7 Girls WALK OFF The Show?! 122 Body Count In 21 DAYS?! TWITCH E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk #162

Date: 2024-05-20
Duration: 6h 30m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Bella TV(guest)
SPEAKER_03IIA(guest)
SPEAKER_05Abby/Single Mom (multiple guests)(guest)
SPEAKER_06Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_11Bonnie Blue(guest)
SPEAKER_14Angie(guest)

Key Moments

00:13:20
QuoteBonnie Blue reveals 122 spring break body count

Bonnie Blue reveals she slept with 122 college boys in ~2 weeks at spring break in Mexico (Grand Oasis hotel), max 22 in one day, largest group 17 men at once. Earned ~$250K from filmed content. Prior viral moment: 32 virgins. Uses condoms, tested every 2 weeks.

00:17:43
IntroAndrew Wilson joins via video call

Brian introduces Andrew Wilson ('the man, the myth, the legend, my Caucasian') joining via video call. Andrew is host of The Crucible, fastest-growing debate channel. Moving to Santa Barbara; planning to open mechanic shop. Returning guest.

03:03:22
ControversyKiara scam allegations confrontation on-air

Andrew Wilson reads chat messages alleging Kiara scammed fans ($30K+) and tried to hire a hitman. Kiara denies hitman allegation completely. Admits recording from ~3 years ago of her saying she targets lonely vulnerable men is real but says she was 'in a bad place' and did not mean it. Police cleared her. She went to therapy.

03:52:40
OtherFirst panel leaves (Kiara, Bella, IIA depart to catch flights)

Kiara, Bella TV, and IIA leave the show to catch flights (~3:52:40 / 13960s). Body count round done just before departure. Brian thanks them and transitions to second panel.

03:57:43
OtherStreet-recruited panel joins mid-show due to mass flaking

Due to 12 total flakes (4 within 24hrs, 3 within 20 min of meet time, 1 no-show), Brian recruits Jazelle Paris and Ashley from the street to fill panel. Kelly's connection (18yo single mom from Tulsa) also joins. Brian calls it one of the worst flaking disasters in show history.

04:01:15
QuoteSingle mom reveals she gave birth at 15 to baby of ~20yo man

The 18yo unnamed guest reveals she gave birth at 15 in Tulsa Oklahoma. Baby father was approximately 20 years old at the time. Not aware of pregnancy for a while; anti-abortion so kept it; father not involved. Aunt raising 3yo child. Brian: 'that's a major yikes on his part.'

06:24:43
OtherBrian reveals full flaking disaster scope during outro

During outro, Brian reveals full scope: 12 total flakes. 4 flaked within 24 hours. 3 flaked within 20 minutes of meet time. 1 no-show. Fake virgin guest also flaked again (same as previous Andrew Wilson in-person show). Brian cobbled together 3 panels from remaining guests + street recruits. Calls it one of the worst flaking days in show history.

Topics Discussed

00:02:41
Guest introductions and relationship status round

Guests introduce themselves (name, age, location, occupation). Kiara refuses to give age; Bella is 'in her 20s'; IIA mid-20s; Bonnie Blue 25 (birthday just was May 14). Bonnie reveals 122 spring break body count and 32 virgins. Relationship status round: mostly single. Bonnie recently divorced.

00:13:20
Bonnie Blue's spring break and viral content discussion

Bonnie Blue discusses going viral for sleeping with 32 virgins and 122 college boys in ~2 weeks at spring break in Mexico (Grand Oasis hotel). Made ~$250K. Discussion of STI testing, safety, industry practices.

01:00:00
OnlyFans, sex work ethics, and morality debate

Extended debate between Andrew Wilson, Brian Atlas, and OnlyFans guests on morality of sex work. Topics: parents knowing, consent-based morality, religious vs secular arguments, prostitution definitions, consequences for daughters. Kiara's scamming allegations addressed (~3:05:31).

01:32:42
Bumble swipe segment

Each guest swipes through 20 Bumble profiles and gives yes/no reactions. Discussion of women's pickiness, age range motivations (OnlyFans audience), and profile picture importance.

02:07:20
Tweet reactions segment

Guests react to tweets from panelists about sex work, relationships, and trust. Topics include hiding relationship status for OnlyFans bottom line, fart water/bath water fetish discussion, period sex, polyamory vs monogamy.

02:30:00
Feminist debate and gender equality discussion

Andrew Wilson leads structured debate on feminism definition (egalitarianism + dismantling patriarchy). Most guests initially said not feminist, then agreed by Andrew's definition. Gender pay gap debunked by Andrew and Brian. Discussion of whether women are oppressed in the US.

03:01:20
Self-ratings round

Via Stiffler super chat, guests rate their looks 1-10. Ratings roughly: 9, 8, 9, 7, 6, 7, Bella=5, Andrew=4.

03:03:22
Kiara scamming allegations confrontation

Andrew Wilson reads chat messages alleging Kiara scammed fans and tried to hire a hitman. Kiara denies hitman allegation. Admits to a recording ~3 years ago where she said she targets lonely vulnerable men; says she was 'in a bad place'; police cleared the matter. She was in therapy since.

03:50:40
Second panel transition and body count round

First panel (Kiara, Bella, IIA) leaves to catch flights. Kelly and friend arrive. Quick body count round: Bonnie ~300-500; Bella ~1.5; Kiara ~4; Kelly ~2.

03:56:40
Street-recruited panel introduction and single mom backstory

Jazelle Paris and Ashley (UCSB students) join after being recruited from the street. The 18yo single mom discusses giving birth at 15, baby father (was ~20), moving from Tulsa to Santa Barbara to restart her life.

04:54:00
Man vs Bear debate

Classic man vs bear hypothetical. Most panel 3 guests chose man. Jazelle chose bear (grew up around bears). Discussion of stranger danger, rape as unique male-threat factor, bear vs shark variants.

05:30:00
Chaos roast section

TTS threshold lowered to $25; viewers send roast messages at panelists and Brian. Mostly aimed at Bonnie Blue (body count), Kiara (scam allegations), and Brian (weight). Extended roast segment.

