Andrew Wilson vs. Pxie (Feminist) HEATED DEBATE! | Whatever Debates #8

Date: 2024-08-03
Duration: 5h 08m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Pixie(guest)
SPEAKER_02Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_05TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_06TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)

Key Moments

00:01:29
QuoteBrian references the previous night's incident: a woman assaulted/harassed Andrew on the Whatever Discord stream. Andrew describes it as 'some kind of battery or at the very least harassment.' Brian says 'if I did it, I would have gone to jail.'

What did she assault you or was it... I would say some kind of maybe battery or the very least harassment... If I did it I would have gone to jail

00:02:28
QuoteBrian introduces Pixie: co-host of Sugar Spice podcast, triple-major University of Florida graduate (BS Psychology, BA Philosophy, BA Economics). Introduces Andrew Wilson as political commentator, bloodsport debater, host of The Crucible.

His feminist debate opponent is Pixie... She's the co-host of the Sugar Spice podcast. She graduated from University of Florida with a triple major

00:07:39
ControversyAndrew opens with the transcendental argument for God: knowledge requires an unchanging standard; the laws of logic are unchanging; therefore God (as the unchanging ground of truth) is the necessary precondition for knowledge. Any subjective worldview destroys the capacity to know anything.

Without an unerring standard or a standard which is unchanging, your ability to know something is going to be arbitrary... I actually believe that there is truth which you can know

00:28:44
QuotePixie chooses bear over man in the bear/man question — but only a black bear, not grizzly. Argues black bears typically don't realize they're apex predators and avoid humans, while men are more unpredictable. Grizzly bears: she'd take her chances with even a predatory man.

If it's a black bear, I would pick bear. If it's anything but a black bear, I would pick a guy... grizzly bears will kill you on site

01:33:20
ControversyAndrew states force doctrine: the reason women have rights is because men permit it. Men hold a monopoly on physical force. All female rights ultimately derive from male consent to grant those rights. This is the core of his anti-feminist argument.

Men have a monopoly on force... the reason you have rights is because men allow you to have rights

02:14:00
ControversyPixie argues female prison guards armed with guns are as effective as men — accuracy and speed are the key metrics, not strength. Andrew counters that prisoners would disregard gun threats from women more readily. Extended back-and-forth on whether women can realistically enforce order in all-male prisons.

Same exact training with weaponry, same exact training for control... If I have a gun and I shoot you before you can reach me, you're going to go down

03:06:29
QuotePixie describes an implicit force counter-argument: a hypothetical society where an employer opts out of wage garnishment enforcement, suggesting force is not always the mechanism underlying social agreements.

Such a society could exist, right? Where an employer opts to not deal with the state

03:42:02
QuoteTTS donation from 'Congrats you_played_yourself': '100% of what you scam as the patriarchy derives from female sexual selection. Men must climb hierarchies and attain power. If you didn't demand it, it would go away.' Brian calls it a good point.

100% of what you scam as the patriarchy derives from female sexual selection. Men must climb hierarchies plus attain power. If you didn't demand it, it would go away

03:55:00
ControversyAndrew presents the sexual selection argument: women's mate preferences (taller men, higher earners, status holders) are what create and sustain patriarchal hierarchies. If women didn't demand these traits, men would not compete for them. Women select a smaller pool of men (hypergamy) while men have broader preferences.

Women desire a few different traits. They want men who are taller than them... men don't give a f*** if they make as much money... The pool opens much wider for men

04:30:00
QuoteAndrew calculates stay-at-home mom labor: ~45 hours/week across childcare, cooking, cleaning, logistics. Compares to a professional working 60+ hours. Pixie pushes back on whether hours worked is the right metric for valuing childcare.

Going to give you in 7 days 45 hours of labor... What do you think your husband's averaging of labor per day?

04:52:00
ControversyAndrew concedes Pixie's argument that stay-at-home moms are vulnerable in divorce: they give up career advancement and financial independence. He acknowledges this was her strongest point in the debate. However, he argues the husband takes greater overall financial risk (alimony, asset split) in most divorce outcomes.

I thought that that was a much better portion of the verbal sparring and that your points were a lot more solid there

05:02:54
QuotePixie reveals her age (25) and marriage plans: wants to marry closer to 30, wants 3 kids, does not want to get divorced. Cites her family: 14 first cousins, most aunts/uncles married ~30 and had 3+ children. Andrew responds with biological clock warnings.

I'm 25 and I don't want to get married until I am closer through 30 for a couple of reasons... I want three kids

05:05:18
QuoteAndrew gives closing statement: thanks Pixie; declares force doctrine 'completely wrecked' Pixie's arguments; criticizes her prison guard stance; concedes stay-at-home mom divorce vulnerability as valid. Ends with 'God is real and Christ is God.'

Force doctrine does exist... completely wrecked there... I thought you did pretty good on the last round... Also, God is real and Christ is God

Topics Discussed

00:00:13
Show Intro & Announcements

Brian delivers intro monologue: Streamlabs vs. YouTube cut, TTS trigger details, Discord/Patreon links. Mentions previous night's stream where Andrew was assaulted/harassed by a woman ('battery or the very least harassment'). Clip available on Discord.

00:01:54
Debater Introductions

Brian introduces Pixie (Sugar Spice podcast co-host, triple-major UF graduate) and Andrew Wilson (The Crucible host, political commentator, bloodsport debater). Pixie gives opening statement: utilitarian worldview, egalitarian ideals, threshold deontology. Andrew gives opening statement: Eastern Orthodox Christian; knowledge requires an unchanging standard; presents transcendental argument for God.

00:08:20
Epistemology & Foundations Debate

Pre-debate philosophical exchange. Andrew argues knowledge is impossible without an unchanging standard (God). Pixie argues from subjective experience and empirical grounding. Discussion of laws of logic, Gettier problems, the barn hypothetical, objectivity vs. subjectivity, and whether relativism destroys the capacity for knowledge. Andrew presents the transcendental argument; Pixie challenges the 'box' limitation of subjectivism.

00:28:44
Man vs. Bear Question

Brian asks Pixie the 'man vs. bear in the woods' question. Pixie chooses bear — but only a black bear (not grizzly), citing unpredictability of men vs. known bear behavior. Andrew challenges by asking if she'd pat 100 random men vs. 100 bears — she concedes the point. Discussion of whether the bear/man choice reflects anti-male bias or rational risk assessment.

00:35:45
Feminism Definition & Scope

Andrew proposes definition: feminism = movement toward egalitarianism + dismantling of patriarchy. Pixie refines: equality of opportunity without enforcing interchangeability of outcomes. Both agree men and women have different ontological natures and interests. Discussion of whether gender stereotypes punish both sexes. Brief diversion: Brian announces previous guest Desiree is raffling off worn underwear.

00:54:00
Women in Male-Dominated Fields

Debate about why women are underrepresented in physically demanding/dangerous jobs. Pixie argues structural discrimination: women laughed out of oil fields, not given a chance. Andrew counters that women in politics are glorified not suppressed; no female Navy Seals exists. Discussion of epigenetics, interest divergence, and whether barriers are discriminatory or natural. Pixie argues women in male-dominated fields face higher rates of sexism/harassment.

01:28:20
Force Doctrine Debate

Extended debate on Andrew's 'force doctrine': men hold a monopoly on physical force, therefore all female rights ultimately derive from male permission. Pixie challenges: guns as equalizer, guerrilla warfare, implicit vs. explicit force. Andrew argues force doctrine explains societal power structures regardless of guns. Discussion of gun ownership distributions, women's ability to use firearms effectively, and whether force underpins all social contracts including employer/employee relations.

02:14:00
Female Prison Guards Debate

Pixie argues female prison guards with guns are as effective as men — accuracy and speed matter more. Andrew: male prisoners would overpower female guards regardless of gun accuracy. Discussion of reload speed, melee range, physical dominance, and whether women would invest their life savings in female-only prison guard staff. Both agree gun accuracy matters but disagree on real-world effectiveness in prison scenarios.

