VICTORY! TEA APP GONE! DEBATE PREP! REACTS! DRAMA! BIG NEWS! CHILL STREAM! | Whatever Wednesday #5

Date: 2025-10-23

Duration: 5h 19m

Guests

Brian Atlas

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SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)

Key Moments

OtherBrian celebrates Tea app removal: 'big W for the cause'

Key MomentReacts to Door Dash SA viral story

QuoteShows most viral TikTok clip (45-46M views) of anti-makeup stance

Topics Discussed

Tea App Removed from Apple

Brian celebrates Tea dating safety app pulled from App Store.

Door Dash SA Controversy

Viral TikTok of Door Dash driver claiming SA after filming naked customer.

Charlie Kirk Episode Replay

Extended replay of Charlie Kirk Whatever appearance on feminism/gender.

Alex Stein Announced for Sunday

Alex Stein confirmed as upcoming guest.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasa better undershirt. I'll get a better undershirt. Elton [ __ ] John. What? No. You guys haven't seen [ __ ] Fight Club. Holy [ __ ]

Brian AtlasWhat is wrong with you guys? Ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous.

Brian Atlas[ __ ] Jay Dyer, bro. It's a [ __ ] Fight Club jacket.

Brian AtlasRocket, man. Elton John, you guys are ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous. Ridiculous. Unbelievable.

Brian AtlasUh, we had a few more reacts to do. You guys are going to love this one. >> He's a cool guy.

SPEAKER_05These are some of my dating rules. As a strict girl, you know, I'm the mayor of Strict City. I never cared. These rules are for me. Me, me, me, me, me. I I I I. My opinion. Okay. Everybody's free to do

SPEAKER_05whatever they want in their dating life. These are my rules. The first one, when I give a man my number, he has 48 hours to plan a proper date with me. That means if I give you my number today, you have until the end of tomorrow to plan something or you're blocked. I'm not

SPEAKER_05your >> I'm actually okay with that. That's fine, >> pal. I'm not going to sit around and text you back and forth for three weeks. Plan a date because you're not going to be playing in my phone. This next one is actually pretty sick.

Brian Atlas>> I I'm actually fine with it, but she's, you know, I got an issue with the tone. Okay, the tone, you know, tone very important. Uh the the tone, don't appreciate the tone.

SPEAKER_05>> I don't do coffee dates. I don't do drink dates. It's lazy and I'm not leaving my house for that. The next one. Okay. Oh, why does it skip like that? That's annoying.

Brian AtlasSo, she has an issue with coffee dates.

SPEAKER_05Doesn't do drink dates. You have to do dinner. Let me play that back though. Make sure I got it right. >> Playing in my phone. This next one is actually simple. I don't do coffee dates. I don't do drink dates. It's lazy and I'm not leaving my house for that. The next one. If a

Brian Atlas>> do you think she's good-looking enough to have these demands >> man shows up to >> like look I regardless not saying if the less attractive that

Brian Atlasyou are, you need to put up with abuse or something. But maybe a little bit. No, I'm just kidding. I'm kidding. Kidding. No, what

Brian AtlasI'm saying is what what I mean by that is

Brian Atlasthere's there's pretty privilege. Being attractive conveys various benefits. And look, if you're not that attractive of a woman,

Brian Atlasmaybe you'll still get the treatment. Like there are plenty of dudes, maybe they're not the best looking themselves. They're chivalous. They'll

Brian Atlasthey'll do all that simp [ __ ] You might still get it. But I do think the entitlement to it I don't think it look even if you're a 10, I think the

Brian Atlasentitlement is still unattractive. But I can see where you might like you're more likely to get that sort of treatment, you know?

SPEAKER_05So, uh, >> I don't know. >> Our first date without flowers. He's never hearing from me again. I don't care if he's a cool guy. I don't care if

SPEAKER_05he's nice. Whatever. It may

Brian Atlas>> flowers. Hold on. She wants flowers on the first date. First date. Flowers.

Brian AtlasI wonder if she'd be upset if you like just I don't know, you picked like a little a tulip or some [ __ ] on your way to the date. Oh, here's a flower. I ain't getting I'm not getting girls

Brian AtlasI'm not going to get flowers for a girl on a first date. This girl not getting a girl flowers for a first date.

Brian AtlasFlowers.

Brian AtlasDo women deserve flowers? That's my whole thing, right? It's like, okay, men should be Men

Brian Atlasshould be chivalous. Men should be chivalous. It's all Oh, I had the [ __ ] sticker

Brian Atlason. Great. I had a sticker on the glasses. There's a lot of talk about what men should do. Men should buy flowers. Men should take you out for dinner. Men

Brian Atlasshould do this. Men should do that. Men should do XYZ. Men should open the car door. Men should observe the sidewalk rule. Men should pay for dates. Men should in most circumstances pay for

Brian Atlassubsequent dates. in maybe less than that, but many many relationships throughout the entire course of the relationship the guy should pay.

Brian AtlasAnd it goes on and on and on about what men should do, what men should do, what should women do.

