Her Husband Lets Her F Other Men?! She MARRIED An ØF SIMP?! Andrew Wilson! Q! | Dating Talk #200
Date: 2024-09-30
Duration: 6h 23m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_04Ana(guest)
SPEAKER_05Stephanie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Guests (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_10Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_12Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_14Q(guest)
Key Moments
00:02:43
IntroGuest introductions round — names, ages, locations, occupations.
“without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead”
00:13:56
ControversyAndrew begins mathematical challenge of Maridia's claimed age of 24.
“how long is law school in Mexico 3 years”
00:19:35
RelationshipSarah reveals divorce story: husband addicted to pills post-surgery; 3 sons by 3 different fathers.
“my husband had a surgery and got ex it to Pills and so it just um became a different person”
01:31:30
Key MomentHydra reveals she practices tarot and mediumship, discussing ancestor interference with technology.
“what do you mean by pull cards so tarot cards so actually I have a deck of cards with my art”
02:39:54
OtherSelf-ratings round begins (1-10, no 7s).
“into Stiffler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 you can't pick seven go ahead”
03:11:16
ControversyJuliet reveals she does OnlyFans BG content collaborations while married; husband permits it.
“do you uh do you sleep with other men who are not your husband right now yes”
03:38:40
Key MomentDiscussion of gay male vs straight vs lesbian divorce rates — female-female highest.
“when it comes to gay men marrying the divorce rate is lower than straight couples”
04:37:25
OtherBear vs man in the woods question posed to panel.
“going around the table would you rather be stuck in the woods with a random man or a random bear”
05:26:53
OtherBody count round begins.
“going around the table really quick uh we had a conversation about body count some said doesn't matter whatever uh what's your body count”
05:54:40
Key MomentAndrew's final call-to-action asking Juliet to stop letting other men inside her; she declines.
“I wonder if we could possibly implore you to just kind of gradually step down the penis intake until you just got to one”
Topics Discussed
00:02:43
Introductions & Relationship Statuses
Guests introduce themselves (name, age, location, occupation). Round-robin of current relationship statuses, longest relationships, and breakup stories. Juliet reveals she married an OnlyFans fan. Maridia's age disputed immediately.
00:13:56
Maridia's Age Controversy
Panel challenges Maridia's claim of being 24 based on relationship timeline inconsistencies and educational background (law degree + master's requiring 8+ years from age 18). Andrew Wilson does finger-counting exercise to demonstrate the math doesn't work. Maridia maintains she is 24 throughout.
00:29:02
Hydra Abandoned at Mall / Dating Stories
Hydra recounts being abandoned at mall on 17th birthday after refusing to hold hands. Also recounts online long-distance partner who abandoned her at airport and later kicked her out of car on a highway in Pennsylvania while coming down from drugs.
01:31:30
Witchcraft, Tarot, and Mediumship Debate
Hydra discusses her tarot card practice and mediumship (talking to ancestors). Andrew Wilson (Orthodox Christian) challenges the efficacy of witchcraft. Uses spooky house thought experiment to suggest confirmation bias explains supernatural experiences. Hydra concedes tarot is mainly for personal self-development/daily affirmation.
02:24:58
Women's Attractiveness vs Age
Brian argues women are generally less attractive at 30 than 20. Multiple female guests disagree, claiming they look better now than when younger. Panel points out the contradiction of claiming to look better with age while also using anti-aging products. Q and Andrew present evolutionary/biological arguments. Eventually most guests concede average 35-year-old is less attractive than average 25-year-old.
02:39:54
Self-Ratings Round (1-10 Looks)
Brian asks all guests to rate themselves on a 1-10 scale (no 7s). Ratings: Hydra=8, Maridia=10, Juliet=8, others said 6/8, Andrew=6.7, Brian=4 (self-rated). Debate over Andrew's rating after showing his younger photo. Discussion of aging and whether men improve with age.
03:06:04
Maridia's Harem/Dating Multiple Men
Brian reads Maridia's pre-show note about making clear men are part of her harem. Maridia dates 3 men simultaneously; sexually active with 1. Previously dated up to 5 men at once. Receives gifts/resources from men as condition of intimacy. Received a car from a past partner.
03:11:16
Juliet: Married & Doing OF Collabs
Juliet reveals she does boy-girl OnlyFans content collaborations while married. Her husband (software engineer, near SF) has no problem with it. She has shot with 4 men total; 2 within the 5 months of marriage. No condoms used; on birth control. Panel challenges the cuck dynamic. Juliet maintains it is purely professional work and would stop if husband asked.
03:38:40
Divorce Rate Statistics by Gender
Discussion of male-male, male-female, and female-female divorce rates. Andrew cites data: strongest correlate of female divorce is having divorced female friends. Religious communities have lower divorce rates. Q argues women's emotional dissatisfaction and unrealistic expectations primary driver. Sarah offers perspective from her own divorce experience.
04:37:25
Bear vs Man in the Woods
Classic internet question: would you rather encounter a random man or random bear in the woods? One guest picks bear because she estimates 40% of men would assault her alone. Panel pushes back on the statistics. Andrew claims 60% of women would make false rape accusations if they could get away with it.
04:38:50
Is It Straight to Date a Trans Woman
Panel question on whether a man dating a fully transitioned trans woman is straight. Split opinions; Andrew argues it depends on what 'fully transitioned' means. Discussion of the penetrative factor argument.
04:41:22
Men Dropping Out of Workforce / Dating Unemployed Men
TTS asks if women would date men aged 25-54 dropping out of workforce. Show of hands: most would not unless the man was retired/wealthy. Discussion of what constitutes acceptable male non-employment.
04:59:10
Green Flags in Men
Quick round on favorite green flags. Responses: caring, good provider, good communicator, self-awareness, discipline, passion/hobbies (Brian mentions Gundam model building).