02:33:20
Firearms & Guerrilla Warfare

Andrew poses hypothetical: all US men's guns disappear, women have all firearms. Could women permanently enslave men? Pixie argues no — guerrilla tactics, subversion. Andrew argues women don't build guns, 3D printing hasn't led to armed female uprising, and force doctrine holds. Discussion of AR-15 / M16 ammunition history (McNamara's errors). Extended discussion of implicit force in contracts and the state's enforcement role.

03:00:00
Military Draft & Women in Combat

Brian asks Pixie if she'd support women being drafted. She says men would probably be picked more due to physical fitness. Discussion of mandatory vs. voluntary service, whether a nation without enough volunteers deserves to survive, former-military recall as an entailment of any draft system.

03:09:00
Patriarchy Definition & Power Structures

Return to core feminism debate. Brian asks if Pixie would ban men. Discussion of working definitions of feminism and patriarchy. Andrew argues women have statuses and power men don't. Pixie argues power wielded through social contracts and indirect force, not just brute force. Discussion of Rome as a republic vs. patriarchy, egalitarian societies. TTS donation: '100% of what you call patriarchy derives from female sexual selection.'

03:45:00
Sexual Selection & Mating Behavior

Andrew argues women's mate selection criteria (height, income, status) drive men to compete for hierarchical positions — if women didn't demand these traits, patriarchal structures would dissolve. Women select from a smaller pool of men (hypergamy). Discussion of millionaire men vs. younger women, class marriage patterns, and whether intelligence is a positive trait in female mates. Twitch poll: 93% say they'd prefer a hot 25-year-old over a wealthy 35-year-old.

04:20:00
Stay-at-Home Mom Economics

Andrew and Pixie calculate stay-at-home mom labor hours: ~45 hours/week across childcare, cooking, cleaning, logistics. Andrew argues this is less than a 60+ hour professional workweek. Pixie argues childcare is more emotionally demanding than quantifiable hours suggest. Discussion of whether stay-at-home parenting is a privilege or burden. Debate on divorce vulnerability of stay-at-home moms — Andrew concedes Pixie's point that stay-at-home moms are financially exposed if marriage ends.

04:50:00
Divorce Risk & Marriage Economics

Discussion of who bears more risk in marriage with a stay-at-home partner. Andrew argues men take greater financial risk (alimony, asset split, custody costs). Pixie argues women who give up careers are economically vulnerable. Discussion of divorce rates by income bracket, whether post-divorce women are better or worse off than pre-marriage. Statistics on women initiating divorces cited. Andrew's closing statement: force doctrine proven; feminism not demonstrated. Pixie's closing: appreciated the debate; still disagrees on power structures.

05:03:18
Closing Statements & Wrap-Up

Andrew's closing: thanks Pixie; critiques her patriarchy definition, force doctrine, and prison guard arguments as weak; acknowledges stay-at-home mom divorce vulnerability as her strongest point. Pixie's closing: tired, hungry, appreciates spirited exchange. Brian reads final TTS messages. Pixie confirms she is 25 and wants to marry ~30 with 3 kids. Twitch raid attempted. Brian announces Sunday 5pm Pacific Dating Talk episode.

