Paula (DT179)
53yo chef by trade, primarily a mother of four adult children. Originally from Southern California; moved to Dallas, Texas about 20 years ago. Married (current husband does not know the details of her past). Previously a self-described sex addict (disclosed in pre-show notes, body count over 50) during a dark period after her first husband left her while she was a stay-at-home mom with 4 kids — went through addictions and promiscuity as coping. Now considers herself a reformed, high-quality woman. Would be embarrassed if asked her body count by her husband but would tell him. Engaged to someone with ~$200K income (referenced the joint bank account question). Provided her own pre-show questionnaire notes. Runs a band or musical act (implied); described as entrepreneurial.
Appearance Details
Mom of 4 adult kids; by trade a chef. Moved to Dallas from Southern California ~20 years ago. Married (husband does not fully know her past; once accidentally downloaded her contacts from her email account and saw the list but "chose not to know"). Previously a sex addict during a dark period after first husband left when she was a stay-at-home mom of 4. Went through addiction and promiscuity as coping mechanism. Body count over 50. Would be embarrassed but would tell husband if asked. Argues that past does not define present character and that people can change. Supported the view that asking body count can be appropriate if important to someone. Height 5'9"; wears heels for professional respect (was in B2B sales). Engaged to someone making ~$200K/year (joint bank account question: she said she would not end the engagement over it, but would want clarity).