Brian AtlasSo it's men have been men have all the responsibility. Men have all the responsibility. Well, this is getting into a bit of a

Brian Atlasdifferent territory, but absolutely none of the authority. Men have all responsibility, but no authority in their relationships.

Brian AtlasSo, what should women do? Are we getting chased virgins? Are we getting women of high virtue? You could be a guy. You could take this

Brian Atlaswoman on a date and I don't I don't know who this woman is. Who knows how she moves, but she could have uh

Brian AtlasI can tell you one of the experiences of a lot of uh a lot of people out there dating. And look, men, some men move this way, too. But women, you go on a

Brian Atlasdate with a girl, she wants you to pay for the dinner and but whatever. And she's she's going on multiple dates in a day. She's going on two, three dates in a day. She's going on three,

Brian Atlasfour, five, six, seven dates in a week. She's sleeping with at least one other guy. Not always, but

Brian Atlaswhy should a man pay bring you to dinner and buy you flowers if you're having sex with another man?

Brian AtlasLike, make the argument. Make the argument for a woman who is sexually active with another man. Why the [ __ ] should I

Brian Atlaspay? Why should I uh why should I pay? Why should I be chivalous? Why should I do anything?

Brian AtlasI mean, truth be told, as a man, you shouldn't go on a date with her. A woman is having I know some look, some of you guys might you might be okay with it, but

Brian Atlasif a woman is having sex with another man, I whatever. I don't care. Oh, I'm single. Oh, it's a friends with benefits. I don't really care about him.

Brian AtlasIt's a wrap with her. Can't you can't date a woman.

Brian AtlasYou can't do anything with Look, I know. H how do I frame this? I know some of you guys are just looking

Brian Atlasfor casual sex. At least for me, maybe I move differently. Sleeping with a girl once doesn't interest me. just [ __ ] a girl one time and that

Brian Atlasthat's point for me. Pointless for me. I know some men have different opinion on that. Uh but even if even for the men who are just looking for casual sex,

Brian Atlasyou shouldn't be having sex with women who are [ __ ] other men. Even if it's casual, that should at least Even if you're a guy who's into the casual thing, you

Brian Atlasshouldn't [ __ ] a woman who's [ __ ] another man.

Brian AtlasYou need a fortnight at minimum. Actually, [ __ ] I mean, you need longer than that. Six weeks. I think six weeks is the cut off.

Brian AtlasYou need uh six weeks. If she's [ __ ] a guy within There's got to be a six weeks of

Brian Atlascelibacy minimum. Obviously, more is ideal.

Brian AtlasMonths, years, the longer the better. The longer the better.

Brian Atlasmore like six months I guess. Yeah. I'm just saying that should be the minimum. The minimum. Even then it's like eh, you know, the longer the better.

Brian AtlasBut why? And back to my point though, why you want me to pay for you just got [ __ ] by another guy?

Brian AtlasAnother man's seed is the it's still in you. You want me to You want me to pay? You want me to pay buy you flowers?

Brian AtlasThis is ro This is what romance has come down to. What? Chivalry. I You're going to buy flowers for a woman who has another man's seed inside her.

SPEAKER_05Not saying she's pregnant. I'm just saying there's literally like the seed inside of her >> being really small like, "Oh, it's just flowers." But what that reveals to me is that you are not thoughtful and you are

SPEAKER_05not romantic. And that is something that cannot be taught. Next caller. When I start dating a guy and he's not my boyfriend yet, we're still in that getting to know each other, going on dates phase. I call that the probationary period. During this period,

SPEAKER_05he's not allowed to be stressing me out, giving me the ick or doing anything that brings confusion because you're not even my man yet. So, why is there already drama? You're cut. I don't give second chances if you're not my man. Next, I don't date men who are not already where

SPEAKER_05they want to be in life. I don't care if he has a plan and he's trying to get there. I need a man who's already there. I have no desire to help a man build or be a ride or die or help him get on his feet. There are men out there who are

SPEAKER_05already on their feet. I'm not doing it. And men who aren't satisfied with where they are in life are mean. You're not about to take that out on me. Next one. When a man makes a promise that he cannot keep, he will never hear from me again. I don't care how big or small it is. Be a man of your word. I don't care

SPEAKER_05if you're going to the grocery store and you said you're going to bring me back a bag of chips. If you come back without those chips, you're never hearing from me again because it costs nothing to keep your mouth shut. if you can't keep your >> I mean, okay, the bag of chips thing. I

Brian Atlasthink obviously like she The thing about her wanting to to uh Hold on, let me fix this. The thing about her wanting to uh you know h have somebody who

Brian Atlassticks to their word, that's fine. I mean, if your [ __ ] boyfriend forgets to buy you a bag of chips and he said he would, who [ __ ] cares? That doesn't matter. That's not a big deal. He

SPEAKER_05forgot. People forget. Uh but yeah, this is uh >> next. I have zero tolerance for men who can't lead. I was once on a date a guy and we got lost and he turned to me like a big dumb toad and said, "Where should

SPEAKER_05we go?" >> Never hearing from me again. As a man, you're supposed to lead and protect. If you can't do that, I don't feel safe around you. These are just a few of my rules. >> I guess I'm okay. I It seems a little

SPEAKER_05petty, but whatever. I don't have a big qual there. Uh, >> get on something if you're not if you're not my man. Next. I don't date men who

SPEAKER_05are not about to take that out on it is be a man of chips. If you >> All right. Uh, here's kind of related to the looks thing.