Transcript

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02:58:56
Pixiemen and I think it does in certain ways and I think this is like one of the ways where um men are expected and essentially like burdened to have um
02:59:06
Pixieor have like these basically expectations of having to protect always um even in the detriment of their own life. And I don't think it's fair for the government to be able to dictate
02:59:18
Pixiethat in such a way. So I I mean aren't men going to make better soldiers? Um to me it's not a question about whether men make better soldiers or not. To me it's a question about should the government have a right to put your life on.
02:59:31
Andrew WilsonBut we're assuming they have the right like for for instance you don't really believe that like the United States was attacked right. You don't think that the government shouldn't be able to draft its citizens to repel attack? I don't I don't I don't think um what is
02:59:43
Pixieit? I think it has to be. Then how do you have a nation? Volunteer basis like essentially. Yeah. But if you don't have enough volunteers and your country is being attacked, you think that then your country doesn't deserve to survive if not enough people are willing to take up arms against a foreign
02:59:56
Andrew Wilsonpredator. Yeah. But I mean, you do realize that if you were to take volunteer service, for instance, if you if you have a draft, you can recall people who have been in
03:00:07
Andrew Wilsonthe armed forces who have some training that you can immediately deploy versus brand new freshfaced people who then you have to train. I guess, let me rephrase it. What I'm
03:00:19
Pixieassuming we're talking about here is a mandatory draft. So, it's I pick you, you have to go, and if not, the government won't put you. That's true. But that would also include as a subset people have former military training.
03:00:31
PixieYeah, I think um we should differentiate. I think if those if the former military but it's an entailment. You can't differentiate. It's an it's those people want to go and fight for the country. Great. Awesome. I don't think you should force those people.
03:00:43
Andrew WilsonYeah, that's great. But that's not the question. The question is not whether or not you think that that should happen. The question is if you have a draft, the entailment of having a draft is that people who have formerly served are
03:00:57
Andrew Wilsongoing to get drafted. Okay. How is that a question? Okay, that's an entailment. I need you to agree that that's an entailment of that cuz earlier you were saying that it wasn't. So, I just want to make sure it is. What do you mean byment? Please clarify. It means that if you're drafting
03:01:10
Andrew Wilsoneverybody, Yeah. then the pool of people who have formerly served will also get drafted. Okay. That's not a question. No, I it's an entailment. So I just asked you to acknowledge the entailment. Okay. Yes, they will draft people who
03:01:23
Andrew Wilsonhad former experience. Yes. Okay. So if you're going to do a draft, right, the logic behind it also would be that you can then call up soldiers quickly who have had some kind of training. Sure.
03:01:35
Andrew WilsonYeah. So then if you're only dealing on a volunteer basis, a volunteer force, and your country is attacked by a much larger force, then wouldn't you want the systems in place for conscription so
03:01:46
Andrew Wilsonthat you could quickly field men into battle starting with people have former military experience to save the enemy off as you train new soldiers? You can create a system where those people are basically on standby or
03:01:58
Pixiereserve. So then, yeah, but if it's voluntary, it would defeat the purpose of conscription. What is it? I mean, again, I don't think the draft should be a thing. I think we can have a system in
03:02:11
Pixieplace or let's call it draft light, whatever, whatever you want to call it. Um, where people volunteer their services in case there is such a situation. But I don't think you should be able to force an individual ever
03:02:22
Pixieunder any circumstances to put their life on the line for the government. Uh, well, no, for their own nation. there that's
03:02:33
Andrew WilsonI I don't think I think oftent times like for instance you you realize governments can be subverted for instance yeah I realize government and you realize that inside of this type
03:02:44
Andrew Wilsonof subversion you can have like surprise attacks nobody's prepared for right you can have all sorts of different things happen where you would need to call up soldiers very very quickly whether they wanted to go or not
03:02:55
Pixieyes um I think in the history of the United states most of the time it is not necessarily a surprise attack like that. Um so
03:03:07
Andrew Wilsonso what do realistic the scenarios are but regardless wait wait wait that's that's a very realistic scenario that you could be in fact what was is was Pearl Harbor a surprise attack?
03:03:18
Andrew WilsonYeah one and only. Yeah that was a pretty big surp
03:03:26
Andrew Wilsonmany many surprise attacks. War of 1812 started with a surprise attack. By the way, the Civil War started with a surprise attack. Can we compare? Stop cutting me off. I'm not done. Okay. The Civil War started with a surprise
03:03:40
Pixieattack. How many of those wars can we compare with like wars the United States has been a part of or has directly been involved in that are not surprised? Those wars don't have conscripts. So,
03:03:51
Andrew WilsonWorld War II had a was a conscription war. Yeah. Uh and then if you go back to the civil war, there was conscription during the civil war as well. Those were those were our big surprise attacks. What about Vietnam? Yeah, Vietnam, there was a draft, but
03:04:04
Andrew Wilsonnot very many people actually got drafted, interestingly enough. Was there conscription in the Korean War? I think there was. Yeah, a two-year war. Yeah. Yeah. There's the point that I'm trying to get across.
03:04:16
PixieBut the major the two major ones, both of them seem to fit this criteria. Um, the point that I'm trying to get across is that I think that yeah, you should
03:04:28
Pixienot force the general populace to essentially or any individual to be part of a war they don't want to be part of. I think I just think that's fundamentally not okay for a government
03:04:39
Pixieto do. And the reason why is because I'm sure we can agree there are times where the government doesn't necessarily have the best interest at heart when it comes to going to war. So, so I just want to
03:04:49
Andrew Wilsontake this to its logical conclusion then. So, if Russia um had some [ __ ] big windfall of wealth and came to the shores of the United States and said,
03:04:59
Andrew Wilson"Okay, I'm going to bribe all of you to join our military and invade by by giving each of you every man in the United States a million bucks, okay, to
03:05:10
Andrew Wilsonjoin our army and take over." If if the the citizenry of the United States agreed to that, the men, right, or even just a large portion of them, let's say the fighting age, like 10%. Okay. Joined
03:05:22
Pixiethe Ruskies and attacked us, you'd be okay with that because of voluntarism. It's not that I'd be okay with it. It's just basically at that point, I guess, yeah, the nation deserves to die at that point. If your nation does not have enough people who are willing to
03:05:34
Andrew Wilsonvolunteer to fight for it and is willing to give up. So if another nation bribes a portion of ours to go turncoat and join their military in order to take ours out, you
03:05:46
Andrew Wilsondon't believe that our military should our our government should be able to conscript its citizens to fight this nation off. I think a nation that doesn't have enough people willing to
03:05:56
Pixieline up to fight against these people um is a nation that's already dead to begin with essentially. I don't think also what wait let me finish let me finish larger military what in what world is
03:06:08
Pixiethe example that you're giving up or giving us would not be applicable to the people who got drafted like in what in what cuz if Russia has this large windfall of wealth or whatever and it's like hey guys you're
03:06:20
Pixiein the military and we'll give you like a million dollars would it not also be in Russia's best interest to say like hey defect from the military and we'll give you a million yeah but then you have patriotism and consequence of patriotism yeah and patriotism and consequence of
03:06:33
Andrew Wilsonpatriotism should either exist in the country before but under your but under your scenario they're not traitors. What do you mean they're not traders? Well, what are they doing wrong? They they are they're traitors. They're not waiters to
03:06:46
Pixiewhat to the nation. They're going for an enemy construct instead. They've decided that So they're traitors, but you don't care if they join the enemy because you deserve it. It's not that I don't care if they join the enemy. It's just I believe that the
03:06:58
Pixiestrength of the nation should be strong enough to have people being willing to take up arms and volunteer and if you haven't created that then your nation is so let me give you the major scenario
03:07:08
Andrew Wilsonthen the major scenario is you cannot reveal to the public how strong the enemy actually is because it would be strategically disadvantageous. You can't actually tell them how big this threat is. You can't tell them where this
03:07:21
Andrew Wilsonthreat is. And the reason that you can't tell them this is because then the enemy will know and then they will use that to their advantage to destroy your army. So because you have to keep that secretive, right? You might not be able to give the
03:07:34
Andrew Wilsongeneral public enough information to know why it is that they should be joining to protect their country. So in that case, wouldn't conscription be a viable option? I
03:07:46
PixieI there's still something unethical about it. um mainly saying bas mainly speaking that you're essentially taking away people's choice. Um but shouldn't you sometimes need to do that?
03:07:57