Transcript

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Brian Atlaswhatever Channel I do want to apologize that we started a little late today guys uh it was a pretty uh we had a total of 12 flakes total like seven of which
00:02:31
Brian Atlasflaked within a 24-hour period of time three of which professional life and in your dating life too 20 minutes before a date 20 minutes before meet time people
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Brian Atlasare just very flaky it is what it is um anyways so um yeah without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves please tell us your name age
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Brian Atlaslocation and occupation go ahead uh I'm live in the chat you're hearing lag hold on okay what what pull up the chat please so I can see
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Brian Atlasit there's lag hold on okay one sec boys Cox Cox
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Brian AtlasCommunications Cox Communications said it's good now they said it's good yo one in the chat if it's good what we're doing it live folks one in the chat if it's good two in the chat if there's
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Brian Atlasstill lag good now looks good all right boys all right boys we're good to go we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so uh starting with you go ahead okay hi
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)everybody my name is Kara and I does IRL streaming on Twitch so I travel and I do streaming and I've been streaming for 5
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Brian Atlasyears mhm yeah uh age s okay name age location and occupation so age uh I don't have a age no I'm an alien
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)uh you I mean so just what's your age um I don't really like disclose it but it's for them to
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)guess close to oh oh sorry where you from I'm from Singapore Singapore okay uh
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Brian Atlasokay online it seems to indicate although I think these this is dubious at best
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Brian Atlasuh yeah I feel like these indicators online are dubious uh why don't you give us uh chat what do you guys think let's
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Brian Atlasjust say I'm old enough I'm old enough to do adult things and that's all you need to know yeah thank you um why don't you disclose your age
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)why don't you tell us that why should I like the internet I'm not entitled to any truth to the internet you mean you're not entitled to what do you mean no like why should I
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Brian Atlasput myself out there on the internet like because I'm just isn't that precisely what you're doing by virtue of you being on the internet yeah but I don't have to put every information right right I suppose but what would
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Brian Atlaswhat would be the uh I guess the reasoning for refusing to provide your age um it's just my preference no I know but I'm curious why why
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Brian Atlasnot what do you mean why not it's just like you won't disclose certain information also yeah but I'm curious why I mean I just like to be mysterious you you like to be mysterious Nick pull up Andrew
00:05:46
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)um wait is this a debate already like even about I know you tell me no I don't think you want to waste time on this like let's let Bella
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Brian Atlasintroduce herself you said you do o correct yeah okay um is it because you've misrepresented your age in other
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Brian Atlascapacities and that's why if you actually were to State your age it could reflect poorly because you've lied about it before no I think you think too much I think you're overthinking no I'm not overthinking at all perhaps it's you
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)who's overthinking no I think you're overthinking I just don't want to say it it like it's just like you won't say like how much money you have in your bank account well age is just a basic
00:06:30
Bella TVbiographical just my preference oh sorry uh it's just my preference what about you uh my name is
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Bella TVBella I go by Bella TV I'm a twitch streamer um I'm in my 20s and I'm located in La hold
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Brian Atlason what's your age in my 20s have didn't you disclose it last show did I I know you tell me you remember damn on 10 months ago I'm glad you remember me
00:07:02
Brian Atlasthat's pretty cool did you disclose your age in the previous show I don't think so what do you mean you don't think so I didn't you didn't you just said 20s yeah now I detect an accident where are you
00:07:15
Bella TVfrom La like you were born in La no I just moved to LA recently but where are you like from America but you have an accent um it's because uh you know my
00:07:28
Brian Atlasparents can speak Russian and I love learned speak Russian with them and stuff but okay so you speak Russian I speak Russian but you were not you weren't born in Russia like or a Russian speaking country correct okay so you're
00:07:39
Brian Atlasin your 20s mhm uh can I have somebody just double check what was it dating talk 80 you were on can I have somebody check if she revealed her age maybe one
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IIAof the mods I'm looking in the mod chat in on IG what about you hi I'm IIA I'm from Singapore as well um I'm in my mid
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IIA20s 20s yeah 20s okay M occupation um offline I do uh marketing and sales in a PR Company online I do only fans all
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IIAright how long have you been doing that for um so for my um sales job it's been about 3 years and only fans probably 2
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Brian Atlasand a halfish yeah all right one thing hold on one sec guys uh really quick going back to Kiara uh
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)you own a maid Cafe is that in Singapore yes I owns a m Cafe you you also make what made Cafe made made sorry my English is just made Cafe Cafe like you
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Brian Atlasknow those we cat years um made outfits yeah made yeah have you been one before no oh wow I guess it's about time you should try no I'm good on I'm the pass
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Brian Atlason that one okay true um okay now I we did a bit of a a look though on you you've got a
00:09:04
Brian Atlaswebsite you sell bath water oh yes yes um and farts wow like you have been there already that's crazy yeah we do uh backgrounds on the people who come on
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Brian Atlasthe show I regret not giving you one you know it's crazy I regret it too uh okay so but you sell bath water and your farts on your website yeah I mean like
00:09:25
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)why not it's a low cost um and it's pretty good good um production you know would would you say you've sold like hundreds of your bath water um so I so
00:09:36
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)it's out of stock within the first week okay so you you like had three for sale how does that go out of stock sorry like how does it go out of
00:09:47
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)stock can you just like fart whenever you want to um wait fart whenever you want to you can do that [ __ ] you can't do that but I'm like don't you do it like on a normal basis like so we have
00:09:58
Brian Atlasto sit in the bath top and then with a jar okay let's not get into details you know might be too much for T so your bath water is $500 but your farts are
00:10:09
