She STORMS OUT And DELETES Her ØF?! 3 BABY DADDIES?! Men CAN NOT Have Standards?! | Dating Talk #155

Date: 2024-04-24
Duration: 6h 21m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Selena Bowser(guest)
SPEAKER_03Karina Naline(guest)
SPEAKER_04Cara/Victoria/Priya(guest)
SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_07Jake(guest)
SPEAKER_10Jesse(guest)
SPEAKER_11Liam Christopher(guest)
SPEAKER_14Lauren(guest)

Key Moments

00:03:13
IntroGuest introductions: Selena Bowser (31, PA, CNA), Cara (26, Tampa FL, sugar baby), Karina Naline (27, Dallas TX, marketing/bodybuilder), Victoria (34, PA, SAHM), Jesse (20, Wisconsin, CMR), Lauren (32, PA, pediatric NP), Priya (23, CA, law enforcement training), Liam Christopher (35, Australia, digital entrepreneur), Jake (28, Australia, YouTuber Rattlesnake TV).

go ahead hello my name is Selena Bowser I'm 31 years old I live in Pennsylvania

00:58:47
Key MomentVictoria confirms she has 3 baby daddies (pre-show notes revealed by Brian). 1 child before marriage, 1 with husband, 1 during separation.

three baby daddies I do oh okay I know uh how many kids do you have three three oh from three

01:31:11
Key MomentSelena rates herself 10/10 in extended self-rating debate. Acknowledges others might rate her 5 on average. States: 'I'm cute like I'm a 10 I don't care.' Lauren and Jake push back.

I'm cute like I'm a 10 I don't care

01:32:36
QuoteSelena on her self-rating at age 21: rated herself a 5

what would you have rated yourself at 21 oh god 5

03:10:43
ControversyCara's OnlyFans deletion attempt on-stream and rage quit. Brian and Jake push her to delete OF and Twitter live. Cara becomes emotional, asks for 'a break', gets her bag, and storms out. Brian confirms: 'she said she's leaving, asked for her bag and out it.' Cara is seen in a car. Brian removes her from episode description. Labels it 'strumpet meltdown.'

she said she's leaving asked for her bag and out it

03:13:07
QuoteBrian labels Cara's departure: 'that's a rage quit'

pretty sure that's a that's a rage quit

03:13:19
QuoteBrian confirms Cara rage-quit: 'she's in a car — that makes I don't think she should be driving'

sweet she's in a car okay that makes I don't think she should be driving

03:16:47
QuoteBrian coins 'strumpet meltdown' phrase for Cara's departure

melt down after delete uh one melt down strumpet melts down strumpet meltdown

05:25:51
Key MomentBrian reads Victoria's pre-show note on air: she has 3 baby daddies; not sticking to Traditional Values has been 'unbelievably detrimental' to her and family; wants to warn young women; 'I would never want a young girl to walk in my footsteps'

currently going through a separation... I have three baby daddies... not sticking to my original Traditional Values have been unbelievably detrimental to me and my family

05:30:26
AgreementKarina describes female peers across school years pressuring her toward bad behavior while men always protected her choices to stay pure. Females hold grudges; keeps distance.

females from middle school to college have always tried to get me to do bad things

05:36:42
Key MomentJake cites Bettina Arndt 'Men Too' book. Male suicide at unprecedented rates; men north of 40 losing family/finances to legal system. Donation from viewer who almost deleted himself.

men are deleting themselves at unprecedented rates in society at the moment

Topics Discussed

00:00:16
Show intro and announcements

Brian's standard intro: support via streamlabs, TTS at $200, memberships, merch, Discord.

00:03:13
Guest introductions

9 guests introduce themselves: name, age, location, occupation.

00:08:01
Relationship status round

All guests describe current relationship status. Cara's sugar baby lifestyle detailed. Victoria's complicated marriage disclosed. Jesse's surgeon boyfriend discussed.

00:20:47
Would you date a police officer?

Panel goes around. Lauren: yes (married to one). Cara: no (lifestyle incompatibility). Jesse: yes. Others mixed.

00:25:02
Oral sex etiquette debate

Brian discloses he does not go down on women (last time: 2007-2008 'Bush Administration'). Panel debates hygiene, exclusivity requirements, women's preferences.

00:42:53
Selena self-rating debate ('I'm a 10')

Selena claims she is a 10/10. Extended philosophical debate about self-rating, logic, bell curve of beauty. Jake and Lauren push back. Selena acknowledges others might rate her 5 on average but maintains personal self-view.

00:58:47
Victoria: 3 baby daddies reveal

Brian asks about pre-show notes revealing 3 baby daddies. Victoria explains timeline: 1 child before marriage, 1 with husband, 1 during separation. Co-parents with all 3.

01:04:34
Circumcision debate

Lauren disagrees with Brian's anti-circumcision position. Extended debate about medical necessity, body autonomy, complications. Victoria reveals 2 sons had hypospadias needing circumcision. Jake discusses friends with circumcision complications.

01:44:17
What is a woman? question

TTS donation triggers 'what is a woman' question. Panel gives various definitions. Selena: 'a vagina' (Brian calls it most misogynistic thing said on podcast jokingly). Others: XX chromosomes, adult human female.

01:52:09
Marijuana debate

Brian and Liam share bad weed/edible experiences (panic attacks). Panel debates marijuana as red flag in partner. Lauren: depends on frequency. Brian: had hallucinations on weed in high school leading to lifelong anxiety.

03:10:43
Cara's OnlyFans deletion attempt and rage quit

Brian and Jake push Cara to delete her OnlyFans and Twitter on-stream. Cara becomes emotional. Says she wants to but is impaired. At ~3:18 asks for 'a break,' gets bag, and walks out. Brian confirms she rage-quit and got in a car. Labels it 'strumpet meltdown.'

03:36:55
Nurses as red flags debate

Jake and panel debate whether nurses are red flags for dating. Lauren defends nurses. Discussion of hospital culture, sex among staff on night shift (psych hospital).

03:53:19
Karina: female social pressure

Karina describes how female peers (middle school through college) always pressured her toward bad behaviors while men always protected her choices.

04:47:47
Bowing debate / 'Asian housewife' video

Brian plays 'Asian housewife' bowing video. Panel asked if they would bow for a man. Most said yes if he treats them well. Maddie promises to recreate video for Frankie.

04:58:07
Jesse: conservative backstory

Jesse (20yo) discusses owning real estate, Russian Orthodox upbringing, moving out at 16, former feminist phase, finding Alex. Most conservative/traditional female voice on panel.

05:25:51
Victoria reads regret statement on-air

Brian reads Victoria's pre-show notes aloud: 3 baby daddies, Traditional Values regret, wants to warn young women. Karina and Lauren respond supportively.

05:30:26
Karina: female fakeness / manipulation

Karina describes hearing female peers plan to make men fall in love then dump them, marry for money, and manipulate. Liam adds darker story.

05:36:42
Male deletion / male suicide crisis

Jake cites Bettina Arndt 'Men Too' book. Male suicide at unprecedented rates. Men north of 40 losing family/finances to legal system. Donation from someone who almost deleted himself over a female.

05:38:37
Makeup ban hypothetical

Brian proposes hypothetical ban on makeup. Panel debates: would level playing field, create black market, reduce female competitiveness. Jake and Maddie comment.