PixieUm I think there are times where you can take away choices. I don't think you should ever be able to play roulette with a person's life without their consent. Yeah. But again, this goes back to I just got to know in this scenario.
03:08:10
Andrew WilsonYeah. The government sees that there's an overwhelming force, but cannot announce this to the American public because if they were to say to the American public that they knew about how
03:08:22
Andrew Wilsonoverwhelming this force really was and why it is people needed to volunteer to protect the nation, uh, that that would give away that they knew this critical information. And so instead, they used
03:08:32
Andrew Wilsonconscription and quietly began to conscript people into the armed forces. Why would that why would that be a problem? Final thing from Pixie and I'll move it on. Go ahead. Because ultimately what you're doing is
03:08:44
Pixiethat you're taking people's like individual right um to determine essentially if they're going to live or die. I think at that point what you should do is you should offer a
03:08:56
Pixiebasically extremely high incentives for them to join which is basically like hey after you know this war or after this time we need them now. Okay. I'm sorry. I do have to move things. I got to have her answer that last thing.
03:09:09
PixieI We need to know. I don't I don't think you should be able to play roulette with a person's life um under any circumstance. I just I Yeah. All right. I do want to touch on briefly the topic
03:09:21
Brian Atlasof get back to feminism, get back to patriarchy. Uh one question for you though, Pixie. Uh if you could, would you ban men from being able to vote on anything related to abortion rights? No.
03:09:34
Brian AtlasOkay, that was my question. Um, really quick, I think this would be good. I guess bringing it back to the very beginning. How do you each define feminism? Pixie, I'll She has not actually defined it.
03:09:47
PixieI'll have you go first. Um, we're using basically the working definition that we said earlier before. No, I'm asking for yours. Basically, again, feminism is super
03:09:58
Pixieduper broad. The way I personally would describe it would be um
03:10:06
Pixiethe movement slash ideology of trying to create a system where men and women have equality or be like equal opportunities
03:10:18
Andrew Wilsonessentially. So if the if the system was patriarchal in order to achieve equality you would need to dismantle patriarchal systems right? Yeah. Okay. Okay. So then my definition of
03:10:30
Andrew Wilsonfeminism is the movement towards egalitarianism and the dismantling of patriarchy follows, right? Yeah, it does follow. So then you basically utilize my definition of feminism. Well, that's why we agreed in the beginning. I said, "Yeah, let's go.
03:10:43
Andrew WilsonLet's use that definition." Yeah. But yeah, but saying let's use it doesn't mean you agree with it. It's because I'm not and I know you're like, "Oh, you're obiscating. Like you're making this so much more complicated than it is." No, I'm fine
03:10:56
Pixiewith that if it has a point and it's not actually offiscation. Okay. The reason why I'm not being super strict with the definition of feminism
03:11:06
Pixieis because since feminism is such a broad topic, um, somebody can easily bring up and I don't know if this will happen. I can't think of one from the top of my head, but if another definition is brought up um that also
03:11:20
Andrew Wilsonmakes sense, I would be open to using that definition as well. Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah. So, yeah, I'm not I'm The only I'm just holding you to some kind of standard we can operate off of. I understand it could be broader than this standard. Yeah. But at least a standard gives us
03:11:33
Andrew Wilsonsomething to talk around, right? Yeah. Okay. So whether it's mine or yours. Um so I wanted to move past the you're granting me mine into this is a definition that at at its core you kind of agree is
03:11:45
Pixiealso true. Okay. So that would be the definition. Do we live in a patriarchy? Um yeah, I'd say we do. Yeah. Otherwise, what could she dismantle?
03:11:59
Brian AtlasYeah. And what is in did we define patriarchy earlier? What is a patriarchy? What is the patriarchy? Basically, the patriarchy is I don't even say necessarily like a
03:12:12
Pixiesystem of governments, but a system of like societal structure where men have more power on the basis of being men, right? Men have more power on the basis of
03:12:24
Pixiebeing men. Yes. Like basically being a male in the system by virtue or whatever because of the way that society views it grants you with automatically some level of power more
03:12:36
Pixieor respect more. Is this all men or some men? Um that's a good question. Um, I kind of only some men honestly cuz
03:12:48
Pixieeven if you try to argue that like oh no men in general or even even if we say men in general the point being is that there are certain men out there who do not meet the standards of what it means to be a man like society and as a return
03:13:00
Pixiethey're treated very very badly looked down upon like at the same level of like women essentially. That's why I would argue that there are some extreme cases like that. Yeah. I don't think patriarchy has anything to do with status. So my
03:13:12
Andrew Wilsondefinition is just of the father. So this just means that men are in charge of [ __ ] They're in charge of something. Yeah. That would be a patriarchal system that men are in charge of it.
03:13:24
Andrew WilsonOh yeah. I think um so status itself to me how society views it um I don't actually care about. I don't actually care about the entailment
03:13:35
Andrew Wilsonof the societal viewing of men having more or less status because arguably right now I would say that men are not looked at as having more status than women in this society. Would you
03:13:46
PixieI think in certain areas like I think um men basically women can exhibit some of the same behaviors men have and they'll be looked down upon it
03:14:00
Pixieessentially like um straightforwardness, assertiveness, um just doineering behavior, but they're looked they're looked down on often by other women for that
03:14:11
Andrew Wilsonand men both. Yeah. But I mean men and women also look down on men if they're not exhibiting proper masculine qualities. Yeah, I agree. But
03:14:21
Andrew Wilsonwhy would that be patriarchal? It's patriarchal because it puts men in an inherent like benefit for yourated. You haven't demonstrated the benefit.
03:14:32
Andrew WilsonYou just said women don't act like women. They get they get pun there's a punishment for it. But the same with men. The benefit is that if what is it
03:14:42
Pixiethe benefit is basically they are more likely to be promoted to be you know yeah essentially put into power because they're acting like men that's the point if I'm a woman if let's
03:14:54
Pixiesay you know how we were talking about human a demonstration of that okay easy um let's take a man and a woman and let's say they're both you know trying to get this like CEO
03:15:07
Pixieposition whatever they're trying to apply for it and they're getting interviewed by the like basically they're interviewing the subordinates to see like who's better blah blah blah blah. If the woman is as assertive as a guy is
03:15:19
Pixieor has been towards her subordinates are usually seen as like [ __ ] or they're usually seen as like a pain in the ass or whatever while the guy is more likely to be seen as no, he's just assertive. He just knows what he wants. So based on
03:15:31
Pixiethis, the woman is more likely to be like penalized, to not get that position, to be looked down upon because she is exhibiting the same attribute that the man is, which is being assertive. But that doesn't demonstrate because we
03:15:44
Andrew Wilsonview men and women a certain way based on their their um their ontology and the physicality and the way that they actually operate that there's no advantages that are equal to this
03:15:56
Andrew Wilsonadvantage you perceive in the CEO aspect to women. And if that is the case, then the idea that men are have certain advantages and women have other certain advantages still wouldn't make it patriarchal. If we're looking at status,
03:16:09
Andrew Wilsonwell, we're well, first of all, can you give me an example? And then second of all, yeah, let me give you a tons of examples where women's status is uh very helpful to them just by being women where it's not for men. Before I said first of all, but then
03:16:22
Pixiesecond of all, um, well, can we do one at a time so we don't get bogged down in this? We have to answer five points at a time. Let's do one at a time. They're intertwined because I was going to say like second of all even in cases
03:16:33
Pixiewhere oh a woman has an advantage because she's acting womanly versus a man who's act you know has an advantage because he's acting like manly or whatever. Um the argument here is just not are there advantages to being a woman or a
03:16:46
Andrew Wilsonman. There are advantages to being both. The one is which one is more likely to put you in a position of power. Uh okay. But when you're talking about status, you agree with me that power comes in many forms.
03:17:00
Andrew WilsonYes. Is that correct? Yes. Okay. So, if we're talking about status, don't you think that it's a very powerful position to women for women to be in to be the default when it comes to
03:17:10
Pixiecustodial agreements of children? Um, yes. But it's usually not because they're women. It's usually because they're the primary caretaker. Nope. It's traditionally just been because they're women. In fact, there's
03:17:22
Andrew Wilsonlaws which governed this for years and years just because woman instant custody because women and even right now that's carried on the same exact way that it is
03:17:33
Andrew Wilsonin the CEO idea. So, this is going to be case specific. Some men aren't going to look at women applying for a CEO job and say, "Oh, she's being a [ __ ] therefore she's gone." They might prefer assertive women in those positions. Some men,
03:17:46
Andrew Wilsonmaybe not. And maybe it's the majority of those some men who don't want uh that assertiveness uh that they would prefer in a man. Great. Okay. So maybe that gives uh uh