05:23:20
Why Men Care About Body Count
Q explains paternity uncertainty, pair bonding reduction, greater likelihood of infidelity and relationship dissatisfaction as reasons men care about body count. Andrew adds ownership/not wanting to share argument. Discussion of penetrative factor as asymmetric reason women care less about men's count.
05:26:53
Body Count Round
Brian asks all guests their body counts. Hydra: claims under 10 (panel skeptical, she admits alcoholic period). Juliet: 20-30. Alysa: 18. Others estimated/disputed. Panel discusses asymmetry in how men vs women view body counts.
Transcript
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Guests (mixed)occupation go ahead I'm Hydra uh I'm an artist and I'm from Colorado age oh
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Guests (mixed)28 hold on you hear that chair noise is it hers it's mine is it it's it's squeaky oh okay
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Guests (mixed)um there's a chair right there can we do a swap please age 28 okay I'm Juliet CLA I'm
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Guests (mixed)30 and I'm from Germany and I just moved to the US and I live at the bay
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Andrew Wilsonarea and I do only fans all right I didn't uh I didn't I didn't actually catch your name can you say it a little slower for me my name is
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Andrew WilsonJuliet CLA Juliet CLA thank you met yes okay gotta thank
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Guests (mixed)you hello this is maridia I'm 24 and I do only fans I'm from Mexico but live in LA all right what about you hi my name
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Stephanieis Stephanie I'm 30 I'm from San Bernardino and also Brazil s Santa Catarina Brazil and I am a caregiver for my parents I'm a nursing student and I also
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Guests (mixed)model all right welcome thank you hello I am Sarah I am 44 I live um just outside of Las Vegas I am also an artist
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Guests (mixed)and then I currently L work in Tech as well all right welcome hi I'm Alysa I'm 34 I'm from Los Angeles and I do personal assistant and social media
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Anawork I'm Ana I'm 19 I go to UCSB all right where you from I'm from the Bay Area all right um Q y'all know
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Qme as the Q pill 31 from Ry North Carolina I'm a certified relationship coach but avoral scientist YouTuber all right welcome everybody so we're going to go oh wait excuse me um
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Andrew WilsonAndrew yeah my name is Andrew Wilson I'm the host of The Crucible I'm a political analyst a political saturnist and I do occasionally enjoy engaging in debates all right welcome everybody so
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Brian Atlaswe're going to go around the table once more what is everybody's current relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship Friends with Benefits relationship married polyal sex cult terum whatever maybe if you're single how long have you been single and
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Guests (mixed)what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you um I am single I've been single for almost a month now and longest relationship
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Guests (mixed)probably 9 months longest relationship 9 months yes okay act no there was a really toxic one that was on and off for about four or five so that one that's my longest but four five years yes four or
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Brian Atlasfive years sorry okay uh couple question questions you you've been single for one month the was the 9month relationship the one that ended a month ago no uh uh with
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Guests (mixed)them we were together for about four and a half maybe five months okay who broke up with who they broke up with
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Guests (mixed)me they yes uh they are uh non-binary was it a male or female male born but nonary
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Guests (mixed)okay um and then your 9mon relationship who broke up with who um I guess they broke up with me too
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Brian Atlasthey or no he I guess he yeah and then you said you were in a four to five year on again off again relationship also corre yes okay yes how many times was it
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Guests (mixed)on and off again um I'd say 2 to 3 it was a very foggy time period for me okay
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Guests (mixed)all right what about you um I got married five months ago and we know each other for like two
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Guests (mixed)and a half 3 years so this is my longest relationship now and you guys been together for 3 years uh so we like we know each other for three years we had a
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Guests (mixed)long distance relationship so we just went from like talking to dating to in relationship and this how did you guys
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Guests (mixed)meet uh he was my only fence fan like one of my first ones that's kind of cute wait when did you start doing only fans like three years ago three years ago
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Brian Atlasokay and um how soon
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Guests (mixed)into him being your fan did you guys like meet up um like four to 5 months we
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Guests (mixed)talked a lot we started um like talking at night um talking on talking on the phone and he's from America and I was
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Guests (mixed)living in in Germany Dubai I moved to Dubai in this time um but like like 3 years ago I was living in Germany and we
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Guests (mixed)started talking and he came to Germany for a few days and asked me if I would be like if
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Guests (mixed)I wanted to meet him for a coffee or lunch and we met and since then we started dating
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Brian Atlasoh was he uh spending money on you yeah uh how much prior to meeting him how much money did he spend on you can we
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Guests (mixed)open or actually it's fun um you mean until now or well you said like four to five months in is when you guys first met up right I don't know like maybe not that much like maybe
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Guests (mixed)1,000 to like $1,500 like he he bought my like he started he WR texted me in his first
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Guests (mixed)message and he asked for like a custom video that he still didn't get because I was too busy
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Guests (mixed)with doing content for my page thank you Metro mat go ahead um yeah and then he
