yeah what the what is that is that like um eex you have sex with the internet on the internet like on Discord right how do you get an A
00:10:27
Liam ChristopherBudd though yeah I don't know like like you just have eex like you bang the computer basically how does that feel did you put the mouse in you yeah like how do you like like really how do you have sex with a
00:10:41
Brian Atlascomputer that's the real question I don't know it's like phone sex like right so instead of talking you okay yeah cool don't want to to so I'll
00:10:50
Brian Atlasbehave and but so so you're if I recall correctly so your e body count you say it's over 100 um yeah but your actual
00:11:01
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonbody count is zero mhm cuz you claim to be a virgin yes I'm a virgin like like a born again virgin or like an actual no an actual virgin like real
00:11:13
Brian Atlaslife bodies zero like you've had you've never had carnal knowledge no carnal knowledge what is carnal knowledge you don't know about carnal knowledge um no no carnal knowledge no
00:11:24
Brian Atlasno p and the v no no p and the v no the p no p and the v no p and the
00:11:30
Brian Atlasshe does only fans she's had 100 esex Partners virgin in real life math Ain math bro a little dubious
00:11:43
Brian AtlasI feel like it's a bit dubious a lot I think just being stereotypical stere stereotyping mhm well if I was like for example if I
00:11:53
Brian Atlaswas dressed up in the 1940s uh I'm not going to like fascist military uniform and like I had a
00:12:03
Brian Atlascertain mustache you know I and I was wear oh my God why am I I could have thought of so many other examples like you went to the dock right away bro like he'd probably
00:12:15
Brian Atlaslike wouldn't you stereotype me to be like okay he's probably a national socialist you know like wouldn't that be so isn't it fair for people to kind of assume that you
00:12:27
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytoncould be lying about this I mean I guess but like I show my body on the internet like so like it would make sense if I have sex on the internet like it has nothing to do with real life you know
00:12:38
Brian Atlasnow what if I told you though after your last appearance on the podcast I had one or two or a couple people DM me and say that she was lying and that they themselves have had carnal knowledge of
00:12:50
Brian Atlasyou they're lying people say that all the time and I have no idea it's possible they're lying but they're I'm not going to just I I don't like to leave anything but you know I'm not going to say share the details but I did
00:13:02
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)have a couple people DM me say yo she's lying well I think that they're lying okay all right uh Ally what about
00:13:10
Brian Atlasyou um despite the rumors I'm still single Oh I thought you I don't know I was like looking up your social medias I was like I thought you had a boo no like
00:13:22
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)I've have like little flings here and there but it never works out like little flings yeah it's is it is what it is but I'm just having fun right now hustling I don't know I just feel like a
00:13:34
Brian Atlasrelationships just not it for me at the moment at least I mean like so in the year were you single uh when when you on the last episode I was yeah I mean have
00:13:45
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)you what was like the longest anything that you've had since that episode probably like a long like six months oh 6 months well no since then yeah like what's the longest period of time that
00:13:57
Brian Atlasyou were seeing a guy or like in general or like since last year uh in general and then also six seven months and was that since you were last on or was that
00:14:06
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)before you previous yeah any like what's the longest thing like since your last appearance maybe like a month or two maybe like a month and a half two months okay but nothing crazy honestly do you
00:14:19
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)have a lot of people um like sliding into your DMs and stuff still yes yeah still I mean even before last worse now but I feel wait is it worse or better I mean it I
00:14:31
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)don't I don't date boys off of DMS if I'm being 100% honest I kind of learned what if they're a snack though no not even snack absolutely not cuz you never know people's intentions like that's true that's true people are crazy honestly they're probably like clout chasing you I feel like I mean yeah
00:14:45
Brian Atlasthat's why I'm just like if I'm ever going to meet somebody especially now like it's going to be very organic and super chill as possible like nothing over the Internet so like are you thinking meet meet like in person or like a dating app or anything like are
00:14:57
Brian Atlasyou on dating apps at all not at all okay and are you do you consider you're like um do you date men women or like just men just men yeah I think I have like such an admiration for women but
00:15:07
Brian Atlaslike I don't like vagina oh damn okay yeah okay hey that's you know that's you um but you said you had a couple like flings and stuff MH was this just like
00:15:20
Brian Atlasdid you also meet them like out and about or were any of these like did you have a bad experience with somebody from the DMS and then you kind of swore it off there was just like this one guy who
00:15:31
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)who goes to the University of Arizona okay um and he like slid in and I was like kind of entertaining it for a little bit like through the DMS and then he hit me with a yo like are you trying to fake a relationship for clout like
00:15:43
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)I'm a good ass looking man and like whatever and I'm just like [ __ ] like the [ __ ] audacity first of all and second I was just like this is not for me like yeah so yeah like if I meet
00:15:55
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)somebody like it's just very much organic like through friends or mutuals or whatever ever but I've been kind of just keeping to myself lately okay when it comes to dating and actually that kind of just made me think of a question that I'll ask the whole panel once we