Brian AtlasHer male her male looks equivalent would be an incel.

Brian AtlasLike I'm being serious. Her male looks equivalent would be an incel. And that's what's so funny about a lot of these women. Like if you were to put them in a male's body, like you you transformed

Brian Atlastheir looks into they just transform into a man and keep their looks or whatever. Most of them would be incelss. Like they don't have any idea how easy they have

Brian Atlasit. This woman, if she was a man, would be an incel.

SPEAKER_08>> Boyfriend. And I recently started online dating. >> Oh my god. Holy [ __ ] Wait. >> I'm 21. I've never had a boyfriend. And I recently started online dating more seriously. And let me tell you what

SPEAKER_08happens every single time without fail. First of all, these guys are all like obsessed with me because I'm the cookie cutter dream girl. I'm innocent. I've never had a boyfriend. I don't drink or smoke or party. I'm in the gym. I work

SPEAKER_08out. I'm healthy. I'm motivated. I went to NYU, graduated early. I come from a great family. Whatever. >> Uh, me, you graduated from NYU.

Brian AtlasCongrats. Men don't give a [ __ ] Men don't care about that. Also, innocent being innocent. Like, maybe she's never

Brian Atlasmaybe she's never had a boyfriend. Maybe she's uh a virgin even. Although that

Brian Atlasis probably a bit suspect. Innocence is more than that. Like if you talk like this, if you talk like this, you have this

Brian Atlasattitude. You're a [ __ ] content creator. You're clearly full-blown in your vanity era with the makeup. We already talked about makeup and [ __ ] though. That's not that's not innocent. Um

SPEAKER_08>> early. I come from a great family. Whatever. So, this is what happens. First, we start talking. It's good. I'm entertaining as [ __ ] I'm so fun. And these guys are like loving it. And then there's this is where it goes two ways.

SPEAKER_08First, the guy either turns it into a game because it starts getting entertaining. Things start to actually become more serious and they're like, "Okay." And they start like trickling away and like texting here and there, and you can just tell it's more

Brian Atlascalculated, which is so embarrassing, too. And I >> as somebody I I like to think I have a lot of uh dating relationship experience.

Brian AtlasWhat she I mean I guess she's kind of young, right? Although she said she went to NYU, so this means she's what 21 22. This actually reeks didn't she she said she has no boy.

Brian AtlasShe's never had a boyfriend. This reeks of like very little relationship and dating experience. Just the way she talks about it. Like she wants to think she's smart about

Brian Atlasdating in relationships. Like I have she has no [ __ ] idea what she's talking about. It just reeks of low um

Brian Atlaslow relationship and dating experience. >> I'm 21. I've never had a boyfriend. And I recently started. >> Now you know this. She says she's never had a boyfriend.

SPEAKER_08>> She doesn't say she's a virgin, though. Talk goes on to talk about how she's innocent. >> Meaning things start to actually become serious and they're like, "Okay." And they start like trickling away. Embarrassing, too. And at that point,

SPEAKER_08I'm done. If you're going to turn it into a game, I will never talk to you again. Like, you can win the I don't care. The reason I've never been played before and I've never been heartbroken is because I won't let them. Like, I

SPEAKER_08literally don't participate in the game. Once you show that you're immature and you're insecure and you just want the validation, attention that I'll like you back, I'm gone. It's so funny cuz the conversations will like start to slow down, whatever. We fall out and then all

Brian Atlasof a sudden >> the conversation t starts to slow down. This girl is like she's talking about I I almost wonder if

Brian Atlasshe's talking about a guy who she hasn't even met in person. This is one of my worst night one one of

Brian Atlasmy worst nightmares is Oh, I'm being a bit hyperbolic. Is a woman who I haven't even met yet. like I haven't

Brian Atlaswe haven't been on a date and she's already doing all these mental gymnastics about oh well you're talking about you haven't texted me we haven't even gone on a

Brian Atlas[ __ ] date yet. One of the biggest things that will frustrate me and I've encountered this with dating

Brian Atlasis uh women will get uh will already nag you. Imagine nagging a guy who you've never been on a date with.

Brian AtlasI've literally I've had women who whatever in the past have slid into my DMs or whatever. They nag. We haven't even met up yet and they're already nagging. If you think they if you think you're

Brian Atlasgoing to have a healthy, happy relationship and the w you haven't even gone on a first date yet and the woman's already policing you and she's already a [ __ ] nag.

