00:00:14Brian Atlaswelcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape I'm your host Brian Atlas thanks for tuning in tonight you could been anywhere in the world but you're here with me I appreciate that we're coming to you live from Santa Barbara California every
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00:03:13Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead uh hello I'm
00:03:19Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)Angelic I'm 23 I currently live in LA and um I do stuff for fun like make
00:03:28Brian Atlasmusic and stream on Twitch and yeah that's it and uh well first off welcome back uh I think it's been like what a year since your last honor around there
00:03:39Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)now you were you moved around a little bit you were in uh was it South Korea for a little bit or yes I went to Korea and then I went to Australia then back to Korea and then now I'm back here and
00:03:50Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)were you studying there or what were you doing in uh South Korea just traveling for fun cool what about you I'm Bri I'm 22 from Fresno California and I'm a dog
00:04:01Brian Atlasbreeder uh what kind of uh dogs do you breed Golden Retrievers golden retrievers okay and uh do you have I don't know the terminology but do you have multiple birthing what they I don't know
00:04:14Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)what they're called what are they call uh like my sers sers and Dam sers yeah that's the man that's the man and then the Dame Dam dam yeah not Dame no Dam
00:04:24Brian Atlasyeah sire and Dam yeah I have two two dams how many sers one one sire yes of course okay there's no and it's your like uh what is it AK AKC AK certified
00:04:37Kateso you make sure there's no inbreeding and they're of good stock yes okay how much do you just for a puppy I'm just curious what's the typical price uh in California it can range anywhere between
00:04:47Bri (partial)like 3 and 5,000 for one of them nice and then like per year how many uh pups are there typically um it depends on how many females you do but it can be anywhere between like 10 to
00:04:58Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)20 okay very Co what about you hi my name is Amy also known as mochii I'm 24 years old from Orange County California and I'm a content creator what what was
00:05:08Brian Atlasyour AKA Mochi Toki Mo mochi mochi toi yeah Mochi toi were you bestowed this name or is it self styled self bestowed self bestowed okay what about you my
00:05:21Katename is Kate I am from Fresno just turned 23 yesterday and also just started as a server so happy birthday welcome welcome what about you hi I'm
00:05:30Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)Jordan I am 25 I'm a gym owner and I'm from Riverside California all right welcome hi I'm jasine R I'm
00:05:42Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)from Los Angeles and I am an actress model age uh 27 all right welcome what about you um hi my online name is Turkish delight but um you can
00:05:53Brian Atlascall me D I am 24 I live in Australia Sydney but I moved here like 4 days ago to pursue content four days ago all right welcome and you have you ever been to the US before is
00:06:04Bri (partial)this your first time my first time first time in the US yeah have you traveled elsewhere though I went to Korea I went to Turkey I've been to Amsterdam yeah okay and uh you said you're 24 right yeah and they call you D oh no everyone
00:06:17Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)calls me Turkish the light online but like you can call me D are you Turkish I'm assuming you're Turkish yeah I'm Turkish do you speak Turkish yes fluent oh there you go and do you have an actual name or
00:06:30Brian Atlasum like I have a real name but I don't like you share it disclose that uh so D or Turkish delight can we call you TD yeah that's fine okay cool whatever you're comfortable with all right what
00:06:41Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)about you uh my name is V I am 30 years old and I'm an administrative assistant at a tax office okay welcome and just V
00:06:51Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)Veta right with a V Veta like Darth Vader but V it helps okay cool what about you um I'm Maddie I'm 25 I'm from
00:07:01Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)Vancouver Canada and I work in finance welcome is this your first time in the US no no okay all right welcome Q what about you I'm the Q pill I'm 31 I'm
00:07:13Brian Atlasa certified relationship coach a behavioral scientist YouTuber and book author all right welcome everybody really quickly before we uh get into the relationship status I don't if you for
00:07:24Brian Atlasthose of you who did not catch it on our Sunday show we uh I I have a vigil here uh we had a local in the community uh who I have a
00:07:36Brian Atlashad a personal connection with uh his name is blessed he passed away we Jesus N Pull up the video uh we'll play that so this clip went viral like 10 years
00:07:47Brian Atlasago back when I was doing kind of like these hidden camera uh pranks and stuff and uh this is kind he's kind of Local Hero in the community he uh he'd walk
00:07:57Brian Atlasaround in this uh as Jesus basically weed Jesus and he'd pass out Bibles and weed to people and actually funny story this
00:08:08Brian Atlasguy uh he's a homeless man he's no longer in a wheelchair so my theory is what he's about to do actually cured him he he got cured from uh hitting the
00:08:19Brian Atlasjoint and now he's walking around Santa Barbara but in any case uh rest in peace to blessed in the chat can we get some rips maybe some like a little candle or something um and I got in touch with
00:08:32Brian AtlasI've been I was meaning to get this guy on for an interview for the longest time actually Maddie didn't you uh he goes to my local grocery store but didn't you like run into him and I was like yo can you try to talk to him and he kind of
00:08:43Brian Atlaslike said be gone strumpet he should you away Nick can you pull up that strumpet thing on the can you pull that up no well there there's that but I was
00:08:54Brian Atlastalk uh in the streamyard you'll see it it's the trumpet oh okay yeah okay okay no yeah to the right wait you got up to
00:09:04Brian Atlasthere yeah there we go yeah so um so he he uh just like he was like be gone when you yeah was Maddie saw him like what a year ago