00:16:06
Brian Atlasget through the uh dating status or relationship status I'm going to ask what everybody's type is so we'll get back to that uh what's your uh dating status right now um I've been single for
00:16:18
Brian Atlasthe last six months last time I was here a single and I'm still single nice that was good I like how concise that was what's the longest relationship
00:16:28
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonyou you've ever been there um like a year one year okay all right what about you um I'm currently engaged we've been together for almost four and a half
00:16:38
Lizzyyears and he's my longest all right awesome what about you uh in a relationship it'll be 3 years in July
00:16:46
Michelleand my longest relationship was four years got it what about you I'm single and I uh my longest relationship is 5
00:16:56
Brian Atlasyears how long have you been single for year and a half. five years and the one that ended a year and a half ago was that the 5-year relationship it was how
00:17:07
Michelledid uh how did that end mutually mut and um we just didn't align fundamentally on some very important things like
00:17:15
Michellepolitical stuff like um very aligned politically um I think uh religion and and then I think with the kids just not aligned on having children like he
00:17:27
Brian Atlasdidn't want kids yes for financial reasons oh for for financial reasons yes because they cost money yes they do a lot of money really interesting not that
00:17:38
MichelleI'm to buy any or anything just curious in theory how much money would cost a person was he not like uh financially well off or he was yes it's just a personal that's a personal decision and
00:17:51
MichelleI knew that from the start and that's okay people can have that preference but when you so question when you started dating him did you know that you wanted to have
00:18:01
Michellekids um I I think I did and I probably thought I wanted to that that might change over time like anyone probably would sure and it didn't so then it
00:18:12
Brian Atlasended okay and so you met him when you were 28 oh 26 so from 26 to 31 you dated
00:18:22
Brian Atlashim yes okay just about um and I mean so when you were 26 though when you met him were you pretty dead set on having a family and having kids not not like I am
00:18:34
Michelleright now I think I was still kind of figuring out who I was as you know as a person and I I had good morals and good foundation um but I think I was probably
00:18:45
Michellemore interested in you know what I wanted from him as far as just like I'm in love with this person and and that's more important to me I want to be with him no matter what kind of phase I think
00:18:57
Brian Atlaswe've all probably been there aome right and so uh how long into the cuz you said one of the conflicts that you had in the relationship was him not wanting to have
00:19:07
Brian Atlaskids yes uh you dated him for 5 years at what point in the relationship did this conflict start arising mostly towards
00:19:16
Michellethe end or towards the end it was about six months before it ended okay M can you move your mic just to the right a
00:19:24
Brian Atlaslittle bit to the right yeah okay um got it okay so you've been single for a year and a half single and ready to mingle I'm dating yes you're dating yes
00:19:36
Backgroundany any of the potential prospects in potentially couple a prospect you got the prospect got the prospect he goes in
00:19:46
Brian Atlaswe'll see show me the prospect okay so you you are single but there's perhaps a uh potential uh something something I'm dating okay you're dating all right uh
00:19:58
Brian Atlaswhat about you so my longest relationship was 2 and a half years and that was current current relationship status single single and ready to mingle single and ready to mingle you said so longest relationship
00:20:10
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Payton2.5 years how long have you been single for two years two years okay all right and so when you say you're single is there a little Prospect in the picture
00:20:21
Q (The Quill)or um maybe a prospect but we shall see we shall see okay Q what about you oh I'm chilling right now I'm chilling chilling yeah I'm chilling single always
00:20:34
Liam Christopherdown for some female companionship though okay but in longest relationship 3 years all right and Liam what about you I'm more or less married to my work
00:20:45
Liam Christopherum so yeah much like her I spent a lot of time with my computer um so but I have had two relationships are both back toback 5 years really wonderful people don't have a bad word to say about any of them I've been very fortunate but um
00:20:58
Liam Christopheryeah at this point I'm just obsessed with my works that's married so I'm gonna write down Married to the Game yeah like I don't have sex with the game it's a sexless marriage I would call it
00:21:08
Liam Christopherreally it's like very non-fulfillment so but I like it and the longest relationship uh two five year relationships back to back two five year yeah two five years no they were good
00:21:19
Brian Atlasthey put in the work it was good it's good yeah all right cool so that's everybody's uh relationship status so what we're going to do is uh we are let me just check a couple things here we're going to go around the table
00:21:31
Aurora/Avery/Bri/PaytonI think the first thing what is everybody's type get stitched on this one so starting uh with you Rory um nobody calls me that like or I like only
00:21:44
Brian Atlascertain people call me that like that's so weird like I could look like it we have that level of Rapport obviously so weird like my high school friends used to call me that you know it's we've been on two podcasts together we have how do
00:21:56
Brian Atlasyou pronounce your first name that level of Aurora yeah yeah English is my second language so it's like hard for me to like double RS that's kind of French oh nice so just sounds scuffed anyways um
00:22:08
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonmy typ what's your type I don't feel like I have a type with like looks I like like goofy guys um I like Rich guys I don't like um broke guys I dated
00:22:20