SPEAKER_08It's not going to be good. It's not going to be anything good. >> Hey, have you been absolutely the [ __ ] not? And I don't even have to say that. Like, no, I'm a high value woman. I know my worth. You don't get to come in and out whenever you want. I don't have to say anything. I just shut the [ __ ] up

Brian Atlasand I let them see that they're dead to me. like on to the next. >> They're dead to me. Look, I don't know the details. My impression though, she's like

Brian AtlasI don't think she's date dating these guys who are acting this way. Like I think a lot of girls get to this weird like

Brian Atlasstage of they've never even met the the man and they're like in this weird pen pal thing. I don't know, >> five men. Like, you missed your shot.

SPEAKER_08You should have taken it seriously the first time around and then once you realize like, oh, she's actually done now, you're going to start like texting me all the time. This literally has happened with every single men except

SPEAKER_08the other type of men, which become so obsessed so quickly. It is the biggest red flag cuz it's like you don't even know me. So, it's so obvious to me that you're insecure and you're surface level because you aren't coming from the

SPEAKER_08perspective of like, okay, this girl's cool. Let me see if I like her because I know my value. Let me see. They're just like, I like you. Like, I'm obsessed with you. And they act like we're dating before they've even >> Wait, >> take me on a date or met me in real life.

Brian Atlas>> Yep, there it is. She's [ __ ] complaining about guys she hasn't even gone on dates with. She hasn't even met these dudes. This is the

Brian Atlasextent of her Maybe she's a virgin, dude. Sometimes there there's some of these girls who think they're [ __ ] relationship and dating experts and they've like, you know, maybe

Brian Atlasthey've gone on some dates here and there. Half the dude like like the the guys they're complaining about, they've never even met him, never been on a date, never met in real life.

SPEAKER_08>> And then I just ghost them and they also then come back and they're like, "Where are you? Like how have you?" And it's like all of you shut the [ __ ] up. Anyways, the moral of the story is don't play games with these guys. The reason

SPEAKER_08that I feel like I am attracting such high value men and despite all those guys that are trash is because I don't play the games. Like once you see that they're being calculated about how long

SPEAKER_08they're taking or how long their texts are or they're really texting you a lot in the beginning and then they start to fade away or they invite you late at night instead of to an actual date. like these are the signs that you need to run

SPEAKER_08away and just don't say anything. Don't even give them a reason. You don't need to communicate to them. Just don't respond. But it's just so funny to watch because they always come back without

SPEAKER_08fail. When you are available to guys anytime they want, they will always use you. You will always get played. And then you're like, "Well, I don't understand what happened. I'm 20." >> Uh, that was just a bunch of It's just a

Brian Atlasbunch bunch of pratt [ __ ] word salad. Uh what the [ __ ]

Brian AtlasYeah, man. Uh I actually she talks so so confidently, but I really get the impression just

Brian Atlasjust the the framing of what she's saying. I really don't think she's doing a lot of actual dating cuz look, she said she's never had a relationship.

Brian AtlasShe's never had a boyfriend. That would indicate to me that maybe she's hooked up with a couple dudes here and there, but she's really doesn't have

Brian Atlasany solid dating experience, but she acts like she's she's very very confident. Hold on, I'm going skip over this.

Brian AtlasUh, let's see.

Brian AtlasAll right, this one's for the ladies. This is for the ladies. Oh, I posted with ladies.

Brian AtlasWould you date a guy? There's probably some some women watching. Uh, would you date a guy who who [ __ ] wears makeup?

Brian AtlasWould you would you uh the ladies in the chat would you uh Kaibaka yo what's up Kaibaka? Kaibaka says no.

Brian AtlasCan we not normalize Can we please not normalize men wearing makeup?

Brian AtlasDamn, bro. This is your mind. This is your mind on feminism.

Brian AtlasThis is your mind on feminism.

SPEAKER_12gives you any type of fashion or beauty advice, take it. She's always right. She wants you to shave your beard, guess what? You're going to look fous thousand times better. If she tells you

SPEAKER_12to get rid of those heinous skinny jeans and put on some baggy jeans, do it. You will probably look delicious. If she tells you to get a new haircut, cut the

SPEAKER_12hair. I have never seen a video on the internet of a guy explaining that a girl has told him to do something different with the way he looks and he ended up looking worse. I'll wait. Find a video.

Brian AtlasFind a video of the girl making him look worse. It's never happened. >> I wrote a I wrote a caption to this. It It was This is a message for women. If a

Brian Atlasman tells you to not dress like a hoe, not cake on makeup, not get lip filler, not get plastic surgery, not be a boss babe, but you do it. Uh, I mean, I guess sometimes women can

Brian Atlashave good fashion advice for men or whatever. But it's interesting. I guess I'm more approaching it from this double standard of women hate it. Women hate it if men tell them how to dress. Your

Brian Atlasboyfriend, oh, don't wear that. That's too revealing. Oh my god, that's misogynistic. That's controlling. That's insecure. But a woman can't handle uh

SPEAKER_12>> gives you This is a message for men. If a woman gives you any type of fashion or beauty advice, take it. >> All right. Whatever.