00:09:15Brian Atlaswas it not a year ago I don't know we tried to get an interview but he was too busy giving away Bibles and smoking weed yeah he passed away Maddie fig that uh
00:09:27Brian Atlasone of his uh his daughter reached out to me and uh yeah so pretty pretty sad sad about anyways uh Moving On Moving on but everything
00:09:39Brian Atlasokay Nick yeah I just dropped something okay so we're g to get everybody's current relationship status are you single talking stage situationship Friends with Benefits relationship married polycule
00:09:52Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)sex cult whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead I am still single been single for
00:10:03Brian Atlas2 and 1 half years now and my longest relationship was a year all
00:10:09Brian Atlasright no prospects in Korea no no nothing no okay all right Australia you were in Australia right
00:10:20Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)they're cool guys nothing I mean no do you have a type uh not physically know okay what
00:10:31Brian Atlasabout you um I am single and I have never been in a relationship you're 22 right just confir okay yes uh so single for 22 years I guess uh well what's the
00:10:42Brian Atlaslongest period of time that you've dated a guy maybe you weren't boyfriend girlfriend but you dated for a couple of weeks I never been in any kind of
00:10:50Brian Atlasrelationship have you been on a date no Have You Been Kissed no oh you first okay
00:11:02Brian Atlasuh would any never mind okay uh so dating apps no nothing
00:11:11Brian Atlasnope have you ever hit on a dude I have not has a dude hid yes dud right yeah but no dating apps no okay all right uh
00:11:22Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)so about women no okay oh yeah actually I'll ask or yes I am Christian okay so that's a no on orientation oh oh that I don't have one I mean if I if I like the
00:11:34Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)person I like the person I don't really care what okay so you're open to dating men or women yeah I am straight all right what about you I'm also straight okay uh relationship status uh currently
00:11:47Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)in a talking stage with someone but uh I've been single for like about a year now my longest relationship ever was like a year and two months all right one
00:11:56TTS/Chat readerpoint okay and uh fat chick dog abuser donated $69 adopt don't shop fat cow and green that's breeding dogs an idiot and
00:12:08Brian Atlasclearly abuses them I'm I'm skipping it bro you can't be nice okay be nice chat facts be nice okay uh so you've been s uh you're in a
00:12:21Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)talking stage how long has the talking stage been going on a little over a week right now we have a date on Friday M so cute have you guys uh did you meet
00:12:32Brian Atlason a dating app or yeah we met on hinge have you guys already had a date or is this going to be the first date this is going to be the first date and you have you said a date on Friday yeah okay got it and you but before this you said you've been single for one year has
00:12:46Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)there been in that onee period has there been anything any other talking stages i' like to talk to like multiple people so I don't get like hung up on one person you know like I'm kind of
00:12:58Brian Atlaslike even the playing field a little bit um are you talking to multiple people right now no but previously you had been talking to multiple people at the same time what's the uh what would be the
00:13:09Brian Atlasaverage for you when you are talking to multiple people the max is like three like I don't have to Max Max is three max of three I was going to guess three three okay and so what does that look
00:13:20Brian Atlaslike if you're talking to multiple people like you're going on dates with them so you'll go on a date on Friday Saturday Sunday Type Thing I I think um
00:13:30Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)a date once once every like one to two weeks is fine like if I'm just starting to get to know the person but usually talking stage should be like a week two weeks Max because like if you're not trying to meet in person then like it's
00:13:43Brian Atlasjust like a failed talking stage at that point mhm yeah okay all right and what about you single um I haven't really been in like
00:13:55Kateofficial relationships but I've gone on dates and stuff um right now not I mean I'm on the apps but you ever had a
00:14:06Brian Atlasboyfriend don't think so what's the longest period of time that consecutive period of time you've talked to a
00:14:13Brian Atlasguy two and a half years well hold on and you guys was it long distance or
00:14:25Brian Atlasyeah but it was never boyfriend girlfriend were you guys sleeping together you were talking to the guy for two and a half years
00:14:36Brian Atlasand wait just okay you're talking to a guy for two and a half years never SLE slept together but it also never got to boyfriend girlfriend what were youall talking
00:14:48Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)about for 2 and a half years just Snapchat like so you guys weren't exclusive then no so you guys were just like just entertaining each other for two and a half years mhm okay
00:15:01Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)a lot of B there's I need I need some more details on she had like a boo thinging maybe they were both avoidance like avoidant attachments
00:15:11Brian Atlastrying to merge uh wait so hold on did you ever meet this you said it was long distance did you meet in person yeah we're from
00:15:19Brian Atlasthe same town Fresno yeah sorry about that sorry about the whole Fresno thing anyways uh
00:15:30Brian Atlascuz it's Fresno um so two and a half years from what age to what age 19
00:15:40Brian Atlasto 21 Nick hide that okay so uh have you had
00:15:54Brian Atlashookups yeah she shook her head and then okay cuz I'm just trying to get a sense of your relationship dating
00:16:05Brian Atlashistory I mean I've talked to multiple people okay but so you have like you've you've not had a boyfriend so you you've
00:16:14Brian Atlashad a like a Friends with Benefits type thing or I guess you could say that yeah I guess I could say that but what do you
00:16:25TTS/Chat readersay you've had a boyfriend no no I could I'm sorry I could say that about her I'm sorry Nicholas donated