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytona broke guy before and it just wasn't worth it I'd rather just have someone Rich um and yeah that's basically like the one now when you say you want a rich
00:22:31
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonguy yeah how rich are we talking um I honestly don't really know um like you just have to be able to like
00:22:42
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytontake me out to dinner like a lot like nice dinners I love going out to like nice restaurants and like take me shopping
00:22:52
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytontake you shopping how would you determine that he's Rich well ask do all that then like that's you're just going to assume that's like the bare minimum for me so it just take you out to nice
00:23:03
Liam Christopherplaces um yeah and like take me on like trips and stuff like that like as long as you can afford that like then it's good can I tell you a secret I know a lot of bums that can take you out to dinner and take you shopping they don't have a lot of money you got to be
00:23:15
Liam Christophercareful for the fake FES I know I know a lot of them I I work with them all the time put that [ __ ] on credit yeah yeah yeah but we call it uh the credit flexes so you got to be careful okay I'll be
00:23:26
Brian Atlascareful check Crusades really the Rich dudes you don't know they're rich yeah that facial expression like I'll be careful shut up Dad I'll be careful you're not my you're not my
00:23:38
Brian Atlasdad okay so in terms of like if you could put a number to it so a mill year what are we talking um yeah that's good is that too little I
00:23:49
Brian Atlasmean no that's good that's a good amount a milli okay all right and uh you said
00:23:58
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonthat you want them to take you shopping mhm like on the first date um no like it I don't know I mean that'd be a cool for date
00:24:08
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonbut like I don't think that's a date I think that should just be like a regular thing uh okay buy me like jewelry and
00:24:17
Brian Atlasstuff like that's my love language I'll buy you stuff too like if I'm dating them so like it has to be like equal but like you have to be more Rich than me though has a guy ever done that for you
00:24:28
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonlike dinner buying you stuff kind of but it's like I have commitment issues so like I haven't really been you've got commitment issues yeah why um I don't really know I think that people like
00:24:40
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonguys are Lars like people I think maybe it be might be because um like you were saying people act like they're rich and they're not credit flexes yeah yeah so then I find out and I'm like you're not
00:24:52
Liam Christopherreally my type actually wait you so you want did you say a goofy you like goofy guys yeah Rich yeah besides like oh look here we got I picked two boxes unintentionally I
00:25:02
Liam Christopherdidn't mean to and my answer is going to really Stitch me up because yeah I don't even know if I should say like yeah I kind of see like a little buding no just
00:25:13
Liam Christopherno no no but if you like if you if you [ __ ] do I Stitch myself up here if you Google my ex-girlfriends like they all look like you I'm so sorry to say that's weird no
00:25:25
Liam Christopherthat's just how they look I'm just that's kind of weird
00:25:31
Brian Atlaswell now it's a little bit awkward now isn't it guys good times good times so I'm going to say I'll say rich and Goofy what about muscles do you want them to
00:25:41
Liam Christopherhave muscles um yeah yeah you do yeah godamn I feel the tension like do you want him to look like Chris Emsworth I don't know who that is oh what's stres
00:25:52
Liam Christopheror who's that he's an Australian guy oh wait he's Thor isn't he he's an Aussie he's you got basically all right so goofy Rich muscles what color shirts should they
00:26:04
Liam Christopherwear like a more of a black shirt guy white shirt this is just in theory we're trying to figure this out it's part of the podcast right like what should they wear shirtse what color I would say black for sure this is by the way for
00:26:16
Brian Atlasthe gummies is it like you know how you said about the thing about the crack yeah is there also like is it there a bit of Trend in there oh just a little bit little little bit of train little bit of Cl just checking Okay cool so
00:26:27
Liam Christopherthat's good so r goofy o black shirts okay good good thank you Brian of course of course appreciate you I love of course this fantastic match wait have
00:26:36
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonyou ever been flown out um yeah by a guy yeah but like to like trips not like to where they live yeah where like tum um
00:26:47
Aurora/Avery/Bri/PaytonPuerto Rico Puerto Rico yeah Logan Paul no Jake Paul no he's like nobody he's a random who Jake the no like the guy that flew me out oh okay yeah he's
00:26:59
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonjust po guy when he Hees he's going to be devastated he flew he flew around this [ __ ] [ __ ] flew me to Puerto Rico what a like like famous people though like I would rather date like a
00:27:11
Brian Atlasrich like unknown man that's valid that's valid uh Ally what about uh what about you what's your type my
00:27:20
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)type would have to be six foot money Mexican well-mannered family oriented and just overall a good vibe cuz if you're just annoying and
00:27:32
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)like you can't keep up with my personality then like yeah it's just not it you say six foot Mexican
00:27:44
Liam Christophermhm there are they there's tall there's tall tall one where they at they're all tall they I want a 7 foot [ __ ] with lots of money
00:27:59
Brian Atlasand I want the [ __ ] to be funny I I think it's valid I think this is valid yeah he doesn't want a seven but like question though would you would you consider like like maybe some Central
00:28:10
Brian AtlasAmerican or South American countries what about like you know the like uh what's the region where like Puerto Rico is like Puerto Rico Caribbean like the
00:28:20