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Guests (mixed)just bought my videos sent like little tips and we just started talking a lot
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Brian Atlasdid you charge him for the first date no it was free yeah we just met for lunch you didn't charge him
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Guests (mixed)no did you have any concerns about meeting up with uh one of your fans like this um not at this time because we
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Guests (mixed)talked a lot we were chatting every day I was he was like someone I met just on a dating platform like just is this your longest relationship mhm
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Brian Atlasyes were you married previously no okay and then you said um prior to getting into only fans what kind of work did you do sorry what uh
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Guests (mixed)prior to only fans you're 30 right so yes were you working before that yes I had a normal job um a long time
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Guests (mixed)I it's complicated to explain it because it's a little bit different in Germany I went to school for like an
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Guests (mixed)um I don't know how to explain it but yeah I worked in an office um for years I changed um my um company like one time
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Guests (mixed)and I worked as an assistant and then I moved to Frankfurt because I wanted to study and I studied economies finance
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Guests (mixed)and management for 2 years mhm m and this time I started with my study in like
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Guests (mixed)2020 and um it was Corona co co and uh I studied from home I didn't went to um
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Guests (mixed)like the university a lot so I had lots of time and um got the idea to start with only fans were you engaged in any
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Brian Atlasother kind of sex work prior to starting only fans no like escorting or anything like that stripping okay all right uh what about you your
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Guests (mixed)relationship status I'm single I'm been I'm been single for 2 years my longest relationship during like 6 years mhm in
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Guests (mixed)Mexico um the relationship that ended two years ago was that the six-year one no okay that relationship during like
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Brian Atlasone year and I've been single for two years okay and and the six-year relationship was the previous relationship yeah yeah yeah yeah in Mexico and what was the break what was
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Brian Atlasthe uh period of break between the six-year relationship and the one-year relationship like four years later when I moved here
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Guests (mixed)I get the the new relationship yeah the longest one was in Mexico the six-year one uhhuh yeah yeah it finished many years ago like years ago so there was a four okay so you in a six-year
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Brian Atlasrelationship uhhuh and then there's a 4year gap you said okay six-year relationship
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Brian Atlas4year Gap oneyear relationship single for two years yeah 6 4 2 1 13 years uh
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Guests (mixed)what how old were you when you were in the six-year relationship very young like 15 six
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Guests (mixed)16 16 to 22 16 to 22
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Guests (mixed)um 15 I have like 15 and when you first met yeah uh uhhuh uhhuh you were 15 when you first met oh no no no no okay sorry
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Guests (mixed)I know speak I know speak English very well but I try I met I met him in in Mexico like when I was very young been I started relationship and during like
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Guests (mixed)almost six years mhm H was very young yeah this is actually I'm being engaged but I'm very young so I decide not do it how you wait
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Guests (mixed)how she is more older than me how young were you when you guys met oh like 13 you said something like that
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Guests (mixed)something like that 13 to 16 yeah how old was he more old than
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Brian Atlasme but I don't want to talk about that well hold on I'm nervous so I'm a I'm a little confused here
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Brian Atlasbecause let's say you guys met at 14 it lasted hold on hold on you met at 14 it lasted 6 years that gets you to 20 you said there was a one-year break no no no
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Brian Atlasexcuse me a four-year break that brings you to 24 and then you dated a guy for one year that brings you to 25 and then you've been single for two years that brings you to the age hold on okay it
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Guests (mixed)brings you to the age of 27 you told us you're 24 are you lying about your age no I think you are no when I moved
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Brian Atlashere I uh so you started dating this man at 10 years old no no no no
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Brian Atlasno well according to the timeline you provided it doesn't add up no you be
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Guests (mixed)27 given the timeline you provided yeah okay um I confuse about the numbers that's
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Guests (mixed)it what's there to be confused about because I don't good in MA math mathematics this ain't mathematics yeah I'm not good but I'm not like and for my
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Brian Atlasjust tell us you're 30 it's okay dude just say you're 30 it's all right no okay well you're not 24 so I'm 24 go get your go get I I don't have
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Brian Atlasshow me your passport I don't have with me now it's in La okay all right did she say she's 34 no she said she's
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Brian Atlas24 so her whole relationship history is dubious uh given the numbers that she provided
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Guests (mixed)so sorry guys it is what this is I'm 24 you know what's funnier than
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Guests (mixed)24 oh wow what I'm look 24 no I think she look a bit older I it's because about the numbers well year were you born I don't
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Brian Atlasremember well what year do you think it was 34 years ago sorry nothing never
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Brian Atlasmind all right off to a great start eh um so what's your actual age I wonder day guys comment what age they think I