05:54:25
Feminism causes depression/divorce (Lauren)

Lauren says feminist 'girl boss' messaging caused her to prioritize career; she finds more satisfaction as wife/mother. Would trust husband to vote for household.

06:01:49
Body count round (late show)

Brief body count round. Lauren: declined. Priya: declined. Maddie: passed (implied low). TTS chaos mode opened for $20 donations.

06:16:54
Show wrap-up and Twitch raid

Brian thanks panel. Notes Cara deleted her OF (uncertain if it sticks). Raids Twitch streamer Aladar who is playing World of Warcraft Battlegrounds.

Transcript

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00:57:11
Jakeoppressed by the nuclear family and they believe that children are actually standing in the way of women from achieving this sort of utopian Liber Liberation so if you do if you do lean
00:57:22
Jaketowards Christianity Then I then I would really strongly reject feminism yeah I would it and edate myself on it I wouldn't reject having self-respect or I wouldn't respect wanting to be the best version of yourself that you could
00:57:33
Selena Bowserpossibly be but feminism as an ideology very dark definitely going to look into that seems very interesting to look into I never heard of it in a dark sense like that I'll send you some links yeah yeah
00:57:45
Brian Atlaswhat a healthy debate getting back to uh some of the pre-show notes here um let's see I'm
00:57:53
Brian Atlasgoing to go jump right to uh let's see let's go to Victoria Victoria you uh you were a
00:58:03
Brian Atlasformer cam girl is that correct yeah before it was o o didn't exist yet okay from and you're 34 is that correct yeah from what age to what age were you
00:58:13
Cara/Victoria/Priyainvolved with oh I barely did it for a month I hated it I absolutely hated it um yeah and I think it's extremely detrimental extremely detrimental um how did it impact your marriage if you don't
00:58:24
Cara/Victoria/Priyamind me asking um my obviously I did it with the support of my husband because I wasn't going to do it behind his back and um it didn't seem he didn't seem to care much as long
00:58:36
Cara/Victoria/Priyaas it was cuz it had like settings so that it wasn't anyone like in Pennsylvania okay where we live so that he knew that like nothing was going to happen but he was he just didn't seem to have an OP like didn't care that it
00:58:47
Brian Atlasdidn't bother him at all okay uh in our in the pre-show notes that you provided here you said that you have uh
00:58:56
Brian Atlasthree baby daddies I do oh okay I know uh how many kids do you have three three oh from three and I'm assuming one of them is with the guy you're currently
00:59:07
Cara/Victoria/Priyamarried to yes are the other um are the others in the picture yes they are um I had one really young coar yeah I co-parent with each of them and I had
00:59:19
Cara/Victoria/Priyaone really young and then I was married and we uh planned one and then we were separated and I ended up pregnant okay yeah so so both the two kids that
00:59:31
Cara/Victoria/Priyawere parented by the other men that aren't your husband were prior to your current marriage correct no unfortunately one was before and then one was after got it oh wait so just to
00:59:40
Brian Atlasbe clear okay so you had one child then you met your now HB husband you had a kid with him MH and then you had a kid with another man right we were SE I was
00:59:52
Brian Atlasseparated from your current husb my current husband okay and then I got pregnant okay so kid with okay so that you had a kid with one guy met your
01:00:03
Brian Atlashusband husband kid with husband mhm separated from husband had a kid had a kid with another man mhm back with
01:00:12
Cara/Victoria/Priyahusband yes okay I see all right and was he uh was this an issue for him or um he
01:00:20
Cara/Victoria/Priyahas been raising my youngest pretty much as his dad too MH and so he's a really really good dad an amazing dad actually
01:00:30
Jakeand um yeah okay who's initiating most of the breakups um in the beginning it was him and then recently it was me sure what
01:00:42
Cara/Victoria/Priyamakes you want to initiate what is it in particular is it just a moment of of blind Rage or no it's not like that um we are recovering addicts and so we struggle sometimes and there are times
01:00:55
Cara/Victoria/Priyathat we need to separate for our own health and safety can I have you scoot your mic to the edge of the table keep going a little bit perfect okay continue go ahead um and so yeah
01:01:06
Cara/Victoria/Priyajust for our health and safety we have needed to separate and so we were separated and I started seeing somebody I'd like to hear the nurses takes on this about my pay grade yeah about for
01:01:17
Laurenfor what part the uh addict's part and the I I I I empathize I I don't um I can't imagine how that how hard that is
01:01:27
Laurenum do you have you relapsed or has he relapsed like is that a common a common issue or it's it's not super common but
01:01:37
Cara/Victoria/Priyait happens and one of the times was because of that yeah do you guys do like meetings or how do you stay clean um I'm
01:01:48
Cara/Victoria/Priyaactually currently going to a methadone clinic and so that's how I stay clean and he is on suboxin and he's just been trying to stay clean but he was recently
01:01:58
Laurenhe had a recent relapse and so do do you ever think about what it would be like maybe I mean I know this might be hard CU considering you have children together but um maybe it's just not a
01:02:10
Laurengreat situation in general to stay together like maybe you need a partner that can empathize with you but is healthy and doesn't struggle with the same exact isue yeah VI that's certainly
01:02:22
Liam Christophersomething that I've thought of and one of the reasons that we separate if it makes you feel better um I was actually raised by a single mom with three brothers who was a drug addict as well so yeah so my dad left when I was
01:02:33
Liam Christophereight and my mom was addicted to drugs and alcohol and we were homeless at one point we're in a women's Refuge at one point we had no money like nothing so yeah I know what your kids would feel
01:02:45
Liam Christopherlike it's not it's not fun but you know like we got through it um but yeah you're not the only person who's had this sort of struggle I had it absolutely yeah well I I think part of it too is I wonder I mean of course for
01:02:57
Laurenyour health and your husbands uh or ex-husbands but also the children like the constant rotation of you know breaking up getting back together um relapsing and going you know getting
01:03:08
Laurenclean that ultimately I think a lot of the attention is put on your sobriety and your your your partner's sobriety and then the the kids have to adapt through that that becomes very difficult
01:03:19
Brian Atlasso just wondering if like a better situation would be with a a healthy that's definitely something I've been thinking about myself now you you said that you would like to discuss how being a camg girl destroyed your self-esteem
01:03:31
Brian Atlashow promiscuity has become so mainstream that it's destroying the dating World you'd like to talk about how your own personal promiscuity has brought nothing but negativity into your life and that
01:03:42
Cara/Victoria/Priyayou don't want this for other young women yes I mean that's basically my story that it's like a cautionary tale to yeah you know avoid the things that I
01:03:51
Brian Atlashave done when and so like I guess as providing an example when you say your own personal promiscuity what was the scope of the
01:04:01
Cara/Victoria/Priyapromiscuity um well just the fact that I got separated and had another baby like that I was obviously sleeping with somebody else I wasn't sleeping with a lot of people but promiscuity itself just destroyed my self-esteem whenever I
01:04:13
Cara/Victoria/Priyawas younger cuz I went through so many different men because I was a single mom and looking for a partner you know and it was hard and then I slept through so many different men and it was just
01:04:24
Brian Atlasdetrimental sure okay actually I have more more notes here from you but actually one thing I'd like to do is uh we try to well we're already an hour
01:04:34
Brian Atlasinto the show try to start with where people potentially disagree so for those of you who have seen the show if anybody has any disagreements that you've heard
01:04:44
Brian Atlasfrom me heard from Jake um that any of you want to uh bring up I'd be happy to uh start there first I disagree with your wardrobe Brian
01:04:56
LaurenI actually enjoy the black I do I do like the whatever black sweatshirt but I dis I do disagree with you anything constructive yes your your opinion about circumcisions I highly disagree with yes I honestly wish that