Brian Atlaslike a Caribbean Latino yeah will you or does it have to be no it doesn't have to be it's just a preferred preference honestly Okay and like for for like cultural similarity yeah just cuz like
00:28:31
Brian Atlasupbringing reasons like just very similar Vibes and like [ __ ] like that I see okay um so six foot money Mexican um and hardworking hardworking yeah okay you don't have to be rich but you do
00:28:45
Brian Atlashave to be very hardworking but like would you let's say they have everything else but they're not Mexican like would you maybe still go for them like I said it's just a preference it's not it's not
00:28:54
Brian Atlaslike a it's not a deal breaker no not at all I'm just curious like so there's a couple like studly guys here like if you had to pick one and you can include people behind the scenes too
00:29:07
Brian Atlaslike so there's me Liam Q Gustavo there's uh where where's Joe Joe can you just come into the frame real quick oh that's not fair he's going to win excuse me chiseled Calvin Klein model could you please come into the
00:29:20
Liam Christopherframe really quickly so that us three losers can compete with you br what you I asked make life easy put Toby in there Toby go stand next to
00:29:31
Liam ChristopherI got he is impeccably dressed by the way very sharp very sharp I warned JQ about how good looking he is I can't even look at him so if you had to pick one as of right now it's not only type
00:29:44
Brian Atlasbut you guys are all very handsome you have to pick one you got to pick one somebody pick one you got to pick one someone got gun and whoever you do pick we're taking you on a date after the podcast and you can pick Brian too just
00:29:54
Lizzyyou can pick me you can pick Brian do it uh I don't know no [ __ ] big Brian spoiled for choice I mean Gustavo is Latino
00:30:05
Q (The Quill)soest to Mexican he he the closest to Mexican he doesn't speak he speak y crazy um I'll have to think about that one okay yeah I'll think about that one but yeah
00:30:18
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)should we come back for sure but yeah six foot money hardworking mhm um The Vibes keep up with my vibe and we'll be straight God have the vibes okay yeah
00:30:28
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonall right what about you ay um I like like light skins or dark skins that are super tall with like dreads preferably and then like an athlete so like I like
00:30:38
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonbasketball players a lot um I also like guys we went over this last time um that are kind of like assholey you like guys
00:30:47
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)that [ __ ] yes oh wow what that's hectic wait can I oh yeah go for Al do you like match their energy like when when you yeah I'm toxic period okay yeah
00:30:59
Aurora/Avery/Bri/PaytonI get it it's like spit on me Daddy sort of thing like yeah yeah yeah okay cool okay uh wait so you said tall how tall are we talking here um well I'm tall so
00:31:10
Brian Atlasprobably like 63 and up how tall are you 5'8 5'8 so you want 63 and up and then you said there's you said one thing and then athlete what was the other one oh you said like uh lightskin lightskin or
00:31:23
Brian Atlasdark skin with dreads preferably but so when you say lightskin dark skin you mean black man yes yes okay uh preferably with dreads yes I love dread
00:31:33
Brian Atlasheads 63 athlete okay do you have a preference in terms of what sport like basketball football basketball football I feel like do most basketball players I
00:31:45
Brian Atlasfeel like they don't have dreads that's mostly like the football players right basketball and football but I love
00:31:54
Brian Atlashoopers what issue with donos oh [ __ ] hold on we sorry guys we're having continue telling us about that
00:32:05
Liam Christopherthough what is it about dreads that you like specifically I've never I've just never seen anyone attracted to a haircut before I don't know I just think they're so sexy really yes what if they were like hot ticked all the boxes and they
00:32:17
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonlike just put on a dread wig or something would you pick up on a fake dread one time I was with a guy and his dreads smell really bad oh my God you told me that yeah dreads like stink or
00:32:27
Liam Christopherlike HG right how do you hygienically care for dreads I don't know just smell good like shower wow so you date someone like that you're really signing up to like help clean the dreads too right I
00:32:39
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonmean I've never had to maintain them obviously but yeah wait would you rather date like a white guy or like a really fine dread head with like that doesn't have like good hygiene oh I don't know
00:32:51
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytongo for is really important but like white men are just not my type you can get the dreads sewn in so they don't have to be disg into your head mhm there's people out there who will do
00:33:01
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonthat also so pretty I didn't know you could do that wow they're just like extensions except dread stitched into your head mhm I don't know how I feel about that I I don't know I don't feel like wearing a face mask of like human
00:33:13
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonskin or something yeah yeah right I don't understand like white guys that get like dreads and stuff like the like the island boys that sh so weird oh they so intelligent we can talk about them please can we are
00:33:26
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)they real I don't know they're the most interesting creates I've ever seen in my entire life I need to meet them yeah I don't think you want to I've had an interaction with them before please tell us it was kind of weird
00:33:37
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)honestly um so basically like we were in Miami and um we're in a nightclub and I'm very good friends with the owner he's like always takes really good more than good care of me um and he asked me
00:33:49
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)he's like hey like the island boys are here and they're streaming like do you want to be on I'm like n like I want to keep it a lowkey night it's my first night here like I'm chilling just pull up bring out the bottle and me and my manager were just going to have a good