03:17:56
Andrew Wilsonmen an advantage in that particular criteria. However, the status of women is also advantageous in other areas. So I'm not confident that using your definition of status proves patriarchy if women are advantaged in different areas.
03:18:10
PixieOkay. I don't think well here's a here's a few things. The first one I want to ask you is if you could give me a specific study so that I can look at specifically of um like in
03:18:24
Andrew Wilsonrecent era. Here's one we can agree on easily for the same crime. Same crime including violent crimes women get lesser sentences than men. Yes, absolutely. Um that is an advantage. It's an advantage. Massive advantage.
03:18:36
PixieI said that's an advantage. Yes. And again, as I said before, there are certain advantages women have under the patriarchy that would fall under status. Yes. That your status merely as being a woman, but that's because is assisting you.
03:18:48
PixieYeah, I agree with that. But that's also because women are viewed as weaker. They're not viewed as much as a threat. They are viewed it's it's a status that is lower. It's
03:19:00
Pixieessentially saying like, "Oh, you know, I view you the same way I would view like, you know, like a cat trying to like claw me. Like, you're not that much of a threat, so I'm not going to punish you as much because, you know, who the
03:19:12
Pixie[ __ ] cares? You're just a woman." So, that is maybe it's an advantage towards women, but it's [ __ ] up and it shouldn't be that way. Who cares? It's still a status which is enjoyed and a privilege by women,
03:19:23
Andrew Wilsonbut it's not a status over men. Okay. First of all, again, here's our conflicting definitions. status, right? I say patriarchies of the father, men are in charge. Okay, that
03:19:34
Andrew Wilsonwould be a patriarchal system. Women often as judges in these cases hand down lighter sentences just like the men do. This is not a purely male phenomenon at all. So, how could it be
03:19:47
Pixiepatriarchal? What is it again? It's patriarchal because the view is that men should be taken more seriously than women. They are Even including women.
03:20:00
Andrew WilsonYes. I'm not So how could that be matri or patriarchy? I'm the pat again. Is the is the patriarchy brainwashing them to believe that? No. Unironically. Yes.
03:20:11
Andrew WilsonUnironically. Yeah. No, women are women do uphold the patriarchy. I've never disagreed with this. The whole idea I think that women are upholding um the idea that women are less of a threat. I
03:20:23
Andrew Wilsonthink that women uphold the idea that women deserve to have custody. I think that women use the stats including femin no feminists specifically use stats all the time everywhere saying hang on let
03:20:34
Andrew Wilsonme finish my argument saying this saying that men are hyper predatory because they're hyper predatory this is why they're viewed as being predators they should be viewed this way women should get lighter sentences they don't do as
03:20:45
Pixiemuch crime as men do women enforce this narrative not men I think both men and women this narative I think feminists we literally had a conversation for the past 2 hours where you were telling me
03:20:58
Pixiehow men, you know, if they decided to go and kill everybody or kill all women, they could because they have the monopoly on power. You are enforcing the same patriarchy that now you're saying, "Oh, no, it's women who are actually doing this, not me."
03:21:10
Andrew WilsonI'm giving you a logical argumentation that rights themselves are come only because men allow women to have those rights. Do I think that the default is
03:21:21
Andrew Wilsonthat men will be in charge indefinitely in some capacity? Yes. But your definition is status. Yeah. Status. So men could conceivably be in
03:21:32
Pixiecharge and women still have a higher status which would make it in your definition not a patriarchy. No. I think what is it? Power and status are often interlin. Not always.
03:21:44
PixieMore. Yeah. More often than not though. Um when you are prove it. Okay. Um, who is the most powerful person in the world right now?
03:21:57
Andrew WilsonI don't know. I'd argue the president of the United States. Yeah. And that would be that would be an argue. Yeah. I guess historically speaking, I wouldn't say that that's a high status job anymore, though. Okay. Well, we'll agree to disagree
03:22:11
Pixiethen. What did you think when Trump was in office that the presidency was a really high status job? Yeah, I think it still was. I think it's literally being the president of the United States. And who's about to be? Kamla is probably it's the most I would. And is Kamla right now about to be the
03:22:24
Pixiepresident? Possibly. We'll find out. But if she is, then is it a matriarchy then cuz she's has the highest status as again I stated before
03:22:34
Pixieit would be like a general system. Um just having one CEO, one woman CEO, one woman president, one woman in power doesn't necessarily dismantle the entire system. Yeah. No, it would or similar.
03:22:48
Andrew WilsonIt would have to be pretty. So, I don't understand how come thou tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands of women can enjoy the status and privilege of custodial agreements, getting lighter sentences, having their doors open for them, making sure that
03:23:01
Andrew Wilsontheir all of their meals are bought for them, making sure that society in and of itself caters to them uh in a way that they do not cater back to society. They're not doing the most dangerous jobs in the world. The mortality rates
03:23:13
Andrew Wilsoninside of men's workforce versus women are astroconomical because women can't do the jobs men can do. Seems like you have a much higher status in society than men do. We're viewed as interchangeable, expendable
03:23:26
Pixiewidgets. You know, if women really had like that same level of status that men do. Um, you would expect that to carry out more in the workforce, too. You'd expect them to have, let's say, like more
03:23:38
Pixiepositions of power. You'd expect them to have more positions of governance. You'd expect it to be like around similar numbers, but for some reason, we don't get that. Yeah. Because you don't do because you don't do anything of status. What do you
03:23:51
PixieHow much status are you going to have as a kindergarten teacher? You don't do anything. Anybody gives you status? We're talking about women and men who are similar, if not the exact same qualifications,
03:24:02
Andrew Wilsonapplying to the same exact jobs and having the men still being picked more. Oh, no. Is is that so? Do do they enjoy um on some kind of hiring status quo?
03:24:14
Andrew WilsonThe fact that they don't get [ __ ] pregnant and so they won't have to leave their job for 9 months out of the [ __ ] year and they won't have to stay home and take extended vacations, which is what women demand and men don't. From
03:24:25
Pixiean employer standpoint, male or female makes sense, doesn't it? That's not a status. It doesn't. It really doesn't make sense because one, you're presupposing that every woman who applies to the job ever
03:24:37
Pixieis going to get [ __ ] pregnant. And then second of all, for the society that I'm advocating for, both men and women would get equal levels of paternity and maternity. Oh, great. That's that's nice. But
03:24:49
Andrew Wilsonunfortunately, it doesn't work out that way equally. Hang on. My turn. I just listened. My turn to respond. So just so you know, if you are running a company which is hiring a lot of men and women,
03:25:00
Andrew Wilsonyou would probably just make general policies. General policies, not individualistic policies. You and I can both agree that only females can get pregnant, right?
03:25:11
Andrew WilsonYeah. Only Only females can get pregnant. No males ever can get pregnant. Ever. Can I Oh, I don't want to derail, but no. No males can become pregnant. You can answer the question. you can
03:25:25
Andrew Wilsonanswer. Okay. Um, do you consider a person with XY chromosomes male or female? No, you can be a male and have um a double X chromosome depending on your biology, but you can still be a male.
03:25:38
Andrew WilsonYou only have two. How do you define male? That would be somebody who follows the typified pathway for female or male. So, your organs, your body can only have x amount of organs. Those organs are going to be, even in chimeas, this is true,
03:25:52
Andrew Wilsonyou're only going to have one reproductive pathway. that's viable and so you can determine the sex that way. So you agree that I'm just curious. I'm just generally curious. So there are people who have XY chromosomes that can get pregnant. Um
03:26:05
Andrew Wilsonyeah. So what? So they're are women or men? No. Again, didn't I just say that it had nothing to do with chromosomes? Repeat. No. No. That's why that's stop. Repeat back to me what I told you. What
03:26:18
Pixieis a male and a female from my definition? You said it depends on the reproductive status essentially that there's only one reproductive path. Let me try it again. Let me try it again. You can only as a human being have one
03:26:30
Andrew Wilsonof two viable reproductive pathways. That's why literally I didn't say reproductive status because there's women without uteruses who are still females. Okay. Sorry for miss It's important that we make this
03:26:42
Andrew Wilsondistinction. And do you know why it's important to make this distinction? Because there's women who obviously can't have children but they're still quite female. Okay. So, it's a reproductive pathway. Yes. It's the the one of two reproductive pathways your body is capable of going down. And there's only
03:26:57
Pixietwo. Okay. And so, okay. I'm just curious and because of the whole trans athlete. Well, they're not trans, but You mean the female? Huh? You mean the female athlete? Yeah. And that there were a bunch of people.
03:27:10
Andrew WilsonYeah, that was a female. Okay, cool. Awesome. I'm glad we agree. Yeah. I mean, I used it as a as a great way to uh to bash on the tease because I like to do that. But um but yes that was a female. Okay, cool.
03:27:22