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Guests (mixed)have or you could just tell us that would be helpful no this is I'm 24 I already
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Stephaniedid all right what about you um hi so I'm single I've been single almost two years and my longest relationship was four years all right was that the one that ended two years
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Guests (mixed)ago yes correct all right uh who broke up with who I broke up with him all right what about you I'm single um I've been single for a little over two years
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Guests (mixed)mhm um I was married my divorce was finalized in 2017 I tried dating for a little bit which is not a lot of fun in Vegas and I just decided it wasn't for
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Guests (mixed)me so and you said your long longest relationship eight years eight years okay who initiated the divorce I did why um my husband had a surgery and got ex
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Guests (mixed)it to Pills and so it just um became a different person so we mutually decided to go different ways but we have a good relationship now kids yes I have three
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Andrew Wilsonboys with him uh not all with him no you said um just very briefly you said that you had initiated the divorce but then you also said that you both uh had come
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Guests (mixed)to an agreement to go to your separate ways like to be amicable I guess so I initiated yeah okay so he didn't want to get a
00:18:01
Brian Atlasdivorce no okay no and then um how many uh different fathers are
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Brian Atlasthere for the kids three three different fathers okay uh let's see the you said you were married just one time is that correct yes just one
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Brian Atlastime so and the most recent child the youngest child is from the marage okay all right all right right uh let's see what else
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Brian Atlasum no I think I think that's it uh what about you um I've been single for a year and my longest relationship was eight years all right single for one year is
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Brian Atlasthat the one that ended a year ago no uh all right the one that ended a year ago who broke up with who I broke up with him and then the 8-year relationship who broke up with who um I broke up with him
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Guests (mixed)but it was I was the problem in the relationship but I knew it was ending so left why were you the problem I became an
00:19:03
Brian Atlasalcoholic Good Times No Good Times uh okay and you're like sober or yeah okay how long youve been sober for
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Guests (mixed)694 days congratulation thank you thanks girls let's go as Andrew sips the cor's light
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Anaand I have a boyfriend we've been together for 4 months and my longest relationship with was a year all right cool Q um I have a lady um oh yeah all
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Brian Atlasright yeah update here how long you guys been together um about two and a half months I've known her for two years though wait were was this the girl you were kind of with like way back no different girl yeah different girl all
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Qright different girl so how long has it's been a been official couple months yeah about a couple months she locked the kid down had me releasing vast oppressing you know she's getting the
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Qvast present levels up showing giving me everything that I want and need okay being all about me so you know I had to return a favor H all right cool that's
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Andrew Wilsoneverybody's uh relationship status I guess Andrew could Andrew yeah um I've been married for well over a
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TTS Readerdecade all right cool Madison sold me meth donated $200 Brian might be gorock size by episode
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TTS Reader300 true lay off the hamburgers or burritos but yeah man congrats on the Milestone congrats on all the success
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Brian Atlashere's to another 100 Spartan theme for 300 uh yeah yeah we'll we'll do like a some sort of
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Brian Atlaslike SP for episode 300 me Andrew will we'll even wear uh Spartan hoplight uniform
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Brian Atlasso Q too Q you're coming to for episode 300 uh in Spartan uniforms all right cool uh guys like the video like the video guys episode 200 appreciate oh we
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TTS Readergot another one coming in living underscore donated $200 thank you man you're old as [ __ ] forget rating I'm
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TTS Readerguessing ages starting from the old lady across from Brian 45 3535
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Guests (mixed)35 eh no I'm 24 I just B bad in numbers
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Guests (mixed)guys please don't be be nice I'm 24 uh-huh yes okay next time
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Guests (mixed)I'm bring my ID I believe you I'm only 25 no you don't look 25 for sure no you don't look 24 lady I'm you look like
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Guests (mixed)maybe you're four decade ago I just the the my life is hard that's that's why it's a lot of hard living is
00:22:07
Andrew Wilsonit yeah really hard living yeah only fancy is very hard guys I I could see that it aged you a decade in just a
00:22:17
Brian Atlascouple of years that's okay all right sorry guys I got to post the thing to Discord really quick uh
00:22:29
Brian Atlasall right so I think a good jumping off point uh I know some of you aren't as familiar with the show as some of the other panelists but uh one point we'd like to kind of start off with those of
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Brian Atlasyou who have watched the show is if you have any disagreements uh maybe you've seen the show maybe you've seen Q me Andrew over there uh if you have any disagreements on something that's been
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Brian Atlassaid uh something one of our dating positions a criticism of the show uh let's start with that
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Brian Atlasanybody going once going twice nope okay all right that was uh productive all right we'll get into uh
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Brian Atlassome of the pre-show notes then so let's see here Where Do We Begin why don't we start actually your name's Hy hydrea Hydra Hydra is that your government name
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Brian Atlasno oh okay it's like your nickname uh you you had some sort of a criticism or disagreement uh oh what I say Yeah in