00:34:01
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)time so they come up to me or I'm chilling having a good drinks and then I see a big ass bright light pointed at me and it's like a like a square
00:34:12
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)and in the first thing I see is one of them go who are you and I'm like excuse me like you didn't just [ __ ] put a camera in front of my face and ask who am I after
00:34:23
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)I asked not to be sat next to you and like I I don't really know them that well I had that interaction with them but I was just like why are you bringing a camera to my face and ask who the [ __ ] am I can I ask a question you know how
00:34:35
Liam Christopherthey like do stuff with each other isn't incest illegal in your country yes so aren't they committing a crime by like getting gay together yeah so they just go around and do gay crime basically
00:34:45
Liam Christopherbeing incest who are the island boys I'm left out of this isn't it that's what to the extent kissing your brother cry I didn't do it I get distracted for like 3 minutes and you guys are talking about
00:34:57
Liam Christopherincest they're the ones that did it not me I just didn't know so it is illegal just to be clear yeah I guess they didn't do anything in front of you no I wasn't it was no I hope not but no it was just weird yeah it was just weird I
00:35:09
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)was like first of all like I'm that [ __ ] like you're not going to come up to me and ask who the [ __ ] am I is that what you said oh that's BS energy I just looked at them and I was just like uh like what are you doing that's literally what I said I think it was on their live stream too I was like what the [ __ ] are
00:35:21
Ally (Gorlock / Al Weezy)you doing like it's good energy yeah and especially because it's like it's one thing to introduce yourself like hi I'm so and so but it wasn't that like it was the first words out of your mouth is who are you it's weird bit ask about me no
00:35:33
Liam Christopheryou handle that well it's weird cuz I wouldn't expected them to be really polite and well maned just based off you know least working for me I thought they would have been really nice gentlemen I'm so weird out of character wouldn't think brothers that kiss each other would be mean like that no I heard that
00:35:46
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonthey're really mean like they kicked like my friend in her head apparently like what the [ __ ] really in like a bus or something oh McKinley McKinley yeah yeah I heard about that my God imagine kissing your brother and kicking a girl in the head like it's like how much
00:35:59
Lizzyfurther down the ladder can you go honestly the island boys represent people that I cannot stand where they just will do anything to get famous I think it's gross I don't I'm not down yeah think it's disgusting what does
00:36:12
Brian Atlaseveryone else think of the AL boys probably nothing really I don't care never thought about hold on hold on hold on did we go around the table on people's types let's not derail I I would have brought this right back to
00:36:24
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonthe actual topic at hand but I something came up here so where did we leave off dreadlock okay your type please I'm pretty simple just be nice don't be a dick um I like tall guys I'm 5 foot but
00:36:37
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonyou have to be as close as 6ot as absolutely possible I don't want my kids to be short um yeah just be a nice guy and don't be a bum have a job keep a job
00:36:47
Michelleand like me I like snarky Blue Collar nerds that's what I like um for me it's not so much what you
00:36:57
Michellelook like it's not a very specific type for that um but it's more about you know who who he is what kind of morals he has um you know definitely believes in God
00:37:08
Michelleum and is aligned with my morals and what I believe in um fundamentally just a good person um so good heart um likes to be nice to other people and is honest
00:37:19
Michelleum entrepreneurial you know hard worker um yeah those are like the core things good type yeah um I like intelligent men like guys that
00:37:30
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonare really smart oh yeah I think that just so attractive and a man that's really masculine like a man that likes to work men should be working that's hot do more of that um yeah and I just think
00:37:42
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonlike guys that like hold the door open for you walk on the side of the side or the street when you're walking down the sidewalk um it's just like a little things that like make me feel like a woman I have a question on that so the
00:37:53
Brian Atlaswhole like protecting you thing let's say you've already like had children with this man would it be fair to say that once you've I mean perhaps even at okay at any point in the perhaps even
00:38:05
Brian Atlasany point in the relationship but after you've had children couldn't you make the argument that actually you should stand closer to the street because he would be more capable of ensuring the survival of the children should you be
00:38:17
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonthe one that like it's hit by a [ __ ] car life insurance what do you mean like if he gets hit by a car life insurance so that wa that's that's all a man is to you is well no I'm just saying
00:38:28
Brian Atlaslike you're asking should I walk on the side of the street or should he like well women should always be protected and children also well but in terms of like okay if you're thinking about your
00:38:38
Brian Atlaschildren right wouldn't actually the father be like if if one of the parents has to die wouldn't it actually make the most sense for the father to continue living
00:38:50
Brian Atlashe'd be most capable of protecting them and most capable well I don't know what the assuming he's the bread winner in this situation he you'd be more capable of uh providing for them too well I
00:39:00