00:16:36TTS/Chat reader$69 guys I didn't realize the Incredible Hulk was going to be on the panel tonight aren't you worried she's going to smash the table oh wait she's never
00:16:45Brian Atlasbeen smashed stop F okay I'm skipping that bro guys don't put don't make me put the
00:16:55Brian Atlas[ __ ] on [ __ ] mod delay okay all right go ahead man off to a great off to great start people who say that stuff are just unhappy
00:17:06Brian Atlaspeople anyway is that my turn uh well I'm just trying to get a little clarification here so uh when's the last time you dated a guy I
00:17:16Brian Atlasguess a month and a half ago okay uh how long were you seeing that guy from a month and a half ago it was on and off
00:17:26Katefor a month and then we like broke it off we broke it off and then got back together but now it's done so okay and were you guys together what does
00:17:39Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)together mean if you guys were an exclusive like together like so you guys were not exclusive but you were together he claimed you were dating big
00:17:50TTS/Chat readerlab AI disrespect donated $69 my sprinkler goes like this
00:18:08Brian Atlasback all right uh thank you I don't like the name but uh because hash bigl matter but okay uh all right what about you
00:18:18Brian Atlasmarried married how long have you been married for Point Blank period how long You' been married oh um just under a year
00:18:29Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)okay uh one year all right but how long were you dating for prior to that oh prior to us getting married five years okay so you've been
00:18:39Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)together for five years right what about you I'm in a relationship I'm sorry should I say that again I don't know if it was loud enough go ahead sure say it
00:18:48Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)again I'm in a relationship um 3 years we've definitely had our Rocky Peaks um I've had other relationships that have lasted two years so is this your longest
00:19:01Brian Atlasrelationship I guess yeah you can say that wait and you said you've had your Rocky Peak so is it currently Rocky or was it in the past it's been Rocky in the past more I'd say that we're in a
00:19:12Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)better patch for the last two months better patch okay all right yeah um so was it on again off again at times yeah
00:19:22Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)he had um a drinking problem that I didn't really care to attach myself to too MH and so in his moments where he's
00:19:32Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)being a good boy I you know feel the want to be closer to him again okay got it what about you um I'm single I've
00:19:43Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)been single for about 3 years now and my longest relationship was about 2 and 1 half years was that the one that ended 3 years ago mhm okay and uh before I
00:19:55Brian Atlasforgot if it was Angelic or You Who provided this um there's some other details in terms of waiting
00:20:07Brian Atlaswaiting like do I have to pull this out of you okay I'm sorry you're you're virgin correct oh my God who told him did you
00:20:17Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)tell I didn't say oh my goodness who told him it was in the pre-show notes what it was in the pre-show notes I said I said yeah I have you guys put it in
00:20:28Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)the pre-show notes no it wasn't in the question oh it wasn't in the I said to um to get you invited I said oh she's like this you know she's more traditional she's more blah she's waiting for marriage blah blah blah blah
00:20:41Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)blah yes that's I am waiting for Mar I didn't know that was this close Okay so waiting until marriage not like born again virgin correct God okay oh my goodness it's it's fine
00:20:54Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)it's not a big de me of God I didn't know you knew oh okay I know it was in the pre had it was in the pre you going to find out one way or another I mean okay uh all right what about you uh I'm
00:21:06Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)married I've been married uh it'll be 3 years in October and uh we've been together for five years before that all right and that's your longest relationship yes do you guys have kids
00:21:19Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)we do not not yet not yet you're planning to though yeah we're um enjoying our newlywed life and trying naturally but yeah that's kind of the pH
00:21:28Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)that we're at all right okay mhm um I'm single and I've been in a fouryear and a twoyear relationship but yeah I've been
00:21:39Brian Atlassingle for like two and a half years the one uh the relationship then ended two and a half years ago was that
00:21:46Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)the four year yeah okay why did he dump you um yeah he did dump me uh oh that was just a guess
00:21:56Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)I um why yeah we were both honestly struggling with like substance abuse things time
00:22:08TTS/Chat readergrid One Motorsports donated $69 oh my God the one in pink has a stronger jaw line that Joe Swanson
00:22:15TTS/Chat readeranyone calling Thunder Down Under honesty know likes surprise Wang I know you guys are supporters of the show and normally I kind of like let it
00:22:26Brian Atlasslide you guys if you like the show you got to look at the Optics of sending chat like
00:22:35TTS/Chat reader$69 has the Hulk smashed anything yet she is absolutely huge for the panel please rate okay nobody smashing
00:22:47Brian Atlasyou guys Optics if you're supporters of the show like another channel in the space in the dating space if you guys know Rolo got his channel demonetized
00:22:58Brian Atlasyesterday okay so we're trying to be extra VI Vigilant about this [ __ ] you guys can do more playful roasting that's fine but if you care about the channel
00:23:08Brian Atlasuh don't make me have to put on auto like a mod delay think about the Optics of the channel guys I know like come on all right
00:23:19TTS/Chat readeruh Brian the white KN donated 6 you can roast me though I'm fine just [ __ ] roast me call me I need to lose quit being a white night I'm fine I can beta