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Brian Atlasyour pre-show notes you here you got to hide this it's I got to update a different one yo twitch wa twitch gifted 15 Subs was that actually twitch hold on
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Brian Atlascan you pull up the twitch tab yeah was that twitch wait twitch gifted us like the twitch can you click on that
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Brian Atlasusername holy [ __ ] wait what wait twitch like the company gave gied us 15 hey oh my God wait hold on X out of
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Andrew Wilsonappreciate it thank you that's very nice thank you um now now okay hang on now twitch since I mean 200 episod look at all this money Brian's making I feel like you can gift them a 100 right I
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Brian Atlasfeel like you can gift them a 100 twitch that that's a fair point I mean 15 twitch 15 pretty cheap twitch pretty TW pretty cheap twitch owned by Amazon by
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Brian Atlashad a criticism uh Hydra you said in all honesty I tend to cringe a ton whenever Brian I did say that speaks
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Brian Atlaswhat I don't mean to be mean that's just my opinion I mean me too Hydra than you rude uh you said you want to mainly come on and talk to the Wilson guy he seems
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Brian Atlasfun to debate with well before you and Wilson get into it uh let's let's can you uh articulate the whole cringing
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Guests (mixed)thing I can't give you a particular scenario but there are moments where um I guess you get just a little
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Guests (mixed)bit sensitive and sensitive okay um uh it just makes me cringe sometimes if it happens tonight I'll let you know yeah you got to give me an example though I can't give you a straight
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Guests (mixed)example off the top of my head I'm so sorry okay all right that's it just I make you cringe but it's no it's no hard feelings I think overall you're a cool person it's just sometimes you're cringey I'm cringey I'll admit that you
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Guests (mixed)know it's just a cringe kind of thing cringe knows cringe cringe recognize cringe no I do think I'm cringey like
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Guests (mixed)quite a bit so I just have a question though is that an avocado tattoo that's the first time I've gotten that uh no it's a UT some people say it's a
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Guests (mixed)dut but um for me it's like my Sailor Moon wand uh it's the skeleton for now it goes a little bit more down um but it like crescent moon and then like a
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Brian Atlastriangle here and then it goes up to the moons here and then there's like little arrows that go down to here but I don't want to show that on camera cuz you know yeah it the the one in the middle there that's not quite circular shaped that
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Brian Atlaslooks like a avocado that's starting to rot a not a rotting you know like cut in half and avocado cut in half and it starts to get stringy yeah I guess it's time to update my tattoo it's been a few years that's what it like it looks like
00:27:10
Brian Atlasa cross-section of a Roden avocado thank you for the criticism Brian I appreciate it you know just just thought I'd throw that out there um okay so you don't have any
00:27:23
Brian Atlasother disagreements besides just you think I'm [ __ ] cringe no no I'm not tripping um okay that's cool all right and then you also said that uh here let's get into your
00:27:36
Brian Atlaspre-show notes uh you were left at the mall on your 17th birthday you want to tell us the story there is it is a date or something right yeah it was just kind of a date it was like the I think it was
00:27:47
Guests (mixed)like the day before my birthday we met up at the mall local to where I'm at and um then I didn't want to hold their hand first dat I felt awkward so then they left
00:27:58
Guests (mixed)and I was stuck there there it was their mom had taken us to there and then they went to the bathroom and then I was just kind of stuck and I was like hey Dad can you come get
00:28:08
Brian Atlasme interesting okay and did you continue dating this guy after oh no he abandoned you or whatever no that'd be silly by
00:28:18
Brian Atlasthe way twitch sent in another 10 uh 10 Subs a little shy of the 100 but I yeah come on Twitch they forgot the zero twitch what what what's going
00:28:29
Brian Atlason Twitch where's that Jeff Bezos no but twitch thank yeah where's that Bezos money to to the nameless to the nameless underpaid intern who is sending in I just want to say this to you he's a brave and a decent man he's a Pioneer
00:28:42
Brian Atlaswhoever it is at twitch thank you very much you're you're a a brave and decent man uh so thank you very much really appreciate that twitch um guys don't
00:28:51
Brian Atlasdon't say anything the twitch guys are they in the CH no uh the the what are they called admins on Twitch or I don't know um but thank you very much
00:29:01
Brian Atlasappreciate it uh you have more Hy hydr hydrate hydrea sorry uh like more dating did you tell
00:29:11
Guests (mixed)us about the abandoned also at the airport okay um so that one was a fun one that one was a complete like longdistance internet type of relationship and um they were lying to
00:29:24
Guests (mixed)me the whole time and it didn't catch on I was too blinded by love I was holding on to Hope and Faith and my strong delusions and um I they were sick they were really sick so I went to the
00:29:37
Guests (mixed)airport to like go help them out they said they were having trouble issues with their mom and everything like that so I was like well if they're sick their mom's sick let me go help and I get there and they freaked out cuz it was so last minute and then they completely
00:29:48
Guests (mixed)blocked me and then I was on my way back to Colorado then a month later I decided to go visit them and 12 hours later uh they didn't like the way that I was giving them directions at least that's
00:29:59
Guests (mixed)how I remember it happening and then they told me to get out the car and so then I got out the car and then attempted to walk back to their mom's house but then I realized it was like a 9-h hour walk so then I called Sarah and
00:30:11
Guests (mixed)she helped me out with an Uber and then uh went back and talked with her parents and uh dad was like honestly I thought it would last a week and 12 hours is a new record and I was like oh new record
00:30:23
Guests (mixed)so then I just went back home after that and started my healing process and um it was very silly of me to even continue on that relationship after
00:30:33
Guests (mixed)being left at the airport but again I was very delusional hopeful and you know you learn from your mistakes mhm uh and then you also said you were
00:30:43
Brian Atlasabandoned by the same person in Pennsylvania in why do you get abandoned so's going on working through those I
00:30:54
Guests (mixed)am um um um yeah that was when he told me to get out the car and it was like a 2-8 Highway and I started to walk back to their