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonthink in the sense that no home is good without a father like it it is important to have a father in the home yeah mothers and fathers are both very very crucial but like we've seen studies that there is a greater impact with
00:39:12
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonfatherless homes and motherless um but I think both are very important um but though so but couldn't you then make the argument that if one of the parents has to die in some hypothetical scenario
00:39:25
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonsome hypothetical situation the mother think yo sweet too thankk for the gift at 20 um and in terms of okay you're saying the father should stay because he should fin he's able to financially provide for the family if the mother's
00:39:37
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonand protect yes and protect well I could say that in the case of a horrible situation that the father you know if it was one of them um the father should have high life insurance and if he has a high-paying job he has high paying life insurance and you should get that
00:39:49
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonprotected first and foremost to protect your family and then therefore if the father passes away you have life insurance and also it's like usually unfortunately hypothetical situation Widow would probably there is a chance
00:40:02
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonthat they would remarry and then find another father for the home that's pretty rational I think well hold on but couldn't you could make that same argument towards well listen but I'm a like what kind of life insurance am I going to have like the dad's going to have to take care of children like he's
00:40:16
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytongoing to be a single dad taking care of all these children with no Mom working because he doesn't have life insurance like I don't make I I want to be a stay-at home mom what is my insurance that like the life insurance will cover
00:40:25
Brian Atlaswell so I'm not entirely sure how life Insurance works because I don't well so is life insurance based on your income I
00:40:35
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonthink it's based on I don't I don't sell insurance I couldn't the I mean in this scenario couldn't the mother even if she wasn't working also get life insurance
00:40:46
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonguess I guess I think it depends on how much like your assets that you own quote me if I'm I I don't know but I thought like it'd be crazy if someone took out a fat life insurance policy and then died and then collected right like that sounds not reasonable so I would think
00:41:00
Brian Atlasthat it would have to be either on your income or assets but I mean assets usually in the H like wouldn't you almost be more attracted to the guy who
00:41:10
Brian Atlasactually is prepared to sacrifice you so that he could continue on and you know you can make the argument that he might
00:41:19
Brian Atlasbe more capable of providing for his children uh protecting his children no cuz I hear this a lot like I want a guy
00:41:31
Brian Atlaswho will he'll be on the inside of the the sidewalk in the vent like some [ __ ] car comes and he should die instead of me and I started thinking about that I was like well let's say you
00:41:43
Michellehave children right I feel like the most Optimum thing would be actually the woman's got to get hit by the car in this situation but wouldn't he be failing his role though if if his
00:41:55
Liam Christopherrole is to protect prot you're also family Duty I would get by the car personally me personally just because I feel like provide yeah and like I've I've been in a broke house with no dat and no money
00:42:08
Brian Atlasand [ __ ] so I'm just being argumentative to be we know funny P the go we know what a conversation but like this idea
00:42:16
Brian Atlaslike you cuz you kind of think and uh who is that can you get one of you guys just mute that fire them throw it it's okay it's all right imagine if
00:42:29
Brian Atlassomebody's like Mama's dead sorry okay I just watched Dave chapal yesterday so there's a good life insurance where is J R find
00:42:39
Brian AtlasJ find J somebody find J makes sense I know I I just um we have to check with life insurance
00:42:49
Brian Atlasthe man the man who is so prepared to like he'll protect you in a scenario where he's done like the split second calculus of like I can survive she can
00:43:00
TTSsurvive but like let's say the scenario is one of them has to die and he elects just Gerald donated
00:43:10
TTS$200 you can get a life insurance policy on the mother as the father you can even get a policy for your children I don't know if it's I don't know I'm not an expert in life insurance but uh I want a
00:43:22
Brian Atlascomparison and then we'll decide I don't think it's based I think it's based on you if you want more from Life Insurance you pay more into it I don't think it's
00:43:31
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonlike somebody who makes 50k a year and they pay $10 a month they're going to get the same amount of money as somebody who makes a million dollars a year who's paying $10 a month in life insurance okay but also in the sense that women
00:43:44
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonshould be protected because we have the greatest gift that we can carry children and what if you've already had children though but I'm going to make more who knows that I'm done if I have four kids I might keep going couldn't you also
00:43:55
Brian Atlasargue from like a uh I don't even think it's a selfish perspective but could you even if you haven't had children well hold on as a man I haven't had children
00:44:05
Brian Atlaswith this woman yet if I die that's the end of my genetic Legacy I think I just throw her to the I want to survive she gets run over by the car so you're going
00:44:18
Brian Atlasto use as a human meat Shield but wouldn't hold on but like we're all selfish creatures right so wouldn't that be that like if I want to continue my genetic Legacy wouldn't I want to sacrifice this woman who I haven't had children with you be an IMM masculine
00:44:31