Andrew WilsonSo one of two reproductive pathways which are available. No men can become pregnant. And let's assume for a second that because you're like a blue-haired
03:27:33
Andrew Wilsonsocial justice lunatic that that there's at least that there's 10 who could 10 males or 20 or 200 males or even 2,000. We could say with great confidence that
03:27:45
Andrew Wilsonalmost every company on planet earth is never going to have to deal with one. Oh, sure. Okay. So, if that is the case, then we can reduce this to females only are going to be the carriers of the children. So, if you are in charge of a
03:27:58
Andrew Wilsoncompany and you are setting a standard for who you want to hire, right? Why would you not set the standard for people who are going to require less in the way of um leaving the company for
03:28:11
Pixieextended periods of time based on pregnancy, based on this, based on that. I understand what you're trying to say. I just think um fundamentally I would focus more on who has more qualifications or basically who I
03:28:24
Andrew Wilsonbelieve to be more qualified to lead. Yeah. I mean, but who cares what you personally would like from the you can envision from the employer standpoint, you're in charge of 500 employees with a revolving
03:28:34
PixieI think from the employer standpoint um you can make generalizations about gender but that doesn't necessarily mean you're necess like you're hiring the best person per se if you're making
03:28:45
Pixiethose generalizations on gender. So you might be missing some of the top applicants just because you're assuming that they can get pregnant. So maybe your job I have I want to listen to what you have to say. I just have to also run to the
03:28:57
Pixiebathroom. I'm not going to be able to We'll take a little break here. Yeah, I'll have a smoke then. Do we have enough time for that? Maybe not. Maybe uh
03:29:09
Brian Atlasthis would be a good opportunity for us to plug debate. Unfortunately, I can't really pull it up. Uh here. Hold on. Uh Andrew, I'm I'll run to the computer and we'll plug it real quick. Sure. if you can.
03:29:24
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03:29:37
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03:31:33
Pixiedidn't you? No, I left my phone here. You could look. We'll go back. All right. All right. I'm just [ __ ] around. I know. So, Brian, we going to about 30 minutes wrap this up. Okay. Please. I'm so hungry.
03:31:43
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03:32:06
TTS/DonationsCongrats underscore you_played_you yourself donated $100. 100% of what you scam as the patriarchy derives from female sexual selection.
03:32:18
TTS/DonationsMen must climb hierarchies plus attain power. If you didn't demand it, it would go away. Plus, you'd have any real shot at equality. Yeah, this is a good point that is brought in that women
03:32:30
Andrew Wilsonessentially demand based on sexual selection that men be high status. Um, I'll tell you what though, you can prove me wrong, right? Um, the dating prospects that you're going to have in
03:32:42
Andrew Wilsonthe future, lower or higher status men? Um, ideally same or somebody who matches me where I'm weak. Yeah. Based on your history, the men that you've dated have been equally yolked to you or they have been higher
03:32:55
Andrew Wilsonstatus. I would say equal. Equal. Yeah, I would say. And is have you ever dated a prominent Twitch or YouTube streamer? No. Never. No. Not even once.
03:33:05
PixieNot even. I'm I'm I disappeared off the internet for like 3 to four years. Like um So what' your last boyfriend do? My last boyfriend was a philosophy student.
03:33:19
Andrew WilsonOkay. I was in college. Okay. So, in the future, you'd want somebody who's equal to you. Um, not gonna be taller, not gonna be stronger.
03:33:30
PixieNo, equal or I would say equal or higher. Um, or higher. Yeah. But it's just weird because I don't really view relationships in terms of
03:33:40
Pixiehigher or lower. I usually view as who's going to help. It sounds so weird. I So, I want to have children in the future. I want to have three children. Um, and I want somebody who's ideally good at the
03:33:53
Pixiethings I'm not good at, you know, because I want to be able to raise my children like equally. What are those? Um, so for example, I um I suck at cooking. I'm really bad at cooking.
03:34:04
PixieYou want your man to cook? Yes. I would be the happiest woman alive if my man knows how to cook. So you want a stay at home dad? Um, no, not completely. Um, so he would take over probably cooking. I would probably take over more cleaning to even
03:34:17
Pixiethings out. um we don't have to make the same exact salary. I could make some more. Um or he could make some more, but then I expect that to be reflected in the amount of
03:34:29
Pixielike home labor that we take over. So if he's making more, I would do more home labor. And if I'm making more, I would expect him to do more home labor. Okay, that's fair. So now let me ask you this question. Yeah.
03:34:40
Andrew WilsonAnd you can go ahead and lie as much as you want. I'm I'm I'm almost in fact I will bet you the milkshake that you lie to me right now. I will bet you a
03:34:50
Andrew Wilsonmilkshake that you lie. Do you think that most women prefer to have men who are have a higher status than them or they want it to be about equal?
03:35:01
PixieNo, they want equal or higher. I think they prefer higher. Um, and I think the reason for this goes back to basically social conditioning, right?
03:35:12
PixieUm, not just social conditioning, but I guess maybe this is a form of social conditioning, um, labor in the household. So, right now, the problem that you have for a lot of women is that they're making either the same as a guy
03:35:25
Pixieor in the scenarios where they're sometimes even making more, but they're taking basically all of the household labor. So, it's like, [ __ ] Like let's say we're both, you know, let's say I'm in a relationship with somebody and
03:35:37
Pixiewe're making the same, but now at home I am doing all the cooking, all the cleaning. I'm taking care of the children. Well, [ __ ] Now I'm doing basically twice the labor that you are. I'm doing the labor in the home and I'm doing the labor outside the home. It seems like it would be preferable to
03:35:50
Andrew Wilsonhave like a man who could just hire all that out. I think for a lot of women, yeah, I think for most people, so higher status. Well, yes. But is it based on social conditioning or is it just based on the fact that they want men to be able to
03:36:02
Pixieprovide the life they want? Yeah, sure. Provision. But I also think there's a lot of women out there who's not going to essentially go for a guy just because he has a lot of money. Um, if they genuinely love a guy, then they
03:36:15
Pixiedon't need the guy to be like freaking rich Mr. Mickey money pants. Um, they just need the guy to be able to carry their weight. Yeah. But the social status that you're
03:36:25
Andrew Wilsontalking about, if you want to be desired by women, the higher your social status is, the higher you're usually desired by women. Yeah. Yeah. For sure. Well, then if that's the case, then this commenter when he says,
03:36:38
Andrew WilsonMhm. Okay. And by the way, you do owe me the burger, but I don't owe you the milkshake. because I feel like you were actually honest there. Then the commenter is correct that men have every incentive to climb the hierarchy because
03:36:50
Andrew Wilsonof female expectation that they do climb the hierarchy. How would that be patriarchal? Um based on status if the status is
03:36:59
Pixiedemanded by women, wouldn't women be imposing a matriarchy then? No, because I'm saying that women can demand whatever
03:37:10
Pixiewomen They can demand whatever from their partner. One, it doesn't mean that the men are actually meeting that expectation. And then two, women themselves are not
03:37:21
Pixiere reaching that status. I'm talking about individually. Am I in the same level status as this other guy? I'm not saying like what I demand of my partner or demand of the other person. I'm saying like like from my merits alone, can I reach that status?
03:37:35
Andrew WilsonYeah. But men don't give a [ __ ] if you're a Starbucks barista and you're hot. But women I think that's true. Yeah. I think a lot of men care about beauty, don't get me wrong. I think uh Okay. Do you think Okay, so let's let's see if we can if we can figure this out in 5 seconds.
03:37:48
Andrew WilsonOh, really, really, really [ __ ] ugly rich chick. Really, really hot Starbucks barista, 35year-old guy. Go.
03:38:00
Andrew WilsonI think a lot of guys, especially like now it would be giggle 100%. Now you definitely owe me the milkshake. Definitely owe me the milkshake. lying through your teeth. Who would they take? Come on. They're going to take the [ __ ] really
03:38:13
Pixieheinous, ugly millionaire over the barista who's hot. Really? Yeah, dude. I think they would 100%. And they cheat on her, too. They cheat on her. Triangle. Um,
03:38:25
Andrew WilsonI think What is it? I think Well, whatever. Even if we disagree. No, I don't think we disagree. So, let's let's try this again. Um, I just want I just want to make sure that I'm crystal clear on this because you're saying it publicly on a massive platform. So, I
03:38:38
Andrew Wilsonwant to make sure I can clip this a thousand times and put distribute it everywhere. And I'm going to You think that if a man, an average
03:38:46
Andrew Wilson35-year-old Joe had the option, right, of being in a monogous relationship
03:38:54
Andrew Wilsonwith a hideous, ugly, unattractive as [ __ ] millionaire chick or a really [ __ ] hot 24year-old barista. They would take the really hideous
03:39:08
Andrew Wilsonmillionaire. I don't think they would be monogous. I think they cheat on her. Okay. But the they don't want you to cheat. So yeah. Yeah. So because of that, you don't get you don't get the millionaire, right? I think what is it? They would just they
03:39:21
Pixiewould 100% cheat on her. I don't think that's the question though. That's not the question. I think most guys would [ __ ] the 24 year old chick. No. Which one would they want? I don't know. I want to see. I know. I