00:31:05
Guests (mixed)mom's uh his mom's or whatever and uh never talked to them again after that well I did reach out I like they had Suicidal Tendencies so I would just like sent a text one time and I was like hey Hope thing despite
00:31:18
Guests (mixed)everything hope things are okay this and that and that was kind of the end of that he made you get all the car on the highway yeah why um because from what I
00:31:27
Guests (mixed)could could tell based off observing um he was coming down off of a lot of drugs and uh was just not in a clear head and was overstimulated by the way that I was
00:31:40
Guests (mixed)giving the directions based off of the GPS was telling me to go to and he he just didn't like that he started freaking out then he told me to get out the car and I was and I actually had
00:31:52
Guests (mixed)like um a really weird feeling so I was like just kind of like praying like if if it's it's not safe for me to continue on like just make something happen so I'm not there anymore and then he was
00:32:03
Brian Atlaslike you need to get out the car I was like okay I'm going to listen how' I go all right um going back to you really quick uh in your introduction did you
00:32:13
Guests (mixed)mention that you're an attorney ah yes I'm lawyer so in Mexico you're a lawyer in my biography and my Instagram yes I'm lawyer you're not not licensed to
00:32:25
Andrew Wilsonpractice in the US though no no I'm not prac wait okay help me out here how long is how long is law school in Mexico 3 years
00:32:36
Guests (mixed)it's three years and do you have to have a degree in I have a master degree yeah that's why I yeah so so I just want to make sure I got this right you got a master's degree and you did three years
00:32:48
Andrew Wilsonof law school and got it all done by the time you were 24 really yes that's nice right yeah so hang on you graduated high school at 18 right how long does a
00:32:59
Andrew Wilsonmaster's degree take one year oh one year I'm 24 baby I'm sorry yeah I feel like all the dogs aren't parking I'm just uh just letting you
00:33:13
Guests (mixed)know uh what kind of law labor I do what kind of law do youw did you practice I guess uh in Mexico I used to work in
00:33:24
Guests (mixed)District Court in Mexico but I don't know in English what is they mean but is a
00:33:34
Guests (mixed)mix mixa mixed matters lavor um penal criminal here is penal is Criminal and lav and fiscal
00:33:46
Guests (mixed)administrative I don't know in English what what can I say do lawyers are they well paid in Mexico no I mov here during pandemic because I'm not go to the office there
00:33:58
Guests (mixed)so I get I'm sorry did you say you're up here during pneumatic pandemic what did you say pandemic pic pandemic I'm sorry my English no is good my pronunciation
00:34:08
Guests (mixed)maybe you don't understand I'm sorry I try to practice my English that's why I'm here okay so yeah what is your question again are
00:34:19
Brian Atlasthey well paid in Mexico um yes but goes better in only fans now here mhm um all right
00:34:31
Guests (mixed)uh what I don't know lawyer is a pretty respectable career you know yeah only fence to which part of it is
00:34:41
Guests (mixed)respectable I respect I respect myself I make money uh-huh it's easy money so it's
00:34:51
Guests (mixed)easy okay better than be lawyer maybe no 100% be because I'm lower and I do only fans
00:35:02
Brian Atlasokay all right um can you open the door uh okay M moving to Alyssa you said you had a guy go to kiss you and he pulled
00:35:12
Guests (mixed)your hair extensions out that's ruthless no his eyes at Katana and Sunset and I was really nervous I'd gotten my extensions like put in earlier that day so I like kept
00:35:24
Guests (mixed)playing with my hair and my extensions like I used to it was you know I was 18 a long time ago so it was like cooler to have your hair super long but I kept playing with them and so when he like went in to kiss me he like ran his fingers through my hair and he like
00:35:35
TTS Readerpulled back and my hair was like stuck in his fingers and he's like what and he never called me again metr donated $100 she was a lawyer in 2020 she's not
00:35:46
Brian Atlas24 Case Closed oh good catch wait when did you become a lawyer I I'm 24 well yeah you said you said you were
00:35:58
Guests (mixed)a lawyer before like the yeah yeah yeah yeah so like in 2019 2020 yeah baby yeah another another topic you lose a lot of time yeah why don't you this topic I'm
00:36:09
Guests (mixed)24 why don't you just tell us your actual age it's weird for the women's now in Mexico is very
00:36:17
Brian Atlascommun communist what commun commun common the [ __ ] um to lie it's it's common in Mexico
00:36:28
Guests (mixed)it's a lie a lie about the age yes so you admit your Li but I'm not no but in Mexico it's common ad but I don't do it
00:36:38
Andrew Wilsonokay you're not and you're a lawyer yes lawyer's a lie no I'm 24 I'm going li no no no hang on
00:36:47
Guests (mixed)lawyer is an acronym it means lying at will yields excellent revenues no I'm 24 I'm No Lie guys
00:37:00
Guests (mixed)I look young you think I'm old I'm look old I think you look older than 24 I'm sorry it is what it
00:37:12
Guests (mixed)is I want the guys commented my age you told them to chill out cuz none they going to all say 30 plus she lied she old as a fu
00:37:31
Brian Atlasokay you want to just tell us your age or whatever your real age no I'm 24 yeah but you've already it's like you've just there's so many
00:37:43
Brian Atlascontradictory statements you've made the whole relationship history you claiming you were a lawyer when you were like four years ago so you would been no I'm lower yeah you would have been 20 come
00:37:55
Andrew Wilsonon you're perjuring yourself come on you know it you it's pers 24 guys stop my actually my ex is plastic sugar
00:38:07
Guests (mixed)that's why he gave me he gave you surgery to try to yeah and look young 24 he gave me 24 years
00:38:18
Brian Atlasold uh what kind of plastic surgery do you have in my face nothing just my boobs but look just your
00:38:28
Brian Atlasboobs yeah my boobs that's the only cosmetic surgery yes yes oh my God the line my boobs look good what do you think the line
00:38:39
Brian Atlascontinues uh I don't know if you have a BBL but you definitely have LiPo no yeah I'm very athletic bro I can pull up your
00:38:50
Guests (mixed)Instagram you got all kinds of plastic surgery no you're just going to lie about everything all night no oh I just
00:38:58
Guests (mixed)do my boobs guys my face no so your boobs are what makes you look younger you literally said I have a plastic surgeon yeah I think yes with
00:39:10
Qboobs younger ah this different fillers plastic surgery is different it's a surgery is no baby no it's a body
00:39:22
Qmodification okay I'm lower you're not it's a body modification we know that it's not your natural state is the accent Fake Plastic hang on hang
00:39:32
Andrew Wilsonon is the accent fake too like it's just everything fake I'm just curious like is is that fake no I'm from Mexico I try to practice more my English that's why I talk like that I noticed you said Mexico
00:39:44
Andrew Wilsonwith an X that's not something with that's usually Spanish speakers do they usually say Mexico right Mexico yes yeah yeah yeah so I mean is is it is the
00:39:55