Brian Atlasman I would be a what and I would you would be an IMM masculine man and therefore should not continue your genetics okay so here's the choice
00:44:39
Brian Atlassurvive or some people think you're a beta survive and pro I think I'd rather live I think I'd rather just survive do you care more about living or the Legacy what do you mean like is it more
00:44:52
Brian Atlasimportant like being alive or like carrying on the the genetic Legacy cuz you could Edge that with the SP Bank just put you I'm going to survive look I want to survive in all scenarios so care
00:45:04
Lizzywho has to go in front of the chivalry dead chivalry is dead and women killed it I would like to point out actually in my circumstance for example my man would
00:45:15
Lizzydefinitely not go for this and he'd be on the outside of the street but technically since I'm a stepmom I would say technically it would be more optimal for him to survive and for my
00:45:27
Lizzystepdaughter's mother to survive so yeah it probably be best for me to to go go let's go selfless that's what I'm talking about Bri good energy thank you
00:45:39
Brian Atlasfor the cosign I appreciate it Brian do you always make sure to walk on the inside of the sidewalk with a girl do do you always make sure to to walk in the inside of the sidewalk with a girl I don't go well see I do some I don't even
00:45:50
Backgroundgo out in public that shit's too dangerous he's not even putting himself in that situation you truly value yourself I'm very I am trying to secure what are you securing
00:46:02
Brian Atlasyes my survival for what for what this is C guys this is California I've got this like kind of disruptive podcast I got Ops I got enemies are you securing your survival for the Mean Streets the
00:46:15
Brian AtlasMean Streets of Santa Barbara there's people that want to shank me son are you scared of dying uh yeah sure I don't want to die why well I mean do you want to have a f
00:46:26
Brian Atlasphilosophical debate on the existential I'm more interested in that well because I mean there's a possibility uh that once you die it's
00:46:37
Brian Atlasjust Eternal nothing there's just it's just as we don't have a recollection of what occurred before we were born it's just infinite nothing uh and you're
00:46:49
Michelleafraid of that yeah that's a it's a possibility that that's a thing could I give you something to think about so is it a possibility that for it to be better than that since we don't really
00:47:02
Brian Atlasknow well then we're having a conversation about is there an afterlife is there Heaven it's possible but scar it's also possible what scares me about well if I could snap my fingers right now and you just went into
00:47:14
Michelleunconsciousness forever would you would you like that I don't think that's what's going to happen so I'm actually not afraid okay so I don't what about the
00:47:25
Michelleactual like pain prior to death you're not afraid of that of the death part yeah the actual dying process oh well I guess it's temporary right it doesn't last very
00:47:39
Brian Atlaslong so you're not you don't fear you don't fear death no because I believe in heaven but you wouldn't do anything for example to prevent yourself
00:47:51
Michellefrom dying early then prevent dying early um I don't wish to die early but but I wish to fulfill whatever God's purpose for me is on this Earth and then I'm Gone to Heaven which is way better
00:48:03
Michellethan here you know you validated his case for why he should push you in front of the car I don't I believe that he would he is I truly believe if I was standing on a sidewalk with Brian he would
00:48:15
Brian Atlaspation very good observation I'm never walking on a sidewalk with you Brian that's what I he won't be there he doesn't go outside he doesn't go outside so but uh someone in the chat was like
00:48:27
Brian Atlasshe ignored my question what was the question that I asked I forgot um I'm trying to see the chat who who's the guy who sent in that chat it was
00:48:37
Brian Atlasjust a regular chat um she who ignored my question what was the question that was ignored um but uh what was I talking
00:48:50
Brian Atlasabout hold on I'm looking for it boys how did we get I don't even know how we got there the whole types and well let's ask H his type wait actually really
00:49:00
Brian Atlasquick though before really quick before we get that um so okay I I I don't get this idea of like
00:49:10
Brian Atlasmen oh let me just sacrifice my life for some woman who within a month is going to be [ __ ] another guy that's crazy that's crazy why do you think that what
00:49:21
Brian Atlaskind of girls are you pursuing that do that yeah Brian actually I think there's actually some data on this women move on Far quicker than men and there might
00:49:33
Brian Atlasactually be a evolutionary biological basis for this because since men were more likely to go to war and die women have throughout it could be evolutionary
00:49:43
Brian Atlashave learned to cope with the fact that their husbands fathers Brothers could just end up dying and so women are actually much more acclimated perhaps
00:49:54
Brian Atlasevolutionary evolutionarily and by ially speaking to move on really quickly and find a new mate so you think you're going to be chivalrous and the girl that you're chivalrous with is going to move
00:50:05
Brian Atlason and be screwing someone else in a month so I'm wondering what kind of wom but with youens all the time you you never I don't look I'm not sure I you know what I ask hold on Brandon Lee
00:50:17
TTSdonated $200 Q keep spreading the good word Brian would you please get your guy standing in the corner of stool weird watching him stand
00:50:28
Brian Atlasthere is there room for a I think there should be room uh yo Brandon Lee thank you man for the chat appreciate it uh well we can we can get if you want he'll stand it's good for to see I need to
00:50:39
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonread the other oh I didn't see it um he's not real wait sorry what was your what was your question he's AI what was your question um what kind of women are you pursuing that you think that are
00:50:52
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytongoing to you're going to be and then move on in a month because I feel like most most good-hearted women with good intentions that seek your commitment and attachment in a a long-term monogamous