SPEAKER_09Whatever. >> Look at the American [Music] in lane three. Elbows high, wrist rotation smallers. Play one already in the rack into the second watch now. The

SPEAKER_09Japanese athlete keeping it tidy on the left front just half a second back. Listen to the crowd. Early pace, but look at the American in lane three. Elbows high rotation. >> They should make this actually on the left front just half a

Brian Atlassecond back. Listen to the crowd. >> Oops. Sorry. This would actually be really entertaining. >> This would be so entertaining. There's a bunch of these, by the way.

Brian AtlasThis is true.

Brian AtlasThis is this is true. Uh

Brian Atlasyeah. Yeah. Female influencers, this is how it should be perceived. I think

Brian Atlaslike this it it is that level. It it's that level.

Brian AtlasHey chat, come up with some What is his name? Connecticut.

SPEAKER_06Oh, wait. Did I react to this? I think I reacted to some of these already. Oh, hey

Brian Atlasism is women. >> Oh no. What's

Brian Atlasreminder, Costco sells Plan B for $6.

Brian AtlasYikes. Oh man.

Brian AtlasSo, I guess that's the plan B in her hand. She's she made a Tik Tok where she's uh dancing

Brian Atlasin some yoga pants in a in a Costco bragging about getting uh Plan B.

Brian AtlasWhatever happened to, you know, look, whatever, you know, they're [ __ ] having sex. What? Can't you just keep that [ __ ] private? Like what what happened to

Brian Atlasshame? You know, the walk of shame. Like even just hooking up with a guy, leaving this the walk of shame. Now they're just

Brian Atlasbragging on on TikTok about getting uh the the morning after pill.

Brian AtlasLike, yeah, some guy uh came inside me. How these girls look really I mean she's got bra uh no but h the

Brian Atlastattoos she's wearing bra she's got braces. I don't know. She's probably 20 or something. She looks young. They look She looks young. But that's just it's

Brian Atlasdisturbing, man. Disturbing.

SPEAKER_05Oh, this girl >> physical standard for their female partners, whereas it's not as accepted for women to have that same high standard for their male part.

SPEAKER_05What the [ __ ] >> Feel like it's really accepted for guys to >> What the hell? >> have a very high physical standard for their female partners, whereas it's not as accepted for women to have that same high standard for their male partners. I made this video a while back about how I

SPEAKER_05was seeing this guy. He wasn't that conventionally attractive in my eyes, but he had a lot of great other attributes like being smart, athletic, etc. I was saying that I was really surprised that one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen was going after him at the same time that I was talking to him. And everybody in my comments was

SPEAKER_05mad at me and defending him and they were like, "Yeah, of course he's pulling an attractive girl because he has intelligence and athleticism and all these other great attributes." But I will proudly declare right now that appearance is one of my most important

SPEAKER_05criteria when selecting a partner for myself. Everybody has a right to choose what attributes they want in their partner, right? So, you could want the same religion, the same ethnicity, the same education background. I'm in a long-term relationship with somebody who is very conventionally attractive, who's

SPEAKER_056'2, has gone viral on the internet because somebody posted him. He was so attractive, very physically fit, has matched with celebrities on dating apps, all of that. I love it. I would honestly not want to be with somebody that I'm

SPEAKER_05not this attracted to. And I feel like because I'm so attracted to my partner, it's so good for our relationship. I think it's really normal for looks to be the number one criteria that guys are considering in their partner, but I think it should be just as normal for girls.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. I mean, I think it's fine for women to to care about looks. I that's totally fine. But I think here I mean I don't know the guy who she's

Brian Atlasdating. What happened here? have a >> I I think it's fine for women to care

Brian Atlasabout looks. But where I get a little bit bamboozled is she's cute. She's a cute gal. She's

Brian Atlasattractive, but she's pretty pretty average. I'm not that average is fine. Average can be cute. Average can be good-looking. Uh, but she's she's like

Brian Atlasan average looking girl. >> Nice to have a >> uh maybe, you know, she could be a bit she's maybe a bit above average and it doesn't look like she's wearing a bunch

Brian Atlasof makeup or whatever, but uh she's not wearing makeup. I mean, she still might be. She could still be

Brian Atlasuh

Brian Atlasbut it's like what to her like would she date her looks equivalent is the question. Uh, of course you can care about looks,

Brian Atlasbut it's like, okay, well, she says her, she says that her boyfriend or whatever is very conventionally attractive.

Brian AtlasAnd I don't know what he looks like. We don't have that in front of us, but it's like, is she is she dating out of her league? At which point it's like it's fine for women to care about looks, but

Brian Atlasif you're not satisfied with the looks of the men in your league, that's when it becomes an issue. Also, I I wrote

Brian Atlassome thoughts of my own here. Um, it's actually the case that when uh

Brian Atlasit it's the case that men's physical preferences typically get pushed back. If a man has physical preferences,

Brian Atlasthat gets contested. Most I think most men are pretty pretty much, you know, it might be frustrating if you're a guy who's short and a woman prefers to date

Brian Atlastall men won't date you, but you accept it as reality. Whereas women have a tendency to not accept so much like they want to

Brian Atlasmoralize. They want to moralize and pathize men's preferences. A woman wants to date uh a man wants to date a woman who's not

Brian Atlasfat, well that's fat phobic and that's offensive and you're a bigot, blah blah blah. A woman wants to date a tall guy.