03:39:34
Pixiewant to see the millionaire. I do. I think what is it? It's Cap being like, "Oh, no. They won't cheat on them." I think they will. Ah, fine. Um, I also think what is it? I'll take the [ __ ] millionaire over the beautiful woman. I get it. They care that much about status.
03:39:46
Andrew WilsonNo, I think what is it? It's just it's more about the stuff that they can buy than the status and whatever. Do you think that it's Do you think that um Yeah, you can ask whatever you want. Just I just have one quick followup, right?
03:39:58
TTS/DonationsHow is it possible for me to debate with somebody who's delusional? Like, how how can I make delusional? How can I craft a coherent argument if we can't agree on the basics? Average Joe donated $100.
03:40:11
Andrew WilsonI'll take the broke hottie and an Americano. Of course. Who wouldn't take that? I couldn't take the broki. Should I do a poll in the chat? Mention I'm pretty sure there was one time. Ask a wicked wicked [ __ ] witch of the
03:40:23
Brian Atlaswest who's a millionaire with a hump on her back and she's gross as [ __ ] If she's the grossest person alive. No, not the grossest alive. She's just really ugly. Yeah, I think. Um, so what's the what's the poll question? Which would you pick?
03:40:36
Brian AtlasReally ugly chick. No, but I know the two differences, but what which would you pick? Which would you date? Which would you which would you pick for a monogous relationship? Which which would you which would you date? How about that? How about which one would you marry?
03:40:49
Andrew WilsonOkay, sure. Which? That's fine. Which would you date? They're all going to say the hot one. So Well, I know. But but you know, they secretly though all of them secretly want the millionaire, right? I think
03:41:00
Brian Atlaswhat would happen is ugly fat rich woman ugly fat rich woman versus ugly fat old rich woman versus young hot Starbucks ugly
03:41:10
Pixietake advantage of her wealth and then sleep with whatever young what woman they want. That's what I think. Yeah. But if they could choose one Yeah. What is it? I don't think Yeah. But if they could choose one,
03:41:23
Pixieyou're saying if So without changing the question, if they could choose one, they would b if they had to pick one to bang, it would be the 24y old chick. No, if they had to pick one to be marry to marry
03:41:34
Pixieto live their entire life, maybe I'm too female or whatever. I would find it very hard um for so many men to just be like, "No, like I actually would pick the
03:41:45
Andrew Wilson24year-old barista." They would. Well, anyways, and I I'm not saying now I I don't want you to be confused by this. I don't want you to think that I'm saying 51% would.
03:41:58
Andrew WilsonI don't want you to be confused and think that I'm saying 60% like 99. I I want you to understand that it would be 90 plus% of men who would pick the
03:42:08
Andrew Wilsonyoung hot Starbucks barista. And I would like to know from your worldview why you think that is other than because you would value the status of the
03:42:20
Pixiemillionaire. I think guys like to think of themselves as oh and I shouldn't say guys in general because it's not in general. I think there's a subsection of men who
03:42:29
Pixielike to view themselves as you know valiant like oh I'll protect her. I'll take care of her. Blah blah blah blah. why they want to [ __ ] you know. Yeah, I just want to [ __ ] whatever.
03:42:42
Andrew WilsonNo, they want Do you know why they want to [ __ ] young hot women? Do you know why they want They're going to say because of the reproductive. Yeah. What What else would it be? Yeah. I think um right now if the primary is to breed like what else would it be?
03:42:55
Andrew WilsonOkay. Do you think looks is all that matters? No, of course not. What else? Well, I think it's situational. So I think well so I think that it's conditional upon the situation of the
03:43:07
Andrew Wilsonman that some things could change when it comes to that. But I would always say this that primarily attraction does have to be there and attraction not only does have to be there but it has to be there
03:43:19
Andrew Wilsonlong term. Both people have to be attracted to each other or it won't work. You can't falsify attraction. So yeah attraction is still going to be the number one edict. Do you think there are
03:43:31
Andrew Wilsonfactors for men that influence attraction outside of physical appearance? Yes, but not nearly as much. So, it's overwhelmingly going to be this one category first. You couldn't have
03:43:43
Andrew Wilsonumbrella trains from it, right? But the thing is is that I want to for the rest of my life want to be attracted to my wife. Why do these other factors influence?
03:43:54
Andrew WilsonOh, for a variety of reasons. because men have uh external preferences to just just singular things. No, no, no. But I'm saying what? Okay. When it comes to physical attraction, there is a basis, right? You're saying
03:44:06
Pixiereproductive value. Is it fair that's why you value youth? Yeah. Yes. Is it fair to say that other factors are also influenced by reproductive value? Like basically
03:44:18
TTS/Donationsoutside of beauty. Ulus is the pagan donated $100. I would marry the the hot barista and then steal her tips. See, I can force in outliners toy.
03:44:30
Brian AtlasAnyway, speak uh speaking of which, really quickly, we do have the poll results in. There's a pro I mean, they're still coming in, but there's over 900 votes. Which would you date
03:44:38
Brian AtlasMary? It's 93% hot 25-year-old minimum wage woman versus uh Oh, it just shifted from to 92. 8% say the ugly fat 35-year-old rich woman.
03:44:51
Andrew WilsonMhm. Yeah. Now it's back to 93 focus. Okay. So basically why so wait remember I told you earlier not 60%. I know. I know. Okay. Not 70%.
03:45:02
Andrew WilsonNot 80 90 plus% of men would prefer this. Okay. And these are probably trolls who are Yeah. voting for the She has an audience. They've got to be offsetting it with that other 7%. No, my audience is nothing.
03:45:16
PixieI'm kidding. Go ahead. Anyways, um those are just Andrew haters right now. Anyway, go ahead. Do you think that basically the other factors outside of physical appearance
03:45:27
Pixieare also influenced by the reproductive value they have? I'm going to use intelligence intelligence as an example, right? Um the whole idea why oh, you know, like I want to mate, I want to reproduce,
03:45:39
Pixiewhatever. So theoretically speaking, a guy would value intelligence in a woman because it means that genetically they don't value intelligence in women. Oh, okay. Interesting. Is it enough to just reproduce
03:45:53
Andrew Wilsonfor men? Yeah. Uh, it's enough for most men. Yeah. To be with a hot chick, that's enough. Yeah. No, but what I'm saying is that um so I think that they don't want their women to like be knuckle dragging
03:46:05
Andrew Wilsonretards. But uh when you're talking about hyper intell or high intell I think that you're talking about like um they want them to be really really smart, right? That's a that's like an
03:46:16
Andrew Wilsonattractive feature. What I'm trying to say kind of what I'm trying to say is that it's not I mean I think that they have to be able to like you know do basic things like cook and and clean. I'm not sure that they need to be [ __ ] neurosurgeons. No, I don't think they care about that.
03:46:30
PixieNo. Yeah. Men care about not just their child only being born but their child surviving, right? Otherwise that defeats entire purpose. So the child reproduces and dies 2 seconds later. Yeah. Okay. So we agree it's not just
03:46:42
Pixieenough for the child to be born. The child has to survive and thrive because otherwise there's no point in reproduction. It's they wow they're born and they die two seconds. No. Okay. So, now that we've establish that Yeah. But how hard is it to keep a kid alive? Yeah. Okay.
03:46:55
Andrew WilsonLiteral [ __ ] retards can do this. Now, what is it? The question becomes and it's who what's going to be better for the kid to thrive? Yeah. Or thinking you're thinking way
03:47:07
Andrew Wilsonfar past what men are thinking about. Yeah. I don't think so. like reproductively you're thinking like a woman genetically you think you you're thinking maternally you select men based on the fact of how what is the longevity of our children going to be like men
03:47:20
Pixiedon't select you for that they don't need to okay reproductively speaking if it's not enough to just have your child be born your child has to thrive cuz otherwise there's no purpose of it
03:47:32
Pixiebeing born if it's going to die and not actually be able to reproduce your family almost every woman can do this because it's not difficult to Okay. Do you want It's super not difficult to keep a baby alive. In other words,
03:47:44
Pixiebut it's not it's not just that, right? It's not just keeping the baby alive. It's having the baby thrive eventually so he can spread your lineage. Yeah. But he thinks that the baby's going to thrive based on the his ability to produce, not your ability to keep it
03:47:58
Pixiealive. They That's That doesn't make any sense. Why? Because just reproducing, as we established before, is not enough. If the baby is born and even if the baby meets a minimum standard of being alive
03:48:10
Pixiethat doesn't necessarily according to your view of like you know essentially like hierarchy um the baby has to be able to climb or get higher in the hierarchy so that they can then reproduce and continue the family speaking in those terms. You're wrong.
03:48:23
PixieYou're saying evolutionary we agreed evolutionarily that men want their children to thrive. It's not enough for it to be born. Stop the mechanism for which that
03:48:33
Andrew Wilsonoccurs. We have two very distinct opinions about. So let me explain. I firmly 100% believe having raised many children into maturity
03:48:44
Andrew Wilsonthat keeping a child alive is [ __ ] easy. And it's even easy for a woman to do because they're designed to stay alive. And so what happens is even 70 80
03:48:55
Andrew WilsonIQ dumbass women can keep a child alive. Men don't bank on the fact, never bank on the fact that, oh well, you know,