00:51:03
Brian Atlasrelationship wouldn't do that and they would take the time to he not all women not all women would do that but is that what you fear though no I don't I mean if I'm dead at that point it's like
00:51:13
Brian Atlaswhat's it really matter but uh you know I actually in fact I I actually screen all the women I date and I make sure that I tell them even if we've dated for three weeks I say listen after you've
00:51:23
Brian Atlasdated me you got to become a nun that's they can't after a girl dates me she can't date anybody else even if I break up with her I'm dating another woman are you becoming a saint as well dude whose
00:51:36
Liam Christopherphone is that holy [ __ ] someone's going to have to take pH is that phone can somebody just it's mine a I can see it in your eyes is there guys can you guys silence it please yeah yeah bring it over here
00:51:49
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonlet's get it silence one of them e bodies it's an alarm but I forgot that I have it on what happens to the best of us so since you said that you know there's no benefit to being chivalrous
00:52:01
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonis there a benefit of women being sweet kind feminine women because that goes both ways well it's it's both people have to come to the table on that but you're adamant on not
00:52:12
Brian Atlasdoing it correct well I don't buy into this idea that if I'm dating a woman I need to sacrifice my life for her to sacrifice their life for a woman if that ENT if how how long do you have to be dating for that to kick in you think it
00:52:25
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonshould if I've been dating a girl for for 2 weeks you think I should sacrifice my life for her then I mean I think men should always it's their Duty like I think what if she's a total stranger but listen solders do it for our country every day don't they what's that
00:52:37
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonsoldiers go to war they put their life on the line to protect people they don't even know we're talking within the context of a romantic relationship yes and but that's a man's Duty right a man's duty is to serve our country and protect people they don't even know you know these okay
00:52:48
Brian Atlasso hold on so this is like the ultimate so okay fine this is the ultimate form of chivalry a man who's willing to die for a woman are either of you
00:52:59
Brian Atlasvirgins no well you're not the hold on no I'm not you're not the ultimate form of a traditional women W uh woman airgo because of that you're not bringing the
00:53:11
Brian Atlasultimate corresponding uh being traditional thing to your partner so why should he bring the ultimate frankly I think dying for a
00:53:21
Brian Atlaswoman is orders of magnitude greater than a woman remaining a virgin that's crazy so I need to be a virgin for a man to be chalous for me to die for me
00:53:31
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonbecause also hold on uh I think that's a fair exchange I think that's pretty fair okay so if I get married a man should not put his life on the line and provide and protect for me because I was not a
00:53:43
Brian Atlasvirgin and even if I'm if I'm redeemed and if I CH he still can if if he's so inclined to he still can but this expectation that men do this ultimate
00:53:54
Brian Atlasform of chivalry which is to die high for a woman then the I think on the far lower on the totem pole the corresponding expectation of women ought
00:54:05
Aurora/Avery/Bri/Paytonto be if you want a man to die for you you might as well be a virgin when you meet him okay so I don't think that's a so if you met a virgin you would be you would walk on the outside of the
00:54:16
Brian Atlassidewalk for her if if you were dating a virgin I still wouldn't do it so it doesn't matter so it doesn't even matter yeah but I don't I don't hold myself out
00:54:24
Brian Atlasto be the the Paragon of chivalry and tradition so I mean so what's jq's
00:54:36
Q (The Quill)type is that we were remember yeah we was on my type you want me to go ahead Brian you done yeah
00:54:45
Q (The Quill)okay all right so my type is I like I like innocent women I like the innocent introverted type um don't party don't
00:54:55
Q (The Quill)Club she's lowkey got a nice little regular job um I like feminine I like sweet Nick can you open in the I like she has a
00:55:07
Q (The Quill)sense of humor and when I say sense of humor I mean she has to be receptive to my sense of humor so she got to laugh cuz women aren't typically funny so she got to be receptive to my sense of humor and yeah that's pretty it's pretty
00:55:19
Liam Christophersimple it's pretty simple emotionally stable never mind then mentally mature that's it okay you're good dude this is a good list you don't want me to do mine dude okay okay okay okay okay I'll do
00:55:32
Liam Christophermine so I've never posted any girls that I've dated on social media very intentionally it's just one of my rules I don't post girlfriends on socials ever the three that I've dated look exactly like her just on looks alone I don't
00:55:45
Liam Christopherknow you personally could be wonderful person but that's just how they look um in terms of Personality My Only Rule is just loyalty that's it I don't really care about anything else like the two girls I dated with me when I had a dollar and I made Seven figures and I
00:55:58
Liam Christopherlost it all and then the second one was with me when I had a dollar and then I made it all back so that's like zero to seven figure loyalty you know what I mean so that's all I care about I don't care about anything else couldn't care less that's my type real loyalty like prop no that's the best quality loyalty
00:56:11
Liam Christopheryeah that's why I've had two two good five years no complaints you know you don't hear me speak negative about anyone um but at the same time like I've managed over 500 um creators so like I think and you probably know this as well when you meet people at scale you learn
00:56:24
Liam Christopherto read people pretty quickly so you see red and green flags like straight away uh and you can see the way people treat other people how do they talk to waiters waitresses you know how do they talk to people who are powerless versus people