00:23:31Brian Atlasbeta beta beta beta beta beta beta beta betaa beta beta beta beta beta beta see ler yeah you guys can look guys I know I got a dad bod you can call you can you I got I'm joining Weight Watchers you can
00:23:42Brian Atlasyou can roast me all you want but I will def I got come on guys be nice save it for later at least God damn okay I couldn't even stick with that
00:23:53Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)substance abuse huh okay we were both very yeah both very wild at time no PCP what is that
00:24:05Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)heroin I uh keep going Crystal Crystal math same as math that's still the same thing yeah
00:24:14Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)um no but crocodil CR crocodil not that one either bath salt that's the one aasa aaska no no
00:24:26Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)no um LSD mushrooms people don't get addicted to LSD true uh yeah we just were not good for each other at the time so it's like
00:24:36Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)I'm very grateful that he was able to end things because it was probably the
00:24:43TTS/Chat readerbest thing us Glock tavius donated $69 ladies would you date Brian on one
00:24:51TTS/Chat readerhand he is tall 6'1 blue eyes Rich sometimes funny successful but he has a dead bod probably autistic has a weird
00:25:00Brian Atlasliking for big lab outies and a small peee that is not true how dare you the glavius that's wild that's wild bro
00:25:11Brian Atlasglavius holy [ __ ] uh oh my God okay we'll go [ __ ] it we'll go on the table I don't you guys you guys got to realize this is a terrible terrible question CU
00:25:22Brian Atlasfirst off even if they did want to nobody would admit that [ __ ] in front of like 11 other people people you know so I mean you know but okay [ __ ] it we'll do it uh all right Angelic what about
00:25:33Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)you go ahead if I would date you sure um currently no as I don't know you that well okay that's fair I accept it
00:25:45Bri (partial)what I do not know you I've known you for like 15 minutes so
00:25:53Brian Atlasmaybe okay would you go on a date with him if he asked you I would consider it she'd consider oo consider it's very charitable of her what about you you give me Big Brother energy I feel like we'd be good friends but I would not
00:26:06Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)date you I see how it is I see how it is big bro energy big bro energy we'd be homies I see how it is you is it I see I see automatic friend
00:26:18Brian Atlaszone um I don't know actually you know what though what's crazy on your dating app this girl likes veiny hands and I feel like on that basis I'm kind of a good p
00:26:28TTS/Chat readerI got viny handsome class 20 donated $69 haven't even finished the intros yet LOL Brian put them in the place they deserve ladies what is the biggest
00:26:40Brian Atlaslesson learned in your dating life # big laia matter biggest here I'm going to have to save that just to get through a couple things uh biggest lesson learned
00:26:53Brian Atlasdating uh yeah look I mean I just got to be extra Vigilant Rolo um he I don't know how he got demonetized because he has uh
00:27:05Brian Atlastheir Channel had like 10,000 subscribers it was pretty it was a very tame show so I actually have no and the YouTube rarely provides a basis for why they don't tell you why they just do it
00:27:18Brian Atlasuh and then a bunch of other channels have also been demonetized so I have to be extra vigilant and um granted we did tell them before the
00:27:28Brian Atlasshow that they're going to get roasted so they have a bit of a pre-warning but you guys can roast me okay tell me I'm chubby and I need to lose weight okay uh where were we uh oh
00:27:40Brian Atlaswould you date me would you go on would you date would you date Brian probably not
00:27:49Brian Atlassure what about you you're married okay we can if you weren't married
00:27:59Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)okay what about you I said no oh okay um I would actually probably say yes depending on where or what you asked me what we were doing first a date it
00:28:12Brian Atlasdepends on the date yeah it depends on the date McDonald I'm taking you to McDonald's absolutely not baby not not next time next lifetime that's like my go-to you know so all right what about
00:28:22Brian Atlasyou if you're taking me to McDonald's yes a that's awesome pull some in the bag pull some in the bag get her some nuggets
00:28:32Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)okay my oh my God all right what about you uh I know I'm married my husband's fine if I answer this you're a handsome guy um but some stances that you take are a little strong for me so okay we
00:28:45Brian Atlascan get in we'll get into that St let me write down stances I already know which stance too oh if we were saying for the married women in here like if we weren't
00:28:55Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)married oh yeah May yes it's in the bag boys okay that's a big
00:29:04Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)maybe McDonald's no all right uh I don't eat that crap there's nothing for this there's a lot of things wrong with
00:29:14Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)it but it tastes really good word but he's taking you out what matter is true I personally believe in effort
00:29:25Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)yes effort matters but we didn't you you just say no on the McDonald's that's why I said no okay there was the effort oh so you're saying McDonald's is like zero effort yeah I'm not saying I'm not going
00:29:36Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)to get down on some fries I love me some fries just not on a first date uh what about
00:29:45Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)you um if you believed in Jesus yeah maybe I would go on one date with you but I don't know if we would be
00:29:55Brian Atlaslined okay Q would you uh if you're gay I'm in another life maybe okay all right uh and then Q did you say your relationship status no I
00:30:07Q (The Q Pill)didn't okay um or wait did you give yours you gave yours yeah Q what's yours uh I'm single I'm chilling get a lot I'm
00:30:14TTS/Chat readera festar prospect though but I I okay chill all right grip Reaper 69 donated $69 than you Grim Reaper question for the ladies if the Grim Reaper comes and