Brian Atlas300 Kiara we got to talk about this price point here how is it that your bath waterer is more expensive than your farts because the bath water includes with the fart you know it's a fart with
00:10:19
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)a bath it's a package deal yeah and you have my Ence and then the fat is the fat you know what I mean so you know like the price is is
00:10:29
Brian Atlasright yeah what but how is it that your bath like it's more expens it's got to be way harder to B bottle of fart than just water that you've like poured on
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)yourself you can split Nick um I think it makes sense sorry I lost you
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Bella TVthere okay so yeah it's got to be harder to bottle fart than water uh-huh but she saying it's a fart included with the bath water so but
00:11:02
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)they're sold separ if you go to her website that shit's sold separately okay you know the thing is like I feel when we end this podcast I can show you how the production is done I think that's easy I'll pass I'mma pass exactly like I can't show you so like explaining to you
00:11:15
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)you just like intentionally eat foods that like make you gassy or some [ __ ] beans you can go around with beans you go hard on the beans beans and in sing Duran you know Duran no no that huge
00:11:27
Andrew Wilsonfruit that smells bad yeah okay I've heard of it the bad smelling so you just make sure I got this right you get in the bathtub and you fart and then you bottle the water and you sell it yes
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)it's amazing like it's eco-friendly and I don't waste any water I'm actually saving the environment I'm proud of myself that's [ __ ] disgusting thank
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Brian Atlasyou just want to just want to be clear that that is what you do yeah yes yeah that's that's um you also sell used lingerie stockings and bikini yes I'm trying to be
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)eco-friendly eco-friendly yeah I want to save the environment save the Earth go green reuse and recycle
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)mhm you guys are against plastic usage plastic usage plastic usage you said you're for the environment right so you're against plastic uh I mean it's I
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)mean of course it's best to go against it right because plastic yeah like plastic B do you guys have plastic surgery oh my God like like you went there already like you dive deep I did
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)go there dive deep they C me off G it's crazy yeah I mean yes yes of course of course you have plastic surgery of course okay all right moving along
00:12:46
Bonnie BlueBonnie what about you hi I'm Bonnie Blue I'm 25 I live in Australia but I'm originally from Darby the UK thank you for providing your age my birthday so I
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Brian Atlashad to think about my age then um happy birthday thank you it was your birthday it's just been it was May recently okay yes so you're 25 uh you're from the UK
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Bonnie Blueoriginally but I live in Australia now the live in Australia okay and uh you recently kind of went viral why was that uh I've done it a couple of times now the first time was because I slept with
00:13:20
Bonnie Blueloads of 18-year-old virgins and posted online how many that was just 32 that was like a nice little walm up basically I then then went to spring break which I'm sure most of you know what spring
00:13:31
Bonnie Bluebreak is and slept with 122 college boys in the in how many days just over two weeks two weeks okay yeah good times
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Bonnie BlueI was busy for sure good times um and my job's only fans what what you did what now I slept with a 122 college boys what and and and I just want to make sure I
00:13:55
Bonnie Blueget this right how many days just over two weeks that was oh so yeah it was a lot of day
00:14:02
Brian Atlasif you're try to do the maths so we could do the math what the quick okay and so uh how did you Source
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Bonnie Bluethem did you just approach them in the street I'd already done like I'd already got on social media done Tik toks Instagram post say hey I'm coming to the Grand Oasis which is like a main Hotel a lot of the Spring Breakers go to like basically come and find me and let's
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Bonnie Bluemake a video so like when I got there everyone already sort of knew who I was to come and say hi was there any so what was the most in one day 22 22 in one day yeah okay I mean was there any concerns
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Bonnie Blueover any VD um as in SDS yeah veneral disease um I used condoms um but I get tested like every two weeks so but you didn't test
00:14:52
Bonnie Bluethem what I'm asking okay so if I was to with like other of creators they always get tested every two weeks full panel get sore like does it hurt if like at the end of these two weeks been in La
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Bonnie BlueI'll 100% be sore because they're all big they're all like professional people in the industry but because it was spring break some of them was barely an inch some of them was like a good size really like and then some of them didn't get past the [ __ ] stage it wasn't
00:15:15
Bonnie Bluelike I was being like pounded like all day do you know what I mean whereas when you're like making either like professional porn or like doing like other of clubs you tend the videos tend to be a lot longer and they tend to be
00:15:28
Bonnie Bluequite big gotcha but Spring Breakers was a mixture so you do BG content is that correct boy girl boy girl content yeah like a bit of everything like groups there's not much to say no to how many
00:15:40
Brian Atlasscenes have you done what like from spring break in total like scen um no idea hundreds yeah there's a lot of the men that like you work with that I guess are also in the
00:15:52
Brian Atlasindustry or whatever do you know how many different men that you've shot with uh um not count not counting the like 122 college boys the ver the 32
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Bonnie Bluevirgin probably not I've only been in the industry like not even a year yet so probably only like 60 other of people maybe even less than that
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Brian Atlasokay you've been busy I have all right okay uh what about you yeah tough
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Angieact to follow right okay yeah no uh hi I'm Angie I'm 19 uh I'm a second year student uh here at UCSB all right um and yeah I'm not really working right now
00:16:34
Brian AtlasI'm focusing on my academics what are you uh studying at UCSB uh well I just switched my major so but I'm doing pre-bio right now pre-bio got it and where are you from originally uh from LA
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)from Los Angeles all right uh welcome what about you um I'm Abby I'm 20 years old welcome um I'm originally from New Hampshire but I'm currently a student at
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Brian Atlasucsp a second year originally from New Hampshire okay what are you studying at youp I'm studying biopsychology bioy all right cool
00:17:07
Brian Atlascool yeah what about you I'm L I'm 19 I'm just transferring into UCSB all right welcome back she's joining us as uh she was going to be a
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Brian Atlasbackground character today guys but we had some flakes so uh she's just going to join on the panel she'll be pretty mellow and Maddie what about you my name is m Vu I'm 19 years old I'm from San
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Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)Diego California I now live in Santa Barbara I currently work for the whatever podcast and I'm a student at Santa Barbara City College studying communication all right and without
