Lauren Harkins
34yo, Portland ME (born and raised). 34-year-old secular virgin — featured in New York Post article. Former corrections worker at residential re-entry center for male and female federal inmates; also tutored college-age female state inmates. Social media personality/influencer. Has never been on a date. Rates low attraction frequency. Ideal type: Aaron Rodgers-level (tall, wealthy, emotionally connected, conservative-leaning, gun owner, spiritual). Pushes cats in a stroller. Rates herself a 6 (under these lights / pale).
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34-year-old secular virgin — never been on a date, never been in a relationship. Has been asked out hundreds of times; rejected all. Featured in New York Post article about being a secular virgin. Previous appearance on Whatever podcast (at least once before). Not religious; virginity not based on virtue but on lack of attraction/connection. Would consider having sex ~2 months into the right relationship. Has sexual thoughts but is 'vanilla' in fantasy. Andrew Wilson argued her virginity is identity-based (attention/empowerment), not virtuous — she partially agreed. Rates herself a 6 (under harsh studio lights, feels pale). Would rather die a virgin than settle (her great-aunt died a 100yo virgin). Pushes cats in a stroller.