00:30:27TTS/Chat readersays should take your life or your husbands who do you choose okay we'll start with you go ahead um mine if my husband can stay
00:30:42TTS/Chat readeralive I don't know it depends on who's taking care of the kids if I'm the main Soul Provider Mike Davis donated
00:30:51TTS/Chat reader$69 McDonald's Burger King sorry Brian getting rejected by a land animal is caused to rope Max I'll fly you overseas
00:31:01TTS/Chat readerand you can passport bro with me this pack tonight is a collective six so no loss which which country you doing the passport bro thing in bro which is that
00:31:13Brian Atlasyou going to you going to South America or Asia what's up there he is there's Mike Davis he owns like 100 200 Burger Kings oh my goodness in the United
00:31:23Brian AtlasStates of America he feel VI I'm Bump by the way guys I'm bumping up the TTS now we did the 69 it's back to the normal uh TTS has just been bumped let me just
00:31:34Brian Atlasmake sure that is all set minimum tip okay that should be good to go so we're back to our normal uh threshold uh I don't like that number anyways so the girl in the green your
00:31:47Brian Atlashaters don't know your story neither do I I am sure if they did they would be more compassionate until then they are teeny baby men yes so so there you have it okay where
00:32:00Brian Atlaswere we oh the Grim Reaper Grim Reaper uh your answer to the Grim Reaper Reaper one I'd sacrificed my husband I got to put me first okay so the husband goes yeah does
00:32:12Brian Atlasit change uh before or after kids does your answer change or still doesn't change you got to put me first okay the husband has to go
00:32:22Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)okay I don't like this question but I probably would never negotiate with somebody who wants to take my life so if I chose myself who's to say he wouldn't then kill my husband
00:32:35Brian Atlasafter me cuz I wouldn't know I think you're overthinking the question definitely overthink very simple very simple Grim Reaper comes if it was like I had to make a choice yeah then I would sacrifice myself it's beautiful that is
00:32:47Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)beautiful that's beautiful um if it was with my current partner I already know that your husband oh this fictional person yeah or basing it off of staying your Cent it could be your current
00:32:58Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)partner okay well if I'm imagining that it's that person I know he would want me to pick myself and that he would want to be able to die for me because he in true
00:33:08Brian Atlasof what a legend yes all right what about you um I would sacrifice myself it's good good answer all right what about uh yeah if the Grim
00:33:20Brian Atlasreper came up to me I would sacrifice myself yeah what a wife guys we're so we're going around the table you guys can preemptively be like oh the person next to me is answering the question and
00:33:32Brian Atlasthen they answer the question you could just oh it's my TR okay go yeah same I would sacrifice myself okay Q with it oh this is for the
00:33:45Q (The Q Pill)ladies right yeah it was okay answer anyway would you would you take your life not sacrifice I'm I'm fighting you we fighting you know me and death going to fight for a minute I'm going to see if he can actually take my life you [ __ ]
00:33:56Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)him up you're going to [ __ ] if if he can take my life then it that's where I was going at I'm like if fight has to happen first I'm not just going to be like yeah kill me I'm going to be like you're going to we're going need to put up some
00:34:08Brian Atlaswell this will get into our bullet debate which I'm sure we'll have later but not that I would fight but anyways yeah wait what was the something about I wrote down three stances why' I write down three stances
00:34:21BackgroundI don't know somebody's talking about stances who's talking about stances oh I had a uh disagreed with your stances St Yeah okay or your yours are a little strong for me that the dating question
00:34:33Brian Atlasokay we'll we'll come to that in just a sec but uh one of the ttss that came through I'll just get this then we'll get into some of our questions uh biggest lesson learned during dating if you have if you don't have anything that's fine otherwise yeah starting with
00:34:45Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)you go ahead I would say one of the biggest lessons I've learn during while dating is that as humans we all feel the same emotions just through different experiences and it is okay and you are
00:34:57Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)just justify to feel however you do however your feelings do not justify your actions so that is anything for you or nothing you sound like you was running CRA nothing I was I
00:35:10Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)feel like you should trust trust your gut and have um boundaries with yourself like you should know what you want before getting into something with like another person
00:35:19Kateokay um probably don't move so fast and be so upfront and pushy with the other person just cuz that's one of the lessons I've learned
00:35:29Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)just go with the flow more sure I would say like like uh embody the person that you see yourself with so if you always kind of with somebody who treats you like crap then you should start to treat
00:35:40Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)yourself better and put more value into your life first and love yourself first before allowing somebody else to come in and and love you
00:35:49Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)too let people show you who they are don't try to make them be something else don't try to make them into something else don't try to figure out their motives if they show up a certain way
00:36:01Bri (partial)then you already know who that type of person is you don't need to hear all their excuses um I think understand that people experience things differently and the way they you respond to something will affect the way someone else behave
00:36:13Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)so think about what you do or what you say before you do it okay I just forgot my answer um but in