01:05:08
Selena Bowserwhat's your opinion on circumcision circumcisions yeah he's against circum sure we can I I prefer to call it male genital mutilation honestly I get where you're coming from because when they do
01:05:20
Brian Atlasthat to women it's called female genital mutilation so women don't get circumcisions but um I think other countries ultim yeah so what are what are your so what are your or why
01:05:32
Laurenare you in favor of circumcision circumcisions uh help with uh lowering risk of penal cancer help lowering risk of STDs it does yes no no it does um
01:05:43
Laurenhelp lowering risk maybe in America no it does it does maybe in America yeah in America yes it does we like if you don't mind can we get a your
01:05:55
Laurenopinion your opin that would be so it there it is uh yeah it slightly decreas it slightly decreases the um risk of
01:06:04
Laurenpenal cancer certain STI and UTI in in men also it's a little bit like I mean I don't I'm just speaking from men I know like as they got older and thought and they thought like oh if I wouldn't have
01:06:17
Laurenbeen circumcised I feel like a lot of women would have looked and been like what the heck is that like a giant scant trunk you know my God that's just the way it looks though but like healthwise can you either fix your posture yeah
01:06:30
Brian Atlashealthwise that is accurate information it's not because hold on well so let me just so there were two claims there there's the cancer claim the STD claim
01:06:38
Brian Atlasthe STD claim no would it UTI no not really but I mean well maybe but yes the STD one potentially even makes sense uh
01:06:49
Laurenintuitively however the cancer one seems dubious mhm it's a very it's a very decreased risk but it is you can look it up also um the the UTI is because um the force people don't do proper hygiene and
01:07:01
Jessethey don't retract the force let talk about that for a minute so it is extremely uncommon for a man to get a UTI let's also talk about it is
01:07:11
Jesseextremely uncommon for a man to get a UTI it's uncommon and if a man has a UTI there's something else wrong it is not
01:07:21
Jessejust an infection it is more than that when a man has a UTI there's something else wrong because the urethra is longer and therefore when they pee and even so let's talk about men and women when
01:07:34
Jessewomen get U we get them more frequently because our urethra is shorter we also have a vagina so there's you know yeast
01:07:45
Laurenthere's a big difference between men and women getting UTI no so the issue is you're probably talk referring to circumcised men when I'm say I know they're Ure thr length of their Ure thr
01:07:56
Laurenum what my point is when a male is uncircumcised bacteria gets under the forkin bacteria gets under the forkin so it gets caught in there and it travels upward because people don't know the
01:08:08
Laurenproper way and they don't retract the Forin you teach the kid how to properly clean the pis well this is I'm I'm just telling him why it is beneficial to get takes off so many nerve endings and it's just not proper like in other countries
01:08:20
Laurenthey don't do the circumcision I don't really much care about other countries they not ding Cancer and a well AIDS I have a question though so for
01:08:30
Brian Atlasexample if we were hold on stop if we were to compare let's say there was a procedure that removed removed women's breasts well I guess you can't remove
01:08:41
Brian Atlastheir breast at Birth but if there was a procedure that hold on no no no let's say there was a procedure when after one stop let's say there's a procedure after women went through puberty that removed
01:08:53
Brian Atlastheir breasts would there be evidence of decreased risk of breast cancer in those women if we remove their breast yes well is that would that justify the removal
01:09:03
Laurenof women's breasts to prevent cancer for just in case I I I guess it depends on how important you find breasts I had two breast reductions so they really aren't important to me there
01:09:15
Brian Atlasare there are plenty of women that do remove their breast you realize circumcision is done on a mass scale here in the United States other countries well a few other countries so it's not clear to me because there is
01:09:27
Brian Atlasand perhaps this is just a correlation uh it's not clear to me if the decreased risk of cancer is enough pretext to
01:09:37
LaurenWarrant uh mutilating a child's genitals sure I I I understand what you're saying I don't think the cancer part is that massive because like I said it's a very
01:09:47
Laurensmall reduction but the infection is a major um benefit of not of getting a circumcision because like I said bacteria does get stuck under the for skin that's so is there just like cuz I believe in Europe there's not a bunch of
01:09:59
Laurencircumcision is there just like rampant St uh like UT for men in Europe is that I imagine the education is probably way better than it is here in the US because
01:10:09
Laurenagain circumcision is so Baseline here um but also late I I've heard people say in the show that later on you should give leave it up to the um men male when he's you know a teenager whatever if he
01:10:23
Laurenwants to get that done he can make the decision well well that recovery is going to be a heck of a lot different than when you're an infant and you don't reproduce those memories you don't remember those things um so it's could
01:10:33
Cara/Victoria/Priyaand it's it's a larger surface area as well at that point your wife or whoever is dating you should like just accept your penis the way it is and like like you're circumcised or uncircumcised dick
01:10:44
Brian Atlasbut like most uncircumcised dicks are like that's a they not mutilated they're not mutilated if we stick to the medical discussion of it so let me just actually let's just I'll just you know there could be some debate over
01:10:57
Brian Atlaswhether you know what you're saying is actually true if there is a decreased risk of cancer if you know with the UTI thing I'll just seat it and say sure fine however there's also cases where
01:11:08
Brian Atlasmen do get circumcised and it gets botched sure so there is a while it might have some corresponding positive medical benefits of circumcision there's
01:11:20
Brian Atlasalso corresponding negative outcomes to circumcision there can be nerve damage that can be damaged to the glands there can be there's cases where the entire penis has to be removed there's been
01:11:31
Brian Atlascases of that and then that's absolutely catastrophic so um yeah and then I mean there's also the consideration of well does
01:11:39
Brian Atlasinflicting uh you know could this be actually mentally damaging you know psychologically uh young babies do you think they they so normally you don't
01:11:51
Brian Atlasreproduce memories or you can't uh so do you think if you like for like a period of the first year of a child's life if like the parents were just like beating the child it wouldn't have any impact on the child at all they just forget it well I think that would have I don't I
01:12:04
Laurendon't know that they would remember it but if it depends if they would cause legitimate medical issues um they slam their head or shook their baby then of course that causes specific medical and neurological conditions but um yeah I'm not sure wouldn't there be a dis like a
01:12:17
Jakestress response though that the child would had that would give it some sort of trauma sure I don't think a one-time circumcision would do that but if if it but if it is a very pain procedure though if it is a very painful proced
01:12:29
Laurenthey give they give things like you know little anesthetics and babies we can use glucose water just like little sugar can be used as an anesthetic in a baby and so they give them that and did you ever notice that after a c now I have two
01:12:40
Laurenboys both have had circumcisions sorry boys um but you know I either way did you ever notice that after the procedure within an hour or two they don't cry anymore there's no pain they don't
01:12:52
Jakethere's it's just it they don't you don't even even when you're cleansing the area um there's no response I'm actually totally indifferent on this I didn't really have an opinion on this but I was actually really enjoying watching YouTube go back and forth seems like you're jumping at the bit to say
01:13:04
Jessesomething over here yeah um I want to kind of piggy back off of what Brian was saying just because they don't feel it and we don't know that they feel it is it at that point still
01:13:16