00:17:42
Andrew Wilsonfurther Ado I'd like to introduce the man the myth the legend my Caucasian Andrew Wilson take it away yeah my name is Andrew Wilson I'm the host of The One and Only Crucible
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Andrew Wilsonit's the fastest growing debate channel on the internet I'm a political Satur and political commentator I also enjoy engaging in debates and I appreciate everybody coming out for the panel
00:18:05
Brian Atlastonight should be a good one all right welcome good to have you back Andrew now we're going to go around the table once more so what's everybody's current relationship status so are you single
00:18:17
Brian Atlastalking stage situationship Friends with Benefits relationship married polyal sex cult Harum whatever long last yeah uh whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single and what's the
00:18:29
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead okay um I'm like I'm like single and looking single and looking yeah looking
00:18:40
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)you know yeah how long have you been single uh for like for like three years three years what's the longest relationship you've ever been in uh like
00:18:51
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)uh three years or so was that the one that ended 3 years ago um not really really it was like it
00:19:00
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)ended like years ago I can't remember because like I have quite a few uh relationships okay so you're single and looking but you've been single for three
00:19:12
Brian Atlasyears have you been uh what's in that three-year period that you've been single what's the longest period of time you've dated a guy the longest yeah okay maybe you dat a guy
00:19:24
Brian Atlasfor like a month you wouldn't consider him a boyfriend but you dated him for a couple months or something okay so you mean like what was my longest uh relationship right no not at all I mean oh like the dating in so you
00:19:37
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)been you said you've been single for three years right but I'm ass I'm assuming maybe there's been some guys in the picture for that period of time yeah okay like the dating phase um so I guess
00:19:48
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)the dating phase is like 3 months 3 months yeah okay all
00:19:57
Bella TVright what about you um single uh last relationship 2 years ago um lasted 4 years so you've been single for two
00:20:08
Brian Atlasyears correct okay any prospects in that 2-year period no anything current any current prospects no Kiara any current prospects no there's no guys in the
00:20:17
Andrew Wilsonpicture no no guys I don't get impressed easily you don't get impressed easily yeah but it's not their fault it's it's your fault what if they were do you do you think maybe it would be more
00:20:29
Andrew Wilsonimpressive to you if some of these guys started to send in their own fart water would that um would that maybe change your mind about them would you be a little more inclined to date them then
00:20:40
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)are you trying to propose to me uh I'm sorry I didn't even was that English what did you say no are you trying to tell me that you will send me my my fat J like is that a hint you you
00:20:53
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)got to talk slower I really can't understand what you're saying okay um are you saying that that you might send me my uh your fart jar don't ask me for fart jar water
00:21:05
Andrew Wilsonsicko what's wrong with you sorry I took it the wrong way oh well there is something of a language barrier I can understand that yeah I get it I get that a
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TTS/Chat readerlot Dylan LLY donated $200 good Lord what the [ __ ] am I listening to good please Smite this hedonistic world we now live in s Andor
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Brian Atlascould have been worse than this I'll and Andrew have fun tonight yo thank you Dylan loly appreciate it man good to see you in the chat thank you for the uh TTS
00:21:38
IIAman appreciate it uh what about you your uh relationship status single and single okay yeah um my last relationship is
00:21:48
IIAthat next question um was uh about 2 years ago yeah and my longest is about 6 years but that was when I was much younger
00:21:59
IIAyeah and are there any guys currently in the picture not really you know we travel a lot so I don't really meet people very per like you know um for a
00:22:12
Bonnie Bluelong period of time to get to know them well enough sure what about you um single longest relationship was like 9
00:22:20
Brian Atlasyears um I was married um wait you were married I was yes that was the the 9-year one I'm assuming was from what age to what age were you marri so I met when I was 13 met when I was really
00:22:32
Brian Atlasyoung um we split up last year wait so okay you were married for 9 years so from no so I wasn't married for nine years I got married when I was 20 okay so you you were together with him
00:22:42
Brian Atlasfor 9 years but you're married for five um about four yeah just in four years four so you guys met when you were 13 yes damn okay and so you've been single
00:22:53
Bonnie Bluefor how long again just one year one and a half yeah when did you start doing the uh adults entertainment stuff about a year ago right after the divorce well I like just started uh when we still
00:23:05
Brian Atlastogether oh you started him that encouraged me to get into it in the first place okay he was you getting into this kind of part of the breakdown of the relationship no
00:23:17
Bonnie Bluecompletely separate totally separate okay who ended the relationship me but it was sort of like cuz we'd been together so long we just like stopped making an effort you know like the whole dating phase that had like completely
00:23:29
Bonnie Bluephased out and we just both got a bit lazy I guess in the relationship were you guys similar age yeah he was just a year older
00:23:37
Brian Atlasokay okay um and so while you've been and you've only been doing like the adult content you said for a year year and a half yes you w just under a year under a year have
00:23:50
Bonnie Blueyou been trying to like actually date at all like in terms of a romantic I did I started dating back in January um for a few months but that's finish now clearly
00:23:59
Bonnie Blueyeah okay have you found it hard to date yeah because I I didn't have any friends in the industry like I didn't really know much about like on fans or like the whole adult entertaining so it's not
00:24:12
Bonnie Bluelike I had people to relate to or people to like speak with to see how they found dating and I didn't realize the amount of judgment I guess that comes with only fans okay so dating's not going to I
00:24:22
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)guess be easy okay about uh well I'm currently single currently single okay and uh I can't really relate because I don't think I've ever had a serious relationship before uh you know just a
00:24:34
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)lot of talking stages and oh you said a lot of talking stages yeah how many how many talking stages are we I mean I I also consider talking stage just like
00:24:45
Brian Atlasmaybe a week but I also drop people very quickly you drop them quickly so I don't know um well what's the longest maybe you haven't like would you say you've never had like a uh titled boyfriend
00:24:57
Brian Atlasright okay what's the longest period of time you've dated a guy two months three months anything like that like three weeks three weeks too quickly all right uh and you said you drop people too
00:25:08
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)quickly yeah why is that well I just I've been told that I I let people go too easily just cuz they upset me and I just decide that they're not worth my
00:25:19
Brian Atlastime do they give you the ick they do they give you the ick they do um so they they're not worth your time uh so you've said you've had quite a few talking stages so more often than not are you