Brian AtlasWhile that might be a bit annoying for men, most men just acknowledge it and accept it. women seem to have much more issues with with this sort of thing.

Brian AtlasNobody treats you better than the guy you don't want. Uh any women in the chat? What uh

Brian Atlascan you guys explain this female phenomenon? What what's what's up with that? Nobody treats you better than the guy you don't want.

Brian AtlasOh, look. Oh, he got her FL. Look at all these. Wait, wait, wait. This is so funny. Look at all these flowers. The guy, I guess, bought her flowers.

Brian AtlasShe made a [ __ ] Tik Tok. Nobody treats you better than the guy you don't want. Look, I'm not saying like obviously you have to be attracted to the guy. You have to like his. You got

Brian Atlasto like his looks, like his personality, whatever. If if the guy does this [ __ ] I'm not saying you you're not forced to date the guy.

Brian AtlasLike, just because a guy does a nice thing for a woman doesn't mean the woman has to date him, of course. But it seems like women don't really

Brian Atlasappreciate these sorts of gestures. And uh I mean I guess they want it from the guy they want, but it's like you look at the

Brian Atlasbehaviors, right? Like the the guy who who does this like I think this is why men also aren't

Brian Atlasbeing chivalous because women just honestly they don't reward chivalry. They don't reward chivalry. They reward

Brian Atlasthe fun, exciting bad boy who kind of treats them like [ __ ] And by I mean typically by reward

Brian Atlastyp I'm I'm mostly referring to sex. You'll friend zone the guy who gets you these flowers

Brian Atlasand you'll [ __ ] the guy who kind of treats you like [ __ ] I don't know. It's interesting world we live in. Uh, this is kind of related, I guess.

Brian AtlasTrying to figure out how I've only hung out with the most evil men possible. I've never experienced a normal one. She's What's up with all these women with crosses?

Brian AtlasUh, and it's weird, too. I mean, she she seems like she's a she's an attractive gal. I mean, she's she is wearing quite a bit of makeup. Probably some filters going on here,

Brian Atlasbut I don't think this is a man problem. I think this is a

Brian Atlasyou are attracted to a man who triggers your anxious attachment style. And uh what's the full term for that?

Brian Atlaswhat the the the attachment styles or whatever your your anxious

Brian Atlasthere's a lot of there's a lot of good men out there and if you're just encountering evil if you're just encountering evil men and you've never experienced a normal one then uh

Brian Atlasyou got to if you choose these guys you're choosing ing these guys.

Brian AtlasYou're chasing s you're chasing something. You're chasing something. Uh I don't if they're exciting or toxic. >> Need to ask a man when

Brian Atlas>> Oh boy. Okay, here we go. Hold on.

SPEAKER_01>> Hasty George donated $30. Feminism was a cleverly disguised tool. On one end, it increased the revenue for the elites. On the other, it convinced women to be 304s

Brian Atlasand to reject the patriarchy, including Jesus and even God. >> Yeah, true. By the way, guys, uh I'm going to wrap up, I don't know, in 20 30

Brian Atlasminutes or so. Yeah, it's I've been going for a while. Uh TT I just lowered the TTS to 20. TTS is 20. We'll do a Q&A session if you

Brian Atlasguys want. If you guys want to get a TTS in here at the end of the stream, $20 TTS and then uh yeah, I'll do a few more reacts. We'll do some TS. >> The number one question you need to ask

SPEAKER_11a man when you meet him or you're dating him and like this is honestly just like I never did this, but I wish I would have. I would say if we were married and we had kids, okay, we're going to hit them with a hypothetical and I know

SPEAKER_11that's a little bit complex for men. You say if we were married and we had kids, rank your mom, the kids, and wife,

SPEAKER_11right? In order of priority or like importance or like not of course if you're in a situation where there's like a burning house, like who are you saving? You probably get the kids first

SPEAKER_11cuz like they're the most helpless. Not that. It's just like the priorities, right? If they don't say wife, kids, mom, if they start, especially with

Brian Atlastheir mom, if number one is mom, do not date that man. The number one question you need to ask. >> You know what's funny is I I'm pretty sure I started

Brian AtlasI started this I don't know if it was like a show from three months ago or something. I'm trying to remember some Christian girls on the show and uh I was kind of

Brian Atlastrolling them a little bit, but I said my mom first, right? I think we were talking about the bullet the bullet thing and

Brian Atlasyou know, we're getting into should the man take the bullet for the woman? And uh I said like I was saying I was saying how it's it's

Brian Atlasby the way I I use this term kind of ironically the alpha male. She's technically right, but I I guess she's technically right. Yeah. But this

Brian Atlaswoman's a I don't know if you've seen her other [ __ ] >> She's she's a raging raging feminist

Brian Atlasand uh she's a raging feminist and so I

Brian AtlasI don't know. Raging feminist, you should see her other videos. Uh, she I'm pretty sure she's a misandre.