Laurenokay like he's saying I mean you could punch your kid in the head and then they do feel it I think you're talk you're talking about yeah you're talking about two different types of traumas um you can go ahead yeah I just want to point out like that the argument that you're
01:13:29
Liam Christopherusing is the same argument that pro-abortionists use where they say well you can kill the kid because the kid can't remember so it's the same argument where you say that right would you agree same argument the kid can't remember so we can chop its dick off but the kid can't
01:13:42
Jesseremember so we can no they wouldn't have a life they wouldn't have a life if you aborted a child they but you're still doing something to them without their consent that's what I'm saying okay go ahead also another thing to consider is
01:13:53
Jessethat man is going to grow up that boy is going to grow up it is statistics that what men with four skin do have it's more sensitive it's more enjoyable good point so you know you're making a
01:14:04
Jakedecision for your sons and they about their future sexual lives yeah they have no say in I had a friend a kid who got circumcised when he was a little baby and they screwed it up and his penis
01:14:15
Brian Atlasnever grew maybe that was my God never heard that that's crazy so he had a micro penis's sitting here a micro penis
01:14:25
Brian Atlasjust Googled this from hold on guys stop I just Googled this from Boston Children's Hospital the reported surgical complication rate while low is
01:14:36
Brian Atlasbetween 2 to 3% um so you know the you can debate whether that's significant but I mean if there's hundreds of thousands of I don't know
01:14:48
Laurenthe how many sure how many per year whatever but uh I mean that ends up being a lot of men who they're botched circumcision sure I also think um I I
01:14:58
Laurenthink a a lot of men are circumcised and to your point I really don't think that they're uh complaining of their issues being pleasured um so it might be more but if you never have it's like a virgin
01:15:10
Laurenmarrying a another virgin on their wedding like and only having sex on their wedding night they don't know what else is out there so that is the best they're going to have so if somebody is
01:15:19
Laurencircumcised and has uh sexual relations that is just what they think is normal you know and so I don't think that's really a great argument that kind of sucks though I'd rather have body
01:15:32
Laurenautonomy if I could have more pleasure I'd take it right but the thing is you're taking away an opportunity that they don't even know about well if they want to take on that opportunity later in life it's going to be a real hell of
01:15:43
Laurena problem cuz it's going to be a really bad um uh recovery it's going to be much more painful they're definitely going to have memories about it I actually had another friend
01:15:55
Jakehave a lot of friends had once again just asking for a friend I I had another friend who got the procedure done at 14 years old but that was only because this guy's in a different different boat but
01:16:07
Jakeum his penis grew to the point where it couldn't where it stretched it so he had to get it cut off problems and then my friend Liam was born with Liam was born with a condition
01:16:18
Laurencalled penis Manus it's inverted let be real with an inie no um no yeah there's always going to be risks of course I don't know and I haven't looked into this but the risks of getting a
01:16:29
Laurencircumcision later on in life I don't know what that is um if that's a higher risk for something like that he was a 14-year-old that couldn't do anything with it for 3 months but I mean is what like look there's there's a bunch of
01:16:41
Brian Atlascountries where they don't do this procedure and is there just like catastrophic like this cat catastrophe for men upon like no no they're fine
01:16:52
Laurenthey didn't get circumcized they're fine like I said I think you have to it's it's a lot of different components it's not like in medical medical uh care you can just say oh well in other countries they they don't have circumcisions and it's all fine so if we did the same
01:17:06
Laurenthing it would be all be fine there's a lot that would we would have to change in terms of our education the amount of Education nurses have to do uh with patients and families is incredible there's barely enough time to get it done and then the patients don't even
01:17:17
Laurenfollow that anyway half the time so it just depends but yeah if the education was better hold on but so you're saying that wouldn't it be like a 5 minute 5 minutes
01:17:29
Brian Atlasof instruction so it's worth chopping off boys pen uh boys foreskin without their informed consent because it would be a it be labor for
01:17:41
Laurenthe nurses to instruct them or for the parents to Google there's no labor issue there's a compliance issue you can tell a patient to take a pel twice a day and
01:17:51
Background/crewthey still don't do it it it just happens that way we struck like um I want one TR you can I have
01:18:02
Cara/Victoria/Priyaone I'm good can I have one more stay we but anyways yeah but I see your point either way can I my one
01:18:13
Cara/Victoria/Priyalittle thing so I have three boys and they actually two of them were born with something called a hypos fadus and they actually needed to use the forkin to properly fix their penises so that it
01:18:25
Laurenwould look you describe that is though it's when the urethal meatus the opening uh for where the urine comes out is to low so it points downward yeah and so
01:18:35
Cara/Victoria/Priyathey actually like form the hole at the tip whenever they do the surgery and you had to wait I had to wait till they were 6 months old one was 6 months one was like a year and there definitely was a
01:18:46
Cara/Victoria/Priyalot more recovery than my middle son who was newborn and got it done but the reason why I chose it personally was more of a deci thing and because I
01:18:56
Laurenpersonally had an experience with a man who his for skin was adhered to his penis I I I think people are forgetting
01:19:05
Laurenthat that does happen and it was so painful for he couldn't per do what's four skin be can be adhered to the um tip of the penis meaning they can't
01:19:16
Cara/Victoria/Priyaretract it back it's extremely painful why why does that happen like what what causes it just conal yeah not proper care that too that too I mean yeah like
01:19:27
LaurenI said you have to it's a specific way of having to like hygienic practices but yeah if you're consistently pulling it back and cleaning it it's not going so he must have been jacking off a lot okay I don't think so but no probably
01:19:39
Brian Atlasnot probably the ultimately I just don't think
01:19:47
Backgroundthat Jack this sck wrong that's enough okay ultim ultimately I just don't think that
01:19:57
Brian Atlasit it's worth the tradeoff okay and also I mean look you I I don't dispute I don't dispute that for example like if you do want to or opt to get the procedure when you're an adult you're
01:20:10
Brian Atlasit's probably going to be a bit more painful like you're going to obviously remember it um but um I'm I would be curious to know what is the percentages
01:20:20
Brian Atlasof adults who didn't get a circumcision as a child who then to get a circumcision because there's not for aesthetic reasons though I don't think that's valid but if there's like I think the thing you like there's
01:20:32
Brian Atlassomething there's painful erection or whatever it may be compared to the uh the amount of like you know just the Baseline of babies who are getting
01:20:43
Brian Atlascircumcised what the complication uh like the comparative complications are there mhm so I don't know forkin hat donated $200
01:20:55
TTSthe benefits are irrelevant it should be up to the man as he becomes an adult shout out to Liam best his name though got me jacked and grew my sweet meat by 2 in
01:21:09
Brian Atlasuncircumcised [ __ ] that from Forin hat du oh my God that's the best uh we do have a chat
01:21:20
Brian Atlashere from Desert Joe coming in in just a second current question in the chat for Jake and Pria anything to share since Sunday show not- asking like kiss and tail gossip just nothing there's clearly a wholesome Pria wasn't here on Sunday
01:21:33
Laurenyeah I wasn't here on that was that other girl but she was trying to touch Jake's arm like every moment of the show was so distracting she would purposely put her arm out here closer and closer I was
01:21:43
TTSjust like Canada won donated $200 sorry to interrupt love you Brian but question for the high ginger chick next to pink hair is there any tread left on the tires at all or is like
01:21:56