00:25:32
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)the one who's kind of pumping the brakes like saying oh 100% 100% yeah okay has a guy ever done it or it's mostly you uh I feel like sometimes it's mutual I don't think I've been rejected yet not yet
00:25:44
Brian Atlasokay no rejection right but a lot of the times it is just Mutual fizzling out okay and are you desirous though of a like a long-term relationship or are you kind of okay with the I'm okay with both I mean I think having a boyfriend is
00:25:57
Brian Atlasgreat but also know that I'm a very picky person very picky so it's what what are some of the things that lead you to like to get you uh get the ick or make you want to pump the brakes is
00:26:08
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)there is there a pattern of behavior that you're seeing among the men or how do you pinpoint it I don't know I feel like a lot of I it sounds very vague but
00:26:19
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)a lot of times just a Vibe of how good and genuine a person is so if I see that they slightly like oh they're either a little too aggressive or they're
00:26:29
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)I don't know they just they can be weird or mean or I don't know I I'm very quick to just I don't give people the benefit of the doubt which I know is not the best option but how do you typically
00:26:42
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)meet the guys that you've been in a talking stage with dating apps in person no not dating apps but never been on a dating app no okay uh but I guess just
00:26:52
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)meeting in person classes interacting with do you party go to parties at all uh sometimes yeah are you guys are friends you are you guys in a sority no no okay um so how often would you go out
00:27:05
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)and party like Thursday Friday Saturday type thing uh just Fridays sometimes Saturdays sometimes Saturdays okay and you'll meet guys out when you're partying or yeah yeah I think that's the
00:27:16
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)most but they also are not very consistent cuz I feel like those guys will talk to you for the night and that's it right okay so the longest was three weeks have you um
00:27:30
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)trying to think how to frame this question uh I'll come back to you in a sec uh what about you um I'm in a similar boat
00:27:41
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)I've never been in a defined relationship um I've had sort of a situationship um that only lasted
00:27:50
Brian Atlasprobably a month and a half and then I also dropped him you dropped him the six weeks so you're your both sophomores at UCSB is that correct okay uh and never
00:28:02
Brian Atlashave you had a boyfriend ever or no boyfriend yeah yeah is it do you feel like it's hard here at UCSB like do you feel like guys don't really want that college boys they don't want definitely they just want to H that up right
00:28:15
Brian Atlasdefinitely but what about you are you would you be desirous of having a long-term relationship I think so I think it's just hard to find someone who yeah if you found a guy who is like really interested in that in commitment
00:28:26
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)would you like you would be down too or you you're kind of on the fence even it really I think it really depends on who they are as a person and cuz like the situationship that I was in he wanted to
00:28:39
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)date long term oh so you didn't want I didn't want to why is that I think it was just I could tell that we were different people and we had different sort of Lifestyles and personalities and it was fun to hang out but it wasn't
00:28:51
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)something I wanted to like commit to long term how were you different um well I feel like he was a lot more
00:29:02
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)formal and proper and he liked to kind of dress up and go on the fancier dates and he couldn't really see himself just like hiking
00:29:12
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)or I don't know just hanging out even the thought of wearing sweatpants in public to him was like whoa this guy sounds like a catch what what's going on he dresses nice like textbook he sounds
00:29:25
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)like a really cool no you don't you didn't like him why is that why' you say he was awful he was just very possessive and very yes he had traditional views but it
00:29:36
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)was very like no you are mine like it was just when you gross she didn't like that I liked to party okay so when you say possessive is that what you mean he
00:29:48
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)wanted to spend like when you wanted to go out on a Friday he would rather you stay in with him yeah he he was always like oh I'm not going to stop you from going out out but I would prefer if you
00:30:00
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)didn't okay so that you're making him sound so much nicer than he actually okay well here tell why don't you tell us the extent of it go ahead um okay I
00:30:10
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)just I feel like it's he wasn't okay how do I word this just a lot of the comments that he made were very misogynistic and very like not okay
00:30:23
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)I think how give me give me some examples give me some examples here yeah yeah you're just like just like oh I don't want anybody else to see your body like just like just that but it's I
00:30:35
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)understand that like obviously if you're in a relationship I I get that but just the way that it was said I feel like is yeah how did I agree even when he would describe I think that's another thing
00:30:47
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)this guy watches the podcast he would describe people who I would put myself in the same category as like girls who party or wear like revealing clothes
00:30:57
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)kind of to to party or even just like crop tops um and he would word it in a way that's like oh well I don't like when people dress like a [ __ ] but it's like I've worn more
00:31:09
Brian Atlasrevealing things than that girl you know mhm so so he didn't want you going out partying he wanted you to dress modestly Y and you mentioned Mis he was being
00:31:20
Brian Atlasmisogynistic were were there any other things that you considered misogynistic I can't think of any specific examples ju just so I make sure we're talking about the same thing just
00:31:32
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)how do you define misogyny uh well he for sure thinks that men are better than women but when you say he for sure thinks that did he say
00:31:41
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)that not directly so indirectly how did he communicate that uh just in like a I think especially when talking to her she was like it's more like he didn't want
00:31:52
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)her to have a career he didn't want her to no he definitely even talking about the future he was very fast with like talking about the future and oh would
00:32:02
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)you want children would you whatever and even talking about working he was like well would you want to still work if you had children cuz I personally would want
00:32:12
Andrew Wilsonyou to stay at home and mhm okay this guy this this guy's my hero like I mean everything that he's saying sounds awesome I don't I I don't actually
00:32:24
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)understand what the problem is like he sounds great yeah I think I think when you put it down when you write it down and you say it out
00:32:34