00:36:23Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)dating seek to understand then be understood Beau I was literally going to say consider the other person's experience
00:36:33Brian Atlasmore than considering my own experience okay got it with that said I think oh Q or was that just for the ladies I forgot you got anything Q what I learned the
00:36:44Q (The Q Pill)biggest lesson I learned is that lesson um women are flawed human beings and it's okay to treat them like they're flawed because I was always the you know the type to men are flaw too right yeah
00:36:56Q (The Q Pill)but I mean I'm always the type I was always the type like the Hopeless Romantic s p yeah yeah yeah so I I learned that women definitely [ __ ] up and it's okay
00:37:06Brian Atlasto tell them when they [ __ ] up sometimes yeah well put well put going back to you over here you said there were some stances of M specifically that you objected to I'll start with you and then
00:37:19Brian AtlasI can always open it up to the whole panel on this one but uh what do you have for me what do you got Just Jump Right In why do you have Big L be a matter if you don't go down
00:37:30Brian Atlasah yes of course of course well I don't see so first off I don't really follow the logic so you
00:37:37Brian Atlascan desire a or have a preference on that front without needing to uh or wanting to do oral
00:37:50Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)sex so do you have a different argument you want to make or just then why big lady me matter then why it just doesn't the logic doesn't follow for example a woman might have a
00:38:00Brian Atlaspreference for a certain penis size but she might not enjoy oral sex the two aren't really connected
00:38:09Brian Atlasokay I'm sorry but yes to answer your question uh look I I care it's interesting because for me at least when it comes to sex I my goal is to make her come first
00:38:22Brian Atlasif possible multiple times but there's different ways to go about that and just for me personally I have a sexual boundary it's interesting that typically
00:38:33Brian Atlaswhen men have sexual boundaries they tend to be kind of uh ignored but just in the way that women have sexual boundaries men are allowed to have sexual boundaries that happens to be one of my sexual boundaries if that's a deal breaker for a woman so be it although
00:38:46Brian Atlasmost of the women I've dated and encountered including my various long-term relationships has not really been a problem at all so how has that sexual boundary been ignored then what
00:38:57Brian Atlasdo you mean you said usually men's sexual boundaries are ignored if it has not if it's been respected well if if I mean I'm not speaking on a individual level but like when I bring it up in
00:39:08Brian Atlasconversation here and I I don't really take an issue with it but uh people are like they'll try to kind of almost make fun of you or pressure you for your for a boundary that you have where I think
00:39:20Brian Atlasif a woman had a similar sort of boundary and if it was pushed to the same degree it would be looked at in a much different way for example if a woman if she didn't want to give uh head
00:39:32Brian Atlasor she didn't want to have oral uh anal sex for example and she was mocked for it uh people might object to that more so than the man being mocked for his sexual boundary that would probably also
00:39:44Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)really turn her off to wanting to have sexual encounters with you if you're not respecting her boundaries but can I ask you something mhm the BLM thing that you have going on is that some sort of
00:39:56Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)backlash just like a lot of women who are like what they call size queens like who you
00:40:04Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)know prefer certain pee sizes is that is this your way of like kind of having a backlash at that or is that is that your
00:40:14Brian Atlasgenuine opinion that you've just monetized well I don't really monetize it at all probably loses me okay money in some do you want to monetize it I don't monetize I don't mon I say it's
00:40:27Brian Atlasnonprofit but we don't take there's no no donation link we don't take donations or it's more I mean I say it's nonprofit as a joke it's not actual organization but in terms of my advocacy well for one
00:40:38Brian Atlasit's actually interestingly kind of a feminist talking point this one uh because you know you'll hear well throughout you know if you look at like uh depictions and pornography oh these
00:40:49Brian Atlaswomen with their perfect [ __ ] lips uh you know and it's not representative of all the different shapes and sizes that you know women can uh you know have it down there and uh
00:41:02Brian Atlaswom women are meant to feel insecure about it meant and then there's a b there's also the whole U uh fake news about the like oh if a woman's promiscuous that means
00:41:14Brian Atlasthat that's the cause of having no that's ridiculous a woman could be a virgin and having an Audi but uh it's I
00:41:22Brian Atlasmean it's sort of I guess to your point it it could double as a sort of like knock to women with their preferences I
00:41:33Brian Atlasguess although it would be the the corresponding thing would be because you're comparing it to size queens I think the corresponding thing here
00:41:44Brian Atlasis if I said I only date women with enies I think that would correspond better to women who say I only date men with big penises that's tends to be the preference and I would say the
00:41:54Brian Atlasmainstream preference tends to be men preferring Ines M and actually women get shamed if women get shamed if they have an Audi so it's not like want to be
00:42:06Brian Atlasthey'll get they'll get made fun of beef curtains Arby's wizard sleeve what you've never heard they guys and Guy women make fun of it guys make fun of it it's inappropriate
00:42:18Brian Atlasinappropriate I don't think we should be I don't think we should be shaming men or women for something that's one entirely out of control and something that's you know bit more people can be sensitive about that and get
00:42:28Brian Atlasinsecurities and uh yeah so as far as my actual dating preference I was just wondering where this came from only date women without
00:42:38Brian Atlasno I'm kid never heard I date I I I date women with enies but um I do have a preference for Audi okay she's like what the [ __ ] what we do have virgin's