Cara/Victoria/Priyathrowing a hot dog down a hallway nice beard Brian thank you man uh no I've been told that my pussy's pretty
01:22:06
Brian Atlastight excuse me yeah it's pretty tight you don't have to repeat but uh thank you for sharing appreciate it I'm just answering the question Jak did
01:22:17
Brian Atlasyou want to address the previous chat or I mean with prya no she was he's talking about the AL so yeah MH oh no no nothing
01:22:26
Brian Atlasto report no okay there there's your answer um all the girls like Jake though they all you know every time you're on the show the girl who's sitting over here they're
01:22:38
Liam Christopheralways like oh Jake and the girl in corner of the table the whole time rning my leg I I think ran has the biggest crush on Jake of them all honestly something about this see
01:22:48
Brian Atlasthere's a magnetism we're getting really close my fav it's the snuggle session over here that's definitely true uh all right thank you guys appreciate it Nick pull up twitch really quick guys go to
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01:23:24
Brian Atlasway to support the show every single month so uh thank you guys appreciate it thank you for the follows and the prime Subs we're going to go around the table Stiffler has a question here ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to 10 starting with you go
01:23:37
Cara/Victoria/Priyaahead I think I'm pretty cute I'd say I'm a 10 okay what about you like maybe like a five a seven like a three like a six six and a half yeah I
01:23:49
Brian Atlaswould say six six and a half six and a half or seven go six but eight with a few big maybe I'll go a seven okay give myself a
01:23:58
Brian Atlasfive so we have only 110 at the table uh 110 at the table do you want to change you want to change your answer now that uh no you've
01:24:10
TTSheard some Mar to the Beat of My Own Drum but what is what but what do everybody else march to I think you guys are scared the
01:24:21
TTSass actually attracted to intelligence rates herself a zero that's me but you can keep talking [ __ ] if they know me they would know
01:24:31
Cara/Victoria/Priyathey were wrong well what he's talking about me though oh yeah well I don't know you cuz I'm stoned well kind of by the way hold on actually I do actually want to address this so
01:24:42
Brian Atlaslike are you sure not anything else yeah I'm just stoned and I honestly got I got something in my ey bro I don't want to look at your [ __ ] eye you put that [ __ ] away no I I swear
01:24:54
Brian Atlasthat's [ __ ] disgusting that's fine I'm really not in anything else this is just do you think you could have done this sober like we do typically prefer people who are sober we don't serve alcohol to
01:25:06
Cara/Victoria/Priyaanybody you guys have white claw in the fridge does anybody here have a no she offered it yeah she offered it who did Madison
01:25:16
Brian Atlasyeah but you you asked though didn't you no that was me I did yep but oh did you offer it or no yes oh okay well you haven't had any
01:25:28
Cara/Victoria/Priyacorrect no I'm really just like we don't offer people alcohol I know I'm not on drugs this is just my personality but honestly like at the end of the day like you said you're on
01:25:37
Brian AtlasEdibles other substances well I mean couldn't you like just not do that knowing you're coming on the podcast yeah like but I would still act this way
01:25:48
Cara/Victoria/PriyaI act I'd probably act worse though You' you'd act worse yeah a bold statement because I'm more
01:25:58
Cara/Victoria/Priyahyper you're much you're 26 yeah are you just are you just unable to maneuver through life without how do you how do
01:26:07
Cara/Victoria/Priyayou I like marijuana I'm my God okay I do oh my God yeah sure I get I smoke like a lot of marijuana I get that you like it but don't don't you think that
01:26:17
Cara/Victoria/Priyathat's a character defect yeah no don't you think that could be an addiction no of course not do you think that everyone in California that smokes weed is an addict yes wow I
01:26:30
Jakedon't know if they're an addict but somebody who used to be addicted to it myself it is very very addictive I smoke every day don't tell the customers I'm actually joking I'm speaking about a friend
01:26:40
Jakeagain yeah a friend of mine who used to do it every day it is very very addictive thing and actually it kills your I call it the great killer of human ambition there are some people who can
01:26:53
Jakebe somewhat functional but I find that those people are very productive in other areas of life most of the time when people are smoking every day it's because they're trying to hide from something they're trying to from Consciousness trying to escape their own
01:27:04
Cara/Victoria/PriyaConsciousness not really not necessarily or just try to dll the Natural emotions is that how you feel about alcohol too absolutely Yeah well yeah I can't when people go to a bar and I'm guilty of
01:27:16
Jakethis as well sometimes you feel a bit anxious maybe a bit socially anxious you have a few drinks drink sometimes okay how often do you drink alol once a month maybe if that once a month I think that's my husband and I were
01:27:28
Laurenjust talking about this equivalent to drinking alcohol I think that's kind of it's not it's not but um not exact so I think that in general you know you can go to a bar you can have one drink at night you know but I think a lot wi
01:27:40
Laurenafter your kids go to hey let herish irant I think overall a lot of people are smoking throughout the day um marijuana you know you you came here it's not even dinner time and you
01:27:51
Laurenobviously are already stoned as you said um so it's not like you know people people that were drinking alcohol all day long too yes that's called an addiction or a problem so I would
01:28:02
Jessecompare it comparatively I think it's yeah not good can I actually ask a question yep are you worried about looking back at this and seeing like the way you're conducting yourself like does
01:28:13
Cara/Victoria/Priyathat ever your mind no cuz this is just who I am is this how much marijuana you consume on a regular basis um I consume like 10 gam a day I have no idea what
01:28:26
Cara/Victoria/Priyathat lot 10 joints a day so you quite literally are that's a lot that's half a bad I'm a weed addict so I think too I noticed a lot now I'm again I'm from
01:28:37
LaurenPennsylvania so this this state is like so new to me green Seth Green I saw that um but I think over time even I see that I see it myself like over time when people are
01:28:49
Laurendoing this day after day after day they eventually start to get slow and you're talking them and you're like delayed responses sled speech slower just can't react the same so I think over time it
01:29:01
Selena Bowserreally kills off a lot of brain cells I think that plays for certain people but not for everybody I've been smoking all day every day consistently since I was 14 years old I'm now what's feminism and smok and pot got to do with each other I
01:29:13
Cara/Victoria/Priyasay it's it's a mental illness you know why being a feminist it's not but like I'm not I'm not slow I'm pretty quick witted you know I'm not like animals and my eyes are a little bit puppy from
01:29:24
Laurensomething get in it mhm I think that I wonder what that yeah I it wasn't calm either all right you don't have to say it no we didn't need that I'm sorry um yeah I think I was going to say
01:29:35
Laurensomething now I lost my train of thought oh I think people have to be aware too of like cannabis and du psychosis if you've never uh heard of that that can be from medical marijuana as well as regular Street marijuana and it's been Happ happening increasing uh
01:29:47
Laurenincreasingly actually Nationwide so it's just something to be aware of you have a disposition towards it definitely definitely don't do it yes if you even even if you have depression um you can go into a a cannabis and do psychosis and let me just tell you I worked in the
01:30:00
Laurenpsych Hospital in a schizophrenia by polar unit for the last 3 years and it isn't pretty these people sometimes don't ever come out of it and it's becoming more prevalent from marijuana from marijuana right I've three people have been in OB through Mar is it from
01:30:14
LaurenStreet marijuana very rare though cuz that's very rare no you have a 50% chance every time you consume cannabis yeah right yeah why don't
01:30:24
Laurenyep can you look it up working there for years I've heard about this well you know that you know there was just a famous case where the girl from 2018 was uh was uh given her sentence of only 2
01:30:36