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)loud it sounds yes traditional but I I do think it is the way that people say it and the intentions behind it okay and so wait
00:32:45
Brian Atlasyou so you said that he thinks although he didn't say the words you said that he thinks that men are better than women oh for sure but how do you know that also a
00:32:56
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)lot of like the way we would communicate it was very much him telling us or telling me like what we're going to do or like oh when
00:33:07
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)am I going to see you or I'll pick you up and it was it was never like oh like what time do you want to meet it was just I'm picking you up at 7even okay um
00:33:18
Andrew Wilsonand yeah I'm still waiting to hear a a single bad quality here for this guy I'm like like I want to be on your side I want to be with you on this and dislike this guy right alongside you but he just
00:33:30
Andrew Wilsonsounds [ __ ] awesome like in every conceivable I haven't heard anything bad about him yet wait so you said he would want to like he wouldn't ask you oh does 6: p.m. work he would say I'm picking
00:33:42
Brian Atlasyou up at 700 I see that I that was a trend like a couple months ago maybe a year ago of like women in their thing saying they want a guy to tell them we're going here
00:33:53
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)I'm picking you up at this time but you don't like that you want the guy to consult with you I appreciate him like making the plans but also I feel like he
00:34:05
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)didn't consider if I wanted to be picked up at 7 that type of way where it's like or even if I would say oh I'm not sure cuz I have an essay to write that
00:34:16
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)night I'm not sure if I can if I have time to meet you it would kind of he would just for me be like okay well what time does your class end like
00:34:26
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)oh no you can do it M and it was he didn't consider what I wanted to do and yeah okay so really
00:34:37
Brian Atlasquick though going back to what you said I know you said he's he's a misogynist just I don't know if you provide an answer on this just how do you define misogyny just so I know we're talking
00:34:47
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)about the same thing um I think it's just in my well I think that was a question for her okay um ah okay now I'm
00:34:57
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)being put on the spot uh well I feel like if if there's a power of balance that you believe is correct between men and women uh I think that's the
00:35:09
Brian Atlasbiggest wait can you clarify what you mean there a Power Balance or imbalance power inbalance if you believe that there is correct if you if you're okay with that
00:35:20
Brian Atlasand if you're okay so you don't believe in any sort of uh gender expectation at all when it comes to dating I think that there are
00:35:31
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)some expectations but it but you reject them or you no go ahead actually go ahead uh no there are definitely expectations I mean but I don't think
00:35:42
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)it's gender specific just to be respectful as a person yeah sure um did we get a definition though on the misogyny
00:35:55
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)thing CU people have different definitions for that so I just want to make sure that we're talking about the same thing uh well feel like it's hard to Define it's
00:36:07
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)hard to specifically Define cuz I feel like there are a lot of examples so just cuz I feel like you don't have to be a misogynist by just like oh I hate women
00:36:17
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)like it's not that there also a lot of small like a microaggression oh I wouldn't call it microaggression but slightly yeah so what are I I don't
00:36:28
Andrew Wilsonreally understand though um how are you guys calling people misogynous but can't tell us what that
00:36:38
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)is um do you mind if I add I feel like when I would call someone a
00:36:45
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)misogynist it's when I feel that they value women less than men and it's more like what you say matters less because you're right
00:37:00
Brian Atlaswait why is it the trigger off I'll just read it chick with a perfect boyfriend sounds like you broke up with the wrong person spiteful jealous feminazi friend whoa okay be nice Niel should be a answer should yeah I know I'm just going to
00:37:13
Brian Atlasread it sitting next to you is who you need to okay all right I'll know the the streamlabs triggers are all [ __ ] up um I'm going to fix that here in just a sec boys uh continue on with your statement
00:37:23
Andrew Wilsongo ahead um what was I saying I see you were um you were saying that you when you define misogyny you just mean it that uh it's when men think that they're
00:37:34
Andrew Wilsonbetter than women essentially yeah and I think when they feel that they can disrespect women um and so then would
00:37:47
Andrew Wilsonyou say that Miss A mandrus would be the same thing just the opposite women who feel like they're better than men they would be misandrist they would be misogynist in reverse I think if yeah if
00:37:58
Brian Atlasthey're using it as because they are a man then yes okay all right it's interesting though the
00:38:09
Brian Atlaslongest the longest relationship relationship you've had you dated them for six weeks you dated misogynist by your definition
00:38:18
Brian Atlasanyways yeah how early how early on did you determine that he was uh did you assess that he was a called misogynist I
00:38:28
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)think in the beginning it was little little like comments he would make and then he would correct himself afterwards like oh I'm not a misogynist
00:38:39
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)but no and it was like wait what would he say what would he say I don't remember what he said I'm not a racist but if somebody ever says I'm not a
00:38:50
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)racist but they're about to say some racist [ __ ] H um I forgot what he said cuz his roommate even pointed it out to
00:38:59
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)um his roommate pointed out yeah man oh I think it was about making his bed he wanted you to make his bed no I was like pulling the covers of
00:39:11
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)it and I fixed it after he fixed it and he was like of course you'd be better than me or a woman and I was like okay and his roommate was like that's misogynistic of you is this like in the
00:39:23
Brian Atlasdorm room or something no his bedroom oh is it like a double or something yes College uh okay uh damn all right good times and at
00:39:34
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)first I thought he was just being like silly and then I realized that he actually wholeheartedly believed that we got to get this guy on the show
00:39:45
Andrew Wilsonhe sounds like a legend uh he probably watches the show all right um wait I wanted to come back I didn't I just I just didn't hear really anything bad this guy did
00:39:56
Andrew Wilsonhonestly like I I was I was even thinking um cuz you were saying that when he would assert you you know I'm going to pick you up at 7 right and he wouldn't really take into
00:40:09
Andrew Wilsonconsideration um the fact that well maybe your schedule conflicted or something like this right it's kind of a jerk thing to do but here's the thing have you ever been in a situation where
00:40:19
Andrew Wilsona guy has asked you where you want to go for dinner and um you do the uh I don't I don't know I don't I yeah I I you know just kind of anything that kind of thing
00:40:31
Andrew Wilsonhave you ever been in that situation come on tell me the truth can you decide what to have for dinner I I feel like my go-to is I give them a few options like
00:40:42