Andrew Wilsonaccent fake too like is the whole thing a troll or just some of it no it's real oh it's real like my
00:40:02
Qage and like my boobs oh my God my poops looks real you said it was fake looks real it's fake you said like my age and like my
00:40:14
Brian Atlasboobs no I 24 she's 29 oh okay
00:40:25
Brian Atlasokay um so you at least want to admit that you've had some sort of procedure on your stomach no no you don't want to admit it or no
00:40:35
Guests (mixed)you have wait I met my ex sorry I don't care about your ex oh what do what is your question sorry have you had lipo no have you had
00:40:46
Guests (mixed)any sort of procedure to remove fat on your stomach no I know it's incredible I'm have good
00:40:56
Brian Atlasshape I know no well I mean but he's natural you have natural lipo belly donated $200 by the way you have a terrible be careful Prim the chat will
00:41:08
Brian Atlascall you out primita por okay uh thank you hbre Guapo hbre Guapo thank you so much oh my God you're
00:41:20
Guests (mixed)you're single right you said I'm single yeah and I'm always go out with my fans and only fans you go out with your fans
00:41:28
Guests (mixed)yeah like you [ __ ] them for money no I met in my only fans
00:41:36
Guests (mixed)account and obviously when okay 100% before the guys invite me to go out I
00:41:43
Guests (mixed)know they go first to be my fan he he want to be uh he want to see me naked so yes I go out with my fans yes
00:41:56
Brian AtlasI'm only go out with my friends oh my God you're so fake holy [ __ ] why is real oh my God swear for God I go out with my
00:42:06
Andrew Wilsonfans so performative holy [ __ ] no just the accent broke there the accent broke you couldn't quite hold it with the laugh you couldn't quite hold it you were close you were close but you
00:42:19
Guests (mixed)couldn't quite hold it with the laugh my my body looks good it's natural I just see
00:42:33
Guests (mixed)do you have a fake eyes what is your real color Kevin that Kevin is the name of the guy I don't remember Cana calm down Andrew sorry
00:42:44
TTS ReaderAndrew ask your question you have pretty eyes but I don't know if it's fake living on the $200 someone get this geriatric [ __ ] Walker so she can walk the [ __ ] off the
00:42:57
Andrew Wilsonshow can you tell me uh can you just tell me real quick can you tell me I have pretty eyes in Spanish
00:43:13
Brian Atlasokay all right um okay going back to Alyssa you said the the guy tried to kiss you and he pulled your hair extension out did you tell that story
00:43:24
Brian Atlasyeah okay uh uh you jumped over two fences to catch your X cheating what happened there oh well I jumped over two fences
00:43:34
Guests (mixed)and I caught him cheating um yeah I just I knew that he was cheating and he was lying to me and so I went to his house and it has like two huge fences and I just decided to scale them and then I
00:43:47
Guests (mixed)like snuck in his back door and went up the stairs and he was sleeping with somebody else how'd you get in the back door the door was unlocked yeah he's not like the smartest
00:43:58
Brian Atlasdamn huh okay yeah all right and then uh you wanted to talk about as far as dating topics dating in La feels especially difficult how long have you been in La for um so I was in Santa
00:44:10
Guests (mixed)Barbara County and like Ventura for most of my adult life I've just been back for about 3 years where were you before that in LA but I moved here oh you moved back to Santa Barbara or yeah I was in Santa
00:44:23
Brian Atlasbar area okay yeah so you grew up in Santa Barbara uh I spent my adult life here oh adult like you went to UCSB or I'm sorry what UCSB uh I did for economics but I
00:44:35
Brian Atlasdidn't graduate okay you dropped out yeah okay got it but I owned salons and Day Spa here okay got it you said you refused to do online dating uh I'm sure I have other hot takes but they seem
00:44:46
Guests (mixed)regular to me uh so you've never done uh dating apps or anything like that uhuh I mean I've done them but I don't I didn't stick with them it just does not work out for me why is that um one of them thought that I was stealing pictures and
00:44:58
Guests (mixed)so I got banned and they were pictures of me and then another one said I swiped too fast and so I was just like I'm not going to deal with that okay you he swiped too fast yeah and so it like shut it down it was like you can't match with
00:45:11
Guests (mixed)anybody else but like I'd only match with like three people I think it was like a rule you can only match with like three people a day Rya you was swiping matching with people or or dismissing people just swiping like I don't know I
00:45:23
Guests (mixed)picked three of them and then that was all you got and I was like you know to you you don't have anybody and so it was like anymore yeah so it was just sitting there stagnant like a little duck in the
00:45:34
Brian Atlaswater so might as well go okay all right um You said you have other hot takes on dating yeah but I don't really know if they're like hot takes to everybody what
00:45:46
Brian Atlasyou got like I won't date anybody that has kids okay do you have you have kids yes oh yeah that's yeah yeah that's definitely there we go there we go hold
00:45:57
Brian Atlason so uh how many uh how many kids do you have I have just one okay just one and this is with the eight-year relationship guy no it was before him how old were you when you had the kid
00:46:13
Brian Atlas14 didn't huh wait H so the kids like 19 19 boy or girl girl oh okay [ __ ] we should have done like a mother daughter episode or something uh is she in
00:46:25
Brian Atlascollege she is here locally or no Pierce Woodland Hills is it California Woodland Hills yeah oh okay okay um is the father was the father in
00:46:37
Guests (mixed)the picture at all or uh he passed away when she was 5 months old oh wow uh was he also young he was how old was he uh he passed away when he was 18 he had just turned 18
00:46:50
Guests (mixed)when I was pregnant wait you were 14 and he was 18 he was 17 and turned 18 when I was pregnant was he in a gang how did he how did he pass yeah was in a
00:47:01
Guests (mixed)gang no he wasn't in a gang um he chose to on alive himself oh sorry to hear that um yeah sorry to hear that thank
00:47:10
Brian Atlasyou definitely uh okay and then uh okay you got the kid yep well she lives on her own now she's in college yeah well and so has this always
00:47:21
Brian Atlasbeen your thing like you know she's kind of a bit off on her own but even when she was younger would you refuse to date people with men with kids
00:47:32
Guests (mixed)no h this is new now that she's on her own it's like a I don't want any more kids so like I don't want to start again so that's why I'm like I don't want anybody that like has young kids cuz I don't want to take over like a step parent role I don't think I'd be good at
00:47:44
Guests (mixed)it cuz I love my daughter so much and I don't think I would equally care for their child and I just don't think that's a fair situation to put somebody else's kids in h but you would someone who is perhaps in a similar situation as
00:47:56
Guests (mixed)you like they have a adult children yeah You' be okay with that totally fine I just like I don't think I'd be a good stepmom you just don't want like to deal with like a toddler or like Preen or okay okay all right not totally
00:48:08