Laurenyears probation which is absolutely absurd um for whatever I don't even know for brutalizing for brutalizing her boyfriend have you ever smoke pot I I have no desire to I don't think anything
01:30:49
Laurenshould be in my lungs wait what she do though somehow I think I'll manage but um she brutal meaning stabbed her uh uh boyfriend in the face 108 times a pot
01:30:59
Laurenokay honey yeah are you sure it wasn't laced with PCP or something no no they they test we we do drug tests and there was nothing else in her system that's
01:31:08
Brian Atlasvery common th they'll pop positive for and nothing else so anyways anyways moving back to so okay we're talking about the rating thing so you said you
01:31:19
Brian Atlasrated yourself a 10 out of 10 in terms of physical pars do you think like so that's your own self assessment what do you think like is that that's how I feel about myself I don't know about anybody
01:31:31
Selena Bowserelse well what do you think other people would rate you on average I guess it depends on the eyes that are seeing me let's just say like some people will be like e she's ugly and other people be God she's really pretty so it just depends on the person I'm saying an average though like if you had to
01:31:44
Selena Bowseraverage it I'd say if we were to average it the best way to do that is a five not that not that you're average but like 100,000 men to add up you know
01:31:55
Selena Bowsertheir ratings and then divide by how many people that's an average no I'm saying what would be the average of the people like if 100,000 people were to rate you yeah the average would be five it would be five yeah probably okay all
01:32:08
Brian Atlasright well that's a bit more fair so then why why if if that's the assessment of what you think other people would rate you why is there such a large discrepancy because I recently went
01:32:19
Selena Bowserthrough a lot and I used to feel really ugly and disgusting and now that I don't feel that way I'm like I'm cute like I'm a 10 I don't care so I don't think this has anything well the ratings per se
01:32:31
Selena Bowserdon't necessarily have any sort of attestment to your your self-esteem and your confidence you can be perfectly confident and also be realistic on your your physical appearance I feel like I'm
01:32:43
Selena Bowserdoing both you know confident and being realistic on my own view of myself other people's views that's different but me personally that's how I see myself I think you're a 10 thanks you're 10 who are too and Y are just scared to say it
01:32:55
Laurencuz you don't want to sound cocky that's nothing to do with I genuinely know I'm not a 10 and I'm okay with that I'm 32 years old what makes a person a 10 the most beautiful woman in the world is a 10 they're not in America okay well
01:33:07
Jakethey're in different I'm just not unrealistic I'm I've always been a realist it's I just know it it isn't it I'm not I don't think there's any tends yeah and beauty Beauty tends to operate on a Bel as Welling wom by best if you
01:33:20
Jakedon't talk when I'm talking so if it operates on a bell generally the majority of the population 80 to 90% of the population will generally sit between the 4 and S Type mark But then on the very outskirts you've got your
01:33:33
Jakenines and tens which is when Hal Berry was most beautiful woman in the world for example she might have been something like a 10 I think that Rihanna and Ponder replay back in the day was a 10 that was my childhood Crush but yeah
01:33:44
Jakethese These are what tens are's a little big on that one I don't know don't ruin it for me we'll say nine we'll say n but yeah generally it's measured on scal as well you know symmetry of the face and
01:33:55
Jakethe shape of the eyes and the shape of the jaw and then obviously bottle like like most women do not even have the ability to be a 10 even if they got surgery so because they have to have a big butt or just a perfect butt well
01:34:08
Jakethey they probably have a pretty nice butt if they like a juicy butt well if yeah I mean I think I think on the universal standards it would probably be more of like a cute butt a cute but
01:34:20
Cara/Victoria/Priyayeah I think Victoria Secret supermodels I got I think they cute bums are so do they have to be really skinny and like barf all the time I would say that they would have to have a low body fat percentage for sure like they have to be lean yeah lean definitely definitely but
01:34:32
Jakeif they're anorexic then that's not attractive obviously but if they keep themselves in good shape and if they look healthy if they look you know viral and feminine and absolutely I got you have you ever watched the Victoria
01:34:43
Cara/Victoria/Priyasecret documentary no I definitely you definitely should it's no you should see what the girls had to go through yeah right okay you're risking for greatness I mean as far as
01:34:55
Selena Bowserthe whole 10 thing uh not going to rate you but you're not a 10 well that's how you feel like I said it's about how I feel I don't know how you guys see me but I see me better than that yeah but
01:35:07
Brian Atlasso where does and the reason I push back on this on the world viiew where does your delusion start interfering with your ability to find a partner um well I
01:35:17
Selena Bowserwasn't ever really looking for a partner whenever I went single last year I was with two people consider recently for 15 years so I just wanted to be single you were with two people not together at the
01:35:28
Selena Bowsersame time so from 16 to 20 I was with someone for 4 years and from 20 to 30 I was with someone for 10 okay yeah all right but I wouldn't really call it a delusion it's just how I see myself I
01:35:40
Brian Atlassee myself in a confident positive light now and I like it I have a question for you if I if I sat here can can I ask you I mean I I'm actually fine for you to rate me do you think I'm a 10 in my personal opinion no that's
01:35:53
Cara/Victoria/Priyatotally fine I don't think I'm a 10 either but so you you I'm trying to remember that's my opinion someone else might see you as a 10 so but you saying you're a 10 essentially is saying that you have
01:36:06
Selena Bowsernothing about yourself that you can improve on uh physical I mean I would probably get bigger boobs maybe a smaller nose but I am like Indian so so
01:36:16
Selena Bowserwe down with nine now we're down to a nine maybe now well I mean if you want to if you want to chop down like that yeah I guess so
01:36:27
Selena Bowserhuh well it's interesting though like do you think all women are tens um it depends on how they see themselves I don't personally but that's my opinion
01:36:38
Brian Atlaslike of course we all think people are attractive move so you speak to it wait but so actually I don't know if that was the right call but um SC M yeah now you
01:36:48
Brian Atlasneed to move now you got to move it back okay well so why why are you able hold the position that your own self assessment of yourself is your a 10 but you just don't blank it give every single woman like why are you why are
01:37:01
Brian Atlasyou able to analyze a woman's face and determine well she's not a 10 she's a nine or eight but when it comes to your own self-perception it's it's a 10 because it's how you see people opinions are like [ __ ] everyone has on you
01:37:14
Brian Atlasknow no but it it seems to me that you can do an an analysis of someone's attractiveness attractiveness and Beauty you're able to do it with me for example you said you said I was I think you said five or whatever I didn't give a number oh you didn't give a number but you said
01:37:26
Brian AtlasI'm not a 10 right so you were able to assess that I'm not a 10 you're uh it it sounds like you're able to assess other women are in a 10 so if you're able to make determinations based on how their face looks their body looks why are you
01:37:38
Selena Bowserincapable of doing that for yourself I think I do am I a 10 do you think I am you're like a 15 you are fine girl
01:37:49
Jakeyou're fine okay also just from the male perspective as well I know that girls often do this say I'm confident I'm confident in myself I'm a 10 it's very unattractive
01:38:01
Jakefrom a guy's perspective and just from from my perspective for example generally I think that one of the most attractive things about a woman is when she knows how to project love outwards and when you have this constant self-aggrandisement of I'm a 10 I'm this
01:38:14
JakeI'm that and it's this self-centeredness that's actually quite unattractive because we really like a woman who knows how to nurture and love and give and give rather than just focusing on the self too much well that makes sense
01:38:25