00:42:49Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)present okay oh my God who hears a virgin show hands Q back Nick's a virgin just asked the question like
00:43:02Brian Atlaswhat's your favorite color so casual I don't know if that adequately answers your question but I think it does yeah yeah I just want to know if it's like really a genuine thing that you're into oh you think like I'm F like I'm
00:43:14Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)not in I don't know like it's it's very Niche I don't know I've never heard of somebody like oh yeah I really love big Leia huge fan okay or definitely I
00:43:25Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)definitely huge fan I definitely heard of like guys who were like oh yeah like I only like girls with Ines because it just looks kind of more like innocent I guess looks innocent
00:43:37Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)what the [ __ ] cuz like the other you know the opposite would be like you know she you know the bigger the better yeah sure any Audi at the table anybody down
00:43:49Brian Atlasto admit would anybody admit that if they do have an Audi don't know that I've examined myself that thoroughly some girls don't even
00:43:59Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)know why' you look at me as you took your sip of water I cuz I was talking to you okay for all female viewers you should probably take a mirror and give yourself
00:44:11Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)a good look down there and get acquainted with what's going on because when things are not going to plan you should be able to know that too about
00:44:19Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)yourself and be able to get appropriate help yep it's beautiful same sex matters the more you know uh so the more you
00:44:30Brian Atlasknow but here's the crazy thing in the United States 10,000 women a year get a labia plasty 10,000 that's wild that's a tragedy and through the aders that's what God gave you if I can if I can
00:44:42Brian Atlasconvince one woman to not get a laia plasty I have done a a good deed it's a good deed can I help with that um if you
00:44:52Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)get labia plasty you're less likely to feel Sensations um on your lips so yeah if you're considering it you probably might not be able to get off as easily so keep that in mind ladies and you can
00:45:04Brian Atlasget infections you can botch it [ __ ] the [ __ ] surgeon might be drunk [ __ ] take the [ __ ] along with it on accident
00:45:11Brian Atlasit happened happens probably look end of the day if I can prevent one labia plasty just know there's men out there
00:45:22TTS/Chat readerincluding myself who like and prefer Audi Okay g Motorsports donated $200 first let's leave big girl alone she seems nice and is not a [ __ ] for
00:45:35TTS/Chat readerthe linebacker in the pink sweater in the corner do you prefer in is or out e what's your bench can you scoot into that you're kind of like hiding behind her it's like so
00:45:46Brian Atlasuncomfortable what's your bench who I don't bench do do you okay all right on your dating profile what we'll pull up later you did say something
00:45:58Brian Atlasalong the lines of you want to make D1 babies or something yeah cuz I'm 510 cuz yeah so okay we have uh Mitch the CPA panel what are your height limits
00:46:09Brian Atlasfor dating I'm 67255 where is Andrew uh thank you Mitch height limits for dating so we'll go around the table why don't you tell us what your height is and then like bare
00:46:20Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)minimum for uh minimum height in terms of what you would date uh I'm 411 so I don't really have a minimum height cuz I'm pretty short everyone's tall stra your mic yeah
00:46:31Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)everyone's taller than me so I would say I have more of a maximum height cuz I think it would be too hard to date someone like over sure 6'4 like what's
00:46:40Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)your what's your max height oh I 6 yeah I don't want anyone over 64 okay what about you well I'm 58 so I would like a
00:46:49Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)taller guy but I do not discriminate if I like a guy and there's chemistry I will someone shorter you would date somebody shorter than you yes okay got
00:47:00Amy/Veta/Jordan (mixed)it what about you I'm 5'2 and my height minimum would be 5'9 my height maximum is 63 I've dated someone 6'2 before and like my neck kind of hurts like looking
00:47:11Kateup at them but the height difference is really cute okay his neck hurts too he's like this I'm 5'10 um I mean if you're attractive it doesn't really
00:47:22Katematter come come on you date a guy who's 5'5 I don't don't talk to people that are 55 I don't talk to that are males wait what I don't really I don't I've
00:47:34Backgroundnever talked to anyone like shorter than 5'11 oh my God she's got a preference so what's your what's your what's minimum
00:47:42Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)height 510 510 okay what about you um yes I do have a preference for
00:47:50Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)height probably minimum is 5'9 maximum probably like I don't I know 64 I met a guy once who was 67 and I was
00:48:01Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)like no way that's way too much it's probably the guy that asked the question I always said that my dating minimum for years was 61 and um I ended up dating
00:48:12Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)someone who was 6'8 that was too much but I did try to give it a go um and then I ended up going on a date with my current guy and he lied about his height
00:48:22Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)on his dating profile and I on our first date I literally told him I was like this isn't this isn't going to work like I kept trying to give him every excuse in the book why I didn't want to keep seeing him because it was primarily
00:48:34Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)about height cuz he checked all the other boxes but you know I guess now I do date under 61 wait so how tall was the guy Li 5'9 and wait how tall are you
00:48:45Brian Atlasagain oh I'm 5'6 okay so was it the fact that he lied or was it just even I know the live should have been a red flag like let's get that fact like right wait is this the guy you're currently dating