TTS Readerunreasonable yeah [ __ ] I thought we had her I thought we had her prehistoric we donated $100 TTS how soon into a dating relationship would you feel comfortable with farting in
00:48:20
Brian Atlasfront of your significant other what the [ __ ] sorry uh TTS is 200 but I must have had it set incorrectly just a clarification TTS is 200 but we'll allow
00:48:31
Brian Atlasit to come through uh how soon into relationship is it comfortable to fart first date no I never I think never for the
00:48:43
Guests (mixed)woman and like within a month for the guy it's cool I guess no I never I think it depends on the relationship I think it depends on the
00:48:54
Stephanierelationship I know how I don't know open you together like okay never okay I think it depends on what you eat and give it a couple months all
00:49:07
Guests (mixed)right what about you yeah as long as humanly possible I know I'll like hold it until I'm like dying of a stomach ache it's not coming out in front of somebody I like okay like a few
00:49:20
Brian Atlasmonths I don't think the woman should ever far all right uh okay uh any other hot takes from you you got some more I'm sure I I'm
00:49:31
Brian Atlassure I have them up my sleeve I'll let them like trickle out one at a time nothing that comes to mind though immediately okay going to Stephanie Stephanie you said uh your Elementary School first love that you haven't seen
00:49:43
Brian Atlasfor 20 years since childhood hijacked the end of a date you're on by driving four or five hours from Vegas to Universal Studios in California what I
00:49:51
Stephaniewas on a date and the night before I had mentioned it to my childhood like crush or whatever and he was like well I'm going to go pick you up like randomly
00:50:04
Stephaniethroughout the day and I was like yeah whatever and I checked my phone yeah he he was there to pick me up but it was the end of the date that I was on and I explained the situation to my date like to be honest and I ended up having a
00:50:15
Stephaniedate with my childhood friend which did not rekindle like any romance cuz obviously we were kids but it was like 20 years so okay mhm you said he picked you up and took
00:50:27
Brian Atlasyou on a night out in Hollywood riding scooters mhm was this the guy who crashed it or the wait oh no hold on it was fun and
00:50:38
Brian Atlasfriendly R oh okay all right um you said you'd like to bring awareness to uh bring awareness to the difficulties you
00:50:46
Stephanieencounter with dating due to your unique lifestyle yeah uh so what is your unique lifestyle um so when I was born I was
00:50:57
Stephanieborn uh to a father who was 54 years old at the time and so I'm very passionate about spreading awareness about people having children at like a later age just considering all the hardships that I did end and especially now with so much
00:51:09
Stephanieresponsibility and still trying to learn like self-development like how I'm trying to I guess rehabilitate into a society I never really was like nurtured into so I'm I'm pretty much more so
00:51:21
Stephaniepassionate about trying to spread Awareness on the difficulties of having such a responsibility caring for aging parents while trying to date like it is extremely difficult how old's your mom
00:51:32
Stephaniemy mom's 69 my dad's 84 oh how old was your mom when she uh gave birth to you to me 39 mhm 39 there was like a 14y old
00:51:41
Stephanieor 14e difference okay mhm you said that's not that but that's not that uncommon at 39 right that's not uncomon yeah that's my mother and well the other
00:51:53
Stephaniething too is that they both have neurological diseases and my mom doesn't speak English like in the country she doesn't drive so like the difficulties of being a caregiver was more so my point and like trying to date and relate
00:52:05
Stephanieto people my age that don't have the same responsibilities it's different having children versus taking care of like elderly parents well do you mind if we back up just a just a bit here um so
00:52:16
Andrew Wilsonthis kind of started with the idea that because your dad was older um when you were born yeah but you know your mom was 39 yeah uh um I don't really see how
00:52:28
Andrew Wilsonthat's a big problem and then as we kind of go through it we find out wait a second there was all these kind of other external factors like non-english speaking things like this I can understand where that would Heap a lot
00:52:40
Stephanieof responsibility on a child's shoulders but the age Gap itself doesn't seem like it would be problematic right it's the way that I wrote to Brian was more so generalized instead of trying to like
00:52:51
Stephaniewrite so much about like oh my mother this my father that but and more so my my concern was it's like my father's age that has been something that was more problematic versus my mom's age so my
00:53:01
Stephaniemom9 that problematic though with my father being as old as he was yeah at 60 yeah well the way that I grew up for my experience personally like it was a
00:53:13
Stephanielittle difficult watching like the other students um in my class have like younger parents and be able to do certain things like I had to be homeschooled in high school so I lost a lot of um opportunities to socialize and so that made it difficult for me to have
00:53:26
Stephanielike childhood experiences considering my dad's he had Parkinson's and it started to progress and then I had to kind of pick up and start you know taking care I don't understand hang on if you don't if you don't mind I don't I
00:53:38
Andrew Wilsondon't actually understand what that has to do with his age like surely surely there's 59-year-old men who don't have Parkinson's and are in just fine Health right right so I'm I'm not sure why the age so if he was like 25 and had
00:53:51
StephanieParkinson's disease that would be just as problematic right right right I think what does the age portion of this have to do with anything exactly that's what I'm trying to figure out right so as human beings like as we age we obviously
00:54:03
Stephanielose like our energy our time memory stuff like that and so I think that the progression of Aging does you know kind of um you become more tired and you can't really give a child what it needs to you know be a child and it's a
00:54:16
Andrew Wilsondevelopment and I think that that's kind of more so what I'm trying to explain and correlate it's just well what what what energies I mean usually the man's rle is to provide for the child usually in your 50s you're going to be
00:54:28
Andrew Wilsonmuch more established and have resources to do that type of providing than you would if you were a 20-year-old man for instance right so so I'm not really understanding what the issue here is with the age I understand the
00:54:40
Andrew Wilsonexternalities like I had Parkinson's disease non-english speaking those are serious problems but they would be serious problems if he was 26 and had Parkinson and didn't speak English right
00:54:52
Stephaniethose would still be massive issues so the age itself I guess is what I'm trying to figure out yeah he ended up having dementia as well so I don't know if that's like an experience that I got to experience
00:55:03
Stephaniesooner than other peers would if they had like younger parents so I don't know you know if that's more so like what you're saying but to me like it's just a I I'm getting to like the finish line of