Selena Bowserwhenever someone's being cocky about it versus being like humble or you know just being genuinely honest how they feel humility is an important quality well she was asked too yeah well modesty
01:38:37
Brian Atlaswould sheate modesty is uh related to femininity I was asked and I was genuine about my honest opinion okay so do you think you're on part with the most beautiful women in the world then no
01:38:50
Selena Bowserbecause the most beautiful women in the world on a scale of 1 to 10 are like 30s 50s they passed the scale I mean that's not really how math works on a scale of 1 to 10 10 would be absolute Max Max so
01:39:02
Selena Bowseryou're a 30 is literally the 10 I'm not a 30 like if on a scale 1 to 10 I'm a 10 on a scale 1 to 10 she's like anybody wanted a textbook definition of what it means to move the goal posts yeah so so
01:39:13
Laurenit has to be 1 to 10 only one to 10 only move the whole field 10 is maximum most beautiful woman you've ever seen in your life 100 percentile that's what it is okay well that's not the way I was
01:39:24
Selena Bowserlooking at it so even 30 out of 30 is also 30 out of 30 is a little high okay I can understand how it seems the same because it's on one to 10 but I
01:39:35
Selena Bowsersee it as there's certain people that pass that 10 but it's quite literally impossible never looked at it that way be impossible to pass 15 10 10 10 like
01:39:45
Cara/Victoria/Priyawhen people are like oh yeah 110% that genuinely doesn't exist you can 100% is like the full percentage of something that you can achieve yeah does you're
01:39:56
Selena Bowsersaying so 30 out of 30 would essentially be the exact same as 10 out of 10 yeah but not the way I look at it because like I said I think certain people can [ __ ] pass that [ __ ] like you're just
01:40:08
Selena Bowserso gous okay if I know what you're saying it's just I just don't I'm not I don't get with it it's just not like logic you
01:40:18
Selena Bowserdon't get it's not like my thing like I think people can absolutely be way more than the max that that literally doesn't make any sense yeah that's
01:40:29
Brian Atlaserroneous logically no yeah and I know that so what okay so I really just so logically logically know blank what if it's not logical what do you what is the
01:40:42
Selena Bowserthe term you're going to replace for logical opinion logical opinionated it's just it's an opinion that might that ain't logical to you but it makes sense in my not an opinion can
01:40:54
Selena Bowserbe based in logic and it can also be based off of nonlogic look at me what is nonlogic what I'm saying so is what I'm saying obvious and you guys are trying to say it's not logical that's what I'm
01:41:06
Selena Bowsersaying it's not logical we're not trying to say we are saying that it but that's what I said so then you're wrong because if something's a logical it's wrong that's the way I see it okay so then you're just wrong and that's okay I can be wrong but to me in my head I'm not
01:41:18
Selena Bowserwrong it works for me what's what's 2 plus two four okay can 2 plus 2 be eight no so why's asking wa I have a question
01:41:29
Brian Atlashold on I have a question okay so how would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning I don't eat breakfast h okay all right what do you mean she can engage with a
01:41:41
Brian Atlashypothetical uh last question on the rating thing do you all else being equal do you think you will be more physically attractive in 10 years in what well so you're 31 right yeah so all else being equal do you think you'll be more
01:41:53
Selena Bowserphysically attractive in 10 years than you are now it's I think it's possible because 10 years ago I was ugly as [ __ ] so okay so you're I 10 years May me cute so 10 more years might make me cuter or
01:42:05
Brian Atlasugly okay so you're 31 so are you more physically attractive now than you were at 21 yes I think so yeah all else being equal what do you mean wait say I mean I'm just curious like so 10 years has
01:42:18
Brian Atlaspassed you were 21 you're saying you're more attractive now at 31 than you were at 21 what's changed to make you more attractive now I gained weight I was accidentally anorexic from depression so that played a big factor let's assume
01:42:31
Brian Atlaslet's assume you hadn't been anorexic when you were 21 would you have been more attractive back then no because I didn't know how to take care of myself my skin my hair nothing so but I I said all else being equal so let's assume you were able to do all those things would
01:42:44
Selena Bowseryou have been more physically attractive at 21 than you are now no no my facial so what's different something about like your face got younger my face changed I don't know what it was but even people
01:42:56
Selena Bowserthat's known me my whole life are like how are you looking younger now how you have like old photos of you when you were uh don't pull them up they're so bad e hold on let me I'm going to see
01:43:08
Selena Bowserlike you can see I look tired and old and just run down do I have this [ __ ] memories from when you were younger when I was in my 20s yeah did you party a lot no I was in a 10-year relationship I was
01:43:20
Selena Bowsermiserable well maybe the depression in the that got you looking older you know I really think so what would you have rated yourself at 21 oh god5 10 you really don't like
01:43:32
Selena Bowserto not in not in the r of see this is how I think though that's just the I am logical to you guys but it makes sense it makes sense to me too at least
01:43:41
TTSsomeone gets it ho [ __ ] donated $200 it's [ __ ] modest stop speaking lies modesty is related to heim's not femininity of
01:43:53
Brian Atlasmy God question for the panel what is a women dude I have not seen this guy in months he's [ __ ] back hold on Modest Tama I'm a [ __ ] Legend you're a [ __ ] Legend bro good to see you back
01:44:06
Brian Atlasin the chat hold on He's a brave and a decent man he's a Pioneer [ __ ] dude welcome back bro send me a DM on Instagram man I missed you dude um this guy dropped so many [ __ ] truth bombs
01:44:17
Brian Atlashe's a [ __ ] Legend well we'll do his question really quick yeah what is uh you know it's you know we're talking about dating there's men there's women I think it's important you know in 2024 to got to know you know what we're talking
01:44:30
Selena Bowserabout here what's a woman what is a woman definition starting with you what I think women what got the XY chromosone isn't that that would that would be a male I was well the other one then the other one I was going to say that's why
01:44:42
Selena BowserI was questioning I was like which one is it I was going to say a vagina a woman is a vagina good answer well put woman straight to the point I guess
01:44:53
Brian Atlasgood answer that's actually the most sexist thing somebody's ever said on the podcast a woman is simply a vagina she's not anything are you a feminist she's now you're getting can pissed off
01:45:06
Brian Atlasat you how dare I don't know what I am this is the most misogynistic statement I've ever heard women are so much more than that how dare you you misogynist
01:45:17
Karina Nalinedis women are so much okay um what is a woman I can't believe we're talking about this is but a woman is born a woman like plain and simple can't use the word woman that's circular
01:45:28
Jessedefinition so what would you a human female yeah you mean female yeah yeah born or female yeah a human female a lady who can reproduce yeah
01:45:40
Brian Atlashave a baby grow a baby but I'm sure you would agree that even women who are infertile are still yeah of the nature of that okay an adult human female with
01:45:50
Background/crewXX chromosomes and reproductive organs of a yeah yep I Echo the exact same sentiment uh Liam yeah I don't know what those letters mean but I agree with that sorry we didn't all go to
01:46:01
Brian AtlasH oh please I didn't not know now that was a perfect definition yeah I'll stick with that okay yo modest takama dude good to see you in the chat man it's been a minute uh thank you for the
01:46:12
Brian Atlasmessage appreciate we have a couple chats here we have cherry popped a little backtracking Brian would you be
01:46:19
Brian Atlaswith a woman who doesn't like to give question does she still do it um cuz I suppose you could dislike you could
01:46:30
Brian Atlasdislike it and still begrudgingly do it f I'd prefer that it's not begrudging I don't like begrudging BJs you can disl it and do it is this
01:46:40
Brian Atlasfrom personal experience Brian I've probably received one or two begrudging she comes in Angry Eyebrows look every I probably every guy's got the begrudging
01:46:49
Brian AtlasBJ anyways but um uh okay so to answer the question she doesn't like to give them so yeah I mean let's just say she doesn't give them uh