Andrew Wilsonoh I feel I'm in the mood for this or this like what do you what would you prefer rather than oh I don't know choose something for me yeah so I mean but you've never been
00:40:53
Andrew Wilsonin the situation where the guy has said hey where do you want to go eat and you do the whole like oh you
00:41:01
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)pick honestly no never yeah I mean probably but it's never been an like an annoying cuz I even do that with my friends when it's like oh where do you
00:41:12
TTS/Chat readerwant to go sometimes there's that little bit of I don't know but we figured it out yeah well I mean but you can imagine big lady disector donated
00:41:23
TTS/Chat reader$200 Brian you a weirdo for liking women with Abby's roast beef roasty simp fake virgin Brie you are the reason why there
00:41:32
Brian Atlasare instructions on shampoo bottles ladies deal breaker if the guy won't go down we'll get right back to the uh actually I'll save that question for
00:41:43
Andrew Wilsonlater Andrew uh sorry you were saying yeah I was just saying you can imagine though that and I'm sure you've seen this yourself with your friends that uh the question is simple as where would
00:41:54
Andrew Wilsonyou like to go have dinner women are often very indecis decisive about that yeah don't know well you pick that kind of thing I mean surely you're familiar with this phenomenon right yeah
00:42:05
Andrew Wilsondefinitely yeah so I mean isn't one good way to avoid that phenomenon to just say hey be ready at 8 and I'm just going to pick you up and we're going to go to X restaurant isn't that preferable to a lot of women do you don't you think I I
00:42:17
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)don't think there's a problem with that like the decisiveness um like I don't mind that but I think what got me was the fact
00:42:28
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)that he didn't even want to check if that was okay with me well had you guys had a plan to meet up that day no so you just randomly texted you no
00:42:40
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)plan we hadn't planned planned but it was like oh what are you doing on Sunday or are you are you free Sunday um mhm and it was like okay I'm I I don't think
00:42:52
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)there was a problem with that but just in general when we would make plans it felt very much you told me that your class is done at 4:00 so I can pick you up at
00:43:03
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)4:30 it doesn't matter if you need time you know it was very I don't know I just didn't like how he approached it and his tone and everything it was very much him
00:43:14
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)telling me what to do and not a little bit little bit of uh tone policing going on you think yeah I think it was more that he felt entitled to your time just because you didn't have a a solid
00:43:26
TTS/Chat readercommitment thought he felt like he was like grid One Motorsports donated $200 dude dodged a bullet sounds like a legendary Chad that deserves a top shelf
00:43:38
TTS/Chat readerlady not a dog what a [ __ ] like you the men you want will not want you as you do not value them be polite grid one grid one be polite Optics Optics uh Andrew you were
00:43:52
Andrew Wilsonsaying uh yeah I was just trying to get to the bottom of it um so would you say tone tone played a big part in this just you didn't like the it wasn't what he was doing really that was so problematic
00:44:05
Andrew Wilsonbut rather the kind of tone in which he was doing it like he was saying no we're going to go do this and we're going to do that tonight at X time him doing that wasn't really the problem you just
00:44:15
TTS/Chat readerdidn't like n donated $200 this guy seemed reasonable roommate hates on him far more than you and speaks horribly on his name and you seem
00:44:26
Andrew Wilsonhesitant to agree with her sounds more like a case of single women keeping women single n there you go yeah anyway I was just I was just asking um it it does seem like when we
00:44:39
Andrew Wilsonkind of dive into what the actual problems were that it was the way that you perceived the thing and kind of the tone in which it was done is that is that accurate yeah okay I feel that
00:44:51
Brian Atlaswe'll come back we can come back to that a little bit later I'll just get through everybody really quick um any updates y on your s still the same still the same Madison I'm in a relationship it's been
00:45:03
Brian Atlasa little over a year in eight months okay cool um moving things along let me just check a couple things here that we had to come back to oh really
00:45:13
Brian Atlasquick uh for you for you and you uh do you guys have a roster right now no no roster no guys on the bench no okay no zero Pro cuz you said you're single so I
00:45:26
Brian Atlaswas just seeing but you said you haven't had like any boyfriend boyfriend relationships no none that I would consider like there's no guys you're currently like kind of in a talking stage with or anything okay all right
00:45:38
Brian Atlasmoving things along I did say that we would go back to that Super Chat that came in by the way our streamlabs is kind of scuffed I don't know why what's going on with the font the I'll try to
00:45:48
Brian Atlasget that fixed but uh he asked if a guy won't go down is that a deal breaker starting with ukr will go around the table go
00:45:57
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)um for me I guess I wouldn't say it's a due breaker but I guess it sucks I'm like wow I guess you want me to go down
00:46:07
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)and you won't go down I guess it is what it is you know it is what it is yeah I can't cry about it what about you I
00:46:18
Bella TVwould like to know the reason why sexual boundary just doesn't like it just doesn't like it yeah I mean um everybody has a sexual preference so I
00:46:30
Bonnie Bluewould like if a guy went down on me and if he didn't then it is what it is yeah okay yeah it wouldn't be a deal breaker I don't think yeah it would have been before I would have been 100% the guy
00:46:42
Bonnie Bluewas stting in January he did not go like he did not enjoy it like the first time we slept together I sort of like basically told him to go down on me and he went like soft and then afterwards he was like he's like sorry I should have
00:46:55
Bonnie Bluetold you he like I hate going down like I never go down on women um and I can remember saying to my friend that said I can't sleep with this guy again like it's how is he going to make me finish there's other ways yeah but he was quite
00:47:07
Andrew Wilsongood with his dick so it wasn't a deal break wait he what he was good with his dick so he was good at sex oh okay do you think that the um the chances that men will want to go down on you in the
00:47:19
Bonnie Bluefuture considering that you [ __ ] over 100 dudes in a week uh might significantly go down I mean potentially but if they're not ignorant to the industry I think it'll be okay well yeah
00:47:31
Andrew WilsonI mean I get that uh maybe men inside the pornography industry itself might not mind uh but it seems like you're sleeping with people outside of that industry as well isn't is that correct
00:47:41
Andrew Wilsonyeah well that yeah with condom yes yeah yeah no I I understand that I understand you're doing the safety thing and all that but those men in particular uh now
00:47:51
Andrew Wilsonthat you have these kind of viral clips of you um getting down with uh hundreds of dudes don't you think don't you think the potential that they want to do that
00:48:01
Bonnie Blueparticular sex act would decrease to like zero I mean if they're like if the guy of Dayton is threatened by an 18-year-old college boy in the bedroom I think it they've got the issue not me
00:48:14
Andrew Wilsonwell I mean is that them being threatened or is it a kind of a natural disgust reaction to notate that oh wait there's been 100 penises here before me
00:48:24
Bonnie Bluejust in the last two weeks right like that would you can see where for some men that would be quite revolting right for sure but I think guys they see with a lot of people for sure like that guy's probably set with more than a 100 people