03:49:06
Andrew Wilsonwhen this baby is [ __ ] five or six, what are the values she's going to inst? They don't think like that. What they think instead is, is the kid going to be healthy? I can do all that [ __ ] I can instill the values. I can instill the
03:49:17
Pixieprogram. I can instill all of that. Okay. Who what child is going to be easier to install these values or programs in? Mhm. Average. Well, actually, actually, if the mom
03:49:31
Andrew Wilsonsmart child, actually, if the mom is kind of stupid, that would make it way easier for you to download your programming into the kid's brain because then what's the mom going to say? Dumb argue 50/50. What's that? Genetics are 5050. Yeah, that's true.
03:49:42
TTS/DonationsOkay. Mike Davis donated $100. Andrew, forget this debate for a minute. I want to hear you speak on that fat juice head fake tough guy who tried to al you on Fresh and Fit. Roast that
03:49:55
Andrew Wilsonbozo. Well, he apparently he just got swatted and he was caught on the the steps of some [ __ ] apartment or something crying his eyes out and that was all
03:50:05
Andrew Wilsoncaught on film because he is a Well, I I mean, like you said, I guess he's the alpha of the alphas, but anyway, I don't endorse any of that, by the way. No uh no swatting ever. That's that's gross.
03:50:17
Andrew WilsonBut him crying, that's funny. Yeah. So, if genetics are 50/50 Mhm. then the mother's intelligence matters just as much as your intelligence. Yeah. But this is a logical argument to
03:50:28
Pixiepreference. I'm talking about what men prefer, not whether or not it's logical. Yeah. And I'm saying that they prefer that. What is it? I'm saying if you are arguing that men care about beauty
03:50:40
Pixiebecause or because that's linked to fertility and that's linked to your child surviving. Um they should not just should I I do think they do care about intelligence even though you're saying not. This is where I don't think you're saying the
03:50:52
Andrew Wilsontruth because I'll tell you the truth. I'm I'm going to be unequivocally as truthful as I can possibly be. Okay, men don't give a [ __ ] about you being a
03:51:04
Andrew Wilsondoctor or a lawyer or the potential to be a doctor, lawyer, cuz you have some big high IQ. They don't [ __ ] care. Here's what they care about. They care that you have a really nice ass and a nice pair of boobs and you look like
03:51:17
Andrew Wilsonyou're going to bear children. And the reason they value the big boobs and the nice hip ratio and all of that is because intuitively they can see genetically ingrained in them. They know
03:51:28
Andrew Wilsonthat you can bear their offspring. So what happens is from the evolutionary standpoint, right? When they see you, it makes their penis hard and they go, I want to have sex with her. And that's as far as they're usually thinking about it.
03:51:41
PixieVery simple question. Mhm. You have a 25-year-old um hot woman. Mhm. You have another 25-year-old hot woman, equally hot. Um, one is more intelligent than the other. You're saying to you
03:51:54
TTS/Donationsthis underscorebish projecting donated $100. You said he'd exploit her plus cheat because that's at its core what women do to men. It's her nature. So you assume we are the same,
03:52:08
TTS/Donationsright? Exactly. Seek wealth because it wins them better women. Evil [ __ ] boo. Smiley face. Smiley face. Smiley face. Yeah. So anyway, wait. Thank you, Mike. Go ahead. Yeah. No, you you were saying
03:52:20
PixieGo ahead. You're going to equalize the primary value, the the two 25y old. You have a 25-year-old hot woman and another 25. Let me finish. Let me say the full sentence. The answer is the intelligence. You would select for the intelligence at that point.
03:52:32
Andrew WilsonOkay. Yeah. So, if you had a 25-year-old hot woman, another one 25-year-old hot woman for the intelligence. Yeah. You would select for intelligence. Yeah. But why? Because because you've equalized the primary value. So now now let me give you the
03:52:44
Andrew Wilsoncounter to this because it's really simple. Now we don't have the equalizing of the primary value. Okay. So the one chick is less hot and more smart and the other chick is less smart and more hot.
03:52:55
PixieWho does the man go for? Yeah. I think it depends on how big. Cuz I'm pretty sure there's some guys who take a slightly less attractive woman who's going to guarantee that their child is basically going to be the next
03:53:08
Andrew Wilsonmonth. Wait. I'm basing it in the same exact hypothetical you gave me. He said, "We're going to equalize the primary thing that men are interested in." We equalized it. One is more intelligent than the other. I'm giving you the exact same
03:53:19
Andrew Wilsonhypothetical back with the only differentiation being okay. Now, the primary edict here has been lopsided to the same degree that the intelligence was. That's all I'm saying. Yeah. So, you're saying one is smart.
03:53:30
Andrew WilsonSo, however, no, however smart you in your conditional hypothetical are claiming the one woman is is exactly how less attractive she is in mine. So, which one is he selecting for?
03:53:42
PixieYeah, now you're reversing it. So, I'm not I know what you're saying. I know. I understand what you're saying. That's exactly what I'm doing. So, answer like I did. So, yeah, a lot Yeah. A lot of men would pick the hotter one. Yeah. There you go. But that's there's easily scenarios
03:53:55
Pixiewhere you have a woman who is maybe slightly less attractive but super freaking smart and a woman who is, you know, more attractive, less smart. There's a lot of men who would pick the
03:54:05
Pixiesmarter% of men would take the [ __ ] ugly%. If you could guarantee or you know very high likelihood that your child is going to be the next Elon Musk. Uhhuh. Would you not take it?
03:54:16
PixieIf I had a crystal ball like let's say it's this woman is so intelligent and you know that Yeah. Let's say but she was ugly. Not even ugly. Just slightly less attractive. Well, no. At that ca in that case maybe
03:54:28
Andrew WilsonI would equalize it that way. But so really so if you had a woman who was hotter by slightly answer the question you when you say slightly right that could mean like um I
03:54:41
Andrew Wilsondon't know her nose is in a slightly different position than what I would prefer. Right. When you say slightly what does that mean? Yeah. It means that we have two women. One's a little hotter but dumber. The
03:54:53
Andrew Wilsonother one is a little less hotter but a lot smarter. Yeah. So, if you if you if you would to take a secondary conditional, like you were to say, uh, we could do this with
03:55:04
Andrew Wilsonmoney, too. Oh, this chick is her nose is in a slightly different position than I would ordinarily like, but other than that, she's just as hot as this other
03:55:15
Andrew Wilsonchick, but she has $2 million. Sure, we can use that as an offset. I'll absolutely bite that bullet because it doesn't do [ __ ] to my argument, which is that when it comes to selection, the
03:55:26
Andrew Wilsonprimary edict is going to be the value of the looks. And when you say that there's these uh tangentials to this, right, that men select and value for,
03:55:36
Andrew WilsonI've already agreed that that's true, but to a massively lesser degree than the primary edict. In this case, you've taken the tangential, which you've already agreed they value to a much
03:55:47
Andrew Wilsonlesser degree, and put it at a massive higher degree than the slight amount of offset from them being hot. So, all you've done is make my [ __ ] point. I'm trying to illustrate triangle for you.
03:55:59
PixieThe point that I'm trying to illustrate here is that you said in the beginning that men don't give a [ __ ] about intelligence. You just care if you're hot. But we have just illustrated multiple examples where you said you
03:56:10
Andrew Wilsonknow what the more intelligent one despite the hotness factor. So what's happened is the the argument started and I can even show you in my notes with you saying that they value
03:56:23
Andrew Wilsonother things other than this and me agreeing that that is true. They do value other things other than this, but that the primary thing they value primary thing for instance, you would agree with me that men would value a woman with two million bucks, right?
03:56:37
Andrew WilsonYeah. Okay. But when put to the poll of she does have that 2 million bucks, but she's not [ __ ] hot, they value the hot one over the 2 million bucks. So, we now have an order of operations of what
03:56:48
Andrew Wilsonthey value. We know that they value the looks over whatever this this tangential thing is that includes intelligence and this and that. But if you were to make a tiny offset, a slight offset to the primary edict here and you were to take
03:57:01
Andrew Wilsonone of these kinds of tangentials and make it overwhelmingly high in order to take care of this tiny offset that I can literally concede to that and it makes
03:57:10
Andrew Wilsonmy [ __ ] point. Okay, I
03:57:17
Pixiekeep going. Sorry, I'm helping them out here. It's okay. Sorry, I got distracted. Sorry. The point that I'm trying to illustrate or as I stated before, well, first of all, I think, yeah, I do think most men
03:57:31
Pixieare capping when they're talking about like the hotness of a woman versus multi-millionaires, whatever. Prove it. I think that's not what they marry. What is it? Millionaires are marrying [ __ ] poor women. Millionaire women ain't marrying
03:57:44
Andrew Wilsonpoor men. Okay. Sorry. What do you think? What do you think the There's actors out there dating 20-year-old hot women who are not [ __ ] actresses, but show me all of
03:57:54
Andrew Wilsonthe famous millionaire women who are out there [ __ ] dating the Starbucks barista who's a man. JLo, JLo, what? Didn't she have like a young like 24?
03:58:07
PixieYeah. Is she married to him? Um, probably not. Oh, I just got a sorry, I just read physical engineering is a different play than applied engineering.
03:58:18
PixieBut sorry that was I'm let me go back to the main focus. I agree. Most rich women Well, I don't know cuz you have cougars. Like we have a literal entire field. We have a name