01:47:00
Brian Atlasyeah I I would I mean it it would be better if she did though it would be better if she did but uh it wouldn't be 100% a deal breaker but obviously
01:47:10
Brian Atlaspreference for a woman that s is the D so hope that answers your question thank you appreciate it we have desert Joe yep my bad with confusing Alexa Pria
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Brian Atlasgender from Desert Joe thank you man appreciate it and then of course we have the legend himself David treak the only
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Brian Atlastens I've ever met in SB area are Ryan goslings opars on carp Carpenteria State Beach oh are you local man uh how many of the guests have been to Burning Man
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Brian AtlasUrsula got it tan this cast is hilarious who's Ursula Maddie's Ursula Ursula
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Brian Atlasthe oh that's right I remember yeah I have not been to berning man but I've always wanted to there you go there you go all
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Brian Atlasright cool uh wait where were we we were talking about raiding uh okay oh yeah maybe wait I'm looking at your Instagram here I'm seeing how far back this [ __ ] goes 29
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Brian Atlashold on one sec cuz cuz you say you were less so you're 31 you say you were less attractive when you were this only goes back to 2019 so that's only five years how about tag Facebook how about
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Brian Atlastag do you have any photos of yourself when you're like 21 yeah but they're in my phone you want can you send them to the whatever Instagram page yeah one at a time yeah what's your phone uh Joe can
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Brian Atlasgrab it for you it's got the case on it that says Queen cuz she's a queen why is that not surprising adult to connection he's got it for you back there uh send them one
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Brian Atlasat a time because we're on desktop so we can't get receive multiple messages at a time um going back to the disagreement thing anybody else here have any disagreements on anything they want to I
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Brian Atlasknow you guys see all the clips with Jake here him just being a to toxic masculinity if you guys want to there's no such thing as toxic being factious I know you are let me have it Gaz if you
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Jakehave any I'm I'm a rightwing extremist on the internet so if you have problems with rightwing extremist definely is that what you guys would call The Red Pill any the red pill is something else any disagreements from anybody otherwise
01:49:35
LaurenI can just get into my pre-show notes anybody feelings toxicity from him the whole time to be I very uncomfortable I was blonde back then I have an actual question um and I don't
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Laurenagree with this but I'm I'm hey guys don't worry about the sidebar conversations stop just send them and then I'm curious to men what you feel about women who consume marijuana what
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Brian Atlasdoes that is that is that attractive instant disqualification instant disqualification yeah I mean for for me uh it's not like it depends on the
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Brian Atlasfrequency how much it's not 100% a deal breaker but if she's like can't function without it but if it's like an occasional thing it wouldn't be a deal breaker but I would have a preference for a girl like I don't drink really
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Brian Atlaseither occasionally I'll have like a glass of wine but I don't go out to bars I don't I don't drink more than one or two drinks Max and it's super rare um I'll maybe drink two three times a year
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Brian Atlasand when I do like one drink two drinks Max I don't like to drink so I want that reciprocity in the partner so when it comes to marijuana if occasionally she smokes and if it doesn't interfere with
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Brian Atlasher but some people like it just totally blast their personality they're like uh you can perceive that that they're [ __ ] up and also actually I don't think I've actually admitted this
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Brian Atlasum when it comes to the like having a bad experience I actually had uh bad experiences I when I was in high school I smoked a couple times the first few times were fine but I don't know if it was the strain or if I smoked too much
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Brian Atlasbut I actually had full-blown uh like a bad trip on it like had uh I had hallucinations on on just weed and it was probably
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Brian Atlasspice I don't know who knows either way literally like the most terrifying thing I've ever had started actually getting panic attacks after that for a period of time it had I had a panic attack it was
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Brian Atlaslike one of the most terrifying things in my life I actually do think it led me down on a like from from that point on it was like a total like uh post and pre like in terms of anxiety like it's
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Brian Atlaspretty much I I do think I mean I have my anxiety pretty decently under I don't have panic attacks anymore but I used to um and I so I don't have that anymore but I actually do think it's given me
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Cara/Victoria/Priyapretty much lifelong anxiety I think that's a very popular misconception when it comes to marijuana is that people think that it actually C like decompresses stress when it actually increases stress Ian maybe their medical
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Liam Christopherprofession depends on the person it really is both I was can I anecdotally back you up on that yeah because literally the exact same as me I smoked it when I was 17 had a panic attack [ __ ] hated it and then I came to
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Liam ChristopherCalifornia one of my contractors gave me this chocolate bar and he goes oh it's it's like what is it Delta 8 or something like that and I don't know anything about so I ate this chocolate bar on the way to the airport and you're supposed to have one square and I thought you're
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Liam Christophersupposed to eat the whole bar so I ate this [ __ ] massive chocolate bar and then you know how TSA yells at you it's like take your shoes off and I've had 3,000 Mig of this poison and I'm
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Liam Christophercautiously passing the shoe like a bom and I'm like sorry sir and he's like what's wrong with you I'm like where [ __ ] everything's w I called my assistant I said what the [ __ ] did I eat she goes how much is it I
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Liam Christophersaid 3,000 she goes and I said is that bad she goes no she goes no she goes get on the plane I said no no I need to go to hospital so I had to grab you know those little railings and I was grabbing in
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Liam Christopherbusiness class and they're looking at me like I'm a complete spaz and I'm so they're the only two times I've had it never have again again for that it's interesting because I know someone over here said someone over here said was
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Laurenthat mushrooms no no that that can happen from marijuana that's what I think more people need to talk about maybe you should read the instructions before consuming the all of us went to HB like you read the instructions baby you
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Cara/Victoria/Priyasupposed to take the whole thing well like Brian said even I mean it doesn't you don't have to be consuming massive massive amount Delta eight no I don't suggest that I suggest getting your medical license and going to see a medical doctor to see what you should be
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Laurendosed and then going to the doctor and the pharmacy Fu and then getting the marijuana it's irrelevant it's everybody's body composition can react in a different way and then you it can