00:48:37
Bonnie Blueit's just been over a longer length of time and he probably didn't get tested every two weeks so it's it's very different when I'm doing it it's a job I'm tested it's safe so women are
00:48:48
Andrew Wilsonallowed to sleep with people just as much as men are yeah yeah well I know I guess that's not really what I'm getting at though if you were to uh be dating some guy who was not in the industry
00:49:00
Andrew Wilsonlet's say um I don't know he he was somewhat familiar with your past um and you guys were getting down to business in the bedroom and he was like look you know I'll do a b c and d but I'm not
00:49:12
Bonnie Bluegoing to do that because you know you've slept with hundreds of men doesn't that seem reasonable it does but I would never have given them my time of day if that was what it was going to be they never would have made it to the bedroom
00:49:23
Bonnie Bluelet alone taking me on a date so that like that wasn't his reasoning he just didn't didn't enjoy it he didn't turn him on okay I just was
00:49:35
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)curious okay uh what about you deal breaker uh no I mean I don't prefer it but I okay wouldn't be a deal breaker yeah it also wouldn't be a deal breaker
00:49:44
Brian Atlasfor me I don't think nor not a deal breaker y okay all right uh let me read two chats here then I'll get into some of my
00:49:56
Brian Atlaspre-show questions we have just Gerald there we go I think I fixed it should look a little better now Maddie can you read it Brian email me a PO box so I can send down a nice but that'll stay up
00:50:07
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)that poor girl TR Maddie thank you for the boyfriend reveal I enjoyed your interaction with one another thank you Gerald thank you for the donation as well thank you Gerald appreciate it and
00:50:17
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)then we have another one Maddie please ask Kiara Kitty a question don't let her sit there and fall asleep w this crazy uh thank you minus 100
00:50:29
Brian Atlasappreciate it man all right got a couple questions here let's see all right we're gonna why not we'll go to Kiara uh okay well I was actually going to ask
00:50:42
Brian Atlasyou a question but your age refusal does not allow me to actually even ask it um you said that you would like to talk about how both men and women should pay on their dates
00:50:54
Brian Atlasit would be nice if men pay for the first date as a gentleman move while women woman does the second one like maybe a coffee uh I did notice though we we
00:51:04
Brian Atlaslooked it seems like while that's what you that is your position right yeah yeah yes but on the other hand I suppose these aren't mutually necessarily
00:51:15
Brian Atlasmutually exclusive you said that on your o it states simps make me wet I'm me is a marketing
00:51:24
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)move which one uh like the one that say Sims the S yeah yeah yeah the Sims it's a marketing move mhm you know it's just so you're lying you're lying to your audience simps don't actually make you
00:51:36
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)wet they make me wet when I work you know you know when I okay they make you wet when you want their money um I guess
00:51:44
Brian Atlasyeah like why not you know okay why not you know like that's what we do cuz i i a s I don't think a s would ever let a
00:51:54
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)girl go 50/50 they wouldn't do they wouldn't do 50/50 with a girl I feel that like a boyfriend like a person that you see as a potential boyfriend is different from a S you know what I
00:52:05
Kiara/Maddie/Jazelle (multiple guests)mean yeah but you said you're into 50/50 oh no no it's like um it's like a gesture so it's like the guy paid for the first one and then I offer to pay
00:52:16
Brian Atlasfor the second one you know okay sure that is how it is it's like Menace going to Bella here Bella you said that your ex-boy plotted to kill
00:52:27
Bella TVyour current boyfriend you had at the time but then they became friends later what was this quick story there um I dated uh so during my freshman year in
00:52:36
Bella TVcollege I dated this man and um he I guess became a little bit more uh upset once we broke up and stuff and I found his diary where in his diary he wrote
00:52:48
Bella TVthat he's going to kill the any future boyfriend that might I might potentially date um of course he didn't end up doing that I just found his diary damn yeah
00:52:59
Bella TVcrazy okay uh and then they became friends your ex-boyfriend with your new boyfriend friend they were friendly yeah but of course they they wer your your
00:53:11
Bella TVex-boyfriend had a diary yeah did he call it a diary I mean it's just a notebook where he wrote his thoughts I guess it didn't have like
00:53:24
Bella TVlittle Hello Kitty stickers all over it stuff like that do you think men having emotions and being able to write them down on a diary is a bad thing and like I think that they would usually call it
00:53:34
Bella TVa journal not a diary Diary Journal diary potato potato sure yeah no I I don't think I don't think it's the same thing right um yeah no I it's a private notebook where
00:53:47
Andrew Wilsonpeople I I don't think I've never actually seen a man say oh I was writing in my diary last night I've never heard that ever in my life ever what I'm calling it a diary he might call it a j
00:53:58
Brian Atlassure okay well moving off from that uh you were on the show before do you recall what I think I feel like we had a big disagreement that show do you recall
00:54:11
Bella TVby chance or no big disagreement you and I big yeah did we have a disagreement on the show I don't think you and I did no no okay nothing I mean I feel like you know something so you can just say no I
00:54:23
Brian Atlasdon't I actually don't I actually don't I didn't rewatch it I didn't rewatch it uh going back to Bonnie here Bonnie you so you you hit the news you kind of told us about it so there's the 122 there was news articles about it too Nick could
00:54:35
Brian Atlasyou pull one of those up just I mean we already kind of went over it but we'll just pull it up really quick so there's a news article there are a coup you've had a quite a few plethora whenever you're ready Nick
00:54:52
Bonnie Blueyeah no I'm sorry which one is it type like body BL pretty sure there's an there'll be a fair few there should be an
00:55:07
Brian Atlasarticle uh unilad only fan star make it a little bigger please uh how much she made sleeping with 122 college students during spring break made a staggering
00:55:17
Bonnie Blueamount how much did you make 250,000 and is this through this was through your o yes like the boys that I sleep with it's free it's free for them you don't charge them okay how much 200
00:55:30
Andrew Wilsonyeah $250,000 us wait you just so you hang on you just film it so that um other people can see it essentially is that how
00:55:38
Brian Atlasyou're making the money yeah okay all right cool uh and then you said you slept with 32 18-year-old virgins
00:55:48
Brian Atlasand you filmed that too yeah uh I'm curious like for the guys in the chat is it and maybe the girls can weigh in too like is it a w to lose your virginity as a guy to a porn star like is that is
00:56:01
Bonnie Bluethat like a bragging do you think it's a bragging thing or well I think like personally when people lose their virginity it's usually terrible like I gave them a very good experience a good sexual like experience for sure and not only that like it was so relatable like
00:56:14
Bonnie Bluecuz the reason I started doing that in the first place is like when I started watching porn it wasn't relatable like I was like when I have sex for the first time it is not going to be nothing like that like they're professional people that do it all the time so I was like
00:56:26
Bonnie Bluethere's no better way to make it relatable than literally sleeping with virgins themselves because everyone performs so differently like some people barely lasted 30 seconds some people went for quite a long time how do you