Brian AtlasBut anyways, I'm probably going to get some flak for this, but I I would put it like this. Um,

Brian Atlasit's kind of funny. It's a bit trollish, but I mean I and I again I use the term ironically. So, if you think about like alpha males, right? And I never use this. I'll never self-reer

Brian Atlasas alpha male. It's just it's corny. It's lame. These guys who call themselves alpha male monof it's corny. It's super corny, right? Uh and the the

Brian Atlasalpha beta that sort of analysis is kind of lame too. But if we're talking about what is alpha,

Brian Atlasdo you think like conquerors in the past like Genghaskhan, this guy had many wives, he had concubines? I think he had dozens if not hundreds of of either

Brian Atlaswives or concubines. You think he's sacrificing his life for one of them? This [ __ ] is possibly the most

Brian Atlasalpha man to have ever existed in human history. I'm not saying it was right, but I'm saying

Brian Atlasthat if we're having if we're doing some sort of analysis on what alpha is, Gangaskhan was probably an alpha male and he wouldn't sacrifice his life for a

Brian Atlaswoman. So that conversation that I had on podcast about uh kids, mom, wife or what, you know, whatever the order, whatever the ordering is, it wasn't

Brian Atlasthat. But um it it started from the bullet conversation. We were talking about Genghaskhan

Brian Atlasand uh

Brian AtlasI don't I don't know, man. I don't know. Just kidding. Ultimately though,

Brian Atlasuh I guess I guess the right answer I guess the right answer is wife,

Brian Atlaskids, mom. Isn't that what she said? What's what's the right answer, chat?

Brian AtlasIt's uh the the technically what's the the right answer for this? Isn't it uh wife, kids, mom? Is that the answer?

Brian AtlasI don't know. I don't know. You can always get I'm kind of trolling, right? But you can always get another

Brian Atlaswife, right? Can you get another mom? I don't know. I don't know about that one.

Brian AtlasSome people say kids, mom, wife. I don't know. I don't know. Uh,

SPEAKER_05>> men in a sexist, hyperatriarch. I'm sorry, but we're not making a big enough deal out of this. Women are outperforming men in a sexist,

SPEAKER_05hyperatriarchal, misogynistic society. Society is rigged for men's success. >> Ow. and they're struggling to keep up

SPEAKER_05with us. >> I'm so sorry, but we're not making a big enough deal out of this.

Brian Atlas>> How is society rigged for men? Th This is just some feminist trope of how are

Brian Atlasmen falling behind when society is is rigged for men? How society's been set up for men. How

Brian Atlasuh how could they possibly be falling behind? Society is ga gyocentric

Brian Atlasand it's for the comfort of women and children.

Brian AtlasIt's not set up specifically for men to succeed. It is set up in such a way so as to

Brian Atlasprovide comfort for women and children. That's society. That is society. And this is like a

Brian Atlashistorical thing where if you think of like a small tribe and you think of a say they're set up in a circle,

Brian Atlasyou'd have the women and the children in the uh the inside of the circle and the men are on the outside going out into the

Brian Atlaswilderness ensuring and protecting uh for the for the sake of the comfort comfort and safety and security of the women and children.

SPEAKER_05Anyways, this one's stupid >> phenomenon as to why men care about weight and women care about height as if women don't care about weight and don't care about height. Like, it goes both ways equally. >> No, it doesn't. >> You know that guy that walks on with the

SPEAKER_05scale and he like weighs equally. Weight and men don't care about height. Like, it goes both ways equally. >> It doesn't go both ways. It does not go both ways equally.

Brian AtlasI actually don't even think men care about height really. Like chat, while it might be a bit awkward, like

Brian Atlaswould you guys date a woman who's taller than you? Like awkward in the sense of I don't know. I'd be fine with it. I would date a girl

Brian Atlastaller than me. [ __ ] And I'd date a girl shorter than me. I don't care about height. You want to date a girl taller than you?

Brian AtlasOh [ __ ] I mean, no. No. It's good for the kids. Good for the kids. Who cares? Like, you don't care really.

Brian AtlasSix foot. She's She's I don't know 6'2 or something.

Brian AtlasThink of your sons. for the benefit of your sons.

Brian AtlasNeed a you need a strong tall woman for your sons.

SPEAKER_05Most like out of all the guys that I've dated was an ugly [ __ ] Literally the ugliest. >> I don't care about this. Uh, wait. Hold on. I'm not going to look at that.

Brian AtlasOkay. Oh, no. Men men existing. Men just just men existing

Brian Atlasexisting frustrates women. Uh, okay. Okay, man. All right, guys. TTS is 20. I'll do Q&A if you guys want. If you guys want to send in anything, uh that's

Brian Atlasgoing to be that's streamlabs.com whatever. It's uh

Brian Atlas$20 TTS 1999. Streamlabs.com whatever if you want to get it in. Also, whatever pod, Venmo, whatever pod cash app. Also,

Brian Atlasguys, drop me a follow and a prime sub. What is this stream streak thing? That's new. Can I just get rid of that in the filters? I'll just

Brian AtlasYeah. Uh, drop us a If you're watching on Twitch, we got like 400 viewers. Drop a follow and a prime sub. 36 minutes. Somebody sent in something via

Brian AtlasYo, Jason, I don't know if you're still watching. Thank you for the $10 on uh I think it was I think it was Cash App. I won't It's not telling me.