00:48:55Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)yeah oh you're oh and yeah he's the only guy under 6 foot one and let him stay even though he lied you let him stay oh I mean like you know kept seeing him oh right even on the though on like
00:49:08Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)the first date I was like I don't think this is going to work so what' he lie about his height how much how tall did he say he was oh that's a good question yeah he said he
00:49:20Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)was 51 oh okay so just he light about 2 in okay but still 59 that's the same height as my mom which is so funny when he's around my mom actually he gets so embarrassed and he has to wear like
00:49:32Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)boots I don't know if I'm supposed to be talking about this no it's fine what about you um digging I'm 5'6 I don't think height matters as long as we have a chemistry together and we have a good relationship got it okay what about you
00:49:44Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)uh I'm 5'8 and I usually prefer taller than me so yeah how tall is your you're married right yes how is your husband 6'2 okay it's perfect I'm 54
00:49:57Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)and I feel like I have preferences but there's no like deal breakers in terms of height if there was like a very powerful connection
00:50:06Q (The Q Pill)mhm okay ke what about you any height preferences no I no my tallest girlfriend has been 510 and the shortest
00:50:15Brian Atlashas been 5 foot yeah I as far as I go don't really have a hype preference
00:50:24Brian AtlasI'll did a girl who's taller than me I don't I don't care uh I'd say though my preference is shorter
00:50:32Brian Atlaswomen like I I'll date a girl who's 47 a I'll date a girl who's 6'5 don't give a [ __ ] about
00:50:43Brian Atlasheight for children taller is probably better though like for the kids you know like to make warriors and [ __ ] yeah but like for for Speed like definitely the short
00:50:55Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)chicks for for the for the speed you sure huh you sure no not like running speed for the I mean like for Speed never mind I understood what you were saying she gets it you really realize it
00:51:07Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)when you're walking side by side cuz your steps are like hers like you know has to take like five step that's another that's another consideration that's not what he's talking that is
00:51:19Brian Atlasanother consider yeah that's not yeah uh okay anyways let's see uh so the stances were was there any other stances or yeah I just can't think of I'm sure they'll
00:51:31Brian Atlascome up did you put them put it in the notes I can see if uh uh I don't believe I did what do you think about the fact that he won't take a bullet for well let let's get into that we'll we'll get into
00:51:42Brian Atlasthe bullet discussion later but um let me see does anybody here so I'll just open it up to the panel then uh if anybody here is watch the show before any uh it's always fun to kind of have
00:51:54Brian Atlasdiscussions over disagreements any agreements from anybody from anything you've either heard from me from Q over here he's been on the show a bunch any
00:52:04Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)disagreements you know mine the bullet amongst other things and the labia thing I don't disagree with that I actually just wanted to know your intention behind that whole thing oh
00:52:15Angelic/Jordan/Jasmine/Turkish (mixed)okay but yeah you you know mine already okay makeup makeup makeup yes I still disagree on the makeup side I see your stance I just don't agree with it can I
00:52:25Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)ask something about the makeup thing sure huh okay in terms of being natural mhm you like all natural you don't like work done or anything okay honestly
00:52:36Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)respect but what if like somebody had really crooked teeth it would be strictly cosmetic to get braces would that like take away from
00:52:48Brian Atlasyour attraction to her because you would prefer her natural well I mean uh it's strictly cosmetic uh no I would didn't object to braces I think most PE I had braces when
00:52:59Brian AtlasI was younger um I think there's actually a medical you can argue that there is are well you're saying it's strictly cosmetic although I would they do say I think crooked teeth there
00:53:11Brian Atlasactually is a medically indicated uh reason I think for correcting uh crooked teeth I think not always but honestly I
00:53:20Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)agree I was just curious what about shaving well so grooming is different than uh than plastic surgery and different than
00:53:31Brian Atlasmakeup so like shaving armpits shaving legs that's fine okay grooming I grooming is its own category do you think beards are like makeup for men though
00:53:43Brian Atlasnope you don't think they can hide like change no they yes okay beards can change your appearance but there are things that are natural and there are things that are uh artificial not
00:53:54Brian Atlasnatural so um the way you style your hair for example I don't think that there's really I I don't think that that there's anything wrong there certainly for
00:54:05Brian Atlasexample a woman with a big forehead might have Bangs She might do a swoop an emo swoop which I think should come back into Style by the way I'm a fan of the Emos swop I think it should
00:54:19Brian Atlascome back yeah all that hair oil gy pimples though right but I don't think like oh that's are you you're like misrepresent like you're lying about no I I think grooming stuff is uh its own
00:54:31Brian Atlascategory no objections to grooming my qualms come to plastic surgery and uh typically excessive makeup usage minimal
00:54:41Brian Atlasmakeup not hu I look I prefer no makeup but a little mascara whatever butth yeah I prefer no makeup okay that's
00:54:50Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)fair did did you have more on that or no that always just came to my mind like how consistent the natural thing goes
00:55:01Bri/Maddie/Turkish (mixed)what do you mean but I can understand your debate I speak just speak straight to the Sor it's it's okay um no I agree with that I just wondered how natural you liked a