Brian AtlasOh, wait. Hold on. And also guys, get some merch. We have an Halloween October drop. Get yourself an orange. We got some cool

Brian Atlasdesigns, guys. Got some cool designs. Get yourself some merch. Shop whatever. shop.

Brian AtlasAll right, let me do some chats here. TTS at 20 if you guys want to get it in. >> Barrier Wisdom donated $20. >> Thank you.

SPEAKER_01>> What up, Brixen? Watching your stream while LM prepping my loft with a cat condo. It's going to be sick. Anyways, it does seem genuinely depressing going to college and looking at these 18 to 21 year olds.

SPEAKER_01Looks like you sent in a few, so I'll let them come through it together. >> Barrier Wisdom donated $20. I remember when I was 18. I'm 31. RN entered the

SPEAKER_01age of snap. [ __ ] But damn, shit's gone off the walls with women online. Most men aren't influencers and most men feel

SPEAKER_01alienated in today's society. Vet Barrier Wisdom donated $20. I make almost 100k a year without a job,

SPEAKER_01disabled veteran and on the GI bill, living in the SFV and the dating scene for us men out here is depressing. Lots

SPEAKER_01of 304s and single baby mas options. Barrier Wisdom donated $20. As always, bricks and keep up the good work

SPEAKER_01spreading the word of double standards among men and women. Look forward to your next podcast. Saluting face emoji

Brian Atlas>> burial wisdom. Thank you, man. Appreciate the uh kind words. Let me see what you said earlier, though.

Brian AtlasYeah, I mean, it's definitely pretty crazy out there.

Brian AtlasI was kind of intrigued by some of the conversation about uh

Brian Atlaslike on the Sunday show.

Brian Atlasit. What what was intriguing was

Brian Atlaseven for you give a woman the perfect guy, they still want to work like are you uh

Brian Atlasare you going to get the ultimate f fulfillment from working at I don't know, some [ __ ] [ __ ]

Brian Atlascompany, some corporation. You work Monday through Friday, 9 to5. Got to [ __ ] maybe you got to commute,

Brian Atlaswake up early, be here, sit here, do this, do that. Maybe your boss is nice. Maybe he's kind of a jerk.

Brian AtlasYou're a project manager. You work in HR.

Brian AtlasAnd you wouldn't even trade that for like most of these girls who come on the show. Like look, let's be realistic. Most most people are not going to have some gangbuster

Brian Atlascareer. They're going to have some job. Maybe it's cool, maybe it's not. You wouldn't give it up for the perfect guy. And then like I don't know. When I think

Brian Atlasof the perfect guy, I'm thinking looks wise, perfect. Like the perfect guy would be well in all the metrics that you do care

Brian Atlasabout, personality, uh, looks, money, whatever.

Brian AtlasAll those metrics, you're not going to get the maximum in any of those metrics. Like if you're an average woman, you're going to get a guy who's average

Brian Atlaslooking, average personality, average money. Why wouldn't you make a sacrifice? Why wouldn't you make the trade of

Brian AtlasI have to give this up, but I get I get a guy that I would never I get a quality of guy I would never otherwise get.

Brian AtlasIt's subjective. There's a perfect girl for you. I think, look, I I've said this on the show. You people will find their person. Not always, but uh you'll have you'll

Brian Atlasfind your person, but I feel like there's some degree of cope. Like, well, they're perfect. Come on. Come on. Nobody's perfect.

Brian AtlasNobody's perfect. They're not as good-looking as they could be. They're not as funny as they could be. They're not as rich as they could be. They're not as their character

Brian Atlasisn't isn't as good as it could be. They're not as loyal as they could be. But I don't I don't get it. So, like when I I don't know if I need to chat.

Brian AtlasDo you think I need to like actually break it down? Instead of saying for the perfect man, would you

Brian Atlasshould I actually try to explain to them what the perfect man is? Like I it should maybe it should be like this. He'll stay with you forever. He's loyal.

Brian AtlasHe'll never cheat on you. All the personality characteristics that you care about, those are maximized and perfect. All the looks, things that you care about,

Brian Atlasperfect. The ideal looks, you know, perfect personality, perfect. And I in terms of money, I don't know if just making him a

Brian Atlasbillionaire is excessive, but maybe we could say I he makes a million dollars a year. I guess that wouldn't be perfect necessarily, but that's a top 1% earner.

Brian AtlasI don't know. [ __ ] Most of these women 5 years, 10 years time, they've gone through a bunch of heartbreak.

Brian AtlasAre they uh you think they'd want to go back and make the tra I mean obviously it's hypothetical but you think they'd go and

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